Metric - Lost Kitten but its all slowly fading into memory...
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- čas přidán 11. 12. 2022
- This is a re-edit of a video originally posted by euFOURia, you can find his channel here: / @eufouria7525
Song by: Metric
open.spotify.com/artist/1rCIE...
Art by: Shimatsuku
/ shimatsuku - Hry
You understood the feeling I was trying to convey. Well done.
The one is here
please make more, I'm a huge fan
the goat
The almighty is here.
oh my god
she's not thinking about you, Go to sleep
damn :/ as always.
fuck you, its christmas
Savage.
thanks man
generic, that's because you haven't found genuine love yet
Love how she feels more animated and lively, even as everything behind her slowly fades away and all you can remember is her.
I have experienced this effect irl and won't lie , after that there is heartbreak if it doesn't work out . For me personally , if the other person has achieved that my eyes do this , something special has happened inside me
The effect is very well done, though I can’t help but find it funny how, while everything else fades and blurs, the viewer is still able to remember the exact can of beer she was holding on the beach until the very end. Must’ve been some good beer.
@@user-ww9xs7mm1t coulda been her favorite, would make sense
Pov this is not about the video
She's not real king by there might be one
Men at day: Haha, women! ☕️
Men at night:
I'm chill what i upload lol
I feel personally attacked 😭
anybody wants to receive some affection and cared for by someone
@@Deflamed_Sphere that's a hard thing to achieve if you dedicate half of your free time hating on the opposite sex for no reason on the internet :/
@@adamoutulny2345 they must have felt really 'sigma'
but yeah not every man or woman are good so that depends on the context but hating the whole opposite sex for no reason yeah, besides it is hard to begin with to achieve since rejections exists and some people are hard to socialized it or its hard to ask it and expect a down.
oh yeah and the girl's version is boys will be boys
Just imagining you become nothing but a memory is enough to break me, I hope it never happens
that the point of life. memories of time. time is expensive, spend it wise
i hope it doesnt happen for you, its the most painful feeling in the world. when you get em, hold onto em tight. dont be scared, kiss em. hold their hand. when things get tense, dont argue. talk it out. ride the wave, and dont let em go. dont let go of that smile. or youll become just a memory, like me.
Memories are all thats left in the end. Thats why dementia is such a terrifying concept to me. The one thing that keeps the dead still alive, the far gone close by, the good and bad, taken away by your brain rotting. If I start forgeting shit like that just let me die before I forget everything, even if you have to shoot me
Like 30-50 years after your death and nobody in this world will remember that you ever existed
In the first place in others' minds we exist only as memories. A blurry blob of things that makes up something we can call a person.
The worst part is when you realize the last good memories you had togheter have passed a long time ago, while now all it remains are sad stories to remind yourself.
And for added pain: When you reach the point where you've been broken up for longer than you were ever together.
Extra points: Meeting an old couple who's been together longer than they haven't. _Someone got the good ending. Which means it's possible._
man gotta say, for me, I started to realize the last good memories I had happened way back in the beginning. I wasn't even happy for the ending half of things. I was just hanging in there for them and for hope pretending to myself that I was happy enough.
whene you realize you dont have memories...
The worst part is when you feel happier that it's over after years. Nothing remains, just the present and yourself. You can still love yourself.
I wish I had good ones with someone. It's like I have none.
"You didn't even experience it yourself... Yet here you are... Crying because of feelings that don't even belong to you" - me to myself
Why is this some of the realest shit I’ve ever read on CZcams?
I resonate with this, guess I’m not the only one like that
Beautifully worded.
I wish I was you
Hahaha i whar?
It's kind of sad for me, because I actually experienced that with a girl I met. It was the best days of my life, I felt like we really liked each other, We'd go to the park, we'd go shopping, we'd go to the movies, it was the first time in my life that I really felt like a girl liked me. Sadly, all of that went away because of emotional instability and her obssession with another guy, all those amazing things were traded for her constantly pushing me aside, blaming me for things I wasn't responsible for, and getting mad at me for stupid things.
I still talk to her nowadays, but things aren't like they used to anymore. For those guys in the comment feeling down that they didn't get to experience this, remember one thing: even if you are in a relationship with someone, do not think that this will guarantee you 100% happiness at all times, there will be moments when you will suffer too, and a lot, for being with someone you love. Before you want to feel loved by someone, you need to love yourself first.
Stay strong guys
Adding to this, always cherish every moment you have with someone you love, they are few and far between so make the most out of them, be always grateful for what you have and don't ever feel like you're entitled to someone, that's the key to enjoying moments like this! Been there, done that, she's gone but the memories are still there and i can only hope if there's a next time i can make better use of my time with her.
Stay strong kings!!
i want to give a salute for saying to love yourself before you love anyone else, good advice
I hate women so much that it's unreal
I think it’ll be best if u stop talking to her but it’s up to u man
Same to some extent
This feels more accurate
Honestly yea, and more sadder
The original isn’t meant to be about a breakup, it’s simply a collage of a couple’s adventures. Incels took it, added Lost Kitten to the background, and now have lost the original meaning of the video.
Well, f*ck. I found out I lost a great friend of mine tonight. All I can think of when listening to this now is how I'm slowly going to forget all my memories of him. I loved him, a great guy to the core. Can't believe he died on Christmas. I love you, George. I hope your happy wherever your soul goes after we depart. Hope you're hitting 225 for reps!!!!
When ever you are doing reps to failure remember him and go beyond ultra. Continue his legacy!!!
May God be by your friend’s side, I’m sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss.
hope you're doing well
@@SojoTaku man i love this kinda motivation
When you remember all those good moments with your only best friend, and you start to realize that you were always in love with her/him all the fucking time
Too dumb to have noticed it, and I bet she would've rejected me anyway
I realized, I confessed, got rejected. I respect her decision because she is going far away and did not want to risk our relationship. We kept distance and started talking again after a month or two but the truth is I am still in love. I kept my feelings and started to live with it, it was okay because she still relied on me to hear her worries and rant but one day it changed. Yep she found a love interest and our conversation started to dull. We no longer talk but I’m glad it happened, our memories no matter good or bad are a valuable lesson that teach me to be a better person. I hope you guys can also learn from your past memories and be a better person ❤.
real creepy....
@@zoaholic7732 Maybe I'm not worth of understanding your feeling and situasion bro but I hope you'll find yours soon. I'm surely the best will happen over this unfairness, also proud of your positivity and big heart.
@@angelo08280 assuming this is bait
One day... Please let me have these kinds of memories
Same bro
@@a.o.h8660 fr :'l
One day...
you missed the day when you're still in middle high school, you're supposed to walk home with someone sir...
@@senkocs i remember when graduated from middle school and no one came to pick me up show up for My graduation. had to sneak out and walk home. Didn't want to be embarrassed to be seen that no one came for me...
I met her and told her how I felt, but she wasn’t interested in me romantically.
We talked honestly with each other and exited each other’s lives as good friends.
I didn’t hesitate to tell her I loved her, so I shouldn’t be regretting a thing, yet in the back of my mind there’s the thought of “what if?”
You did what you can and that's the best someone can do
You've done more than a lot of guys here. You've done all you can.
Honestly, you've done more than most guys including me, so stay proud king! Sadly, some things are never meant to be
@@TheDragonSeer
Yeah..
At least she heard your confession and gave you an answer, that's miles better than never telling her and having that regret for the rest of your life
Maybe in another world we could have these memories, maybe
maybe in the next life, maybe.
I can help you make these memories
@@typicalgamer5036 is this the beginning of a love story?
I agree, CHEERS!! For the afterlife :D
Not at all
This is very accurate representation of remembering your past relationship. everything else fades and blends except her, the experiences fade but the emotions she showed you and gave you. You reflect on them more and more and forget everything else. then eventually one day, you just remember the good memories only and don't bother recalliing the reset anymore.
This reminds me of a very vivid dream I had where I lived a year-long relationship with someone. We dated, snuggled together in bed, shared interests, it was a dream come true. Until I witnessed her get shot and killed right in front of me (due to events I can barely recall). When I woke up I was distressed as if I had truly lost a loved one and it took a couple hours for my mind to come to terms with it. Crazy how that works.
Did you know that, if you are lucid dreaming and you kill someone you knew irl, your brain will probably grieve the death of that person and will kinda think that they are really dead (Not exclusive to lucid dreaming, but you can kill more known people in them). I can say this from experience =D
Schizo moment
You probably shouldnt dwell on it tbh
bro I had literally the same experience about a year ago. The dream felt like years being with someone I deeply love, although she's a complete stranger. We dined, shopped, and traveled together. That was the happiest I've ever been, never knew I could ever feel that happy. She's also a fading memory, all I remember now is the blur of her face. She died tragically in my dream as well. She got hit by a train while we were running away from suspicous men. I didn't feel that much sadness though, because the dream before that I was a soldier fighting xenomorphs in the halo universe, so there's that.
And yet everyone is having dreams of romantic stuff and yet the only dreams I have is just about beds talking to each other
@@idkwhattouseaspfp4073 My dreams are only nightmares and world ending or sometimes giant man eating monsters. And I'm just like. Its all so tiresome. Just once I wish I could remember a dream about being happy and living some form of an ideal life. But sometimes I have dreams of mall world. Mall world is always exciting and fun, you should try going to mall world.
I get that this is mainly for people who’ve had to part with someone they loved/were close with, but for me (someone who struggles to connect with the people around me) I feel like I’m grieving the fact I’ve never been able to make any memories like these and how I feel like I never will.
The “you’ll never be mine” really hurts…
melancoly is a weird feeling
it's like mourning for the death of what could have been
like missing the home you were at a touche's distance for a moment and then a universe away, forever after
I had a girlfriend who reminded me of this song so much. We never fought or anything and our dates were very much like these pictures. We had such good chemistry, I felt like we genuinely understood each other and I loved her. We planned a trip to Japan together. However less than a week before we left, she suddenly broke up with me admitting she felt we were "romantically incompatible" which stung so bad because I felt the opposite. Now I'm alone in Japan lol.
She was cheating on you
"A man can't remake himself without suffering for he is both the marble and the sculpture"
@@VonRibbittclassic
I don’t mean to be pedantic, but the band is named Metric, in the title of the video. That being said, this is absolutely gorgeous, thank you so much for making this
Edit: title was fixed, ignore the first part
Yeah the band is named metric, what's wrong?
@@CatwaiiYTWhen I commented, it said “Metro - Lost Kitten”. It was changed when you responded though!
She was the first person I ever loved, but I never told her. I was too afraid of rejection, too unsure of myself. And before I knew it, she was gone. She moved away and I never saw her again.
I miss the way her eyes lit up when she laughed, the sound of her voice when she spoke, the way we used to sit together during lunch, lost in our own world as we talked about everything and nothing. I miss the way she made me feel, like I was the only person in the room, the only person that mattered.
But most of all, I miss the way I felt when I was with her. She brought out a side of me that I didn't even know existed, a side that was confident and carefree. And now that she's gone, that side of me has gone with her.
I think about her all the time, wondering what she's doing, where she is, if she's happy. I wonder if she ever thinks about me, if she ever remembers the moments we shared.
I regret not telling her how I felt, not taking the chance to experience that kind of love when I was young.
Now, all I have are the memories of what could have been...
It’s very brave for you to share this to a public audience, and everyone deals with this *thing* in their own way. But my friend it may be best to move on it’s the best you can no matter how much it hurts, I cannot confirm you’ll find someone that’ll make you feel that way again, but I don’t see harm in trying.
@@proving9606 you're not wrong, I know I liked this one chick, but I didn't say anything because she was always in a different relationship, we're still friends, but I'm trying to get over her, as she felt like she was the origin of my declining mental health
The best advice is to actually try and get over them, it'll hurt and pain you, but it's better than having hope for something that's likely never gonna happen and hurt even more when you think to yourself "we could've been blah blah blah" it's not a good ending, but it's better than a hopeless dream.
Sistase, I hope you find someone you can find love with, and when you find that someone, say that you love them as soon as you can so you won't lose her, obviously when you feel comfortable with them.
the regret of not saying how i truly felt is one of the worst burdens i ever made the mistake of tying myself down with
im sorry that you also fell into that hole
id never be able to say any of that myself, so i thank you for being able to put into words what i coildnt, and i hope your life is, if not better, at least not any worse
And people wonder why I’m so adamant about working on myself and not getting into another relationship. I’ll never get the remnants of those blurred memories out of my head no matter how hard I try to cauterize my heart, but at least I know better now.
It isn’t worth the risk of losing myself to another human.
Indeed. That shit sucks. The pain of loss slows you down, makes you less productive. The commitment, takes all your time. But you? You'll always be there for you. You are your best investment.
💖
No comments here ?
Everyone’s talking about their love stories but this actually reminds me of my parents and everything they went through more than anything.
They used to be each other’s best friends and now they hardly talk anymore thanks to my dad’s mental illness taking over him. They’re practically on the brink of divorce. It honestly breaks my heart..
Hopefully I can be in a relationship better then whatever my parents have now.
bro we're in the same situation lmao
but idk if my dad has mental illness
Updates? It’s all ok now?
Im 19 years old and yet ive never had someone who has genuinely feelings for me is just depressing.
Same here, but I don't really mind that much because money is more of an issue to me
try 22
21. The only happy memories I have are in the 3rd person point of view. I was never the one experiencing it.
Be grateful that no one strung you along at your weakest, King.
We're all f'cked, aren't we ?
This shit actually made me fucking cry, even more than the original, because it almost perfectly describes my exact experience with a girl I knew.
She sat next to me in this study hall class I had in late middle school/early high school. She was a looker, about the kindest soul you could ever ask for, and shared my taste in many things. We hit it off pretty well, became good friends.
I realized too late that I loved her. Truly, and honestly loved her. But by the time that I realized it, she was about to transfer to another school, and I never saw her again.
I still think about her and how she's doing, years later and out of high school. I remember very few of our experiences together, but I remember her face clearly.
I think about her from the exact angle we see in this video. I think about her smile, her laugh, her dimples.
I wonder how she's doing now.
EDIT: I forgot to mention this originally, but I sent an email several months ago to an old email address she had. I do not know if she uses it anymore or not, but either way, she hasn't responded. I will soon be sending another after the encouragement of users in the replies, but if there is no response, I am willing to make my peace with that.
Try to contact her, even if it's just to have a good laugh or to remember the good ol days.
If you are doubting yourself, remember that she has fond memories of the nice times you both had, so the chances of her replying you are at your advantage. If anything happens, if she ghosts you or anything (even tho it's highly improbable), at least you tried. And that's the best anyone can do.
Live with high ups and deep downs or live a dull and neutral life at all times, you choose how you're gonna act.
Go after her, king. Make it happen, do not wait.
Someone ASSIST THIS FELLOWMEN OF OURS
Call her. Now. You'll never know what will happen next after that call, but I'm sure that whatever happens, you'll feel much lighter.
My life is empty right now i have no idea how to express my feelings because of pandemic niw im an emotionless man
Call her dude. It’s worth it
Why am I even still here
Like genuinely what reason do I have to stay
I've already served all my purpose in all my friends' lives, they're happy now, they don't need me anymore.
Why don't I just leave already
Uh huh
Cause they'll be right back where they started the moment you leave. It's like gluing together a shattered mug. The mug is now fixed, but if you were to remove the glue somehow it would be right back to being shattered
“To live is the rarest thing in the world.” Everybody knows the quote. You get one life, and I don’t know if how media portrays high school is “accurate” or not, but damnit…
Those high school kids had friends, drama, they went out, made memories. Did things they wouldn’t forget until they were thirty.
What have we done? Jack sh!t. And I know we’re not supposed to cry over spilt milk, but it’s hard not to look back at the last 20 years of my life and tear up, when I think about all of the opportunities I’ve missed in my youth and will never have again.
You also have a lot less freedom in your life in high school. Don't fixate on the past 20 years, if you're lucky and healthy you've got another 70+ years ahead of you. Make those years the best. The past is done, the future is still yours to decide.
One time at Senior high, Grade 11, I met her during a group project for our CPAR subject, I didn't payed to much attention to her since I'm shy and quiet and it's just the early weeks of school. Weeks has passed by we constantly became group mates from the same subject, I slowly grew feelings for her. I started getting close to her, tried becoming friends with her which worked out pretty fine. One night, 7pm, It was the end of our school time, I confessed my feelings to her in a jokingly way, like I shouted "Ay crush, hope you get home safe" my friends looked at me and asked if I was joking but I responded with a shrug and a smile. Weeks has passed, they kept asking me if I like her until I said yes, the news reached her and my classmates which scared me a bit. After she found out that I liked her, she changed a bit, the way she acted before I told her I like her was gone in an instant, I'm not sure if it's just me being paranoid but that's what I felt. Then one day, there's this guy that sat behind her, at first they were just talking to each other, I was like "hmm, it's alright" but then he kept on sitting beside her making her laugh and smile everyday, I felt jealous seeing her talking to the guy making me think like "did she asked the guy through private message to keep talking to her keep me away from her?" I have to say this guy is actually much smarter, taller, and good-looking than me. As I said, I don't know if it's just paranoia or a normal thing that happens but that changed me. One day, Gen Math subject, I sat in front so I can see properly what's written on the board, my position wasn't close to her but it has a significant distance to her, like a one person in the middle distance, she then tapped me on the shoulder and asked if I was ok cuz I wasn't acting the hyper kid like before and why wasn't I talking to her like before, I then responded with a "I don't know..." looking her dead straight in the eyes and proceeded to turn my head facing the board again. Christmas party came, everything felt nice, I was finally happy for the first time after 2 months of being depressed, was wearing my best attire for the event, wasn't paying a lot of attention to her, I was just scrolling down on my phone on social media , I do notice her giving a few looks at me and whenever I look at her she then pretends to talk to her friends, the guy that she kept on talking everyday came in the room, wearing long sleeves while wearing a coat, didn't payed much attention to him and just continued scrolling the web, few minutes later her and two of her friends were laughing together while giving a few glimpse at me which made me look, I'm not sure if they were trying to get my attention but they were a bit loud. I noticed they were hiding behind a coat and immediately looked at the guy with his coat missing, I was like in my head "Hell no you're not doing that to me right now", that's the time I gave up I waited for the time for us to pray and eat so I can leave without anyone noticing and it worked, I went back home empty stomach, mood ruined. I didn't cry but instead slept the entire day and waited for my friend so we can play together.
Really dirty aind painfull done to you but at least you can get some experience from it and (hopefull) find that person that really is for you.
See it as dodging a bullet that could have been really bad in the long run
Damn bro. That hits a little too close to home. I wish you the best of luck finding that one perfect for you
it's a painful way to go brother at some part i can relate to you
im a bit dense,what was the "thing" that they did?
It's okay dude, you have bigger things to take care of
“Sometimes i see a happy couple walking down the street, and i start to wonder to myself ‘what if i ended up loving someone? And they love me back?’”
Wow, someone had these moments to begin with. It never even began for some of us.
Can't tell what hurts more, but at the same time is heartbreak really a competition?
28yo here. I have also experienced these feelings, but to all the younger people in the comments: Don't panic. The pain will go away, with time. Of course, some memories will stay with you forever. A bittersweet nostalgia will get etched in your heart, but do not be afraid. Such a feeling is painfully beautiful, and some day you will come to appreciate that part of yourself, your past, with love and benevolence. The future holds many painful experiences, and they will not hold back on you. So don't dwell on any of them. Let them shape you into a better, stronger, kinder person. Don't despair: Nothing is forever. You will heal, and get hurt again, but you will heal again. Don't give up. I believe in you!
Thank you bro, that's what I needed to hear
@@kotovets It's all right bro, you're not alone. Wish you the best.
I've seen a bunch of edits of this song, but damn this one hits the hardest.
This reminded me of my childhood friend/my gf that i lost few years back, She was my love of my life, we grew up together, until we got drifted away due to her family problems and few years later she moved back and we actually turned into lovers, we dated and loved each other until she got cancer, which took her life after 2 months, I promised her to not forget about her, and continue living on without her..
Lyrics:
Don't say yes if you can't say no
Victim of the system, say it isn't so
Squatted on the doorstep, swollen on the blow
Leaving without you, can't say no
Halfway starts with happiness for me
Halfway house, lost kitten in the street
Hit me where it hurts, I'm coming home to lose
Kitten on the catwalk, high-heeled shoes
No more hard-headed Saturdays
They got it, they want it, they give it away
Tell me one thing you would never do
I was looking for a hooker when I found you
You've got my eyes, you've got my eyes
You'll never be mine, ah, but you've got my eyes
When you lie, I'll cover it up
When you hide, I'll cover it up
When you cry, I'll cover it up
When you come undone, I'll cover it up
So pent up, I was coming home to you
Happy in the nighttime, howlin' at the moon
Sippin' on a cocktail, drinking in the loo
There's something about you I hold on to
You've got my eyes, you've got my eyes
Youl'll never be mine, ah, but you've got my eyes
When you lie, I'll cover it up
When you hide, I'll cover it up
When you cry, I'll cover it up
When you're blind, I'll cover it up
When you lie, I'll cover it up
When you hide, I'll cover it up
When you cry, I'll cover it up
When you come undone, I'll cover it up
They got it, they want it, they give it away
They got it, they want it, they give it away
They got it, they want it, they give it away
They got it, they want it, they give it away
When you lie, I'll cover it up (They got it, they want it, they give it away)
When you hide, I'll cover it up (They got it, they want it, they give it away)
When you cry, I'll cover it up (They got it, they want it, they give it away)
When you come undone, I'll cover it up (They got it, they want it, they give it away)
The background might fade into obscurity but that smile she gave you stayed forever burned into your memory.
Nostalgic feelings of the things that never happened..
Things that have *yet* to happen my friend.
I woke up one day and she was not there anymore
We need to create the good old days that we will remember in the future, being stuck in your past won't take you anywhere
No need for that lol
She says, “You’re cool”.
The next 5 years is of us.
Us at the beach.
Us at the restaurants.
Us walking through town.
Us slowly going through the highs and lows.
The highs feeling like this is the reason I stayed alive.
The lows feeling like being forcefully woken up.
Then she says, “You’re cool but, I’m not looking for anything right now”.
And I snap back to the truth. The 5 years nothing more than another day dream.
“Sure, yeah yeah” I manage.
“That’s fine”.
Edit: Since so many people are making assumptions that this random text is a true story, let me tell you that you shouldn't believe every single thing you read on the internet to be true. Surprise! People lie or write stories. I'm the latter.
If you paid attention to the video, you can see that I'm literally using the same imagery used in the art. It's just a sad scenario I thought up. If you keep getting "she should date me" vibes off this, that's all you. Don't push your personal tragedies onto my fictional story.
All I wrote is a guy having a day dream and then being rejected because that's what I imagined when I listened to the music and saw with the visuals.
If you have such a huge issue with that, maybe it's because you guys have had that happen to you. This will be the only thing I write on this matter, you can keep complaining about imagined scenarios that we made up in our head, I simply don't care.
The music is good, and the edit is good.
This hits harder than a truck..
@@ranimel7174 not even a train
Sheesh that hit way too close to home
Just got to realise you aren’t owed anything, bit weird to continue hanging out with a girl just to get with her
@@aidaeggo5794 man shut up
Feeling like I'm nothing but a vessel of memories of people who probably don't even remember me. It's hard to forget and I don't want to, because no one deserves to be forgotten. Wish I could think that of me too
Thats it right there. I couldn't dare to forget someone, to let what they were slip and fall into the dark.
Thank you for describing how I feel in a way not even I could think of
in 27 hours and 20 minutes, itll be valentines day. I dont think ive ever spent a valentines day with someone ive loved. and at this point, i dont think i ever will. im scared of living alone, and every time i get my heart broken i try to pretend that i dont need anyone, but i know that its a lie. i dont remember when i was last hugged by anyone that wasnt family. i dont remember the last time i was kissed. i know ive felt it once, the feeling of someone so close, to feel someones lips against mine, but it feels like a dream of a dream instead of a memory. i just want to be able to say that i give up looking for love and actually follow through with it. because im tired of hurting others and hurting myself. i just want to interlock my fingers with someone elses again...
hey man i relate to this a lot i hope your doing good
oh shit I just realized I don't have anyone like this, I'm surrounded by friends and family, yet I don't find myself feeling a much deeper attachment to any of them, I love my mates, my family, but there's something missing and I don't know what it is, cuz I can tell my mates my deepest darkest secrets because we all bond over a common interest, yet I could not trust them to be there for me when it counts, while my family I can trust them to always be there for me, yet I can't tell them what's really going on inside my head.
same. I think its cause we have friends that arent family and family that arent friends, as in the mates are real close and important to ya but they arent truly connected that deeply to your soul or life or whatever, which is why its so easy to tell them so much shite cause you dont care as much which is freeing and fun, but its also hard to trust them with your back, while family are too connected to your soul and so theres a fear that if you tell them your real thoughts it could damage that vital bond, but you always know your family gottchu. that missing part is prolly a friend who you can also consider family, a person you really love either platonically or romantically.
Same man. It sucks because I know the people I'm "mates" with, don't have each others backs. It's soul crushing when you tell them the real reason your a bit tired that morning and they go hush and change the subject.
@@thebritishtwat1317 my mates are true mates, they care, its just that we are also at that age where the only thing we can really do is support one another through thoughts and prayers, we couldn't be physically there since not only were seperated by distance when we've gotten to college, we are also collectively broke to go travelling.
i could've never put this feeling into better words nor even fathom the day i see some other people struggling with the same issue i have, its so lonely when you're already surrounded by people who love you, caring friends, caring family, what more could you ask for? Its just, even then you still feel incomplete and alone, I'm just generally struggling with your average anxiety from time to time, self-confidence from time to time, yet its like i can barely bring it up nowadays, I've already vented about it to digital friends and sometimes irl friends in the past but i just stopped because of how tiring it was just spilling out over and over and going nowhere, i would have an issue about something but absolutely cant dare to tell it to anyone i know because then they'd think i would be complaining about them or other people, or worse in case, something that isn't their fault and is so utterly small that i know doesn't matter but still makes me feel weird about it, honestly it just means I've never found someone i love platonically or romantically, a someone who i know and shows that they also love me platonically or romantically, a someone like in a classroom activity that lets your own teammate/partner for it, they'll go towards me and I'll go towards them kind of love instantly. (sorry for the dump, i don't know where to let these thoughts out, so y not probably random obscure comment reply section void)
@@FirstLast-fl1co mate we all suffer from some form of void, something that we are missing, like a higher purpose or goal. That feeling of just floating around and not actually going somewhere where we want is very normal. It will pass, sooner or later we'll find something we like and we'll finally have a direction where we want to go. For me I think I finally found it, turns out falling genuinely in love is one hell of a motivator to be a better person both physically and mentally.
As a 21yo male these arts make me feel so lonely. I wish I had someone who would look at me the same way. For some reason these images really make me feel the trust and intimacy that I miss so much. This feeling is eating me from the inside. I don't know if I'll make it out alive.
Edit: thanks for the kind comments, and tips. I'm turning 22 in 2 days, and it just seems like life gets only more spiky and uncomfortable. I have a dream of moving to the US, but I lose a huge amount of hope with every year that I age, and it becomes less and less exciting. If I eventually totally lose all of my dreams to this, I truly don't know what would make me stay on this planet. I can't settle at being a sucker.
But then again, my life is insignificant and I'm super replaceable, so who cares.
Love yourself and reflect that outwards. When you live your most authentic life, treat yourself like you'd treat a loved one, you'll be happy whether you get into a romantic relationship or not. Fuck the norms "you need a partner to be happy", thats bullshit thats only good to hide away insecurities.
If you don't have one, find an hobby that makes you go outside and keeps your day occupied, and makes you think less. who knows, you could eventually meet someone
But as other as said, the more you work on yourself and your insecurities, the better you will get into relationships.
It takes action, but remember to not get obsessed with someone that doesn't like you, if you develop instant feeling for someone it can be bad, feelings should come slowly and you WILL know if someone is into you.
That's just my discount dollar advice, it helped me get my frist relationship, I could say more but it will get annoying, you can do it King
You're only 21; don't give up hope, you've still got plenty of opportunity to meet someone who will love you as much as you love them. The other people above me have good advice, be authentic and kind and some day you'll have your chance too.
@@mastercat381 I have 21 too and losing all hope... But you reminded me that there's a long way ahead, thank you
Watch One Piece, learn to romanticize the journey towards the goal
Hit the Gym
Most important of them all, love and respect yourself!
This was beautiful, thank you
0:10 this frame.....
oh God I love her so much. in a perfectly happy and healthy relationship, and I'll watch this video every now and then as a reminder of what could happen. I don't ever want to lose her love
Me listening to this knowing full well I could've at least experienced love even just for a little bit if I just didn't pussy out when my crush confessed to me back at 2019
I still haven't moved on, I'm still in love with her, but we've both moved schools by this point and I know full well I can never tell her back, and even if I did, it's been 3 whole years and she's definitely moved on.
Yea but then you just meet someone new so it doesn't really matter. Even if it takes years, it's bound to happen so I personally don't really sweat it.
Could always tell her the truth that you actually liked her back then. Who knows, maybe she'll respond positively. She liked you enough to confess after all.
Can't be a memory if you've never had it, heh
What is it like, lads? To be loved unconditionally, to never feel like you're not good enough, to be someone's favorite, to have a reason to live?
I don't remember what it's like, bros
feels like you're warm even in the coldest nigth and nothing can stop you after that it's like having a hole in the chest and being lost even in you're own head
@@yochior was it worth the pain?
@@Jules-69lol To have a real relationship I was happy, though it wasn’t my reason to live it was certainly worth the pain.
@@proving9606 hope you'll find it again fren
Such an odd way to see things from my point of view. I won't go into detail about my life but let's just say I managed to survive through a mixture of pure anger, spite and iron will. I look at comments like yours and I'm more confused than anything.
Edit: sorry for being vague but I meant the whole *wanting* this unconditional love bit. To me, my anger and spite is comforting. Love is so foreign to me it doesn't register.
Stop man... stop. This is painful to watch. We'll never experience this.
I see you
This reminded me of my failed love story, we met up as friends, hanged out alot, i liked her and we tried dating, throwing effort out for her for the whole year, she never had a proper relationship before me, sparks didnt last for her, she felt unfulfilled, she cheated, i felt like i wasted so much for her. I hate that i met her and the end result is just that we are just memories for each other. Glad that we didnt last a longer time, didnt see the red flags for what they were at the time. the way i looked back at how we were, i felt like i was already married to them for 10 years are we are always happy with each other, while it feels like she is still figuring out her self. I still carry her memory as a big reminder that people cheat or early signs of cheating.
Healthiest relationship I’ve witness happened during a wedding in ff14. I hate living man
"Everything is fine and nothing can ever ruin this."
I was looking for this
This is honestly beautiful. It made me appreciate the lyrics more. Honestly speechless, both you and this artist have got my subscription!
Hearing this song after finishing "Norwegian Woods" by Murakami makes my depression increased by a hundredfold.
That book fucked me up
Anon, are we here forever?
We'll find a way out, I promise
Soon, you will only be a memory, I know this, I know we will part, I don't know when, but I know it will happen soon... And I'm scared... I hope we can always stay the same way we are...
What do you mean? What do you mean by that?
@@bobbob6743 Well, I don’t know how to explain it but I’ll try.
Imagine you work so hard for a friendship or a relationship that you have, but then it ends, so now you think of the other person as a memory, and they think of you as a memory aswell, you’re no longer together, so all you have are the memories you made with them
@@Grag235 me, but I dump all those memories in the gutters and I sometimes check it out again from time to time.
OP is like 14 in their first relationship lmfao. Overly dramatic for no reason over things they can probably control if they didn't think their life was a fairytale.
@@WeebsArePathetic whatever you say bud
Weird to think that a 100 years old person cant have 10% of the memories of its own life
I really like when i forget about bad stuff but when the good memories start to fade away too is really depressing
Got me thinking how much people change through their lives, a person today can be a totally different one in 30 years in terms of appearance and personality
Man this vid really got me depressed
And cell change-over. You're a new person every seven years!
She's thinking about you. Rest well.
She think about food 🤣🤣
This song made me feel what I'm trying to hide - loneliness. I'm 22 and I've never been in real relationships. I had different crushes, but this one is the longest. 7 months of me loving her and it's one-sided. All of my friends have partners or even married and have kids, while I'm single and extremely lonely.
You're still so young, don't worry! 25 y/o here speaking, many of my friends did not get into their first relationship until the last couple of years. Hope it finds you soon too. Wishing you the best :)
@@Hannah-fm5vx thank you! I hope my love is somewhere nearby already ☺️ Happy holidays!
@@I_barni_I you too! :)
This is honestly upsetting. It starts from the details getting blurry, to the background fading. Next thing you know, you can't remember how they used to sound like, how they used to smile.
Take pictures, keep stuff in your phone and keep backups so that you could never forget.
you dont have to do this to me, man.
bro you good?
@@Polo-715 is anybody good?
@@penguinlord6486 unfortunately it doesn’t look like it
Funny how this simple video is so much more profound than the official music video
"...Here we go again."
_31st attempt to turn life around_
almost there.
She was the only one in my sight ,
she was all there is when i looked, and she is still there when i close my eyes.
Her smile so bright it was burnt into my eyelids.
Her laughter so beautiful it plays in my head non stop.
Her presense so calming it leaves my heart yearning to be with her, for one moment of peace.
But it has all faded into the past, washed down the streams of memory.
Though those times were gone,
they were not forgotten. The memories
are cherished in my mind,
and hopefully hers too. I do not ask for much but to spend one last day with her in my life. She is my all,
and ive lost it all.
so fuck it we ball
If you like this song, you should listen to the song by the same band "Metric - Twilight Galaxy". It has a theme similar to this song, but it also has a positive message: "There's no glitter in the gutter, There's no twilight galaxy.". This means that being acting like everything will go always go wrong for you wont help, you can still improve for the future. I think that is a great message if you are sad because of this song.
Ahhh no, thanks
Valentines day hitting hard as usual
I can’t even remember what she looks like. But her name, that’s something I’ll never forget. The less you remember the less it’ll torment you 😊
Its 2 am and with my lights off, I turned the brightness of my phone up and put it on my bed. While lying down I watched how the light changed at the beat on the roof.
It was cool...
Be careful with your eyes tho.
Ive been seeing a trend in the comments. Memories. I think thats a beautiful thing no matter how their story went, everyone had something in common and it was memories of something better
I will share something that happened to me. 2 year relationship and first one. We broke up and the first morning waking up with no one telling me good morning and excitedly talking to you. Devastating
why must you hurt me in this way?
i forever alone.
I don't quite understand the meaning of this song, but I think my emotions do.
Its sadder to have never experienced this type of love, than to have and to have lost it.
I've forgotten the sound of her voice, the style of her hair, the color of her eyes and the smell of her perfume. Yet no matter how much I try, I cannot forget her smile. And how it washed all my pain and troubles away. No amount of alcohol, drugs or women cannot compare to her and how she made me feel. It has been more than 5 years and yet she still haunts me in my dreams but I welcome them because the mere drop of happiness I felt around her outweighed all of the troubles of life and made me feel happy, and I'm terrified that I will never feel like this again.
No matter how foggy his mind will get,he will never forget the look on her face
Underrated album.
I am so surprised to find it like this and here on YT like this.
My mom bought the album for herself when I was 16. She played it during a road trip. I was wayyy Into Muse, deathcore, dubstep and experimental music. But this album really struck me as just.... good. It's just very good.
I think this track/album is VERY underrated fr.
It's liberating to truly realize that all emotions, pain and worry exist only in your head.
Midnight youtube video belike
Till you can only remember her and your favorite brand of bear
God I wish I had a girl to make memories with
this stabs me. I am an Algerian American. I went to algeria and meet a very pretty girl and we started talking(her father couldn't know but here mother did) and after I went back to the US we called and texted for months. Last message I read from here was,"I hope we can meet when you come back, inshallah" and then the next day she had unfriended me, my messages were pending. My cousins who had got us together all call and could not reach her. And the one that knows her no longer goes to the same school as her. I think her father found out. Its been 2 months now and we talked for 4. :(
I actually really was in a bad place because of it because I was already feeling down and that killed me. My grades when down and the only reason my father did not explode was because I got 1450 in the SAT and was accepted into college with a schoolship and a lot of money to spare(if only she stayed hehe). And after a month of holding it in, I burst in to tears in front of my dad and explained it to him...and then he started tearing up same thing happened but worse. He know a french girl who stayed in Algeria in college. They were together for 3 and half years. she would sleep at his house in another room. he never touched her but everyone expected them to get married. But then she left and never spoke to him and my dad went into a terrible time in his life for 2 decades. He join the army to get away from women for a time and he almost fell out of his religion. The worst part...He never said to me but I can tell...He doesn't even remember what she looked like, he just wanted her and a dozen good real genuine friends, and a son could not fill the hold she left.
But now he feels like he owes it to me not have me experience the same thing he went through and told me," don't dwell on some stupid women that left with out a good bye and never gave you a chance, she will get the fool she deserves. expesally those college girls you will meet, they just let themselves get ran through,I KNOW IT I WAS IN AMERICAN COLLEGES! If you can't find a good one, WE will find her, because that is something a father should do because, I don't want you to be bitter like me." lol. I love my dad, He was angry.
Damn it, I love him too after that advice. What a solid dude 👏🏿
thanks for your story!
I just wanted to say guys, I found another Algerian Girlfriend, she lifted my soul.
من اجمل ما قرات 😥
The feeling between sadness and happiness is what this song given to
I don't know which is more painful, having these memories or longing to experience them joy pain and all.
The moment before death where all you can see are the memories of her quickly fading...
Since everyone is sharing their experiences,i might aswell share mine.
I was in grade 5,i was very lonely and shy person and couldn’t make friends because i struggle at talking,and this one classmate of mine has a twin brother and for some reason we really became close and for the first time that loneliness and shyness just disappeared. And another year passed, we became best friends and classmates at the same time. But this time he met another classmate and started to talk more and less to me,at first i didn’t mind but at that time i started to suffer in depression and since then we never talked much. Even if we still do,that feeling of being happy is nothing compared the first time ive experienced it. Years passed im now in high school and we never talked to each other anymore but i still missed being able to spend time together again and the feeling of closeness. Though i have new friends but they never captured that feeling of closeness unlike my first best friend did,still liked them though.
Of course this is reality and i have to move on so i never stressed out about it.
It’s ok, you’ll get there someday
Hey, guys, it might be a weird one. In short I am an art student that I shared their feelings and have a ask for all of the people in here.
If you don't have the time to read it all I ask you to only read the part from ❗that emote onwards.
I will preface by thanking all of the people, the goats that created the edits, the animaton, the song itself and all the people that are willing to share their experiences, feelings in here. (Yup, this message is reposted in all of the spaces listed in the description). It really helped me when feeling like I was sort of hopeless, in some sort of loop, kind of lost with college life and with life in general. I had a problem where I was basically lost, but didn't wanted to burden others with myself (as being honest would mean, being irasional, hard to be around, or just making others worry). It's hard to put it into words.
That being said It helped be not only in an emotional way. I am an art student and I feel I was in a loop of wanting to make art, or things in order to please others, being kind of honest, kind of lying about my state of mind for almost a year. Listening back to this song, as I listened to it somewhere around a year ago, reminded me the times when I had this strong feeling, this thing that I couldn't explain but was the drive for the things that I were creating.
In other words back then I had a strong sense of purpose in my art that I lost somewhere along the way. The past memories of how I made all those works that ment something personal to me, became a burden that I couldn't let go. But the time flew by and I had to make another one's for a new semester. Don't really know why, but It was the moment when I jumped into habit of "covering it up", of pretending that I knew what I was doing, that I had things figured out. It kind of killed me, not in the real sense, but in the sense that I lost something really important to me.
I am 22 years old, and this year I will have to defend my diploma. And that thought is fucking scary. I don't even know what it will be about, will it be a video? A photograph? A sculpture? Maybe all of those? Where I will exhibit this? What I will write in a text part? What should I read for explaining my feeling, my work? What is that feeling even is?
Damn, don't know when was the last time when I said my feelings in such a raw way.
Anyways, I am thankful to all of the people that where willing to share their feelings, it gave me a courage to be honest with myself, it was some sort of safe space I feel as I can still be sort of anonymous.
❗That being said I kind of have a ask for all the people that are willing to share their experiences. If you are willing, and experienced lying, soft lying or anything like that because you wanted to cover it up, to not be a burden to others with your own problems,
could you write there what you said to other people to not make them worry about you?
You can share it as a general thing you say (description), a exact quote, in your own language, translated to english, in any way that gives you a strong emotional response, or a image of a situation you found yourself in.
I want to make a video where I will read those lies with my own voice while covering them up. Don't know yet how I will make it but I feel passionate about that idea, and I am willing to try it, even if it fails. Also it's important to me that it will be all from that community, as I feel it is a place where a lot of people can connect about their problems no matter where they are.
Once, thanks to y'all for creating such a space and remember no matter what you are going through you are not alone. Love ya.
Love the way you placed transitions to make her seem more animated and smooth.
Dammit, all these edits of this particular song has made me feel memories and feelings that aren’t mine
she has some serious scoliosis
You know what, the more I listen to it the more the chorus make me thinks of a parent talking about her child
se esfuerzan en hacer este vídeo cada vez más doloroso...
Y lo bueno (o lo malo) es que lo consiguen 👊😔
Busquen ir a la iglesia mejor pibes
I have no idea why everyone is talking about breakups here, but this song kinda fire
All things fade away
"all those moments... Will be lost, in time. Like, tears in the rain."
As someone who hasn't been in relationships, I found that this video meant something much different from others, and just as beautiful. I mostly think of a good relationship that hit tragedy when the girl dies. These are the memories of the other person keep playing in their head on loop as they move on in life, missing her dearly. Memories blur gently as they grow older and older, the focal point of the memory being the girl they can never forget. Its melancholic and gut-renching in my eyes, it's how felt. Also I'm high so that would affect the emotional powerfulness I find in it.
The original video found me in a very vulnerable moment of my life... this song means a lot to me... it got me trough things nobody would experience ever again, nobody will read this so i feel free to say the truth... i went back into my ex boyfriend arms after hearing this song... it broke my heart the fact that those moments were going to be lost to be forgotten so when i will be a grown man i will miss them, i just couldnt bear the pain about it, i was, desolated, no friends, no family, nothing, my only friend and communication was liam my boyfriend that helped me carry on after a long depression and the covid... after that things fell off and i decided the break appart with him... but later that year i came back to his arms, i felt lonely and i felt lik if i have abandoned him, even after the things he did i decided to forgive him, but now i can see that he clearly isnt going to change, he is breaking me appart piece by piece and i dont know what to do
go ahead, cut all ties with him, it does not do you nor will it do you good, the more time passes the longer the damage will be
The two will continue to hurt each other more... someone must put an end to everything
I.....all I can say is try to truly think what you want. Do you really want to stay? Do you see any future? It may be better to talk to a professional for help instead of some 16 year old, but it just sounds like staying with him any longer will just continue to break you down.
@@-arawsk4470 I know that... I truly want to do that, but I dont know how... we met 5 years ago and we've been together 4 years by now... he just doesn't want to understand I want to have space and my own time, if we can't be together I can't force it... if I don't want to use my entire day to be with him is something wrong and he just cries about it and I feel horrible... I want to believe he actually cries but every reaction is if he was a kid... and I can't stand that... I just want him to be normal and that sounds horrible and I know it too... I just want to end it but I don't want to break his heart...
@@SandiaOfficial You have to. And you already know you do. But realizing it is the hardest part. Do what you need to in order to take care of yourself, we've got your back 🧡
I'm forgetting the details: I forgot the smell, the laugh, the touch, the tenderness of those days, yet they still haunt me somehow, like if she just left.
And the road is still long and difficult, and I'm so, so much tired...
Fuck man, I feel the same way.
I will forever keep this song hidden from my friends, I not ready to let them see this side of me.
-Another thing-
I never had someone like this, ever time I think “who would I want to wake up to in bed, see walking down the isle” and I can’t seem to know who.
I’m scared and sad this songs makes me feel like I already lost that special someone even when I didn’t have them