What Allah value on us is ssentially our responses to life. How each of us respond to what God put in front of us. The closer the respond to the Mercy of Allah the better the person is.
جزاك لله خيرا... This is a important lecture& Reminder.. Facing this 🌍 I having difficulties with sexual abuse & rape happening...Children especially.. Embracing Islam now over 35 years ago I had a lot of spiritual struggle with that before accepting Qaddar Khair & Sharr. Which from Aqeda.. And I left it with Trusting His Mercy & Justice.. & Judgement Day where No-one will be wronged.
i love you sister. allah wil take care of them on that day. again i love you and i feel for you (kinda same situation). i just wanted to give you a hugh may allah swt easy your pain sister.
i have bee in similiar situation. faced abuse as a child in a marriage living a shelter now with small child who is drs are saying is austic and my faith is tested up till now i stood up and kept faith but when m child is concerned i am soooo angry at Allah its not fair
@@stbabyseal May Allah SWT make it easy on you, hold onto hope so many autistic children go on to do amazing things, there's so many famous and intelligent people that have autism, I hope that things are made easy for you and your child. Things will be better for you soon InshaAllah and you will feel joy and peace again inshaAllah
It's Not mentioned much in Quran .. Qaddar .. But yet a part of our creed in Islam. So such lectures like This one is So much important to navigate us & our Eman facing 🌍
Exactly twisted logic how can Allah love someone when he puts him in so much pain!!! My mother would break down if she see ne crying even once How can someone who is supposed to love you 70 times your mum would AND BE THE MOST POWERFUL AND AL QADR not solve my problems ASAP
@@awan4174 Assalamu alaikum wrwb! People put in comfortable situation they being grateful to Allah and people who are in really difficult situation they being grateful to Allah is not same. Lot of prophets and messengers were in difficult situation throughout life such as Prophet Muhammed saw and Yusuf As and they are in highest standards as per Allah. Your single step towards Allah is far more valuable than others. May allah ease up your pain and give you comfort. Have Sabr and repentance my dear.
Asked these questions myself, since birth I dealth with health issues, depression 2 horrible parents and Narcissistic family members who'll only use to means no end and my conclusion that I came to is that maybe some ppl have better life then US and that we are stuck n we can't do anything. Now most sheiks and religious ppl's response is the prophets we're tasted, while I agree but let's not forget they seen what we could have seen or Allah didn't so normal ppl so we don't know where are prayers going or how are actions effecting the afterlife. Moses talked to God Ibrahim had angels visit him and Yusuf seen things from God we don't know about.
@@Ib90 I'm very sorry to hear about your problems. I hope things get better. I left Islam a year ago and became agnostic. I have no more faith in anything and think religion is most likely a human invention.
35:48 trying to figure out why did this bad thing happen to u is pointless 36:30 never say “if only da da da “ from satan 37:35 the Amazing hadith of the prophet 39:00 Dont Play God 44:00 Q/A
My dad is dead. I just want to see him again. It all went so fast. I didn't get to tell him how much I love him. I ask Allah to see my dad in my dreams every night.. But I dream so scary stuff instead. I am displeased.😰 Im depressed and suscidal. I pray that God helps me.
If happiness is not the objective then we might as well not have hope. I don't see how all these doctrines are consistent. To me it is even more complicated than the trinity. 1) have hope and work to make your dunya better. Allah doesn't want us to be hermits, beggars etc 2) Life is a test. 3) You must not despair of God's help. That is the worst sin. 4) Just in case you start thinking of suicide..that is haraam too. And you will be thrown in hell forever because God is the most merciful. 5) If you pass your tests you will become closer to Allah and the closer you get him the more he will test you. 6) But you must never stop having hope. God does not want us to live our lives being hopeless and passive.
You make conclusion based on your experience, i appreciated that you blatantly show whats inside your mind meanwhile few muslim hide its frustration because all of islamic doctrin prevent you doing that. I always think we worship Him to get something from Him, right? happy life, blessing etc, not the other way around because God doesnt need our worshipping. So in my understanding i MUST feel get smthing in return with my iman given the foundation of islam are Love Allah, Hope His bounty, afraid of His Punishment. If havent reached the level of Loving Him at least i still hoping and aftaid its better rather that have no iman. Perhaps when i get older i gradually can worship Him unconditionally with pute love but NOW i cant. So by thinking in this way avoid guilty feeling in heart
I will be honest these are the issues I struggle with. I feel like God is absent. He just does not reply or help. I also feel like my life has no value, purpose, meaning. God does not guide me or help me. I pray salah and I feel frustrated by it because it is nothing more than a meaningless ritual. It does not seem to help in any way. I feel angry with Allah most of the time and I cannot accept that my circumstances are 'what is best for me'. Nor does 'Life is just a test brother' or 'Look at the prophets' or 'You've gotta have patience' or 'Be grateful for what you have' do anything for me. All of life's problems just so I can sit in a big garden and sip halal wine after death? I've got to the point where I feel one of the following: 1) Allah just doesn't care and there is nothing I can do to change that. 2) Allah doesn't exist and life is utterly meaningless 3) I should just commit suicide with the little faith I still have.
@@zairaMc23 I listened to Shaykh Mufti Abu Layth talking about suicide. He said it is not as bad as people say. I think he is right and that might be my way out.
@@gaznawiali "1. By the morning brightness 2. And [by] the night when it covers with darkness, 3. Your Lord has not taken leave of you, nor has He detested [you]. 4. And the Hereafter is better for you than the first [life]. 5. And your Lord is going to give you, and you will be satisfied." (Surah Ad-Duha 93:1-5) This was revealed to Muhammad when he was depressed. I hope it will help you too. Just know that what you feel, the notion that Allah doesn't care for you, is exactly wjat sheytan wants you to think. Allah never abandons the supplication of his beliving servant. I know that sou don't want to hear that, but it may really be, that whatever you are suffering from, is good for you in some way you can't percive until now. "Perhaps you dislike something which is good for you and like something which is bad for you. Allah knows and you do not know." - Surah 2:216 Also you have to know, that being tested is a sign of Allahs love. "When Allah loves a servant, he tests him" - Prophet Muhammad (saw) Just be patient and remember, suicide is never a solution! "And do not kill yourselves. Surely Allah is ever Merciful to you." - Quran 4:29
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please make dua for my dad. he has many hardships
I needed this, thank you brother.
What Allah value on us is ssentially our responses to life. How each of us respond to what God put in front of us. The closer the respond to the Mercy of Allah the better the person is.
جزاك لله خيرا...
This is a important lecture& Reminder..
Facing this 🌍
I having difficulties with sexual abuse & rape happening...Children especially..
Embracing Islam now over 35 years ago I had a lot of spiritual struggle with that before accepting Qaddar Khair & Sharr.
Which from Aqeda..
And I left it with Trusting His Mercy & Justice..
& Judgement Day where No-one will be wronged.
i love you sister. allah wil take care of them on that day. again i love you and i feel for you (kinda same situation). i just wanted to give you a hugh may allah swt easy your pain sister.
i have bee in similiar situation. faced abuse as a child in a marriage living a shelter now with small child who is drs are saying is austic and my faith is tested up till now i stood up and kept faith but when m child is concerned i am soooo angry at Allah its not fair
@@stbabyseal May Allah SWT make it easy on you, hold onto hope so many autistic children go on to do amazing things, there's so many famous and intelligent people that have autism, I hope that things are made easy for you and your child. Things will be better for you soon InshaAllah and you will feel joy and peace again inshaAllah
What an wise lecture!
It's Not mentioned much in Quran ..
Qaddar ..
But yet a part of our creed in Islam.
So such lectures like This one is So much important to navigate us & our Eman facing 🌍
How does one become pleased with a decade of unemployment, being single, being stuck with parents who bully you?
Exactly twisted logic how can Allah love someone when he puts him in so much pain!!!
My mother would break down if she see ne crying even once
How can someone who is supposed to love you 70 times your mum would AND BE THE MOST POWERFUL AND AL QADR not solve my problems ASAP
@@awan4174 Assalamu alaikum wrwb! People put in comfortable situation they being grateful to Allah and people who are in really difficult situation they being grateful to Allah is not same.
Lot of prophets and messengers were in difficult situation throughout life such as Prophet Muhammed saw and Yusuf As and they are in highest standards as per Allah. Your single step towards Allah is far more valuable than others. May allah ease up your pain and give you comfort. Have Sabr and repentance my dear.
Allah is useless bro focus on yourself
Asked these questions myself, since birth I dealth with health issues, depression 2 horrible parents and Narcissistic family members who'll only use to means no end and my conclusion that I came to is that maybe some ppl have better life then US and that we are stuck n we can't do anything. Now most sheiks and religious ppl's response is the prophets we're tasted, while I agree but let's not forget they seen what we could have seen or Allah didn't so normal ppl so we don't know where are prayers going or how are actions effecting the afterlife. Moses talked to God Ibrahim had angels visit him and Yusuf seen things from God we don't know about.
@@Ib90 I'm very sorry to hear about your problems. I hope things get better. I left Islam a year ago and became agnostic. I have no more faith in anything and think religion is most likely a human invention.
35:48 trying to figure out why did this bad thing happen to u is pointless
36:30 never say “if only da da da “ from satan
37:35 the Amazing hadith of the prophet
39:00 Dont Play God
44:00 Q/A
My dad is dead. I just want to see him again. It all went so fast. I didn't get to tell him how much I love him. I ask Allah to see my dad in my dreams every night.. But I dream so scary stuff instead. I am displeased.😰
Im depressed and suscidal. I pray that God helps me.
If happiness is not the objective then we might as well not have hope. I don't see how all these doctrines are consistent. To me it is even more complicated than the trinity.
1) have hope and work to make your dunya better. Allah doesn't want us to be hermits, beggars etc
2) Life is a test.
3) You must not despair of God's help. That is the worst sin.
4) Just in case you start thinking of suicide..that is haraam too. And you will be thrown in hell forever because God is the most merciful.
5) If you pass your tests you will become closer to Allah and the closer you get him the more he will test you.
6) But you must never stop having hope. God does not want us to live our lives being hopeless and passive.
You make conclusion based on your experience, i appreciated that you blatantly show whats inside your mind meanwhile few muslim hide its frustration because all of islamic doctrin prevent you doing that.
I always think we worship Him to get something from Him, right? happy life, blessing etc, not the other way around because God doesnt need our worshipping. So in my understanding i MUST feel get smthing in return with my iman given the foundation of islam are Love Allah, Hope His bounty, afraid of His Punishment. If havent reached the level of Loving Him at least i still hoping and aftaid its better rather that have no iman. Perhaps when i get older i gradually can worship Him unconditionally with pute love but NOW i cant. So by thinking in this way avoid guilty feeling in heart
I will be honest these are the issues I struggle with. I feel like God is absent. He just does not reply or help. I also feel like my life has no value, purpose, meaning. God does not guide me or help me. I pray salah and I feel frustrated by it because it is nothing more than a meaningless ritual. It does not seem to help in any way. I feel angry with Allah most of the time and I cannot accept that my circumstances are 'what is best for me'. Nor does 'Life is just a test brother' or 'Look at the prophets' or 'You've gotta have patience' or 'Be grateful for what you have' do anything for me. All of life's problems just so I can sit in a big garden and sip halal wine after death?
I've got to the point where I feel one of the following:
1) Allah just doesn't care and there is nothing I can do to change that.
2) Allah doesn't exist and life is utterly meaningless
3) I should just commit suicide with the little faith I still have.
@@zairaMc23 I was thinking of becoming agnostic tonight.
@@zairaMc23 I listened to Shaykh Mufti Abu Layth talking about suicide. He said it is not as bad as people say. I think he is right and that might be my way out.
@@zairaMc23 He's the only reason I have remained Muslim until now.
You are saying everything I want to say...same feelings but when I pray I get peace....but few moments later....I am asking these questions again....
@@gaznawiali
"1. By the morning brightness
2. And [by] the night when it covers with darkness,
3. Your Lord has not taken leave of you, nor has He detested [you].
4. And the Hereafter is better for you than the first [life].
5. And your Lord is going to give you, and you will be satisfied." (Surah Ad-Duha 93:1-5)
This was revealed to Muhammad when he was depressed. I hope it will help you too. Just know that what you feel, the notion that Allah doesn't care for you, is exactly wjat sheytan wants you to think. Allah never abandons the supplication of his beliving servant. I know that sou don't want to hear that, but it may really be, that whatever you are suffering from, is good for you in some way you can't percive until now.
"Perhaps you dislike something which is good for you and like something which is bad for you. Allah knows and you do not know." - Surah 2:216
Also you have to know, that being tested is a sign of Allahs love.
"When Allah loves a servant, he tests him" - Prophet Muhammad (saw)
Just be patient and remember, suicide is never a solution!
"And do not kill yourselves. Surely Allah is ever Merciful to you." - Quran 4:29
So many contradictions! All of these preachers talk like a politicians.