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  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  Před 29 dny +4

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  • @almomedia9383
    @almomedia9383 Před 29 dny +61

    Uongo mtupu, hakuna mwanamke atafurahia when another lady intrude their marriage.. this is just a denial and fear of starting over.

    • @judynzuki5183
      @judynzuki5183 Před 29 dny +4

      Sure,

    • @Sylvia20-cl7
      @Sylvia20-cl7 Před 29 dny +1

      Starting over single???? Weuuuuwe it's hard earth dear

    • @marykiio304
      @marykiio304 Před 29 dny +2

      True 💯

    • @Hannahkaruga1counselor
      @Hannahkaruga1counselor Před 29 dny +3

      She is not in denial, she accepted and healed a very long time ago, denial comes when you don't believe and also not accepted what happened

    • @salomenewsome4188
      @salomenewsome4188 Před 28 dny +4

      She's scared to be alone and promoting nonsense I might unsubscribe and stop watching TuKo

  • @kezzybett1142
    @kezzybett1142 Před 29 dny +30

    Those are pure lies. No sane woman can accept a strange woman into her marriage

    • @salomenewsome4188
      @salomenewsome4188 Před 28 dny +3

      She's scared to be alone

    • @kezzybett1142
      @kezzybett1142 Před 28 dny

      @@salomenewsome4188 sisemi kitu

    • @tida3727
      @tida3727 Před 28 dny

      😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@salomenewsome4188

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 Před 19 dny +2

      she chose to make lemonade out of lemons and thats okay instead of being bitter happy divocii like you projecting

  • @annegachanja3468
    @annegachanja3468 Před 29 dny +28

    Alot of talk but no one with a healthy sense of self worth and love would cosign to this confusing sexual network in the name of polygamy.

  • @IamLungo
    @IamLungo Před 29 dny +20

    Then why is your husband still marrying another woman she talks the talk but does not walk the walk not buying this story this is scaredness.of being dirvoced.

    • @Gmmwangi
      @Gmmwangi Před 24 dny

      I pity this girl
      She's in denial

  • @maureencleo1361
    @maureencleo1361 Před 29 dny +25

    So the man marries more wives because he has seen a more beautiful woman... ok, thats ok... does that mean that women should also entertain men that are richer than their men?... please lets stop decorating Polygamy... ive seen polygamous men die of loneliness because the kids and wives end up despising them.

    • @naomymose1866
      @naomymose1866 Před 29 dny +1

      Nop but when u see woman easily accept, she doesn't full in that marriage

    • @AnnahMwangi-njeri
      @AnnahMwangi-njeri Před 27 dny +1

      True any man who is in polygamy marriage they die lonely ad with fear of these women bcoz non of them is a friend,we many monogamous for companionship and friendship

  • @dianamuriethi7646
    @dianamuriethi7646 Před 21 dnem +4

    I wouldnt waste my precious time with this counsellor .

  • @maggiemutugi8869
    @maggiemutugi8869 Před 29 dny +3

    The only way to fight them is thru prayers,some use some powers to get men.As long as you are faithful in your marriage prayers can make your man adore you, respect you and ignore any outside woman.As for an abusive marriage walk away before you end up to 6ft under.Period!

  • @DIon..Godismyshield
    @DIon..Godismyshield Před 26 dny +2

    Other than giving our her story she was also here as an therapist or counseller so shes allowed to echo advise and pointing out the mistakes..there is nothing wrong wth that

  • @nm950
    @nm950 Před 29 dny +23

    Yvonne. Healthy advise...when interviewing people with controversial life choices, better to just stick to their narration of their own story rather than the guest giving advice or philosophising their issues. Next time just ask what their story is. We're more interested in the details of your guest's experiences than their advice. Bulk of the interview should be the personal story.

    • @oderavihenda5655
      @oderavihenda5655 Před 28 dny +6

      @nm950 you have saved my time 😘.....thank you for your comment...i thought it will have some episodes where we can learn from ...b4 deciding to entertain what their tittle say. its true "...We're more interested in the details of your guest's experiences than their advice. "

    • @chickenjuice4000
      @chickenjuice4000 Před 28 dny +4

      True this is nonsense advice

    • @DIon..Godismyshield
      @DIon..Godismyshield Před 26 dny

      ​@@oderavihenda5655stand 🧍‍♀️ 💪 on your own you are kind of a person that will see your friend has gone to school and scored an E and you will be there oooh thankyou you have saved my schoolfees am not going to school because of your grades😅😅this woman is speaking out of experience and rather than giving her story she also a therapist 😊 let's give her flowers before judging 😊

    • @marykaruri8994
      @marykaruri8994 Před 26 dny +1

      personal perspectives could be misleading

    • @blessedandhighlyfavoured8978
      @blessedandhighlyfavoured8978 Před 21 dnem +1

      We don’t need polygamy advice… that’s your choice…

  • @janekinyanjui5129
    @janekinyanjui5129 Před 29 dny +18

    You speak for yourself. Not every married woman cheats. Funga mdomo

  • @winfrednjoroge890
    @winfrednjoroge890 Před 8 dny +1

    Its a high time we accept that men are polygamous and live with it, otherwise you'll die of depression
    Hakna mwanaume ako na mke mmoja, I'm happily married and if he feels like marrying another wife, well and good

  • @evanschaedirectoreffortcon6264

    This lady is very mature,pure African daughter. Those criticising her majority are from broken marriage or singles trying to imagine what union looks like

    • @lilianotieno-ss1wd
      @lilianotieno-ss1wd Před 23 dny +1

      Exactly

    • @gogetta723
      @gogetta723 Před 21 dnem

      Nah!, probably you are the broken one here. Only weak Men do that!.

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 Před 19 dny +1

      true. she reminds them why they are single and they need to stop projecting

    • @nikkiiliza5988
      @nikkiiliza5988 Před 19 dny +1

      Not really, some of us are happily married and from happy religious families. This is her point of view and we do not have to accept what she is sharing. In fact, this story is a shoc to some of us.

  • @PraiseTiya
    @PraiseTiya Před 29 dny +5

    God is so wise, one woman one Man finish and cla. No man can save two masters at a goal. You bring demons into your lives

  • @lucymaina2869
    @lucymaina2869 Před 29 dny +6

    A few minutes into the video,I think the lady is insincere.Resigning to fate or stopping yourself from fight is a survival mechanism.Deep inside what do you desire

    • @salomenewsome4188
      @salomenewsome4188 Před 28 dny +1

      Very an very insecure that's why she is spreading nonsense

  • @MyJOSE2013
    @MyJOSE2013 Před 19 dny +2

    So many 'happy' divociis projecting as expected. She simply chose her battle and prefered to stay while you prefered to leave and face your own battles outside. She is a counsellor hence more understanding.You are afraid your husbands may follow suit

  • @carol_line
    @carol_line Před 27 dny +3

    Danganya toto jinga😅😅😅

  • @halimashaban7637
    @halimashaban7637 Před 29 dny +2

    She's talking like Millie the Mp. My ticktock follower. I love you

  • @user-rq5qh8dq4f
    @user-rq5qh8dq4f Před 27 dny +2

    Weuuuh!!!!🙆. Comment section today has alot of bitterness why??? This her story just sit back, relax and ejoy coz mnapiga Yvonne teke mara bla bla, mara story teller is lying. Then tell us her side story which you knew before. Guys just be nice

  • @naomymose1866
    @naomymose1866 Před 29 dny +7

    Men if u see ur woman wife is easy accepting ur second wife, the know that woman is not fully in you, or that marriage. She will know how to end it

    • @sign1730
      @sign1730 Před 12 dny

      That's true, she either has an exit plan or he has already been replaced

  • @blessedandhighlyfavoured8978

    Three is a crowd!!! Period!

  • @MshauriPeter
    @MshauriPeter Před 28 dny

    This Ann Waiguru twin's personality is strong, I should say. A PHD in clinical psychology? Wow!!!
    I like the way she is relating things with some degree of judgements and conclusions as a qualified counsellor at the PhD. level!!!!!

  • @marywangui7432
    @marywangui7432 Před 24 dny +1

    Marriage ia is good but when he goes for another woman it means he is dissatisfied with you. Life is more than marriage and children.Self awareness is key and best thing is to give him space to live the life he wants but stooping down to a third party ????it should not be allowed.You are complete without that unfaithful man.

  • @Godsown-2
    @Godsown-2 Před 29 dny

    Thank you! That’s a big topic. Thank you for trying to bring it together 🎉

  • @estherkariuki8338
    @estherkariuki8338 Před 29 dny +4

    This woman is very mature may God almighty bless you baby gal

  • @MamaB-j5b
    @MamaB-j5b Před 21 dnem +1

    Self esteem yako madam iko down sana. Keep your advise to yourself, tell us your story only. Were you are you really truly loved??? If so, huezi taka another woman by your husband side. Get love and be loved. Uko down sana

  • @charitykamau4785
    @charitykamau4785 Před 29 dny +2

    Kila mtu na maisha yake.

  • @alicekinyua9249
    @alicekinyua9249 Před 20 dny

    Sarcasm laughter you are right yah

  • @Hannahkaruga1counselor
    @Hannahkaruga1counselor Před 29 dny +1

    Wow Daktari 🎉🎉

  • @MissOgake
    @MissOgake Před 29 dny +3

    Pure lies and utter nonsense! No woman would be happy to welcome another to her marriage willingly, this only happens when you have no choice.
    Kwangu ukileta miguu nitakukata😂😂

  • @user-mz9ob6hq9z
    @user-mz9ob6hq9z Před 24 dny

    I just know some Kenyans are polygamous but in this case I see a woman that has been antagonized by her philandering husband to accept some bullshit. She needs a self esteem boost. My heart ❤️ goes out to her because you can tell she is a lovely person

  • @nikkiiliza5988
    @nikkiiliza5988 Před 19 dny

    If you think about it, it is all about power. Why does it have to be a man to have multiple partners? They know it is wrong. If it were right, they would have normalized that so women too can have them if their economic status allows it. Some women are blinded in that cult. If my husband were to love another woman, I would simply step away and let them stay together. This is insane in my opinion.

  • @mantj5022
    @mantj5022 Před 28 dny

    The title did not rhyme with talk. Especially the interviewee did not get to tell how she accepted her husband to have a second partner despite the fact that she stayed in her marriage.

  • @gogetta723
    @gogetta723 Před 21 dnem

    Some of us are quided by Godly principles, where does it say that you accept and stop fighting?. Mislead yourself. We have seen and listen to others come on these platforms with same narrative, yet its the opposite, depressed and bitter pretending to put a brave face😮

  • @Mkisii612
    @Mkisii612 Před 19 dny

    Let me laaaaf in a way that pleases me!!Nooooo

  • @rosamariewanjiru8659
    @rosamariewanjiru8659 Před 29 dny

    Leaving a marriage is not easy for women in kenya. Divorce causes the woman and her family a lot of stigma. Most women would rather stay in a humiliating marriage than return to their father's house. What will the villagers say? How will i face my home church members who witnessed my wedding? Won't my divorced make my mother to be the subject of gossip among the women's guild?

  • @judyokech5324
    @judyokech5324 Před 29 dny +1

    Uuwongo mtupu i love mein children and mawafundisa visuri ya kwaza upendo food on the table to be clean and i schow them Digital mapema kwa wiki 10 thau ya mafuta ya gari na hasikuwa ana shida na pesa nime mpa watoto wangu card bank mein schow chidren love like akothe ❤

  • @JoyceNyaboke-wu4qc
    @JoyceNyaboke-wu4qc Před 28 dny +1

    Mimi hata siwezi maliza kusikia. Huyu ajiongelelee tu.

  • @EmmanuelManu99
    @EmmanuelManu99 Před 29 dny +1

    Talking sense

    • @hellenjackson572
      @hellenjackson572 Před 29 dny

      2 wives those are only for Muslims, and I think with Christians those days were long gone, that's history

  • @lucymaina2869
    @lucymaina2869 Před 29 dny +1

    African culture expected women to shut .But have we ever thought that all verses in bible saying a woman should submit and the man is the head were actually written by men?How comes there is no woman version of these verses.One pastor said that the bible was written in a misogynistic era.A woman had no place.
    So jewish culture and African culture the same.God never created anyone to be oppressed.This narrative of women this and that is outdated

  • @nyamburamwathi2542
    @nyamburamwathi2542 Před 28 dny

    U have to be happy cos you don't want to loose your man

  • @princessdaniella7217
    @princessdaniella7217 Před 28 dny +1

    Pple keep trying to study about men n they will never get the answer even wen try to say bibilically the head of a man is GOD dats y even fore fathers could talt to him n they had several wemen n ladies cannot accept reality so akili kichwani yesu moyoni pesa mfukoni......

  • @pascalinelokota2146
    @pascalinelokota2146 Před 29 dny +7

    Black women’s 💔💔💔 😒😒😒😒

  • @Gmmwangi
    @Gmmwangi Před 24 dny

    Uongooooooooo
    Jipende mama

  • @alphanyjames4897
    @alphanyjames4897 Před 26 dny

    since kitambo . kwanza mimi nikona mumama

  • @MarionMark-lr8iv
    @MarionMark-lr8iv Před 29 dny

    she looks alike eith Ann waiguru

  • @edwinamboyi9138
    @edwinamboyi9138 Před 29 dny

    Madam... cheating is a choice... for me l believe love that exist between husband and wife ... can't be shared with third party...any man who marries more than one women is just out of self-control of the flesh..(lust)....coz if what you are advising is true then it could have worked for you...by winning your husband back to yourself 😊🏃...

  • @zakiyussuf1212
    @zakiyussuf1212 Před 25 dny

    What happened to Abraham's Empire ?

  • @cregperkins5857
    @cregperkins5857 Před 29 dny +1

    Ladies, the bible says, the "Word kills, the Spirit gives life" as long as you are led by the Holy Ghost, let us just talk about the bible blindly, lets also consider our African culture that looks down to women and treats them they are less

    • @salomenewsome4188
      @salomenewsome4188 Před 28 dny

      Stop the nonsense and get out of the cult u are in in the name of a church

  • @judyokech5324
    @judyokech5324 Před 29 dny +1

    Sasa na saa na ulikuwa na boy friend uka saa mkawachana bibi ameenda na watoto na akawafundisha je wanafanya kasi sasa bwana anakuja hapa piya tuonge mimi nimekata hawaoni baba yeye alikuwa mtu wa kutomba na kufanya umalaya jibu plz

  • @user-tp5ox3sg7g
    @user-tp5ox3sg7g Před 23 dny

    So who do we follow
    Humans or bible
    Gods rule or traditions

  • @CatherineMwaniki-jw9ni

    If my husband marry second wife even me I look for a sponsor outside but I won't leave my marriage But the fact is these sidechics ate always paying games outside.

  • @noble7918
    @noble7918 Před 29 dny

    'Ypu have quite an impressive CV so to speak' weuh what does this mean yaani we cannot just celebrate someone without undertones?

    • @gw7768
      @gw7768 Před 29 dny +2

      ..not necessarily. It's 'our' English. We dont understand the real use of phrases and grammar

  • @ndumbuscholastica
    @ndumbuscholastica Před 22 dny

    so umekuja hapa mtu mzima ku encourage polygamy huna kazi ya kufanya

  • @lucynguru2128
    @lucynguru2128 Před 24 dny

    The English... woi..

  • @kaibungarose
    @kaibungarose Před 27 dny

    I cannot stand anything, just The same way with a soda boda raiders

  • @maggiesonnie1027
    @maggiesonnie1027 Před 28 dny

    How's Ibrahim's so far??? Pure lies.

  • @sintoyiapulei9105
    @sintoyiapulei9105 Před 29 dny +3

    Did i hear her say..i dont want to share my ..boy!
    Waah!
    So what is she teaching..
    For me i could have said halleluyia..
    God bless the young lady..aje anisaidie ..hapa.
    Tujenge boma..
    Men are not easy to handle .
    . So one out!
    😂
    Hivo tu,
    On the other hand ,
    .marriage issues we tackle together..ama lets part ways..
    Third party (co- wife) in the family Nope!
    Stop enabling bad behaviours!
    I don't get it..did she accept the second wife?
    Though she did all she thought is right..for a man.
    Pole Dr .

  • @elizabethnechesa
    @elizabethnechesa Před 25 dny

    This woman has the audacity to lie to all of us.Nkt....

  • @EmmanuelManu99
    @EmmanuelManu99 Před 29 dny

    Hehehe 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @cregperkins5857
    @cregperkins5857 Před 29 dny

    Man lost his leadership once Adam fail he become weaker and the woman become stronger this has continued we better accept it as men

    • @user-fy1po8pm9f
      @user-fy1po8pm9f Před 29 dny

      No don’t accept it because you were created to be the head sir and not the tail please 🙏

  • @annmaina2932
    @annmaina2932 Před 19 dny

    A very boring story.... She is not even telling the truth...