I Rushed Into Marriage With My Pastor Husband, We Were Not Compatible,I Want To Marry Obroni To Be..

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  • @SVTVAfrica
    @SVTVAfrica  Před měsícem +4

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  • @Dalucci1
    @Dalucci1 Před měsícem +37

    The problem is that a lot of modern black women do not value family anymore ,their love is for money and freedom.

    • @jessio4312
      @jessio4312 Před měsícem +1

      How is that a problem ? No one wants to be a slave anymore . Everybody wants freedom and money. You want to go sit at a pub with your boys..whiles she is stuck at home everyday with kids screaming everywhere 😂 never!!!

    • @maameabena1458
      @maameabena1458 Před měsícem +1

      Cos black men most are abusive

    • @highlyfavoured5121
      @highlyfavoured5121 Před měsícem +19

      That’s one way to look at it. Another way to look at it is that many “modern black women” have been able to invest in themselves and their education, so they have decided that if they are being mistreated in bad marriages, they are now capable of exiting the marriage and taking care of themselves and children independently. In the past, these same women felt that they had no other options and had to remain in toxic and unproductive marriages because they may have been unable to support themselves. Thank God for education!

    • @D2047h
      @D2047h Před měsícem +3

      Lol are you an ancient black man

    • @nanaadoma3141
      @nanaadoma3141 Před měsícem +6

      @@highlyfavoured5121 thank you! The original commenter is acting as if black men have been great to black women. All the womanising disguised as polygamy, lack of respect and support, etc. and this person wants black women to stay in such rubbish??! Indeed thank God for education!

  • @kwasigyimah5104
    @kwasigyimah5104 Před měsícem +18

    When your rent and other stuff are paid by the government, don't compare yourself to full time workers who are paying everything.

  • @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110
    @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 Před měsícem +12

    As a Ghanaian female, this lady did her best under her circumstances. Nice interview.

  • @eboakye100
    @eboakye100 Před měsícem +6

    She’s beautiful

  • @josephdacostaadjei8224
    @josephdacostaadjei8224 Před měsícem +11

    I think she’s more focused on building overseas rather than Gh so a white husband will help achieve such feat….Very interesting interview …she appears very industrious !!!

    • @patgorgeousladyasantewaa
      @patgorgeousladyasantewaa Před měsícem +1

      Thank you ❤

    • @johnny9092
      @johnny9092 Před měsícem +2

      I say this respectfully but the right person is what matters. She mentioned a word I like "Compatibility" and that has nothing to do with a white or black man. And besides we have only heard one side of the story as someone training to be pastor most people don't understand the Asafo maame role. That role in it self is a calling, I have had 2 women who have turned me down because they don't want to be married to a pastor and I did understand. So please think outside the box, her mistake is not dating properly to find out if they shared a vision so she should also take some responsibility. There are always two people in a relationship.

    • @ltb48630
      @ltb48630 Před měsícem

      How can you compare the white culture versus black culture? If caring is all you want in a relationship, go ahead. Don't come back crying like a pussy cat when the shit hits the fan. It's your choice. Go for it. Remember that a goat can bleat like a sheep but can never be a sheep. Good luck.

  • @jackiesackey1737
    @jackiesackey1737 Před měsícem +2

    A very lovely lady who knows how to live well and content . Good interview, i enjoyed it

  • @josephquaye5155
    @josephquaye5155 Před měsícem +7

    UK is about education and smartness.

  • @bettydonkor4981
    @bettydonkor4981 Před měsícem +4

    Great conversation, Lovely...

  • @kwakuamedor558
    @kwakuamedor558 Před měsícem +1

    Congratulations 🎉Sister 👍💜💐💝Well Spoken. Really appreciate 🙏🏻

  • @kb-wy2vo
    @kb-wy2vo Před měsícem

    Big ups Dj Nyaami! God bless your great works. But I've not still had your reply on wassap😅. It's Bright from kasoa.

  • @alicegyamfi6772
    @alicegyamfi6772 Před měsícem

    True talk. Good luck with your future. God Bless

  • @user-ju4kn5ot7g
    @user-ju4kn5ot7g Před měsícem +1

    Very nice interview 👍 ❤

  • @symplyemy62
    @symplyemy62 Před měsícem +4

    Very well spoken, Asantewaa.
    Compatibility is really important in every relationship but sadly, you only realise you're two very different people after the marriage. For instance,you can't be a serious minded person only to be dealing with someone who is not on a daily basis. You can try to make sacrifices as much as you want but there's so much a person can take. Focus on the present moment and work on making the future better. All the best!

  • @glovely2986
    @glovely2986 Před měsícem +1

    OK!! WE HERE . Oblong will take care of u and kids 😅

  • @kelvinkwarteng1074
    @kelvinkwarteng1074 Před měsícem +1

    I visit Fano frequently, the Italians are very nice people but you need to be the first to start a conversation. Also they're very helpful. You need to give them a reason to trust you.

  • @maameabena1458
    @maameabena1458 Před měsícem +4

    🇺🇲 d3a no limitation, the opportunities are massive. What shes saying abt italy is true, my big sister is there. Am helping her to come to the USA, the husband very abusive

  • @frederickkirkduku6024
    @frederickkirkduku6024 Před měsícem +3

    Just take good care of yourself rather than looking for that in someone

  • @jacobowusumensah8161
    @jacobowusumensah8161 Před měsícem +1

    Very good. Dj. She is done.

  • @effahrichard7574
    @effahrichard7574 Před měsícem +4

    This lady said a lot, alpha males centering on financial issues 😂😂

  • @Kwabena-wi3nv
    @Kwabena-wi3nv Před měsícem +1

    Money problem is number one in Ghanaians community

  • @kabirualhassan4907
    @kabirualhassan4907 Před měsícem +8

    Nice interview...I love it...From a very respectful lady...BIG UP❤

  • @stevewilson5772
    @stevewilson5772 Před měsícem +2

    This thing is a problem.
    Love supposed to grow but unnecessary fighting do break -up marriage. I love you find oborni.

  • @jamesnyaho1282
    @jamesnyaho1282 Před měsícem +1

    @DJNyame what this lady is saying contributes to the 80% of failed marriage for those in diaspora. Where to call home and try to own properties there. Only 0.5% children born in diaspora will return but we parents have big properties back home. This deprive the children of their inheritance and cause a lot conflict in marriages. That's what leads to couples fighting over child benefit because building back home is not cheap.

  • @allanjerry
    @allanjerry Před měsícem +1

    This relationship thing hmm I think some are also selfish. Let’s see where God establishes us.

  • @highlyfavoured5121
    @highlyfavoured5121 Před měsícem +2

    What a pleasant and articulate lady! She speaks so well. God bless u, sis

  • @tia5420
    @tia5420 Před měsícem +2

    God bless you sister you have said it all.

  • @AdamaIssah-pp3iy
    @AdamaIssah-pp3iy Před měsícem +3

    Talking about the food is true paa my sister 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kwakuaboagye6326
    @kwakuaboagye6326 Před měsícem +2

    Hope you treat your new like the old to understand the compatibility issues.

  • @marthaoware4720
    @marthaoware4720 Před měsícem +2

    Very wise and beautiful woman ❤

  • @Kwabena-wi3nv
    @Kwabena-wi3nv Před měsícem +1

    Is true Ghana food is not the same in Europe

  • @UniversalQuame
    @UniversalQuame Před měsícem +1

    Cutie You shd be a presenter..Twi flow be wat..wow!👍❤️

  • @maamedwumfoah1208
    @maamedwumfoah1208 Před měsícem +1

    I know her from como Italy

  • @sheilaasare1232
    @sheilaasare1232 Před měsícem +3

    Well spoken lady

  • @damoahlydia1284
    @damoahlydia1284 Před měsícem +5

    Some girls go see the Red Flag 🚩 and think say na Man-U🤭🤗

  • @efuaa2828
    @efuaa2828 Před měsícem +2

    Ei Italy 🇮🇹 not every where . I went to the place close to NATO base . It was like a zongo

  • @samuelopoku-acheampong5601
    @samuelopoku-acheampong5601 Před měsícem +4

    The modern Black Woman. Interesting folks 😮

    • @highlyfavoured5121
      @highlyfavoured5121 Před měsícem +4

      Please, can you explain the modern black woman? What are her characteristics?? That they are pursuing their education? Or that they are confronting their husbands when things aren’t going well? Kindly explain. Thanks.

    • @D2047h
      @D2047h Před měsícem

      Dabiaa modern woman. What are you ? Modern man or ancient man?

    • @highlyfavoured5121
      @highlyfavoured5121 Před měsícem

      @@D2047h😂😂😂😂😂 Ask again ooo!

  • @yaamo
    @yaamo Před měsícem +6

    I really enjoyed her interview. She was honest about the relationship and life in Italy. She spoke her truth, and was very eloquent.
    Born and partially raised in the U.S., Black women in general are loyal to the idea of "Black Love." Therefore, I always find it refreshing when some choose to date outside.
    I also find it comical that some of the commenters, which I presume are men are upset she's choosing to date outside her race. She stated her reasons...dasall. Wishing her all the best 🙌🏿

  • @oseisimon3363
    @oseisimon3363 Před měsícem

    The only former Italian resident saying the truth about Italy. They always come to UK and brag about Italy, but they are far behind in terms of development and civilisation.

  • @kingshomes8546
    @kingshomes8546 Před měsícem +1

    🚨osofo make quote the Bible well 😂

  • @eugeneprah7303
    @eugeneprah7303 Před měsícem +1

  • @mohammedobeng54
    @mohammedobeng54 Před měsícem +1

    Please incase you change your mind on obroni I’m there waiting for you black outside and white inside i will be waiting for you 😅

  • @princeboafo5906
    @princeboafo5906 Před měsícem +1

    You are right!!! I am in a marriage where we are not compatible
    I married in a rush for immigration purposes and thought as intellectuals we would blend ---but I was wrong
    To walk away from my children is something I am struggling to accept but that is the ultimate

    • @patgorgeousladyasantewaa
      @patgorgeousladyasantewaa Před měsícem +1

      Hope you make the right decision for you and your kids, wishing you all the best ❤️

    • @otikokoso1956
      @otikokoso1956 Před měsícem +2

      What makes you incompatible

    • @princeboafo5906
      @princeboafo5906 Před měsícem +1

      @@otikokoso1956 incompatible borders on so many things------your vision, management of finances ,shared purposes---it is limitless
      But one thing that helps with compatible is transparency and honesty --something many people abroad are not

    • @highlyfavoured5121
      @highlyfavoured5121 Před měsícem +2

      Oh, sorry. It will definitely be difficult, but I would reframe it and rather than saying “walking away from your kids”, you are establishing separate living arrangements in order to be the best version of yourself for your kids. As much as you think you are currently present for your kids, they are seeing an unhappy and unfulfilled father, even though you might think you are hiding it from them. Whatever you decide, I wish you all the best.

    • @yawopokugyamfi6609
      @yawopokugyamfi6609 Před měsícem

      Why aren't you compatible? How? Explain what is wrong?

  • @bennisampson4364
    @bennisampson4364 Před měsícem

    Yes we know 😂

  • @helenasare9781
    @helenasare9781 Před měsícem +3

    The problem is because Italy wasn't helping with the kids many men took advantage of many women but if they get here and they get the opportunity they get out smoothly

  • @tracyyeboah7717
    @tracyyeboah7717 Před měsícem +1

    I really like the way She takes 💪✌️🫶☝️🙏

  • @user-qi8tx2bd7w
    @user-qi8tx2bd7w Před měsícem

    Hmmmmmm oh my God.😂😂😂

  • @wendyasiedu-antwi7284
    @wendyasiedu-antwi7284 Před měsícem

    Dj raps 😅

  • @wendyasiedu-antwi7284
    @wendyasiedu-antwi7284 Před měsícem

    Pastor hmmmmmmmmmmm

  • @jstartech2812
    @jstartech2812 Před měsícem +2

    Sika is the cause . She is right. She tried paster Ghanaian and got sad, that is why she wants to try others

    • @patgorgeousladyasantewaa
      @patgorgeousladyasantewaa Před měsícem +1

      Saa p3p33p3 👊🏾

    • @JonGreeny
      @JonGreeny Před měsícem

      @@patgorgeousladyasantewaa Mtseew... Sell-out.. You don't love yourself and your own people no wonder you want to be with the oppressor..

  • @gyebiwinfred
    @gyebiwinfred Před měsícem

    Oboroni ? Ei ....you go fit ? hhhmmm

  • @martinezdanquah4180
    @martinezdanquah4180 Před měsícem +1

    She speaks well..... But go and try she will treat you like an animal

    • @dorcas2976
      @dorcas2976 Před měsícem

      😂😂

    • @one4gabby
      @one4gabby Před měsícem

      Thank you she speaks well that’s how she talks to her husband very unappreciative always think is greener on the other side Wait and see

  • @sirlot
    @sirlot Před měsícem +1

    This girl speaks nicely but Italy is not beautiful than England. True ,there are numerous job opportunities in UK. Education is great in UK

  • @OnlyTheTruth-ti9ex
    @OnlyTheTruth-ti9ex Před měsícem

    Ow this lady is discriminating by race. There are solid Ghana/black guys out there.

  • @Kwabena-wi3nv
    @Kwabena-wi3nv Před měsícem +1

    Family pressure divorce

  • @Jr_Beny
    @Jr_Beny Před měsícem +4

    That’s all they want Broniiiiii hahahahah gold diggers 😂

    • @nanaadoma3141
      @nanaadoma3141 Před měsícem

      Not everyone is an opportunist like you. Some people legitimately seek love and peace from their spouses, and go where they believe they’ll get that.

    • @Jr_Beny
      @Jr_Beny Před měsícem

      And the white man is the right person to give you those ?
      You must be daydreaming

    • @user-ob5ii6yv4g
      @user-ob5ii6yv4g Před měsícem

      If she want a white man then she might stay single for the rest of her life.what she has to do is rather to pray for a good husband whether white or black

    • @Jr_Beny
      @Jr_Beny Před měsícem

      @@user-ob5ii6yv4g tell them !!!!!!
      Our princesses Always think the white men are angel for them.
      Marry from within your own Kind !!!!!!!!!!

  • @Kwabena-wi3nv
    @Kwabena-wi3nv Před měsícem +1

    If you don't know what you are coming to do in UK you will be disappointed that is fat

  • @KwabenaX
    @KwabenaX Před měsícem +8

    Not compatible with the pastor because she cannot do the you know what business she was doing 😊Obroni will let her do whatever in the name love.Crazy.

    • @ernestakuamoah-boateng7158
      @ernestakuamoah-boateng7158 Před měsícem

      Please what is your point? I want to understand so we don't bring our ladies to abroad. Otherwise they will come and divorce us.

    • @awuramakyerewaah2661
      @awuramakyerewaah2661 Před měsícem +2

      Nice interview

    • @highlyfavoured5121
      @highlyfavoured5121 Před měsícem +5

      ⁠@@ernestakuamoah-boateng7158 Bro, there is no point. Ignore that statement. It makes no sense. Bring your wife wae. Just be honest with her about your living arrangements in abroad. Don’t give the impression that you are living large and have lots of money if that is not the case. Paint a very modest picture of your life. That way you will ensure she loves you for you and not for what you can provide for her. All the best to you!

    • @user-ob5ii6yv4g
      @user-ob5ii6yv4g Před měsícem

      ​@@ernestakuamoah-boateng7158better keep your wife in ghana to maintain respect or else you will regret

    • @agnesholmesgraves6349
      @agnesholmesgraves6349 Před měsícem

      ​@@highlyfavoured5121God Bless you 🙏

  • @kayd.3185
    @kayd.3185 Před měsícem

    Dj nyame you had not interviewed a real person in diaspora yet about what is happening in abroad yet because a lot of people you interviewed talked about their own advantages not how is happening in diaspora and also in different countries.