The Life and Death of Abdinasir Dirie (2010) - the fifth estate

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  • In the 1990s, Abdinasir Dirie's parents fled civil war in Somalia for the apparent peace and safety of Canada. Years later, G Baby, as his family called him, made his own way from the rough streets of Toronto's Jamestown Crescent neighbourhood to the oilfields of Alberta looking for riches and good fortune. There, he died and his murder remains unsolved, like so many other murders of young Somali-Canadians. The extra twist in this case: some members of his family are convinced they know who committed the crime.
    Hear from the family of Abdinasir Dirie as the fifth estate explores the searing pain of their struggle and peels back the layers of a story even more complicated than anyone originally expected.
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  • @SocialStudiess
    @SocialStudiess Před 2 lety +67

    I'm an Eritrean-American. I haven't known too many Somalians growing up. The ones I have met, I can't help but feel some type of kinship to because they look like me. You can't ignore a person who physically resembles half of your family, whether he or she is of the same nation as you or the same faith. Any Somalian I have come across I've done my best to push them, promote them and remind them of the contribution they can provide to the world. I have been doing that myself by taking my talents to the education system. I am near completion of becoming a high school geography teacher.
    A lot of the reason I went that way is because of what I feel I can contribute to future generations about where my ancestors came from. The area I came from is just a hop, skip and jump away from where Somalians come from. I hope now you can see why when I do run into Somalians, I am quick to suggest a career in education. First, teach yourself (going to school), then be the person to each other(becoming the teacher) God bless this person's family and to all Somalians as a whole. Eritrean's got your backs Somalia!

    • @lobsterbalelegesse9919
      @lobsterbalelegesse9919 Před rokem +2

      This is why u need to be careful about being CARNAL, sometimes it means nothing. U need to critically think and never back down. Many Somalis do this in Minnesota, USA too.

    • @hafsoegal768
      @hafsoegal768 Před rokem

      @@lobsterbalelegesse9919 some people abscess somali people 😂

  • @clbf6006
    @clbf6006 Před 4 lety +44

    The irony that his parents left Somalia to escape war, meanwhile their kids become immersed in gang and drug culture, now their son is dead.

    • @miss_pearl
      @miss_pearl Před 2 lety +2

      Jumping from the pan to the fire, sad indeed.

  • @gojosxtoru
    @gojosxtoru Před 6 lety +572

    For a friend who says he's going out to get some food and then returns hours later.... How fishy is that.

    • @globalspiritualrevolutionmedia
      @globalspiritualrevolutionmedia Před 5 lety +76

      The so- called friend set up this young man!
      Calls 911 and then Flees?
      This was a set-up!

    • @yahelyasharal3261
      @yahelyasharal3261 Před 5 lety +18

      That's what I said. His "friend" set him up. mm, mm, m

    • @Passivity211
      @Passivity211 Před 5 lety +37

      He was about to go home to canada! He had a lot of money to take back with him- and his so called friend knew it; that's why he brought him there. smdh

    • @rudiesan_89
      @rudiesan_89 Před 5 lety +28

      His friend obviously might haven't wanted him physically harmed, but I'm 99% certain he consigned the robbery. Growing up in an underprivileged environment.. I've seen these exact set ups countless times.

    • @fatumangoni317
      @fatumangoni317 Před 5 lety +4

      kookiemonster, 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 I think you got that right after his friend left the house and the other gangs stayed in this house I believe he’s friend that took the backpack knows about his death I believe because when he left the shooting take place and when he came back to the house the his friend he was already gone. It’s very sad and heartbreaking to be honest with you I felt sorry for the families! ✌🏻🇨🇦💗❤️💜💙💕😘

  • @traveltooindia
    @traveltooindia Před 4 lety +103

    Somali women are so pretty 😍😍😍

  • @melissab4710
    @melissab4710 Před 5 lety +78

    This is such an underrated channel.
    Should have millions of subscribers.

  • @hayaglamazonluxe
    @hayaglamazonluxe Před 7 lety +602

    Abdi seemed like he was trying to be a gangster and ran into trouble very quick.
    The sister in law seems grounded and like she cared about him
    Iman, his sister, is CLUELESS. What man pays for a trip to Jamaica for 2 WOMEN unless it is about BANGING YOU or pushing drugs?
    I can't.

    • @paisleyprincess7996
      @paisleyprincess7996 Před 6 lety +65

      Haya Glamazon The sister in law seems totally grounded but she's no fool. Of course she knew he was slinging. The sister and her friend BOTH knew they were going to mule dope...

    • @hayaglamazonluxe
      @hayaglamazonluxe Před 5 lety +16

      Replying a year later to your comment but yes the SIL was no fool for sure.

    • @caasholikeyou8434
      @caasholikeyou8434 Před 5 lety +9

      They didn't know his siblings I knew him since he was 8 years old he was cute smart funny I shock 3 days I wasn't expecting

    • @alexjames2510
      @alexjames2510 Před 5 lety +37

      Haya Glamazon No Jamaican is paying for a trip to bang😂😂 they were clearly mules for some dope

    • @thephenomenon6258
      @thephenomenon6258 Před 5 lety +7

      Haya Glamazon is this two girls who run and went to Jamaica. I remember that. So sad

  • @oryku4139
    @oryku4139 Před rokem +46

    As a Rwandese person who survived a genocide I can even imagine the pain the parents had to go through. We all came here for a safer life. Getting that call about your son being gunned down in the streets Ohh my God. May God protect our children's and heal the hearts of his loved ones.

  • @JS8420
    @JS8420 Před 6 lety +124

    HIS FRIEND SET HIM UP

  • @mobzzcrak
    @mobzzcrak Před 7 lety +454

    Bruh every somali parent esp mothers thinks their kids are angels and whatever bad they do is from friends n peers n blame friends instead of disciplining em

    • @am5790
      @am5790 Před 4 lety +35

      every mother think her son is a saint what do you expect...that is a natural disposition and all mothers of all nationality generally think well of their children. simpleton you are

    • @am5790
      @am5790 Před 4 lety +9

      @Deen Bloger and what do non-somali mothers of delinquents and criminals think of their children?

    • @am5790
      @am5790 Před 4 lety +12

      @Deen Bloger and other races and nationalities dont? I think re-framing the argument is not serving you right...easy to see thru your argument your bases and issues you have lol
      I think you know the truth and I will leave it as that...Dont worry about Somali mothers and worry about your mothers and lets mind our business within. bye

    • @d3rtmcg3rt53
      @d3rtmcg3rt53 Před 4 lety +16

      All parents do that, blame it on the friends. I would tell my parents how do you know I'm not the one getting my friends to do the things we do? Lol you should've seen the looks on their faces when I would say it. Even than they would be in denial. So most parents blame the other kids, no one wants to admit their child is a trouble maker.

    • @djdangerorlando5297
      @djdangerorlando5297 Před 4 lety +3

      So true

  • @lbharles
    @lbharles Před 7 lety +633

    I think the friend set him up

    • @ladyj7517
      @ladyj7517 Před 7 lety +46

      I agree...... it's obvious.

    • @SCARLEMSCARS
      @SCARLEMSCARS Před 6 lety +73

      I know right! Conviently leaves when they kill him. Calls 911 but doesn't even stay. He probably tipped those guys to say there was drugs and cash in the apartment..... Or maybe I've watched too many First 48 lol... But something tells me he could have even been the one to pull the trigger.... No friends in this type of lifestyle

    • @AndyinMTL
      @AndyinMTL Před 6 lety +8

      oh big time!

    • @vlasskullkimber4569
      @vlasskullkimber4569 Před 6 lety +9

      You can bet ya bottom dollor on that !!

    • @nyoung7333
      @nyoung7333 Před 6 lety +6

      That part!

  • @yacqubsharif6575
    @yacqubsharif6575 Před rokem +11

    “Are you really that naive” such a nice way of putting it 😂😂😂

  • @Jabbaro123
    @Jabbaro123 Před 6 lety +93

    The projects is a trap so get out and never look back!

    • @GodFirst701
      @GodFirst701 Před 4 lety +3

      It ain’t the projects it’s the people in the projects 💯There’s a hood everywhere you go no where is safe some good people come up out the projects just gotta be the smart wise one out the projects 💯

    • @irunthestreets
      @irunthestreets Před 3 lety +7

      wonder why they call the projects the projects because its 'a project'' ... an experiment and were in it... only as objects.

    • @Jabbaro123
      @Jabbaro123 Před 3 lety

      @@irunthestreets I agree.

    • @Jabbaro123
      @Jabbaro123 Před 3 lety +1

      @@GodFirst701 Your right.

    • @prettylady6013
      @prettylady6013 Před 2 lety

      True. But it’s luxury compared to Somalia

  • @Bonjourviram5
    @Bonjourviram5 Před 7 lety +147

    Kids who grow up in a strict home with parents who can't conform to their new environments are usually the most gullible of all. Somali parents also need to open up their eyes and quit the blame game. Each one of them believes their child is an angel yet they run with bad crowds. There's a reason birds of a feather flock together.

    • @zinab2blessa
      @zinab2blessa Před 6 lety +5

      Layla W Agree. And it's equally challenging for the parents as well. The environment pushes the children into things that are far away from the values that the parents have, so these parents worry for them.

    • @boobyhill6921
      @boobyhill6921 Před 6 lety +7

      Yazsy1 Thank You fam, parents hardship is back home here with peace is heaven they don't understand when your kids grow up in housing it's a different mentality of survival. I was caught with a gun in '08 as a youngin and when police called my parents to court for bail hearing they were shocked, they never knew about me being robbed and stuck up with a gun by Jamaicans. I'm glad I turned out safe but my suggestion to my parents to move after that happened still didn't work, we fail to believe our kids go through their own struggle. I know Pakistani friends who were just as poor but didn't grow up in housing they turned up good too. It's hard to survive in such a violent area where you will definitely be victimized.

  • @stormyweather3859
    @stormyweather3859 Před 7 lety +482

    I find it appalling that 31 young men (no matter their color or creed) are dead and yet it still remains unsolved...even if they were into selling drugs they are still human beings and a mother's child...no parent should have to feel that their child's life doesn't matter...bc the fact is that ALL lives matter...

    • @pommiebears
      @pommiebears Před 6 lety +27

      Stormy Weather people won’t “snitch”.....so, they go unsolved. The mentality has to change, don’t you agree? These 31 people made a choice to run the gauntlet for money.....do you think the others that are doing the same care? They are the ones doing the killing! It’s a vacuum, and as long as people are willing to be seduced by this lifestyle choice, it will only get worse!

    • @helenclark7876
      @helenclark7876 Před 5 lety +1

      when we choose to use somethings wrong inside, if we are enabled to stop the abuse new and better things start to grow.

    • @mcBaronGonzalez
      @mcBaronGonzalez Před 5 lety +4

      I'm black Latino and we were working construction but living in downtown EDM frm 2012-2015
      so when we start talking about joining the oil wave we were very strongly recommend no to go up there. It was "something" going on with Africans ,it looked like a civilians or G-natives had chase-squad on them. I went by myself anyways so I'm telling you it wasn't about drugs dealing on Gcreeping cause the hierarchy on place (MC) still run fortMac and doesn't allow any deep conflict between it's different foot soldiers factions.

    • @blackbull222
      @blackbull222 Před 4 lety +2

      You have spoken the truth it is very sad it’s not fair it really did break my heart like we know each other

    • @samatar1025
      @samatar1025 Před 4 lety +6

      @Green Greener Racism and Prejudice at its finest .

  • @jrhinktown9171
    @jrhinktown9171 Před 6 lety +38

    I moved out of Toronto in late 2011 i couldn't be any more happy love the small towns and country life no gangs no crimes where I live now

  • @puffywooowooo4367
    @puffywooowooo4367 Před 4 lety +68

    Oh come on...the sister knew from the start the trip was about smuggling drugs...no, shes not that naive . . ..smh

    • @universsally
      @universsally Před 3 lety +6

      They’re both liars !

    • @ambermackay2312
      @ambermackay2312 Před 3 lety +3

      I agree. The girls were definitely aware of the drugs, they had no any other options but to comply with whatever those guys were asking for.

    • @xoxo9354
      @xoxo9354 Před rokem

      Yr wrong some people reali are that naive...I lived a very sheltered life growing up I wudnt have known back then..my rose colored glasses has obviously slipped now..never dabled in any drugs or alcohol so wudnt have known this was a thing

  • @jasonmarshall5498
    @jasonmarshall5498 Před 7 lety +445

    So the mum is a single parent, works hard and gets very tired. Where was the father all that time? Without a father figure the mother would struggle on her own.

    • @jazb290
      @jazb290 Před 7 lety +89

      The daughter said that the father wasn't very supportive and when they separated the mom went back to school and became a nurse.

    • @FatBlackPussycat
      @FatBlackPussycat Před 7 lety +78

      I was really impressed when she said that. Using the opportunities offered by her new home country to fulfil some ambitions, and improve her education and her life. Before the programme took such a tragic turn, I had a big smile on my face at that point.

    • @saarrrcamscms226
      @saarrrcamscms226 Před 6 lety +11

      Happy New lslamic Year if the fathers are abusive scum, then yeah they should be kicked to the curb. The daughters are doing well. It's a problem with the boys... as per usual

    • @ibrahimmohamed5313
      @ibrahimmohamed5313 Před 6 lety +12

      jason marshall thats the problem in somali communities mate there is no Father figure in there lives.

    • @dekakahin
      @dekakahin Před 6 lety +16

      true where is the somali fathers probaly ch
      ewing khat

  • @vegassummer4116
    @vegassummer4116 Před 7 lety +128

    That was random...a Snake inside of a police car 😂

  • @islandgirl9479
    @islandgirl9479 Před 5 lety +60

    First of all who puts fish in a suitcase to travel to another country???

  • @i.cherryblossom.i7799
    @i.cherryblossom.i7799 Před 4 lety +28

    Imagine running from death in Somalia to come to die in Canada it’s just not fair .

  • @DK1LLA
    @DK1LLA Před 7 lety +419

    Abdi was in the drug business. He was a small time runner similar to a pawn. He made the equivalent to a McDonalds employee but living tax free. It wasn't hard to give his mother money for car rent or some low income housing monthly funds. He got shot for robbing another drug dealer. Its a dog eat dog world. No one wants to talk, so this case will never be solved.
    rip.
    this happens everywhere everyday.

    • @hayaglamazonluxe
      @hayaglamazonluxe Před 7 lety +35

      You basically summed it up.

    • @mohamedfarah4866
      @mohamedfarah4866 Před 7 lety +5

      DK1LLA couldn't agree with you more

    • @zme5485
      @zme5485 Před 7 lety +32

      DK1LLA well he got what he deserves, roping and drug dealing and thieving?
      and his family is crying wolf on camera, they should hang their heads whit shame

    • @atlsweet
      @atlsweet Před 7 lety +79

      zahra suleiman how Dare You! Who gives you the right to judge? Sure you have done dirt in your life as well... smdh.

    • @zme5485
      @zme5485 Před 7 lety +16

      Stephanie Woodruff GOD gave me right to judge fool, I'm not goin to defend evil actions, you must a flipping bad mom who son is drug dealing and rubbing people money too

  • @DZETube
    @DZETube Před 7 lety +108

    People do not understand that living in metro housing/poor communities strips away a persons basic rights and allows them to be oppressed. People constantly perceive priority neighborhoods of being full of people that are lazy, uneducated and freeloaders. It's that type of thinking that makes people hostile in the first place. Imagine you were applying for a job and the employer assumed because you came from the hood that you were a thug, therefor he doesn't call you in for an interview. People are just trying to survive in this country and it's not easy caring for family when you are living on 11.25/hour.

    • @helenclark7876
      @helenclark7876 Před 5 lety +3

      If you dont appreciate the way you are being treated go out there and change it. What you are describing is stereotyping people. Some have enough spirit to think outside the box, and strategys along with rights can lead to happier outcomes. You need to be unbiased in how you are trying to interpret these conditions. Acceptance is a hard thing to find, but when a young person chooses to break the law usually they will end up being punished by the law. Here in Canada if a law applys to one then it applys to all.

    • @onetwo2434
      @onetwo2434 Před 3 lety +4

      How did the mother go from being a cleaner to becoming a nurse (strong accent and everything) if nobody in community housing can get opportunities? Opportunities are the there ... you have young kids that grow up hearing gangsta rap and want to live that life. You traffic some drugs and get paid far more than working a 9-5 and these youth know that. However, if the cops don't get you then your rivals will.

    • @slayer2608
      @slayer2608 Před 2 lety +4

      Don’t make excuses for these sorts of people bro my family is Somali my mum raised me and 3 brothers in 12,000 and live in the most violant area of the city. My sister is gonna be a lawyer and has the grades I’m a biomed student and my brother is doing computer science all will 70-100k no excuses your choice

  • @justdej
    @justdej Před 4 lety +54

    I can't help but feel like he got killed BECAUSE the sister and her friend got caught up in Jamaica. It all just seems too coincidental to me.

    • @helenakut4551
      @helenakut4551 Před 4 lety +6

      De'Jah Y'vonne I totally agree, the timing was all too perfect... it fits all together.

    • @muniramir1626
      @muniramir1626 Před 4 lety +4

      yea ...it make sense

    • @caasholikeyou8434
      @caasholikeyou8434 Před 4 lety +5

      His sister now she is nursing with 2 kids get married her life is beautiful but they lose another was killed 3 years ago

    • @muniramir1626
      @muniramir1626 Před 4 lety +2

      @@caasholikeyou8434 poor family ☹☹

    • @caasholikeyou8434
      @caasholikeyou8434 Před 4 lety

      @Moe Kawach i know this family i know him him very well i don't know about drugs

  • @carlstanton2550
    @carlstanton2550 Před 3 lety +138

    This family is in denial. He was definitely involved in something illegal, whether it was drugs/robbery /whatever, he was making decent money pretty quickly. The way he was moving, the circle he was in. I've seen it happen with my own eyes, I've refused to believe it too. It does not mean he was a bad person, he was just caught in loop that's hard to get out of. They're either extremely naive or they're refusing to accept it because they think it will hurt their view of him (or something along those lines).
    He was obviously a good kid, who cared about the people he loved, and tried to show that by giving money, but that cash did not come from a legitimate job.
    It's the same here in the uk, the somali boys are running drugs and moving in gangs. The one's I know are good guys, loyal, but not to be messed with. And their parents are the same way, they think their kids are working legitimate jobs and that its their friends who get them in trouble.
    No matter what he was doing though, he did not deserve to die.

    • @laurelcharlton3701
      @laurelcharlton3701 Před 2 lety +10

      Well said, the daughter is in a mess too, very sad all round

    • @nasirakhtar1233
      @nasirakhtar1233 Před 2 lety +4

      @@laurelcharlton3701 sure your kids are perfect

    • @laurelcharlton3701
      @laurelcharlton3701 Před 2 lety +10

      @@nasirakhtar1233 this has nothing to do with me or my family. All I did was agree the previous comment and stated it was a sad situation. How you got to be so petty from that is on you. Have a great day 😊

    • @keeshjones637
      @keeshjones637 Před 2 lety

      Amen

    • @warsamaosman0894
      @warsamaosman0894 Před 2 lety +4

      you're 100% correct. my cousin did the same thing. and now he's gone.

  • @frankiesalif1907
    @frankiesalif1907 Před 7 lety +237

    This is so sad but his family needs to understand that not every angel has wings.

  • @SuperCastilloe
    @SuperCastilloe Před 7 lety +549

    Sad story regardless of who's right or wrong, I feel the mothers pain 💔

    • @AndyinMTL
      @AndyinMTL Před 6 lety +4

      thank you

    • @lifeinnairobery6756
      @lifeinnairobery6756 Před 5 lety +6

      Best comment so far...
      I love you...

    • @jackycook64
      @jackycook64 Před 5 lety +11

      It is very sad. I hurt for the family. He clearly had a great heart even if he did get off track. Praying his family can find peace and justice. Hope all families that lost loved ones can find peace, answers, and justice.

    • @fatumangoni317
      @fatumangoni317 Před 5 lety +2

      Emmy Lizzeth. Yep it’s a heart broken to be honest very sad to hear this.

    • @fatumangoni317
      @fatumangoni317 Před 5 lety +5

      I actually have a friends from Somalian, But they always fighting with each other and they’ll never gets along with one another at all some of them drinks alcohols and going to the clubs making creating problems for their families, imagine you can see them throwing dangerous things on the floor caring bad things around their families like mother and father and since then my family and I stopped visiting them but we still saying hi to each other’s ✌🏾✌🏻💗🇨🇦🇰🇪🇺🇬😘❤️💗💜💕

  • @brandyyolidio4213
    @brandyyolidio4213 Před 6 lety +35

    His sister is BEAUTIFUL!!!

  • @devonitasayswa
    @devonitasayswa Před 4 lety +117

    The "gangster rap" playing in the background is distracting and making this kind of goofy... 🙄🙄

    • @brandijeter1785
      @brandijeter1785 Před 4 lety +3

      I know...like wtf

    • @Blinkgirlsareperfect
      @Blinkgirlsareperfect Před 4 lety +16

      @Marjorie Tillman notice in the white docs they get sad classical music .....seems sort of stereotypical to me towards the black ones

    • @kolasoljet4697
      @kolasoljet4697 Před 4 lety +1

      devonitasayswa lmaoooo 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 very dam goofy

    • @veryboy4662
      @veryboy4662 Před 4 lety +2

      The music make me sick I can't even listen too 😶😶 Somali parents are speaking out of their heart but oh disrespect this not 2pac culture

    • @anniehoping5967
      @anniehoping5967 Před 3 lety +1

      i agree....no reason for it...

  • @hayaglamazonluxe
    @hayaglamazonluxe Před 7 lety +286

    This story is absolutely BARKING MAD. You cannot make this up. Parents escape war torn Somalia, one of the most dangerous countries in the world. Children grow up to become lay-abouts - the son trying to be a gangster, pathetic when he should have gone to school, and the daughter selfish, naive and stupid.
    Abdi's death did not have to happen. Stay away from idiot gang members, stay in school and stay focused on creating successful legal businesses that generate income that can give your family a solid foundation.
    Iman is absolutely pathetic!
    The sister in law is truly kind and loving. God bless her

    • @mahameddhimbil1561
      @mahameddhimbil1561 Před 7 lety +5

      K Tibaijuka you are wonderful person thanks God bless you.

    • @jenitathompson2823
      @jenitathompson2823 Před 7 lety +1

      K Tibaijuka t

    • @hassanomar3489
      @hassanomar3489 Před 7 lety

      K Tibaijuka thanks God

    • @greveeen
      @greveeen Před 5 lety +3

      Haya Glamazon Completely agree with you, sharing the same thoughts

    • @anisazam9329
      @anisazam9329 Před 5 lety +6

      But she said the dumbest remarks when she said Abdi doesn't deserve whatever happened to him!! When a person plays with fire with his bare hands, he ought to hurt, isn't so?

  • @darcylkc
    @darcylkc Před 7 lety +311

    His sister is so beautiful! I'd worry too.

    • @JL0ndon
      @JL0ndon Před 7 lety +59

      darcylkc she has such a unique look I think she could definitely model. She reminds me of Iman.

    • @darcylkc
      @darcylkc Před 7 lety +13

      J.London I agree!

    • @ramrodou812
      @ramrodou812 Před 7 lety +42

      so is the sis-in-law

    • @rebeccaabel4589
      @rebeccaabel4589 Před 7 lety +11

      darcylkc Sicilian woman are beautiful

    • @andreilaxa1057
      @andreilaxa1057 Před 7 lety +3

      darcylkc i dont think so...lmao

  • @aricali1056
    @aricali1056 Před 6 lety +90

    The friend deffnietly set him up!

  • @maestech8605
    @maestech8605 Před 6 lety +32

    his friend set him up, the way he left is fishy, he left to give those people room to do what they came for; with friends like that you don't need enemies

  • @HeersareMedia
    @HeersareMedia Před 7 lety +218

    Somali community in Toronto should be seriously take part the stopping of this problem.

    • @MrGohan8000
      @MrGohan8000 Před 7 lety +9

      Until they have respect for each other and help *each other* no matter what the person has done. It won't happen

    • @MrGohan8000
      @MrGohan8000 Před 7 lety

      Not all of them Peter

    • @Noa-hs6qy
      @Noa-hs6qy Před 6 lety +4

      +colette s Sadly you're right Colette.Thanks to Trudeau, Canada will be destroyed and look like Sweden in no time. What a shame!

    • @acajudi100
      @acajudi100 Před 6 lety

      Heersare Muxumed Chicago also.

    • @roxanelafrance1981
      @roxanelafrance1981 Před 6 lety +7

      Heersare Muxumed in other parts of Canada, where black people don't live in black neighborhoods, there's no gangs and very little violence. Black neighborhoods is self segregation and it always becomes a ghetto because people keep their old ways from back in their countries of origin, and I'm not talking about food and music...... I lived in it in Montreal, but where I live now, there's no self segregation, no gangs, no violence...

  • @temtaliciousserrot1651
    @temtaliciousserrot1651 Před 7 lety +39

    if you think running the streets and thinking every move you make is safe please,think again

  • @MrWatchmen759
    @MrWatchmen759 Před 5 lety +86

    This is what happens when there is no family structure. Single mother working alone and father ain’t present

    • @mickey41991
      @mickey41991 Před 4 lety +14

      I guess you didn’t watch his father was around. The problem was the discrimination. They didn’t want to hire them because of their skin color or religion so they sold drugs to get by. It was mentioned that because he had no accent he was able to get interviews but when they saw him in person they told him the job wasn’t available.

    • @gazellecountryside9269
      @gazellecountryside9269 Před 4 lety

      Mickey right

    • @MrWatchmen759
      @MrWatchmen759 Před 3 lety +1

      Nyree Harris um hey whatever fits ur narrative

  • @bliss2141
    @bliss2141 Před 4 lety +68

    This was heartbreaking. I can feel the tears welling up in my eyes. My heart aches for the family. The fact that this stuff happens like every other day in the Somali community is very sad. We as a Somali community need to do better. We are so much better than this. Why are we killing each other? I just don’t understand. We’re given the chance to escape from a war torn country only to wage a war against each other in another? We can’t go on like this. We need to stop wallahi.

    • @abadirzulu5249
      @abadirzulu5249 Před 2 lety +1

      They better repent and turn back to LORD JESUS CHRIST Allah- satan got nothing for somalis.

    • @jasjohnson8353
      @jasjohnson8353 Před 2 lety +1

      As someone who represents Christ how can you even say that? That’s was so mean .

    • @abadirzulu5249
      @abadirzulu5249 Před 2 lety

      @@jasjohnson8353 brother are you religious or do you know somalis better then me?

    • @stacylitteral9293
      @stacylitteral9293 Před rokem

      Aiisiaidiwieiwkeieiwiea

    • @oryku4139
      @oryku4139 Před rokem +1

      Well said my sister! God help us!

  • @MyAssefa
    @MyAssefa Před 7 lety +111

    This is so wrong.... poverty makes you a modern day slave 🙁

    • @helenclark7876
      @helenclark7876 Před 5 lety +2

      I dont agree at all. You may feel like a slave but in fact you are not. We are only servants to one living God.

    • @merilupa9942
      @merilupa9942 Před 4 lety +5

      Get a job and work hard. Not impossible you know

    • @shawnbarry4759
      @shawnbarry4759 Před 4 lety

      Jah love to my people in Canada,hope that they can stop the violence and come together

  • @tammiepowell-bishop6499
    @tammiepowell-bishop6499 Před 4 lety +32

    The family is in denial, father completely dropped the ball, I hope they find some kind of peace if possible.

    • @jabarimutabaruka365
      @jabarimutabaruka365 Před 3 lety +2

      They was raise by their mother so how the father dropped the ball. They got divorced, he didn't abandoned them.

    • @bismillahshabazz363
      @bismillahshabazz363 Před 2 lety +3

      No one dropped the ball. He graduated high school, however he made some poor decisions that can’t be blamed on parents when you’ve taught your kids right from wrong. A lot of foreigners are ignorant to the ways of life in other societies because where they come from they live by different traditions and the. They’re kids adapt to western society way of life and some let go of their values that they had when they were in their own country

  • @kiyab3802
    @kiyab3802 Před 2 lety +17

    This is so sad, but the sister is absolutely stunning

  • @jenniferpower2895
    @jenniferpower2895 Před 5 lety +149

    What I dont understand is.... why get into gangs and drugs in the beginning? Canada is a country where you can actually be something

    • @annette8141
      @annette8141 Před 5 lety +31

      You see a chance of easy money & he went for it. Its all about who you surround yourself with.

    • @tahamysterious4302
      @tahamysterious4302 Před 5 lety +15

      Hope you are doing well.....simply, it starts with family...they will shape you whether to right path or to the wrong path regardless of the surroundings.......if you are well shaped, then you can stand against the surroundings whenever and wherever otherwise you just have to expect a deadly ending..... Simple

    • @annette8141
      @annette8141 Před 5 lety +1

      @@tahamysterious4302 awhe thank you!! I'm doing well, hope your doing well as well! I love how the writing looks! I would like to get a tattoo on me in this language. Can you spell my name in that language ??

    • @tahamysterious4302
      @tahamysterious4302 Před 5 lety +2

      @@annette8141 what's your name?..... A tattoo?..... I thought you want to learn the language instead of having it on your skin.....

    • @annette8141
      @annette8141 Před 5 lety +2

      @@tahamysterious4302 is that bad?🙈 im sorry. My name is Annette..i would love to learn a third language ;)

  • @blessinggoodthings3124
    @blessinggoodthings3124 Před 7 lety +226

    These kids have every opportunity to make their live better but they do not see the opportunities.

    • @Amanueel
      @Amanueel Před 6 lety +11

      They see it but for some.. the street life is more fun, the danger can sometimes be an adreniline kick people can get.

    • @Amanueel
      @Amanueel Před 6 lety +8

      It is sad though parents are moving to these places for a better future for themselves and kids because its very very bad in their homecountry yet they want to be bad. Rap music is a reason why.

    • @AskYaMommyBoutMeBoi
      @AskYaMommyBoutMeBoi Před 6 lety +3

      More Fiyah it's not the music. It's human nature to cheat

    • @andreachard276
      @andreachard276 Před 5 lety

      SLOOOOOOOH DEM!

    • @lifeinnairobery6756
      @lifeinnairobery6756 Před 5 lety +2

      Yeah men...
      I wish I had those opportunities

  • @shaheenkhan234
    @shaheenkhan234 Před 7 lety +239

    sister in law is more upset den his own family.

    • @yusufali7200
      @yusufali7200 Před 7 lety +7

      they cousin too not only sis in law

    • @ina1139
      @ina1139 Před 7 lety +65

      shaheen Khan the mother was very upset as well, but people show their emotions different. they all were sad. they just don't show it the same.

    • @aliyahf9104
      @aliyahf9104 Před 7 lety +62

      His family lived in Somalia in the 90's. I'm sure that has to affect how you deal with grief. Cut the people some slack

    • @willrob5142
      @willrob5142 Před 7 lety +40

      Aliyah F Exactly. The civil war over there was brutal. Americans don't understand. When you see death everyday. You become numb to it.

    • @marieq829
      @marieq829 Před 7 lety +2

      Will Rob you dont nothing about my country and she never said nothing about america

  • @user-dh9bd5st6t
    @user-dh9bd5st6t Před 5 lety +14

    come back home, all of you. came back here. your childern need this weather to grow mentaly

  • @seniduteklu4935
    @seniduteklu4935 Před rokem +4

    The fifth estate is the top of the mountain. Journalists put together Amazing Thank you for educating the public...

  • @muhiimabarre4502
    @muhiimabarre4502 Před 7 lety +118

    My lord this story broke my heart! 😪😪😪I wish Somalia fathers stop making lot of babies and leaving them, Somalia men are running from their responsibilities. A father has to be and should be a provider, a teacher, a role model, but most importantly, a distant authority figure who can never be pleased. Otherwise, how will children ever understand the concept of The society they are living in?

    • @adnanhassan4771
      @adnanhassan4771 Před 6 lety +4

      Muhiima Barre dont blame the father cause the mother might have taken advantage of the western laws and caused him stress

    • @Shey01Shey
      @Shey01Shey Před 6 lety +7

      BS. Distress? even if true which don’t know shouldn’t keep a father away from his children. Typically, a lot of Somali men consider responsibility a distress. What a weak argument to make.

    • @kkkkk695
      @kkkkk695 Před 6 lety +1

      Adnan Hassan I doubt even in Somalia they don't care for their kids that's most wives sell tomatoes because they can't pay bills and kids there are lost too

    • @helenclark7876
      @helenclark7876 Před 5 lety +1

      In the country we call Canada its user friendly to allow children to be who they are instead of expecting them to serve beliefs that are based in old religions. Encourage these developing young people to learn the Charter of Rights. When they have understanding about how these rights apply to every Canadian citizen they will be able to form their own values about why they want to live here. Expecting children to understand the scope of a very troubled world is taking away their happiness. Just tell them the reality about gangs and how they manipulate and use innocent people to do their dirty work! Gang members have no respect for laws or religion so keep them aware and that will hopefully make them think twice. One doesnt have to join a gang to count!

    • @Aa-nj5gz
      @Aa-nj5gz Před 5 lety +1

      You are typical Somali woman always accusing the men - we all know Somali men aways took care their children, but you know when Somali women especially those in Canada found welfare they all felt they don't need the men and they all use the western laws to kick the men out of the lives of the children - Feel sorry for those Somali men who're still marrying while living in the west - they will all regret because there is no benefit in marriage for men and there is no dignity in fatherhood!

  • @musekhadir4125
    @musekhadir4125 Před 7 lety +181

    The father failed his responsibilities,sad but true

    • @NaturelDeese
      @NaturelDeese Před 7 lety +1

      Muse Khadir how can you not know what be does I'm so confused

    • @musekhadir4125
      @musekhadir4125 Před 7 lety +1

      NaturelDeese be more specific

    • @NaturelDeese
      @NaturelDeese Před 7 lety +3

      😒 the father.

    • @adnanhassan4771
      @adnanhassan4771 Před 6 lety +7

      Muse Khadir dont blame the father cause the mother might have taken advantage of the western laws and caused him stress

    • @Noa-hs6qy
      @Noa-hs6qy Před 6 lety +4

      +Adnan Hassan So blame islam. Not the mother!

  • @abdiomar3601
    @abdiomar3601 Před 5 lety +70

    Police don't care! Somali community wake up and solve father figure problems. Mums are tired out there! Sabr, patience with one another builds a family! Sorry for the loss of our boy!Love

    • @marthaalvarez8872
      @marthaalvarez8872 Před 4 lety +4

      TRUTH Family have to come even if Father and wife split Father stay close to your seeds inshallah very important for the babies

  • @mrshatton6966
    @mrshatton6966 Před 4 lety +50

    Somalian people are so beautiful to me!!! 😍😍😍

    • @saffyjm77
      @saffyjm77 Před 4 lety +3

      Yes we are European dipped in caramel and chocolate

    • @onikapinkk
      @onikapinkk Před 4 lety +1

      Mrs Hatton ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @ItsMe-ti5es
      @ItsMe-ti5es Před 4 lety +17

      @@saffyjm77 wtf girl somali is Africa

    • @fvtii284
      @fvtii284 Před 4 lety +2

      Thank you

    • @mrshatton6966
      @mrshatton6966 Před 4 lety +2

      Much love🥰😍

  • @analiciajade
    @analiciajade Před 7 lety +375

    The sister is beautifully stunning omg

  • @canadagirlskickass
    @canadagirlskickass Před 7 lety +160

    Why would you need to smuggle weed into Canada from Jamaica? Canada produces plenty of weed. Makes no sense to me.

    • @MsAmarg
      @MsAmarg Před 7 lety +39

      Noor Al Ayn Wasn't no weed. The good cocaine is what it must have been. Weed? Huh? I was born and raised in Vancouver and lived in Langley for a few years. EVERYONE and no exaggeration, either grew weed, sold weed or at least smoked weed. It was like getting candy from 7-11, that easy. Good weed too. Jamaica for weed? Must be dumb or lying. I have lived in Calgary, Montreal and am now in downtown Toronto. Weed is everywhere, you are right.

    • @OneMoMile
      @OneMoMile Před 6 lety +16

      Yea they def didn't go there to collect weed

    • @AskYaMommyBoutMeBoi
      @AskYaMommyBoutMeBoi Před 6 lety +20

      Going to Jamaica for cocaine is like going to Taco Bell for quality food.

    • @YawehthedragondogofEL
      @YawehthedragondogofEL Před 5 lety +7

      Noor Al Ayn, the obvious answer to your question is that these people are stupid.

    • @vivekbalachandran9399
      @vivekbalachandran9399 Před 5 lety +6

      @@OneMoMile this a dumb argument they didn't go their to collect weed but found weed in the fish okay:S

  • @editsbyimaan0119
    @editsbyimaan0119 Před 6 lety +35

    The old Somali people talking though 😂😂🔥

  • @therealeastchick2778
    @therealeastchick2778 Před 7 lety +61

    so at around 25 minutes you're just gonna put footage of the elders speaking in Somali without any subtitles?
    Good work guys👌👍

    • @marianm68
      @marianm68 Před 6 lety +73

      She said the first time any gun shots were heard in this area it was a Somali that did it. She’s basically saying it’s Somalis killing other Somalis. She spoke with so much passion then that idiot next to her basically tried to silence her by saying “don’t say that, you know this is getting filmed right we should keep it in the community and not expose our issues” to which her friend replies “so what let her talk” basically she done a courageous thing and she spoke with conviction instead of trying to put a band aid on a gaping wound she stated the truth. We are very good at simply not speaking about our issues therefore nothing gets solved. I support her words 100%!!!

    • @abounasser2420
      @abounasser2420 Před 3 lety

      @@marianm68 naaya shut up, afqaga hiir waa inaadan cambaareyn dadkaaga ceeb kama lihid inaad wax sheegto iska aamus afkaaga weyn 😡🤬 bila edeba

    • @f.m.m6706
      @f.m.m6706 Před 3 lety

      @@abounasser2420 who are you calling naya? You absolute wasaq. Fix your mouth saaxib. There’s nothing ceeb about the comment above.

  • @ebonymyers7113
    @ebonymyers7113 Před 7 lety +159

    His family knew he was into illegal activities, because he didn't have a good paying job but they all excepted dirty money from him. This is a cautionary tale. Stay away from the streets.

  • @khaledwarsame163
    @khaledwarsame163 Před 4 lety +49

    The only true teller in this documentary is the woman with eyeglass, who was speaking Somali. She did try to speak up and expose the root of the problem, but she was immediately silenced by a dishonest man beside her, who warned everyone in the room about the recording. We Somalis always remain silent when bad things seem to be playing out, and then we begin to shedding crocodile tears. Some parents tend to enjoy the money being given to them by their kids without worrying and wondering how they earn it. Worse, Some parents, especially these growing single mothers (who are the main reason why these kids fall into criminal activity for kicking out their fathers...knowing that they’ll get child support & other government aid) also try to help their kids to get away with their crimes by facilitating means to leave the country, something always happens but often fails. Don’t come on camera to tell the world that your children are angels when it’s too late. My piece of advice here is keep eye on your kids now and stop blaming others. bring up your kids well and teach them the ethical decision. let them know the difference between wrong & right. Lastly, cooperate with the law enforcement agencies and make sure the well-being of your family and your community as well.

    • @B_Bodziak
      @B_Bodziak Před 2 lety +3

      Let me guess. You're 17-22yo, not a parent and your one girlfriend broke your heart.

    • @sihaam
      @sihaam Před 2 lety +9

      @@B_Bodziak how did you make that conclusion?

    • @Anonymous-yl3kc
      @Anonymous-yl3kc Před 2 lety +5

      Lol the father In this case abandoned the children on purpose so he’s in fault for making they’re mom a single mother plus kids can go on the wrong path with 2 parent households as-well

    • @kairofab9981
      @kairofab9981 Před 2 lety

      Ask the somalie irresponsible Dads like you to be there, to raise their children while going back home to get marry with teenage girls. Stop blaming a working mom of 5 children... You re known for that,, stupid

    • @user-fc9bu1bs2h
      @user-fc9bu1bs2h Před 2 měsíci

      Don’t air your dirty laundry for the world to see. Also, how is telling the news somalis are shooting ppl gonna stop the kids from fighting for turf and money?

  • @amberrose1878
    @amberrose1878 Před 5 lety +43

    Sister inlaw is so woke. The interviewer went in circles trying to plant that seed but sister inlaw was not having that. My prayers are with all of them, parents, cooks, honest friends, may god be with you all and order your steps Amen.

    • @jabarimutabaruka365
      @jabarimutabaruka365 Před 3 lety +3

      This is why the black community can't get no where. You think he was selling cookies. He literally wrote gangs affiliation in his graduation picture. Are you that dense.

  • @adipose2003
    @adipose2003 Před 7 lety +73

    Why do I watch these

  • @Kam-pz5tb
    @Kam-pz5tb Před 3 lety +92

    The father left his children and wife ro fend for themselves. He dropped the ball as a father

    • @Dhruv_Dogra
      @Dhruv_Dogra Před 2 lety +4

      He is not expected to do anything you or I might expect. In Islam he can simply find another wife and have kids and carry on. The man doesn’t owe much to anyone except to Allah (who asks him to sow his seed in women, 4 marriages if needed). Not to you or to Canada.

    • @mascuudsaid9791
      @mascuudsaid9791 Před 2 lety +18

      @@Dhruv_Dogra also don't say things you made up that Allah said in the quran.
      No body believes your lies.

    • @aaliyah9090
      @aaliyah9090 Před 2 lety +19

      @@Dhruv_Dogra What a nice way to deflect the responsibility of being a father to his children, blame it on religion.

    • @kosmicfarmer2638
      @kosmicfarmer2638 Před 2 lety +2

      Naaah his bitter wife had to break the family apart because she mad at him n turn his kids againist him its a trend in the community especially when he brings her into the country they think culture n tradition is second to society norms

    • @kosmicfarmer2638
      @kosmicfarmer2638 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mascuudsaid9791 what did u say thats not in the quran quote the surah so i can searxh it for myself

  • @miralosman3351
    @miralosman3351 Před 6 lety +67

    I don't think I could give my parents grieve. My mother would die of stroke .she is too precious to endure this after the struggle they went through hours of scrubbing toilets and their children repay them with gangs and stupid naivety. People are only good to you if they want something from you .Rip

  • @armpitfuzz
    @armpitfuzz Před 7 lety +83

    It's all very sad, but he knew what he was getting involved with.

  • @ramrodou812
    @ramrodou812 Před 7 lety +22

    these guys can't see the big picture of the way they live? guns, gangs, drugs........murder. it's a cycle that keeps repeating yet they just can't get enough of it. meanwhile, the family sticks their head in the sand and won't see that this young man and his friends were all up to something illicit.

  • @LLace
    @LLace Před 7 lety +21

    4:50 OMG girl you are beautiful! My God your skin is flawless !

  • @memorymalunga670
    @memorymalunga670 Před 5 lety +38

    Iman getting in trouble as well. She's involved in drug trafficking, and she knew what she was getting into.

  • @karenmccann8644
    @karenmccann8644 Před 7 lety +37

    The sister is very, very, Beautiful! Even the sister- in- law, very beautiful!

  • @AnAceism
    @AnAceism Před 7 lety +75

    roflmao these girls knew exactly what was going on

  • @daisy8297
    @daisy8297 Před 2 lety +15

    It is sad how some young people can be so naive about things. No one gives out airline tickets and accomodation to young girls without expecting something in return. And as for those young boys, they were all involved in something dangerous, but I can understand the mother’s reluctance to believe her son to believe he was perfect. She has enough to live with, let her be.

  • @nocapzone5049
    @nocapzone5049 Před 2 lety +26

    This story is absolutely heart breaking 💔 and sad😥 all around. My heart goes out to this mother and her family, her strength is immeasurable ❤🇸🇴🙏🏿🕊💯

  • @oracle4eva
    @oracle4eva Před 6 lety +23

    Very sad story all around . I pray this family can heal from this tragedy 💕

  • @ahmedkheyr1599
    @ahmedkheyr1599 Před 3 lety +13

    being Somali watching this, the video and the story in it offer less than 1% of the real story. These things are deeper and deeper from the parenting, to the young clueless kids, to the Canadian government who see these communities as second class citizens. Going back to Somalia is the safest way. May Allah help us make our country safe again

    • @sihaam
      @sihaam Před 2 lety +1

      Going back to somalia????? That lawless country is not going to fix these problems, the lack of fatherly presens is what keeps these men on gangs.

    • @user-ee5mx4cs3h
      @user-ee5mx4cs3h Před 2 lety +4

      @@sihaam Going back to Somalia will change and save life , culture and deen. This crimes and gangs didn’t just come from nowhere. It’s an organized crime. Crips, bloods, MS-13, just like Alqaeda, Al shabab and the Talibans were all created by Mossad and the CIA .This agents carry out this missions world wide. And if that’s not enough they do mind control through television. This youths are set by the government. There is no such thing as free housing and free money. All this comes with free drugs and free weapons to destabilize the family unit.

    • @ahmedkheyr1599
      @ahmedkheyr1599 Před 2 lety +7

      @@sihaam that lawless country is yours hate it or love, and you are blind if you think you have alternative. Wherever you go you will be Somali and belong to Somalia so it is better to build our country than seeking alternatives.

    • @soumeya8437
      @soumeya8437 Před 2 lety +1

      exactly, although it is hard we need to go back and rebuild our country, in these last few years i have seen many efforts by the somali diaspora using their privilege and education to help rebuild which i think is exactly what we need. InshAllah we will get rid of Al-Shabab and these toxic Clan superiority ideologies.

    • @soumeya8437
      @soumeya8437 Před 2 lety +1

      we also need to reclaim our culture, i’ve recently realized how beautiful and rich our culture is but i think a lot of it was lost due to the war

  • @MissSpoiledRotten1
    @MissSpoiledRotten1 Před 4 lety +16

    No one should ever forget their culture; however, when you move to a new country you should want to adopt some of its ways to acclimate better. Never forget where you come from, but be aware of the norms in your new society. God bless the young men and their families. 🙏🏽💔

  • @missamka6756
    @missamka6756 Před 4 lety +13

    Somali girls are beautiful they have no makeup on and they are gorgeous

  • @MrsPeebles62
    @MrsPeebles62 Před 4 lety +8

    I am from Bridgeport, a town in the State of Connecticut, United States. When I think of Canada, I envision beautiful pine trees, clean and clear air and beautiful lands and people that wouldn't hurt a fly. I always thought of Canada as the beautiful flip side of our awful dark side of America.

    • @richardhiller3135
      @richardhiller3135 Před 2 lety

      That's because people like you believe all the hype. Canada has the same problems as the U.S just on a smaller scale. No country in the world has such a large and diverse population as the U.S. Even with all our problems we still prevail. No other country in the world faces the challenges and still offers such a degree of opportunity. 320 million people and still free, in spite of those trying to construct our demise.

    • @cait.alexander
      @cait.alexander Před 3 měsíci

      dont be fooled.

  • @kinderlokker0306
    @kinderlokker0306 Před 2 lety +15

    I just watched a episode of his sister getting caught for drug smuggling in jamaica, can’t imagine what his parents went through, daughter caught smuggling drugs, son murdered smh 🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @Amanda_007
    @Amanda_007 Před 3 lety +13

    His family and parents are in denial.....he was trafficking drugs and got caught up. Living that life leads to death or jail.....like the guy said "it's a choice"

  • @jo-annemcfadyen59
    @jo-annemcfadyen59 Před 3 lety +12

    The only one that was truthful, was the interviewer. The sister in law knew exactly what was going on, but seemed quite offended by the facts.

  • @windsorcastle2203
    @windsorcastle2203 Před 7 lety +165

    oh come on fish! These aren't naive girls they knew an all expenses paid ticket to Jamaica was dodgy.

  • @inaCabdulqani
    @inaCabdulqani Před 6 lety +145

    Inna lilaahi wa ina ilayhi raji’un. Whatever he was into, wali waa will walaalkeen eh. This is truly heartbreaking Subhan’Allah May Allah have mercy on his soul.

  • @ajfamily206
    @ajfamily206 Před 5 lety +84

    You know for sure without any doubts, you failed as a father when your son was in a gang and your daughter is an international drug smuggler.

    • @nubianwarriorgoddess9341
      @nubianwarriorgoddess9341 Před 4 lety +32

      I disagree some children go down the wrong even path when they know they were taught better

    • @nikkib5753
      @nikkib5753 Před 4 lety +21

      Sometimes even with the best parenting and upbringing, one still can have a child that goes astray. Seems to me these kids were a product of their environment. Not bad parenting. Although the dad could have done more, there is NO significant research that says a mother can't raise a good decent person as a single parent.

    • @MyGoodenessGracious
      @MyGoodenessGracious Před 4 lety +12

      Not a fact. You can teach, admonish and guide your children but you CANNOT live or make decisions for them. Thts why u pray over your children and make them comfortable enough to seek counsel so you u can help them in judgement and decisions but they're going to make mistakes as sure as they living and sometimes their mistakes can produce lifelong consequences or tragic ones, and the VERY best parents have suffered tht fate.

    • @TGuard00014
      @TGuard00014 Před 4 lety +1

      @Nikki B There is no evidence that it’s impossible but it is statistically unlikely....

    • @docbainl9504
      @docbainl9504 Před 4 lety +1

      Hahaha all these butt hurt parents making excuses hoping it won't be your children.. it most likely will be.

  • @agnestiaka965
    @agnestiaka965 Před 2 lety +2

    I just froze...Seeing a deceased family member on that wall hits different. People, be compassionate....RIP Midnight😪

  • @kidstoytoychannel3289
    @kidstoytoychannel3289 Před 7 lety +51

    the sister inlow is amazing

  • @longstandingemperor5009
    @longstandingemperor5009 Před 5 lety +12

    First observation is the sister-in-law feels the pain of the guy’s death more than his own sister. Secondly, these girls are so dumb and the entire family is leaving in denial about Abdi...Finally, I agree he was set up by his friend.

  • @axer3515
    @axer3515 Před 5 lety +6

    A big part of the problem is that they do not try to assimilate into the sociality they moved to. They do not have to abandoned their old way of life, but they can't live in a closed neighborhood. My Somali friend who did go out of his way to interact with others has a great job and many friends. He is the one who told me this barrier is the largest one.

  • @icommandyew8221
    @icommandyew8221 Před 4 lety +13

    It’s sad. Because Abdinasir could’ve had a great life instead he chooses being a full time gang member.

  • @GloTheActivist300
    @GloTheActivist300 Před 7 lety +29

    wtf was that music when they showed the girls in Jamaica? That isn't Jamaican music...

    • @Cookstrt
      @Cookstrt Před 4 lety

      Me know kuko pon dem deh.

  • @Saherazed
    @Saherazed Před 5 lety +4

    My heart is broken. I'm so sorry that you guys have to go thru this nightmare.
    I hope for you all a better life!
    I will pray for a good future for all of you.

  • @wosamosman9814
    @wosamosman9814 Před 7 měsíci +3

    As someone who was born in 87 , its scary seeing so many tombstones ending in 2010 when these guys should have been in the prime of their lives 😢.
    May Allah have mercy on their souls and forgive their sins and give their families the patience 🤲, Ameen.

  • @isra9578
    @isra9578 Před 5 lety +37

    I never felt this pain for no one as I felt for his mother. Poor soul. She felt that her son was scared, mother's feel their kids struggles.

  • @shammah42
    @shammah42 Před 7 lety +71

    It is really sad to see young kids lose direction (especially if you consider where they/or their parents come from and sacrifices they have made) with opportunities available to succeed in life. whether it's their choice or circumstances lead them astray, all I see is that our young kids needs a lot of help from all stakeholders to counter this.

    • @missflorencek8569
      @missflorencek8569 Před 7 lety +6

      Jo Shammah it does seem like they need an intervention and not only asylum. Somali and Sudanese Africans just never seem to be able to get it together. You're right - it's all our responsibility.

  • @deqoahmed5258
    @deqoahmed5258 Před 5 lety +25

    Somali fathers are part of that problem of their sons becoming gangsters because they are not part of their lives they are not bringing them up, they leave everything for the mum to do and expect good children

    • @abdikanimuse1576
      @abdikanimuse1576 Před 4 lety +1

      the problem is when the wife also becomes another husband in the house. two husbands cannot live together in the same house. one has to leave.

  • @jimmy329
    @jimmy329 Před 7 měsíci +3

    31 murders unsolved is the real problem. Rest in peace

  • @sandrad.8205
    @sandrad.8205 Před 4 lety +7

    Sad story......and Iman and Hoda are fortunate that nothing worst happened to them, they are gorgeous.

  • @fanofnone2635
    @fanofnone2635 Před 6 lety +13

    It never occurred to the sister and her friend that fish would spoil on a plane ride to Canada from Jamaica. Fix is transported in ice, and a freezer. Smh!

  • @timszon
    @timszon Před 5 lety +4

    Meanwhile there are people dying in the ocean and deserts hoping and praying to see this beautiful Country and make something out of it.

  • @AmareshAsmara
    @AmareshAsmara Před 3 lety +9

    Never knew him but I think of this documentary so much since 2016

    • @prettylady6013
      @prettylady6013 Před 2 lety +5

      I knew him personally. He was such a sweet kid

    • @kinderlokker0306
      @kinderlokker0306 Před 2 lety +4

      He was friends with my older cousin, i was 10 at the time he died, wallahi he was such a nice & happy guy, always was ready to help another, may Allah swt forgive all his sins, G BABY NEVER FORGOTTEN❤️

  • @EmilyElizabethxox
    @EmilyElizabethxox Před 2 lety +14

    I met many hard working 1st generation Somali immigrants when I was living in the Seattle area. They were always really crafty/skilled city drivers with resilient spirits. Many of them still have relatives back in Somalia and would talk about visiting when they can, feeling safe to do so. They talked about having “normal” lives growing up. This was so shocking to me given what we know about Somalia. I guess people are just experts at adapting to their circumstances.

  • @griffithss81
    @griffithss81 Před 7 lety +16

    I don't like the way the shows ends, there is like a few shows that ends weird. the lady dosent say anything at the end or says anything about what's going on with the family or what happened after the show aired.

  • @mrashid3643
    @mrashid3643 Před 2 lety +17

    What a fantastic presenter! Objective, fair, empathetic and a thorough professional. The biggest problem is Somali parents rising Canadian children. Replace Somali with any other group and you will have similar social issues. Forcing children into cultural subjugation against the the norm of western society can lead to serious breakdown in communication. Lose communication and you lose your children.

  • @dyeesha1
    @dyeesha1 Před 6 lety +57

    Samali gansta crips 😂

  • @freepalestine3966
    @freepalestine3966 Před 5 lety +12

    Too heartbreaking to watch subhanllah. May Allah have mercy on him

  • @haniabdile7338
    @haniabdile7338 Před 6 lety +11

    This is heart breaking I feel sorry for the poor mother.

  • @NickiNicki25
    @NickiNicki25 Před 4 lety +13

    I think the two girls knew what they were getting themselves into when they went to Jamaica, that’s probably why they didn’t want their parents to know. That’s why they didn’t tell on the guy that supposedly tricked them with the fish! Perhaps 🤷🏽‍♀️