Message from our 36 year-old palliative patient

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
  • It’ll only take 5 minutes of your time. Hear a message from our 36 year-old patient Dexter, and on Global Day of Parents tomorrow, take time to slow down and cherish your parents.
    #globaldayofparents #palliativecare #fathersday2022 #mothersday2022 #hospicecare

Komentáře • 337

  • @kG-rv1ck
    @kG-rv1ck Před 2 lety +272

    “I would want to be your son again” damn that makes my eyes water…
    I’m so sorry to his parents they don’t deserve to lose their only child :(
    I hope the community embraces them with love and helps them get through it

  • @tonicolletti2788
    @tonicolletti2788 Před 2 lety +136

    I was having a terrible day today, feeling so depressed about my life. Trying to distract myself from being old and living in a tent, this video came up. Normally I would avoid anything that might make me feel more sad but I choose to watch. I want to thank you for helping me open my eyes again and feel good again. You are blessed and loved and you and your parents will be together again. Y'all are a special family💕

    • @jenniethompson7342
      @jenniethompson7342 Před 2 lety +6

      I’m so sorry for your circumstances 😞

    • @pamelastates5600
      @pamelastates5600 Před 2 lety +6

      @Toni , Hello 👋🏽 I’m sending good vibes only to you my dear friend. Just know GOD IS WATCHING OVER YOU & KEEPING YOU SAFE!! Just keep ur head up , take 1 day @ a time . NEVER LOSE YOUR FAITH🙏🏽 Toni u are NEVER ALONE !! Talk to God he can and will hear your prayers . Toni it was ment for me to see this video and to READ YOUR COMMENT 🙏🏽just know you have people out here praying for you 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽 Better days are coming . Sending you all my Love&Prayers ❤️🙏🏽 THIS TOO SHALL PASS 💛Love from Toronto, Canada 🇨🇦 ❤️🙏🏽

    • @gosiagorecka3454
      @gosiagorecka3454 Před 2 lety +2

      Good to hear fro you Toni! Hopefully you have a nice weather!

    • @mitch5222
      @mitch5222 Před 2 lety +1

      Saying hi and good luck

    • @user-cx9db7rt8b
      @user-cx9db7rt8b Před 11 měsíci

      💋

  • @VanTran-qz5kf
    @VanTran-qz5kf Před 2 lety +167

    Hang in there Dexter! Try to live as long as you can for your family.
    I will be going in for my 36th cycle of chemo this week, for a cancer that can't be cured... I have a seven year old daughter so I have to stay as positive as possible.

    • @NC000C
      @NC000C Před 2 lety +2

      He died....

    • @VanTran-qz5kf
      @VanTran-qz5kf Před 2 lety +3

      @@NC000C Oh man, I didn't know that.

    • @sonnysnavarro6860
      @sonnysnavarro6860 Před 2 lety

      @@VanTran-qz5kf ,who died ?

    • @pamelachandra6434
      @pamelachandra6434 Před 2 lety +4

      God bless you and protect you …. Hugs .. can’t fathom your pain and suffering a
      … no one should be in this position ….

    • @NC000C
      @NC000C Před 2 lety +2

      @@sonnysnavarro6860 the one in video

  • @dizzydaydream9647
    @dizzydaydream9647 Před 2 lety +153

    What a beautiful family. I want to live like they do. Not to judge and to be patient and understanding. Thank you Dexter for teaching a 51 year old lady some serious lessons on compassion and respect. I’m so moved by a 5 minute vlog that has had a massive impact on me. X

    • @longlongshadows392
      @longlongshadows392 Před 2 lety +2

      Same

    • @ryangrey8643
      @ryangrey8643 Před 2 lety +2

      I could not have said it better myself. This young man has touched more lives than he can
      ever imagine!

    • @sueleslie9570
      @sueleslie9570 Před 2 lety +2

      Heartbreakingly moving ❤️💔🙏🏻

    • @godschild3640
      @godschild3640 Před rokem

      Us ❤️‍🩹white ❤️‍🩹people ❤️‍🩹are ❤️‍🩹, NOT racist white supremacy and a fascist is judging us. It’s a hate crime and I’m glad that I have stage four cancer and I hope that I die so that I never am racially discriminated against this world has been abusive towards white people, and we was also slaves and almost every nation, including Africa and America. We are still slaves in chains, even our children And Hitler and Stalin, butchered millions of my white family cold blood and all white nations have been invaded, and they are killing us. I wish Jesus would come for all the good people, including all the minorities who love every race, and to love your neighbor, and not to judge anyone, but they’ve already judged my white family and they have sent it says to death I seen a video the other day of the people white people in Ukraine are all butchered and tortured to death and wild pigs are eating their bodies. Unbelievable of how this world has judged us. ..❤️‍🩹..

    • @godschild3640
      @godschild3640 Před rokem

      @@longlongshadows392. I’m actually 😂glad that I’m 😂going to die 😂so I won’t be 😂called a racist or white supremacy or a fascist or be abused in anyway ever again it’s a hate crime. 😂,, this world to race white history and we were slaves and almost every nation. We are still slaves and in chains but we are not allowed to talk about our history because it’s racist. It’s racist racist racist, racist, racist, and Hitler and Stalin butchered, millions of my white family in cold blood and now World War III against us. It’s all white nations they’re killing us. If you only knew about white history, you would never hate white people again with the most loving kindness, happy people just like that guy right there where exactly like your family were exactly like that guy on this video you could’ve always came and talk to us. It’s been a hateful, abusive world that we are Furrys to live in.

  • @audreymaqks
    @audreymaqks Před 2 lety +117

    Such a wonderful son. His message should be shared around the world. People may not understand why I would choose to watch a video of someone whose life is ending. Although it is sad for me it is a means to appreciate what I have. He was truly a loving man.

  • @noctua_caelum
    @noctua_caelum Před 7 měsíci +19

    “If reincarnation is a thing, I’d want to be your son again” 😭 May he get his wish. ❤

  • @margaretcarragher6808
    @margaretcarragher6808 Před 2 lety +26

    Dexter is such a loving caring son with equally loving caring parents, God Bless you Dexter. 🥹🥹🥹

  • @hope-vx3rc
    @hope-vx3rc Před 2 lety +23

    What a privilege to hear Dexter sharing about his family and reminding us to value the ones we love. My heart goes out to his parents he seemed like a wonderful son x

  • @Anthonyinkz
    @Anthonyinkz Před 2 lety +22

    I'm sure any parent would be proud to call Dexter their son, he has become my son in my heart, bless him♥️

  • @jennyb7745
    @jennyb7745 Před 2 lety +36

    Dexter you reminded us all to cherish each other & that yes a Parents love is unconditional. ❤️Thankyou

  • @EchelonPandora
    @EchelonPandora Před 2 lety +23

    Thank you Dexter for your wise words. We should cherish those around us.

  • @relaxingsoundsforgoodsleep4653

    He’s a wonderful young man, and he’s lucky to have such loving kind parents.

  • @Susan-xg7qn
    @Susan-xg7qn Před 2 lety +26

    I have no idea how I landed here, from Canada, mom of 5 adults, BUT Dexter's parents raised an amazing man. God bless him in heaven, and his parents on earth ! This was so heartbreaking.

  • @mariegarcia3560
    @mariegarcia3560 Před 2 lety +12

    I want to be like his parents. I want my sons to feel that I was worth their time. Thank you for your legacy.

  • @renae9365
    @renae9365 Před 2 lety +18

    My heart goes out to this young man and his family, I will say prayers for you.

  • @delsol1967
    @delsol1967 Před 2 lety +48

    This is heart wrenching. All the best to this family.

  • @tonifoster1835
    @tonifoster1835 Před 2 lety +23

    Dexter thank you for sharing. God is with you and doesn’t want you to be afraid, I hope you are not in pain and continue as long as you can. Beautiful parents are lucky to have you as their son. Praying for you ❤️🌹❤️

  • @lindc1070
    @lindc1070 Před měsícem +2

    This video is a great gift he left to his parents.

  • @annjean8709
    @annjean8709 Před 2 lety +22

    May God bless and comfort this precious family. 🙏🏾 😔

  • @suzanne296
    @suzanne296 Před 2 lety +3

    What a truly good soul. He knows what matters. Value people not money.

  • @dawnchristine1438
    @dawnchristine1438 Před 2 lety +9

    Very beautiful and caring man. He was given the gift of the realization of how important your parents are and the importance of spending quality time with them.❤️

  • @DoctorSess
    @DoctorSess Před 2 lety +68

    Rest peacefully Dexter. What an incredible family my heart goes out to them.

  • @yangwenting2
    @yangwenting2 Před 2 lety +37

    Wishing Dexter n family peace and bliss. Thank you for sharing.

  • @lumia57
    @lumia57 Před 2 lety +8

    He has brought tears to my eyes it's five years since I lost my Hubs Chris to Throat cancer ... He was the same positive for everyone around him prays to you all 💜🙏💜

  • @kaycampbell8532
    @kaycampbell8532 Před 2 lety +21

    We all regret not spending more time with our parents when we had a chance. My parents are gone now and I would give all that I have for just one more day with them. Dexter is very wise for a young man. He obviously has wonderful loving parents. I'm grateful for the parents I had. I pray for all the people who were unloved or abused. May God lift you up and comfort you.💋❤

  • @jy8234
    @jy8234 Před 2 lety +25

    Simple yet very powerful messages from Dexter to all of us. Time just slips by us each day. May all of us live our lives with less regrets and spend more time with our loved ones 🙏🏻❤️
    Thank you Assisi Hospice Singapore!

    • @angelareminiscenza6233
      @angelareminiscenza6233 Před 2 lety

      I agree with you . I have so many regrets, hope to improve . Thanks to Dexter. God bless him. See you in heaven 👼

  • @josie0317
    @josie0317 Před 2 lety +8

    I’m 36 this had me In tears x
    Thank you for your wise message x
    Bless your heart ❤️

  • @ttephi3667
    @ttephi3667 Před 2 lety +23

    You are a precious and beautiful person Dexter. And your Parents are. Your message of taking a look at your Parents and see how they've aged, just GOT me. I don't cry much but I did when I realised what you were saying there. Love and Hugs

  • @Zee-ob1pe
    @Zee-ob1pe Před měsícem +3

    I am only 38 and my kid is 15. Although I haven’t really aged much or even have a gray hair yet, I’ll share this video with my kid.
    Parents young and old should be cherished .

  • @davidsionmcconnell12
    @davidsionmcconnell12 Před 2 lety +5

    Amazing parents . May the lord give you speedy recovery.

  • @jamespetherbridge2151
    @jamespetherbridge2151 Před 2 lety +24

    May his soul Rest In Eternal Peace and may his memory be a blessing forever. Rest In Power Dexter!

    • @johnmonk3381
      @johnmonk3381 Před 2 lety +1

      Do u know him personally? How do u know he's passed on?

  • @jordannamocnaj882
    @jordannamocnaj882 Před 2 lety +16

    Rest peacefully Dexter. What a beautiful family. Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @heather4180
    @heather4180 Před 2 lety +19

    Sending your family an abundance of Love, Strength and Positive Vibes. What a Gift You Continue to be, Dexter. Thank You 🙏🏼💙

  • @ellenlaehnemann7361
    @ellenlaehnemann7361 Před 2 lety +5

    Dexter you are an incredible man. Your parents are lovely. You are so right, spend as much time with your parents as possible, we are not here forever. Having a loving family is a treasure. Unfortunately we get wise too late. Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom. Your ❤ loving soul will live forever. May you and your family have peace in your lives.
    parents

  • @ericc9570
    @ericc9570 Před 2 lety +12

    My heart goes out to your family and rest in peace , Dexter .
    I paused the video and couldn't continue . I knew it was going to be heart wrenching after reading all the messages. This brought back lovely memory almost 30 years ago - my grandma was smiling and enjoying herself on a wheelchair . She was wearing a novelty colourful hat, clapping at a Christmas party that was organised and being served by the great peoples - staffs and volunteers at Assisi . I think her last Christmas was the happiest of all that she had attended .
    May God bless all the good people at Assisi.

  • @sonnysnavarro6860
    @sonnysnavarro6860 Před 2 lety +18

    What a kind video ,I listen to him speak and it is so elegantly explained and executed,it really makes you remember what’s important 🙏

  • @alyssajoyblack5007
    @alyssajoyblack5007 Před 2 lety +9

    That would have to be the most beautiful thing a parent could hear from their chronically/terminally ill child. I’m going to say to it to my mum right now x

  • @pamelad996
    @pamelad996 Před 2 lety +3

    As a parent, I wish I could be more like his! This video has brought me to tears that I need to be more loving. What a gift that they shared as a family. God Bless.

  • @FriendM2010
    @FriendM2010 Před 2 lety +4

    Lost Mom a year ago. We were 2000 miles away from each other. Have similar regrets. This young man is very thoughtful with loving parents too. 🥰

  • @pathmanadarajah7981
    @pathmanadarajah7981 Před měsícem +1

    Stay strong dexter.god has his plans but the best was giving you beautiful parents whose love can support you.sending you and your parents hugs and prayers

  • @genekelly8467
    @genekelly8467 Před 2 lety +3

    I found this very moving-god bless this young man and his wonderful parents..hope they are reunited one day!

  • @rosscameron7077
    @rosscameron7077 Před 2 lety +4

    Such a wonderful and respectful man thank you for your story for ever in our hearts

  • @sheldonsworld8853
    @sheldonsworld8853 Před 2 lety +1

    Life is short and we often times forget the most basic precious things in life... love each other and love your parents ...

  • @fvmiller1193
    @fvmiller1193 Před 2 lety +11

    Parents understand children need to explore, make mistakes, find out what the like & don’t like, get drunk, separate themselves a little. It’s the normal way of things. We love our kids because of all of these things! No matter what. Love and peace to you all- thank you for sharing xxx

  • @gailkollmann-vk7nw
    @gailkollmann-vk7nw Před 22 dny

    What a special soul, his words touched me . 💚🙏

  • @Janis.7-
    @Janis.7- Před 2 lety +5

    What lovely parents and brave young son . Bless

  • @beobjective1793
    @beobjective1793 Před 2 lety +12

    Thank you everyone for making this video. I’m having depression but this video suddenly appear on my CZcams page, I got to know Assisi and watched all patients’ videos. Don’t know how to express, just want to say they helped me in some ways.

  • @Demebeso714
    @Demebeso714 Před 2 lety +1

    100% normal family.. Love being their foundation.. gives me hope for this world.. Love is all that matters.. thanks you for this video

  • @pamelachandra6434
    @pamelachandra6434 Před 2 lety +4

    My heart is breaking … he knew life in depth when it was leaving him ….. life so unpredictable…. I hope his parents are ok and carry on his legacy … no parents should burry their kid before they die …

  • @ogapadoga2
    @ogapadoga2 Před 2 lety +8

    We will all join Dexter very soon. You know how fast years can go by.

  • @wildlifegardenssydney7492

    Such beautiful and heartfelt sentiments. What gorgeous individuals and strong yet gentle and loving family members.

  • @midnightcat6116
    @midnightcat6116 Před měsícem +1

    Omg i cried so hard watching this. Sending much loving-kindness 💗

  • @sonnysnavarro6860
    @sonnysnavarro6860 Před 2 lety +1

    That video has really impacted my life and the way I view things,thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom and your story 🙏

  • @maryjones3421
    @maryjones3421 Před 2 lety +1

    So sad god bless dexter and the love he had for his parents with great respect and love for his mam and dad he was so brave thinking about his mam and dad so sad 💔💔💔 🙏🙏🙏

  • @knswee
    @knswee Před 2 lety +1

    Best Video I seen all dayyyyy!!! lots of wisdom received

  • @debbiefouriner7239
    @debbiefouriner7239 Před 2 lety +1

    You are a beautiful human and will be a beautiful angel to someone else. God bless you and your whole family.

  • @Tina-bp7wt
    @Tina-bp7wt Před 2 lety +4

    You have made them very proud of you as a Son, I'm sure. Thank you for sharing your message to us.
    May God bless you and your family 💜💜💜

  • @Freiya2011
    @Freiya2011 Před 2 lety

    Oooh, what a sweet thing to say to his parents! They will miss him so much, but they will find consolace in his words.

  • @kerribennett3013
    @kerribennett3013 Před 2 lety +1

    Such a brave, intelligent, Selfless young man. Im praying for your miracle! More people like you are exactly what this world needs. I think you’re amazing🙏❤️

  • @ChristianeFortin
    @ChristianeFortin Před 2 lety +2

    What a beautiful message that I shared so everyone remembers ❤️

  • @colinsmith1288
    @colinsmith1288 Před 2 lety +1

    Too be loved,is a precious gift. Too be loved and cherished when our time comes, is the heaven we all crave for.

  • @sonnysnavarro6860
    @sonnysnavarro6860 Před 2 lety

    Every time I watch this video ,I am more and more grateful for another day 🙏

  • @CatharinaKoenheim
    @CatharinaKoenheim Před 2 lety +1

    His message is so powerful. I needed this.

  • @janetbransdon3742
    @janetbransdon3742 Před 2 lety +2

    Sending prayers and love to you and your family.

  • @ellad9513
    @ellad9513 Před 2 lety +2

    Such a beautiful message ..I hope his parents are doing well 🙏
    Rest In Peace ❤🙏🌹

  • @mariannereynolds492
    @mariannereynolds492 Před 2 lety

    That is all we want our children to feel and know that we do our best for our kids. Our kids are the most important things on our lives too young man

  • @eraserbuddy213
    @eraserbuddy213 Před rokem +1

    what a sad and touching message from Dexter.

  • @agneskiesling2905
    @agneskiesling2905 Před rokem +1

    Such a sweet story... sweet parents...❤

  • @sawdust2556
    @sawdust2556 Před 2 lety +3

    Sending love and prayers for you and your parents.💕💕💕💕🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼You are a beautiful and amazing person, and your parents love you so much!

  • @Angelcatsun
    @Angelcatsun Před 2 lety +4

    People go through so much. Bless his soul and his parents 💖

  • @ahmadmustaffar834
    @ahmadmustaffar834 Před 2 lety

    All my best wishes to Dexter and his dear parents, who i have no doubt, love & cherish their son greatly.

  • @M.C.Blackwell
    @M.C.Blackwell Před 2 lety

    What a beautiful sweet person you are, Dexter. I'm sending you love

  • @sarac.3259
    @sarac.3259 Před 2 lety

    Dexter and Assisi Hospice - thank you. Dexter's parents, thank you. Beautiful relationship.

  • @julianna4373
    @julianna4373 Před 2 lety

    They have a unshakable, unbreakable bond that will tie them together for all eternity.

  • @thecraftyannapolitan5453
    @thecraftyannapolitan5453 Před 2 lety +5

    This is so beautiful. What a lovely family. Wishing them peace.💕🕊

  • @michelemurphy3541
    @michelemurphy3541 Před 2 lety

    ‘Very Gentle’…wow, that just hit me deep inside my Soul. Thank You.
    Best words ever…so, be gentle. ❤️.
    Thank You, I wish you safe and magnificent travels on your journey through The Universe and if back to your parents…a beautiful life again, for all of you. You are a very Special Soul and your parents are special Souls as well. What a gift to love and be loved.

  • @MissAngelicable
    @MissAngelicable Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks Dexter for the message this global parents day. 🙏
    Jia you!!

  • @flyingphobiahelp
    @flyingphobiahelp Před 2 lety +1

    Such a wonderful man!!

  • @TaylorTiree
    @TaylorTiree Před 2 lety +1

    What an absolutely beautiful message Dexter, sending Love & Best Wishes to you and your parents ❤️🇬🇧

  • @bethlehemeisenhour5807

    Hugs from Greece, You will always be their son. A gift from GOD, Hugs again.

  • @frankwong9269
    @frankwong9269 Před 2 lety +1

    He is brave lad bless him

  • @godschild3640
    @godschild3640 Před rokem

    I pray 🙏🏻 that this wonderful spirit is still alive on this earth because there’s not very many nice people on this earth

  • @HeartBreakHigh
    @HeartBreakHigh Před 2 lety

    That is sooooooo beautiful! If you are fortunate to have great parents, please appreciate them, love them and spend time with them. If you’re not fortunate enough to have great parents, then be the parent you wanted to have.

  • @fionachadwick8005
    @fionachadwick8005 Před 11 měsíci +1

    what a lovely boy x

  • @maggielow3900
    @maggielow3900 Před 2 lety

    God is with you. You are not alone. Continue as long as you can. You have a wonderful loving parents.
    Will pray for you. God Bless.🙏

  • @haileybuikes5151
    @haileybuikes5151 Před 2 lety

    It’s amazing how these earth angels - that’s what I call them ..passing on these heartfelt life lessons to the rest of us ..we salute you Dexter..thanks you for reminding us to just BE..and spread the love 🥰😢

  • @lsmith7531
    @lsmith7531 Před 2 lety

    A wonderful human being leaving this world far too soon.

  • @bevanbuckwheatshea5520

    What an incredible young man. You are absolutely amazing.

  • @caroltrudge1389
    @caroltrudge1389 Před 2 lety

    You was raised to be a beautiful soul. That you are. Your story has touched all our of hearts 🙏

  • @Achristian888
    @Achristian888 Před 2 lety +5

    Hi Dexter thank you for this inspiring message to all of us... I wish you strength & peace! Your parents are amazing!

  • @Carbrat
    @Carbrat Před 2 lety +1

    Extremely touching and I understand having lost both my parents. I wish them all well, and may they all be at peace !!

  • @steventay5834
    @steventay5834 Před měsícem

    Happy to know you will be their son again!!
    I hope my daughter will say the same. We love her and pampered her. No matter what wrong she did, we also won't get angry

  • @moniqueheubel8970
    @moniqueheubel8970 Před 2 lety

    You are such a beautiful person. Don’t be sorry about the time you didn’t spend or think that you were selfish, that was your journey to become the special person that you are. G-d bless you.

  • @caroltaylor3931
    @caroltaylor3931 Před 2 lety

    Delightful young man, with lovely parents x

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 Před 2 lety +1

    Wonderful young man God bless you stay prayed up , may your parents continue to embrace your love for a long long time 🙏🏾❤️

  • @thebravesoul
    @thebravesoul Před 2 lety +1

    BRAVE 💜 BRILLIANT 💜 BEAUTIFUL 💜

  • @mac-ju5ot
    @mac-ju5ot Před 2 lety +1

    What a great tribute to ur mom and dad. ....Bet his love never ends and they find u again dear

  • @scratchy1704
    @scratchy1704 Před 2 lety

    His mum and dad done a fine job bringing up this young gentleman 💙.This is so sad 😢

  • @annekedam6846
    @annekedam6846 Před 2 lety

    It is so special, touching, he thinks only at his parents well being...not scared for himself...they are not only great parents, but he is also an incredible caring son ...🥲

  • @skygazer6898
    @skygazer6898 Před 2 lety +1

    What a wonderful young man. so sorry he had to leave far too early as he had so much to give to the world.