@@user-if1vh4wb4gyeah it may be funny but most likely not if it was switched around to you or that person and that person would freak out if he was getting laughed at as well .
I heard something once and I feel it’s applicable here. “Don’t accept abuse, you don’t have to be friends with those people and you don’t have to stay in your location you can just walk away you as a human have no obligation to sit there and listen to someone make fun of you or mock you
Mocking behaviour = Jealous of others + Useless themselves I wish school have a subject called Human Behaviour. So that I can understand more when I grow up as an adult. 🤣🤣🤣
Embarrassed them back. Respond something you know that will make them insecure if they won't stop. 😊 Example, make fun of their tone of voice. Imitate them and make fun of it.
@@pinkfuture8275That's bad advice. What they want is for you to walk around less confident then you are. Telling them shit back is what they want,it wastes your energy and they know that. Trying to make them insecure is a bitch move, as it shows that you yourself are insecure (no offence at all man). What a person needs to do is develop their self esteem and learn to not care about what they think. Show them that you are still that person they love to hate,and they aren't gonna change or be controlled by them. People hate what when somebody got something they love for themselves.
Silence and a blunt blank stare is deadly to the joke indeed. Don't smile and don't look away, just imagine your eyes are lasers beaming into their soul through their eyes. Watch how they try to react as you don't - kind of like a psychopath but more like a stoic
It sounds easy but it takes practice, and living a self-respecting life lol - the mirror and visualizing these situations can help. Also building some good comebacks for situations you thick about, maybe even passionate about.
my own friends do this all the time making fun about my appearance and saying it’s just a joke. when i finally confronted them, i was suddenly being dramatic like it’s not a big deal
That’s the pure definition of gaslighting.. switching the blame light on you. I’d say if when it happens (if you choose to keep them around) laugh & joke about something you’re aware of that makes them uncomfortable.
Start recording and play it back and say you feel the need to keep it bring it up because you have sew-er brain 💩. Say it must be sad to live in a commode
Dude same- sometimes my friends make fun about my body shape and weight.. They say's that i have fat tummy while they have flat stomach. 💀✋. And how they both have hourglass body while I look like a fatass-
I don’t know where to go with this so I’m just gonna put this out there. I have a constant struggle with self hatred and loneliness and I have these “friends” who mess around by destroying my stuff taking it insulting me making fun of me and so many other horrible things (such as inviting me to go somewhere, purely for the entertainment of taking my stuff and being horrible to me). I don’t even know what to do and why I deserve this. Every person I’ve told thinks it’s just them messing around but it’s really not. I don’t know how to let these people go because I don’t want to be alone.
In my experience when you reply to a bully you just give them satisfaction. What a bully REALLY wants because of their deep insecurity and feeling of inferiority, is you attention. So, it may seem the worse strategy but actually it works, ignoring a bully. Obviously you can't ALWAYS ignore a bully, ex: if they are coworkers and affect your job. The answer in cases when you can't ignore should be very brief, to tell them they should stop, without being too emotional.
The words doesn't hurt me, im confident with how i look. What affects me is when everyone else laughs and they keep on bringing it up again and again. I def look better than those people mocking my appearance but I choose to keep silent and not rebut
Understood but again it's going back to vanity. Character doesn't need vanity IMO so realize those might be gold covered 💩 who are melting the 'gold' and seeping out. Don't get it on you 🤷♀️
What if there are people in my school that take embarrassing pictures of me even out of the school and posting them on their stories to make fun of me + laughing to themselves when they see me? 🙁 I'm so sick of people doing that for no reason
Confront them ..ask them what's so funny? Pick a weak one as target and mock him or try to tell him about the consequences if he every try to do that again. Or make a fake account and do the exact same thing if you can go to that limits.
I just look, give them a weird look, and laugh to my friends next to me and it makes them feel bad. Oh and quick tip, when someone apologizes for being rude, say thank you. And don’t say anything after that. Don’t even say, “I accept your apology.” Or, “I’m sorry too.” Just say thank you. That way, you never apologized for something YOU didn’t do. thanks for reading lol😭
They have been doing that to me for a while. I walk away from these people; I am trying to create my life again. They have been doing that to me for a long time. I feel like I am the but of the joke.
Lots of people mock me in class. If they mock me it just gives me fuel to do everything in my power to do good in class. it feels so good when I'm not a repeater or failing in any subjects and all of them are.
You are wrong. I responded many times to bullies at school they kept mocking even more. Your naivety is thinking that an idiot will stop being an idiot because you tell them.
I can't but laugh. I really hate it. I feel like I have chronic head pain and that somehow I can't handle the stress of the world, so I laugh even when nothing is funny when I feel uncomfortable in social settings.
At family gatherings, My sister has a habit of asking me ridiculous questions, I could ignore her & some people pick up on her trolling & they start to imitate her antics. It’s all a herd mentality.
I had a really bad problem mocking drug addicts (junkies as I use to say) for the longest time I would laugh at their misery, illness, and misfortune constantly scoffing them and belittling them . I have since repented and completely stopped but even though I was never a mocker of God I mocked people in a vulnerable and unfortunate circumstance may the lord forgive me, a sinner.
I feel like it really doesn't work that way, even if you try to stay silent, they will still feel you're insecure and continue to mock you, what you should probably change is change your perspective about it, if you truly didn't care about it, they will feel it and they will eventually stop
Its kinda true bc ive been fired at jobs multiple times , because started some fight, this time i started to learn to ignore more and focus on myself, and after few months people just forget about things and then they would leave me be
Being silent after they make a joke about you makes you look like it affected you and you don't know what to say back. Men bust each others balls all the time but I don't think I'm witty or funny enough to jab back without it coming off like it hurt me. If I got silent they'll usually come up to me after and be like "you know I'm joking right?" And then I look sensitive or like I took the joke too personal because I didn't jab back at them.
I understand you bro you face difficulty to make a comeback to them. It happens with most of us. There are two approaches..first of first observe them and if you know something about them it try to make fun of it and try to laugh on your own joke and make the sure the joke goes according to the context that is being discussed in the group (or situation that was being discussed)...Second one try telling them in a normal tone but little raised so that they realise oh he is not liking it or it is making him angry then most of them will stop mocking immediately. Don't care about they will think me as aggressive it's just they will realise there is certain kind of jokes that they can do with you. Its you who decide what kind of joke you want people to do with you .
Laugh very hard on their joke, then: *Slap your knee and really exaggerate how funny you think their comments are. *Say something like “that’s a new one” or “that’s the funniest thing I’ve heard all day.” *Say something like “that’s enough” or “quit being rude.”
A friend made fun of me and insulted me just to make a new groupe of people laugh and like him on two separate occasions. It made me feel really sad, angry and it made me feel like al nothing. After that I gave him the silent treatment and ignored him like he wasn’t there. After that I see him no more then a pathetic being
I remember someone mocked me about my interest towards Technology and later copies those interest from me, lol no wonder he was so selfish and rude towards me because he has pure envy towards me, so not being himself he’s just creating a false personality
Actually. A boy I know in my neighborhood was making fun of me bc I don't speak (actually I do but I'm very shy) so I kept silent. He's still making fun and I ignored him. But guess what? Don't do it! He ruined my life even more. He made me hate the neighborhood so I stopped going outside. Yeah... Sadly, I found he's in the same school as me. He saw me omg and he gave me side eye-
Yeah but no one ever speaks of the "fake friend" who pretends to be your firend but throws little mocking comments and offensive jokes in the most unespected moments. These are apparently overly sarcastic people who pretend to be in your favor but after a long time I realise these tiny mocking behaviours are uncounscious and show a deep disrespect for you.
dude. every time i hang w my friends and or jst in class i feel as if everyone’s silently laughing at me. on top of that one of my acquaintances grabs my hat and throws it up on a branch as a joke. i fucking hate it but i choose to keep quiet because what’s the point….. it’s not like i’m ever going to se them again. On top of that i don’t like talking to people so it hella hard for me to make new friends. it been like this for over 5 years now and i’m just mentally done with life.
But l always stay silent when he makes fun of me in our tuition class . He often gives me funny nicknames, l never told him anything but he's not stopping although doing it more 😢😢
I really need help and advice! I heard from a girl that some of my old classmate have been taking picture of me and my bestfriend and sending them in a whatsap group and making fun of us. They have been wishing death upon u etc. I need evidence becaue im trying to sue them. My old classmates have been acting nice infront of me and then making fun of me behind my back :( Im really ad cuz i really thought we were friends.
I mean hyenas only take so at this point they don't have a value system and empty and they're really just laughing at themselves at this point. Half the time I can't hear them because my brain is focused on BEING myself so at this point I jaut say they're filled with f3cal matter. Helps to know they're a toilet bowl and I just flush them in my mind.
Bro i hurt you took sip out of your own piss "Silence" 🗿 So is it true then ? "Silence" 🗿 Everybody listen this guy took a sip out of his own piss *people laughing Dude really ? how did it tasted ? "Silence" 🗿 *Then people get uncomfortable and then slowly ignore your presence you are not a fun person to be around with you are all lonely and depressive You have now achieved an aura that makes people around you feel uncomfortable then you no more have a social life you feel lonely and unable to talk to people but then you remember social media is a thing and now you have become just like me biggest introvert socially but the biggest extrovert in social media here is where you belong ❤
If you smash out some of their teeth it usually stops the joke too.
Unfortunately i can't do that in university
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Too bad the law interferes in our lives
Difficult to do to family
Lol I wish
People are mean because they find joy in it.
Because they are jealous for what you have or achieved! Because they can't do it!
Nah its just funny
@@user-if1vh4wb4g my point
Its honestly just pure joy of making fun of people i dont understand it
@@user-if1vh4wb4gyeah it may be funny but most likely not if it was switched around to you or that person and that person would freak out if he was getting laughed at as well .
I heard something once and I feel it’s applicable here. “Don’t accept abuse, you don’t have to be friends with those people and you don’t have to stay in your location you can just walk away you as a human have no obligation to sit there and listen to someone make fun of you or mock you
Mocking behaviour = Jealous of others + Useless themselves
I wish school have a subject called Human Behaviour. So that I can understand more when I grow up as an adult.
🤣🤣🤣
In my country we used to have a subject like that, it was pretty interesting, but it was removed
Lmao
Yup my family does this!
No matter what I do they won't stop. They just keep mocking me. They don't stop.
Embarrassed them back. Respond something you know that will make them insecure if they won't stop. 😊 Example, make fun of their tone of voice. Imitate them and make fun of it.
get new friends yo
Who? If they are not your friends whoop them. Simple as that.
Leave their presence immediately.
@@pinkfuture8275That's bad advice. What they want is for you to walk around less confident then you are. Telling them shit back is what they want,it wastes your energy and they know that. Trying to make them insecure is a bitch move, as it shows that you yourself are insecure (no offence at all man). What a person needs to do is develop their self esteem and learn to not care about what they think. Show them that you are still that person they love to hate,and they aren't gonna change or be controlled by them. People hate what when somebody got something they love for themselves.
Silence and a blunt blank stare is deadly to the joke indeed.
Don't smile and don't look away, just imagine your eyes are lasers beaming into their soul through their eyes. Watch how they try to react as you don't - kind of like a psychopath but more like a stoic
👍🏻
On point
It sounds easy but it takes practice, and living a self-respecting life lol - the mirror and visualizing these situations can help. Also building some good comebacks for situations you thick about, maybe even passionate about.
these type of bullies highly depends on their 'gang' if its a 1v1 then its easy, but if he have his 'gang' he is really unstoppable
Gangs are degenerate cowards that will never be famous nor wealthy without committing crime . In my opinion they are another form of terrorism
so how do you deal with a gang of bullies?
@@rvdrawn4088just don’t let them get into your head and don’t show insecureness because once they do, you lose. Just keep talking confidently
my own friends do this all the time making fun about my appearance and saying it’s just a joke. when i finally confronted them, i was suddenly being dramatic like it’s not a big deal
That’s the pure definition of gaslighting.. switching the blame light on you. I’d say if when it happens (if you choose to keep them around) laugh & joke about something you’re aware of that makes them uncomfortable.
Start recording and play it back and say you feel the need to keep it bring it up because you have sew-er brain 💩. Say it must be sad to live in a commode
Dude same- sometimes my friends make fun about my body shape and weight.. They say's that i have fat tummy while they have flat stomach. 💀✋.
And how they both have hourglass body while I look like a fatass-
Guys you don't need friends like that. Friends should add to your life and your self worth.
I don’t know where to go with this so I’m just gonna put this out there. I have a constant struggle with self hatred and loneliness and I have these “friends” who mess around by destroying my stuff taking it insulting me making fun of me and so many other horrible things (such as inviting me to go somewhere, purely for the entertainment of taking my stuff and being horrible to me). I don’t even know what to do and why I deserve this. Every person I’ve told thinks it’s just them messing around but it’s really not. I don’t know how to let these people go because I don’t want to be alone.
Yes.but being silence make them more comfortable to continue that mocking
It really depends on the type of bully. This used to work for me and sometimes it didnt
Being quiet works sometimes but you gotta do something else sometimes when they attack your character, telling you something's wrong with you
In my experience when you reply to a bully you just give them satisfaction. What a bully REALLY wants because of their deep insecurity and feeling of inferiority, is you attention. So, it may seem the worse strategy but actually it works, ignoring a bully. Obviously you can't ALWAYS ignore a bully, ex: if they are coworkers and affect your job. The answer in cases when you can't ignore should be very brief, to tell them they should stop, without being too emotional.
The words doesn't hurt me, im confident with how i look. What affects me is when everyone else laughs and they keep on bringing it up again and again. I def look better than those people mocking my appearance but I choose to keep silent and not rebut
Understood but again it's going back to vanity. Character doesn't need vanity IMO so realize those might be gold covered 💩 who are melting the 'gold' and seeping out. Don't get it on you 🤷♀️
I understand that feeling.
What if there are people in my school that take embarrassing pictures of me even out of the school and posting them on their stories to make fun of me + laughing to themselves when they see me? 🙁 I'm so sick of people doing that for no reason
Confront them ..ask them what's so funny? Pick a weak one as target and mock him or try to tell him about the consequences if he every try to do that again. Or make a fake account and do the exact same thing if you can go to that limits.
Great I’m gonna try that
Because I’m not like that I feel a lot of people do this to me so here goes
Thanks 🙏
I usually just keep going.. and laugh at them.. lol, unless they bring it into a personal thing like physical then i prepare to knock them out lol 😅
Same if it goes too much i prepare for a punch
I just look, give them a weird look, and laugh to my friends next to me and it makes them feel bad. Oh and quick tip, when someone apologizes for being rude, say thank you. And don’t say anything after that. Don’t even say, “I accept your apology.” Or, “I’m sorry too.” Just say thank you. That way, you never apologized for something YOU didn’t do. thanks for reading lol😭
Ye@@thusharabinu5922
They have been doing that to me for a while. I walk away from these people; I am trying to create my life again. They have been doing that to me for a long time. I feel like I am the but of the joke.
I wonder why people mock me.
Becouse they cant reach your level bro , if you see ever someone mocking or hating on you that means theyre useless
They don't see you as a human. They're usually a toilet monster themselves 🤷♀️
Lots of people mock me in class. If they mock me it just gives me fuel to do everything in my power to do good in class. it feels so good when I'm not a repeater or failing in any subjects and all of them are.
@cedrichaspe5559 hello I will send you lunch thank you for being tough I can't believe you have to be hurt
People have been mocking me my whole life, that's how I got the name dough boy
If someone mocking you, you need to
React because if you remain silent they will keep mocking you
•Respond
You are wrong. I responded many times to bullies at school they kept mocking even more. Your naivety is thinking that an idiot will stop being an idiot because you tell them.
@@madameversiera and if you remain silent will something change;
I just stare at their forehead tbh 😳
I am trying to fight fire with fire. So far, it has worked in my favour at times, OTHER times not so.
I can't but laugh. I really hate it. I feel like I have chronic head pain and that somehow I can't handle the stress of the world, so I laugh even when nothing is funny when I feel uncomfortable in social settings.
I LAUGH BECAUSE I LAUGH THEM OFF.... DESPITE MY...
At family gatherings, My sister has a habit of asking me ridiculous questions, I could ignore her & some people pick up on her trolling & they start to imitate her antics. It’s all a herd mentality.
Pick out certain words and say you thought it must be from your sew-age brain. Say I don't want to smell your brain keep quiet 💩🧠👎
Ppl took a pic of someone with bogged eyes and they said oh i wonder who it it oh i wonder and spelt my name and kept laughing and i feel like crying
I had a really bad problem mocking drug addicts (junkies as I use to say) for the longest time I would laugh at their misery, illness, and misfortune constantly scoffing them and belittling them . I have since repented and completely stopped but even though I was never a mocker of God I mocked people in a vulnerable and unfortunate circumstance may the lord forgive me, a sinner.
No bro why silence , if he want the smoke i will give him
I feel like it really doesn't work that way, even if you try to stay silent, they will still feel you're insecure and continue to mock you, what you should probably change is change your perspective about it, if you truly didn't care about it, they will feel it and they will eventually stop
Its kinda true bc ive been fired at jobs multiple times , because started some fight, this time i started to learn to ignore more and focus on myself, and after few months people just forget about things and then they would leave me be
Outstanding!! I've had a friend for years that does this thing from.time to time.im just starting to see that the jokes were never jokes
thank you. I feel understood. ❤
And then later you think… I should’ve went with “jerk store”! lol
Seinfeld fans will get that connection
At this point I'm incredibly interested in psychology
Being silent after they make a joke about you makes you look like it affected you and you don't know what to say back. Men bust each others balls all the time but I don't think I'm witty or funny enough to jab back without it coming off like it hurt me. If I got silent they'll usually come up to me after and be like "you know I'm joking right?" And then I look sensitive or like I took the joke too personal because I didn't jab back at them.
I understand you bro you face difficulty to make a comeback to them. It happens with most of us. There are two approaches..first of first observe them and if you know something about them it try to make fun of it and try to laugh on your own joke and make the sure the joke goes according to the context that is being discussed in the group (or situation that was being discussed)...Second one try telling them in a normal tone but little raised so that they realise oh he is not liking it or it is making him angry then most of them will stop mocking immediately. Don't care about they will think me as aggressive it's just they will realise there is certain kind of jokes that they can do with you. Its you who decide what kind of joke you want people to do with you .
I pass gas and grunt agressively
I had a neighbour like this
Trust me,I am sure she's narcissistic
She has all the traits
Likes making fun of people
They have low empathy
Thank u sir silent is the best
Laugh very hard on their joke, then:
*Slap your knee and really exaggerate how funny you think their comments are.
*Say something like “that’s a new one” or “that’s the funniest thing I’ve heard all day.”
*Say something like “that’s enough” or “quit being rude.”
Because, like he said, the joke is....
Thankyou for your great advice which i did all the time but how i wish i could shout at them and do the same 😢
Thanks you I fallow you up
thank you
A friend made fun of me and insulted me just to make a new groupe of people laugh and like him on two separate occasions. It made me feel really sad, angry and it made me feel like al nothing. After that I gave him the silent treatment and ignored him like he wasn’t there. After that I see him no more then a pathetic being
Same to same happening with me from last week.. bro how to ignore him 😢😢
I'll try it next time,thanks
Thanks man
I remember someone mocked me about my interest towards Technology and later copies those interest from me, lol no wonder he was so selfish and rude towards me because he has pure envy towards me, so not being himself he’s just creating a false personality
They are CHEATER! Just like a copy cat.
Actually. A boy I know in my neighborhood was making fun of me bc I don't speak (actually I do but I'm very shy) so I kept silent. He's still making fun and I ignored him. But guess what? Don't do it! He ruined my life even more. He made me hate the neighborhood so I stopped going outside. Yeah... Sadly, I found he's in the same school as me. He saw me omg and he gave me side eye-
I am always being mockd I have a friend and he always mockes me I front of girls
bro nothing work experiencing ragging for so long
😔
Yeah but no one ever speaks of the "fake friend" who pretends to be your firend but throws little mocking comments and offensive jokes in the most unespected moments. These are apparently overly sarcastic people who pretend to be in your favor but after a long time I realise these tiny mocking behaviours are uncounscious and show a deep disrespect for you.
I can’t stand a bully
silence is not the solution my dear
react on every little thing
ppl will stay away from uh
I'll try tomorrow
Not true, by staying silent joke is accepted by others with a laugh and the circle continues. If you say nothing you just complied.
YEAH YOU CAN'T ALWAYS....
Silence isn't Always good.not everyone understand that your silence is an answer
dude. every time i hang w my friends and or jst in class i feel as if everyone’s silently laughing at me. on top of that one of my acquaintances grabs my hat and throws it up on a branch as a joke. i fucking hate it but i choose to keep quiet because what’s the point….. it’s not like i’m ever going to se them again. On top of that i don’t like talking to people so it hella hard for me to make new friends. it been like this for over 5 years now and i’m just mentally done with life.
i understand but be strong
@@zohryakanowah3324 thank you
I just ignore seems to work well 😊
But l always stay silent when he makes fun of me in our tuition class . He often gives me funny nicknames, l never told him anything but he's not stopping although doing it more 😢😢
As he yells at everyone
Im sacred to go school :( My mum did embarassing thing and everyone saw :(
What?
I am becoming a bully, to another bully… I hate it! Any advice ?
For me they call me old man. But I am a guy of 22 yrs and it really bring my spirit down when they do call old man. So how do I deal with it
I guess but i don't care i live in my world 🌎🌎😂😂 that's why in happy 😁 🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵
I really need help and advice! I heard from a girl that some of my old classmate have been taking picture of me and my bestfriend and sending them in a whatsap group and making fun of us. They have been wishing death upon u etc. I need evidence becaue im trying to sue them. My old classmates have been acting nice infront of me and then making fun of me behind my back :( Im really ad cuz i really thought we were friends.
I made alot of ppl upset and i think i’m a bad person and i always know what other ppl’s feelings are like. What does it mean?
The rest??
You're passive aggressive
I mean hyenas only take so at this point they don't have a value system and empty and they're really just laughing at themselves at this point. Half the time I can't hear them because my brain is focused on BEING myself so at this point I jaut say they're filled with f3cal matter. Helps to know they're a toilet bowl and I just flush them in my mind.
Bro i hurt you took sip out of your own piss
"Silence" 🗿
So is it true then ?
"Silence" 🗿
Everybody listen this guy took a sip out of his own piss
*people laughing
Dude really ? how did it tasted ?
"Silence" 🗿
*Then people get uncomfortable and then slowly ignore your presence you are not a fun person to be around with you are all lonely and depressive
You have now achieved an aura that makes people around you feel uncomfortable then you no more have a social life you feel lonely and unable to talk to people but then you remember social media is a thing and now you have become just like me biggest introvert socially but the biggest extrovert in social media here is where you belong ❤
Elmer Francisco
*violence*
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What if someone moke you with your old video
I think this man has been the butt of the joke too many times 😂
is this satire
You sound angry you should consider maybe taking this a little bit more seriously.