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Komentáře • 278

  • @MpoomyLedwaba
    @MpoomyLedwaba  Před 2 lety +154

    Hey Family!!!!! Please drop a comment, some love and enjoy a live chat. Thank You for joining

    • @matodzi01
      @matodzi01 Před 2 lety

      Thank you for this segment. czcams.com/video/R20mCvTT8Wc/video.html Here’s a message you will enjoy by Voddie Baucham 🤗.

    • @gloryrichy
      @gloryrichy Před 2 lety

      This is so helpful❤ Thank you

    • @tiongesakala7647
      @tiongesakala7647 Před 2 lety

      The intro!!😭😭❤️

  • @noxxie1496
    @noxxie1496 Před 2 lety +36

    "Even if You don't do a single thing, God I love You for who you are" ❤️ - powerful.

  • @Ezomgosi
    @Ezomgosi Před 2 lety +196

    Dear Family, wow this is so beautiful. I am a mother of a Deaf young boy and normally when I watch your chanwl he is next to me. I just wanna know if maybe you can't add subtle or a sign language interpreter to accommodate Deaf community🙏🙏🙏

    • @nomalisomusasiwa9824
      @nomalisomusasiwa9824 Před 2 lety +40

      Press CC on the top right corner for subtitles, it will come up. They automatically generate during the conversation.

  • @tshenolontwagae
    @tshenolontwagae Před 2 lety +135

    HEY MPOOMY & BRENDEN ❤. May we please have an episode dedicated to question 2 (being able to support your man and their emotional wellbeing). I think it's a really interesting topic. Maybe a conversation with two other couples. The conversation about men and their mental health is not really given a platform and women (their partners specifically) aren't aware of these issues and don't know where to help. To make it worse men find it hard, at times, to confide in one another because of the facade that society has forced them to put on. I think this may be a good platform for the conversation to start.

  • @KhanyiLight
    @KhanyiLight Před 2 lety +9

    How I wish the theme song was an actual complete song because it is that good!!💗🔥🔥
    Please consider making it an official song we can jam to😭

  • @nomthandazoxulu9830
    @nomthandazoxulu9830 Před 2 lety +43

    Brenden is such a chilled dude but he’s actually so funny.

    • @reethak8452
      @reethak8452 Před 2 lety

      😂😂😂True, he’s funny 😂😂😂❤️

  • @andzaniritshuri6179
    @andzaniritshuri6179 Před 2 lety +7

    It’s the “I humble myself my husband, I’ll take it”….. eyyyyy humility goes a long way and what a difficult thing for the Millennial wife

  • @allthatshehearts2434
    @allthatshehearts2434 Před 2 lety +3

    "Tell me what you're fighting for and I will fight with you" but we need the full song

  • @ayandadlamini7982
    @ayandadlamini7982 Před 2 lety +27

    “I’m just happy to be alive”… This is sooo me 🤣!
    I am trying to live a stress free life! If it’s not about my son, honestly I don’t allow these extra things to stress me out! I take challenges as they come and hope for the best!!

    • @lihlenkosi3128
      @lihlenkosi3128 Před 2 lety

      I need that attitude 😩... Big ups to you 💪

    • @maxinekinyua8703
      @maxinekinyua8703 Před 2 lety

      This is me too lately, if its not about my daughter i dont stress much about it

  • @ayandamshayisa998
    @ayandamshayisa998 Před 2 lety +4

    “Even if you God don’t do anything that I ask for nor need, I still love You and Surrender My All”……That just hits home🥺🙏🏼

  • @Tlotlego_LuuDikobe
    @Tlotlego_LuuDikobe Před 2 lety +17

    As a single lady,your videos give me so much hope and actually encourage me to keep knowing my worth and not settle for less.Thank you ❤️

    • @sinesiphoswelindawo6331
      @sinesiphoswelindawo6331 Před 2 lety

      We're together ❤️

    • @lihlenkosi3128
      @lihlenkosi3128 Před 2 lety

      These videos really scare me for real and yet inspire me so much. Scare me in the sense of I'd really love to meet and date a guy that watches their Channel cos I feel they've done all the work shame. One thing for sure they've made me set my standards so high too its scary as I fear no one Will ever be able to match them standards. Today in a taxi the driver said to me with the way I am educated and beautiful if I reach 30 still single I must just forget about finding a man😂😂. I really love what they have it gives me hope that one day I'll meet a person that will want to build with me ngeyona ndlela emangalisayo!!!

  • @Gods_Corner
    @Gods_Corner Před 2 lety +4

    I can testify to seek God first and All else will be added. This is me this year, experiencing seeking God and all else being added ♥️

  • @Tiwas_room
    @Tiwas_room Před 2 lety +4

    A word guys: faithfulness counts when its hard to be faithful not when its easy, the hard times will test our hearts and our work with God. Thank you lovely people ❤❤

  • @fennyganzin7239
    @fennyganzin7239 Před 2 lety +4

    "This is when it counts." - Brenden
    I needed to hear this. That's all. This is when it counts. My faith, patience, my trust in Him, endurance and all, right in the middle of the storm. This is when it counts.
    Thank you for this.

  • @landiwemchobokazi60
    @landiwemchobokazi60 Před 2 lety +8

    Walking together is the game changer! Weekly check ins over a coffee date goes a long way.
    This was great. Thank you so much for always applying yourselves, I thoroughly enjoyed this ❤❤

  • @Sirleendo
    @Sirleendo Před 2 lety +14

    The revelation in this video is that I'm in a transition and this spoke so well to me because between dealing with the past hurts, being present now and sowing for the future, you guys have calmed me down and steadied my hand. So we thank God for working through you. Thina abantu baseMachadodorp siyabonga ✊🏾 ya'll are raising a generation.

  • @khumomolomo9359
    @khumomolomo9359 Před 2 lety +15

    It's Khumo from Botswana 🇧🇼 My favorite couple❤️❤️Mrs Mpoomy I love soooo much💕❤️❤️. It's Mpoomy and Brenden o' clock. Keep inspiring us🤗

  • @GKubheka
    @GKubheka Před 2 lety +7

    I watched this video yesterday and the part about tithing vs seeding stayed with me because today I am back here after a reflection. I think a lot of us are guilty of unconscious seeding and then later feel wronged because of the outcome. I am guilty of that. I have and still belief that it's a good and right thing to help whenever I can. I have also done it to an extent of sacrificing myself at time. Whenever the outcome was not the desired one I would feel wronged and fustrated. I guess alway blame the other person instead of taking responsibility for the part that I did not have a proper and honest discussion with the recipient or even take the time to evaluate or prepare the environment before seeding in it. This morning as I usual I was about to apply for a job on someone's behalf with the idea that it's going to help them and also get some pressure of me as we are family. I have done that in the past and when the person did get the job it things did not change I continued to carry the financial pressure. It used to hurt, fustrate and disappoint me so much and I would keep quiet about it and carry on a usual. So as I was about to apply, the seeding part came back to me and I began to have an honest conversation with myself first of what really my intention is and where the ground was fertile for that. In the end I came out with a different decision that I would let the person know about the opportunity and it would be their decision to apply or not. Should they need any assistance it would be their responsibility to ask for it. What I also learned is that previously even though not intentional I was robbing the person the decision to decide what they need to have been planted and grown in their soil and maybe forcing for my own ideal. This is applies to all sphere of life and its allows one to be conscious about what the intentional about what, where, how and why they invest themselves. I am also evaluating how I have been seeding (or lack thereof) on some of the things I want grow and achieve for myself. Thank you so much for this.

  • @josemolete7575
    @josemolete7575 Před 2 lety +3

    Owww I like what you guys did there with the detailing....
    Mpoomy with the water bottle that matches her sweater and Brandon with the orange pillow that matches his tee..❤❤❤❤I love details ☺☺and I also enjoyed this one

  • @annashikongeni
    @annashikongeni Před 2 lety +2

    Wow! I love the way you apologise to your husband at your first part there. Actions speak louder than words, it is just so nice that even on camera you are not scared of letting your guard down and submit to your husband. This just speak of too much authenticity.I am so inspired Mrs mom!
    ♥️ from 🇳🇦

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi Před 2 lety +5

    The answer on healing 🙌🏽 Brenden… that was so deep and so true. Thoroughly enjoyed Q&A

  • @andamdlokolo7226
    @andamdlokolo7226 Před 2 lety +9

    You guys are such an inspiration to the youth and elders in our generation . May God increase your territory and influence many people's lives .God bless ❤❤

  • @carrenbrandt6515
    @carrenbrandt6515 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm so excited! A little bit of back story!
    I've loved Brenden since he was on idols, I was already married at the time and my husband just love to be my opposition. But anyway I'm always referring to you guys in conversations with my husband coz duh I learn alot. I sometimes forward him links to your vlogs and I doubt he ever opened any.
    Then today I was lounging outside and he came to lay next to me as I was about to start listening to the vlog. So when he heard the QnA he was immediately taken in and listening. Every question and answer he would have a comment. He really got into it.
    I had a dream that we would listen to vlogs like this for very long and that conversations would flow from there...
    He says to me pause.... he tells me wow these two are so authentic so down to earth so humble🥺🥺🥺
    That just warmed my heart. I guess u will have a new subscriber soon.
    Thanks for what u do! Much love C

  • @Nonz
    @Nonz Před 2 lety +4

    I laughed so hard when Brenden said Mpoomy is very good at communicating but then end up complaining, I just heard my husband saying the same thing. I really enjoy your content. Love you guys

  • @luthomatiwane9158
    @luthomatiwane9158 Před 2 lety +4

    The wisdom in this couple!!! Thank you so much for these conversations ❤️

  • @achatwithgoitse
    @achatwithgoitse Před 2 lety +3

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 1st question answered perfectly! I think its the sad African culture that teaches woman that they have to be a certain way to be worthy of love or fully accepted. Like you have to know how to cook or sweep etc 😅. We deserve unconditional love. ❤❤❤

  • @viviandibane2063
    @viviandibane2063 Před 2 lety +4

    Planting a seed: Luke 6:38
    “ A good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and runneth over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you”

  • @tulinagwesolomon4577
    @tulinagwesolomon4577 Před 2 lety +6

    mpoomy please may you continue to bring up lessons about financial management like debt free it real helps

  • @sanelisiwexhakaza4447
    @sanelisiwexhakaza4447 Před 2 lety +8

    Loving the new intro❤️ Also, I would drop my book when I see this notification 💟

  • @balukhoza9795
    @balukhoza9795 Před 2 lety +5

    Glad to hear it's completely okay to be inspired and learn from the people you love yet creating your own Identity ❤️🖤

  • @thandekamkhwane6858
    @thandekamkhwane6858 Před 2 lety +4

    Love the cardigan Mrs mom😍😍you looking great, enjoying the episode❤

  • @kareenmark9719
    @kareenmark9719 Před 2 lety +5

    I thoroughly enjoyed the chat!! This is the only couple that inspires me to get married when the time comes

    • @monicamei_
      @monicamei_ Před 2 lety

      🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽They are so intentional and their podcasts have taught me so much.

  • @Saneh_M
    @Saneh_M Před 2 lety +7

    Five star ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Always such a pleasure listening to you guys. Love you both so much ❤️

  • @sitdownswithsphiweLevenim6417

    This right here is what I call quality content ♥️♥️

  • @sinazomfuywa5542
    @sinazomfuywa5542 Před 2 lety +2

    If there’s one thing I enjoy about this platform it would be the level of honesty and transparency..Mpoomy and Brenden u guys r such a God sent ...ngiyanithanda kakulu...the level of honesty the questions you ask mama♥️🙌🏽you here to unpack...I plug everyone to follow you.May goodness and kindness continue following you both..I love you guys...love Snazo

  • @sarahmahlangu890
    @sarahmahlangu890 Před 2 lety +4

    Healing is a journey deep and so profound such a true genuine statement 👏👏👏👏Wow👏👏👏This is our journey ❤ 💖

  • @chiozyahephzibahsakala1041

    when Mr Dad slowly rubs Mrs Mom's shoulder at 10.0.....ahhhhhhhhhh MY HEART!!!!!!!I love you guys

  • @lefhikaseelamo6733
    @lefhikaseelamo6733 Před 2 lety +1

    The youtube channel just uplifts my mood, it very weird I feel like I'm an addict now.
    Yall are the best.
    Much love from Botswana 🇧🇼 🇧🇼 🇧🇼 🇧🇼 🇧🇼

  • @jaelouis1089
    @jaelouis1089 Před 2 lety +1

    Love this! Thank you for clarifying the tithing and planting a seed, it is so clear now.

  • @joyful2238
    @joyful2238 Před 2 lety

    When mpumi touched “contentment”❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 that’s where I’ve clicked the subscribe button and never looked back ❤️ y’all make sense ❤️❤️

  • @SCRT
    @SCRT Před 2 lety +9

    Thank you mpoomy for bringing such amazing content 💕

  • @eurasialove
    @eurasialove Před 2 lety

    “This is agriculture “ I loved that comparison with sowing & tithing 🙌🏽

  • @Kay_Giiegh
    @Kay_Giiegh Před 2 lety +1

    It’s the intro song for me chile 🔥 Haibo sicela iAlbum 🥵

  • @sarahmahlangu890
    @sarahmahlangu890 Před 2 lety +4

    Faithfulness count when thing are tough and you remain faithful in tough time's 💪 💯 🙌. Wow 👏 👌 😍. Do you know how difficult is it to remain faithful during tough time ask me😭😭😭😭😭.I lost my brother ,my best friend ,my confindant 😭😭,in three months later it was my Pastor and God said to me remain faithful 🙏🙏

  • @misiwejudysangweni3817
    @misiwejudysangweni3817 Před 2 lety +1

    'It counts when it's hard to be faithful' 💞

  • @zibusekunene
    @zibusekunene Před 2 lety +2

    Men test if women are interested in listening to them by mentioning the small things. Depending on how she responds to the smallest and seemingly significant things, he can either open up or close up.

  • @jesiccambanzi5448
    @jesiccambanzi5448 Před 2 lety +2

    "This is not preachy, it's agriculture" I don't know why this sounds funny LOL

  • @phylisschakanyuka8295
    @phylisschakanyuka8295 Před 2 lety +1

    Love that you played the entire intro this time around!

  • @temosominkydoll2139
    @temosominkydoll2139 Před 2 lety

    Am a single lady but I love watching you guys..Taking note for when God finally bless me when it come to a part...Much love ,am a new subbie

  • @siviwemapekula1689
    @siviwemapekula1689 Před 2 lety +2

    The reminder is on✔️
    I know that this conversation is gonna be wholesome 🤗

  • @theparentscorner1391
    @theparentscorner1391 Před 2 lety +1

    Kumandi lana!! Wisdom galore!! And ofcos our fave Mrs. Mom will drop a scripture every cha ce she gets! Love that about you sis❤ love this!!

  • @FitwithFaith
    @FitwithFaith Před 2 lety

    I came across your channel today...I couldn't stop watching your videos....I have been praying about some parts and questions in my life...and it was as if God gave me answers through your channel. God bless you...I love youv

  • @girleyngcobo2678
    @girleyngcobo2678 Před 2 lety

    I actually really enjoyed this video,for most of it I was smiling from ear to ear. I'm with Branden, I'm just happy to be alive. Grateful for the present and looking forward to what's coming next. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @natashadube5164
    @natashadube5164 Před 2 lety +1

    Had to come back again 3 hours later just to replay the intro 😍😍😍

  • @khanyisilehailey869
    @khanyisilehailey869 Před 2 lety +3

    It's always a pleasure hearing from you guys. Always informative... Once more, thank you Mpoomy and Brenden

  • @martinking27
    @martinking27 Před 2 lety

    I really enjoyed this conversation, well done on the intro as well. 👏🏽
    Major stand-out for me was Mpoomy's admittance to struggling with being inauthentic - that totally describes me in a relational setting; it's hard to be anyone other than yourself, really. 💯

  • @mela_tyibz
    @mela_tyibz Před 2 lety

    Mrs Mom pays so much attention, she's a great listener.❤️

  • @thesoundgirlpod
    @thesoundgirlpod Před 2 lety +1

    Okaaay. Can we talk about the new intro!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽
    Is it possible to even a full listen of the song. It's too beautiful!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽😍❤️
    And definitely loving the conversation.

  • @zibusekunene
    @zibusekunene Před 2 lety +2

    “Show that you are listening”

  • @sphelelenadia5903
    @sphelelenadia5903 Před 2 lety +2

    I literally stopped cooking to watch you guys ❤❤ lots of love .

  • @siyaxolisapungulwa2333
    @siyaxolisapungulwa2333 Před 2 lety +1

    Just a few hours ago, I had a conversation with a colleague regarding tithing, this is much needed♥️

  • @masinantk
    @masinantk Před 2 lety +2

    Just after the webinar earlier today, thanks Mrs mom 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳 can’t wait😃

  • @latitamongalo2461
    @latitamongalo2461 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for allowing God to use you both to do his work. You're both so amazing, may God bless you and have favour upon your lives as well as your children. Much love👌🏽❤️

  • @khosipenelope5731
    @khosipenelope5731 Před 2 lety

    "Budget ye chappies"😭😂😂😂😂
    Beautiful and insightful conversation as always❤❤

  • @mohauemeliamoabelo3690

    Good Morning guys, happy to be here now.....I always ask my husband if we are in the same whatapp group, and that always require me to explain what that means on my side and open communication where he explains where his at, and if its a healthy environment for both of us....and I like that and its always good to know his head space..

  • @kemigishacatherine6393
    @kemigishacatherine6393 Před 2 lety +1

    It’s the Authenticity for me

  • @Samone681
    @Samone681 Před 2 lety +2

    The intro fam🥺🥵❤
    Really love the content 🥰❤

  • @aziziphomhlupheki6164
    @aziziphomhlupheki6164 Před 2 lety

    🔥🔥🔥Ohhhh wooow I haven't even started listening to today's episode and the love journey song is so beautiful ,can we please get the full song released

  • @elizabethmmapaseka7364
    @elizabethmmapaseka7364 Před 2 lety +1

    #PLEASE_MY_GUY !!!..😂🤣🤣🤣 Mrs mom was not having it!!!.

  • @luciamoshoeshoe8145
    @luciamoshoeshoe8145 Před 2 lety

    Oh my goodness I love your connection guys. may God keep the union. you are such an inspiration.

  • @saaraileka9392
    @saaraileka9392 Před 2 lety +2

    The intro is everything mpoomy🔥🔥🔥🔥❤

  • @nomondemunisi343
    @nomondemunisi343 Před 2 lety +4

    If wisdom was people 😊

  • @stheadontsi9426
    @stheadontsi9426 Před 2 lety

    You guys are an inspiration, i hope God bless me and my girlfriend with the seed you planted ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @thembimahlangu9361
    @thembimahlangu9361 Před 2 lety

    Better late than never, kodwa si la, marking the register. I am present! Thank you guys..for the amazing content. 👏

  • @rebonemasemola6597
    @rebonemasemola6597 Před 2 lety +1

    Beautiful jersey Mpumi👌🏾

  • @khanyapambo9197
    @khanyapambo9197 Před 2 lety +1

    Hey guys, thank you for the episode.
    Can you guys please release the intro song on one of your platforms, it would be a lovely listen.

  • @ibironkecatherine7868
    @ibironkecatherine7868 Před 2 lety +1

    I love the tune of the song

  • @phindilemdletshe6529
    @phindilemdletshe6529 Před 2 lety +1

    You look good together. Love Mpoomy's jersey :-)

  • @lyzaphelly5144
    @lyzaphelly5144 Před 2 lety +1

    Hey mpoomy and Brandon😍hope u good guys..can you please try one day to talk about what makes a young lady or a young man that is keeping himself or herself well nd I mean in all area of their lives baziphethe kahle and be Rady for marriage but still don't get it..
    And people that are not to good and not behave nd don't have morals get married and get everything..
    I love you guys and you are a blessing to my life.. Love u guys

  • @HisPrincess_
    @HisPrincess_ Před 2 lety +1

    That baby daddy question. Men know what they want. If he wanted to marry you he would !

  • @sibabalwesilanda5395
    @sibabalwesilanda5395 Před 2 lety +1

    It's the " workout your own salvation/relationship " for me😂🤣

  • @sbonnym
    @sbonnym Před 2 lety

    Naze nabahle. Ledwabas, what motivates you, what keeps you going and what do you do when you not sure ❤❤❤

  • @tuyakulauugwanga3685
    @tuyakulauugwanga3685 Před 2 lety

    i looooooooove this channel. mpoomy and brenden are a well of wisdom and inspiration

  • @dineotshiamo6938
    @dineotshiamo6938 Před 2 lety

    I really love you guys a lot 😍, the wisdom, authenticity. Oh man, we are blessed to learn from you family.

  • @nopinkiedema4001
    @nopinkiedema4001 Před 2 lety +1

    Yhooo the way I jumped cannot wait... reminder is on 💃💃

  • @lineokabi2096
    @lineokabi2096 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you Mpoomy for this amazing content ❤️ it's very profound

  • @topwoodstepper
    @topwoodstepper Před 2 lety

    Your channel is very informative... Its always exciting to hear from you. Thank you for being consistent Mpoomy and Brenden ❤️❤️

  • @kelebogilemathabatha
    @kelebogilemathabatha Před 2 lety

    Probably played the intro 10 times before getting into the video🤣love it❤️❤️❤️

  • @VivianKuvare11
    @VivianKuvare11 Před 2 lety +1

    Cute jersey you've got on Mrs Ledwaba

  • @nolwazirebecca2443
    @nolwazirebecca2443 Před 2 lety

    Brenden I like when you say man we did this marriage thing but it not normal👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @lebohangnkambule6823
    @lebohangnkambule6823 Před 2 lety

    Mpoomy becomes more beautiful each and everyday✨🥺❤
    Loved the video🥰🍃

  • @NomaMPride
    @NomaMPride Před 2 lety

    Before even watching I know I'm gonna enjoy listening to Brenden sarcasm lol

  • @esterlifeleni3339
    @esterlifeleni3339 Před 2 lety

    Always soul fulfilling listening to you guys. ❤️❤️. Would you please do an episode on healing? I’d really appreciate that. ☺️

  • @nocwakasinxadi4674
    @nocwakasinxadi4674 Před 2 lety

    Absolutely love everything you guys do❤️❤️❤️❤️tackling difficult issues with such Grace

  • @queenmasiya9776
    @queenmasiya9776 Před 2 lety

    The conversation was very helpful, and answered some questions that I had in mind. Thank you guys 💯❤️

  • @ImaniYeacho
    @ImaniYeacho Před 2 lety +1

    I love you guys you are teaching me so much each and every change I am doing has been what God has told me and listening to your journey

  • @mpumelelosambo8609
    @mpumelelosambo8609 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for the video, my God bless you with more wisdom we learn alot from these podcast ❤💐❤

  • @bokamosoelmahmotlhasedi6334

    Definitely happy to be tuning in into a life 🤩✨✨🤸🤸 quality content honestly

  • @HappinessArchives
    @HappinessArchives Před 2 lety

    Absolute brilliance and grace 🤩💖

  • @QuarterTime25
    @QuarterTime25 Před 2 lety

    The intro is such a vibe!