Different ppl have different mindsets. You can tell them and show them that you Only Want Full Honesty and Even Show that you don't have thin skin...but if they aren't the same...they may Still do that...cause they looking at how they would feel. It sucks, but it is what it is. They are really cowards and pieces of 💩 deep down inside. They just don't wanna feel that they are...but they really are. FR. IJS
If you get ghosted, you dodged a bullet. If he/she cant give you the reason why he/she isn’t interested they are too emotionally immature to handle a relationship.
It's worse for the woman receiving it than the guy refusing to acknowledge it. No excuse. A painful truth is always better than being ignored or a lie.
Boyfriend ghosted me after 6 months. Literally one day being intimate, saying I love you, calling me baby to never hearing from him again. Did no contact for a 30 days then sent a "closure" text. Still no response. Worst heartbreak Ive ever had. And I've been married and divorced. It's definitely less painful to discuss now but I'm very far from healed.
We all deserve a proper goodbye! Not just silence and being ignored, being left in the cold and confusion. No, ghosting should not be tolerated in any shape or form
Nothing is worst than ghosting. I feel like. Dragging it along can be obvious. But what’s so wrong with men and their effed up emotional intelligence that they can’t use their words to express themselves?
I got ghosted and definitely believe it's retaliation in my situation. I believe his feelings got hurt because he took something I did as rejection. I thought we'd be able to talk about it and continue on, but he ignored my 2 calls and 2 texts afterward. I thought he was mature enough to express himself.
@@kikilicious99 never thought about it this way sounds right maybe they did it too get back at me because this guy asked me to go get food I one day with him I wanted to go didn’t want to pass it up but at the same time I was so tired I communicated that too and also had some fears and reservations idk why just has some hesitation’s he prob took that I wasn’t interested but still talked to me even after that so idk then a few weeks later he ghosted me but we hung out 2 days before so 2 days after he stopped talking to me mid conversation like I don’t get it. I feel stupid maybe idk if he really liked me or not I feel like if he did he would’ve have just abruptly left like that
LADIES, COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS; LET HIM GHOST ON!!!😊😊 THEN GO DO YOUR HAPPY DANCE AND BE GLAD HE TOOK THE COWARDS WAY OUT. SOME LADIES HAVE TO FIGHT THEIR WAY OUT OR EVEN 'GHOST' THEIR WAY OUT.😮😮😮
It's the meanest thing I've ever had to endure. 2yrs of 😖 until literally one day I realized I'm the one who chooses to have all these heavy feelings for him. I simply let go.
Some say they ghost because they don’t wanna get involved emotionally.. I still think it’s better than ghosting to just hurt someone’s feelings… But the weird thing is, they’ll keep coming back.. 😂
@@heatherceravolo161 I believe it may have something to do with their egos… Maybe it’s an ego stroke if they come back & realize they still have access to you… I notice they do it with girls who tend to be forgiving..
@@ragingphoinix9144This makes sense. Usually when they come back they have some grand excuse like they were sick or someone died. They left the door open by not telling you straight up that they weren’t interested.
This! I tried to communicate so many times. He kept saying “I don’t want to talk about this right now.” After the third time I heard that in three months, I sent him a text saying I don’t want to talk anymore and blocked him. This fool had the audacity to go crying to my mom, the mutual friend who hooked us up begging me to talk. Yeah, I already tried that, you didn’t want to talk, now you don’t have anything I want to hear.
It’s not entirely true that they don’t wanna look like the bad guy because they end up coming back and acting like they are and always were interested. Most of the time they are manipulators and they know what they’re doing!
I would agree on the dragging along. A guy I had been dating for a few mths: talk every day, dates every 2 wks (we lived 4 hrs from each other), went camping with my family, I had met his kids. He ghosts me after last time at his house. Finally, a mth later, he texted me and apologized. I asked why he did that and he said he liked me a lot, but my weight was an issue for him and he didn't know how to tell me. 😳 Nothing with my weight changed since the first time we met and he always said I was beautiful. I wish he had just let me go after the first date before I started to think it might work out. I had never believed in long distance relationships but he made me think maybe they could. 😥
He dont get another shot. Accept Accept the apology but don't forget acceptance and unconditional care and love is not in him. The person who is meant for you is coming.
Ghosting or dragging it on.. those aren't the only options. How about some respect for each other with some honesty!?! (It can be kindly said) Ghosting a cowardly move.
Ignoring someone and denying them closure IS intentionally hurting them. Ghosting actually hurts MORE than straight rejection bc they didn’t even deem you worthy of an explanation.
Women would prefer men to say that too them adleast he was honest and set her heart free instead staying in limbo wondering growing insecure cause she didn't get closure if he tells her she's free right then
My experience with online dating is that when I do have this conversation a fair amount of the time I receive nastiness and attitude in return. It would be helpful to know ahead of time who could act like an adult about it and get their bruised ego in check! Love your videos!!
I definitely agree with this because I have moved on along time ago from my ex and how is trying to come back into my life now but it's over for him when I wanted to be with him he didn't want to be with me so I'm done with him now because better is coming for me and I'm not going to ruin this!
I dated a man for 5 months. Confusing part was he ghosted from the beginning but NEVER left for good. He would initiate coming back and say all the things as though he is interested and things would change but never did. Stephan please do a video on this to be more in detail. ( why ghost and still sticking around)
@laurae4221 I get that. That part is obvious. However, we went back and forth for about 8 months with him showing and sharing emotions. He still text me to this day regardless if I respond or not. The is obviously some reason other then I put up with it that a man would do this. I would think once he gets resistance he would finally walk away.🤷♀️
@annaisis7510 i agree, crazy thing is.. he was not dealing with anyone else during our time of dating. I know because of different things I checked on. Plus I always spent the night and stayed in his house when he wasn't home.. he was a 50/50 guy. Half the time expressed himself as though he wanted a relationship then 50 of the time I felt as though I was booty call. But this didn't start till after 3 or 4 months.
This man ghost me 2 times.. told me how much he loves me and made me promise to never leave him..and he was so happy to have me back and he was never going anywhere..then after 5 months he ghost me again...so hurtful😢 but he won't get a chance to do it again 😡
Ghosting is childish and cruel. We are adults I d rather hear an honest truth than disrespectful discard like I’m some garbage after dating for two months
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What if they clearly showed they were so into you the chemistry was off the chain and they literally told you how much they needed and wanted you but then POOF 🙄 What happened?
They got scared of their emotions? Some guys ghost the "perfect" woman because they get spooked and don't feel that they are good enough for them. Stupid, I know.
Keep it in perspective and how it goes. (Don’t get caught up in your feelings). You’re just talking nothing more always remember this. There’s been no real interaction you’ve never even met in person this should never be a big deal honestly. Remember keep it in order how it goes you’ll be fine with no problems. Peace ✌️
This is def a different kind of hurt after 2 months of a being together & being single for 9 yrs leading up to meeting him 46 & never been married yeah its a dif kind for me ...Let Go Let God rigjt ! Thats right!
Amazing how they know how they’re good with communication for intimacy though 😏 But they have “trouble” communicating any other way. It isn’t your issue, it’s theirs. They’d be afraid, and rightfully so, of your response if they said “hey, my goal was sex, I got it, I got bored and I moved on..” That’s really what it’s all about
What happened to me. He lead me on thinking there was something there and then ghosted me. Then, when I scoped him out to find out if he was single or not, he wanted to play the victim accusing me of stuff. This is why I’m focusing on myself and well being from now on. These men aren’t worth it fr….forget them
True - but at the end of the day if we are adults have the conversation. It's the most respectful l thing to do. Especially if there is real history there. I don't mean to sound harsh but adults will do things that make themselves uncomfortable but they know they have to do. Children don't though. It's childs behaviour and never acceptable. Just have the conversation and be done with it.
To all men ... BETTER TELL HURTFUL TRUTH THAN LET WOMAN OVERTHINKING, ANALYZING, SEARCHING FOR TRUTH.WE CAN'T FOCUS ON ANYTHING AND THEN KNOWING TRUTH WE CAN SIMPLY MOVE ON KNOWING WHAT REALLY HAPPENED AND KNOWING THAT WE CAN NOW MOVE ON. MY DIDN'T AND I AM NOW ANALYZING, CRYING, THINKING IT'S ME OR NEW ONE. IT IS MUCH WORSE THAN TELLING TRUTH.
Being ghosted is a litt of abuse isn’t it , yeah that is not a good thing any way be ready for it to just burn it n lies n taking for granted that all bad in it self not marriage material
What do you say about a man who actually breaks up with you, we have an actual discussion, say goodbye and then have a lovely closure text and then he just proceeds to text you every day? The only thing missing now is our regular phone calls and actually seeing each other. He even went so far as to call me one day to see if he feels any differently, tells me he still feels the same as when we broke up, and then continues to text
It’s tough for a lot of guys to be honest? Why does this feel an apologist video for men and bad behavior? Emotionally mature and evolved men should be able to handle a conversation tactfully and diplomatically. If they cannot act like an adult, then they need to enter the scene when they can. There are no excuses. Treat others how you want to be treated.
He’s still the bad guy for doing it though like don’t treat people like that matter a fact leave me alone or don’t even try with me like leave it at that don’t get me psyched up for nothing then it falls through I stopped talking to men because of this if I don’t talk nothing can happen
💝🌈🍎🎼🙏 EXACTLY STEPHAN THE sadness of it all it that all the years The one person walking in healing and Forgiveness Trusting in Gods plan which The person knew you had all along still Wasn't healed leaving little trickluts along the way wanting and waiting to be found and then hearing love and forgiveness and healing Ghost You Showing and proving they still was in Pain of the separation not taking any Type of responsibility for the part of the Separation. Now that's a one sided love Affair. Or perhaps because there was no real love connection maybe just infatuation or control because the real deal was as a child of God she was to Continue to wait on the man God has For her and he's blocking.. So she trust God puts her best foot forward and keep It moving happy healthy and bless to Live out her purpose in life and power And in love 💘 🙏🌈😘🎼
I ghost women who just base our entire relationship around money or material things . I want a woman to want me more than just the money I have to offer. I can figure that out after only a few messages
Hell don't beat around the bust with me tell me the truth I'm a big girl I can handle it. Now what it will do is tee me off. don't play with me period. Because I'll tell you if I'm not interested
What happens if you approach the man/woman. Let's just say a man. How do I approach him and ask him to be honest? As hurtful as the conversation will be on both sides I want to hear him out and I also want to tell him my side too. & From there we can make an honest decision on what's best for both of us because if we don't it's gonna end ugly. And I can't take that kind of pain where he just leaves and we both move on without saying a word. I'd rather have the conversation now while the vibe is feeling off. Would it help I put out my honesty first and let him know why I'm even holding on at this point? I mean what is girls say is hurtful too. Would he be able to open up and be truthful if I brought it to him first? Or should I ask him to be honest first? I feel if I ask him to do it first he will just lie and not tell the truth but since I am willing, and I brought my Truth of the situation up first in an honest and respectful manner maybe he will be more likely to keep it real with me.
Has it ever occurred to anyone. Man has an unlimited libido, that being said he wants to know many women so he can have the pleasure of scoring with any one of them when needed or as the urge surges. This is why he can not say goodbye totally. Jesus is Love
was a relationship for over a year, he dumped me over text but we became a situationship, things were great until he slowly stopped talking to me. christmas day he admits he’s been talking to another girl and that he’s so in love with her.
Ghosting someone IS intentionally hurting them!
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You have to actually care… when you love you … you recognize the trash took itself out….
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Men need to grow up and have adult conversations!!! Ghosting is hurtful and cruel! Stop giving them excuses!
Why can't they just be honest it hurts more to ignore or drag it out
That kind of guy is self-centered and doesn't care whether the woman hurts or not.
Different ppl have different mindsets. You can tell them and show them that you Only Want Full Honesty and Even Show that you don't have thin skin...but if they aren't the same...they may Still do that...cause they looking at how they would feel. It sucks, but it is what it is. They are really cowards and pieces of 💩 deep down inside. They just don't wanna feel that they are...but they really are. FR. IJS
Exactly. They are going to be the bad guy regardless. Do it early .
He just told you why.
People are selfish & don’t want confrontation
If you get ghosted, you dodged a bullet. If he/she cant give you the reason why he/she isn’t interested they are too emotionally immature to handle a relationship.
Nah. They’re intentionally leaving the door open to bounce back into your life if/when the other woman doesn’t work out
Absolutely. But little do they know they will get ignored or blocked
I agree
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I call that cowardice. Emotionally immature.
It's worse for the woman receiving it than the guy refusing to acknowledge it. No excuse. A painful truth is always better than being ignored or a lie.
Facts on facts on facts
I see it as God don’t want you to be with that person. God is sending you someone better.
Just tell me you are uninterested 😂I can handle the truth
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Same I would much rather know where I stand
I'd respect him if he just said that instead of playing childish games
You respect them more when they are honest
Rejection is GOD’s protection and HE knows best…Jeremiah 29:11 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯
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Boyfriend ghosted me after 6 months. Literally one day being intimate, saying I love you, calling me baby to never hearing from him again. Did no contact for a 30 days then sent a "closure" text. Still no response. Worst heartbreak Ive ever had. And I've been married and divorced. It's definitely less painful to discuss now but I'm very far from healed.
Yeah, they are really pieces of 💩 Straight Cowards. SMDH 🤦♂️
Closure text is a waste after 30 days. Don't even press send but type it out is fine.
That's ridiculous and immature . 6 months ? Dragged it out for way too long .
@nancy marie you dodge the bullet, he was a scumbag, who does that. Pretend as if he never existed not worth a minute of thought.
Sounds like a married man to me
They need to stand up and tell the Truth , tell the Truth
That's why I walk away silently and gracefully forever, I will not allow any man waste my precious time, Amen
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👏amen
Right on!!
They ARE the bad guys though lol.
We all deserve a proper goodbye! Not just silence and being ignored, being left in the cold and confusion.
No, ghosting should not be tolerated in any shape or form
Nothing is worst than ghosting. I feel like. Dragging it along can be obvious. But what’s so wrong with men and their effed up emotional intelligence that they can’t use their words to express themselves?
Because children cannot accept responsibility for themselves!
Lol good 1
Sometimes you get ghosted because they want to retaliate after you’ve broken up with them. It somehow comforts their bruised ego
I got ghosted and definitely believe it's retaliation in my situation. I believe his feelings got hurt because he took something I did as rejection. I thought we'd be able to talk about it and continue on, but he ignored my 2 calls and 2 texts afterward. I thought he was mature enough to express himself.
Maybe they do it after a rejection?
@@kikilicious99 never thought about it this way sounds right maybe they did it too get back at me because this guy asked me to go get food I one day with him I wanted to go didn’t want to pass it up but at the same time I was so tired I communicated that too and also had some fears and reservations idk why just has some hesitation’s he prob took that I wasn’t interested but still talked to me even after that so idk then a few weeks later he ghosted me but we hung out 2 days before so 2 days after he stopped talking to me mid conversation like I don’t get it. I feel stupid maybe idk if he really liked me or not I feel like if he did he would’ve have just abruptly left like that
Just rip off the bandaid instead of dragging it on for years
I think when man drag u on .. meaning he seeing u than he’s not .. he is lonely and just using u for a convenient… bye bye move on
LADIES, COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS; LET HIM GHOST ON!!!😊😊 THEN GO DO YOUR HAPPY DANCE AND BE GLAD HE TOOK THE COWARDS WAY OUT. SOME LADIES HAVE TO FIGHT THEIR WAY OUT OR EVEN 'GHOST' THEIR WAY OUT.😮😮😮
It's the meanest thing I've ever had to endure. 2yrs of 😖 until literally one day I realized I'm the one who chooses to have all these heavy feelings for him. I simply let go.
Some say they ghost because they don’t wanna get involved emotionally.. I still think it’s better than ghosting to just hurt someone’s feelings… But the weird thing is, they’ll keep coming back.. 😂
Yes I don't get that part. Why come back if your not interested and ghost in the first place
@@heatherceravolo161 I believe it may have something to do with their egos… Maybe it’s an ego stroke if they come back & realize they still have access to you… I notice they do it with girls who tend to be forgiving..
@@itsRudeGal Exactly
They come back because they let the door open by not creating closure.
@@ragingphoinix9144This makes sense. Usually when they come back they have some grand excuse like they were sick or someone died. They left the door open by not telling you straight up that they weren’t interested.
Ghosting is often the final resolution after several emotionally intelligent conversations. Don't ghost unless you are ready to burn the bridge.
This! I tried to communicate so many times. He kept saying “I don’t want to talk about this right now.” After the third time I heard that in three months, I sent him a text saying I don’t want to talk anymore and blocked him. This fool had the audacity to go crying to my mom, the mutual friend who hooked us up begging me to talk. Yeah, I already tried that, you didn’t want to talk, now you don’t have anything I want to hear.
That's just not true. People get ghosted after 1st dates ALOT.
Or happens suddenly.
Not true at all. People can ghost at random, without notice. It's cowardice.
I've had someone ghost right after being eager to see me again.
It’s not entirely true that they don’t wanna look like the bad guy because they end up coming back and acting like they are and always were interested. Most of the time they are manipulators and they know what they’re doing!
Best answer!!
I'm going out tonight
Gotta do a part 2 for Ghosting because sometimes they keep coming back trying to stick around lol
I would agree on the dragging along. A guy I had been dating for a few mths: talk every day, dates every 2 wks (we lived 4 hrs from each other), went camping with my family, I had met his kids. He ghosts me after last time at his house. Finally, a mth later, he texted me and apologized. I asked why he did that and he said he liked me a lot, but my weight was an issue for him and he didn't know how to tell me. 😳 Nothing with my weight changed since the first time we met and he always said I was beautiful. I wish he had just let me go after the first date before I started to think it might work out. I had never believed in long distance relationships but he made me think maybe they could. 😥
F Him! Get a guy that appreciates you fully. IJS
And him ghosting shows his character. Dont let him man play you like that ma. IJS
He dont get another shot. Accept Accept the apology but don't forget acceptance and unconditional care and love is not in him. The person who is meant for you is coming.
@@ItsMizzK Exactly
I'm so sorry this happened ❤
It's cowardly and cruel
Ghosting or dragging it on.. those aren't the only options. How about some respect for each other with some honesty!?! (It can be kindly said) Ghosting a cowardly move.
Just block him! Period
Ignoring someone and denying them closure IS intentionally hurting them. Ghosting actually hurts MORE than straight rejection bc they didn’t even deem you worthy of an explanation.
So very true.😮
Being honest is an option that would have more of my respect
Women would prefer men to say that too them adleast he was honest and set her heart free instead staying in limbo wondering growing insecure cause she didn't get closure if he tells her she's free right then
They are the bad guy being selfish not giving her closure doing more damage then being honest
My experience with online dating is that when I do have this conversation a fair amount of the time I receive nastiness and attitude in return. It would be helpful to know ahead of time who could act like an adult about it and get their bruised ego in check! Love your videos!!
I think the delivery and verbiage has to be on point.
I agree! Ghosting is not always a bad thing! It’s a little disrespectful but not always bad!
I definitely agree with this because I have moved on along time ago from my ex and how is trying to come back into my life now but it's over for him when I wanted to be with him he didn't want to be with me so I'm done with him now because better is coming for me and I'm not going to ruin this!
I dated a man for 5 months. Confusing part was he ghosted from the beginning but NEVER left for good. He would initiate coming back and say all the things as though he is interested and things would change but never did. Stephan please do a video on this to be more in detail. ( why ghost and still sticking around)
It's called keeping his options open at all times.
Because you accepted it…
@laurae4221 I get that. That part is obvious. However, we went back and forth for about 8 months with him showing and sharing emotions. He still text me to this day regardless if I respond or not. The is obviously some reason other then I put up with it that a man would do this. I would think once he gets resistance he would finally walk away.🤷♀️
@annaisis7510 i agree, crazy thing is.. he was not dealing with anyone else during our time of dating. I know because of different things I checked on. Plus I always spent the night and stayed in his house when he wasn't home.. he was a 50/50 guy. Half the time expressed himself as though he wanted a relationship then 50 of the time I felt as though I was booty call. But this didn't start till after 3 or 4 months.
@@heatherceravolo161 Maybe he is a fearful avoidant? Knowing about his attachment style could give you some clarity.
This man ghost me 2 times.. told me how much he loves me and made me promise to never leave him..and he was so happy to have me back and he was never going anywhere..then after 5 months he ghost me again...so hurtful😢 but he won't get a chance to do it again 😡
Ghosting is immature and ridiculous. It is obvious they are weak. That is unattractive.Bye Bye...Done.
I would rather someone being honest and telling me hey we can be friends but we don't work as a couple. 🙏🙏❤❤
Exactly! It is very rude when they don't call or text you back smh karma
Ghosting is childish and cruel. We are adults I d rather hear an honest truth than disrespectful discard like I’m some garbage after dating for two months
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Exactly..just the sad stinky truth
Know what. I'm not a victim anymore.
AMEN!! Be glad he left!!
What if they clearly showed they were so into you the chemistry was off the chain and they literally told you how much they needed and wanted you but then POOF 🙄 What happened?
he doesn’t like you
They got scared of their emotions? Some guys ghost the "perfect" woman because they get spooked and don't feel that they are good enough for them. Stupid, I know.
Keep it in perspective and how it goes. (Don’t get caught up in your feelings). You’re just talking nothing more always remember this. There’s been no real interaction you’ve never even met in person this should never be a big deal honestly. Remember keep it in order how it goes you’ll be fine with no problems. Peace ✌️
Needed to see THIS comment! Thanks!🫶🏽
Not true. Ghosting can happen when you've been seeing each other and been intimate!
Men plz listen to this . “ don’t let your emotions gets the of you” as men we don’t go base on feelings
I appreciate you
PREACH🔥
This is def a different kind of hurt after 2 months of a being together & being single for 9 yrs leading up to meeting him 46 & never been married yeah its a dif kind for me ...Let Go Let God rigjt ! Thats right!
Amazing how they know how they’re good with communication for intimacy though 😏
But they have “trouble” communicating any other way. It isn’t your issue, it’s theirs.
They’d be afraid, and rightfully so, of your response if they said “hey, my goal was sex, I got it, I got bored and I moved on..”
That’s really what it’s all about
What happened to me. He lead me on thinking there was something there and then ghosted me. Then, when I scoped him out to find out if he was single or not, he wanted to play the victim accusing me of stuff. This is why I’m focusing on myself and well being from now on. These men aren’t worth it fr….forget them
🫤😬Yeah I was so hurt when my childhood friend ghosted me.Like dude we used to playin the sandbox together.That’s a coward move to me.
True - but at the end of the day if we are adults have the conversation. It's the most respectful l thing to do. Especially if there is real history there. I don't mean to sound harsh but adults will do things that make themselves uncomfortable but they know they have to do. Children don't though. It's childs behaviour and never acceptable. Just have the conversation and be done with it.
They sure don’t like it when the tables turn on them… it’s not any easier on a woman to have that conversation! I would know, I’m a woman.
Yah but they still stick around on my social media
Very well spoken
This sounds like excuses for not being honest
FACTS!!!!
To all men ... BETTER TELL HURTFUL TRUTH THAN LET WOMAN OVERTHINKING, ANALYZING, SEARCHING FOR TRUTH.WE CAN'T FOCUS ON ANYTHING AND THEN KNOWING TRUTH WE CAN SIMPLY MOVE ON KNOWING WHAT REALLY HAPPENED AND KNOWING THAT WE CAN NOW MOVE ON. MY DIDN'T AND I AM NOW ANALYZING, CRYING, THINKING IT'S ME OR NEW ONE. IT IS MUCH WORSE THAN TELLING TRUTH.
Yes, I'm going through this now and he doesn't care!!!
Yep.
Facts 💯
Amen
Being ghosted is a litt of abuse isn’t it , yeah that is not a good thing any way be ready for it to just burn it n lies n taking for granted that all bad in it self not marriage material
No trust
All true
Keep it netural talk about do a series on women 👻 ghosting men
What do you say about a man who actually breaks up with you, we have an actual discussion, say goodbye and then have a lovely closure text and then he just proceeds to text you every day? The only thing missing now is our regular phone calls and actually seeing each other. He even went so far as to call me one day to see if he feels any differently, tells me he still feels the same as when we broke up, and then continues to text
Someone has to be the bad person in order to genuinely forgive, move forward and grow from good honest conversation. Dang...
It’s tough for a lot of guys to be honest? Why does this feel an apologist video for men and bad behavior? Emotionally mature and evolved men should be able to handle a conversation tactfully and diplomatically. If they cannot act like an adult, then they need to enter the scene when they can. There are no excuses. Treat others how you want to be treated.
He’s still the bad guy for doing it though like don’t treat people like that matter a fact leave me alone or don’t even try with me like leave it at that don’t get me psyched up for nothing then it falls through I stopped talking to men because of this if I don’t talk nothing can happen
I need to dodged this bullet
💝🌈🍎🎼🙏 EXACTLY STEPHAN
THE sadness of it all it that all the years
The one person walking in healing and
Forgiveness Trusting in Gods plan which
The person knew you had all along still
Wasn't healed leaving little trickluts along the way wanting and waiting to
be found and then hearing love and forgiveness and healing Ghost You
Showing and proving they still was in
Pain of the separation not taking any
Type of responsibility for the part of the
Separation. Now that's a one sided love
Affair. Or perhaps because there was no real love connection maybe just infatuation or control because the real deal was as a child of God she was to
Continue to wait on the man God has
For her and he's blocking.. So she trust
God puts her best foot forward and keep
It moving happy healthy and bless to
Live out her purpose in life and power
And in love 💘 🙏🌈😘🎼
Jesus come back please who cares about ghosting and stupid stuff people do. Come back and fix this world.
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Absolutely
What you do when it's your man child husband who is hiding at his moms house? Lmao. I get ghosting me but what about your son my guy.
Cool idea
I KNOW HOW, AND I DO WHEN NECESSARY 🤨🧐‼️
So why do they come tf back that is the main issue go if you’re going sir and allow me to heal
Ghosting then liking stories on Instagram. Stupid.
It's very true
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I ghost women who just base our entire relationship around money or material things . I want a woman to want me more than just the money I have to offer.
I can figure that out after only a few messages
I just want my key back
Hell don't beat around the bust with me tell me the truth I'm a big girl I can handle it. Now what it will do is tee me off. don't play with me period. Because I'll tell you if I'm not interested
What happens if you approach the man/woman. Let's just say a man. How do I approach him and ask him to be honest? As hurtful as the conversation will be on both sides I want to hear him out and I also want to tell him my side too. & From there we can make an honest decision on what's best for both of us because if we don't it's gonna end ugly. And I can't take that kind of pain where he just leaves and we both move on without saying a word. I'd rather have the conversation now while the vibe is feeling off. Would it help I put out my honesty first and let him know why I'm even holding on at this point? I mean what is girls say is hurtful too. Would he be able to open up and be truthful if I brought it to him first? Or should I ask him to be honest first? I feel if I ask him to do it first he will just lie and not tell the truth but since I am willing, and I brought my Truth of the situation up first in an honest and respectful manner maybe he will be more likely to keep it real with me.
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Has it ever occurred to anyone. Man has an unlimited libido, that being said he wants to know many women so he can have the pleasure of scoring with any one of them when needed or as the urge surges. This is why he can not say goodbye totally. Jesus is Love
Well that's a good reason NOT to ghost!
It says do this if men ghost - so WHAT is there to do
The bad guy p
Or they are A coward
I ghost out of safety and I won’t apologize for that. Man get to aggressive when they’re rejected.
You still didn't tell us what to do when he ghosts🙄Sad but you always get carried away in most videos
It's in his caption in the beginning
@@MZCARAM3L74where??
Does he keep looking at your instagram stories in this case? Please answer me!
was a relationship for over a year, he dumped me over text but we became a situationship, things were great until he slowly stopped talking to me. christmas day he admits he’s been talking to another girl and that he’s so in love with her.
Ghost, look stories 🫠 is it better just not to reply his message if he does return?
They don’t want to look or feel bad, so they stringing you along. It’s extremely selfish behavior.