Top 5 Christian Dating Mistakes *You Might Be Making*

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024

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  • @laurensmith5649
    @laurensmith5649 Před rokem +11

    “True fulfillment comes from God” 🗣️🗣️ say it louder for the people in the back!!

  • @r.w.856
    @r.w.856 Před rokem +30

    I really appreciate your hearts in continuing to give wisdom you’ve learned in your walk with Christ about pursuing a relationship with a future spouse. These are things I wish I had known soon after turning 16, but hindsight is 20/20. I’m so thankful to God for keeping me for the most part away from so many other bad situations I would have experienced. Thank you.

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem +5

      We completely understand that feeling! We’re always learning and the sanctification process is always ongoing! We just have to strive every day to be more and more like Jesus! Thank you so much for your comment!🙏🏻

    • @JenWah
      @JenWah Před rokem

      Amen! Sanctification is such an amazing thing. I just googled the word the other day and I was blown away.

  • @ChrissyChrissyChrissy333
    @ChrissyChrissyChrissy333 Před rokem +21

    I wish I knew all of this a loooooooong time ago -had to learn the hard way- but I am grateful for the discernment I've developed over the last several years. All points are right on target, can't wait for more content!!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem +2

      We’re so glad you enjoyed it and that you agree! We had to learn some of these points the hard way ourselves, but if we can help someone to learn without experience that would be amazing! God bless you and we’re so glad you’re along for the ride with us! 😃🙏🏻

  • @Delight7
    @Delight7 Před rokem +5

    Always identify how your courtship will glorify God...

  • @disciple_of_jesus1110
    @disciple_of_jesus1110 Před rokem +3

    Waoooooo. Me and my husband were just so much enjoying this conversation..... Reminded our dating time when I said him"who told you that you can kiss before marriage"?.......
    And this boldness of mine made my husband marry me coz he said I have never seen a women who's walking biblically..... I mean waoooo what a great conversation and topic....

  • @ryanhebert2374
    @ryanhebert2374 Před rokem +10

    Thanks for the advice and I would like to start a direct correspondence with you and I have instagram but I never use it.
    Secondly when it comes to choosing a significant other I myself refuse to settle for less while trying to to not be too picky, I have 3 criteria’s that I look for.
    1. Attractiveness
    2. Common Ground
    3. Independence

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem +4

      We’re definitely looking for a way to have a community chat website or app at some point! Those are definitely very important qualities!

    • @ryanhebert2374
      @ryanhebert2374 Před rokem

      @@samandsadie I appreciate the complement on my dating criteria’s.

  • @amandab2337
    @amandab2337 Před rokem +7

    This is wonderful advice you guys, you remind me so much of my husband and I when we were younger (we're 34 and 35 now, been together for 15 years). But one thing I do want to add is that it is not necessary WRONG to fall for someone who's a non Christian. I was 19 when I met my husband, I was working as a barmaid in Scotland (I'm from Sweden), and he was a Christian (Australian) man, just backpacking around Scotland. I was not a devoted Christian at the time, but my husband introduced me to Christianity and Christian life, and I was baptised and born again. We got married shortly after and now we're expecting our 8th child and we homeschool all our children. God definitely meant for us to be together and have this life together. If he was close minded, then we would never have had what we now have. So in short - I think it's definitely ok to date a non Christian if that person is willing to learn about God and be renewed/born again. 🙂

    • @betrothalguys
      @betrothalguys Před rokem

      Christians typically date for the purpose of finding a spouse so since the Bible specifically instructs us to not marry outside the faith it wouldn't make sense for them to date outside the faith. Our opinion is that Christians would do better to not date anyone but simply be friends up until they know they should be more and then start a relationship of actual commitment. We're happy that God worked out your story so beautifully but we would not agree that it means other Christians can start dating an unbeliever in the hopes they too will wind up becoming a Christian. That would put both of their hearts in a dangerous place because if the unbeliever does not end up converting, marriage is off the table.

  • @Boihkp12
    @Boihkp12 Před rokem +3

    I am much older than you guys ..but why do I feel like you both have way more wisdom than me ... love you :)

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem +1

      Any kind of wisdom that we show in our videos is all because of The Holy Spirit in us! We’ve always gotten along really well with people that are older than us! Thanks so much for watching! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @suzanaquivotacabeto5125
    @suzanaquivotacabeto5125 Před rokem +3

    Hi from Africa, Angola 🇦🇴 I came across with your channel a few days ago and I'm enjoying the contents! They're Helping a lot...God Bless you Guys🙏

  • @parisgbrl
    @parisgbrl Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love the way you two make each other laugh and how you danced while waiting for the lighting😂adorable!!

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před 7 měsíci

      We’re so glad you enjoyed the video!! God bless 😃🙏🏻

  • @sharu1452
    @sharu1452 Před rokem +2

    I really love the advice that you give to young single christians.
    Thank you for the time you take to share such helpful advice with us.
    You guys are a beautiful Christian power couple in your own way. ❤❤

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem

      Awww thanks Sharu!! Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment and encourage us! 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️

  • @JenWah
    @JenWah Před rokem +1

    Y’all are so cute!!
    These are right on!
    I wish I found your videos years ago!!! Would have saved me so much time. But Gods timing is always perfect. ❤

  • @temurikakachiya5094
    @temurikakachiya5094 Před 5 měsíci

    I agree with you guys, it's a small chance though you meet that person.
    I'm a guy right, I've never met a girl that loved or respected me for my honesty, not yet at least.
    Even the most Christian girls want a game or some kind of drama.
    Last few years I always start my dates or text messages with what kind of God they believe in, abortion, sex, clothing, tattoos
    All of this subjects are important for me to know where these ladies stand on.
    And as soon as ask them questions, they don't reply or i never here back from them ever
    So, it all goes back to being playfully and flirty

  • @anastasiaphillip4101
    @anastasiaphillip4101 Před rokem +5

    I can't wait

  • @tbarbisliving4JC
    @tbarbisliving4JC Před rokem +7

    Great video Sam and Sadie! Really enjoyed watching you guys and what you say are right on target. This video is going to help so many poeple. Blessings to you! ❤

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem +2

      We hope so too!! Your encouragement always means so much to Sadie and I! We can’t wait for you to see all the stuff we have planned! ♥️🙏🏻

    • @tbarbisliving4JC
      @tbarbisliving4JC Před rokem

      @@samandsadie That's wonderful! I am looking forward to it! God bless you guys!🙏🏻❤

  • @Lenachkakorovka
    @Lenachkakorovka Před rokem +6

    Every video I watch that you two post are amazing! Love every content that you make:) God bless you two, I am very glad that I can watch such as videos as these! :) Everything that you two say are exactly my boundaries and priorities for a relationship that I am looking forward to:)

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem +1

      Awww thank you so much for saying that Lena!! God bless you! 🙏🏻♥️

  • @truthhunterhawk3932
    @truthhunterhawk3932 Před rokem +2

    These videos have been very helpful. They teach me to wait and be patient, and God is in control of the situation. Thankyou, you two are so genuine. Love it, God bless.

  • @mattersofthemind1631
    @mattersofthemind1631 Před rokem +3

    Thanks so much for this video ❤
    May the Almighty bless you both😊

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much for watching and for your encouragement Crystal-Bella!! God bless you too! ♥️🙏🏻

  • @cryskiiim
    @cryskiiim Před rokem

    I really appreciated and needed to hear the last point about being confident and fulfilled in Christ. I think it’s a point easily overlooked, but it really is the most important before seeking out a partner. Thanks for the video and the wisdom, I look forward to more! ❤

  • @ThinkGenius
    @ThinkGenius Před rokem +4

    You both are very funny and cute.
    ❤❤
    God bless you both 🙏

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem +2

      Aww!! Thanks! God bless you too! 🙏🏻♥️

  • @Mbresin.E
    @Mbresin.E Před rokem +2

    These are all salient points. Thank you Sam and Sadie 😊

  • @user-uk4em9ns4p
    @user-uk4em9ns4p Před rokem +3

    Thank you for this:)

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem

      You are very welcome W!! Thanks for watching and commenting! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @karenchinelo413
    @karenchinelo413 Před 2 měsíci

    God bless you both🙏

  • @jhennshaw4926
    @jhennshaw4926 Před rokem +1

    So appreciate you guys and your encouragement! You are a blessing! ❤

  • @jamielogan7133
    @jamielogan7133 Před rokem

    6:01 shabbat shalom✌🏿😃 Thank God for you two for letting the Holy Spirit speak🗣️ Facts and truth through y’all💯💯💯❤️

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Před 7 měsíci

    I'm glad you touched on modesty. I see countless Christian youtubers sharing Christ and dressing quite provocatively. I'll gently mention it & I'd say most
    are offended. They think I'm being legalistic. Others get angry not caring about being a stumbling block to men. Its really a heart issue. I used to dress super sexy
    Why? I wanted the attention and I didn't realize I was God's daughter. I was.that broken.

  • @therighteouswoman8601

    I always used to say that Real soulmates look like siblings, and both are just like twins.. Probably never heard that before, but iam only seeing similiarities in your both faces.

  • @anschenthompson8561
    @anschenthompson8561 Před rokem

    Yesss I need this before I one day date!! Well been a single pringle for 15 years. 😂😂
    I love dressing modest, because I feel safe showed less skin. 😂

  • @russellmarvin2850
    @russellmarvin2850 Před rokem +1

    I really do appreciate your videos. I would like information on starting over, as I’m coming out of a divorce. She decided to leave me. I’m over 60 years old and looking for a godly wife.

  • @loose_moose
    @loose_moose Před rokem

    W production. great lighting editing and content. W vid

  • @sterlingburns8547
    @sterlingburns8547 Před rokem +1

    You are the sweetest!!!! Love you guys!!

  • @kasiakurowska9243
    @kasiakurowska9243 Před rokem

    Giving you like for the photo with the fish😅 btw great video and you both are so adorable ❤

  • @lucycoons
    @lucycoons Před rokem

    ❤️❤️ love you guys.

  • @Mbresin.E
    @Mbresin.E Před rokem +1

    Sadiee❤️❤️❤️ is always so cute😊

  • @marleee.2174
    @marleee.2174 Před rokem

    I dress modestly and yet my Catholic ex still seemed to sexualize me...

  • @russellmarvin2850
    @russellmarvin2850 Před rokem

    She turned to being controlling and left the marriage

  • @nathannelson7778
    @nathannelson7778 Před rokem +1

    I’m Nathan from Arkansas

    • @samandsadie
      @samandsadie  Před rokem

      Hi Nathan! We’re glad to have you in our CZcams family! 🙏🏻

    • @nathannelson7778
      @nathannelson7778 Před rokem

      Pray for Louisville Kentucky

  • @suzanaquivotacabeto5125
    @suzanaquivotacabeto5125 Před rokem +1

    Hi from Africa, Angola 🇦🇴 I came across with your channel a few days ago and I'm enjoying the contents! They're Helping a lot...God Bless you Guys🙏