I deleted IG/FB/Twitter a few years ago and it has greatly improved my mental state. Every time I think "oh I wish I could post this", I stop to think about the underlying reason for it and it nearly always comes down to attention seeking (often from negative sources, like ex's.) So instead, I text or call a friend or my family. You can still accomplish many of your ideas on CZcams, like live streams w/ chat, shorter vids for feedback / whatever it may be. I've found that CZcams is generally more positive as you can build a little community here of people that care.
@@erum__ehsan In my case, when a romantic relationship is over, it's best to sever ties. When those people stick around it tends to remind me of emotions that are negative - like thinking about the fights, the psychological abuse, whatever it may be. Sometimes I'll be doing great, and someone from my past would "like" a photo out of nowhere, and I'd spiral into a depressive state.
I recently deleted almost all of my social media accounts because I started to feel incredibly disconnected and empty inside. I don't care to see what people are doing throughout their day and it only gets more exhausting to pretend that you care. I feel like my brain is refreshed from detoxing from the materialistic and superficial posts in my feed. I've found that picking up a good book or testing out new recipes has cured my boredom. It's wonderful that you are bringing attention to this.. it truly leads to a more enriching and fulfilling life.
@Babei Ilie find an alternative form of communication. I primarily keep in touch with my relatives & friends through FB Messenger, WhatsApp, good old SMS, and the odd Windows Quick Assist session as tech support (haha). Yes, you may not have the same big circle of friends like the couple of hundred followers you have on twitter or sth, it'll be a small circle but genuine one.
Same here.I'm still trying to reduce it as much as possible until my final goal of Quiting.Distractions,negativity and many more stuffs are draining my energy and productivity.
I agree with you! I deleted the app and haven't downloaded it for almost a month now, definitely feeling so much better. There's this saying that even you don't care about the likes, it puts on pressure to share yourself in social media and I couldn't agree more with it. When we see unrealistic bodies and unrealistic lifestyles constantly, we are subconciously comparing ourselves to others who have 'great' lifestyles but in fact we only see their highlight moments. I believe a lot of person who looks like having their best life on social media is not having such a great life actually.
Not being on social media is actually a growing trend, and I'm so happy about it, because I share all your views and concerns. Thanks for being one of the special ones that realizes we are actually doing a disservice to ourselves. Massive appreciation for your choice
@@user-tk1xd7hl1p we live in an era more connected than ever, yet we are more disconnected than ever, thanks to highly curated social media everyone is being artificial and pretentious, only revealing the best about ourselves. No wonder depression is on the rise.
CZcams is social media. Its algorithm is doing to me the same thing Instagram was doing to you, in terms of sending me down rabbit holes. It has addicted me to productivity porn.
The way I look at it is that you have to control the algorithm before it controls you. Lots of pros of social media but it's easy to fall down the wrong rabbit hole
I’ve deleted all social media besides CZcams. It’s been almost a year now and it’s done wonders for my mental health. I found myself being so consumed in the opinions of others and stressing out over numerous problems that do not concern me. Yes CZcams is still social media with tailored algorithms, but the education that CZcams provides has helped me in so many ways that Instagram/Twitter/Snapchat etc has not. Great video 👍🏽
I quit four months back. One of the best decisions i made. I wasn’t a heavy social media consumer but i was average, yet now i feels like i saved few hours per day! I started to workout, started to watch documentaries, sleep early etc. Genuinely feels like i’ve upgraded my life.
The most non-normal thing I've normalized using Instagram is putting yourself at the center of everything you do. _I took this picture, I went to this place, I saw this scenery, I achieved this body, I was at this event..._ It's never about the thing you're capturing and always about what it says about _you._ Which sucks the fun out of everything and tends to make people desperate for attention.
You're completely right with saying social media is attention seeking. It is. And seeking attention is a very universal thing now, because we lack a certain core confidence in ourselves, we don't believe that we intrinsically matter. Being on social media is kind of feeling the need to prove that we worth it to be alive. But the truth is: we're worth it, whatever other people say or think. We don't need social media. Not at all.
Quiting Instagram was the best thing ever. I can finally live as me and be truley and entirely real rather than comparing my life to superficial posts online which are obviously a fake representation of life. I can be true to my passions and stop living to impress
I deactivated my Instagram 3 months ago, and it was definitely the best decision to myself. I love very much your channel, I am now spending my time painting ( you were my inspiration, I always liked to draw but you inspired me to start painting and I am loving it so much) and studying, I am also applying to study medicine. That video was so necessary, I hope more people realise the dangers of this platform. Thank you dear ❤️
I swear every video you make has such amazing points in it that I never considered; so now I have to go think about that for the next few weeks. The illusion of connecting with your friends is something that I didn't in a million years think about, but it's so true and seems obvious when you say it, but anyway I'm really so happy you found a balance with it!
I cherish mh privacy more than anything and the fact that I was thrown in my face with posts of everyones daily lives I was feeling the urge to post my life events too and I did ... But when random acquaintances met me in person and judged me or ruined the fun of me telling a new event. I decided I need my space and I left Facebook in 2016 and Instagram in 2020.. never been happier
i feel the same and i've been going off and on on social media platforms. I think what's important is to live in the reality and make real connections .BTW love your content!!!!
I deleted my social media accounts 3 years back and now I completely agree it was really worth it.... You might fell empty and left out at the beginning but trust be when we learn to cope with that the journey with sail smooth
YESS! So supportive of this. As someone who has deliberately never joined instagram / twitter / tik tok, I am convinced that those types of social media platforms prevent you from really learning about yourself and growing. Now you get to enjoy all the freedom and be in the present moment! :)
That's a good prescription doc for good mental health. I read somewhere that most of the social media founder or CEO don't allow their children/young adult children become involve their products which says a lot what's being peddled to the general public.
This is a very insightful video. You are correct in so many ways. Social media is toxic. It makes people feel worse and not better. It is a whole popularity game based on fake connections. It’s a sad world really. 😢
I love how empathetic and warm this video is on such a sensitive topic that many people are struggling with. Thank you Elizabeth for this, thank you for truly expressing how you feel, and that by itself deepens your genuine connection with the audience here. Loved every minute. Cheers.
I felt this in my soul. the exact reasons I’m not active on there. thank you for making this video and verbalizing all of these reasons even though it’s the “unpopular opinion”.
Hi Elizabeth. i’m also a medical student and at some point I noticed I couldn’t do anything BUT use instagram, and i couldnt focus on anything beyond 5 minutes! There was a need to instastory all my studying, all my time in the hospital. To kind of brand myself. Ironically all it did was make me really lax in my studies.
I really really needed this and I can relate to almost all the things you said. I'm going to cut down on the hours I use social media from tomorrow hopefully.
This was a great video. I definitely find myself feeling worse about my life when scrolling through Instagram because I compared myself to others. Your filming and editing has improved a lot and I love seeing this part of your flat/room as the background!
I quit facebook 3.5 years ago... The only downside has been that I'm not as in touch with my far away friends as I used too. But the benefits have been many: less distraction, less anger (because as you said they want us to remain there and use any emotion to do it)... all in all it has been very positive for me.
Completely agree with all your points! I stopped using Instagram and Facebook about three months ago, and honestly, it's enriched my life so much. One thing that I really felt while I was on social media was the pressure to romanticize my life and mark special moments by posting something about them on social media. These three months made me realize that I didn't need to do it because I don't need to show anything to my fake connections! Instead, I've had real conversations with the few special people in my life that mean everything.
*I agree with you.* Most of my social networks are inactive. I confess that I am afraid of becoming "limited" by the bubble that networks build for me. Without a doubt, the biggest changes in my life came from moments when I burst this bubble. In a way, I also feel some fears about CZcams. I really liked what you said about comparing yourself to others. Instagram, in my view, is a network in which people post false happiness to receive false congratulations from people as or more false than themselves. It doesn't seem logical to me that you want to expose to the world what truly makes you happy. On the contrary, we want to protect ourselves from the toxicity of others. Sleeping cuddled with the loved one; enjoy a good tea; celebrate victories and lament defeats with friends; talk to parents; and so many other things... These moments when we feel complete provoke that wonderful feeling of belonging, and that's enough. I don't want to be a hypocrite either: I intend, in the future, to produce some valuable content on social media, as a hobby. Every minute is too precious to be spent trying to please the entire world. Memento mori. *Thank you for producing this amazing content, Elizabeth Filips.* You seem like the kind of person who is worth having a good coffee and talking to for hours. 🌟
I hope this video make some changes in the society ❤️... And also it's been a year since I've quitted social media..yeah you are correct people really think scrolling thru social media is normal.. it's not my vibe bruh!! Social media is toxic sometimes..but most of all it wastes so much of our precious time.. that we would have used for something good...trust me you could still live without social media!!
Through a most bizarre series of circumstances, I had to walk away from all of my social media platforms early this year. I’m a freelance writer who’s working towards writing fiction as well, so I’d spent a lot of time trying to build platforms because that’s what everyone says you have to do if you want to sell novels. I honestly cried when I deleted my accounts! It was weird at first, but the longer I was away from social media, the better I felt. I did just open a new instagram account with the idea of sharing content related to books and writing so that I have some kind of platform as a writer, but I’ve set a 15 minute screen time limit on my phone for that app. I don’t need more than that to post something and take a quick scroll through the list of other authors I follow, and that hard limit keeps me from just mindlessly wasting time. I’m reading Cal Newport’s book Digital Minimalism, and it’s such a smart approach to the topic! I want my teens to read it before diving into wasting the amount of time I have on all the social media for the past several years!
Another video I needed! I’ve been battling quitting but I finally fully deactivated my Instagram and I don’t see myself going back anytime soon. And like you said it’s crazy how it feels like rebellion but it’s also freeing.
I quit instagram about 4 months ago and it was the best decision. I have so much more free time, feel more relaxed and finally I can focus on studying/ hobbies. No one really cares if you're on social media or not if they are your true friends.
Never had Instagram, I am just too afraid of spending too much time there. But I definitely miss the connection part sometimes. It must be nice to "stay updated" from certain channels, CZcamsrs etc like a little newsfeed (live stream then, Q&A there, meet up here) but I don't think it's worth it. 🤔
To be honest, ever since the growing popularity of social media, it kept reminding me of the canary of my nan. Because after my grandfather passed away, she felt a little bit lonely, so we both her a canary for company. But after time progressed she found her way and adapted to the situation and went to visit friends more. So to prevent the canary was feeling lonely, she both him a mirror because every time he would take a look in the mirror, he would think there was another canary looking back. So I can't shake the thought that every time someone is making a selfie they must be feeling lonely... 😅
Thank you so much for this! I stopped using Instagram a few months ago too. And I hadn't realized that most of my reasons were the ones u mentioned here. Thank you, Elizabeth. I love your content. 🥰❤️
I started watching your videos last week and i think you're becoming one of my fav. CZcamsrs. Your content is genuinely amazing🤍 This video is so relatable, i deleted my insta 1 month ago and my life has become so much more positive+ my mental health is a lot better⭐
Yes! This is so good! I deleted my instagram and Facebook this year. I've been six moths without it and I am so excited to be more present in life. I quit alcohol, instagram, Facebook and I am moving into my van this year to travel and work in film and TV.
Wow You did the right thing hope the future holds something out there for you I think you are my fav streamer Hope your future goes well Praying for you know friends and family as well Stay safe
I've been pondering quiting social a lot recently. I agree that the motivation for most posting is attention seeking. The only thing holding me back is some of the connections I've made that would probably be lost. It's a real dilemma.
You could read 'Digital Minimalism' by Cal Newport, or other books and come up with a middle path suited to you. As much as completely quitting social media is tempting, it's only human nature to feel left out a little. Maybe someone someday will find the perfect middle path.
This video is so interesting for me because I’m in a very similar situation to what you were in. I just graduated high school and was only just allowed social media. I’ve been so excited for the new opportunity to connect with my peers, but also have had some doubtful thoughts like what you’ve presented in this video. It’s really interesting how social media is presented on the surface level as a way to connect with others and strengthen relationships, but is mostly used as a way to present ourselves in the most ideal way possible. It’s hard to say this is “good” or “bad”, since it can serve as a proponent of personal growth. The one thing that does worry me is how it removes a sense of authenticity (as you talked about in this video). In the case that you might see this comment, I’ve only recently come across your channel but I’ve been loving all your content! As an aspiring med student and youtube creator you are an inspiration to me!
Heya, thankyou for this video... I really needed this... So I never had any social media account... But today I was feeling to download one and have a hands on but this video really told me that it's not good to do that... I now realise how bad would it affect my mental health and my productivity
i deleted Facebook at 14, after realising it was detrimental to my mental health. knowing this, im not sure why i went on to make an insta at 19 💀 deleted it a year ago, and man. what a relief 🎉
I agree with you. I deleted Facebook, and I feel great. because these applications make you feel anxious and bad about yourself. Thank you so much for these videos. It helps me a lot.
Absolutely amazing video! Thank you so much for putting this out there! I agree with everything you've stated! Each platform has slightly different issues but the underlying theme of needing to be authentic and real exists in all of them. On twitter I am trying to tackle these problems head on through conscious community engagement and it appears to be working exceedingly well and generating positive results for many people. I wish I had time to put these same ideas into practice on all the platforms!! Thanks again for being "real" with who you are with all of us. The world needs more of that!
Hey Elizabeth! I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. The editing is always so consistent and so is the high quality! Would you mind sharing your production process? Cameras and equipment used, editing software and process etc. Much love!
I cannot quit social media. I have an Instagram account, I need it for work to get clients. And I also have an VK account where I can find some worksheets for my students and share knowledge with other teachers. To be honest I hate social nets and that fact that I cannot earn enough money without them. But the good thing is there is only one famous person I follow. Others are other specialists in education and one relative.
it's honestly so sad that it's somehow obligatory as a teenager to be on social media, but everybody has a choice whether to sacrifice your mental health or actually take care of it.
Love all your videos Elizabeth. They are entertaining in perfect amount and enlightening in perfect amount. Learnt a lot from you. Keep doing the good work
Thanks Elizabeth. I really like the points you make, very insightful and make me reflect on my decisions. I have a lot of thoughts in common on different topics. Kudos for this nice little corner you're creating! 👏
Thanks so much for sharing! I myself am taking a hiatus from social media (Facebook & Instagram) because I too share your sentiments and find it to be way too consuming at times. But what I have found (at least with Instagram) is having two separate accounts… one for family & “friends”… and the other for entertainment and things I thoroughly enjoy & respond to a in a positive way. I do plan on getting back on the platform but more so for creating and building my own community of things I’m interested in. But don’t feel guilty for taking a break, especially if it’s taking a break because you’re away of the negative effects it can have on your mental health. But thanks again and all the best 💕🙂
Im Happy to see more people talking about it ! I quit all social Media months ago and got back to it only for professional reasons and it's just way better. I only go once a day to post about natural healing and I feel good and that's all. I realized all the mistakes I made like using it to show my personal life. It doesn't feel good to share about everything I am doing like I used to when I was z teenager ! Thanks for your video!
social media are so helpful for me, I learn lot of things from it … I get creative ideas from other people who share the same interests, I think we just need to reduce the useless people we follow and to take care of what we feed our brains … that's it for me :)
@Babei Ilie if someone knows you and needs you, they have youre number they can reach you at. And if someone you don’t know then you don’t need to worry if they cant find you
I really like this. I feel like I have to create "content" for instagram not because I want to but because somewhere down the line I got it into my head that I need to. I keep having anxiety about not posting this week or the ever present comparison dilemma. What you said about attention seeking really hit me. It's time I think I be a little more honest about why I post certain things. Thank you. Using it as a platform to communicate thing I am currently working on or creating seems the way forward.
I did this last 6 years ago and did not regret it. Now, I am not affected by the drama of other people, or the manipulation of various groups on social media. Thank you and you discovered that and made a life-changing decision. You earned my sub.
Hi Elizabeth, really loved the way you have presented content onto your channel. Can we have a short collaboration session comparing life in a medical school in India vs London? I am sure Indian audience will be elated to know about Medico life over there. BTW, I am a final year medical student from AIIMS, Delhi, INDIA
I have only watched the start of your video but I can relate to this so very much and I must add you are wise beyond your years. You demonstrate confident humility in such an intelligent manner. Keep it up!
I am not gonna lie but in lockdown i got so addicted to the app that one day when I deleted it I actually faced withdrawal symptoms. Social media got me comparing my life to others and I always used to feel lesser and that i was not doing enough and I think every single thing that you said in this video has only made me more confident that its just not me and it’s a normal human thing so thank you so much for this video
Great Vid! Never was on Insta (and the like), always found it slightly narcissistic. Mistakenly log onto twitter every month or so, and I am immediately reminded why I dislike it so much: too many opinions, too few characters. As much FB is hated on, I personally find it quite useful for Uni events, nearby events, etc. LinkedIn is by far the best imo. There are aspects of it that revolve around self-praise, but majority of the community is collaborative, cohesive and genuinely happy for others.
I think a more poisonous platform than Instagram is Facebook. Maybe it started to loose popularity in some countries but I think one of the core reasons is this: too much negativity, it shows what is worst in a human being. I consider instead Instagram as a "light version" of social-media in the sense that people there prefer it for more superficial reasons like showing what stuff they did and posting mostly photos, rather than for poisonous debates like it's happening on Facebook. So honestly, even if the platform's inteface sometimes seems not so diverse and technically friendly such as Facebook it is "healthier" for the mind just simply because at least from my experience, I never saw the amount of negativity on Instagram as it happened on Facebook
Social media addictions are a literal health problem. Healthy people don’t have addictions to social media, alcohol, shopping, or anything. Addicts who get off social media will most likely replace that addiction with a different addiction.
I’m 20 & I’ve never had Instagram - I’m happy about it.
This is really great I appreciate it. I am really tired of instagram but how can avoid it.
That's 🧢
Same. I'm 21.
Even I don’t have insta
Wow. Really??
I deleted IG/FB/Twitter a few years ago and it has greatly improved my mental state. Every time I think "oh I wish I could post this", I stop to think about the underlying reason for it and it nearly always comes down to attention seeking (often from negative sources, like ex's.) So instead, I text or call a friend or my family. You can still accomplish many of your ideas on CZcams, like live streams w/ chat, shorter vids for feedback / whatever it may be. I've found that CZcams is generally more positive as you can build a little community here of people that care.
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Okay quick question how do you think having attention from ex(s) can be negative?
@@erum__ehsan In my case, when a romantic relationship is over, it's best to sever ties. When those people stick around it tends to remind me of emotions that are negative - like thinking about the fights, the psychological abuse, whatever it may be. Sometimes I'll be doing great, and someone from my past would "like" a photo out of nowhere, and I'd spiral into a depressive state.
@@orbitaljunkie so spot on
Your enemies can also see what you post, always put that in mind people.
I recently deleted almost all of my social media accounts because I started to feel incredibly disconnected and empty inside. I don't care to see what people are doing throughout their day and it only gets more exhausting to pretend that you care. I feel like my brain is refreshed from detoxing from the materialistic and superficial posts in my feed. I've found that picking up a good book or testing out new recipes has cured my boredom. It's wonderful that you are bringing attention to this.. it truly leads to a more enriching and fulfilling life.
Thank you Elis!
@Babei Ilie find an alternative form of communication. I primarily keep in touch with my relatives & friends through FB Messenger, WhatsApp, good old SMS, and the odd Windows Quick Assist session as tech support (haha).
Yes, you may not have the same big circle of friends like the couple of hundred followers you have on twitter or sth, it'll be a small circle but genuine one.
@Babei Ilie same ☹️
@Babei Ilie nobody cares so u should
Honestly I’m considering quitting social media too, it had a negative impact on my mental health with the unrealistic expectations.
Same here.I'm still trying to reduce it as much as possible until my final goal of Quiting.Distractions,negativity and many more stuffs are draining my energy and productivity.
@@ahmadwali7470 yeah you’re right. Good luck!
Its worth it. It forced you to actively connect with the people you love more.
I agree with you! I deleted the app and haven't downloaded it for almost a month now, definitely feeling so much better. There's this saying that even you don't care about the likes, it puts on pressure to share yourself in social media and I couldn't agree more with it. When we see unrealistic bodies and unrealistic lifestyles constantly, we are subconciously comparing ourselves to others who have 'great' lifestyles but in fact we only see their highlight moments. I believe a lot of person who looks like having their best life on social media is not having such a great life actually.
I just did it a week ago and it feels so much better. My mental health is better now
Not being on social media is actually a growing trend, and I'm so happy about it, because I share all your views and concerns. Thanks for being one of the special ones that realizes we are actually doing a disservice to ourselves. Massive appreciation for your choice
im so happy too! seeing that ppl finally realizing the negatives of social media is so good
@@user-tk1xd7hl1p their not its just a trend
@@koohletit1453 lmaoooooo
@@user-tk1xd7hl1p we live in an era more connected than ever, yet we are more disconnected than ever, thanks to highly curated social media everyone is being artificial and pretentious, only revealing the best about ourselves. No wonder depression is on the rise.
CZcams is social media. Its algorithm is doing to me the same thing Instagram was doing to you, in terms of sending me down rabbit holes. It has addicted me to productivity porn.
@S Khan Yes. I think the trick is to make sure that you are getting long-term benefits instead of short-term ones.
same for me
youtube is more addictive than instagram for me.....
it's not as bad as the other ones
@@BobLucore i'm working to solve
So true. CZcams can be just as addicting as any of the other platforms.
The way I look at it is that you have to control the algorithm before it controls you. Lots of pros of social media but it's easy to fall down the wrong rabbit hole
I’ve deleted all social media besides CZcams. It’s been almost a year now and it’s done wonders for my mental health. I found myself being so consumed in the opinions of others and stressing out over numerous problems that do not concern me. Yes CZcams is still social media with tailored algorithms, but the education that CZcams provides has helped me in so many ways that Instagram/Twitter/Snapchat etc has not. Great video 👍🏽
Thank you!
Wow. Congratulations!!! ❤️
I quit four months back. One of the best decisions i made. I wasn’t a heavy social media consumer but i was average, yet now i feels like i saved few hours per day! I started to workout, started to watch documentaries, sleep early etc. Genuinely feels like i’ve upgraded my life.
The most non-normal thing I've normalized using Instagram is putting yourself at the center of everything you do.
_I took this picture, I went to this place, I saw this scenery, I achieved this body, I was at this event..._
It's never about the thing you're capturing and always about what it says about _you._ Which sucks the fun out of everything and tends to make people desperate for attention.
Oh wow this is so true.
You're completely right with saying social media is attention seeking. It is. And seeking attention is a very universal thing now, because we lack a certain core confidence in ourselves, we don't believe that we intrinsically matter. Being on social media is kind of feeling the need to prove that we worth it to be alive. But the truth is: we're worth it, whatever other people say or think. We don't need social media. Not at all.
Quiting Instagram was the best thing ever. I can finally live as me and be truley and entirely real rather than comparing my life to superficial posts online which are obviously a fake representation of life.
I can be true to my passions and stop living to impress
I deactivated my Instagram 3 months ago, and it was definitely the best decision to myself. I love very much your channel, I am now spending my time painting ( you were my inspiration, I always liked to draw but you inspired me to start painting and I am loving it so much) and studying, I am also applying to study medicine.
That video was so necessary, I hope more people realise the dangers of this platform. Thank you dear ❤️
I swear every video you make has such amazing points in it that I never considered; so now I have to go think about that for the next few weeks. The illusion of connecting with your friends is something that I didn't in a million years think about, but it's so true and seems obvious when you say it, but anyway I'm really so happy you found a balance with it!
Oh thank you Serra!
I cherish mh privacy more than anything and the fact that I was thrown in my face with posts of everyones daily lives I was feeling the urge to post my life events too and I did ... But when random acquaintances met me in person and judged me or ruined the fun of me telling a new event. I decided I need my space and I left Facebook in 2016 and Instagram in 2020.. never been happier
talking to our mom and dad for 10 -15 minutes is more interesting than scrolling down fow 1 - 2 hours 😀😀
i feel the same and i've been going off and on on social media platforms. I think what's important is to live in the reality and make real connections .BTW love your content!!!!
Oh thank you!!!
I deleted my social media accounts 3 years back and now I completely agree it was really worth it.... You might fell empty and left out at the beginning but trust be when we learn to cope with that the journey with sail smooth
YESS! So supportive of this. As someone who has deliberately never joined instagram / twitter / tik tok, I am convinced that those types of social media platforms prevent you from really learning about yourself and growing. Now you get to enjoy all the freedom and be in the present moment! :)
You’re becoming one of my fave youtubers
Oh my, thank you Karen!
You are back on Instagram. Genuinely would love to know the reasons because I am on and off too knowing it's overall an issue.
That's a good prescription doc for good mental health. I read somewhere that most of the social media founder or CEO don't allow their children/young adult children become involve their products which says a lot what's being peddled to the general public.
Your parents were great parents, you have a good mindset we can really learn allot from you.
I agree with you on this! I wish you good luck and success!
Thanks, Elizabeth. This was the cue for me to make a much-needed change, entering the second half of the year tomorrow!
Good luck!!!
OMG!!i just recorded and documented my 30 days of no social media journey and imma gonna release it soon! kuddos to you man!!
This is a very insightful video. You are correct in so many ways. Social media is toxic. It makes people feel worse and not better. It is a whole popularity game based on fake connections. It’s a sad world really. 😢
I love how empathetic and warm this video is on such a sensitive topic that many people are struggling with. Thank you Elizabeth for this, thank you for truly expressing how you feel, and that by itself deepens your genuine connection with the audience here. Loved every minute. Cheers.
I can relate to this on a personal level, I’m so glad to have found this channel, it makes my fomo go away
Oh thank you so much!
I've struggled with anxiety as a result of being extremely online and deleting social media has really started to help. Love this video :)
The issue is everything has its own advantages and disadvantages it’s us who chooses which one is more
I felt this in my soul. the exact reasons I’m not active on there. thank you for making this video and verbalizing all of these reasons even though it’s the “unpopular opinion”.
Hi Elizabeth. i’m also a medical student and at some point I noticed I couldn’t do anything BUT use instagram, and i couldnt focus on anything beyond 5 minutes! There was a need to instastory all my studying, all my time in the hospital. To kind of brand myself. Ironically all it did was make me really lax in my studies.
I really really needed this and I can relate to almost all the things you said. I'm going to cut down on the hours I use social media from tomorrow hopefully.
This was a great video. I definitely find myself feeling worse about my life when scrolling through Instagram because I compared myself to others. Your filming and editing has improved a lot and I love seeing this part of your flat/room as the background!
I quit facebook 3.5 years ago... The only downside has been that I'm not as in touch with my far away friends as I used too.
But the benefits have been many: less distraction, less anger (because as you said they want us to remain there and use any emotion to do it)...
all in all it has been very positive for me.
Completely agree with all your points! I stopped using Instagram and Facebook about three months ago, and honestly, it's enriched my life so much. One thing that I really felt while I was on social media was the pressure to romanticize my life and mark special moments by posting something about them on social media. These three months made me realize that I didn't need to do it because I don't need to show anything to my fake connections! Instead, I've had real conversations with the few special people in my life that mean everything.
*I agree with you.*
Most of my social networks are inactive. I confess that I am afraid of becoming "limited" by the bubble that networks build for me. Without a doubt, the biggest changes in my life came from moments when I burst this bubble. In a way, I also feel some fears about CZcams.
I really liked what you said about comparing yourself to others. Instagram, in my view, is a network in which people post false happiness to receive false congratulations from people as or more false than themselves.
It doesn't seem logical to me that you want to expose to the world what truly makes you happy. On the contrary, we want to protect ourselves from the toxicity of others.
Sleeping cuddled with the loved one; enjoy a good tea; celebrate victories and lament defeats with friends; talk to parents; and so many other things... These moments when we feel complete provoke that wonderful feeling of belonging, and that's enough.
I don't want to be a hypocrite either: I intend, in the future, to produce some valuable content on social media, as a hobby. Every minute is too precious to be spent trying to please the entire world.
Memento mori.
*Thank you for producing this amazing content, Elizabeth Filips.* You seem like the kind of person who is worth having a good coffee and talking to for hours. 🌟
I hope this video make some changes in the society ❤️... And also it's been a year since I've quitted social media..yeah you are correct people really think scrolling thru social media is normal.. it's not my vibe bruh!! Social media is toxic sometimes..but most of all it wastes so much of our precious time.. that we would have used for something good...trust me you could still live without social media!!
❤️yeah
Through a most bizarre series of circumstances, I had to walk away from all of my social media platforms early this year. I’m a freelance writer who’s working towards writing fiction as well, so I’d spent a lot of time trying to build platforms because that’s what everyone says you have to do if you want to sell novels. I honestly cried when I deleted my accounts! It was weird at first, but the longer I was away from social media, the better I felt. I did just open a new instagram account with the idea of sharing content related to books and writing so that I have some kind of platform as a writer, but I’ve set a 15 minute screen time limit on my phone for that app. I don’t need more than that to post something and take a quick scroll through the list of other authors I follow, and that hard limit keeps me from just mindlessly wasting time. I’m reading Cal Newport’s book Digital Minimalism, and it’s such a smart approach to the topic! I want my teens to read it before diving into wasting the amount of time I have on all the social media for the past several years!
Great video to stop and think about social media influence on our lives. You are on the very right path! Keep doing this videos, the world needs them!
Thank you!!
Another video I needed! I’ve been battling quitting but I finally fully deactivated my Instagram and I don’t see myself going back anytime soon. And like you said it’s crazy how it feels like rebellion but it’s also freeing.
I quit instagram about 4 months ago and it was the best decision. I have so much more free time, feel more relaxed and finally I can focus on studying/ hobbies.
No one really cares if you're on social media or not if they are your true friends.
Never had Instagram, I am just too afraid of spending too much time there. But I definitely miss the connection part sometimes. It must be nice to "stay updated" from certain channels, CZcamsrs etc like a little newsfeed (live stream then, Q&A there, meet up here) but I don't think it's worth it. 🤔
To be honest, ever since the growing popularity of social media, it kept reminding me of the canary of my nan. Because after my grandfather passed away, she felt a little bit lonely, so we both her a canary for company. But after time progressed she found her way and adapted to the situation and went to visit friends more. So to prevent the canary was feeling lonely, she both him a mirror because every time he would take a look in the mirror, he would think there was another canary looking back.
So I can't shake the thought that every time someone is making a selfie they must be feeling lonely... 😅
Thank you so much for this! I stopped using Instagram a few months ago too. And I hadn't realized that most of my reasons were the ones u mentioned here. Thank you, Elizabeth. I love your content. 🥰❤️
I started watching your videos last week and i think you're becoming one of my fav. CZcamsrs. Your content is genuinely amazing🤍 This video is so relatable, i deleted my insta 1 month ago and my life has become so much more positive+ my mental health is a lot better⭐
Ohh thank you Aastha!
Yes! This is so good! I deleted my instagram and Facebook this year. I've been six moths without it and I am so excited to be more present in life. I quit alcohol, instagram, Facebook and I am moving into my van this year to travel and work in film and TV.
Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own.
- Bruce lee
Love your videos ❤️
Wow You did the right thing hope the future holds something out there for you I think you are my fav streamer Hope your future goes well Praying for you know friends and family as well Stay safe
Oh my thank you!!
I felt odd one out for not liking sm, but someone smart like you sharing similar thoughts made me feel so good. Thankyou
would it be weird if I said I went through the sameee! I'm so glad that you spoke about this! Thank you so much for everything
I've had a similar journey. I love how well you express my own concerns. Lots of support in this rebelion 💛
Thank you for watching :)
I've been pondering quiting social a lot recently. I agree that the motivation for most posting is attention seeking. The only thing holding me back is some of the connections I've made that would probably be lost. It's a real dilemma.
I delete instagram every couple of months, often for weeks at a time. It feels so much nicer not having that app as a constant distraction.
You could read 'Digital Minimalism' by Cal Newport, or other books and come up with a middle path suited to you. As much as completely quitting social media is tempting, it's only human nature to feel left out a little. Maybe someone someday will find the perfect middle path.
I feel as though you have articulated what I have been trying to explain for ages. You've done it so well thank you very very much
Congratulations on your 70K!
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This video is so interesting for me because I’m in a very similar situation to what you were in. I just graduated high school and was only just allowed social media. I’ve been so excited for the new opportunity to connect with my peers, but also have had some doubtful thoughts like what you’ve presented in this video. It’s really interesting how social media is presented on the surface level as a way to connect with others and strengthen relationships, but is mostly used as a way to present ourselves in the most ideal way possible. It’s hard to say this is “good” or “bad”, since it can serve as a proponent of personal growth. The one thing that does worry me is how it removes a sense of authenticity (as you talked about in this video).
In the case that you might see this comment, I’ve only recently come across your channel but I’ve been loving all your content! As an aspiring med student and youtube creator you are an inspiration to me!
Heya, thankyou for this video... I really needed this... So I never had any social media account... But today I was feeling to download one and have a hands on but this video really told me that it's not good to do that... I now realise how bad would it affect my mental health and my productivity
i deleted Facebook at 14, after realising it was detrimental to my mental health. knowing this, im not sure why i went on to make an insta at 19 💀 deleted it a year ago, and man. what a relief 🎉
I agree with you. I deleted Facebook, and I feel great. because these applications make you feel anxious and bad about yourself. Thank you so much for these videos. It helps me a lot.
Eliza you are my role model ❤❤ lots of love to you and keep making it add so much value in my life 🌸
Absolutely amazing video! Thank you so much for putting this out there! I agree with everything you've stated!
Each platform has slightly different issues but the underlying theme of needing to be authentic and real exists in all of them. On twitter I am trying to tackle these problems head on through conscious community engagement and it appears to be working exceedingly well and generating positive results for many people. I wish I had time to put these same ideas into practice on all the platforms!!
Thanks again for being "real" with who you are with all of us. The world needs more of that!
Totally agreed with the negative environment like read the comments under Instagram posts there is always some hate
How do you go about the fear of missing out? It's honestly what is keeping me stuck with social media.
Same man
@@abicooks how have you been trying to get over FOMO?
@@carlocatabijan I have no idea haha I keep thinking about the negative stuff about social media
Breath of fresh air. Always fun to see how you think. Thanks for the honesty.
Hey Elizabeth! I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. The editing is always so consistent and so is the high quality! Would you mind sharing your production process? Cameras and equipment used, editing software and process etc. Much love!
Oh thank you! I wonder if it's really interesting, but sure, would be fun to share!
I cannot quit social media. I have an Instagram account, I need it for work to get clients. And I also have an VK account where I can find some worksheets for my students and share knowledge with other teachers. To be honest I hate social nets and that fact that I cannot earn enough money without them. But the good thing is there is only one famous person I follow. Others are other specialists in education and one relative.
But you are still using Instagram 😃😃?!!
it's honestly so sad that it's somehow obligatory as a teenager to be on social media, but everybody has a choice whether to sacrifice your mental health or actually take care of it.
Such meaningful conversations…you need to get your own podcast Liz…keep going☺️☺️☺️
Love all your videos Elizabeth. They are entertaining in perfect amount and enlightening in perfect amount. Learnt a lot from you. Keep doing the good work
OH THANK you so much for this!
Thanks Elizabeth. I really like the points you make, very insightful and make me reflect on my decisions. I have a lot of thoughts in common on different topics. Kudos for this nice little corner you're creating! 👏
Thank you Anisa!
Thanks so much for sharing! I myself am taking a hiatus from social media (Facebook & Instagram) because I too share your sentiments and find it to be way too consuming at times. But what I have found (at least with Instagram) is having two separate accounts… one for family & “friends”… and the other for entertainment and things I thoroughly enjoy & respond to a in a positive way. I do plan on getting back on the platform but more so for creating and building my own community of things I’m interested in. But don’t feel guilty for taking a break, especially if it’s taking a break because you’re away of the negative effects it can have on your mental health. But thanks again and all the best 💕🙂
Im Happy to see more people talking about it ! I quit all social Media months ago and got back to it only for professional reasons and it's just way better. I only go once a day to post about natural healing and I feel good and that's all. I realized all the mistakes I made like using it to show my personal life. It doesn't feel good to share about everything I am doing like I used to when I was z teenager ! Thanks for your video!
I loved your comment about "people are better in real life".. It's so true.
Ur so excellent u always tries to give us the best concept among all that's why ur the only Elizabeth filips love you ❤️❤️
Totally agree. Have always felt that the platform is promoting a shallow community of insta photos & likes.
You are actually so lovely and insightful. Keep up with this kind of content!
Good dicision , success and excuse don't talk together
If you want success don't give excuse
If you give excuse forget about success
social media are so helpful for me, I learn lot of things from it … I get creative ideas from other people who share the same interests, I think we just need to reduce the useless people we follow and to take care of what we feed our brains … that's it for me :)
el smartphone la heroina del siglo xxi junto con las redes sociales
Its been one day since I have quit social media...and she couldn't have uploaded this at a more better time to remind my stupid ass to not go back
@Babei Ilie if someone knows you and needs you, they have youre number they can reach you at. And if someone you don’t know then you don’t need to worry if they cant find you
i agree with u! just deleted them 8 months ago and never planning to reactivate back ever again
Love these thoughtful analyses!!
thank you!
so insightful and candid! thank you for sharing elizabeth
I am 24 and I doesnt have IG,FB or twitter and I am happy about it
I really like this. I feel like I have to create "content" for instagram not because I want to but because somewhere down the line I got it into my head that I need to. I keep having anxiety about not posting this week or the ever present comparison dilemma. What you said about attention seeking really hit me. It's time I think I be a little more honest about why I post certain things. Thank you. Using it as a platform to communicate thing I am currently working on or creating seems the way forward.
I did this last 6 years ago and did not regret it. Now, I am not affected by the drama of other people, or the manipulation of various groups on social media. Thank you and you discovered that and made a life-changing decision. You earned my sub.
Hi Elizabeth, really loved the way you have presented content onto your channel. Can we have a short collaboration session comparing life in a medical school in India vs London? I am sure Indian audience will be elated to know about Medico life over there. BTW, I am a final year medical student from AIIMS, Delhi, INDIA
Really looking forward to it...
Looking forward for it bhaiya 😀
are you the one from AIIMS
oh yeah you are the one from aiims lol
Kindly Don't make it over dramatic, Make it's as pure as it is.!
This would be an amazing collab!!!
I have only watched the start of your video but I can relate to this so very much and I must add you are wise beyond your years. You demonstrate confident humility in such an intelligent manner. Keep it up!
Oh, thank you!
I am cutting down my social media and youtube usage and there are only a few creators whose videos I watch regularly. You're one among them 🥰
I am not gonna lie but in lockdown i got so addicted to the app that one day when I deleted it I actually faced withdrawal symptoms. Social media got me comparing my life to others and I always used to feel lesser and that i was not doing enough and I think every single thing that you said in this video has only made me more confident that its just not me and it’s a normal human thing so thank you so much for this video
Great Vid!
Never was on Insta (and the like), always found it slightly narcissistic. Mistakenly log onto twitter every month or so, and I am immediately reminded why I dislike it so much: too many opinions, too few characters. As much FB is hated on, I personally find it quite useful for Uni events, nearby events, etc. LinkedIn is by far the best imo. There are aspects of it that revolve around self-praise, but majority of the community is collaborative, cohesive and genuinely happy for others.
I quit almost 2 months ago... best decision of my life
I can so feel you! I always feel that I am missing things out just by not being on Instagram but I am really glad you made this video, ly :)
I think a more poisonous platform than Instagram is Facebook. Maybe it started to loose popularity in some countries but I think one of the core reasons is this: too much negativity, it shows what is worst in a human being. I consider instead Instagram as a "light version" of social-media in the sense that people there prefer it for more superficial reasons like showing what stuff they did and posting mostly photos, rather than for poisonous debates like it's happening on Facebook. So honestly, even if the platform's inteface sometimes seems not so diverse and technically friendly such as Facebook it is "healthier" for the mind just simply because at least from my experience, I never saw the amount of negativity on Instagram as it happened on Facebook
Your channel got recommended to me, and I don't regret it. It took 2 videos to convince me to subscribe.
Thank you for sharing!!! Although, I can’t help but compare myself with others on CZcams as well :(
Social media addictions are a literal health problem. Healthy people don’t have addictions to social media, alcohol, shopping, or anything. Addicts who get off social media will most likely replace that addiction with a different addiction.