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The INTP and INTJ wouldâve been more accurate if they were arguing inside their heads
Who said they didn't just imagined it?
as intp, most of the time when im arguing, the words sometimes jumbled in my head n what came out was profanity beyond recognition or sometimes im just blank n walk away. but yea, moments later i got the comebacks/bullets/points to counter them back. guess i kinda like social media app cuz i can response on my own time.
@@asrafkhalid1231 same happens to me. probably, im a intj or infj. Most of my time, i spend thinking about how would be an argue with someone about some topic. I also spends a lot of time of what I could have said to someone to completely destroy her in past discussions... But i dont think too much about my own future, thats why sometimes i have some doubts if i rlly have NI domminant
They did prolly they imagined it for sure
Yes sir
"I cry when I get mad, okay???"
This is so fucking accurate wtfđ
I know ! I usually never cry, why does this have to happen only when I should look intimidating ?
And then you get mad at yourself for crying when you're suppose to be angryđ
@@callmesam.4502 it causes such misunderstandings! I was angry at my dad once, but instead of being confronting him I bursted into tears đ
@@jamssy3409 The worst is with children. How am I supposed to have authority with my siblings if I just cry when I'm mad ToT ?
I was about to be like INFPs don't do that, but then I remember I got mad yesterday and started cryingđ€ŠđŸââïž oof
As an INFJ the phrase âIâm about to end this manâs whole career.â pops into my head on occasion. Thankfully we know the importance of keeping those things locked away.
yeah exactly! I do have things I said in my primary school that still haunts me. Nowadays when I'm angry I just keep quiet
umm chile
anyways so
Dude if I said what I know and what I could, there would be ppl without money and careers and relationships all ower the place, ppl in jail and so on but... Let's not be a bitch. đ
The countless people we have saved by not saying things that would literally turn the tidesâŠ
As an ENTP, do we need to learn that? yes. Will we? Not really no
INFJs will try to avoid conflict as best as they can, BUT once they lose their temper, thereâs no turning back âŠthen theyâll berate themselves for that slip
yes, this.
Yes... Except if the person on the recieving end had it coming after months/years of being patient with them...
@@elisa4620 also this
ok look y'all I didn't come here to get called out
So true!
As an INFP who rarely gets mad, this is pretty much how it looks like for me:
Anger--->Gets mad--->The wheel of cooped up feelings churn--->Cry--->Fail to express--->Regret getting mad--->Depression
Me too bud... me too đđ
Yes! I just want to at least get my point across without having to walk out because the big tears are coming!
I am an infp , but i usually try to keep calm , it rarely ends in me crying and stuff. I usually tell to myself it dosn't worth me crying đ€·ââïž
So true! I think I cry because nobody understand me. And hate myself because everybody see me like that...
@@flora1121 true. But, some cry because they get easily misunderstood. And when it comes from ppl we hold close, it just is sometimes disappointing, you know...
0:00 - ENTJ
0:06 - ISTJ
0:21 - ESTP
0:36 - ISTP
0:47 - ENFP
1:07 - ISFJ
1:23 - ENFJ
1:42 - ENTP
2:01 - ESTJ
2:19 - ESFP
2:40 - ISFP
2:52 - ESFJ
3:07 - INTJ
3:15 - INFP
3:31 - INFJ
3:46 - INTP
Thanks man.
You angel.đ
Dang it! I relate more to the estj infp infj and intp, and less of isfp here đ± thx for the stamps btw~
Ah here you are
Scrolling comments just for this đđŸ
I'm an INFP who hurls facts in people's face but the crying thing is so damn accurate..... I mean I don't know why I cry during arguments it is extremely stupid and frustrating.
IKR SAME HERE I CRY WHEN I GET MAD THEN I GET MAD AT MYSELF FOR CRYING ...its a paradox which I just can NOT escape
Yeah I like logic and fact but they still come with feelings, a ton of em
Yeah I donât believe in not backing up opinions too lksdfjl
Yes! And when you are arguing you try to sound intimidating and in control to get your point across, but the stupid tears start to flow and you get embarrassed and the other person shuts up and have a look on their face that says ' I regret even talking to you ' and/or they pity you, and that's even more frustrating...đ€đđ ( Sorry for ranting like this but I'm just trying to find someone who understands)
I remember several playground arguments that STARTED because I was crying for literally no reason, the other kids would come up to me in concern and say "hey, are you okay?" and I got so sick of it I started yelling at them "I'M FINE, I DON'T KNOW WHY I'M CRYING, JUST LEAVE ME ALONE"
It's scary how INFJ is spot on
I always hate conflicts because it triggers an overwhelming emotion that causes me to "accidentally say something so cunning, so devastating that both me and the other person will remember it for the rest of our lives"
It's happened to me before too aaa
"so cutting, so devastating" and yet...true. As INFJ I hate not being able speak deep truths without potentially devastating/hurting/eviscerating others. It's incredibly frustrating/burdensome...the contant strength it takes in withholding. Like constantly willpowering the strength & control to containing intense explosive nuclear emotions & power from exploding (from constant external provocations) that can pulverize others and taking it when it implodes onto ourselves rather than hurt others (the 7% of the time that some if it leaks out is not even the full extent in terms of sheer intensity/power..we're still holding back T_T). All because of our gdmn bleeding hearts, because God dmn it we care. Yet we're often not hypocrites as we actively seek searing painful truths including and especially regarding ourselves, in fact we prefer it delivered to us brutally at times as long as it is unfiltered, not sugar-coated nor softened. We want the truth and all of it.
@@katieblake3023 OH WHAT I WAS EXACTLY THINKING!!! đđ It's a pain to keep the truth to your self and wish that you should have said it to the other person but then again, once you tell that to the other person, you'll feel so guilty for saying it afterwards and wish it never happened. Both choices will just lead you to painđ
@@ajisai1474 I FEEL you. You're def not alone in this ;)
Oh dear all those comments really do make me feel like I'm an understood INFJ
Glad I'm not the only one who has all those types of feelings, thoughts and so on
It's like Mortal Kombat Brutality. If you have enough ammunition you just spray the words like an AK-47. Everything you built up inside in that dark place that you've been holding back just erupting in that person's face. Yes you normal people, we can contain that inside of us. If you had to actually read the instructions on the aerosol can then that relates to us as well, contents under pressure do not heat or expose to open flames, that's what prodding me does.
Half the time ENTPs "argue," they aren't disagreeing, just agreeing very angrily
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Most of the time they are waiting for the flaw in your argument do they can pounce and use that to undermine your entire existence.
Omg this is so true bahaha
Or playing âdevilâs advocateâ, they donât even agree with what they are arguing necessarily đ
@@justsomenobody889 often seeing someone else tey to defend your point helps you see if the point is valid in the first place. By arguing the other side you can see reality more clearly.
INFJ... accurate. I'm the friend that people say "when she gets mad, it's scary."
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hundred percent facts
No one has said that before guarantee amd if they have their just being nice
oh samE
Uhm I think it can apply to anyone
INFJ is on point. đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Fyi: We fear ourselves in that moment too, and really don't want to be mean. We just don't like being pushed that far.
i agree
No one is pushing you, yall literally push yourselves lmao
Weird ass overthinkers all in their feelings
@@grumpyxcat9387 Yikes, you really are grumpy. And by the looks of it; hypocritical.
@@grumpyxcat9387 Hey man, that was mean and uncalled for. Give me a couple weeks to think about it and I'm gonna hit you with a sick comeback! Just you wait. Juuuust you wait...
@@grumpyxcat9387 Yep. *Definitely* on the shit end of those cutting remarks.
As an INFJ, I let myself slip ONCE and said what I shouldn't have. It was like 15 years ago and it still haunts me to this day. I'm definitely more careful now. Truth hurts.
Not sure what you said, or how bad it was.
This is why we stay away from humans. *::sage nod::*
ive had several times were ive typed out a huge rage paragraph to someone detailing every single thing i couldn't stand about them and then looked at it for 20 minutes before deleting it and just saying "w/e" instead
Us INFPs crying in the middle of an argument is really annoying. Like, I'm not even that sad I'm just irritated WHY DID YOU HAVE TO SHED THOSE TEARS STUPID, EYES??
WHY DO I ALWAYS GET EMOTIONAL ARGUING (INFP here, can relate)
I know, right?! It doesn't make sense to cry right now, nor is it a socially appropriate time to cry. So, why you cry, Face? WHY????? - INFP
im an ispf and i do it too lol. but i donât find it weird. like it makes sense to me
*isfp
@@alina-wh3he how though? its just annoying and makes the other person care less about what you are saying???
I mean crying is good but NOT DURING AN ARGUMENT YKNOW
INFJs arguing is gonna be the most unexpected... It could go any way to any extreme, depending on the topic of discussion, the person they're speaking to and the mood...
That's very true.
Yep pretty much. Which is probably why they pair the infj with the entp....we give them a run for their money. đ Or they are the only ones that can mentally keep up. Either way we will pull a lady galadriel on your @$$ bringing up things that are,things that were and things we just know are going to happen...logical and emotional arguments...mix with dark twisted black humor and smart@$$ replies. And we will do it at rapid spead. All is fare in love and war.đ Good luck. đ
But thats just friendly banter. P!ss me off and I will emotionally gut you...calmly...sounds polite really isn't...and with only a couple of words you will wish you were dead. Luckily for others I only got that level of mad once in my life. But Frank is right....still feel bad about it thou but it was more than deserved. đ
@@maaiker2977 Yeah I know I'm the same way as an INFJ. I completely agree with you. I have a dark sense of humor but would rather make someone laugh then cry. I don't like being mean.
oh yes! i avoid arguing because if they go low...I will go to Hell...lol
@@maaiker2977 so true...my fiance is entp....lol
Us INFJs have the superpower to detect the deepest insecurities of people.
If we're pulled to the dark side, we can crush their souls with our words, then of course we regret it for the rest of our lives.
Or we dont. Wait, thats ENTJ, yes we do, we do.
Frank's INTP skits are so on point. I could absolutely decimate someone in an argument if I was more attentive and quick in the moment. Talking to people makes me go blank
literally literally same in person arguments just make me go blank and then I have to think about it in the shower later and regret not being quick enough to come up with a proper argument and it ends up being an embarrassing memory that won't let me take a wink of sleep for the next 7 years
@@Moon-oq7mf i envy ENTPs man
@@GetYossedLol the thing is my mbti keeps fluctuating between ENTP and INTP and at this point I don't know who I am đ
@@Moon-oq7mf as an INTP i kinda struggled in the same way still do sometimes but i believe frank has an old old video explaining if you can change types over time or to fluctuate between two of them i found it helpful in understanding this concept and also not every stereotype has to relate to you because complexity of humans
@@GetYossedLol Iâm INTP and I argue p much like an ENTP? I get bored and start arguments and pick on everything someone says đ maybe Iâm just a shitty person
INFPs are actually heavily logical in debate, itâs our own selves that are driven by emotion. At least for me anyway. Iâm pretty sure most of our daydreams are simulating responses to arguments.
And playing back arguements that could have went betterđ
@@ha947 couldnât agree more đ
Omg! Yes I do this too!!!
I can't think of good arguments during...
Now this, this is accurate. But I usually think of my best comebacks after the argument had already ended đ
INTP here and always thinking of the perfect responses after the argument ended hits home. Another thing I hate is when they put emotions in the argument out of nowhere, like what am I supposed to do with that??
Yep, and they ruin the whole good debate đ
I'm ENTP and same, just sometimes I get lucky and say good stuff
emotions have nothing to do with arguments. -intp
ikr? I only get into arguments anyways if I think the person is worth my time. But why would the other person think arguments are ruining the relationship or his/her feelings, or say stuffs like I'm being disrespectful or insensitive, and just go completely off rail. When they start doing that I usually just shut up, but they're now in my blacklist of stupid emotional ppl
@@lishayost444 as a fellow intp, this is true
As an INTJ I confirm that â sun really makes us weak â
A friend of mine (well, my friend) always says I am a vampire!
From old age
As an INFJ, yes this is 100%. I donât do playful bantering with people. I hit home too much & too hard with anything I say negatively about people
Sometimes entps do the same if they argue with stubburn immature.....brain freeze the opponent at the end!
3:30 INFJ...so appropriate (as always). Always trying to avoid arguing with others for we know, we might end up saying something which would ruin it all forever. And we'll regret being that rude to somebody (when we play the argument in our heads later). And sometimes when we realise (while replaying arguments in our heads) that we didn't argue properly, we'll come up with better arguments in our heads regretting why these facts didn't come then. It's all so complicated!
I avoid arguing simply because it's draining my energy
Me too...I always tries to avoid.....if it doesn't end ..I'll say something out of control...
I just say one sentence..it'll ruin everything...đ
So bloody true. I so get you and its so frustrating.
Same as an Infp lol
Keeps me up at night. Hate it!
INFP is a spot on!! every argument I have with someone always end up me crying in my bedroom and yelling at the walls
honestly same
hey same name, same personality type, same habit! :D
Same same
INFJ here. Now I understand why people say I'm scary when I get angry. I don't usually show too much emotion around other people until I get so damned stressed that it comes to a breaking point. I have a tough time at work with my boss, and the other week she was lecturing me as we were closing the store (mind you, I had about four hours of schoolwork to get done after this) and I finally had to interrupt her and say, "Can we _please_ talk about this another time? I'm under a huge amount of stress right now and although you're basically done for the night, my night's not gonna be over until 3 a.m." Thank God she let it go because I was ready to rip into her with a list of all the reasons why she's impossible to work with, accompanied by a host of expletives that would've 100% gotten me terminated there. After she left, my co-workers got to hear me yell out my frustration so loud that the windows shook. (I apologized to them afterward, but they sympathized with me nonetheless.) I'm glad I had the foresight to remove myself from the conversation or else I'd be unemployed right now.
Hi! As a fellow INFJ I really hope you have found a better job and had the opportunity to unleash the beast on your former boss without fearing to be unemployed.
@@natalia.t.a Thanks :) -- unfortunately I'm still there, but I appreciate the sentiment. I now have some better ways of managing my stress lol. Ironically, my boss is selling the business in two weeks and we're getting a new manager, so we'll see what happens. But I'm getting a new job in May after my graduation regardless, so all will be well đ
The INFP is so accurate lol. I really hate having arguments with people because i will always end up crying, thus making myself looks more stupid than before
Me too
I do not cry during an argument but I will shake and get nauseous also I have brainstem migraines and if somebody really stresses me out I could faint.
Same lol
Intj. I can def relate. Sometimes I run out of energy arguing with people who are wrong. Then they assume I hate them. I actually made another girl cry when we were 7/8 because she thought I hated her. I said âI donât hate you, I just donât like you either. I have no opinion about you.â Apparently that was even crueler than if I admitted to hating her.
It's sad that you made that girl cry, but your reply was so savage, I just had to laugh. - INTJ
IxTJ. Probably would have said the same thing.
As an ISFP I had to make that same cutting statement to a guy I was dating but I basically told him âI donât care enough anymore to even hate you, I feel nothing for youâ but it was an extremely toxic situation. Iâd never naturally say that to anybody.
Thx i will use that line on people i hate- fellow intp
Oh, so I'm not the only one that makes people just think "She hates me" randomly.
The INFJ one is very upsetting. "As an INFJ", you do have a lot of anxiety about conflict because you know you aren't supposed to drop the bombs like "CLEARLY, Aiden, the only reason you insist that that guy's athleticism is a form of "toxic masculinity" is because of unhealed wounds around your own awkward running style, which is exactly as weird looking as you fear it is, YOUR MOM LIED TO YOU."
That's weirdly specific, but I love this đđđđ
So relatable, I CANT. It's like having weapons but not being able to use them. So frusterating.
I recently got drunk with my friends and dropped like a half-bomb casually when the couple in my friend group dared me to be super-honest with them. I stopped myself at the right time I think but still. I guess I'm never drinking again. It's like a freaking superpower.
@@ChernaOvce Elsa in Frozen just popped into my head
I burst out of laughing at the INFJ part even though I'm an INFP đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł That was a mood to redo the scenario you wish you did đđ
My INFP take on INFPâs:
INFPâs just have very strong emotions attached to the justice behind the decisions theyâve made. It takes a lot of time for them to form a strong opinion, otherwise they donât have a strong enough opinion to care. If the argument is strong enough for them to cry over, itâs because they have at some point written an entire novel in their head about why they both logically and morally feel as strong as they do but they canât come up with all of the reasons why they formed they opinion in the first place right on the spot. Infpâs are not carefree about crying. They donât like feeling exposed and outwardly expressing there deep emotions to others (in most cases) so while the urge to cry or fight back anger while feeling hot pressure behind their ears is there, they will (in most cases) be fighting to hold it in.
I enjoy these videos. Theyâre fun. Iâve just seen several now depicting Infpâs as carefree loud-and-proud cryers and I donât think thatâs accurate. I think it would ring more comically true if the Infpâs were about to bust gasket using every once of their will power to hold everything inside.
I saw a post on FB like 5 years ago of an umbrella that said:
Have a good cry, wash out your heart. If you keep it inside, itâll tear you apart.
I needed to see it. I think about it often. It goes against my natural impulse, but itâs mandatory to live a healthy life.
Im an infp too and was pretty much thinking the same thing. Most of the depictions of infps are spot on but the whole crying thing is overly done...I used to get very passionate during arguments but I dont think ive ever cried during one...I mean if were talking about a subject of debate in particular. These sketches are both funny and interesting to me...but I don't think infps outwardly cry so much despite being more emotional
now this is accurate! i was starting to consider retaking the test as these videos have gotten so unrelatable
@@sasori7054 no they are not
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@@sasori7054 I did retake the test because the INFP scenarios I have seen depicted in these videos seem like we're crybabies. What's funny is that I hardly cry. Emotional doesn't always equate to crying. My second test said the same: INFP.
The INTJ one is so accurate like we don't even wanna waste our time arguing with people bc they're definitely wrong
That's true. Most of time we do not bother arguing but on the rare occasions that we decide to do so, the satisfaction of defeating someone is immense!
Plus the sun is out
However, my spouse WANTS to argue just so you know 'he's right'
But proving someone wrong is so satisfying. Also, most of the times we are right.
@@nikivesta yes exactly we have special acts
The ENFP hating people yelling at them is just so me. ENFP here so relatable đđđđ
Iunno if anyone is the same, but personally as an ENFP i can kinda pull out my ENTP mode when I need it. I've found it extremely useful to have this so I can stand up for myself and not people please as much as I normally would.
Just curious where this stems from specifically. Were you yelled at as a child a lot or did you witness other family members yelling at each other?
@@windingstars as an ENFP who also fully agrees with this...yelling just seems incredibly unnecessary. There is just no reason to raise your voice when arguing/having a discussion its weird and just comes off as disrespectful
@@flapjackalopis711 I don't disagree that it's unnecessary or disrespectful, I'm trying to determine if there's a common root childhood trauma associated with this type and sensitivity to yelling.
@@windingstars I can't exactly answer for the other guy, but I hope you can take my response instead.
I feel the same. I hate it when people yell or raise their voice. Unless it's all goodwill, like if someone needs to shout across the room for others to hear then, if they're really excited about something they like, or if they're genuinely joking around.
The reason is definitely my mom. She yells at me, my dad, and my sister for every little reason, even when the problem she's yelling at us about was entirely created by herself. She does it in such an accusatory and hateful way. At this point, everything she does disgusts me, not just her raising her voice. Every other trait she displays, as well. Like stupidity and an unwavering will to never understand or listen to logic or reason.
As an ENTP my end goal is actually to end up on the same page, but I wanna explore every nuance and possibility before reaching a conclusion. It's really unsatisfying just to be like 'we're the same let's stop' because the fun is in the topic and finding the reasoning behind things.
I agree soo much with u
Same (Iâm an ENTP and ENTJ tie) and I want the other person to agree with me, but I want to first share *all* my thoughts because I always have this huge defense prepared for everything
still a shame when an argument ends early
My husband is like this. He gets annoyed when i agree with him too early that he keeps on going on his defense and I have to wait for him to finish.
imagine this paired up with an ISTP.....
INFJ here, married to an INTJ. You pretty much get us both everytime. đ You make my husband laugh every time I show him the INTJ skits. I promise though, INTJs do have big hearts , for the two people they pick. đ€Łđ
The INFJ one is again *super accurate* đ we either stay silent or blow up and cut so deep ! No in between đ
As an INFP, I definitely tend to cry when I'm angry, I have to admit.
INFJ was spot on itâs either I stay quiet and donât argue or risk destroying the relationship
Absolutely true
Man, you've got the INFJ drilled down, welded, and sealed with the truth. I love the energy charge sound effect you added to it too.
Yea coz hes one of us, he knows....
I absolutely hate INFJ rage when we say something so harsh and unecessary (after being pushed too far) and immediately regret it after but then it's too late and relationships aren't the same after that :(
As one myself.. as "bad" as this may sound, but I believe in "you get what you give". I simply won't play friendly anymore if someone takes it there.
Expressing and defending yourself is important and healthy, even anger.
Harsh because it's truth. And often times more than justified (often overdue from repeated sparing/mercies) but our empathy feels/fears for the other person, jerks & weaklings as they may be, that they might not being able to widthstand potentially devastating truth and consequences of their malicious hypocritical narcissistic actions...yet we fear hurting & potentially inflicting deep emotional pain with its psychological ramifications and potential pain/suffering in this person...our truth delivery cuts deep to the roots. And yet at the same time they've repeatedly shown they deserve it. It's conflicting and maddening. At least we're not intentionally malicious...quite the opposite even when they deserve it and are repeatedly asking for it.
The only real reason us INFJs are like angry cornered rattlesnakes is because we don't want to put up with it ANY longer. When I rage, I don't ever regret it, that person/persons earned it 100%
@@freyjaravenclaw3577 I understand and 100% sympathize. I've done it before too. After much torture, deliberating, holding myself back, giving chances...when I finally blow up in rage, Fk them they've earned it 100%, no regrets...
@@katieblake3023 Same. And I even give a lot of warnings/chances to change before.
Damn INFP don't just cry during an argument. I cried once when I answered a question wrong in an interview and I'm crying rn cause I'm tired of studying for a test because the test represents academics and academics represents a life that I don't want to live.
This too shall pass My fellow INFP â good luck
@@jridisirine4411 I hope so... Thanks tho :)
I feel you.
I'm an INFP and it's so frustrating when I start crying in an argument or when I'm mad. If say in general we're quite sensitive, but I can totally see myself acting as an infj when pushed to far. Many times I've bite my tongue so I don't regret saying something to hurtful, and many more times I've tried to not brake things. I guess as we feel deeply our rage can be very destructive either towards others or ourselves (or maybe I'm just crazy) ._.
No, you're not crazy. I too am infp and it's literally good till I am crying bcaz once I start laughing it's over. Destructive for me and all the people around me. We're in the same boat.
Man Iâm an ENTP and I used to do this as a kid because I acted more like an INFP back then, even tested as one (donât ask how :â)) so youâre totally fine, it just happens
nooo i totally agree we may be sensitive but when provoked too far we are way different depending on the time and person (i hate how sometimes ppl don't take us seriouslyyy)
Iâm an infp and I rarely get mad, but when I do I do the infj thing, I donât really cry except if itâs my father, thatâs a different story
As an INTP, I can say that your interpretation was spot on. And the conversation about what I should have said would have been in my head. I rolled on the floor in laughter because that was so accurate đ
I rehearse conversations I want to have with people all the time and thankfully don't have most of those conversations in the end. I get to vent, and no feelings get hurt. XD
xxFJ arguments be like âPlease cooperate or youâll make me do something weâre all gonna regretâ cause Fe holding back that Ti monster truth LOL
that is so true! lol
Nailed it!
Ikr lol this is so me đ
My unhealthy enfj 1w2 dad would benefit from holding back hurtful and negative remarks đ
INTP here with ESFJ little sister and you're so right. XD The whole time I was growing up it was like "honey I know we're both thinking that but don't SAY it!"
As an INTP that's very accurate đ€Ł I'm actually very agreeable and I don't argue much, because Ni-critic makes me evaluate what I have to gain/lose. It's always risky making someone pissed off, cus there's a possibility they'll seek revenge. If I make them happy, there's a possibility I can pull in a favour at a later time. I can just make fun of them in my head đ
Damn, that's a very detailed explanation. I just get bored and wanna do something else. -ISTP
Also INTP, let me just say that I fell into that pattern for a very long time and I regret it. You just have to say what you think and you will lose friends over it but these are friends you will probably lose at some point anyway because you won't be able to hold your self back after they said something particularly stupid or their stupidity actually ended up affecting you as well. It's far better to always be honest and find friends who value your honesty/bluntness. And who knows, maybe they're actually right and you're wrong and by telling them that you think they're wrong you'll learn something rather than remaining in you ignorance thinking that someone else is the idiot :)
No, but I'm actually intp and I argue a lot , if someone say illogical thing to me I debate with them.
As an intp thats something that I would recommend for u to improve at. Not being afraid to disagree and piss people of when ur right, always thinking that u shouldnât piss someone off so they can help u later is just dumb, itâs logical but dumb because even though I can always see things from different perspectives that could be right in certain ways, u have to be prepared to be blunt and stand for what u believe in and stop trying to make everyone happy. U can still be blunt and assertive but in an emotionally smart way to make people think like their on ur side or itâs their idea and it works out better and if that dosnt work then drop some truth bombs on them and maybe theyâll wake up or at least just realise how wrong they are assuming Youâve thought it through. Plus that whole thing about not pissing people off because they can help u later is not worth it as u can still be blunt and direct if they are refusing to listen and if the time comes in the future where u need something from them which wonât happen more often then not. U can deal with that then and be more friendly to get what u want, manipulation so to speak, which is what everyone does communicating in general, for good or bad to get people to believe what they want.
@@lightscamerakpop8144 I do that as well. However, I do think that arguing with people takes a lot out of me (even though I do it a lot), and I often don't have the social literacy to express the arguments in my head accurately - thus ending in the way the skit did
ENTP - my son - the worst fate would be actually finding agreement because he lives for debateâŠ. INFJ - me - leave the scene before I cut lose and summarize 10 years of withheld anger in one cutting remark that ends a relationshipâŠ
He needs an intp friend. I mostly agree with my roommate but he can use me as a sounding board to rant about his thought process and why he feels a thing is correct. He sharpens his rhetoric and I call him out in inaccurate points he can reffine.
If you've got 10 years of withheld anger at a specific person maybe try mentioning the issues sooner with new friends? Then they either go away before you develop a close friendship or y'all work it out and have a stronger relationship. Or not, you do you!
@@justinwhite2725 Me too. Seems like it'd work.
@@justinwhite2725 agree, me INTP with several ENTP friend. also entp gives us random summary in a rantđ
As an INFP my ISTP husband has taught me how to back up my claims with evidence. Just because someone doesnât accept or agree with the evidence you used to back up your claim doesnât mean itâs not evidence.
I'm an INFP in a relationship with an ENTP and that's how it always goes: him arguing about anything and everything and me crying because I hate conflicts
Then know you are winning because by not standing your ground and arguing back you are slowly breaking his soul...
That sounds like my personal hell as an infp. What? People argue for fun.
@@skybunny6258 As ENTP I can give you an advice. If you are arguing with ENTP and you don't want to debate - ask many different questions without statting your opinion. ENTP would definetly win himself and goes through whole loop of posible opinions.
God I completely understand. That sums up my entire relationship with my little sister. She can't be happy until she's made someone cry and it's usually me because my dumb butt just can't just walk away as she's just insulted something I care about/ believe in
Sounds on the verge of an unhealthy relationship đ maybe just reading in too much in your text : S
The ISTP and ISTJ are both unbelievably accurate.
Also the INTJ (itâs a bit stereotyped but itâs actually right, I donât want to argue with people it actually distracts me from my objectives)
ISTP's are soooo stuborn. đ«
@@dominikamestrovic7663 Yes. Its wonderful. XD
Oh yeah?? I always wonder about those look like aliens!
@@i3ignorantidelweb43 lol i think I want to be INTJ they're very cool ha ha
Oh yeah, the ISTP portrayal was accurate. Iâve basically said the exact same thing (just to myself) and then acted accordingly. If people wonât listen I refuse to waste my time.
yea man
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True. Iâll just say what the other person wants to hear so they stop bothering me.
ISFJ here - I busted up when FJ started sketching what an ISFJ would say in response because it sounded just like me. "You are being a real fricking cranky pants right now... now if we could please move on... this potluck isn't going to plan itself." đ€Łđđ€Łđđ€Łđđ€Łđ I totally live that on a weekly basis.
That sounds so accurate honestly. I was surprised that's exactly how I behave sometimesđ .
And then you change your mind to apologize to the person
Ah, doesn't matter what emotion we feeling, be it anger, jealousy, sadness, joy, pride, nervous--we are still crying. #infp
infp gang
It's absolutely true
I hate it
So true! And then when something really sad/hurting happens (not physically) the tears are not there anymore... ( don't know if it's an INFP thing or just me though)
@@lucie1609 you haven't unlocked the mega tear bundle.âđ No, but for real, sometimes situations are too big to handle them at once. It needs time and being compassionate to oneself, to let the super big emotions run through you (e.g. as tears). This happens to every type.
Oh man. You nailed that ENFJ guilt trip. Source: my mother is an ENFJ.
My friend is also an Enfj. She always pull that guilt trip card in arguments. It's so annoying. I'm Entp.
@@orangejuicey9789 it is so annoying, also ineffective.
Iâm an ENTP as well.
@@jamiehenderson6387 you're right, ENFJ's guilt trip are so annoying af. Not makes me feeling guilty but feeling irritated because their guilt trip are so illogical in my mind. My ENFJ friend always do this when we're discussing something or other things else and it makes me annoyed especially how she do that to me back then.
ENFP is spot on - this is the only thing my husband and I fight about đ 'Are you raising your voice at me?!' I've said it a thousand times.
Made me laugh out loud. My husband is ENFP and there's no argument beyond the first few words because whatever he's initially intensely struck by - that becomes the issue at hand. My tone or voice or that I ignored him for too long right before this. That or he suddenly NEEDS water or to take his socks off and within seconds has forgotten what my issue with him was in the first place (a forgotten responsibility). ISTP mom here. I just give up and do it myself.
As an INFJ I actually like mentally challenging others, and therefore sometimes provoke arguments (mostly when I'm in a bad emotional state).
Oh I've said cruel things before, when the argument was pushed too far, but to my defense, the people witnessing the hard truth about themselves were mostly narcissists.
I feel sorry though for those who weren't narcissists. I'm working on getting into a better place to be more empathic more often.
It's so weird, I'm such a highly sensitive person, but I feel like because I grew up with a narcissistic parent (an ENTP btw), I learned to shut off my empathy and be cruel just like they are. But that is not me (at least I hope so), so I will get better and be my empathetic true self someday!
Same. INFJ with a narcissistic parent, too. I guess I kind of see myself as some kind of modern day emotional robin-hood. Stealing from the toxic and giving to the deserving! đ
INFJ here. I do get a sadistic pleasure from torturing a**holes, I have to admit. Though it is only for the most extreme cases I actually use it. HOWEVER. I think it is important to look objectively at ourselves, as someone who have both good and bad sides, just like everyone else. We can't excuse it with being 'highly sensitive'. Empathy can be used to do good, but it can certainly do a lot of damage as well, if you use it to cause harm. INFJ can be just as dark as the other types, make no mistake.
Be careful not to define good or evil too black or white. You can use empathy to understand what your friend needs, and heal her pain. Or you can use it to understand a persons deepest pain or fears, and break them into tiny little pieces. Empathy is not good or bad, it is the way you choose to use it.
The goal is not always to not have a dark side. For me, the goal is to understand my dark sides, learn to 'dance' with them, so I can deal with them better. And how to channel them for something better.
Examples
- Aggression can escalate a situation if used wrong - but it can also define a boundary for someone who don't listen, and actually stop a worse situation from happening.
- Intelligence is obviously a good thing. But many intelligent people are so used to being 'smarter', that they begin to assume they are always right, and others are wrong. Therefore, often drawing some wrong conclusions, because they are afraid to properly question and develop their understanding of things.
There are many more examples, but I think you get the point. :) But to sum up, remember you are not above (or below) others, just because you have high empathy. Everyone have good and bad sides, yourself included, and that is not necessarily a bad thing, as long as you can channel it in a positive way. :)
"I cry when I get mad okay"
Oh no, this is INFP
"Is that okay or are you gonna tell me I have to have a reason for that too??"
*Yep this is definitely INFP*
Absolutely LOVED the ENTP here LMAO-
"I cry when I get mad, ok??" GOD, how I hate that! xD Crying is NOT being weak, yet it FEELS like people might see you weak for that, even if in your core self you're adamantly resolutive about your opinon. It's just a way to let emotions go because they quickly become too much to handle (as we feel *deeply* , sometimes it's like this, yeah...). Nothing more, nothing else. Maintaining composure in situations like these isn't for me, that's for sure xD Also, the way we think about others that make us cry like like this as "jerks" is so canon lmao xD
And I love how the INFJ actually explains why they should stop before hurting the other, which they don't want to do and feel guilty about... :(
I disagree (I'm just kidding i agree) -ENTP
Wait.... But that was about the INFP...
um that was the INFP ig?
@@iris6068 Oh, yes, those were two separate notes from me LMAO.
I loved the ENTP, then I commented how the INFP part was perfectly relatable as I am an INFP.
Sorry for making it confusing đ
@@staerrylove Oh, yes, those were two separate notes from me LMAO.
I loved the ENTP, then I commented how the INFP part was perfectly relatable as I am an INFP.
Sorry for making it confusing đ
I'm an INTJ and i relate to the ENTJ one when i hate someone they're actually dead to me as in like they don't exist and that i never wanna think about them ever again. It's such a bother honestly it's a waste of time I'm just gonna pretend that he/she doesn't exist LMAO.
Thatâs amazing you got the INTJ spot on. Sometimes I do find myself in an argument and then it occurs to me to think, wait, whatâs in it for me again? and then just switch off abruptly. but i do like a debate with someone whose intelligence i esteem in the first place. i guess because thereâs something in it for me - more accurate opinions.
I often don't bother telling people why they are wrong, they wouldn't understand my explanation anyway. Why waste words.
It's weird when INFJ is not the ending punchline of the video
But I guess INTP fits here too well đ€
Frank better not jumpscare us with that INFJ loop.
As an INTJ I don't usually feel the need to argue but when I do, I usually win and I do it as efficiently as possible.
The "sun's out" comment really resonated with me because I'm pale skinned and I burn easily, so I do try to avoid being in the sun for very long. I also usually wear a lot of black so I've been accused of looking pretty vampiric on occasion. đ
My family thinks I'm a vampire for similar reasons of wearing black and refusing to be in the sun for too long. the night is my friend- INTJ
Same I only tend to argue if Iâm sure I have all my facts.
Why do we Intj tend toward black clothes? Is it the fact they don't look dirty as fast? If you spill something on it in public it will be the least noticeable thus saving us humiliation? It matches everything so it makes getting ready when we have to leave the house more efficient? đ€ It isn't my favourite colour (green) but it is about 90% of my wardrobe.
@@Nurtherwen I personally like wearing all black for a few reasons. less people will want to go near you considering black is an intimidating colour to most people, if your clothes are all black it makes washing them all much easier because you only need to put them on a dark wash and yeah if they get dirty it is less noticeable and you can carry on with your day. even though purple is my fave colour most of my clothes are black.
@@DGDDice I forgot about it being easier to sort clothes for the wash since it also makes it lovely I only need to change the settings for heavy bedding or delicates which are both done far less often.
INFJ so spot on! Our words do cut deep & we automatically feel bad about it but still they deserve to contemplate on it. We are suffering enough by telling the harsh truth for their own good đ„Čđ
My ESTP husband is a mix between ISTJ and ESTP (maybe because ESTP shadow functions are ISTJ) when we argue. He uses a lot of sarcasm and fake laugh too, which as an INFP it really annoys me. đ
INFP was very accurate, but I also feel like the INTP and INFJ sometimes. đ
Thats me boi im your husband because i use and am fluent in sarcasm
I am also INFP and I also feel like the INTP and INFJ sometimes
Maybe arguing makes your shadow functions surface hard because I didn't relate at all to ENFP, but INFJ really hit home
I don't make fake laugh, but when someone start to use sarcasm to me, sometimes I like the way that they say.đ
I am INTJ and the two times I remember having arguments in the last years, the people I was arguing with often asked me to look away because I « scared them » đđđ
INTJs could absolutely decimate anyone in an argument if they cared enough to waste time and energy. We still engage occasionally, ENTJ and ENTP would be the only competition realistically
Precisely
My parents are an INTJ and an ENTP. There is no arguing. The INTJ patiently listens to the ENTP rant for a couple hours (multitasking) and then points out a devastating flaw in the core logic of whatever ENTP was ranting about. ENTP is stunned into thoughtful silence. This pattern has been repeating for about thirty years and they are still happily married.
@@WritingsOfQuill noice
I believe we INTPs can be a strong competition as well... when it's an internet argument
@@wolfotumadre6969 no doubt. The internet is INTPs homeground.
Honestly, this is why I try to stay away from conflicts, especially when it's someone I know: I don't want to accidentally pierce their most vulnerable spots because I'm too worked up. I don't know if I could forgive myself if I ever did that.
- INFJ
INTP - Eh... I'd be fine with that. Having our vulnerable spots pierced is kind of a regular Tuesday with my ENFJ friend.
@@Alexandar358 ENFJ here.I only unleash that kind of aggression on someone who really crosses the line and needs to be taken down hard. Sorry your "friend" rolls like that.
@@islanddolphin6878 Sorry? Are you kidding me!? That's the best thing that's ever happened to me! It was really painful at times, but it got me to understand those vulnerabilities, adapt to a new mindset and more or less helped in curing my teenage depresh. The most effective way to work through trauma is just to jump balls deep into it! In return I guess I unintentionally helped him follow his dreams. I have no idea how I did it, but he's really grateful for it so... Points! And because of him I now have this trip detector. I can see what people are deep within some emotional trip (like I used to be) and "ain't being their true self". It's absolutely amazing!
Course it might be a cultural thing, soo. And to correct myself we were exploring our vulnerabilities. Not "jabbing at them". I have this strange habit of over and under-exaggerating almost everything that happens to me. I might have said that because he swears a lot almost uncontrollably. He calls it, having a "Sinner's mouth" and there've been a few instances where I took it a tad personally. But nah we good. That guy's actually one of my best friends!
03:20 "I cry when I get mad okay!?"
Oh my god no way!! đđđđ The accuracy is on point!!
I'm an INTP and I remember this incident back in highschool where someone wanted to take my stuff and just yesterday I spent an hour coming up with different comebacks and another hour executing them. It felt really good, but I know I would have never been able to say it anyways. I really just don't like to argue with people so I try and end is a s quickly as possible.
As an INFJ I usually stay away from arguments. Because I know if I lose it, some bridges will burn and will never become the same.
Same, but secretly I want to duke it all out where in my fantasy the other person can take it. I want it as real and intense and truthful and AUTHENTIC as it can get. Baptism by FIRE sort of thing...
Has anyone ever took a personality test and got the rarest type, only to find our your entire lineage had the same type?
Same âą~âą
Wait, what?? How does that happen??
@@nyxpython3232
Honestly, that sounds really cool!
Except the tests are very unreliable and self typing is the best way. :)
I wish, I am the only INTP
As an ENFP this speaks to me on a spiritual level
As an infp i have been told i'm pretty logical when i argue with someone but i always feel like i'm gonna cry while saying it which is also why some of the best comebacks only came to me after the argument is over, because i was too busy holding back tears that time đ
ESTJ ainât wrong.đ§»
_"ESTJs don't make suggestions, they give commands."_
- Experience
Youâre wrong
Yaaa it's so true i mean as an estj he nailed it
My sister is Estj and I'm Infp.. u can imagine how much we argue :'))
@@greatwavefan397 I see it less as a command and more of: "How do you not see this obvious amazing logic???!!!! Uuuuuuhhhhh......... Otherwise it's less sanitary/convenient. I fully expect you to understand now."
đThe ENFP saying, "It's the '20s and we need to do better" felt so weird to hear! đ INFJ--yeah, it cuts like a knife!đȘđ đđđ
How did you already watch the video
@@mikytaly680 Bought Frank a coffee on Ko-fi. He gives you early access if you do.đ
@@StephanieJeanne oh cool yeah makes sense
Yeah "it's the 20s" threw me off for a bit.... and then I cried inside.
Thank you so much! you perfected the Intp in this one! classic!
I'm really annoyed with the 'emotional crybaby' INFP stereotype. If someone disagrees in front of me with my core values, you bet your ass I will step up and argue them against the wall with actual facts and arguments. It's true, I base my values off my morality, but there is reason and logic behind that. We are very introperspective people and therefore know why we feel a certain way. We have a strong moral compass, and we defend in what we believe to be right with our whole heart, mind, and soul.
Couldn't agree more. I never cry during or after arguments. I use facts and arguments to defend my values. Exactly what you said, basing values off morality but with reason and logic behind it is what INFPs do
You remind me of my INFP 486 sp/soc friend :) that's why I'm confused by the crybaby stereotype. Mentally, she's the strongest person I know. She had to overcome great adversity in her own family, which made her stronger and so much more compassionate. I love her so much, she's such a great friend â€ïž
The MBTI that I know more people are INFP and most of them are too emotional that can't even debate. I always have to act like I agree with them. Kinda frustrating as an ENTP
I agree, but I also disagree. I am enfp, and I am surrounded by infp friends. And they act strong all the time, and yes, many times they get to the point of being stubborn when discussing something, but they are also very easy to break. They cry out of anguish sometimes, or mostly out of anger(Obviously, when no one see them, or mostly when they drunk. If they can't cry, they just get mad and cold in that moment) but I think that's more because of their internal debates when debating with others. Or after you have debated and think about the discussion.
But yeah, if it doesn't include anything that affects them emotionally, they tend to debate what they think pretty much to the death.
Yeah I agree. I stand up for myself then go home and cry.
Hiya, INFJ girl here. I would just like to say that the accuracy annoys me but I can't help laughing because its the God honest truth...my mouth has gotten me into more trouble than I care to admitđđ
That ENTP thing literally happened with my ENTP friend. We were arguing about something for HOURS before i realised that we both are saying the same thing. He was SO disappointed đ
As an ambiverted ENFP, I can relate to this very much. I hate being shouted at and I will probably end an argument crying. Although I CAN win in arguments, I don't like them a lot, and it really depends about practice and about the subject..
I still find myself identifying with both INFP and INFJ in your videos đ I love these skits.
Got me with INFP đ€Ł
I literally cried arguing about philosophical questions with my dad and how he was lecturing me that hypothetical questions aren't realistic, like yes. That's why they're called hypothetical!
I almost physically felt pain at the INTP from how accurate it is
same then that too fizzled out
sameđđ
My INTJ reality is more like:
"You're wrong"
"Nope. I'm right since [start talk for about a hour of the topic, usually seeming Wikipedia]"
"Oh, wow. I didn't think about that. Yeah, I was wrong"
"Hey, is everything okay? It has been like one and half of a hour since you were in the shower. Are you dying or something?"
Wait, who's in the shower? XD
@@greatwavefan397 me.
Awesome as always and those wigs were epic!
I love how the ISTJ is smiling because he knows he's right and he enjoys the moment, that's exactly how I act...
We're smiling on the outside but laughing maniacally inside đđ
I get...... disappointed in humanity.
@@aprilhelm518 because of my comment or because of that kind of situation?
@@system_ai9248 I mean usually when I'm talking to someone who seems to base opinions more on feelings... it's exasperating. I think I get more enjoyment by realizing it's not just me.
@@aprilhelm518 For me it depends on the topic. When it comes to discussing objective matters like actual data, feelings are completely out of the table, but when it comes to more sbujective stuff like philosophy, feelings take a much more important role. That's why I avoid those kinds of arguments becuase both sides have their reasons and there isn't a definitive right answer.
As an infp I fucking hate arguing because it can be so exhausting and emotionally draining
Yeaaa but I still hate the fact that we are now just associated with this stereotype. It's annoying as hell
@@killme5630 I think all feelers to some degree are like that which isn't necessarily a bad thing it doesn't undermine are ability of critical reasoning it just happens that we are more prone to get emotional on a bad day
@@zakharovax being emotional isnt always being whiny like that in the video tho. I know it's for jokes, but the video gets tiring when you see the same joke for your type over and over again, especially when you want to get better and are struggling.
@@killme5630 I get that, these videos are an exaggerated version of an unhealthy infp and are made in good faith I'm sure. I know bunch of infps including myself who aren't that chaotic and can handle a debate. Don't let that hinder you from bettering yourself we're all imperfect!
yesss so true
As an INTJ I hate arguing because there is usually no logical basis for the argument, and there are no winners in a battle of feelings.
As an INFP, I feel exposed. However, when I get angry, I don't cry but replay that scenario in my head to what coulda been.
"Your feelings are irrelevant." As an intp, that line got me so hard! That sounds exactly like something I would say to the person I'm arguing with in my head when I imagine going out and arguing with all the illogical people.
Illogical? As an INTP myself, isn't stupid to judge without including feelings, if they are part of you? I mean not all the time, they kinda have no rules but...whatever, I really think they should be included somehow...someday.
@@good-frog I get what you mean, I just meant it's what I'd like to say to people who make choices or form opinions based purely on feelings even when there are facts and logic that prove those choices or opinions are not going to turn out well, like playing with matches in a dry field.
Feelings definitely shouldn't be disregarded and ignored when making decisions that don't necessarily need to rely on pure facts and logic, they just shouldn't be the only thing used to make choices.
@@good-frog in the context of the video feelings were clearly not necessary since the argument was about a specific date
Lol!
@@good-frog you are an advanced INTP :)
Why do I have a feeling that ENTPs are gonna thrive in this video?
-ENTP
Yes, yes you are
In the situation the ENTP was in, I'm usually the one who realises that we're arguing about opinions that are actually the same.
@@callmesam.4502 lol!!! Samesies! And it ALWAYS breaks the other person đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
@@revolutionfrommahbed4246 What's your type đđ ?
@@callmesam.4502 Iâm an ENTP - but when someone agrees with me Iâm happy to be the first to point that out đ
INFJ - Awesome! All of these are hilarious and super well done, I'm so impressed ! Had to study all the 16 personalities just to keep up. ^^ :D
I just canât get over how accurate the mister Rogers tshirt is. Heâs like the infp hero.
I love the ENTP being upset with agreement; Iâm one & weâre just disappointed we donât get to keep arguing. Iâve sometimes taken a topic of debate to a new person to get another chance at it.
well for me i prefer being right, because arguing with a person whos point is wrong for a long time gets tiring, i would much rather them accept the fact that i won the argument then keep arguing the same point which this person will never get (because they are a peanut brain loser)
I'm an INTP, and this is sooo relatable... like, I just try put an argument, but when I finally want to say something, the discussion is over. And then you see me a week after still thinking on what a would said đ€Šđ»ââïžđ
Loving the new hairdos, FJ! (And the videos. A lol every time.)
I laughed out loud at ENTP! Thatâs exactly what itâs like arguing with my mom!
The way you added "jerk" in there for INFP is so accurate. We need to get small dig in for how bad they're making us feel. I also would relate to the ENFP but unfortunately, am used to being yelled at from a young age. I also relate to the INFJ.... like this feeling of, "please don't let this escalate, just let it go"
INFJ was literally word for word what my fiance used to tell me! And it was completely accurate! He was so vicious and then felt so bad after he'd said it. ENFP I couldn't relate to this time. Me in an argument always gets yelled at for laughing at a joke inside my head or because I laugh when I'm uncomfortable or I did something ridiculous or...
Also an ENFP. When I'm yelled at during a frivolous argument it's usually because I'm also yelling so I don't mind đ€·ââïž I'd be a hypocrite otherwise
Same, I don't mind the yelling either
Yo, my mum is an INFJ and I'm an ENFP. This describes our arguements perfectly
To laugh at oneself is a life skill... To laugh at oneself during an argument is a superpower!
I really loved this one wow
As a tie between ENTJ and ENTP, I have to say, youâve got me down SPOT ON. I hate when people agree with me. As an ENTP, itâs annoying because I have this HUGE defense prepared for *everything* and when someone just agrees, there is no debate. As an ENTJ I will basically block people from my life THE MOMENT I get angry at them. They are literally âdead to meâ. Iâm currently ignoring over 29 people.
People confuse "defense" with defense mechanism. When people think they see a defense mechanism, their brain automatically triggers "argument" instead of debate. Maybe lead the debate with a preface monologue.... "I would like to explore this topic with you" ... idk something like that. I love to talk about ideas and explore too with my Ne but depending on the other person that exploration can be seen as "wanting to argue". For me, I literally am not attached to winning a debate and just want to brainstorm. As an ENFP, I actually prefer it when I "lose" if they were taking it as an argument because then I learned something. Sometimes, I will switch over to their side to start agruing against myself and that really confuses them that think I am in it to "win" it. Can be a lonely world for us explorers of ideas especially with our loved ones but even more lonely if the relationship is burnt. Anyways, the preface really helps in my experience. Otherwise strangers are where it is at!! I suppose maybe that is why we tend to gravitate towards strangers and strangers to us.... so we CAN actually have conversations of exploration.
INFP was really on point. In fact, when i get really mad, i start crying and people don't really understand that is the only way for me to let go all my anger without hurting anyone or anything. That juste the way my body let go my too-much-emotion. That's do that too for a lot of other emotions thougt.
The ESTP one was legit an actual event Iâve witnessed A LOT LOL, Ti be like âit is what it isâ then Fe is like âdonât take this incredibly insensitive statement personally bro weâre all friends hereâ đđđ
Yeah my brother does that. I'm always shocked how little personal attacks bother or faze him. At the same time he's always confused how I'm still bothered by things. Even trying to apologize for things after I've taken time to cool down surprises him as once it's over, it's over. I wish I had that power sometimes
@@Takisan111 It has its pros and cons, ExTPs are very good sports and lighthearted when it comes to insults which is a strength, but sometimes they ruin relationships with people because they truly think they arenât being offensive when they are actually hurting peoples feelings (most likely a side effect of their near to non existent Fi lol)
As an Fe Dom I can understand the ExTP mindset so we can just say horrible things to each other all day and everyone around us thinks we hate each other when really itâs NOT PERSONAL AT ALL LOL
@@anupaghose5447 Yeah it took me a long time to realize that. When we were kids, his natural ability to read people often got used for his own amusement. I thought for the longest time that he didn't like or respect me since he never seemed to care how much his jokes hurt my feelings. We eventually had a serious heart to heart conversation in our 20s. Turns out the issue was that he honestly thought I was tough enough to handle his sense of humor and I was really bad at communicating my feelings. Truth be told I'm actually a little flattered he thought that way about me.
Excellent and so funny!!!