Purpose of first marriage was definitely good. But being wives both have equal rights in the eyes of shariat. Living so far from any wife is not right unless she has retired from her rights as a wife and just wishes to live in nikah for social safety.but this is not the case as you have a child from her so now balance is mandatory. Don't think its any "ehsan" on her that you excepted her in nikah and now you are free to enjoy life with the second one. You may confirm this from a scholar so that this injustice if any does not effect your lives.I am writing this in good spirit should be taken accordingly.
Baat jo bhi ho, Lakin Islamically dono biwio kay darmian har tarah se insaf farz hai. She has as much right over his time as you, unka haq hai k aapka husband jitni ratein aapkay sath guzar rahay hain utni hi unkay saath bhi guzarein and she too has physical rights.jaisi zindagi pehli biwi guzar rahi hai waisi zindagi guzartay huay mainay khud aik aurat ko dekha hai. Us mai aur bewa mai kli farq nahi hota balkay ziada takleef de aur aziat naak situation hoti hai.wo ehsaan ke ehsaas talay dab kar kuch nahi kehti hon ge lakin aapkay husband ko Allaah se darna chahiye. Biwio k darmian insaaf na karnay ki saza bht sakht hai, aik taraf se jism maflooj halat mai uthaya jaye ga aisay shakhs ka roz e qiyamat hadis ke mutabiq. Aap nay us waqt dil bara kia, Allaah ko razi karnay ki khatir ab bhi dil bara kar k is situation ko ksi tarah behtri ki taraf le kar jayein. Allaah aapko uskay badlay aur nawazay ga.Allaah aaplogo ki duniya aur akhrat sanwaray. Maa baap kay zabardasti k faislay bacho ki na sirf duniya balkay akhrat bhi azmaish mai daal detay hain.Allaah ham sab pe reham farmaye.
Same question from me .nikah hua he .shadi b krni thi .smjh nahi i .?? Phir ye b btaya bhabhi ne kaha k nikah kr lo .kuch or hi bara masla lagta he but ager ye complete nahi btaye gi tu log tu bohat batien bnaye ge in ko .
@@pshakil1582 sahii kaha mere zehen mein b buht se sawal hein ye ek hee dafa sb such kiyu nehi bta deti bs views lene k chakron mein logo ko bewaqof bna rahi hai
Belkul shi lekn in ko duniya k mazy main akhrat ko bhool gye han ab dono ko time dena cahye ab bive ko sochna cahye na k phli ka b haq hai itna pyar hai to us bandye ki akhrat ka b sochye na
First wife did not have proper agency to consent. She was trapped in a situation of having parent in laws with a diseased mind that forced her to marry her late husband's brother. This is making me sick, talking so casually about a widowed woman that was abused. I tried to understand, but the more details I get, the more sick I feel I will block this channel, so no videos from this channel ever show up on my feed.
Asal me jo Shuru se kiya gaya, Wahi ghalat tha😢 Bhabhi ko Jeene ka haq kyun chhin liya gaya? Agar woh Baher nikaah karti to Apne Husband ke sath hotiii 🙏 Ye sab jaan-bujhke, kiya Gaya🤦🏻♂️jo Bilkul ghalat hai, Na-insaaf hai, bhabhi ke sath🤷♀️
Your family is sweet, May Allah bless your family. I usually don't comment but I just wanted to get it clarified, According to Islam you need to equally provide for all the wife and kids. This doesn't mean only supporting them financially but you need to emotionally support all the wives and kids. In your case his 1st wife and kids are in Pakistan, if he brought his 1st wife and kids also to Saudi and keep with him then only it means he is giving equal rights, if not then this is not equal. Just imagine how his wife and kids would feel and miss him when they see your videos, that he is spending time and enjoying life with you and Gul alone :( I feel sad for them. I have this question also in my mind. If the inlaws agreed for him to get married 2nd time then why are you not going there or they didn't even see Ghul hameed so far? Not a negative comment, as a viewer we need a true and acceptable explanation as this is a very sensitive topic.
He is not equal at all . This man is not fair to the first wife and children . All of these things are just wrong . Again the first wife and children suffer due to a selfish man .
Brabri hoti to woh bhi sath hoti inke as where they live more then one wife is acceptable . Not like pakistan. And I am amazed how she claims she allow him for first marriage beebi asal rishta nikah hai and hats off his first wife who allow him for second marriage . Tmhara is mai Kia kamal tha u were just fyonce not wife .
@@bushrashabbier9845 bilkul dono ko sath rakhy wo inki bhabhi phly thi ab inki bv hy to us ko ly k in k wahi haqoq o fraiz hen Jo fairy k liay hen to dono ko sath rakhna chaiyeee ye tarrif Bator rhi hy jesy es ny koi Ahsan ki hy
@@SanaKhan-xt5jg ahsan to first wife ka hai she allowed her husabnd for second marriage and as wel to live with his fisrt wife in other country . Agar us bechari ko aese side pe krna tha to I think us se nikah bhi nahi krna chhaye tha rahti woh apne bache k sath apne sas Susar ki khidmat krti .
Sab theek hai but dono wife s ko sath kyon nahi rakhte still that question arises again and again Allah ko to jawab dena hai husband ko apke napasandeeda aur negative swal karne walon kobeshak ignore kar ke mat dein jawab
You and your husband bond well, we can see that. Yes its all destiny. Hope your husband is serious about his 1st marriage and gives his wife equal importance too. May you all be happy❣️
If for whatever reason he can't bring his 1st wife and kids to Saudi. If I was in your position, I wouldn't do CZcams atleast for the sake of his 1st wife family, even if I get millions from it. They must be feeling so heartbroken and lonely. Or atleast I wouldn't record the enjoyment parts of husband and wife for the vlogs. I feel you deserved much more better sister, even you'll got engaged its totally fine to break it and find your own and best way of life, the moment he got married to someone else sister. Instead of going into the position of 2nd wife. May Allah bless your family and guide all of us.
Your husband's parents did a great injustice to their daughter in law - Marry her now, and later you can marry Fairy too. Did they ask the daughter in law what she wanted? Women should not be treated like this. Your husband participated in the injustice
Phr bhi bohat zarf ki bat hai apnay mian ko kisi k sath share karna... Mera khayal hai k Allah jab azmaish dete hein toh sabar bhi de dete hein... Baki sari bat naseeb ki hai... ALLAH apko or bhai ko bohat khushian dein or humesh sath abad rakhein hasid o k sher se bachain or ap k husband ki pehli wife k liye bhi bohat behtar karein. Ameen
Very funny kiya content hai video ka 😂husband ny pehli shadi kyun ke behan shadi tuo pehli he hoti hai aur aik he ap ko kehna chaheay tha dosri shadi kyun ke kiya waja the 😂😅😅
Jo dusra beta hai apke husband ka first marriage se wo tou apke husband se he hoga ma matlab kyu ke wo 8 saal ka hi aur shaadi ko 11 saal hogaye jo bara beta hai wo apke brother in law ka hoga am I right pls clear kar de ye bcz family mei bhi similar case hai meri?
Lekin apne tou pochli video me bola meri umr 25 hai aur mere hubby ki 39 ya kuch ..aur aj ap keh rhi hai ki apki engagement apki shadi se 14 saal pehle hui thi aur apke husband kipehli shadi 11 years pehle...matlb tab ap 10 ya 11 saal ki thi....😁
A day wonderful and Sunshine wishes in your faithful lifestyle sister and also love you baby boy so cute boy MASHA ALLAH 🌈❄❄❄🍬🍬💝💝💐💐💝💝💐💝💝 belong to Canada 🇨🇦
Fairy you are so nice. Cut and patients lady You are proud of our Pakistan. I regards you so so so so so sweet Allah. protect your family from evil 👿 eye Amen
Ma sha Allah ♥️ bhai or ap bhtt achy hn Allah pak hmesha khush rkhy Ameen 🌺 ✨ 💫 Api agr bhai k ghr waly ap sy shadi py agree ty to phr ap apny inlaws sy milny ku ni jati....??
Luv u bu heart bhai ne nikah bht naiki ka kam kya par mjhy pta he muhabbat bht bari chez he q k meri b muhabbat ki shadi he bhai dono bvio me aetadal pasandi kre ameeen bless u janeman
MashaAllah sis your couple is amazing really bahut khushi hoti hai aap dono k beech itni mohabbat ko dekh kar Allah nazar se bachaye, hameed bhai bahut hi ache insan hai Allah aap dono ki jodi me isi tarah mohabbat barkharar rakhe, love from 🇮🇳 to MashaAllah cute 😍 gul
Purpose of first marriage was definitely good. But being wives both have equal rights in the eyes of shariat. Living so far from any wife is not right unless she has retired from her rights as a wife and just wishes to live in nikah for social safety.but this is not the case as you have a child from her so now balance is mandatory. Don't think its any "ehsan" on her that you excepted her in nikah and now you are free to enjoy life with the second one. You may confirm this from a scholar so that this injustice if any does not effect your lives.I am writing this in good spirit should be taken accordingly.
Shadi chahay jaise bhe hue lekin ab dono k equal rights bante hai warna allaah ki pakerr bohut sakht hai
Baat jo bhi ho, Lakin Islamically dono biwio kay darmian har tarah se insaf farz hai. She has as much right over his time as you, unka haq hai k aapka husband jitni ratein aapkay sath guzar rahay hain utni hi unkay saath bhi guzarein and she too has physical rights.jaisi zindagi pehli biwi guzar rahi hai waisi zindagi guzartay huay mainay khud aik aurat ko dekha hai. Us mai aur bewa mai kli farq nahi hota balkay ziada takleef de aur aziat naak situation hoti hai.wo ehsaan ke ehsaas talay dab kar kuch nahi kehti hon ge lakin aapkay husband ko Allaah se darna chahiye. Biwio k darmian insaaf na karnay ki saza bht sakht hai, aik taraf se jism maflooj halat mai uthaya jaye ga aisay shakhs ka roz e qiyamat hadis ke mutabiq. Aap nay us waqt dil bara kia, Allaah ko razi karnay ki khatir ab bhi dil bara kar k is situation ko ksi tarah behtri ki taraf le kar jayein. Allaah aapko uskay badlay aur nawazay ga.Allaah aaplogo ki duniya aur akhrat sanwaray. Maa baap kay zabardasti k faislay bacho ki na sirf duniya balkay akhrat bhi azmaish mai daal detay hain.Allaah ham sab pe reham farmaye.
Same question from me .nikah hua he .shadi b krni thi .smjh nahi i .?? Phir ye b btaya bhabhi ne kaha k nikah kr lo .kuch or hi bara masla lagta he but ager ye complete nahi btaye gi tu log tu bohat batien bnaye ge in ko .
@@pshakil1582 sahii kaha mere zehen mein b buht se sawal hein ye ek hee dafa sb such kiyu nehi bta deti bs views lene k chakron mein logo ko bewaqof bna rahi hai
Good
Belkul shi lekn in ko duniya k mazy main akhrat ko bhool gye han ab dono ko time dena cahye ab bive ko sochna cahye na k phli ka b haq hai itna pyar hai to us bandye ki akhrat ka b sochye na
First wife did not have proper agency to consent. She was trapped in a situation of having parent in laws with a diseased mind that forced her to marry her late husband's brother. This is making me sick, talking so casually about a widowed woman that was abused. I tried to understand, but the more details I get, the more sick I feel
I will block this channel, so no videos from this channel ever show up on my feed.
Bat theek hai still 2 wives ko sath rekhna haq hai wo alag nhi reh sakty
Ye nainsafi hai
Bachy b door hain
Asal me jo Shuru se kiya gaya, Wahi ghalat tha😢
Bhabhi ko Jeene ka haq kyun chhin liya gaya?
Agar woh Baher nikaah karti to Apne Husband ke sath hotiii 🙏
Ye sab jaan-bujhke, kiya Gaya🤦🏻♂️jo Bilkul ghalat hai, Na-insaaf hai, bhabhi ke sath🤷♀️
Your family is sweet, May Allah bless your family. I usually don't comment but I just wanted to get it clarified, According to Islam you need to equally provide for all the wife and kids. This doesn't mean only supporting them financially but you need to emotionally support all the wives and kids. In your case his 1st wife and kids are in Pakistan, if he brought his 1st wife and kids also to Saudi and keep with him then only it means he is giving equal rights, if not then this is not equal. Just imagine how his wife and kids would feel and miss him when they see your videos, that he is spending time and enjoying life with you and Gul alone :( I feel sad for them.
I have this question also in my mind. If the inlaws agreed for him to get married 2nd time then why are you not going there or they didn't even see Ghul hameed so far? Not a negative comment, as a viewer we need a true and acceptable explanation as this is a very sensitive topic.
youtu.be/OwNGlkTW
It’s always difficult or almost impossible to give equal rights to both wives. A man must take this issue very seriously.
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He is not equal at all . This man is not fair to the first wife and children . All of these things are just wrong . Again the first wife and children suffer due to a selfish man .
اپنے نقصان پر ہر گز غمزدہ نہ ہوا کریں کیونکہ
اللّٰہ تعالٰی آپ سے اس وقت تک کچھ وآپس نہیں لیتا
جب تک اس سے بہتر آپ کو عطا نہ کرے ❤️
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Api wo pr q us wife sy milny jldi jldi NHi jaty hn.?bhaly wo phaly Bhabi ho but abi to un ma 1 hasband h need to ho ge hasband ko.?
مجھے اندازا تھا شادی کس سے اور کیوں ہوئی ۔۔۔لیکن وہ بھی ان کی بیوی ہیں دعا ہے کہ حقوق کی ادائیگی میں برابری ہو😊
Inshallah
husband dono ko sath rakhen agr shadi kr bhi li hy to
Brabri hoti to woh bhi sath hoti inke as where they live more then one wife is acceptable . Not like pakistan. And I am amazed how she claims she allow him for first marriage beebi asal rishta nikah hai and hats off his first wife who allow him for second marriage . Tmhara is mai Kia kamal tha u were just fyonce not wife .
@@bushrashabbier9845 bilkul dono ko sath rakhy wo inki bhabhi phly thi ab inki bv hy to us ko ly k in k wahi haqoq o fraiz hen Jo fairy k liay hen to dono ko sath rakhna chaiyeee ye tarrif Bator rhi hy jesy es ny koi Ahsan ki hy
@@SanaKhan-xt5jg ahsan to first wife ka hai she allowed her husabnd for second marriage and as wel to live with his fisrt wife in other country . Agar us bechari ko aese side pe krna tha to I think us se nikah bhi nahi krna chhaye tha rahti woh apne bache k sath apne sas Susar ki khidmat krti .
کبوتر کی وجہ لائک کیا اللہ تعالی آپ دونوں بہت ساری خوشیاں دیں آمین یا رب العلمین
Makes me wonder if bhabi is happy with this nikkah knowing that husband loved someone else .
Unki bhabi to phle he unky bhai se krti hn bchn ki waja se nikkah kia hoga
Lovely family beautiful house 🏘️ Ma Sha AllAH
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Sab theek hai but dono wife s ko sath kyon nahi rakhte still that question arises again and again Allah ko to jawab dena hai husband ko apke napasandeeda aur negative swal karne walon kobeshak ignore kar ke mat dein jawab
Inshallah i will explain
O achA
Allah pak apko apki puri family ko hamesha salamat muskurate khush Rakhy Aameen suma ameen ❤️🤲
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11 sal ki larki bhi wada krti hai shadi ka😳🥴
Jo awara buchi ho
Bs Allah pak har betii ka naseeb achaa kray Ameen😍
Nice home
You and your husband bond well, we can see that.
Yes its all destiny. Hope your husband is serious about his 1st marriage and gives his wife equal importance too. May you all be happy❣️
Ameeeen. Thank u for your comment 😍
If for whatever reason he can't bring his 1st wife and kids to Saudi. If I was in your position, I wouldn't do CZcams atleast for the sake of his 1st wife family, even if I get millions from it. They must be feeling so heartbroken and lonely. Or atleast I wouldn't record the enjoyment parts of husband and wife for the vlogs.
I feel you deserved much more better sister, even you'll got engaged its totally fine to break it and find your own and best way of life, the moment he got married to someone else sister. Instead of going into the position of 2nd wife. May Allah bless your family and guide all of us.
Yes agree completely
Allah Subhana Watala always gives us best but with patience
Yes we do. My husband and children like different and I like different things. USA
😊😊
Great story 2 bachy bhai sy hy
Ni 1 ha
Ok yani chota ap k husband sy hy Allah bless all of u dear weight loss drink ki pori recipe tu share kardey
Me first💝🇵🇰
Nikah kr k ose waha rakha howa hai islam me dono vife k sath braber time spent krna hota
Allah pak SB betiyon k naseeb achy kraye ameen
Your husband's parents did a great injustice to their daughter in law - Marry her now, and later you can marry Fairy too.
Did they ask the daughter in law what she wanted? Women should not be treated like this. Your husband participated in the injustice
ماشاءاللہ
MashaAllah
Great 😍❤️ Masha ALLAH 🇮🇳
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Good...
Wow! What a wonderful idea
Good sharing
Very nice sharing
nice velog
Okay Fairy, now it’s clear you’re not home breaker, actually it wasn’t fair for you guys what his parents made him do.
Allah always you sister ❤️❤️👍
Nice v log
Allah pak apko.hmesha khush rakhy ameen.
Phr bhi bohat zarf ki bat hai apnay mian ko kisi k sath share karna... Mera khayal hai k Allah jab azmaish dete hein toh sabar bhi de dete hein... Baki sari bat naseeb ki hai... ALLAH apko or bhai ko bohat khushian dein or humesh sath abad rakhein hasid o k sher se bachain or ap k husband ki pehli wife k liye bhi bohat behtar karein. Ameen
MashaAllah 😍😍
Very funny kiya content hai video ka 😂husband ny pehli shadi kyun ke behan shadi tuo pehli he hoti hai aur aik he ap ko kehna chaheay tha dosri shadi kyun ke kiya waja the 😂😅😅
Firdous you have a very big heart,thats why allah is blessing you with a beautiful life in Saudi Arabia ☺️
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Allah is always from uppercase
Naic
Ms fairy you are going on same track of sitara yaseen.aur gazab ki baat hum bewaqoof dekh b rahey hai😁
MashaAllah nice
Alhamdulilah ♥️
Jo dusra beta hai apke husband ka first marriage se wo tou apke husband se he hoga ma matlab kyu ke wo 8 saal ka hi aur shaadi ko 11 saal hogaye jo bara beta hai wo apke brother in law ka hoga am I right pls clear kar de ye bcz family mei bhi similar case hai meri?
Ma sha Allah
Lekin apne tou pochli video me bola meri umr 25 hai aur mere hubby ki 39 ya kuch ..aur aj ap keh rhi hai ki apki engagement apki shadi se 14 saal pehle hui thi aur apke husband kipehli shadi 11 years pehle...matlb tab ap 10 ya 11 saal ki thi....😁
MASHALLAH tabarak Allah ❤️
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Good job
MashALlah bird is in good shape now, you guys took a good care
dear logon kay sawal kabhi khatam nahi hon gay ... ap relax karain or enjoy karain
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Masha Allah
Mashallah such a brave woman....MAY ALLAH SWT BLESS U
MashaAllah Allah is always from uppercase letters
Masha ALLAH ❤️ ALLAH aapko hameshan Khush rakhe Aameen ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Mashalla
Hahaha apnaa apna pizza😘😘
Allah pak apkooo or bhaii ko hmeshaaa khush rakhy Ameen suma Ameen 😍
Mashaallah
Lovely vlog ❤️ love from India 🇮🇳
Iam your new friend apki video aaj recommend hui or mene dekha bohot achi lagi video 😍
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ماشاءاللّٰه
Masshallah very nice vlog 👌
Nice
Nice sharing
Its my pleasure
A day wonderful and Sunshine wishes in your faithful lifestyle sister and also love you baby boy so cute boy MASHA ALLAH 🌈❄❄❄🍬🍬💝💝💐💐💝💝💐💝💝 belong to Canada 🇨🇦
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Happy to know ur from Canada
Very nice 👌 👍 👏 😀
Nice 👍🙂
Ma Sha Allah BhoOot khoub ❤️
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Ma sha Allah gull😍nd congratulations for your credit card 💳 😁💖
Fairy you are so nice. Cut and patients lady You are proud of our Pakistan. I regards you so so so so so sweet Allah. protect your family from evil 👿 eye Amen
May Allah SWT bless you always ❤️
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Your one click can change my life❤❤
Wow
Hi dear stay blessed
Allah aap ki Jodi salamat Rakhe 😘👌👌🇮🇳
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Mashallah
Masshallah very cute 😍
Mashalllah nice person bhai ki such ko salammmmmmmmm👍👍👍👍👍👍
Ma sha Allah ♥️ bhai or ap bhtt achy hn Allah pak hmesha khush rkhy Ameen 🌺 ✨ 💫
Api agr bhai k ghr waly ap sy shadi py agree ty to phr ap apny inlaws sy milny ku ni jati....??
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MashaAllah.
you are a brave girl api💕💕.salamat rahen khush rahen Allah apko bhai ko sehat o tandrusti dy Ameen Ameen😍
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Ap plz Dua Karen me bi apne hasband ke pas Dubai Chali Jao plz Dua Karen me ur mere hasband bi nae reh sakte 1 2sry ke bager
Love you api first yeah pin it
Yes bilqul nhi alg huskte mohabbat krne walay
Masha Allah 🍕👌
Second
Luv u bu heart bhai ne nikah bht naiki ka kam kya par mjhy pta he muhabbat bht bari chez he q k meri b muhabbat ki shadi he bhai dono bvio me aetadal pasandi kre ameeen bless u janeman
Thankyou so much for sharing everything
Mashallah firdous apka Dil BHT bara h Allah apko SB KO kush ralhy
Ma Sha ALLAH apka dil Bht bara ha..
Lovely family.yeh qismat ky faisly h jo naseeb mein likha hu wohi hota h
Mushallah
Thank you ❤️
Y guys are actually great
Baiwa orat sy shadi krna saawaab hai Bhai nay bohat Acha kea... khush rahien humaisha ....bohat achay hotay ap k vlogs
MashAllah bhai ne bht acha swab ka kam kia bewa se nikah kr k or apka dil b bht bra hy Allah apko eska ajar zrur de ga khush rhen abad rhen dear 😊
Waooo what an idea for making pizza zbardast 🤩😀 #kiranabaid from jeddah
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Mera guess thek nikla
Nikah or shadi me kya fark hota hai?m to dono ek hi samjh rahi thi
MashaAllah sis your couple is amazing really bahut khushi hoti hai aap dono k beech itni mohabbat ko dekh kar Allah nazar se bachaye, hameed bhai bahut hi ache insan hai Allah aap dono ki jodi me isi tarah mohabbat barkharar rakhe, love from 🇮🇳 to MashaAllah cute 😍 gul
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@@pkmomslifeinafrica189 what is this aapne ye link kyu bheja
Wow nice beautiful 🥰❤️ amazing 🤩 video 👍
Bari baat ha k aap apny feuncy ko share krny k lye tyar hogaii..ksi orut me wese itnii himut nai hoti..boht Bura lga wese sun kr😮