I came for the hat. I stayed for the word...."If you don't know who you are single, you won't know who you are married".......YES! Speak young WoG. Great word!
100% agree. people are always telling me, I wont find a husbane if I dont start looking and dating. Thing is I dont want to find 'a' husbane, I want the husbane God has planned for me. Why mess around with a bunch of guys I know are not him, when I could be spending that time devoted to God. I looked and dated plenty enough before I became a christian and while I learnt a bunch of lesson, I agree with you and believe it's wiser to spend my time now working on myself and my identiy, so that when my husbane does come along, I will be prepared and ready to give him my best! Dont waste your single years girls.. you dont need to have the same attitude about singlehood as the world does. Change your perspective about it and it will change your motives!! x0x
I screamed when I saw the title of this video!!!!!! 😲😲😲 I'm 18, and I'm single by choice because I believe God had a specific purpose for my life. I also decided to take a vow of purity when I was 13. And my friends are alllwwwaayyyysss telling me "girl you're young and in college, date and have some fun" and I'm like nooooooo. This is exactly how you mess stuff up 😂😂 and God knows specifically what he has for me. Like I'm literally screaming my head of right now 😂😂 this is just confirmation on top of confirmation.
The easiest way to meet and marry an appointed spouse is to focus first on our relationship with Lord Jesus Christ. We do this by prayers, fastings and the reading of the Word, in order to receive and practice His kindness towards everyone around us. This works because, in the Lord's eyes, a couple who haven't met yet are still one complete Man [male and female] before Him. An appointed spouse will start to receive and practice the kindness of God as well. And will be led eventually to their own husband or wife. I know this works because this is what I did to meet my lovely wife. We've been happily married now for 22 years. It's so unfortunate that there's such a lack of knowledge in the Church on how to meet an appointed spouse. It doesn't have to be this way.
When I was single I had an ideal image of what my wife would look like, what she'd be like, and we'd hit it off with fireworks. And sure enough my first girlfriend post college SEEMED to fit the bill. I just "KNEW" it was God's answer for my wife. I was so full of hormones I was temporarily insane. Literally! Six months later she tore my heart out by betraying me for a new boyfriend, calling me unfit to be with her, and saying all this on the phone assuring me talking about it would do no good. I was emotionally devastated! Then God said to me want to do things my way? I now am married to the wife God knew I needed, not a woman of the world I thought I wanted!
Thank you for this! One of my girls always tells me date date date, go see what you like and don’t like, get a free meal, and I always think and say no! That’s taking advantage of a man and that man is someone’s son and deserves respect. Also, I know I’ll get attached. I don’t want to keep attaching and then “unattaching.” Also, God’s judgement is 100000% better than mine, and He knows the kind of man that will suit me even 50 years from now - I can’t possibly know that. So I won’t just go out with any and everybody that asks. I’m glad you made this video because I feel more justified in feeling that way. We will be fools before the world and wise before God.🙏🏽
I agree wholeheartedly, being single also gives you that time for spiritual growth and understanding. That is the season I'm in and it's been a blessing. God will give you peace in your singleness especially if you have faith and trust in God to provide. Just remember too keep God first in your marriage if God's will is to bless you this way. I've learned so much over the last several months by reading His word. All I can say again is keep the faith and trust in God.
Preach on, Ally! Keep on sharing the raw truth of the Word! Your videos on The Option and Single doesn’t mean available really spoke big time to me! My wife went to heaven almost 2 years ago, and I am believing God for HIS time to marry again!
This is what has been happening to me and from now on I just pray to God to prevent me feom meeting the wrong people until the right time He has planned foe me..
Such wise and wonderful responses Thank you for sharing Allison. My friend and I are both single in our early 60s and would like to meet someone but we devote ourselves to God so those of you who are younger than 60 there's hope. I believe God wants to bless us beyond our wildest dreams.
Sister Allyson. You are a blessing!! I'm passing this on to every single person I know. Thanks for you obedience. May God continues to bless and keep you!!
So true! I have always felt that ''putting yourself out there'' is super desperate and people do not understand it is actually toxic. Sadly the world has tricked us into this belief that there is something wrong with you when you are not in a relationship. You can not seek for validation from someone else. First find yourself and then all the right things, including marriage, come!
Yes! I absolutely LOATHE when my friends tell me to, "put myself out there." My heart and dignity are too precious to give away to any guy. Don't care what people think.
Thanks Allison I've given all my heart and soul to YawahGod and I'm going to be patient and pray for a wife God has in store for me, MayGod bless you your so blessed with a good heart and you shine.
We may live in this world with choices but living & having above all a good relationship with God is the 1st & above all the very 1st choice. Trust me... I made not 1 but 2 poor choices & God didn't bring us together cause if he did I wouldn't have 2 broken marriages. I tried so very much as I listened to my 1st husband telling me I drove him to drink & the abuse was getting bad. I went for counseling & learned I didn't put the alcohol in his mouth. Then I wanted to be with someone that I thought loved me but a marriage won't work when 1 believes in Christ & the other doesn't but let's put a tree up & etc etc... He didn't understand my love for Christ & got jealous. He was in drugs & got abusive with me. I found out a lot about him & it was heartbreaking... Now I'm alone but thank God for my children, provision he gives me. I'm HIS BRIDE & learned the very hard way. Know what you talked "just because I'm single doesn't mean I'm available.... If I made anyone read this & made them wake up PLEASE GIVE THIS TO YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER, TOO DELIVER YOU FROM TEMPTATION FROM THE ENEMY.... Love ya all!!!💖
I always thought we have to find our soulmate but every time I try to make moves it always ends up in mistake because I see some things that aren’t right from my heart. But your words remind me that its better to wait even if it takes a lifetime. Despite of the teases from being single at my age, I have God to defend me. Thank you for these words. Godbless you
Preach it. Keep drinking from God's Word! How refreshing and inspiring to see such a beautiful woman impassioned for Christ and standing on His truth! Live your calling. Follow hard after Christ. He is the greatest power, strength and friend I have ever known. God's Word never comes back void. Truly blessed are those who believe it, allowing ur to settle into the depths of their souls until it begins to change them from the inside out. God's protection over you, Allyson. . . When you are obedient to God, the blessings overflow to others.
💟I really wish I heard this when I was young. 💟The Lord saved me when I was 20.💟 And I was taught then this.💟 Walk with God. Amen !!!! 💟Great word Pastor.💟Phil 4:12~13
Amen to that! There's a series taught by Michael Todd called Relationship Goals and he says that you have to be happy with your singleness first before you can enter into a relationship.
Wooow MS Allison ...deff are BORN AGAIN ..I have a twin brother and God saved both of us out of a horrid life of SIN .I WAS ON CHIPPNDALE WORLD TOUR AND 1 OF 25 MEN UNTIL THE DAY THE LORD JESUS SHOWED UP AND REVEALED HIMSELF AND THAT WAS 5 YEARS AGO ..BOTH ME AND MY BRO JUST MOVED TO WEST V , THIS MESSAGE IS BY FAAAAR SO SO IMP ....THE LORD lED ME TO UR MESSAGE THIS MORNING WHAT TRUTH.
I believe that to ..Ecactly ..his help. Yes .indeed your a great teacher please these humans need you .ypur just Wonderful , Vibrant , Brilliance What a Beautiful soul you are... Gratitude Gratitude Gratitude I love Humanity.
I love your truth sister. Since LISTENING to many different vids u talk about regarding being single to promises of GOD. I love your insight that is real. & you say it how it is. As a women of GOD to that has fallen short of gods glory many times in my past. I am willing to wait now its a Journey but honestly worth it. Thank you for insight sis.
It's really weird but last year every date that I went on never went past the 2nd date. I found myself thinking was I talking to much or is it because I'm plus size I couldn't understand what I was doing wrong. Then I realized that God was pushing them away because it wasn't park of his plan. I'm still single but feel great while being single because I know the Lord has the right person for me at the right time. I just need to be patient until the times right...
Maybe you need to visit different areas, try dating people that like plus size women. Have you visited a baptist church? Believe it or not but many people look past our imperfections, because of the joy they receive from us.
Superb message, God bless you. Really helpful, I feel the same singleness is a blessing. It so Tiring to hear from people that we should be looking for guys, keep our eyes open, when its the Godly man who should look out for us and pesue us. I thought I was old fashioned, man I am so happy to hear this from a young women perspective.
Ally you are such an inspiration, I have been going through a difficult phase of life and yesterday I stumbled on your videos and I'm so blessed. I feel different, liberated after listening. May God bless u for a job well done. i have this inner joy n peace since yesterday,thanks Ally. I'm writing from Cameroon
A man is a truly blessed man to have a woman like you! I see you with honor and virtue. And those are two great qaulities to me. Blessing my dear and lovely sister.
@allysonRowe Keep going preaching with boldness and fire of God is amazing to see woman’s that has surrendered before God and I see how great this the Lord do through you young ladies
A relationship with God is the single best relationship anyone can be in!
Amen!
Its great after a few drinks, he gets dirty.
@@MrButtstroker what are you saying
Yes.
Our Help is in the name of the Lord! Who has made the Heaven and the Earth!
I came for the hat. I stayed for the word...."If you don't know who you are single, you won't know who you are married".......YES! Speak young WoG. Great word!
100% agree. people are always telling me, I wont find a husbane if I dont start looking and dating. Thing is I dont want to find 'a' husbane, I want the husbane God has planned for me. Why mess around with a bunch of guys I know are not him, when I could be spending that time devoted to God. I looked and dated plenty enough before I became a christian and while I learnt a bunch of lesson, I agree with you and believe it's wiser to spend my time now working on myself and my identiy, so that when my husbane does come along, I will be prepared and ready to give him my best! Dont waste your single years girls.. you dont need to have the same attitude about singlehood as the world does. Change your perspective about it and it will change your motives!! x0x
true same here
Amen I feel the same way.
leana bath i couldn't hv said this any better👏
Agree. And Amen
leana bath husband*
I screamed when I saw the title of this video!!!!!! 😲😲😲 I'm 18, and I'm single by choice because I believe God had a specific purpose for my life. I also decided to take a vow of purity when I was 13. And my friends are alllwwwaayyyysss telling me "girl you're young and in college, date and have some fun" and I'm like nooooooo. This is exactly how you mess stuff up 😂😂 and God knows specifically what he has for me. Like I'm literally screaming my head of right now 😂😂 this is just confirmation on top of confirmation.
KyahByDesign. Woot! Amen
Yeah, he has a plan for you...you will make a great spinster.
AMEN! stay close with God and he’ll stay close to you!!!
Good for you girlfriend! Keep on following Him. I have never been in a relationship either and waiting upon His best!
@@MrButtstrokerYou're a jerk.
" If you don't know who you are single, you won't know who you are in a marriage." Amen!🙏💖
So So true! Never chase anyone! if someone wants you to chase them, they are not worth it!
37 and still waiting for God to bless me with someone..
I wish everyone could understand this. Billions + of thumbs up for this video. God bless.
The easiest way to meet and marry an appointed spouse is to focus first on our relationship with Lord Jesus Christ. We do this by prayers, fastings and the reading of the Word, in order to receive and practice His kindness towards everyone around us. This works because, in the Lord's eyes, a couple who haven't met yet are still one complete Man [male and female] before Him. An appointed spouse will start to receive and practice the kindness of God as well. And will be led eventually to their own husband or wife. I know this works because this is what I did to meet my lovely wife. We've been happily married now for 22 years. It's so unfortunate that there's such a lack of knowledge in the Church on how to meet an appointed spouse. It doesn't have to be this way.
Don't forget ruffie-colada! It's the easiest way to find a date.
*Delayed doesn’t mean denial* Yesssss! 💯🙌🏾❤️ “To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven.” *Ecclesiastes 3:1*
You have some profound wisdom.
Amen. Everything she said is right.
When I was single I had an ideal image of what my wife would look like, what she'd be like, and we'd hit it off with fireworks. And sure enough my first girlfriend post college SEEMED to fit the bill. I just "KNEW" it was God's answer for my wife. I was so full of hormones I was temporarily insane. Literally! Six months later she tore my heart out by betraying me for a new boyfriend, calling me unfit to be with her, and saying all this on the phone assuring me talking about it would do no good. I was emotionally devastated! Then God said to me want to do things my way? I now am married to the wife God knew I needed, not a woman of the world I thought I wanted!
Could you tell the difference when your God-given spouse came, as opposed to when you were following the flesh?
As a young adult guy I needed this
I'm a man and I appreciate your message . It's Friday night and I'm not searching and I am letting God be God.
Thank you!
Thank you for this! One of my girls always tells me date date date, go see what you like and don’t like, get a free meal, and I always think and say no! That’s taking advantage of a man and that man is someone’s son and deserves respect. Also, I know I’ll get attached. I don’t want to keep attaching and then “unattaching.” Also, God’s judgement is 100000% better than mine, and He knows the kind of man that will suit me even 50 years from now - I can’t possibly know that. So I won’t just go out with any and everybody that asks. I’m glad you made this video because I feel more justified in feeling that way. We will be fools before the world and wise before God.🙏🏽
this comes at the right season in my life!
YAS girl!! I needed this right now preach Sis!! Amen!
I agree wholeheartedly, being single also gives you that time for spiritual growth and understanding. That is the season I'm in and it's been a blessing. God will give you peace in your singleness especially if you have faith and trust in God to provide. Just remember too keep God first in your marriage if God's will is to bless you this way. I've learned so much over the last several months by reading His word. All I can say again is keep the faith and trust in God.
Spot on woman of God!😊
Your so RIGHT****IVE BEEN SINGLE FOR MORE YEARS THAN I CAN ADMIT***BUT I AM HAPPY****
Yesssss!
Being single is means a closer step to God...more time to prepare
God bless you Alley I so agree with your message. Great message 💟
Preach on, Ally! Keep on sharing the raw truth of the Word! Your videos on The Option and Single doesn’t mean available really spoke big time to me! My wife went to heaven almost 2 years ago, and I am believing God for HIS time to marry again!
Can you do more videos on the mind? I think we forget how important it is to have the mind of Christ. The renewal of the mind
This is what has been happening to me and from now on I just pray to God to prevent me feom meeting the wrong people until the right time He has planned foe me..
Such wise and wonderful responses Thank you for sharing Allison. My friend and I are both single in our early 60s and would like to meet someone but we devote ourselves to God so those of you who are younger than 60 there's hope. I believe God wants to bless us beyond our wildest dreams.
This is so true! Good message ❤️🙏
What an amazing message! Absolutely. Amen. 🔥 God is a provider and He fulfills all our needs! Thank you sis ❤
Beautiful!!!!!! God bless you sister
This finally set me free of looking for a spouse. Thank you!
Sister Allyson. You are a blessing!! I'm passing this on to every single person I know. Thanks for you obedience. May God continues to bless and keep you!!
So true! I have always felt that ''putting yourself out there'' is super desperate and people do not understand it is actually toxic. Sadly the world has tricked us into this belief that there is something wrong with you when you are not in a relationship. You can not seek for validation from someone else. First find yourself and then all the right things, including marriage, come!
Yes! I absolutely LOATHE when my friends tell me to, "put myself out there." My heart and dignity are too precious to give away to any guy. Don't care what people think.
Thanks Allison I've given all my heart and soul to YawahGod and I'm going to be patient and pray for a wife God has in store for me, MayGod bless you your so blessed with a good heart and you shine.
We may live in this world with choices but living & having above all a good relationship with God is the 1st & above all the very 1st choice. Trust me... I made not 1 but 2 poor choices & God didn't bring us together cause if he did I wouldn't have 2 broken marriages. I tried so very much as I listened to my 1st husband telling me I drove him to drink & the abuse was getting bad. I went for counseling & learned I didn't put the alcohol in his mouth. Then I wanted to be with someone that I thought loved me but a marriage won't work when 1 believes in Christ & the other doesn't but let's put a tree up & etc etc... He didn't understand my love for Christ & got jealous. He was in drugs & got abusive with me. I found out a lot about him & it was heartbreaking... Now I'm alone but thank God for my children, provision he gives me. I'm HIS BRIDE & learned the very hard way. Know what you talked "just because I'm single doesn't mean I'm available.... If I made anyone read this & made them wake up PLEASE GIVE THIS TO YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER, TOO DELIVER YOU FROM TEMPTATION FROM THE ENEMY.... Love ya all!!!💖
I always thought we have to find our soulmate but every time I try to make moves it always ends up in mistake because I see some things that aren’t right from my heart. But your words remind me that its better to wait even if it takes a lifetime. Despite of the teases from being single at my age, I have God to defend me. Thank you for these words. Godbless you
Amen! Please listen to her. God is speaking. This is right. Glory be to God for this word. Thank you Lord Jesus. #confirmation
Your value does not come from being in a relationship.Amen!
Know who you are in God- Good words! Thank you❣️
Preach it. Keep drinking from God's Word! How refreshing and inspiring to see such a beautiful woman impassioned for Christ and standing on His truth! Live your calling. Follow hard after Christ. He is the greatest power, strength and friend I have ever known. God's Word never comes back void. Truly blessed are those who believe it, allowing ur to settle into the depths of their souls until it begins to change them from the inside out. God's protection over you, Allyson. . . When you are obedient to God, the blessings overflow to others.
Delay does not mean denial !
💟I really wish I heard this when I was young. 💟The Lord saved me when I was 20.💟 And I was taught then this.💟 Walk with God. Amen !!!! 💟Great word Pastor.💟Phil 4:12~13
She's so awesome! I'm so encouraged... I needed to hear this. Trusting God.... All in his timing.... Amen!
Amen to that! There's a series taught by Michael Todd called Relationship Goals and he says that you have to be happy with your singleness first before you can enter into a relationship.
Yes, this is what the Lord has been speaking to me
I loved this!!!!! Absolutely needed to hear this!
You are so right for someone so young you have a lot of wisdom.
Thank you very much for this, my younger brother told me that same thing, my wife is the one from my ribs, our lives and love will be better.
100 percent correct,love your channel!!! God bless ,keep up the awesome word about Jesus
Good for you follow God as you said he knows what's good for you God bless you in jesus name amen
It's true I felt God's Love and it made me cry
Most beautiful eyes I have ever seen in my entire life...
God Bless ❤️
This gives LIFE!!!!
Wooow MS Allison ...deff are BORN AGAIN ..I have a twin brother and God saved both of us out of a horrid life of SIN .I WAS ON CHIPPNDALE WORLD TOUR AND 1 OF 25 MEN UNTIL THE DAY THE LORD JESUS SHOWED UP AND REVEALED HIMSELF AND THAT WAS 5 YEARS AGO ..BOTH ME AND MY BRO JUST MOVED TO WEST V , THIS MESSAGE IS BY FAAAAR SO SO IMP ....THE LORD lED ME TO UR MESSAGE THIS MORNING WHAT TRUTH.
I keep seeing this message. Second time I heard it this week. Same verse about Eve being presented to Adam. I needed to hear this.
Thank you Ally🙏...You are beautiful🌻..and I've learned so much from you. May God continue to bless you to bless us😊
Beautifully took God's knowledge made herself wisdom hallauah
And he does have the right person for you.
Hallelujah!!!!!!!
I love you thank you for being an example
Everythings Good from our God.THANKS YOUR VIDEO SISTER AMEN..
Ms. Allyson, your words are very powerful. I really like your videos. They are straightforward and direct to the point. You're doing a great job!
Wow you're super blessed it's like the holy spirit is talking through you I'm impressed I got to tell you God bless you Sister
I believe that to ..Ecactly ..his help. Yes .indeed your a great teacher please these humans need you .ypur just Wonderful , Vibrant , Brilliance What a Beautiful soul you are... Gratitude Gratitude Gratitude I love Humanity.
GOD got you just continue to pray to the Lord God almighty
Thank you Ally ! For shedding light on this. Amen sister.
Amen I approve that message! Yes!!!!
I love your truth sister. Since LISTENING to many different vids u talk about regarding being single to promises of GOD. I love your insight that is real. & you say it how it is. As a women of GOD to that has fallen short of gods glory many times in my past. I am willing to wait now its a Journey but honestly worth it. Thank you for insight sis.
I'm glad I found your channel such a strong role model your so empowering
I really needed to hear this, thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this one! I need it today.
It's really weird but last year every date that I went on never went past the 2nd date. I found myself thinking was I talking to much or is it because I'm plus size I couldn't understand what I was doing wrong. Then I realized that God was pushing them away because it wasn't park of his plan. I'm still single but feel great while being single because I know the Lord has the right person for me at the right time. I just need to be patient until the times right...
No third dates huh, oh plus size never mind.
Maybe you need to visit different areas, try dating people that like plus size women. Have you visited a baptist church? Believe it or not but many people look past our imperfections, because of the joy they receive from us.
I deff needed this! Thank you! I love your videos!
Superb message, God bless you. Really helpful, I feel the same singleness is a blessing. It so Tiring to hear from people that we should be looking for guys, keep our eyes open, when its the Godly man who should look out for us and pesue us. I thought I was old fashioned, man I am so happy to hear this from a young women perspective.
You are so beautiful girl !!!! ... thanks for the msg 🙏🏽
I like the way you explain!!👍👍
you are absolutely awesome. I love your videos. GOD BLESS You
And let the church say....Amen! 🙌
I needed to listen to this today..!!
Thank You Sweetheart, Yes God Knows!!!
Great message that I really needed to hear right now.
LOVE this SO much! Keep on speaking truth, girl!!!
Ally you are such an inspiration, I have been going through a difficult phase of life and yesterday I stumbled on your videos and I'm so blessed. I feel different, liberated after listening. May God bless u for a job well done. i have this inner joy n peace since yesterday,thanks Ally. I'm writing from Cameroon
You inspire me to be celibate.
I love how you stick to the word. God bless you.
This is soooo good!!! Thank you sister :)
Thank you sister! I needed this. God bless you!
I LOVE THIS SO SO SO MUCH THANK YOU!
Amen
Proverbs 31 Woman indeed ✨️
A man is a truly blessed man to have a woman like you! I see you with honor and virtue. And those are two great qaulities to me. Blessing my dear and lovely sister.
A precious word!
This was sooo nice to hear ! Thank you
Even though I’m a guy this is an amazing message
This is so good!!! Wow wow !!!
THE HOLY SPIRIT works in you that's another confirmation to you. God bless
Wow.. Amazing..
Something l wanted to hear..This world teaches us something so contradictory..
@allysonRowe Keep going preaching with boldness and fire of God is amazing to see woman’s that has surrendered before God and I see how great this the Lord do through you young ladies
Thank you for this word.🙌😇☺ Love the hat.👌👍👒
This wisdom hit me like a punch in the face. Niceee
Definitely suffices for men too 💯🤷🏽♂️