Q&A: Depression, Rejection, Going After Your Dream Job
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- čas přidán 18. 10. 2016
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This video is all about how to stay happy, how to deal with rejection, how to find the motivation to go after your dream job or dream lifestyle and work for yourself, how to cope when you people don't believe in you or reject your ideas. I hope it can help you with your own insecurities, fears and dreams. Thank you for watching.
YOU ARE SIMPLY AMAZING PERSON! This is I think the way we humans are meant to be. If only the majority of us were like you, the world would have been a better place. Kylie, you have the precious sparkle of life. Meaning living the life as a gift. Sadly, I think I have lost mine along the way (if I had it at all)....Watching and listening to you, I wonder if this sparkle one is born with or one can grow into acquire!? I'm thankful for the Internet, as it helps people like you to immensely and positively influence others. Keep the good work on and preserve you sparkle for the time being!!!!
Doroteya Doncheva my dear Doroteya, but clearly you haven't lost it because then you would be a cynical bitter person leaving me some comment criticising my optimism - instead you take this opportunity to encourage me with such tender and kind words and feel grateful for the Internet (something few people ever do!). I think that there are definitely people who are predisposed to depression or optimism. But I believe it's like understanding your body and its intolerances and eating the foods that aid your digestion or give you energy - if you find you have a tendency to feel anxious or you know that at a certain time of the day or week you always feel a little down, introduce something into your routine that will counter that. Like exercise so it releases endorphins or watching a vlogger or a listening to a podcast of someone who lifts your spirits and reminds you to look on the bright side. I believe we're all capable of happiness if we just understand ourselves intimately and keep feeding our soul with positive inspiration. 💕💕💕
Excelllent and invaluable insight and information. I love the fact you provide specific suggestions not just generals such as ... oh just think positive thoughts you go much further than that and explain many how to's. Many times showing, providing ideas, detailed examples helps anyone to understand and then take action. The general becomes specific. The unknown becomes understandable. Wonderful and very generous of you!
I just found you last night...and I am binging!!! THANK YOU! Your beauty and heart are just amazing! You did what I have been dreaming for the last 25 years...and now too late to dream it any more. Now I can do some dreaming and enjoying through you! Italy is my most loved and favorite place on earth. My dream was moving to Italy since 1998 with my family...instead we ended moving from Dominican Republic to US...and then divorce happened. The pain of a lost dream! Learning Italian has been one of my biggest dream. So far I can read, write, understand...BUT not speak it fluently yet! One day!!! THANK YOU!!! Now you have your biggest fan in America...living in Italy through you!!
"Your happiness does not depend on someone's acceptance and rejection. It's all about getting up everyday and seeing that you are growing, that you are moving." As the journalist I am, I can´t get over these quotes. So much inspiration. I´m half way through yet but I couldn't stop myself from commenting. You are pushing so many of us forward!!!!
Valentina Primo ahhhhh Valentina this makes me so happy!!!!!!! 🤗🤗🤗
Kylie! I've never come across anyone that has inspired me this way. Not exxagerating whatsoever. a lot of times we are afraid to a knowledge our struggles or "failiures" but as you said its all part of the big picture to achieve our dreams and hearing your story about rejection but slowly being able to do what you love is a HUGE inspiration for me! thank you for inspiring me, you really have changed my life
I'm so touched by your beautiful comment. Believe me, I have so many more stories of my failures - it was actually really hard to choose just one anecdote of a time I've been turned down. :) I've come SO CLOSE to getting different ideas or dreams I've had over the years off the ground and then at the last minute the sponsor pulls out or the TV network changes their mind or just starts ignoring my emails and calls or the people I'm working with refuse to pay me and threaten to take me to court... there are so many! I think the more we all realise that overnight success and a perfect life don't exist, the happier we'll be and the kinder we'll be to ourselves when things don't happen as we plan. Thank you with all my heart. Xxx
YES! Perfect! Loved the point about how we all sometimes underappreciate the hard work that other successful people have undertaken to get where they have. That perception leads to humility and respect of others, doesn't it? That's rather important for someone that wants to tell stories of the world.
Thank you! It's tricky because 'inspiration' is so very close to 'envy' and I know when I've felt deflated and insecure it's tempting to look at someone I admire and assume it's so much easier for them. But the main thing I keep learning as I traipse around the world with this camera, is that everyone has a story that runs deeper than the narrative you take in from just one conversation and one glance at their face. :)
I really wish we were friends... you have a way of thinking really similar to mine ! I love your sensitivity, romanticism, your vivid desire to travel and learning foreign languages, to be in connection with people... I feel the same way ♡
Your joy of life is infectious
Awesome message! You are very inspirational! Thank you!
You have said so many powerful, true and positive things in the video...improving, tenacity, learning and faith in life. Thank you
The most motivational video I have ever seen!!! Thank you Kylie for being so honest and sensible❤️.
I cried watching this video ,you inspire me to believe in myself. Ever since I found your channel you have been that person for me that motivates me to keep trying. Thank you for being so positive and for making an impact in so many peoples life. Especially when you said the difficult parts and the feelings of defeat will pass, because honestly it sometimes feel like it never will.
Such beautiful, inspiring video! Thank you, Kylie!
Thank you Kylie for who you are. Even your five years videos can bring support❤
You are just awesome. I saw you on TV few years back which I really enjoy and always wish that they woud broadcast again. Luckily I stumble upon one of your video today. I'm so glad that I could connect to you now. The way you carry yourself is just inspiring.
You are such a beautiful person and speak kind words.I really wanted a life like this and I'm planning to pursue my medicine in ITALY.You look so rejoiced and happy.Positive vibes only...!
This spoke straight to me! Some of the lines you said were just uncanny in how much I felt you were speaking to me, even using words I’ve used myself. I’m loving watching what you’re doing.
I left my home country two years ago to go to Italy to work freelance. I sort of achieved that goal, and now I’m moving onto my next destination and working hard to do more of the type of thing you’re doing. Sometimes it’s really tough, but I hope I can have some more of your positive outlook to keep me going through the more difficult days!
Emily Stoker Thank you Emily! Stay strong! Keep going! 😘😘😘
This is such good advice and so eloquent, wow! Much love
Kylie is a big inspiration for me ..
You are just a light that shines no matter where you go. Thank you for following your dreams and getting outside yourself to see transformation in those around you. Keep at it girl! So glad I found your youtube. :)
:D I loved this Q&A! We need more like this!
Thank you! More coming... ;)
You are such a thoughtful and lovely person. As an aspiring artist, your encouraging words mean a lot.
Life and pressure make me shine and appreciative. It's where I get to take a look at myself and how to adjust my thought life and perspective. It makes me stronger and wiser.
You are amazing, Kylie! Loved this video.
I started watching your videos a couple weeks ago and I'm truly inspired. The way you speak and express yourself is just sooo amazing, I feel like your actually talking to me as an individual not a video. I was in a job I hated and I'm still in that profession but I decided to search "moving to Italy" one day and found your video. Before I started this career I was full of wanderlust and amazement of the world and all that died away when I started my job and had a routine and was living life on autopilot and you awakened that life back in me. I'm full of hope and am planning on persuing a career in Translation as I already know two languages and I plan on starting my on company on it and hopefully some day I'll move to Venice like I've always dreamed since I was little. I want you to know that you are such a beautiful person in every way possible and you have yourself a loyal follower. MUCH LOVE FROM PUERTO RICO AND KEEP LIVING LIFE!!!!
William Rosa this really means so much to me. Thank you William. 🙏🙏🙏
Kylie, you're doing such a fantastic job and thank you for this video.
Kylie your passion for life and to live day by day its beautiful. keep share with us your happiness 😊
Hello, Kylie. I came across your videos last week and I have not stopped watching you. Your love of life, your travels, your creative cooking skills and that wonderful laugh has been so uplifting to me. I sent your link to my 24 yr old daughter, Meagan. She reminds me so much of you. She loves life. At 18, she started traveling. She’s been to ROME, London,; several times, Courchevel, Ibiza, SPAIN, Miami Florida, New York, etc... She was excited to move to NY and has lived there for 3 years. I’m thrilled she comes home during winter time. She’s one of the most beautiful, amazing, woman I love & respect. I’m so proud to be her Mum. When I came across your videos. I just smiled. You are amazing. Please keep your videos coming. I now start my day watching you on CZcams. You’re a beautiful woman, both inside and out. Continue to spread your positive attitude and delicious recipes. Our next travel destination is Italy, Almalfi Coast. Maybe we will run into you there🥰
you truly are an inspiration! I watched your vlogs on Morocco before I left on my trip.
A wonderful find to be here with you!
Thanks for this, Kylie. Loved it ❤️ Your energy is so warm and infectious 😊
MsBowtie13 you're very kind. Thank you! ✨✨✨
I have been following you for a while, and I think your Calais video is the most touching and heart-warming one yet. Keep doing what you love even if not everyone loves what you're doing
Wow, that's so kind of you, Kassy. Thank you for the encouragement. It means so much to me.
Wow so thankful that you started youtube! This is so helpful!
I am very happy to stumble upon this channel of yours. You give me so much motivation in a very friendly way. It's just like speaking to a good old friend in times of need. Keep on creating wonderful videos like this. Lots of love all the way here from the Philippines 🥰
Just found your channel and I have to say I love what you do! Your vlogs allow me to expand my mind and I feel so amazed and inspired after watching your videos! Thank you!! :)
Angela Barfyan 💕💕💕💕 I'm so happy you find them useful!!! Thank you very much for watching.
Another great video. Fabulous,inspirational and captivating. Thanks a lot.
Kylie... i really loved watching all of ur videos. they are just simply fantastic and mind blowing. ❤❤❤
GOODNESS I cannot stop watching your videos they are so motivational thank you, I feel like your talking directly to me! I am much like you, being a more sensitive, compassionate kind of person, but i had a girlfriend recently that had a heart of rock, due to life choices, and some unfortunate experiences. Anyways she'd put me down on an almost daily basis, and tell me she was only saying this caused she loved me, when really it was for other reasons. Hope this doesn't make you feel awkward and i just started today watching your videos today, but I feel like your the positive, encouraging, motivating, supportive, girlfriend, sister, cousin, (girl) friend I've never had. I hope to find a woman someday thats as beautiful as you, thank you for sharing yourself with all of us.
Hey Kylie I have just watched your video. I always wait to see something new from you. I have always aspired to be a person like, may be I am not cuz you are much kind and and and simply great. I have read a good lot of motivational books right from Napoleon hill to Jack Canfield and Tony Robbins. But the way you have shared your own experience and the way how you made it to "The Kylie Flavell" is superb. I have always wanted to be a film maker like you are. Especially I want to film "Morocco Streets and shops". You have stirred that spark once again. I am so grateful and I will be following you forever InshaALLAH. Always be there. God bless you.
Omar Khayyam I know that feeling when reading or watching something suddenly stirs up the desire to be creative and you feel full of ideas!! ✨✨✨ You are reading some pretty big motivational icons there. It sounds like you have the right mindset and you know specifically where you want to direct your passion - you've got everything you need! 😊😊😊
Omar Khayyam sorry - and I forgot to say THANK YOU!!! 🙏🙏🙏
Kylie thank you very much. Kylie there is one thing I especially want to mention that my English is not that good, had it been good I would be able to properly express my feelings of gratitude and pleasure upon your kindest response. Thank you very much. Stay blessed
Honestly the best Q&A video I have ever seen on CZcams. It's so sweet even in a Q&A video you try and help other people. Keep doing what your doing because your absolutely amazing!!! ❤❤❤
Suzan Millad 😍😍 thank you sooooooooo much!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for answering my question Kylie!
Looking forward to your next Q&A!
Brinda S Kumar 😊
You talk great sense and your are an inspiration! The only thing which is a global negative is structural inequality which prevents people achieving their dreams despite how hard they work and the knock backs they receive.
Hi Kylie. beautiful video. Very relieving and inspiring. I love your cinematic and sometimes retro style of film making.
You are so inspiring! 3 yrs ago you make this video, now I stay awake later every night to catch up. This is just want I needs after losing my dad last year. Now with all the chaos of COVID19, I want to travel more and experiences new places.
Kylie, you are a very caring, lovely person, and very inspiring too. Let me tell you of how enchanted I was by the video you made hiking in the mountains of Peru; the caring for the local children and most of all the strength you showed going up hill even after being injured was beyond inspiring. The most beautiful of all is that amazing and lovely smile you showed no matter what the situation is that makes me understand that you are a very romantic beautiful girl. I hope one day I get the chance to meet you in person here in Palm Beach, Florida USA.
You are truly inspiring.
Thank you.
thank you Kylie :) you are such an inspiration keep on being awesome, and spread the love. best of luck to you 👏
sabrine tbini so kind!!! Thank you!
You are so amazing :) Love how honest and real you continue to be.. It's easy to look up to people and just see the finished product without understanding the "making of" story behind it. Really appreciated this video on my own journey... learning Italian and going after my filmmaking dreams!!
Thank you.
#AnInspiration
Theresia I'm seriously humbled by your comment. I was worried people would see this long video of me just talking and write how bored they were. Thank you for the encouragement!! 😘😘
Daily dose of positivity !
May happiness be your companion !
muh n mas so sweet! Thank you! 💗💗
Oi, Kylie!
I follow you for a long time but never wrote to you. You have no ideia how what you said impacted me positively!
You have such a beautiful soul!
Keep doing what you're doing, you inspire so many people!
I hope you feel all the love we send back to you
Have a nice day, lovely!
xo
Sadie N. Ahhh this makes me so happy!!! Thank you!!! Thank you!!! 🙏🙏💗💗
Well done sweetie: keeping it real and loving! My little tomboy outdoorsy 9 year old girlie-adventurer is loving watching you! Keep being brave, and strong, and true...
i fell in love with this video thank you kylie for the intersting ideas
rachid oulguana my pleasure - thank you for watching!!!
You're damn right! Thanks for this motivation :) can't wait for your next video.
Sudhir Kiran GN so happy you agree! 💗💗💗
Beautiful inside and out. Thank you for creating this video and sharing your knowledge! You're kindness and genuine interest in helping others is truly an inspiration. Keep up your positivity and amazing videos! Just discovered your channel and Instagram very recently and i'm happy that I did :) Wishing you all the best.
Hi Kylie, Rejection is not the end of the road, think less you'll be healthy. Just stay focused and Positive!
adorable and powerful! thank you!
Some great advice Kylie! Very inspirational.
Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed it. :)
Thanks so much for making this video Kylie! :)
My pleasure - thanks for taking time to watch it. Xxx
You never fail to impress me with your content ❤✨
Hannah Estebal thank you sweet Hannah!!
You are such a motivation.. Thank you Kylie.. keep your high beautiful spirit up 💐
Hajar Moharrar 💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'm watching this video with a big smile on my face and thinking I did the right choice when i started to follow you and your beautiful work on internet !!! thanks for showing us, your followers, so much respect and kindness and for showing the world how pure and genuine is your soul and that we have to fight for our dreams and make this world a better place to live...ps: I'll be waiting the next video to see the answer of my questions, i'm really curious about hahaha..👏👏👏😘😘😘😘 to you, dear dreamer
Haha! Yes, I liked your question! Thank you, as ever, for your warm words and generous support, dear Ilnara!!!
Love the q&a!! I think everything you said was spot on!! We as humans hate feeling rejected and I think what you said about allowing yourself to feel disappointed and sad is ok...but the next day you have to get up, put your big girl panties on and get moving again! (I'm obviously paraphrasing 😂). This whole video is such a good message!! More people need to hear so many parts of this! You are so inspiring Kylie! Can't wait for the next video! 💕
Stephanie Hamley you totally get my message! So happy you understand me. So happy you find it inspiring. And I love your cute and concise paraphrasing! 😉😘💗
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You're not a big CZcamsr YET, but your content is so amazing that you absolutely will be!! Amazing work, keep it up!
Tread Softly that's so lovely of you. Well... it's a slow slow process but I'll keep trying 😊
I just saw your video on your Positano, it was just incredible. I wish I was there hanging out with you. Life has become robotic, just going through the routine, you inspire me to be more adventurous.
wow this is the most amazing vid I have seen in quite some time !
you're amazing girl!
love everything about you. 😘
You're very kind. Thank you! :)
I've been dormant for so long but after watching this I feel ignited😎
I Loved this and every episodes ❤ you are such positive person and you always inspiring us. Superb kylie :)
myfriend48 thank you so much - this means a lot to me!
Thank you Kylie:)
Awesome video and advice. You are so inspiring. Can't wait for your next video.👍
qosqo5555 very kind!! Thank you! 😍😍😍😍
Can't wait for the next Video #MuchLoveKylie 💯
othmane lekhal thank you for cheering me on! 🙏
Thank you so much for following your heart, you inspire all of us! The backstory you share makes everything so real and puts so many things in perspective. So many people will benefit from your videos, thank you thank you! Keep sharing, I have a question.
Can you make more videos more often!?
Charley J Ramos wow, thank you! I will try I promise - I've just had a lot of trips back to back lately!!
Thank you, so much for this video
Thank you for the valuable advice. Thank you.
Kylie you deserve so many more followers! I love your videos :)
Melissa Saucedo you're so lovely to say that!!! 🙏🙏🙏
Great chat Kylie Thank you
hey kylie!!! I am so truly inspired by your work and i must mention that your optimism is contagious. I honesty feel I have lost that spark in me due to lot of hardships that came my way since childhood but looking at someone like you truly lifts my spirits. thank you so much for coming into my life and showing me even i can live my dream. I am moving to italy this september and after watching your videos i can't wait for the beautiful and enriching experience i am going to have.
also its a dear request please come visit India, it is one of the richest cultures of the world and also known to probably be one the earliest civilisations of the planet. come and see our culture here i am sure there are a few who could inspire you show you a different world and change a lot of perspectives.
lots of love!
this amazing.......... i just love your videos.
Great vídeo! Very motivating. This is what people should really worried about: spread love!
Felipe Micheloni thank you - I'm so happy you liked it.
🙏Thank you for sharing your experiences and thoughts with us !! and don't forget I believe in you kylie !! 💚 😉
aznag badre thank you for the support!
Brava! La tua personalità' e sensibilità spaccano lo schermo dell'iPhone.... :-)
hi kylie! again, i'm in love with your work. keep it up and i just can't wait for the next videos tho! 😘😍
Eija Hassan thank you! So kind!!! 😊😊
i was feeling so connected you ,re bubbly beautiful positive girl
Thanks Kylie
Hi Kylie, it's from India. I love watching your travel videos. I am highly inspired by you. This video is also very motivating.
Thank you so much for watching - I truly appreciate it.
What a great video question from Sid He does seem to be very nice and sincere.
Loving this Q&A video. I am looking forward to part 2.
I hope you do some more, maybe once a month or every other month. :)
Jen Shea thank you Jen! I was sort of testing things with this one to see if people were completely bored by me waffling incessantly to camera 🙊🙊🙊 but if people find them useful I could easily do one a month. 😊
awesome! I really liked your story. It all makes sense :) I need to watch thia today!
Magda thank you lovely Magda! 💗💗💗
hi Kylie.... it was really inspiring ... I was feeling so connected with whatever u wr saying... I made my day...😘
DEEP SHIKHA thank you so much!!!!
Great video. Thanks!
Ivan Travels Thank you so much
Excellent! Open, honest, approachable. Classic Kylie! It's almost like having a face to face conversation with you only I can't get a word in edgewise! LOL. 😬😬😘
Tony Scala 😂😂😂 kind and hilarious as always
Thank you so much
Great Video!
You're absolutely beautiful, inside and out.
Debora Fiuza I'm so grateful to you. Thank you. 🤗🤗
Sometimes is not just moving but also having a small support and know that if you are doing something wrong you can have a base where start again and I don’t know if all have that. Family maybe could be a good support. Sometimes you would like just to be in leave after moving but you move and every time you see is not enough and maybe your character is not for moving. That make you feel you are going where you don’t know…
Really good Kylie...keep doing this amazing job!!! Kisses from Rio
Igor Malvina obrigada!!!! 😘😘
You are inspiring me
hicham fathi 😊
She is so nice
Kylie, thank you :-)
You are gorgeous, keep the good vibe, God bless you. Love you 😍
Rafael Ignacio Vivanco 😊 Thank you very much!
You are so beautiful!! :-) Videos are amazing and the channel is great!
Lots of love :-)
A. A. Thank you!!! 💕💕💕💕
You know... I vibrate with you because the way you see the world and the motivation you transmit to others. I started following your channel because i'll do the same as you in time. Quit an office job and dedicate to what I have to do, to travel the world and spread some love. There is a different scenario with me because I have a wife and two little princesses. My couple is with me in this but there are always more things to considerate when you have people responsible to. I'm not asking a question or requesting some advice, just thanking you for the energy you transmit to others. (sorry is my english is not very good). I'm from Panama
Antonio Aguilar Hi Antonio. Your English is amazing! I think having a family is the greatest adventure or dream life can offer and I hope I'm as lucky as you one day. You're right that it is certainly different if you have to think of a family. You might enjoy Casey Neistat's vlogs because he has a teenage son and a little baby girl and he's one of the few people who really shows how to balance creative pursuits, travel and being a dedicated husband and father. Thank you for your kind words. 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks! Causally I'm suscribed to his channel from like a month ago. It's beautiful to see how connections works!
Antonio Aguilar ah great!!
Absolutely beautiful messages !!! i myself am preparing to make a really different path ... it's nerve wracking .... but i know it's worth it in the end !!!! 🎉👙🌈😊👑🌷🌺🌼🌸❤💜💚💙💛