How I cracked the code to "Feeling is the secret" Neville Goddard

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    I cracked the code the "Feeling is the secret" Neville Goddard
    In this video I will share with you how you can crack the code to tap into the power of the feeling is the secret. I will share with you 3 vital secrets that I used that opened up the powerful potential and unlocked new experiences in my own life.
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Komentáře • 964

  • @gipsymoth1574
    @gipsymoth1574 Před 6 měsíci +637

    "When I speak of feeling, I do not mean emotion, but the acceptance of the fact that it is fulfilled" - Neville Goddard.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +36

      Yes. You can term it anyway you need. The essence, the knowing. It's not a passing of fleeting thing, but a deep mind and body experience... how can you start getting clear on that you associate having with the end experience and start connecting that you experience some of that now so you can start to connect it is natural for you!

    • @gipsymoth1574
      @gipsymoth1574 Před 6 měsíci +32

      ​​​​@@AbbyRuston I didn't term it that way, Neville did. it's what he taught!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@homelessrobot what is it that you are wanting to fulfill?

    • @gipsymoth1574
      @gipsymoth1574 Před 6 měsíci

      ​​@@homelessrobotin Neville's teachings the focus is on imagining what you want happening already. you already experience it in your imagination and once you feel completely satisfied/not desiring whatever it is anymore, that's the feeling of the wish fulfilled. the only "work" is visualizing/affirming. that's it! There's ppl who swear by robotic affirmations and nothing else.
      It's EXACTLY like athletes visualizing their performance going well. they "feel" themselves going through the physical motions. the confidence/emotions and overall assumption catches up later! the faith/trust in the fulfilled desire is the process of going back to that particular "it is done" feeling. not ever trying to force an emotion. bc that's awful and hard and seriously not healthy!
      I've manifested good things the next day while feeling angry the day before and wonderful things happening while I was grieving a loss and couldn't get out of bed. it still blows my mind how it works tbh but that is what Neville taught. it's simple and we all tend to overcomplicate it!
      hope that helps explain the quote a little bit!

    • @dareactthink
      @dareactthink Před 6 měsíci +4

      @gipsymoth1574 have you ever manifested anything. do you remember was it an emotion. or was it accepting the fact that it was fullfuilled. and if it was the latter. how would you describe that other then it being an emotion?

  • @carolnewlands8630
    @carolnewlands8630 Před 6 měsíci +113

    Been studying metaphysics for over 20 years. Student of Dr Dispenza. Easy trick when your mind goes to the “old story “ this from Neville. Shut it down fast. Don’t give it any attention just slam a door in your mind to it. Even thinking “oh that’s the old story “ keeps it around too long. It’s always going to show up. Basically laugh at it. Best to you. From an old timer. Lol

    • @averyintelligence
      @averyintelligence Před 4 měsíci +13

      I also heard Alan Watts once say "tell your mind to SHUT UP" 😂

    • @carolnewlands8630
      @carolnewlands8630 Před 4 měsíci

      I swear before all this work ( good work) My mind was a speeding train!!So "shut up" works!!@@averyintelligence

    • @merry4042
      @merry4042 Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@averyintelligence😂😂😂😂

    • @sanjmalik6282
      @sanjmalik6282 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Thank you for sharing, I get that all the time.

    • @rafeeqwarfield9690
      @rafeeqwarfield9690 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Good advice!

  • @mumuuuuo
    @mumuuuuo Před 4 měsíci +42

    “I didn’t lack anything, the environment lacked what I need” 💯❗️

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 4 měsíci +10

      YES!!! It is true. You were born worthy and deserving and that means you are and have ALWAYS been that way! Let those old ideas go. A big key is to also help your body let this energy go to via somatic exercises and movements! You CAN do this!

    • @HillcrestDiction
      @HillcrestDiction Před 3 měsíci +6

      In fact, the environment doesn't lack it, the society planted that idea.

  • @metalroofing6708
    @metalroofing6708 Před 6 měsíci +329

    1) Identify the precise feeling that the wish fulfilled will bring you that you are looking for
    2) How have you experienced that feeling already, even in a small way... then recall that and amplify it.
    3) When an "event" pops up, a feeling follows depending on the meaning that the story you tell yourself gives it. Make sure you get clear on the story, deny any story/meaning that is not in alignment with the feeling of the wish fulfilled. ABC = Awareness, Breath, Choice (choose the desired feeling state) = retraining the nervous system and the brain synapses to rewire in alignment with the desired outcome.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +50

      Thank you so much for taking the time to write this out! It’s fun to read a recap via someone else bc it actually helps me learn too 🙌🏼🙌🏼🥳

    • @christiansamaroo
      @christiansamaroo Před 6 měsíci +7

      False. If you’re doing it consciously it does not work. It has to be unconscious. Assumptions are unconscious.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +12

      @@christiansamaroo you are right you can’t just do this superficially. They must reach the depth of the ubconscious assumption. they can run unconscious and until you use the light of awareness(your conscious awareness) you can then change them. As long as they are left unconscious you have no chance to change them so they will keep repeating even if undesired experiences happen.

    • @belictacastelbarco5097
      @belictacastelbarco5097 Před 6 měsíci

      @@christiansamaroo correct!

    • @sylverista3505
      @sylverista3505 Před 6 měsíci +12

      @@christiansamaroo Right ! That’s why we have to do them just before sleeping, we have to be in a sleepy drowsy state it’s easier to impress the subconscious. I also can say then when I meditate on daily basis everything is coming to me very fast. I need something, I think about it, and in a blink of an eye I obtein it … in a various ways. It’s Like a Magic

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 Před 6 měsíci +136

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my CZcams channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 854 subs and > 400 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +10

      WOW!!! Thank you so much for sharing this!! I am so happy for you and so proud of you!! Congratulations on the success, but most of all for trusting yourself and having the courage to begin to BE that ideal self now 🥳🥳🥳🥳🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥

    • @nathananderson8720
      @nathananderson8720 Před 6 měsíci +9

      @@AbbyRuston Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my CZcams channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a CZcamsr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this CZcams thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)

    • @Satori100
      @Satori100 Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@nathananderson8720 She IS extraordinary and so are you for acknowledging that.🌹

    • @nathananderson8720
      @nathananderson8720 Před 6 měsíci

      @@Satori100 I'm so glad that I've been inspiring some people to some extent. That means a lot. I, myself, was struggling a lot especially in the beginning. I remember being tearful as I was getting emotional as i was writing my 1st script because it made me realize how far I have come so far at this stage of my life. I can share my hardships through words and videos but they won't really exactly represent how difficult it was for me to overcome those hardships. From losing my parents at young age, being bullied physically and emotionally, being ridiculed for coming out, gender transitioning, and even the fact of quitting Nursing just so I can have more time for my channel, freelancing and actually spend enough time for myself and loved ones. No words or videos can show these but knowing that I can potentially inspire others through my stories and setbacks, it gives me more reasons to keep going and keep creating inspiring content as much as I could and in the best way I can.
      You have your own different journey and each of us does. I don't know what exactly you're going through but keep in mind that you can be your own best friend or enemy. Your mind is very powerful if you use it wisely. As Steve Job once said, "Stay hungry, stay foolish. You're already naked. There's no reason not to follow your heart". This simple quote has a profound impact on my life and I'm hoping that for you as well. :)

    • @CryptoQueen8888
      @CryptoQueen8888 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Congratulations!!!

  • @PaulChapman-lx6rn
    @PaulChapman-lx6rn Před 4 měsíci +18

    I've always been very off and on with manifestation. On the one hand, I've had a few experiences that can't be explained away- they were way too specific to be coincidence and they have been enough for me to believe it's possible to create consciously- and on the other, I've never been able to get it to work on anything approaching a consistent basis and as such, I airily dismiss it as "woo woo". This is the first video I've seen that cuts through my scepticism. This was really well done, thank you

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 4 měsíci +4

      Wow!!! This is such an honor to hear! I relate with you about the skeptism. I tried soooo hard in the past only to see nothing change and felt it didn't work and I didn't have what it took to make things change. Helping show this IS real is one of the entire reasons I make videos'. It brings me joy to hear this has helped you understand at such a degree it is deeper than the skepticism! One things for me is to remember that manifestation is very simple.. it means making visible what is invisible.. so our own inner beliefs created from past experiences and beliefs due to our early on messaging/environment is he lens we see through so we find more of the same AND we energetically attract and feel 'familiar' with. The more you start to "mind the Gap" THAT is the critical key so many miss on their opportunity to begin to really tap into magic that experience even at the science level of explanation.. Check out "double slit experience" in terms of how ability to effect matter! Thanks again so much for sharing your experience with me and don't hesitate to comment with questions on things that don't make sense or feel real!

    • @PaulChapman-lx6rn
      @PaulChapman-lx6rn Před 4 měsíci +4

      It was your explanation of past experiences and underlying beliefs and feelings that shifted everything for me. My life has to a large extent, followed repeating patterns and looking at my own feelings and beliefs as a precursor to those patterns has really opened my eyes. I need to work (pretty extensively haha) on some of those before I can see results I'd be much happier with.
      I hope you make content for a long time to come. It feels like the beginning of a journey with you, for me. Thanks so much for your reply!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 3 měsíci +6

      How beautiful! So glad to have you along for the journey! I will keep creating! One more note, The work of shifting a belief isn't about time of even effort many times although it sometimes can take those two things to get there, it's all about a perspective shift that can happen in the blink of an eye. It is really about getting to the roots of how the idea was formed. You are now an adult and you can look back of the ideas of those around you growing up and start to see if you agree. Not through the eyes of the young mind who experienced it, but from your adult self thinking of it if you saw yourself as a kid now. This can help to start to dissolve what can feel like an objective truth. The more you can do this, the more it will create room for your own true belief that's been beneath the other this whole time. Bc early on you HAD to adopt the beliefs of others and how they saw you to survive, now you don't! And you can now kick them to the curb and in that is your emotional liberation to live the life you were meant to live!

  • @jaylxxxi1908
    @jaylxxxi1908 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Feeling is the ultimate confirmation of faith.

  • @jg1503
    @jg1503 Před 6 měsíci +20

    The feeling is conviction that what you want to happen is in fact a reality.

  • @mcdart2606
    @mcdart2606 Před 6 měsíci +18

    It’s about thinking/feeling FROM the wish fulfilled. BEING in the wish fulfilled

  • @FranciscoLopez-hp3kf
    @FranciscoLopez-hp3kf Před 6 měsíci +5

    As a musician I always loved the Doors, doors of perception led me to William Blake, William Blake led me to Neville Goddard. Ive been noticing Fulfilling my wishes before bed helps my conscious and subconscious meet at night, and I wake up like a g lol. Goddard is the man!

  • @RealityTrailers
    @RealityTrailers Před 6 měsíci +15

    "FEELING GETS THE BLESSING." ~ Rev. Ike
    Thousands of churches along with so many religions have worked very hard to keep such ancient scripture from you all.
    ❤❤❤

  • @williamrichardson5500
    @williamrichardson5500 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Holy shit I just got it. I’ve been doing the thought experiment only. I’ve just been thinking about the feeling instead of feeling the feeling. That’s never jumped out to me before and I’m many many many similar videos and a yr+ deep. This changes everything. Thank you, Abby. ❤ Thank you so very much.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 4 měsíci +2

      🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 VERY excited to hear this!! I'm proud of you for having the courage to let go of the old perspective and open up to hear/see in a new way! Please keep us updated with how this new understanding effects your life! Remember, YOU realized this. The power for change always comes from within and never outside of you! This power is yours and yours alone!

    • @beawakening7323
      @beawakening7323 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Simply put. Same here I just got the mran point what she is talking g about I'm going to start meditation again and tap into that feeling

    • @kdani4777
      @kdani4777 Před 28 dny +1

      Yeahhhhhhhhh 🎉

  • @raameehassan1260
    @raameehassan1260 Před 6 měsíci +8

    One of the BEST videos that i have ever seen. Thanks a million.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks so much for the kind feedback! I really appreciate you taking the time to share this with me! So glad you enjoyed it!

  • @authenticself3800
    @authenticself3800 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I got this recommended.. Thank you universe🎉❤

  • @mr.aNd3rs0n
    @mr.aNd3rs0n Před 6 měsíci +12

    🙏this is the only video I’ll be listening to on repeat for a while🙏

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +3

      You got this!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @SunshineBear1211
    @SunshineBear1211 Před 6 měsíci +31

    I loved when you said the environment lacked what I needed and it was not me lacking in any way. Great way to look at that and it’s exactly right!! ❤

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes!! Having that shift completely changed the way I understood myself!

  • @CalltheRealEstateLadynow
    @CalltheRealEstateLadynow Před 5 měsíci +6

    Thank you for posting this video. You are so articulate and on point and not trying to sell us your courses or crap like that. There are people out there who don't even know how to properly express themselves who are charging ninety seven dollars for Neville's "course" stuff. Thank you for not being a merchant.

  • @lizwinter4894
    @lizwinter4894 Před 6 měsíci +44

    I rarely comment on youtube, but had to this time because I absolutely love this video! One of the best explanations of Goddard's teaching that I've ever heard. Simple, concise, easy to understand. It's been challenging for me to separate the feelings from the thinking. But now...wow! I get it. Thank you!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +12

      Wow! Thank you for sharing this with me! It's so powerful and inspiring to hear it and I'm excited to share the next one that i'm currently working on to hopefully bring even more clarity!! ❤️🙏

    • @GalinaGlitterz
      @GalinaGlitterz Před 6 měsíci +2

      This is Jesus’ teaching 🙏

  • @Biocccid
    @Biocccid Před 6 měsíci +31

    I dont write comments often on youtube, but I just wanted to express my gratitude for such an underrated channel that you have

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +2

      Thank you so much for your time and love to share this with me! It really means a lot and inspires me to create even more! So grateful to have you here and for your time in sharing your experience!

  • @emilyhoward7899
    @emilyhoward7899 Před 6 měsíci +10

    Thank you for explaining this stuff. It’s hard to listen to people talk about getting rid of subconscious beliefs without explaining what you’re literally supposed to do in real life, thank you! I subscribed!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +3

      YESS!! I feel you. It's like ok then a magical thing happens and suddenly an entire framework with how i saw the world disappears and we dance into the sunset! I struggled with this too which is why it took me a long time to understand and why i want to share it so it can help you too! It's simple, but the past traumatic experience is what makes those beliefs feel so concrete and true. You can shift them and shift and heal your energy! I'm rooting for you!

  • @abridgescanhelp
    @abridgescanhelp Před 5 měsíci +4

    When you said “the environment lacked what I NEEDED….” THAT hit me and I said “WOW - that’s it! It’s not ME who is the PROBLEM - I’m ok JUST AS I AM and IM WORTHY - the ENVIRONMENT (my empty house, my marriage in distress, my children turning their backs on me for almost 3 years) is the environment that HASNT given ME what I needed….. hearing you say that sent an eye opening understanding to me - so NOW I can sit inside MYSELF and be grateful for WHAT I HAVE LIVED through and say “You Amanda are ok - I’m proud of you and look how far YOU have come surviving and THAT will help me keep telling myself that IM OK and I just need to FEEL grateful as out what I HAVE ACCOMPLISHED and to not DWELL on “what’s WRONG WITH ME?????” - is that RIGHT ABBY?

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 5 měsíci +6

      I'm so glad it helped. I want to make sure it's clear, the biggest part of the environment lacking what you needed was about childhood. Understanding you didn't get what you needed as a kid bc the adults didn' have it.. so letting go of any idea that it was your fault or you lacked something is easier when you understand this.. when it comes to current day situations a lot of the times you are either seeing through the perceptional bias of those past wounds or have attracted ppl who echo the lack of emotional availability just like your early environment.. when it comes to children i do think it's different bc children aren't meant to be the emotional supports of parents. I'm sure your situation is complex and painful and not validating or in any way saying any one who treats you bad is ok, just wanted to make it very clear as to what i am saying so you can get the most clarity and benefit from it ❤️

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee Před 6 měsíci +13

    Dear Abby, you are so amazing it made me cry. I feel so privileged to have found your channel. Much love to you, your light is so beautiful. May the universe keep blessings you every moment of your life xo

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +2

      What sweet words. Thank you for them. I really appreciate you sharing your experience with me. I'm so glad you are here! Welcome to the community! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @realhakimrasheed
    @realhakimrasheed Před 6 měsíci +35

    Really strong, concise explanation of the Neville Goddard principles. Great job!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      🥹🙏 Thanks so much for these words! It's inspiring to know its connecting and clear and helpful! 🙌🏼

  • @jeffrowlette
    @jeffrowlette Před 6 měsíci +12

    Excellent video.
    Things are truly starting to work for me (lots of obvious 3D movement) and based on what is working for me, everything you say is spot on.
    Let me add, FAITH....Enormous amounts of trust and belief. 👍
    Do NOT panic, you've got this.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +4

      That is a great point! What i find so interesting about confidence is the etymplogy of the word is trust..so learning you can be confident in your faith is heavily based in learning to trust yourself! This helps me to take my power back anytime i start to forget! Thanks so much for sharing this important aspect to things!

    • @jeffrowlette
      @jeffrowlette Před 6 měsíci

      @@AbbyRuston
      Thank YOU for all your great content 👏

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      @@jeffrowlette 🙏🙂🙌🏼

  • @KeishannaMichele
    @KeishannaMichele Před 6 měsíci +13

    This was absolutely good - it’s crazy-I’ve been on this path for almost 5 years and the way you broke it down, made me resonate with it better.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      Wow! Thank you for sharing your experience with me! It inspires me for future videos to know it’s connecting and helping! I struggled so long confused and for a long time it felt like everything I learned was just another thing bc I couldn’t see the common thread. It’s beautiful to know this video helped connect the dots too 😃

  • @DigitalRemake
    @DigitalRemake Před 2 měsíci

    I love the delivery. Keep it up!

  • @henrydog5747
    @henrydog5747 Před 6 měsíci +8

    The Feeling is the secret . Imagine you are in the situation you desire ❤

  • @nordiam5761
    @nordiam5761 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Wow I finally understand where I've been going wrong. Thank you so much!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      🥹🥹😭😭 I LOVE THIS!!! YES!! So excited and happy for you! Thanks for sharing it! 🥳🥳

  • @augustreigns9716
    @augustreigns9716 Před 6 měsíci +4

    thank you for instructing me this wonderful day...
    peace

  • @emmarafferty9772
    @emmarafferty9772 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hey that was really good. Thank you for the reminder xx

  • @crazy-caleb
    @crazy-caleb Před 5 měsíci

    You did a great job with this video 🎉

  • @harlequinhead2008
    @harlequinhead2008 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Yes - this is huge! Extremely powerful nuisances!!! Your pics, labels & process choices are illustrated perfectly bcz you emphasize the trigger moments! I love it!!!😅

  • @jasonkaufman593
    @jasonkaufman593 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I see you, Abby. More importantly, I FEEL you 😊

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +3

      YES!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼😃 love it!

  • @noreenpurple8617
    @noreenpurple8617 Před 4 měsíci

    BEAUTIFULLY put, Miss Abby!! Thank you SO much!! Blessings!!❤️🙏🙌🏻👍🏻

  • @brushstroke3733
    @brushstroke3733 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this clarifying message!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      So happy it helped! It literally took my entire life to learn this and I can tell you that no matter what you are going through, shifting your self concept IS possible and it WILL change your outside experience. You can do this!

  • @Wingsoffaith11
    @Wingsoffaith11 Před 6 měsíci +3

    This is super helpful! Thank you!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      So glad it helped! You got this!

  • @nikamazur6763
    @nikamazur6763 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Absolutely amazing!🙏☀️

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      🤗🙏❤️ Always appreciate you being here and a part of this community!

  • @Moonshine-1111
    @Moonshine-1111 Před 6 měsíci

    This video is so helpful. Thank you so much 🙏🏻

  • @lynnrescigno7510
    @lynnrescigno7510 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great work ! Your videos are getting so good.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you! I really appreciate your feedback and for you taking the time to share it 🙏🙌🏼

  • @tomigun6913
    @tomigun6913 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I totally agree with you. I tried my best thinking positive thoughts. But nothing happened. But the moment i turn on the TV to watch my favorite wholesome travel show that makes me so happy, things just start getting better. Or when i listen to a song that uplifts me

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      That is a great point! The assumptions we have I believe block us from the being state of the feeling of our desired reality. The more awareness you gain of it, the more you can shift your consciousness and create that new feeling as your dominate experience!

  • @georgydivinelight8333
    @georgydivinelight8333 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much, this does make sense given I can totally relate to the going back . 🙏🙏🙏😊

  • @sweetgrassprincess
    @sweetgrassprincess Před 6 měsíci +12

    What a wonderful way to make this all clear.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      So glad it was clear! Had fun making it so it always feels nice when it’s clear to others and helps and it was fun to make 🙂🥳🙌🏼

  • @rubenharo250
    @rubenharo250 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Alright, Abby!! This Is Great!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      Thanks so much! So glad you enjoyed! 🥳

  • @qhawemodastus2566
    @qhawemodastus2566 Před 6 měsíci

    THIS IS GOLD. THANKS

  • @katrinaenjoylife8868
    @katrinaenjoylife8868 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Wonderful exclamation❤ you’ve gained a new subscriber❤

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Welcome to the community!! Don’t hesitate to ask any questions that pop up along the way! So glad to have you here! 🥳

  • @eippolito53
    @eippolito53 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Thank You! Love how you explained each concept so it is grounded and usable. The stories are very quick to give meaning that is not always true or worth the bother.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      So glad it helped and was clear! 🥳

  • @Helene_experience
    @Helene_experience Před 6 měsíci

    Totally relate to your mindset and perspective! Thanks for sharing !

  • @TheSalMaris
    @TheSalMaris Před 6 měsíci +5

    Thank you for this comprehensive breakdown of Feeling is the Secret. Priceless.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      So glad you enjoyed it and it helped!! 🙌🏼

  • @IA100KPDT
    @IA100KPDT Před 6 měsíci +5

    Correct me if I am wrong. I read before that when Neville talked about feeling, he said he is not talking about emotions. its about the sense of you having IT now. You feel your surrounding becoming the end of what you are asking for. Maybe I missed out something somewhere.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes I agree that its not just a fleeting or superficial emotion. the essence of that inner experience inside of you that is associated with you having that external experience. Some may call it's a knowing, a state.. in my experience it's easier to get gain awareness of what emotion you associate with... then start to see you have micro versions of that. This really helped me bridge the gap that this wish could actually be part of my life.. its like building a capacity.. this is what helped me.. before.i felt so separate and had no idea of to experience a feeling of having it bc it felt so separate. What i share its how i took this concept and applied it to my life in hopes it can offer you the same benefits! All the best!

    • @IA100KPDT
      @IA100KPDT Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@AbbyRuston Thanks for clarifying.

  • @onetirtha
    @onetirtha Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks Abby. It's the most powerful, clarifying, impactful video on Neville's teaching that I have watched on CZcams.
    You made huge efforts to go so deep in the realm of your psyche to explain it and help us. That's grand.

  • @moumitadharsaha4257
    @moumitadharsaha4257 Před měsícem

    Great video ❤❤❤

  • @davidmacdonald1579
    @davidmacdonald1579 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Excellent tutorial. I know for fact that dwelling on negative past issues often enough will create ongoing patterns.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 4 měsíci

      That is absolutely true. And sometimes we are dwelling on the patterns unconsciously which is where understanding this can be so confusing. It took me many years to even understand that about things, but when i did it really helped bring more clarity! Hoping to help everyone watching to get more clear so we can all grow together! 🥳 thanks for watching!

  • @scottbarrett1763
    @scottbarrett1763 Před 6 měsíci +6

    This is awesome! Thoughts are electric and feelings are magnetic. ❤❤❤

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes!! This is why feeling is so important. It's pulling in equal experience to that feeling.. so using your thoughts to shift your consciousness level via more awareness will help you shift to a new feeling state that feels natural and is automatic and you will magnetize an equal experience to that new feeling!

  • @user-eh5de2ik7c
    @user-eh5de2ik7c Před 6 měsíci +2

    Oh you crack the code I like to hear more about this. That's awesome.

  • @pinkishhope
    @pinkishhope Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you so much for the video Abby! I am so grateful that I just found your video, this goes into my gratitude journey for today ☺❤ You just explained everything that I needed clarity on. It makes so much sense that we all are looking for the end emotion. It was so easy to get caught up in the specifics of an event, people, or the job... while in many teachings, they tell you not to focus on the specifics. But I was wondering HOW that was possible. It all makes sense now. We want the end emotion! When we realize it, we could actually get clear on the feelings instead of analyzing every event that was happening around us. It's so beautifully explained. Thank you so much.

  • @barrymacfarlane4701
    @barrymacfarlane4701 Před 6 měsíci +15

    I love this so much. I'm realizing that when I visualize I am lacking the emotional feeling. I can clearly visualize a scene and even have auditory and touch while visualizing, but have been lacking the emotional feeling. Even when it has come to dating, visually amd on paper I know what I want in a partner, but have been lacking the open emotional connection to it, so my dating experiences have been short and many as I have not felt lasting connection feelings and instead hinge to the short moments and find people that reflect that back.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +5

      Totally understandable! Learning to visualize in a more effective way is a skill and you can learn to do it! Sounds like you've got some great components already so you aren't starting from scratch! Understanding what emotion will a loving relationship bring you? cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/1536/4861/files/Feel_good_emotions_2.jpg?v=1556302491
      Get clear on what you associate you'd feel by having the relationship.. then start to see if you have those feelings already in your life even in the smallest way. Also ask if when you were young, when you felt that did you get in trouble? Was in shunned? Was it looked down on? Was it seen a selfish? This can help to bring to your awareness an unconscious fear that would be repelling the love and those feelings from coming into your life. Hope this helps!

  • @sjdinatree
    @sjdinatree Před 6 měsíci +5

    Wow!! Nice video .. there are a lot of teachers out there but you truly have a unique gift.. imo .. it’s clear it’s understandable and enlightening.. thank you!! I always enjoy seeing your work pop up

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      🥹🙏 Thank you so much for this! i really appreciate your support and feedback. So glad you are part of this community!

  • @mirian593
    @mirian593 Před 6 měsíci

    Brilhant stuff, thank you ❤.

  • @magourn
    @magourn Před 6 měsíci

    Just came across your channel, love your videos, very concise, new sub.

  • @klorraineb9818
    @klorraineb9818 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Filled out a form and thanks for this video. I love learning and applying more of LOA but sometimes the applying is hard.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +2

      Wonderful! I sent an email out about an hour ago. Let me know if you didn't get it and we will get a session scheduled!

  • @eustaciavy
    @eustaciavy Před 6 měsíci +13

    Had an aha moment watching this-thank you! Well explained. Step one is where I’m hung up, and it’s because I want the feeling of financial and creative freedom, and I spend too much time establishing the feeling of control.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +7

      Well freedom, in my opinion, freedom is about autonomy. It's less about controlling and more about flowing and navigating what comes. It's not about the absense of something but having the self trust to use your intution to find situations that also reflect that trust ie more resouces both with money and more creative ideas both require responsibility. So the control is rigid.. It could be about fearing you can't get there or can't handle something... so the root of this is learning what you are fearing.. did you grow up where someone doubted your abilities in solving a problem... did adults say you were selfish if you had more than you needed? What possible issue would you have if you did have the financial resources? Would you feel alienated? would you be judged by those you love? The more you really build your introspection muscle the more you can gain conscious awareness of what fear is fueling that impulse to control that is actually blocking you off from the opening up of the faucet of energetic flow with creative and finances! Hope this helps!

    • @Alem_Mehari
      @Alem_Mehari Před 6 měsíci +3

      The feelings you want to feel are on the other side of the feelings you’re unwilling to feel (unconsciously). When you’re willing to fully consciously experience them they tend to change and dissolve into wisdom and the state that Aby describes.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      this is so much 🔥🔥🔥🔥 "The feelings you want to feel are on the other side of the feelings you’re unwilling to feel " BRILLIANT!!!

    • @Alem_Mehari
      @Alem_Mehari Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@AbbyRuston ❤️🙏most of our life’s experiences tend to form around the feelings we’re unwilling to experience.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      @@Alem_Mehari totally agree and we have the awareness, courage and tools to head into them, a new world emerges 🥳🥳❤️🙌🏼

  • @rolandlopez7763
    @rolandlopez7763 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is Brilliant! Thank You!!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      So glad you enjoyed it and thank you for taking the time to share this!

  • @geraldinemurch2039
    @geraldinemurch2039 Před 3 měsíci

    All three of these videos are fantastic, thank you very much for sharing this.

  • @Kiitn-Plays
    @Kiitn-Plays Před 6 měsíci +3

    Well done on noticing this nuance, soo many people sprint over this and never realize it

  • @user-cc3le7tz6z
    @user-cc3le7tz6z Před 6 měsíci +4

    Oh my god this is precious!!! You are precious. Geez I just got over a subconscious block but I didn't understand what to do next and this helped a lot. Thank you. I am so so lucky and thankful that I got watch this video.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      🥳🥳🥳 So happy you are here! Welcome to the community! Don't hesitate to let me know if you have any questions!

  • @Tarantella1924
    @Tarantella1924 Před 5 měsíci

    That’s brilliant! Thank you

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 5 měsíci

      So glad you enjoyed it! 🙏 Thanks for watching

  • @evolvedhustler
    @evolvedhustler Před 6 měsíci

    So much value!!! Thank you!!!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      So glad it helped! Thank you for watching!

  • @TheHillbilly8757
    @TheHillbilly8757 Před 6 měsíci +35

    One of my favorite quotes is inspired by something I heard Neville Goddard say in one of his lectures. I have it posted on the wall of my work space at my job.
    "Do not believe in it. Believe it in. "

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +4

      🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 love this!! I haven’t heard this before! It’s so simple and so profound! Thanks for sharing it!!

  • @dareactthink
    @dareactthink Před 6 měsíci +4

    As time goes on we make things easier to understand. You did a great job of making the law of attraction easier to comprehend. Thanks for you work.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      That is very insightful wisdom. I've heard it said long ago that life would be best experienced from the end to the beginning.. bc you'd have the wisdom of your later years, but then add that with the growing ability of your body in life.. i guess benjamin button... but we can learn to let go and grow and it will be different times for all of us but that moment it happens is the perfect moment for each of us! Thanks so much for the kind feedback and taking the time to share it with me!

    • @dareactthink
      @dareactthink Před 6 měsíci

      @@AbbyRuston You are right. And you are welcome.

  • @just_me3459
    @just_me3459 Před 4 měsíci

    Very well explained. Love the video.

  • @callarati
    @callarati Před 4 měsíci

    This is super helpful.OMG. Thank you so much Abby! I especially found you drawing out Story -> Event -> Feeling and running through a scenario of what could happen and how to tweak it the MOST helpful and clear!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 4 měsíci

      🥹🥹🙌🏼 SO happy to hear this!! I hope this shows you it's not a ability, you just need clarity the more you are open to it, the more you will become aware! The big thing here is applying it! I promise all the discomfort in those moments is worth the shift it will produce. You got this!!!

  • @LilacJream
    @LilacJream Před 6 měsíci +3

    Well this video was right on time. I had a dream on November 5th that I was telling one of my friends that she was repeating her old story and she needed to change it. Great video!

  • @Ken_luxury
    @Ken_luxury Před 6 měsíci +5

    Even if you can remember those good feelings of being with that person. You can conjure those for a few seconds until the old story “3D” of being left on read and rejected seep in and the reality is much stronger. It’s a spiralling loop of failure to manifest even a text message in 2 years.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      This is where I would strongly suggest somatic work to help your mind and body move this energy and start to process the wound. The story isn't to try to plant over another. You will need to dissolve the old story as you actively step out of it.. also practicing the new state of being. It IS possible bc i spent years and years in a horrible cycle of chasing love and being rejected. Sharing what I shared in #3 is a huge part of what broke me free. This playlist can further share how i broke free and you can too! You deserve to have your needs met. czcams.com/play/PLGAWDJ2HpYI7SsZPrB3f0KyoIyY7WDuja.html

  • @trishthompson5017
    @trishthompson5017 Před 6 měsíci

    So good! Great job of breaking the process down!

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      So glad it helped! Thanks for taking the time to share this with me!

  • @tobias_thestrategist
    @tobias_thestrategist Před 3 měsíci

    Great video, thanks

  • @marilen4325
    @marilen4325 Před 6 měsíci +4

    This is by far the best teachings on manifestation. It perfectly summarizes how to get what you want. Brilliant!

  • @quantum_man
    @quantum_man Před 6 měsíci +9

    This is so Brilliant....thank you very much
    To sum up the key point...
    Immerse yourself in that end emotion (feeling state) and live from there, permanently ❤️💫🎉

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      YES! And connecting to how you already experience those in your current life helps you to connect to this as a natural state for you! You got this!

    • @quantum_man
      @quantum_man Před 6 měsíci

      @@AbbyRuston Thank you Abby, you too!

  • @SaleemRanaAuthor
    @SaleemRanaAuthor Před 6 měsíci +1

    This was great. I totally got it. Thanks.

  • @KarolinaFerro
    @KarolinaFerro Před 6 měsíci +1

    LOVE THIS!

  • @dieseljagwar6673
    @dieseljagwar6673 Před 6 měsíci +5

    This message is beyond the truth🔥🔥🔥

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +2

      🙌🏼🙌🏼🥳🤗🔥🔥

  • @josephinezapata393
    @josephinezapata393 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Thank you for your content! It makes great sense. I might add rather than bypassing the STORY, to remove it by using Byron Katie’s “The Work” questions (do you know the story is absolutely true, who would you be without the story, and turn the story around) to dissolve the story and rewrite it to get to the desired feeling. Thank you again. I look forward to using your method married with Byron Katie’s questions to rewrite the story. God bless you and all your viewers.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      Yes! Love her! I have read her book and have used her app on my phone many times when i found myself deep in the limiting story. I recommend some somatic exercises to help regulate your nervous system so you can make the best use of the work. If you can do her questions in that triggered state and it's effect, more power to you! Thanks again for sharing! 🥳

  • @abrahamsultan6885
    @abrahamsultan6885 Před 6 měsíci

    Really helpful video. You do good work, Abby.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      Thanks so much for your kind words! I really do appreciate you watching 🙏

  • @davidbaldwin1233
    @davidbaldwin1233 Před 6 měsíci

    Abby you’re amazing !

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 5 měsíci

      Thanks for the love! You see in me what is also in you!

  • @jasonb4321
    @jasonb4321 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Hi. This is a pretty well thought out video. If I could make one small suggestion, when you mention a study, like the one about playing piano mentally, you might mention your source in case viewers are interested in learning more about it. 👍

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      Great point! thanks so much for this feedback! Helps me to make better video's in the future 🙌🏼

  • @IAM.x3
    @IAM.x3 Před 6 měsíci +3

    ⚡"A CHANGE OF FEELING IS A CHANGE IN DESTINY"⚡

  • @ninawilliams2499
    @ninawilliams2499 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you so much, I want that new stuff ! I’m so over that tired old story.

  • @endlessnameless7004
    @endlessnameless7004 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Excellent video. You have a very intuitive approach to the LoA. Thanks.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      So glad you enjoyed it and it helped!

  • @kristofergray6138
    @kristofergray6138 Před 6 měsíci +6

    You are an effective and mesmerizing communicator. This is the best Neville Goddard video. Period. 🙏 OMG, you changed my life. I love you.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thanks so much for this! I really appreciate you taking the time to share it with me! So glad it was so powerful and helped clear things up! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 remember it is always YOU changing your life. That power is yours and yours alone

    • @kristofergray6138
      @kristofergray6138 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@AbbyRuston You are welcome. I’m just a voice of feedback saying you are in the pocket. You are really good at this.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      🙏❤️🙌🏼

  • @msgoodwins7652
    @msgoodwins7652 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thanks Abby! ❤ Need to look into the abandonment/rejection side of things. I keep on repeating this pattern and need to break out of this to allow positive changes in my life. 🙏

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +2

      Yes! This playlist is totally devoted to helping you understand and start to see how to break out with the ABC method! czcams.com/play/PLGAWDJ2HpYI7SsZPrB3f0KyoIyY7WDuja.html

    • @msgoodwins7652
      @msgoodwins7652 Před 6 měsíci

      ⁠@@AbbyRustonThanks so much Abby! ♥️

  • @georgefirth
    @georgefirth Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great message!!!

  • @Sjj827
    @Sjj827 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great video! Thank you ❤

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      So glad you liked it! Doing these 3 things dramatically changed my life for the better and I hope the same for you 🙌🏼❤️

  • @Satori100
    @Satori100 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thank you Abby for your heartfelt presence.💖I have 2 questions: many people who had Near Death Experiences or other Mystical experiences, after experiencing Oneness, or unconditional love, claim that Life events are actually pre-determined. They were told the future events and when they return to the 3D, they just 'allowed' Life to work through them, without using Law of Attraction and the such. What do you think of that? Another question is how do you maintain the good manifesting feeling? Thank you!🦋

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      I am also very curious of listening to NDE stories. I haven't heard someone saying life is determined, but I'd be interested to hear their experience as well. I've heard is more like like is a river that is flowing and there is a certain amount of allowing. In my opinion, We are in collaboration with a high energy that works through us. When we tap into our true essence, I believe we allow that energy to fully flow. When we hold on to distortions of ourself in a self limiting way based on our lil kid brains in situations that were really hard and we didn't understand, we block the flow. So i think no matter if we flow or block off that energy cord, we always get a reflection of it and attract it's equal. 2) Manifestation is simply making the invisible visible.. meaning our beliefs and assumptions will be seen in our outside experiences. How we interpret, who we go for, what we choose to do, what story we tell.. it's all filtered through that assumpion and ultimately what becomes visible in our life. So it's about shifting your dominant feeling a higher energy to get that reflected.. we are all naturally very high energy beings.. when that river fully flows through us.. so in my opinion, it's about releasing the old ideas of ourself that cut off that supply.. and releasing them is about shifting the story of why it happened and also doing somatic work to release the energy in our body and fully process things that we hadn;t been able to process so we can return back to our natural state. Does this make sense?

  • @pfromturri194
    @pfromturri194 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Neville is very straightforward he doesn’t use codes just read his books and/or watch his videos ..that’s all you need

    • @hopecradle
      @hopecradle Před 6 měsíci

      Yes he is

    • @dareactthink
      @dareactthink Před 6 měsíci +1

      if he is so straight forward hows your manifesting going?

    • @toddkruger1223
      @toddkruger1223 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Agreed- there wasn’t a code to crack lol

  • @mariaelenabartesaghi6322
    @mariaelenabartesaghi6322 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Great video!!

  • @moniryousefian8782
    @moniryousefian8782 Před 6 měsíci +2

    This is the first time I'm watching your video and I really enjoyed it, simplicity in your teaching makes you unique and fun to watch and easy to understand! Greatly appreciated 🙏

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you! I do my best to keep it simple and practical. No one has time to waste! Let's be clear, do our inner world and enjoy our human experience 🥳🥳

  • @Old_Soul_
    @Old_Soul_ Před 6 měsíci +6

    "The environment lacked what you needed, not you lacked..."😭 I needed to hear that 😂

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      YES!!!! It is true! You are wonderful and aren't defined by what others lack to understand and appreciate! You got this! It's time to fully shine!

  • @aries84151
    @aries84151 Před 6 měsíci +12

    I do feel I try to impress the feeling of being loved into the subconscious but its counterpart is feeling not Loved. I dont know how to consistently overcome the feeling of Not being loved/ wanted/ rejected

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +10

      This is a great question and something i can make a video on in the future! So I will do my best here to explain it, but know there will be more on it later as well! So you have experiences early on where those you had to reply on for connection or love were either mean and cold, too busy, very critical, or so wrapped up in their own world they could have been physically there, but emotionally were not.. those things hurt you and they would hurt anyone.. however.. your perspective of WHY that happened is where you can regain your power.. that early on environment didn't reject you bc you weren't good enough or lacking in anyway, they treated you that way bc of what THEY lacked.. that doesn't mean they are bad ppl, but they are humans and we all have our own stuff. So early on you had to relate to your environment this way to survive.. well now that idea that someone treats you or does something to you is bc of YOU is the replay of that old feeling.. so you have to start to see the past different which can SIGNIFICANTLY drop a lot of the lower vibration emotions such as guilt or shame.. then as you are dissolving that it is very important you build the skill I shared in secret #3 to step out of those old interpretations which will help you break free of. Know that you are a beautiful person and you growing into your highest self will benefit all of us on earth bc you are that valuable! I am sending you love! Let me know if this helps or if you have more questions to get more clear! I'm here to help!

    • @aries84151
      @aries84151 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@AbbyRuston thank you! Its makes so much sense. I experienced my Mom being not really emotional with me, almost since my birth bc my dad was very ill and died when I was 4 months old so I was a Lot with my grandparents. I know its not that she rejected me because she didnt want me, but because she Herself was in so much pain and I know she loves me. However I See this pattern with men, some left me, some Show Up hot and cold and I get easily being triggered that Im gonna be rejected, btw sometimes its something they say that dont even mean that but I see it through that lense (I watched your Video about that IT was very helpful!)which I guess manifests them then to do so or Hurt me or are emotionally unavailable or half ass because they are my mirror (EIYPO). Its fun. In the beginning its wonderful and I think wow Im so Happy, thats almost too good to be true, my anxiety and fears kick in and it goes to shit, thats the reason I believe in manifestation bc I see this pattern once my fears kick in Happening/manifesting with each and every man I Fell in Love with

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +4

      I FEEL YOU!! I get in my own way and I'm here to say you CAN break out of this.. for me it felt the answer what to find someone to love me and THEN i would feel better. The real answer for me was to see when i was self abandoning.. The part 3 of my video is how i broke out of the self abandonment cycle.. basically you start giving herself more of what you need in that moment and are emotionally available to yourself which shifts who and what you attract into your life.. over time emotionally unavailable ppl were no longer interesting or attractive bc i wasn't so desperate for them to love me nor did i feel if they didn't love me i would be all alone. I also felt so much better bc me being there for myself relieved SO much pain. Here is a playlist for abandonment patterns czcams.com/play/PLGAWDJ2HpYI7SsZPrB3f0KyoIyY7WDuja.html
      And here is a playlist on how to attract reliable love
      czcams.com/play/PLGAWDJ2HpYI7fPVsVt7ZBNbIJr07RCGyv.html

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +6

      You are incredible strong to have grown up in an environment that was really intense and heavy... every child needs connection so you were never asking for too much. Also that yearning to connect with your mom but she was unavailable could be playing out when you want to connect with others emotionally.. the pattern would be they are too busy or they are distracted by something/someone else.. you can break this pattern ❤️

    • @aries84151
      @aries84151 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@AbbyRuston thank you so much you literally made my day ❤️

  • @zi9599
    @zi9599 Před 6 měsíci

    your approach is very fresh! loved this video

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci

      Aww thank you so much for this! Really appreciate the love for you taking the time to share it with me 🙏

  • @NewNow4u
    @NewNow4u Před 6 měsíci

    I love your 3 box visual. Visuals help me absorb better- Thank you 🙂

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      So happy it helps! Sometimes when i look back at my drawing I feel like that Charlie Day gif 😂😂

  • @mariadeli6609
    @mariadeli6609 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Hi Abby, what do you think of the idea that the "unavailable" partner is just our assumption and if we change, they will. I have a difficult time accepting this, especially as i move up in consciousness. Some people are just not secure partner material at this point.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +1

      This is a great question! I think this is where the misunderstanding of the law can run us into delusion.. so in my perspective and experience, there are two different things... 1) you can assume some sort of idea that you aren't enough or those who you want don't want you and attract ppl who reflect that to you... they don't have the emotional availability for you bc you assume you aren't worth it 2) the second thing that can happen is you can translate interactions through the assumption everyone is leaving or not interested... even if they do have the emotional space for you... so learning to do secret #3 can break someone out of that.... I do not believe changing an assumption changes someone else if they are emotionally unavailable... changing the assumption changes what we see and how we navigate which changes the outcome... when you change the assumption about yourself those who don't have the emotional capacity will no longer bc attractive or interesting and they will shift out and you will attract those who do have the emotional space... the other thing that could feel like ppl respond different is when you remove the assumption they are rejecting you in the moment.. and see it differently then you can connect with the emotional situation that was there already... does this make sense?

    • @mariadeli6609
      @mariadeli6609 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @AbbyRuston yes and thank you so much for such a detailed reply. Personally, I think I am a catch :-p I don't have any worthiness issues, after yrs of doing this internal work. My kinda of theory is that ok in potential we are all perfect and complete and since creation is finished then yes there are different versions of everyone available. However, how close is someone's version to what we have in mind, imagine, affirm etc is highly individualized depending on his journey and his level of consciousness.
      So, yes, potentially, we are all secure, great partners but when it comes down to it, in 3D life, there are a lot of elements to be considered.
      Me becoming secure resulted in not being attracted to unavailable people anymore or unfulfilling etc. But I heard comments that I didn't persist enough into "recreating" someone in my mind, where I just decided it was a waste of my time.

    • @AbbyRuston
      @AbbyRuston  Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@mariadeli6609 if all our time and energy is being spent creating someone outside ourself so we can have our desired experience.. it’s my opinion that’s self abandonment bc our energy is not with ourselves.. and this structure is echoing the early on environment where the wounds were first created. As a kid we NEEDED those around us to change in order for our needs to be met bc we couldn’t do it on our own nor could we leave for a better equipped environment..so focusing on the outside to change is that same impulse.. recognizing the dynamics that create the wounds and shift our perspective and transformation the energy of that wound is what allows us to change our experience and then see that reflected back as a natural reaction to that inner world

    • @mariadeli6609
      @mariadeli6609 Před 6 měsíci

      @AbbyRuston thank you, that was an excellent explanation of attachment wounding and our orientation towards outside sources to get our needs met. It is such a vicious cycle because we use choose people and experiences that are of the same cloth as the primary caregivers, resulting in us feeling more traumatized. Dr. DiSpenza's work has been profound in training our bodies emotionally to a new mindset and it has been my go to practice for yrs.
      I appreciate your timely response. Keep up the amazing content. It's important 😌 👌