Bullied to Death in America's Schools

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  • čas přidán 14. 10. 2010
  • 160,000 children stay home from school out of fear of being bullied.
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  • @papapplayz9973
    @papapplayz9973 Před 4 lety +4461

    Honestly schools are disgusting. They don’t do anything for these kids.

    • @dachibogveradze9428
      @dachibogveradze9428 Před 4 lety +181

      Jack Sharman Not even. The American school system is pretty bad

    • @rrurum
      @rrurum Před 4 lety +48

      way more disgusting than school foods

    • @dripbertholdt4105
      @dripbertholdt4105 Před 4 lety +33

      Canada has the perfect schools they r so nice and humble👁👄👁

    • @thelegendaryt-rex4763
      @thelegendaryt-rex4763 Před 4 lety +14

      You're profile pic made me laugh

    • @henrycoats371
      @henrycoats371 Před 4 lety +25

      Papap Playz they just blame everyone else. Say let’s start a program, then they forget about it, then say “we tried” poor excuse.

  • @MJ-eb6fk
    @MJ-eb6fk Před 4 lety +2416

    The school wouldn't have a moment of silence for him? That's fucked up

    • @MsCtef
      @MsCtef Před 4 lety +34

      i know right

    • @joegastly6166
      @joegastly6166 Před 4 lety +51

      I guarantee the teachers were also bullies when they were little which is why they don't gaf

    • @laylauniversa2287
      @laylauniversa2287 Před 4 lety +4

      Just saying, when u swear in the comments at least use * on some of the letters, the on u used, please make the u into a *

    • @toypilfferer653
      @toypilfferer653 Před 4 lety +1

      there is a kid in a picture in the office

    • @Bagixxx1
      @Bagixxx1 Před 4 lety +3

      Its so sad

  • @vy8403
    @vy8403 Před 3 lety +638

    "Words are like sword. If you use them the wrong way, they can turn into ugly weapons." - Kudo Shinichi

  • @wiggumsdonut4158
    @wiggumsdonut4158 Před 3 lety +295

    He looked like such a charming and sweet boy. He didn't deserve this, nobody does.

    • @nesfan8
      @nesfan8 Před 3 lety

      I can see why he was bullied, tbh he deserved it he ssemed like an annoying little brat

    • @evanlucas5521
      @evanlucas5521 Před 3 lety +13

      nesfan8 and nobody deserves to get bullied to death like this.

    • @alifpermana1193
      @alifpermana1193 Před 3 lety +15

      @@nesfan8 how could he be a brat? I didn't see anything anoying about him, and how could he deserve it?

    • @jesusacevedo8647
      @jesusacevedo8647 Před 3 lety +6

      nesfan8 bruh WTF is wrong with u who the hell deserves to bullied.

    • @evanlucas5521
      @evanlucas5521 Před 3 lety +6

      nesfan8 before you comment on these types of videos, watch the fucking video first.

  • @Bella-ez3hl
    @Bella-ez3hl Před 4 lety +2378

    “Kids will be kids”
    And kids will be dead if we don’t do anything

    • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
      @notwerkinginthishouse8634 Před 4 lety +22

      that's just ridiculous
      to harass someone and making like a joke ?!

    • @alicestromnil
      @alicestromnil Před 4 lety +10

      artistic persona but that's the truth

    • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
      @notwerkinginthishouse8634 Před 4 lety +8

      @@alicestromnil things can be better but people don't try,that's the problem
      people desperately want others to make them feel better which is annoying

    • @whatif3271
      @whatif3271 Před 4 lety +20

      @@meancomment2413 guess your name lines up

    • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
      @notwerkinginthishouse8634 Před 4 lety +10

      @@meancomment2413 violence only brings more violence
      Running away from problems doesn't fix one
      It takes guts to do the right thing
      And don't promote comment like that,pleasr

  • @BangMaster96
    @BangMaster96 Před 5 lety +4069

    But how are kids supposed to stop bullies, if the school just expels the kids for defending themselves.

    • @apmie1695
      @apmie1695 Před 5 lety +56

      True

    • @swizzygurl7375
      @swizzygurl7375 Před 5 lety +178

      Exactly they suspend the victim not the bully its terrible schools need to all work together to fix this problem rather than just blow it off or tell the parents to deal with it

    • @susanemmerich3260
      @susanemmerich3260 Před 5 lety +18

      So true.

    • @candysmith8724
      @candysmith8724 Před 5 lety +124

      I told my kid to fight back, let me handle the school administrators. He did and it stopped. He did not get reprimanded because apparently the teachers didn't give a darn in these physical situations. My kid was pushed to the ground on a daily basis in the lunch line. No one cared. He handled it himself with my permission.

    • @RickSanches96
      @RickSanches96 Před 5 lety +43

      @@candysmith8724 My mom told me the same and it ended, sadly with this disgusting animals you need to deal with like animals.

  • @gordonschnick12
    @gordonschnick12 Před 3 lety +518

    Bullies should be charged with manslaughter.

    • @skylathomasmithchell2804
      @skylathomasmithchell2804 Před 3 lety +10

      Gordon Schnick no you can’t blame a school for kids action and you can’t just stop someone from bullying it doesn’t work like that it didn’t work for me so if your not a bully don’t speak

    • @charlescalvindead2324
      @charlescalvindead2324 Před 3 lety +9

      Some actually are. If they are not I want to minigun em

    • @skylathomasmithchell2804
      @skylathomasmithchell2804 Před 3 lety +2

      Secret Service Agent Jack no I don’t want to go to jail

    • @alexmartin8248
      @alexmartin8248 Před 3 lety

      Secret Service Agent Jack you should see her recent vid it’s messed up

    • @skylathomasmithchell2804
      @skylathomasmithchell2804 Před 3 lety

      Alex Martin I deleted it

  • @branstorm
    @branstorm Před 3 lety +886

    Kid: *commits suicide*
    Schools: *Oh no! Anyway.*

    • @kamilahdhatnubia1971
      @kamilahdhatnubia1971 Před 3 lety +37

      most of them don't even say oh no

    • @kamilahdhatnubia1971
      @kamilahdhatnubia1971 Před 3 lety +3

      SugarRice Yes, yes, yes. Agree 100%. And it’s so sad, but it’s a unfortunately a harsh reality that needs serious work. Nice way of wording that.

    • @a1kev
      @a1kev Před 3 lety +4

      Damn. You pretty much summed it up wow

    • @angel-nv7jk
      @angel-nv7jk Před 3 lety +7

      That's why here in America we exercise our right of independence and use of guns on our schools. Because adults suck and are incompetent in the district's.

    • @tylersanders2899
      @tylersanders2899 Před 3 lety +6

      Kid: dies
      School: LOL thats so sad anyway who wants to say kids die because of those darn phones?

  • @mrmonke1328
    @mrmonke1328 Před 4 lety +3751

    Kid: *Kills him self because of bullies*
    School: Oh my god that’s terrible, we need to do something
    Also school: *Does nothing*

    • @Alan_Marin
      @Alan_Marin Před 4 lety +152

      Kid: *chews gum quietly*
      Also School: *SUSPENDED!!!*

    • @jhooope4094
      @jhooope4094 Před 4 lety +84

      Also school: Its the damn phones.

    • @AnguishedMan
      @AnguishedMan Před 4 lety +16

      Also school: djdjjdisskkss

    • @lunahetfield
      @lunahetfield Před 4 lety +45

      Student: wears hoodie
      School: *ITS RED ALERT!!! HE HAS A GUN!!!! RUNNN!!! WOWKWWKSKKWLWSMKSLS!SSKPAPQPWWOEOEOOWLSLWEKSKSLLWWL*

    • @hankhill2254
      @hankhill2254 Před 4 lety +11

      Captain Carl from peewees playhouse me: doing work
      Partner: fucking around on the computer
      Teacher: Who’s playing on the computer
      Partner: Me and Ethan
      Me: {:-(

  • @calleyadele4567
    @calleyadele4567 Před 4 lety +2297

    someone: kills themselves from bullying
    school: doesn’t do a thing
    a girl: shows her shoulders
    school: EXPELLED

    • @frgwyn3760
      @frgwyn3760 Před 4 lety +32

      Calley Taylor nah girls wear what they want and the school don’t mind only if they chew gum

    • @itznatalieyt7785
      @itznatalieyt7785 Před 4 lety +51

      @@frgwyn3760 maybe at your school but for a lot of schools it is that way

    • @ohwhatelse
      @ohwhatelse Před 4 lety +4

      @@itznatalieyt7785 ... WHAT? WHAT ya mean by "nigga"??? THAT WORD IS HARASSMENT NO MATTER HOW YOU USE IT! YOU SOUND LIKE THE TYPE THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT!!!! THE BULLY!!! YOU ARE NOTHING WHEN YOU PURPOSELY CAUSE PAIN TO ANY LIVING THING! AND WHEN IT'S A CHILD YOU HURT IT MAKES YOU DIRT! CAN YOU TELL I'M YELLING AT YOU!!!??? I'D SMACK ANY WORTHLESS MOUTH OF ANYONE I HEARD/SAW BULLYING ANYONE! NO ONE IS SUPERIOR ENOUGH FOR IT TO BE OK TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE FEEL LIKE LESS. IF YOU DON'T LEARN BETTER YOU WILL ONE DAY LOSE SOMETHING BECAUSE OF IT. I HOPE YOU DO! I HOPE IT WILL CHANGE YOUI!!!
      IF I COULD TRACE YOU I'D TURN YOU IN OR SUE YOU! YOU KNOCK IT OFF!!! YOU ARE NO ONE SO SPECIAL.

    • @acelesbianmrclean
      @acelesbianmrclean Před 4 lety +55

      @@ohwhatelse calm tf down the “nigga” was in someone’s username that they replied to

    • @acelesbianmrclean
      @acelesbianmrclean Před 4 lety +42

      @@ohwhatelse and turn caps lock off

  • @notfreema7144
    @notfreema7144 Před 3 lety +672

    Only if schools actually cared about bullying. Edit: not all schools are bad.. a lot are good..

    • @karatedrew4451
      @karatedrew4451 Před 3 lety +9

      Bruh my cousin who is a little over weight was thrown out of her chair at lunch food thrown on her that was a public school

    • @erikaceja1447
      @erikaceja1447 Před 3 lety +4

      karatedrew id be glad to dox the person that did that to your cousin :)

    • @VaughnOfficalMusic
      @VaughnOfficalMusic Před 3 lety +2

      Berryiichi bruh stfu there’s so many goddamn fucking schools some schools are bad some are good there are some that care about bullying and try to stop it and others that are just plain fucked up schools.

    • @VaughnOfficalMusic
      @VaughnOfficalMusic Před 3 lety +4

      Mike Veis if schools closed down and kids just googled stuff then the kids wouldn’t learn at all they’d just spend the whole day on their phone watching CZcams and looking at fucking memes. And people can put everything on the Internet and most of it isn’t true.

    • @notfreema7144
      @notfreema7144 Před 3 lety +1

      @@VaughnOfficalMusic I wasn't talking about all schools.... My school cares about bullying. I understand I should've put in different wording I guess.

  • @lastknightofskywalker6245
    @lastknightofskywalker6245 Před 3 lety +161

    Throughout my sophomore year of high school, I was constantly called mean names, and I was getting sick and tired of it. I told the principal about it, and yet, nothing really happened. Why can't schools actually take action instead of not doing anything? It makes me sick knowing that some kids get in trouble for defending themselves, and yet, when the bully does something wrong, the school does nothing about it. It makes me sick.

    • @CatholicNeil
      @CatholicNeil Před 3 lety +5

      I went to private Catholic school. The kids would act like stuck up buttheads all the time. The teachers would discipline them and the kids didn't care.

    • @yonneye2427
      @yonneye2427 Před 3 lety +2

      LastKnightofSkywalker 624. I was bullied for six years every day constantly by two thirds of the class in elementary school(Not an exaggeration(They were the same people every time because there were only two separate French immersion classes)) in front of the teachers. After the first few times I told the teachers they stopped believing me. Because who would believe me saying that I was being bullied when everyone who the teachers asked if they witnessed me being bullied are the bullies. The principal also not caring about anyone who is not “normal” because: “I don’t have the time to deal with them” (Unless they make noise then they will be locked up in the equivalent of solitary confinement.) That added a lot to my stress levels. At least the years of almost considering suicide got me got me great French marks once I left French immersion and a metal for being good a speaking French. Yay, go school system. ..-. ..- -.-. -.- / - .... . / ... -.-. .... --- --- .-.. / ... -.-- ... - . -- Put that through a Morse code translator.

    • @FastNFurious
      @FastNFurious Před 3 lety +4

      the way I can see it is, you can tell the teachers and the principle, but in the end, it is the kids themselves that have to make that design. I myself was bullied in middle school and told the teacher and nothing was done. I took matters into my own hands and started a fight with them. of course, the teacher then decides to come and get me off the kids but i kicked her ankle and pushed her ass on the floor.

    • @Tina-Supra
      @Tina-Supra Před 29 dny

      If i bullied someone i would have been suspended, Malaysian school officials are not kidding.
      During an assembly at SMK Bukit Mewah, my school, i heard from our discipline mistress that 2 students were suspended for bullying if i were the one of these 2, i would have been suspended

  • @jcd221
    @jcd221 Před 4 lety +2420

    Schools think that bullying is just name calling and teasing, but actually it’s harassment.
    Edit: Thanks for 2 thousand likes I’m going to make a movie about this topic and no one should ever have the right to bully someone with no reason or because you don’t like them.

    • @youtubeuser9496
      @youtubeuser9496 Před 4 lety +15

      Well kids can be complicated

    • @luxx_pete8415
      @luxx_pete8415 Před 4 lety +54

      Their was a case in my school where these people one boy in the year below me chased another boy in his class with cheese and threw it at him after the boy said that he was allergic to dairy products the boy died and the other boys now in a Juvenal center

    • @justinlum6546
      @justinlum6546 Před 4 lety +16

      Luxx-Pete holy shit I’ve heard about that on the news a few years ago

    • @luxx_pete8415
      @luxx_pete8415 Před 4 lety +29

      Justin Lum yes it was a major thing a few years ago but in a way it was kind of good that it happened because now the school cracks down hard on bullies and have a lot of punishments if they find out someone’s bullying them and they actually care if a kid tells a teacher now because of what happened but the kid didn’t need to have died for these things to be brought in if it was possible then it should have already been there and that kind of annoys me

    • @baileyrea3934
      @baileyrea3934 Před 4 lety +3

      RealJ. Diamond yes and parents do that to it’s cause they arnt the ones getting bullied

  • @a.w.3892
    @a.w.3892 Před 4 lety +10257

    Kid: I’m being bullied!!
    School: *puts up posters about anti-bullying and gives a useless speech*

    • @pizzalover4127
      @pizzalover4127 Před 4 lety +768

      I know it's stupid, Its like telling a depressed person to just stop being sad

    • @donkeykong6626
      @donkeykong6626 Před 4 lety +194

      and school gets memed by everyone after that

    • @donkeykong6626
      @donkeykong6626 Před 4 lety +209

      or like when a kid is like standing up to bullying everybody clowns him. sad shit.

    • @Alyjx-ug6ev
      @Alyjx-ug6ev Před 4 lety +55

      Pizza lover412 exactly and it will probably make it worse

    • @philiphoffman523
      @philiphoffman523 Před 4 lety +16

      I know.

  • @csynn
    @csynn Před 3 lety +334

    To those who are being bullied, learn how to fight, because your bullies won’t.

  • @andyng5321
    @andyng5321 Před 3 lety +21

    I have zero sympathies and zero tolerance for bullies

  • @liveyourbestlife143
    @liveyourbestlife143 Před 4 lety +2167

    My son missed over half of last year at school. The school blamed him for being bullied. Said he is to sensitive. Makes me sick.

  • @nahtatroll
    @nahtatroll Před 4 lety +1980

    Bully: Bullies kid to death
    school: does nothing
    Kid: says 'heck'
    school: *expelled*

    • @Florthy
      @Florthy Před 4 lety +66

      Kid that think he is hard: Throws table
      Across the room
      Teacher: ITs okay
      Me: talks during class
      TECHER: GET OUT OF MY LESSON RIGHT NOW

    • @HighSkiez
      @HighSkiez Před 4 lety +38

      Roger Smith
      That’s a seriously one dimensional way of looking at it. He could’ve had mental problems that weren’t treated, he could’ve been stalked, he could’ve had people threatening to come to his house and kill him. You simply don’t know.

    • @inamayek
      @inamayek Před 4 lety +18

      Roger Smith wow so cool for you to say 🖕🏽

    • @magnum8960
      @magnum8960 Před 4 lety +2

      @@easy8690 you, highskyz, ianxkilla_ yt, keyamani duren just got fucking baited by the most OBVIOUS TROLL, like, random name, no pfp, bad comments on a sad video

    • @yobruh6029
      @yobruh6029 Před 4 lety +12

      @Roger Smith stop spreading your insercurity dude. If you're being harass by someone else, it doesn't make your sadness go away by bullying another person.

  • @blueborb8581
    @blueborb8581 Před 3 lety +387

    Those dislikes are from the bullies and their Karen-moms.
    Edit: Never knew a war going on in my comment, please chill.

  • @joelrobinson1157
    @joelrobinson1157 Před 3 lety +566

    One of the few bad things Coronavirus has stopped for now.

    • @JAdrew
      @JAdrew Před 3 lety +110

      When a virus helps more than the law.

    • @keona9261
      @keona9261 Před 3 lety +21

      @@JAdrew ikr 🙄

    • @karatedrew4451
      @karatedrew4451 Před 3 lety +14

      Not much people killing themselves over quarantine

    • @keona9261
      @keona9261 Před 3 lety +35

      @@karatedrew4451 now that's were your wrong, more abuse is happening because everyone at home. And there's more cases of Suicide.

    • @audreyjones7990
      @audreyjones7990 Před 3 lety +5

      School shooting what-

  • @owenslays6335
    @owenslays6335 Před 4 lety +766

    Kid Gets Bullied
    Teacher: 😐
    Kid Has A Hood On
    Teacher: 😡 “NO HOODS”

    • @Wina_Wina
      @Wina_Wina Před 4 lety +23

      100% accurate

    • @killinfantsons3193
      @killinfantsons3193 Před 4 lety +17

      kids vaping in bathroom:😐

    • @lockandloadlikehell
      @lockandloadlikehell Před 4 lety +8

      You stole that comment basically verbatim from the other video about a kid killing himself bc of bullying

    • @taxcin
      @taxcin Před 4 lety +2

      yo i remember me and my friends protested against bullying by wearing hoodies

    • @JacQuiVitari
      @JacQuiVitari Před 4 lety

      OGclanZ 7OOlike yay

  • @saraabu-rubieh3111
    @saraabu-rubieh3111 Před 4 lety +882

    “Not even a moment of silence for Tyler” that killed me the school is that heartless and disgusting

    • @AP-57
      @AP-57 Před 4 lety +43

      The fact that the superintendent didnt even show an inch of support just disgusts me

    • @Matt-ft6ox
      @Matt-ft6ox Před 4 lety +17

      Jaron Aho there’s got to be a special place in hell for these sick fucks

    • @thereallincolntakanashi
      @thereallincolntakanashi Před 4 lety +5

      The school should be sent to gulag. 😑
      #RIP

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 Před 4 lety +13

      @@AP-57 this is why i was against teachers getting more money.
      The schools just cares about money.

    • @xanethedarkwerehog
      @xanethedarkwerehog Před 4 lety +4

      sara abu-rubieh I just wanna beat the shit out of that lady for being so vile

  • @David_MSO
    @David_MSO Před 3 lety +364

    Them saying 2020, 9 years ago...
    It scares me...

    • @ethanspaziani5269
      @ethanspaziani5269 Před 3 lety +19

      Think about all the dead children we have now those names who will never be even be known

    • @sikerslalatm3147
      @sikerslalatm3147 Před 3 lety +4

      Minecart Studios Official what do u mean. This is from 2010 . The case is from the late 90’s

    • @personalinfo6263
      @personalinfo6263 Před 3 lety +5

      they meant 20/20 which i think is the name of the program

    • @rubyxiaolong5707
      @rubyxiaolong5707 Před 3 lety +1

      I know they meant 20/20, but that still confused me at first too

    • @Wsg69420
      @Wsg69420 Před 3 lety

      @@personalinfo6263 ahhh that makes sense

  • @Alnnfan
    @Alnnfan Před 3 lety +46

    If you guys got bullied in school, I'm here for a virtual hug :-) I love you guys!

  • @wolftracker321
    @wolftracker321 Před 5 lety +1851

    Bullies need to be disciplined and criminally charged. School staff should be fired.

  • @stylieguy2434
    @stylieguy2434 Před 4 lety +1425

    This is how school works
    Kid gets beat up everyday
    School: sees kid with hoodie
    School:FULL DEATH MODE

  • @spoiledmilkmine
    @spoiledmilkmine Před 3 lety +173

    This is why people want the newest fashion, handbags, shoes, accessories, and the newest supplies.
    Because they don’t want to get bullied

    • @KingCrow404
      @KingCrow404 Před 3 lety +2

      No because then they would be bullied for being rich and wasting their damn money on the newest stuff that they dont even need

    • @DivineDEC
      @DivineDEC Před 3 lety

      Yeah this happens in TV shows a lot like the girl in the TV show goes I need to get this Dad and then the dad goes why do you need to get this she says cuz I need it to not get bullied and then the dad shrugs it off without having a meaningful talk about it

    • @christianealshut1123
      @christianealshut1123 Před 3 lety +1

      You're not necessarily bullied for not having certain supplies or items, you get bullied for being different in some way, and it tends to get worse if you speak up about it.

    • @user-ux3ec8lp1i
      @user-ux3ec8lp1i Před 2 lety +1

      Your aren’t just bullied for that, I remember some girls that bullied another girl just for fun, the bully lied to everyone and told them she hated her and since she was the popular girl all the other girls hated her but since I was someone she liked and wanted to be friends with she told me the truth & just talked abt how fun it was and how easy it is. When I told her she shouldn’t do it she replied “I’m still a child, I’ll grow out of it or something”

    • @hellothere2194
      @hellothere2194 Před 2 lety +1

      @Nadia Blue Das true. The people who wants to change you is not worthy to be with.

  • @ideac.
    @ideac. Před 3 lety +196

    I imagine some of these stupid parents asking why the child doesn't like school
    And then when the person kills themselves, they blame on the video games or something
    This is just depressing to know

    • @FastNFurious
      @FastNFurious Před 3 lety +4

      i believe because of that question is why the children don't tell their parents about it

    • @ideac.
      @ideac. Před 3 lety

      @@FastNFurious basically.

    • @ideac.
      @ideac. Před 3 lety

      @@FastNFurious they say that the child is weak, that he is a punchbag....

    • @grzyb11
      @grzyb11 Před 2 lety

      @@FastNFurious just how depressed people don’t tell others they’re depressed, it’s how the mind works

  • @V8ZN
    @V8ZN Před 5 lety +3649

    Me: teacher I’m getting bullied
    Teacher: *doesn’t care*
    Me: *standing for my self*
    Teacher: your expelled

    • @CTOACN
      @CTOACN Před 5 lety +113

      Teachers are idots

    • @sassyantelope5622
      @sassyantelope5622 Před 5 lety +22

      DonutSoldier7293
      Lols you copied a comment just wrote it in another way its like me copying someone elses comment like for example
      Neville: Oh no I killed Harry Potter!
      Voldemort: Teach me...
      But thats not mine

    • @V8ZN
      @V8ZN Před 5 lety +9

      Sassy Antelope wht

    • @christopheradams5607
      @christopheradams5607 Před 5 lety +3

      @@CTOACN learn how to spell.

    • @theroadtocosplayandcomicco5840
      @theroadtocosplayandcomicco5840 Před 5 lety +9

      @@CTOACN me I wont be like that when I become a teacher I do not tolerate bullying of any shape or form. I'm a survivor of bullying I don't call myself a victim.

  • @giannatorchia7236
    @giannatorchia7236 Před 4 lety +863

    didn’t even give him a moment of silent that’s so wrong

    • @marisastoletheprecioussara118
      @marisastoletheprecioussara118 Před 4 lety +16

      Some Kids wouldn't give shit anyway

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 Před 4 lety +28

      Schools don't care about the students they just care about the government money they get from each of them.
      Why you think you can get arrested if you don't attend?
      School loses money when a student is absent.

    • @Nefare1781
      @Nefare1781 Před 4 lety +12

      95% of schools don’t give a fuck to an extent in America anyway. Doesn’t matter if it’s a Private or Public School - no one cares. There’s no moral standard other than blind obedience being taught to kids - and Schools revolve around abhorrent discipline on often dangerously stupid levels. Bullies choose to bully others because they can, in the end. get away with it anyway. And with the future of the 2020’s coming into the basket, this is going to get worse every year.

    • @helo9316
      @helo9316 Před 4 lety

      @@marisastoletheprecioussara118 thats why there are criminals you know? You can't expect things to change till you change yourself

    • @neurologylove2135
      @neurologylove2135 Před 4 lety

      @@winning3329 It's not just government money. Same thing happens in Charter and private schools. It's just lack of empathy. Too many teachers think "They'll grow out of it", join in, think the parents will handle it in their own, or are blind to it in general.

  • @Asta.bakasta
    @Asta.bakasta Před 4 měsíci +5

    I am so so so lucky and super grateful that my tutor actually took my bullying problem seriously and stopped my self harming. Thank you so much sir.
    To all of you suffering from bullying problems, the worst thing to do is show them youre upset. Showing them the bullying is working will only make them do it more. I know this is super hard, but you must not let them get to you. Keep going. Theyre wrong. Youre amazing. ❤

  • @insync6684
    @insync6684 Před 3 lety +40

    The school is for kids not for teachers, it won’t make sense if school is called school without child.The teachers just don’t understand all they want is there wage and saving the schools name being drag into bullying case in media. I am so disappointed that they didn’t even do a moment of silence for him.

    • @skylathomasmithchell2804
      @skylathomasmithchell2804 Před 3 lety

      Mike Veis no if your not a bully don’t speak this comment section angers me you don’t know what it’s like to be a bully

    • @yuhma.
      @yuhma. Před 3 lety +1

      @@skylathomasmithchell2804 then dont bully people dummy

    • @yuhma.
      @yuhma. Před 3 lety

      @@skylathomasmithchell2804 if "it's so hard being a bully" then dont bully people that way you and the people you are bullying are happy

  • @iSneedYouChuck
    @iSneedYouChuck Před 4 lety +3379

    Kid: Gets Bullied Into Suicide
    School: “Y’all Hear something?”
    School’s Football Player: Kills self and 2 others in a DUI.
    School: Lets hold a memorial for our star football player

    • @xgy
      @xgy Před 4 lety +81

      Greatest Moments of EDP445 that’s a real story

    • @xgy
      @xgy Před 4 lety +158

      What happened was a girl got a gun and accidentally shot herself but a football player died in a drunk driving accident and the school made posters and other stuff for him and all the school did for the girl was make one little poster with her name and no one cared
      Btw it’s a reddit story

    • @rodex122
      @rodex122 Před 4 lety +30

      @@xgy schools suck

    • @tj_1z
      @tj_1z Před 4 lety +84

      Yeah because the school only cares about the kids that represent them and ignore the others as they see them as useless and irrelevant

    • @yuga31
      @yuga31 Před 4 lety +6

      Greatest Moments of EDP445 that happened to my school in october

  • @simonstar789
    @simonstar789 Před 4 lety +1829

    Kids: * dies from bullying *
    School: *lol*

    • @daisityodsen7711
      @daisityodsen7711 Před 4 lety +61

      *sues school*

    • @summerengh9583
      @summerengh9583 Před 4 lety +12

      Lmao

    • @SanixPlayz
      @SanixPlayz Před 4 lety +57

      Kids: [gets depresion and commits suicide because of school bullies and a lack of free time because of homework]
      School: lmao ok

    • @quinndys
      @quinndys Před 4 lety +14

      Take out the sorry from your comment and it would be more accurate

    • @quinndys
      @quinndys Před 4 lety +11

      HELL YEAH YOU ACTUALLY DID IT LMAO

  • @bearrypookie
    @bearrypookie Před 3 lety +82

    Admit it teachers,you don’t care about the kids who are getting bullied

    • @somebodyig624
      @somebodyig624 Před 3 lety +8

      Ye they just care about money.

    • @blackprofile6074
      @blackprofile6074 Před 3 lety +2

      Yup....

    • @rosecah
      @rosecah Před 3 lety +3

      Abraham Lincoln teachers don’t even get paid much. It’s not the teachers fault, it’s the system.

    • @somebodyig624
      @somebodyig624 Před 3 lety +1

      @@rosecah yeah. But if your a teacher, you are learning literal lives and helping them for the future. Why become a teacher when you want money. Get a different job, if your a money hungry teacher. Only be a teacher when you want to prepare people for the future, and you a have a heart.

    • @rosecah
      @rosecah Před 3 lety

      Abraham Lincoln that’s what I was saying

  • @SunflowerMonroe7612
    @SunflowerMonroe7612 Před 3 lety +16

    Sent my 8 year old to school 2 hours ago, and after watching this, I want nothing more than to go get her just to hug her. My heart breaks for any family that loses a child, in any form. I can't imagine.

    • @Cacowninja
      @Cacowninja Před 2 lety

      Can you get your daughter homeschooled.

    • @tommarnt
      @tommarnt Před 29 dny

      @@Cacowninja i dont think she has enough money to hire a tutor, and enough teaching experience to teach her child

    • @Cacowninja
      @Cacowninja Před 29 dny

      @@tommarnt She doesn't need to be the teacher since there's online school.

    • @tommarnt
      @tommarnt Před 29 dny

      @@Cacowninja but that also requires payment

    • @Cacowninja
      @Cacowninja Před 29 dny

      @@tommarnt So does public school and case in point turns out horribly.
      I say homeschooling is worth the extra costs.
      I wish I got to be homeschooled.

  • @killinfantsons3193
    @killinfantsons3193 Před 4 lety +1674

    I honestly feel bad for the dad he looks so destroyed about his sons death

    • @Jauhgn
      @Jauhgn Před 3 lety +76

      Well yeah it’s his son... his child.. the one you’ve raised for 17 years just to have it taken by some bastards

    • @Basedapple
      @Basedapple Před 3 lety +15

      😞

    • @rubixdude1067
      @rubixdude1067 Před 3 lety +29

      @@Jauhgn imagine your loving son almost made it to adulthood. But he abruptly disappeared, and minutes or even hours later you finally found out, he's gone. He's not coming back.

    • @chrisfegan81
      @chrisfegan81 Před 3 lety +10

      I'd say anyone who's ever lost a child looks that way

    • @camaku3084
      @camaku3084 Před 3 lety +2

      who wouldn't?

  • @LeedleStudios
    @LeedleStudios Před 4 lety +2713

    Quiet kid: **Kills himself**
    School: **yawn**
    Popular kid/athlete: **kills himself**
    School: Let's have a memorial, slideshow, funeral, his own page in the yearbook, and own month dedicated to them!

    • @maurioooe1973
      @maurioooe1973 Před 4 lety +160

      SpidrMunkee lol thats so true, those cool kid/athletes are the worst type of people

    • @LeedleStudios
      @LeedleStudios Před 4 lety +172

      @@maurioooe1973Well, I don't think they're the worst people, though a good lot of 'em are jerks, I'm just saying that the more.popular kids get a lot more recognition.

    • @kickitup
      @kickitup Před 4 lety +69

      SpidrMunkee that’s exactly what I hated about high school I got bullied from kindergarten all the way thru 12th grade and now I’m in my 4th going into my 5th semester in university

    • @kartikvatsal_7771
      @kartikvatsal_7771 Před 4 lety +36

      @@kickitup hope you are doing okay.

    • @kickitup
      @kickitup Před 4 lety +28

      Kartik Vatsal yea I am thx man a lot better now I actually have a genuine interest and have gotten stronger so now nobody picks on me even at age 20

  • @RevingtonDalton
    @RevingtonDalton Před 3 lety +21

    If I was the principal of that school and if someone died at my school because of bullying, I would just suspend them for a whole year, and no refunds.

    • @BallMuncher555
      @BallMuncher555 Před 3 lety +1

      and id actually do something about bullying. I would have a self defense rule where in a fight only the person who started the fight would get punished while the person who was just trying to defend themselves gets to go without punishment. and if someone was bullied id tell the parents about it, and expel the bully from the school.

    • @lordblazer
      @lordblazer Před 3 lety

      Principals tend to be sociopaths and actually actively contribute to the dysfunctional, hostile and violent environment.

  • @joebro2294
    @joebro2294 Před 2 lety +15

    I relate to Tyler. I was bullied alot in high school from grade 9 to 12. I have aspergers as well. I was bullied for being quiet and didnt have alot of friends. I struggled fitting in. The sad part is that I had some friends that talked bad about me. I am now 24 and all the bullying still haunts me still to this day and has left me scars but thankfully I was able to graduate from high school.

  • @AyoSword
    @AyoSword Před 4 lety +2037

    *victims get bullied*
    Teacher - “Deal with your own bullies!”
    *victims defend*
    Teacher - “What are you doing? He didn’t do anything to you!”
    *victim commits suicide*
    Teacher - It’s heartbreaking that one of my students took his own life, even with not knowing why.
    Parents - *...*
    literally this is what the cycle is and teachers can’t fucking see that.

    • @notshuriken9601
      @notshuriken9601 Před 4 lety +22

      SwordSwerl exactly

    • @sirushay4398
      @sirushay4398 Před 4 lety +27

      Teachers protect bullies are asshloe's.

    • @kosm_c
      @kosm_c Před 4 lety +33

      sirus Hay some teacher don't believe the victims and go on the bullies side

    • @sirushay4398
      @sirushay4398 Před 4 lety +11

      @@kosm_c yeah! That's why their asshloe's.

    • @ghoulsrulez
      @ghoulsrulez Před 4 lety +34

      Teachers are only there for the money tbh

  • @veronicam2942
    @veronicam2942 Před 6 lety +1751

    Who the hell is raising these monsters?!?!

    • @thebag1236
      @thebag1236 Před 6 lety +131

      Veronica Medina parents under control of the devil.

    • @jeenashirkey1987
      @jeenashirkey1987 Před 6 lety +114

      Satan's little helpers.

    • @captainngoose
      @captainngoose Před 6 lety +228

      Parents that don't give a shit, or spoil their kids too much.

    • @WallyDarling8989
      @WallyDarling8989 Před 5 lety +30

      Veronica Medina the devil

    • @MissChanelR
      @MissChanelR Před 5 lety +100

      Veronica Medina those parent who let their kids get away with everything

  • @darkex9740
    @darkex9740 Před 3 lety +32

    Corona is kinda helping us bc of online school, the teachers can hear everything an child says also they can kick kids, mute them and unmute them. Also, no one can be hit and stuff.

    • @OscarBeChillen
      @OscarBeChillen Před 3 lety +5

      Yes but the down side is that I get distracted very easily

    • @darkex9740
      @darkex9740 Před 3 lety

      Oscar Muñoz Yea.

    • @darkex9740
      @darkex9740 Před 3 lety +1

      Oscar Muñoz Also, if y’all use google meets teachers have the ability to like turn off the chat if some kid says something like example: “idiot” they can get muted and stuff.

    • @m.msariles3180
      @m.msariles3180 Před 3 lety

      Kenny Mcormick Also Zoom just a little different

    • @sailorsister211
      @sailorsister211 Před 3 lety +1

      that, plus they also can't physically touch you. I rmr back in middle school, ppl would throw paper at me, invaded my personal space, stick stuff on and touch my hair. For that reason I wish corona happened when I was in middle school, don't get me wrong. I wish COVID never happen but still waking up to school and have less to worry about bullying sounds very nice.

  • @rkryukov996
    @rkryukov996 Před 3 lety +13

    I've been bullied for 5 years since 1st grade, I've been teased, called names, hit, harrased, threatened, and worse
    And yet till now, I'm still alive, im still in one peice, and still in 1 mind. I've thought about suicide a bunch of times, many times... But I Didn't, it's called having sanity, and patience. I've lost sanity, I've lost patience, but I survived the harsh life, I even told my parents, and told the principal, nothing... I stood up to myself... Nothing... I just had to brace it, and ignore it. Im in 8th grade right now, and 98% of the bullying has stopped.
    RIP for all of the kids who had suffered bullying...

    • @tommarnt
      @tommarnt Před 29 dny +1

      ur 9th grade now, u still bullied or no one mess w yo anymore?

  • @kyragrayc
    @kyragrayc Před 4 lety +2009

    “Kids are being bullied to the point of suicide.”
    School: It’S tHoSe DaMn ViDeO gAmEs

    • @davidtichborne2912
      @davidtichborne2912 Před 4 lety +25

      No it's violence at home mostly or being treated badly at school themselves and then probably next would be violent games and tv

    • @JackAttacksBack989
      @JackAttacksBack989 Před 4 lety +9

      @AIH Hazim wrong

    • @JackAttacksBack989
      @JackAttacksBack989 Před 4 lety +2

      @AIH Hazim actually nevermind i see why they can get this from videos games, only video games that have bullying and violence in it , not games that dont have bullying and violence in it, but also the parents shouldn't let there kids play games that have violence in it.

    • @spikonterikan
      @spikonterikan Před 4 lety +7

      David Tichborne bruh go watch some Ted speeches or science articles so you know violent games/tv shows won’t do this things and no we boomers call that KaReN

    • @bluemango6420
      @bluemango6420 Před 4 lety +4

      A school shooting can happen instead of suicide, then School: ...

  • @mememan4705
    @mememan4705 Před 4 lety +765

    Bullying in a nutshell:
    Whenever the victim is beaten, teachers never see them, but whenever the victim self-defends teachers always see the victim bad.
    Bullying is properly punished ONLY when the teacher that has this problem in his/her hands has been bullied in his/her childhood

    • @onerandomguy7989
      @onerandomguy7989 Před 4 lety +46

      @@a.u.2645 Here's the deal. The bully always tries to look nice in front of others but not to you. He wants you to snap in front of him, so it would make you look like a bad person.

    • @orangu
      @orangu Před 4 lety +7

      Obviously, it works like that in every way, your sibling hits you, and you hit him/her back, they'll always catch the 2nd

    • @mememan4705
      @mememan4705 Před 4 lety +16

      @@orangu But bullying makes it worse in every possible way, i was bullied for 2 years, and though anxiety seems to be gone, bullying still left scars on my mental health to this day.

    • @dragringer1480
      @dragringer1480 Před 4 lety +3

      @@mememan4705 i respec you for not giving up your life
      I still respec those people but not those schools

    • @terrybardy2848
      @terrybardy2848 Před 4 lety +5

      Schools Don't care about bullying 50 years ago and they Don't care now. A student commits suicide and their response is, "We have a policy in place."

  • @jurassichunter3411
    @jurassichunter3411 Před 3 lety +10

    As a person with mild autism I can relate to this a bit, what these schools did is absolutely reprehensible and makes me sick

  • @andyng5321
    @andyng5321 Před 3 lety +5

    Schools should put a prior warning that all bullies will receive public caning, that will stop them bullying

  • @reneerenee9774
    @reneerenee9774 Před 4 lety +393

    My daughter was getting bullied by two girls and when the two girls jump her my daughter beat both of them up and now my daughter's doing two years probation because of it. The system is messed up.

    • @WailingFriend
      @WailingFriend Před 4 lety +34

      If I were you, I would have left them half *Dead*

    • @IBNVintage
      @IBNVintage Před 4 lety +30

      Renee Renee
      I 👏🏻 GUESS👏🏻 THE 👏🏻 EDUCATION 👏🏻 SYSTEM 👏🏻 IS 👏🏻 ON 👏🏻 SOME 👏🏻 SERIOUS 👏🏻 DR*G 👏🏻 NOW. 👏🏻

    • @pitbulls4088
      @pitbulls4088 Před 4 lety +13

      Fair play to your daughter for taking both of them tho

    • @user-ik1sf5lf7x
      @user-ik1sf5lf7x Před 4 lety +4

      What is the school snorting I need that

    • @ozkan576
      @ozkan576 Před 3 lety +1

      @@IBNVintage Did you just censor "drug" wtf

  • @shiinie117
    @shiinie117 Před 4 lety +637

    students: defend themselves, show shoulders, chew gum, wear hoodies etc.
    school: *this is unacceptable!*
    students: verbally abusing and harassing their peers to the point where they take their own lives
    school: kids will be kids!

    • @EagleEye65744
      @EagleEye65744 Před 4 lety +24

      I agree because my school gave me ditention because I stood up against bullys for my friend

    • @abcdefghij7626
      @abcdefghij7626 Před 4 lety +11

      Why do schools be mad with hoodies? In my school on a certain day you can wear whatever you want, even a hoodie.

    • @iamanonymoushoweveryousayi3163
      @iamanonymoushoweveryousayi3163 Před 4 lety +8

      Bullies: brings a buzzsaw to school and murders several of his targets
      School: Kids will be kiiiiiiiiids!

    • @thatrandomdude4143
      @thatrandomdude4143 Před 4 lety +3

      sLuRrYbEe yee they would probably get mad because they might think kids are gangsters

    • @bubba98
      @bubba98 Před 4 lety +1

      Yep

  • @nerdinspace.
    @nerdinspace. Před 3 lety +6

    As someone who has dealt with a lot of bullying, this infuriates me. A kid's life could've been saved if the school had their heads out of their asses. I feel for the poor parents who had to endure this.

  • @Night-kw4jg
    @Night-kw4jg Před 3 lety +30

    Schools: *Just stop being sad*

  • @fovos7359
    @fovos7359 Před 4 lety +329

    You know I think the whole school should be closed down if a kid gets bullied to death

    • @mixiegacha4792
      @mixiegacha4792 Před 4 lety +5

      Ye

    • @terrybardy2848
      @terrybardy2848 Před 4 lety +22

      I was stabbed in school. My Mother called the media and a State Senator who closed the school down. I survived to graduate from that place.

    • @sharasarah3026
      @sharasarah3026 Před 4 lety +9

      Terry Bardy jesus christ stabbed in school? id rather stay in jail just by hearing that

    • @pamelagarland6631
      @pamelagarland6631 Před 3 lety +2

      YES it should that's just horrible all he was doing was obeying The rules - messed up school sorry!!¡!!!!!

    • @LazyPirate8
      @LazyPirate8 Před 3 lety +2

      Why don't they send their kid to a private school.

  • @s-class2877
    @s-class2877 Před 6 lety +762

    "They laughed at me because I'm different, now I laugh at them because they're all the same."
    - Kurt Cobain

    • @ZackAttack_5
      @ZackAttack_5 Před 6 lety +1

      👍

    • @blackholediscoball
      @blackholediscoball Před 6 lety +1

      How did that workout? Jk

    • @diamond-vm5sl
      @diamond-vm5sl Před 5 lety +1

      Thot_Exterminator34's Cheeks I think Kurt said it first....

    • @Moonsprecher
      @Moonsprecher Před 5 lety +2

      Well he’s dead so he aint laughing anymore...

    • @kkkkkk-sj4vy
      @kkkkkk-sj4vy Před 5 lety +4

      @Christina Reynolds It isnt bad to follow he killed hmself for other reasons btw

  • @pancakedreamer8588
    @pancakedreamer8588 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Listening to the dad recall finding his son’s dead body was gut-wrenching

  • @beedgehog
    @beedgehog Před 3 lety +10

    I have been bullied my whole life and idk why and the thing I hate most is when the bullies say stuff that is just absolute nonsense, but everyone agrees with it. Anyone else?

  • @_____7512
    @_____7512 Před 4 lety +334

    The bullies wore nooses around their necks and got away with it? Okay, that’s sick and twisted.. may they rot in prison if they ever get charged properly for their atrocities

  • @KingInkster
    @KingInkster Před 4 lety +586

    “It’s not a major concern at our highschool”
    Lol a kid literally killed himself cause of it and It’s not a major concern. Alright bud.

    • @lilmissbloodbath89
      @lilmissbloodbath89 Před 4 lety +26

      Notice how she SAYS, "No, it's not." But she shakes her head yes. Lying and minimizing behavior.

    • @mushappreciated
      @mushappreciated Před 4 lety +19

      @Roger Smith i'm sorry that's just wrong for thinking that bullying is very serious for you to say that is sickening.

    • @mushappreciated
      @mushappreciated Před 4 lety +13

      @Roger Smith well ok then an opinion is an opinion just don't expect to not get flakked

    • @engineergaming1669
      @engineergaming1669 Před 4 lety +6

      @Roger Smith have you ever heard of PTSD? You may have a healthy mind now but mental trauma can destroy your brain

    • @KingInkster
      @KingInkster Před 4 lety +6

      Roger Smith calm down roger

  • @Mars-87
    @Mars-87 Před 3 lety +4

    He was too good for this world

  • @GojiBoiEarth1964
    @GojiBoiEarth1964 Před 3 lety +20

    Kid: *gets bullied*
    School: Go confront them yourself!
    Kid: *defends themself*
    School: *SUSPENDED!*

    • @someguyontheinternet2399
      @someguyontheinternet2399 Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly what happened when I punched my bullies. Worth it.
      I just wish I punched all of them, not just a few

    • @rainydayz274
      @rainydayz274 Před rokem +1

      lol getting suspended is like a reward no school!

  • @dyltak2319
    @dyltak2319 Před 4 lety +551

    The bullies should not have gotten away with that.
    That is basically getting away with a murder

    • @afoolsbabybear2266
      @afoolsbabybear2266 Před 4 lety +17

      I agree with you, but technically, they didn't kill him, he killed himself

    • @chapters1x
      @chapters1x Před 4 lety +5

      Andrew Grube's Baby Bear they forced them to kill themselves

    • @Lagw1020
      @Lagw1020 Před 4 lety +3

      @Jay Palmer Don't waste your time with them, or it. I saw them on multiple sub comment sections. Report it. It is just a low life troll.

    • @jcs7206
      @jcs7206 Před 4 lety +1

      @Roger Smith Please don't procreate

    • @jcs7206
      @jcs7206 Před 4 lety +2

      @Roger Smith Please do not raise him/her/them with that mindset

  • @vickieclark5931
    @vickieclark5931 Před 4 lety +568

    That's a cold school. Not only did they not care that a child is being bullied, but they didn't seem to care after he died like he was nothing. Some schools need to get rid of all their staff and get some real educators in there that actually care about kids and their well being.

    • @bakustop9606
      @bakustop9606 Před 3 lety +15

      Almost every school is like that, what the hell rock do you live under?

    • @rubixdude1067
      @rubixdude1067 Před 3 lety +7

      If I was a teacher i'd stand up for bullied kids I wouldn't listen to higher staff members, even if it gets me fired.

    • @cardiaccoder9622
      @cardiaccoder9622 Před 3 lety +2

      Maybe if they paid a decent wage they would get more decent people

    • @reformed2006
      @reformed2006 Před 3 lety +3

      That's the thing their isn't professional teachers

    • @Luna.cosp1ays
      @Luna.cosp1ays Před 3 lety

      Vickie Clark exactly...it’s just heartbreaking to hear that no body cares...💔

  • @spencerp4242
    @spencerp4242 Před 3 lety +25

    Bullied kid fights back
    Schools: HOW DARE YOU
    Schools when person bullies someone: let’s give a speech and do nothing
    The law and police: yeah beat him up it’s not against the law it’s self defense

  • @gameblox1484
    @gameblox1484 Před 3 lety +41

    School : we can’t do anything
    Everyone : ... ok ...
    Me : bish what

    • @skylathomasmithchell2804
      @skylathomasmithchell2804 Před 3 lety

      Gameblox #1 that’s true they can’t they can’t control the bully a school doesn’t need to be hated because of the bully

  • @robison87
    @robison87 Před 4 lety +592

    After his death some were wearing a noose around their neck. Just shows how evil and cruel some people are.

    • @largol33t1
      @largol33t1 Před 4 lety +55

      I don't even need to look on their social media pages to know what kind of comments they're leaving.

    • @philiphoffman523
      @philiphoffman523 Před 4 lety +20

      That's just sick.

    • @dwaki3822
      @dwaki3822 Před 4 lety +4

      What’s a noose?

    • @robison87
      @robison87 Před 4 lety +37

      @@dwaki3822 The rope that is fashioned to hang someone.

    • @thestuffandstuffchannel1072
      @thestuffandstuffchannel1072 Před 4 lety +4

      That's how the world functions so I'm not upset

  • @novanoramusic
    @novanoramusic Před 7 lety +212

    If your child comes home and says he's getting bullied don't wait. get him into another school or something even homeschooling

    • @cameronmeetze8153
      @cameronmeetze8153 Před 7 lety +13

      IAmAshanti Quin I don't understand why kids bully, what good comes out of it, who ever contributed to that should be arrested

    • @gungholio3416
      @gungholio3416 Před 7 lety +27

      The roots of bullying usually come from issues at home. Child abuse, child neglect, all that awful shit can lead up to children taking out their anger on other human beings to feel powerful.
      or they could just be spoiled brats or sluts or just plain assholes. depends on the situation

    • @dedchannelrip6857
      @dedchannelrip6857 Před 6 lety +2

      IAmAshanti Quin Please go back to 2014 and tell my mother that.

    • @rickgrey5432
      @rickgrey5432 Před 6 lety +1

      Or teach your kid to fight back and make some supportive friends. That's what he'll need to do in the real world.

  • @leogol6045
    @leogol6045 Před 3 lety +12

    I used to be a bully. I still struggle with kicking mean habits now. I don't know who - if anyone - will ever read this, but here are my victims' stories, because they need to be told:
    I had two primary targets, one in elementary school and one in middle school. A guy I used to be best friends with would tag-team them. I was a cliche bully for the longest time: I was a mean jock that rolled with the popular kids. We would pick on them, especially on the target we moved on to in middle school. The first target we had was, at the time, a chubby shy kid. We would make fun of him, laugh at him, and run circles around him by the playground, poking fun at his weight by doing so, because he wouldn't be able to run and catch us. He was really only bullied by my former friend and I, to my remembrance. But the second target had a whole posse of popular kids on him... We were diabolical.
    The second target was a challenged boy, much like Tyler. He would exhibit socially incongruous behaviors. One example, which I secretly recorded and then shared around, was him cleaning and packing up for the day and singing "I like trains" over and over again to himself. He didn't want us to record him, and he made it known because he knew exactly what we were doing - he wasn't stupid. We would simply run away, roaring with laughter, before any teacher could think to stop us and force us to delete the recording or reprimand us... That wasn't the half of it. We would also hurl small items at him, make fun of him, lead him on to think he had a chance at being "cool" with and like us, only to (figuratively) dump him on his head. We would openly laugh at him, crack humiliating jokes, ridiculously imitate him behind his back, make it so that he had to actively look for a place to sit (we would save seats around us), trick him into doing "class chores", I mean the list goes on. We did this for THREE STRAIGHT YEARS - sixth, seventh, and eighth grade.
    Somewhere along the way from middle to high, I came to the realization that the friendships I had among the popular kids were superficial and unfulfilling. They were frankly boring, and I sought something deeper. I no longer felt I truly fit in there, so I simply left to hop into a new and better circle. I found my home with some nerds who I'd befriended in elementary school, when I'd first moved into the area in the third grade. They showed me what true friendship is. My heart grew a little. By our graduation, I couldn't stand the thought of the regret I'd feel if I didn't man up and own my torment of him. I asked him to sign my yearbook, and tried to hold back tears as I genuinely apologized to him, asking him to be friends. He forgave and befriended me without hesitation. Around this time, I would locate my first target on Instagram and would apologize to him as well. He accepted, but he'd moved, so while I follow him to this day, we never became friends.
    One day - during high school - I would suddenly run into him on the street in front of where I lived at the time. He called my name, which caught me off guard because it was the new name I'd decided to go by (I ditched all the names I went by in middle school). No one I didn't regularly hang out with remembered the new name, just one or two of the old ones. But he was different. It was at that moment that I realized how much of an impact I'd had on him. As far as I know, I am the only person who ever apologized to him. Later, he would switch from a rival school to the one I and most of the popular kids went to. Horrible rumors were spread about him. The bullying picked up again immediately, only it was much tamer and less direct: People would avoid him and ignore him, treating him as a nuisance when they couldn't and essentially pretending he was invisible when they could. I would always see him walking around alone. I would always make sure to say hi, to give him a high five or fist bump, to share something with him, like the art he posted online, chat with him now and again, and not fuel or engage in any demeaning activities against/towards him. He invited me to his birthday, which only had about three or four friends (including me) - the rest were family. It was a lame-ass party, honestly, (not my forte) but I just wanted to be there for him. I've moved away myself after high school, but we remain good acquaintances through Instagram.
    *_The point of sharing their stories is a couple of things. If you are/were a bully, it's never too late to say you're sorry. You don't realize how impactful one simple apology or act of kindness is to your victim(s). If you are being bullied or have been, just keep being yourself, and work to improve and fulfill yourself every day. Become successful your way, whether it is with an army behind you, a pinch of true friends at your side, or alone._*
    *10+ years later... RIP, Tyler.*

    • @ricodsanchez6792
      @ricodsanchez6792 Před 3 lety

      werent you aware of how u made the victims feel at the time.
      Did u grow up with anger (I,m not defending ur wrongs) to make u want to exert ur deeds on them.
      P.s im not trying to have a dig at u but im curious to know how u felt at the time and ur upbringing which made u want to do those things

    • @leogol6045
      @leogol6045 Před 3 lety

      @@ricodsanchez6792 I 100% had severe anger issues that have since been worked on. Not gonna get into my childhood but I will say acting out like I did was to be expected. I was just a miserable, aggressive person.
      Also, I didn't really care about how I made them feel at the time. In fact, my friends and I relished in their pain, humiliation, etc as sick as it sounds. It was funny and just entertaining to us. It was just "haha, fucking weirdo, this is so funny, we're just teasing and provoking this loser". We didn't think about the consequences, and it didn't help that teachers didn't check us. :(

    • @annaparker6548
      @annaparker6548 Před 2 lety

      Your are terrible person.

  • @yashirokamado
    @yashirokamado Před rokem +4

    "Is it a major overarching concern in our high school? No, it is not."
    ...a kid literally hung himself from the ceiling of a closet. I'm scared to see what her definition of "major concern" is.

  • @simonbelmont8066
    @simonbelmont8066 Před 7 lety +426

    When i get hurt, they don't care.
    When i hurt them, they think i'm insane.

    • @otku5551
      @otku5551 Před 6 lety +13

      0 u know i once fucked a bunny?

    • @BlondedHD
      @BlondedHD Před 6 lety +2

      Yes I agree so much

    • @hannahmontana3141
      @hannahmontana3141 Před 6 lety +5

      Same. Once this guy said something mean I said something mean back and I GOT IN FREAKIN TROUBLE

    • @elizabethhaley5964
      @elizabethhaley5964 Před 6 lety +1

      THANK YOU

    • @m0wfish
      @m0wfish Před 6 lety +1

      Expo Animations I have been in the exact same situation, except the girl started a stupid rumor.

  • @Mad5am
    @Mad5am Před 4 lety +641

    The sad things is, if he had made it to graduation, college and a job it probably would have continued. Adults are no better.
    RIP Tyler.

    • @Charles-hy6gp
      @Charles-hy6gp Před 3 lety +2

      don´t be stupid, my uncle didn´t went to college and he manage to be richer and more successful than my mother and father combined

    • @Juixy_
      @Juixy_ Před 3 lety +27

      Charles 8777 what does that have to do with this comment and video?

    • @m3mhwa-ilikesoggycereal-665
      @m3mhwa-ilikesoggycereal-665 Před 3 lety +13

      @@Charles-hy6gp ok and?????

    • @ItzKris
      @ItzKris Před 3 lety

      sadd...

    • @TraceLight
      @TraceLight Před 3 lety +2

      Mad5am no joke, there are some real vicious pricks in the work place once you are out of college.
      The advantage though, is you can take them outside, and beat the ever living crap out of someone.
      You don’t disrespect someone, unless you want problems with that person.

  • @looseadult5692
    @looseadult5692 Před 3 lety +2

    Bullying is a problem that will never go away. Not much we can do about it.

  • @dclark4422
    @dclark4422 Před rokem +4

    I feel horrible for the poor families who lost their beloved children. I hope and pray that they will be able to mend in time. As for the stupid bullies, my blood started to boil.

  • @KatTheTruth
    @KatTheTruth Před 6 lety +1368

    That poor father... broke my heart

  • @sannn3242
    @sannn3242 Před 4 lety +439

    This is why we hate school , They dont do ANYTHING when ur getting BULLIED

    • @tawagb1880
      @tawagb1880 Před 4 lety

      True, that happened to me and I wi// :D/0 F40:M ¥H∆T.

    • @osiyetteopurupruprupurupru3334
      @osiyetteopurupruprupurupru3334 Před 3 lety +21

      When l was in 5. grade the teachers and the principals were allways reading a usuless speech and telling that "İf you are getting bullied tell us or your teacher or your parents." and there was a slut in my class bullying me physical and mentally everyday and l thought "Wait if l tell everyone about this they will somehow stop this." and l told everyone my parents, the principals, teachers and you know what they Absolutely nothing!! İn the end of the first year l was ready to hang myself and l was so sure about it but nobody litterally cared even the the owner of the school knew it but they did nothing. So what were all the speechs for?Thankfully the slut move to a different city l hope she died somehow if she didn't move to another city my death scenario would be like this: l bring a knife to school first kill the slut and after kill myself. The first two years were a living hell for me but l had a friend (She was just using me but it was nice to have a person near you.) and at the end l had more friends and getting rid of depression.
      Phew l wrote a lot, l'm not expecting to get likes l just needed someone to tell these.

    • @sannn3242
      @sannn3242 Před 3 lety +1

      @@osiyetteopurupruprupurupru3334 I am very sorry for what you have been through! U are very strong :D

    • @osiyetteopurupruprupurupru3334
      @osiyetteopurupruprupurupru3334 Před 3 lety +1

      @@sannn3242 thanks

    • @itachisupremacist2025
      @itachisupremacist2025 Před 3 lety +4

      @@sannn3242 i hate school cause of like, i was bullied cause of my skin *im black btw*

  • @droganmoore7183
    @droganmoore7183 Před 3 lety +20

    kid: HELP ME IM BEING BEAT BY MY BULLIES
    me: hand me a bat.

  • @blueleaderdrawz9166
    @blueleaderdrawz9166 Před 3 lety +4

    To the Mother and Father of Tyler,you guys are respected,your son was a great guy,I’m sorry for your loss,I hope you’re doing well..

  • @itznatalieyt7785
    @itznatalieyt7785 Před 4 lety +549

    When the dad started crying my heart literally shattered I feel so horrible those poor people 😔😔😢😭😭
    AND THE FACT THAT THE SCHOOL SAYS THAT ABOUT BULLYING AND NOT EVEN DOING A MOMENT OF SILENCE SICKENS ME AND IS SO HORRIBLE 🤬😠😡😡😠

    • @frgwyn3760
      @frgwyn3760 Před 4 lety

      Gaming With Natalie roblox oof sound

    • @sinmysize
      @sinmysize Před 4 lety +3

      welcome to the society we live in

    • @Nobody-gs2pe
      @Nobody-gs2pe Před 4 lety +3

      Exactly. They act as if some dumb speech about bullying is gonna make kids stop. Teachers seem to care more about what you wear than if you’re alive or not.

    • @dabdabdab5761
      @dabdabdab5761 Před 4 lety

      yes

    • @fidas1863
      @fidas1863 Před 4 lety

      They aren't felling their pain but when they fill they will beg for frogiveness

  • @liam-man7265
    @liam-man7265 Před 5 lety +492

    This is such a lazy school. They should’ve given way more support to Tyler Long. So unjustified.

    • @maximilliansweeneyforsthoe7786
      @maximilliansweeneyforsthoe7786 Před 4 lety +27

      Justin Schroeter fuck you you piece of shit. He had autism, even if he was a teachers pet without having mental issues that is no reason to bully someone. It’s pretty pathetic that you would admit to something like that. Go fuck yourself.

    • @legoclayface
      @legoclayface Před 4 lety +9

      @Justin Schroeter Bruh

    • @lemon66111
      @lemon66111 Před 4 lety +9

      Justin Schroeter screw you

    • @liamcohen1358
      @liamcohen1358 Před 4 lety

      Maximillian Sweeney Forsthoefel holy hell. This guy was making a joke, calm down.

    • @guywithaguitar1827
      @guywithaguitar1827 Před 4 lety

      I fucking hate kids
      I hate myself

  • @BigDogRidgeback
    @BigDogRidgeback Před 3 lety +3

    I was tormented for 8 years of grade school! I was stabbed with pencils. Books chairs smashed over my head. They face slammed me face first on a concrete sidwalk knocking out my front teeth. They beat me up daily once I came out of the school when i walked home. I'm 59 now and I remember all their names and faces to this day. Bullying stays with you a lifetime.

  • @IsItIsowatt
    @IsItIsowatt Před 3 lety +21

    Bully: *Steals Thing from the other kids*
    Kid with Kar98: DrOp Ur WeApOn

    • @MJHootHoot
      @MJHootHoot Před 3 lety

      Not exactly funny here given the topic....

  • @quirkyquips9915
    @quirkyquips9915 Před 4 lety +231

    "We don't have a bully problem in this school," as she nods her head yes.

    • @roseanneperez2829
      @roseanneperez2829 Před 4 lety +7

      I noticed that too, she was lying.her body language proved it. .....
      School rep: do we have a bad problem with bullying at this school ? (Nodding her head yes, but saying, "no")

    • @Homey104
      @Homey104 Před 4 lety +2

      Yeah I have two words that best describe this... BULLS××T!!! If there's no bullying problem at the school then why is there a report on it and having one taken place if it's true?

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 Před 4 lety

      Lady just cares about the paychecks.

  • @mrchris2473
    @mrchris2473 Před 4 lety +283

    I’m sorry to say that 10 years later, absolutely nothing has been done

  • @JenPurple2022
    @JenPurple2022 Před 7 měsíci +2

    The most important thing needs to be addressed in school without teaching it
    - How to be kind
    - how to defend yourself and stand up for others

  • @stephenfermoyle4578
    @stephenfermoyle4578 Před 3 lety +2

    HAPPY you have recovered You have kids now that you have recovered help this cause

  • @trippyptat8479
    @trippyptat8479 Před 5 lety +500

    I thought schools were suppose to be the safest place...yet it feels like it the most dangerous 😑

    • @zlugbugs
      @zlugbugs Před 5 lety +20

      I sadly agree with you

    • @onlyonemitch5049
      @onlyonemitch5049 Před 5 lety +6

      That's because...I have no idea.
      I really have no clue why that is.

    • @dominickgonzalez8878
      @dominickgonzalez8878 Před 4 lety +8

      Ňəğåţīvə Ëxpəčťåţıøñs no where’s safe nowadays simply driving around or going to the store can get you killed

    • @blankblank5409
      @blankblank5409 Před 4 lety +2

      Yup 🤦‍♀️

    • @aussietalks6642
      @aussietalks6642 Před 4 lety +9

      With bullying and shootings, it’s like a war zone

  • @PixeI_427
    @PixeI_427 Před 3 lety +3

    The dad starting to cry about it made me cry, I'm bullied daily at school and nothing ever happens and I get pushed to suicidal points like this but the face that the kid got pushed just too far is just sad.

  • @mustafajusuf4572
    @mustafajusuf4572 Před 3 lety +6

    "Surviving is winning Franklin, everything else is bullshit. Fairytales made by people who are afraid to look life in the eye. Whatever it takes kid, survive." -Michael De Santa

  • @thereseward7852
    @thereseward7852 Před 6 lety +763

    My daughter who is now an adult was bullied most of her school days. I took her to school and picked her up for lunch every day. And afterward school I picked her up. The office staff said I was babying her and she needed social interaction. The schools are blind to the affects bullying has on children. I fiercely protected her and ignored the office staff trying to get me to leave her at school. I could see by her eyes that she needed a hug and kind words. She refused to tell me what was going on saying I would only make it worse. It was heartbreaking.

    • @REYANNWALTON
      @REYANNWALTON Před 6 lety +25

      Therese Ward, was your daughter an only child? Just curious. Also I would of made her tell me how she thought she was being bullied. You do not except a child's refusal to not tell you something. I made my boys spill their guts if I knew there was an issue. Plus I had a relationship with my twin boys that they felt comfortable enough to tell me anything and everything. That still exist today and my boys are almost 21, They can be a bit too open with me but I'd rather it be that way than they refuse to tell me anything.

    • @bthehuman6240
      @bthehuman6240 Před 6 lety +8

      Therese Ward Both of you sound alot like my mom

    • @HaakonAnderson
      @HaakonAnderson Před 5 lety +9

      Haha you're so overbearing you probably ruined you daughter's life

    • @kenaibear8843
      @kenaibear8843 Před 5 lety

      Therese Ward What year did you kids graduate?

    • @deadnamebegone9133
      @deadnamebegone9133 Před 5 lety +2

      Therese Ward
      I actually have a sister who had been bullied so much where it came to a point that the BOY who bullied her nearly choked her to death luckily recess was over and came alive. I’m still mad for what he had done to her. It went from being friends to all of a sudden being enemies. Punching kicking and like I said choking. I’m now in middle school and hoping that none of it happens in middle school nor high school.

  • @baha2716
    @baha2716 Před 4 lety +785

    Imagine being a dad, Trying to build a legacy through your son and then he grows up to be a teenager, healthy,smart, and has lots of talent. Then another child takes all that from you. it’s disgusting how people do this.

    • @vik_k354
      @vik_k354 Před 4 lety +44

      OctoSpot ‘ it’s disgusting how anyone does it. Even if it’s adults, it’s still just as horrendous and disgusting

    • @Emeryy.draftz
      @Emeryy.draftz Před 4 lety +8

      Ikr

    • @Randomguy-jl4if
      @Randomguy-jl4if Před 3 lety +3

      IF I WAS A BULLY I WOULD THINK IF I WAS HIM LIKE WHY KILL HIM!?!?

    • @TravelNonsense
      @TravelNonsense Před 3 lety +6

      I am a kid and i never bullied anyone and this is really messed up

    • @vik_k354
      @vik_k354 Před 3 lety +6

      Itzbaconboi actually, you’re right. From a bully’s perspective, the people who committed suicide were prolly easy pickings for them. They probably didn’t want them to die, just so that they could bully them more

  • @adamkelsall4115
    @adamkelsall4115 Před 3 lety +1

    This makes me sick to my stomach. Seeing that poor man weep for his lost son, whom was cut down every day by cowardice bullies. Their son was a hero, it takes a lot to take on every day knowing that you will be belittled and made fun of. Bullies are not tough, they are cowards who can only display strength in numbers.
    I am from Australia and I am completely shocked to hear how cavalier the attitude was that the school took. They should all be charged, and held accountable for their negligent and disgraceful behaviour. They were no better than the bullies themselves.
    "BOYS WILL BE BOYS"....just disgusting.
    Much love to that boy's family, and to all the familes struggling with having a loved one being bullied

  • @MattyIcecubes
    @MattyIcecubes Před měsícem +2

    I was a horrible bully growing up. It makes my heart hurt so bad looking back on it. I have apologized to nearly every one of the people I bullied. Most have accepted my apology but a couple haven't, and I totally understand why. If I could go back in time and change one thing about my past it would be to not be a bully.

  • @Karma_andSage
    @Karma_andSage Před 5 lety +321

    I wish I could say it gets better after high school but adults can be just as cruel and uncaring.

    • @BlackavarWD
      @BlackavarWD Před 5 lety +27

      After school's over it gets better...
      1. You don't have as many jerks
      concentrated in one place.
      2. You aren't forced to be
      with them all day every day.
      3. They usually have other
      things on their minds.
      If kids could just make it to the "other side" of hell school, life would improve. ☺

    • @ManOfDeath567
      @ManOfDeath567 Před 5 lety +6

      In the military especially, bullying was way worse than school.

    • @flashbackfootage3987
      @flashbackfootage3987 Před 5 lety +1

      Why would you think people gets killed everyday

    • @johnnysacrimoni2404
      @johnnysacrimoni2404 Před 5 lety +2

      It does get way better after high school

    • @onlyonemitch5049
      @onlyonemitch5049 Před 5 lety +5

      I'm loving the college life honestly, I've never been happier.Kids are monsters! Monsters I tell ya!

  • @char0n_x98
    @char0n_x98 Před 9 lety +305

    I hate it how schools say that they don't like bullying, and that they will stop it for good. Yet, THEY DON'T DO S**T ABOUT IT!! They ignore it!
    I'm bullied most of the time I'm at school. And none of the teachers, staff, or even the f**king PRINCIPALS do anything! I'm so sick of it!

    • @semavercikazandayi
      @semavercikazandayi Před 9 lety +1

      You shuld get a knife and when they try to attack Show the knife in your hand they will run

    • @amairaniperez4856
      @amairaniperez4856 Před 9 lety

      uncharted3jack I actually wrote an scholarship essay about it and I won but still my advice was useless,I still don't see any changes the county schools where i am from,matter fact the bullying is getting worse.

    • @theresamischeski71
      @theresamischeski71 Před 9 lety +4

      Have you told your parents? If no one does anything (as usual) my suggestion is go to the media bring that school to there knees. I am so sorry this world is full of nasty kid's who grow up to be nasty Adults :(

    • @amairaniperez4856
      @amairaniperez4856 Před 9 lety

      kie834 that just fucking rude.learn how to spell words correctly first before you something ignorant.

    • @zaza445
      @zaza445 Před 9 lety +3

      Because teachers don't do shit about bullying, THE NEXT BULLY THAT PICKS ON ME, I AM MAKEING HAS LIFE A LIVIN HELL! I TRIED COMMITTING SUICIDE TWICE BECAUSE OF BULLIES! I HAVE BEEN GIVING BULLIES CHANCES TO STOP AND BEING A SOFTIE FOR 5 FU***** YEARS! BULLIES WILL FEAR ME NOW! I AM UNLEASHING MY INNER SOUL! MAY BULLIES PRAY FOR MERCY!

  • @honey-ts1dn
    @honey-ts1dn Před 3 lety +4

    I literally almost cried watching this, it's so horrible how such awful things can happen to people who are so good!! And the bullies don't even get serious consequences?! The American school system is seriously fucked up.
    Tyler, Phoebe ( I don't know if that's how you spell her name ), and all the other kids seemed like such a nice guy, I would've been their friend for sure.

  • @rol407
    @rol407 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I was that child. Robbed of my life. Still suffering from it decades later. it's like people are allergic to kindness or something.

  • @Asteroburst
    @Asteroburst Před 4 lety +553

    “The fact that the school is a haven for bullying is not true”
    *smiles at camera*

  • @kennethlopez9848
    @kennethlopez9848 Před 3 lety +1759

    Teachers: put some anti-bulling poster
    Kid: gets bullied
    Teacher: does nothing
    Kid: fights back
    Teacher: 👁👄👁 wait that illegal

    • @no_limit_vix9828
      @no_limit_vix9828 Před 3 lety +5

      👁️👄👁️

    • @poggers5500
      @poggers5500 Před 3 lety +8

      Bruh

    • @typlcai
      @typlcai Před 3 lety

      👁👁👁👁👁👁👁👁👄👁👁👁👁👁👁👁👁

    • @SouthFlordiaJit
      @SouthFlordiaJit Před 3 lety +35

      The kid who fighted back gets in trouble while the bully gets off free >:(

    • @dropatear5379
      @dropatear5379 Před 3 lety +5

      The same thing happened to my older brother
      #Stopbullying

  • @TheTishy44
    @TheTishy44 Před rokem +3

    I hope those kids who were responsible, have karma visit them 10 fold.

  • @wuzimu9982
    @wuzimu9982 Před 3 lety +5

    There is no need to be death only way to get stronger just practice on your own

  • @turtletube1392
    @turtletube1392 Před 7 lety +768

    I would love to fight bullies. The problem is I'm not afraid of what the bullies will do to me but I'm afraid of what the school would do. I could get suspended for defending myself.