To me him being awkward feels comforting to me because I feel like he is just like us and I am awkward too so I love to have him to look up to as a role model
Chan's advice: take STAY's advice He was too funny reading STAY's comment at the end. When he said "that boosts your confidence" he looked like "why didn't I think of smth like that?"
This probably isnt the advice people wanted to hear but it's incredibly mature and thoughtful and very true. One of the best pieces of advice you can get for anything in life is how to be okay with rejection. Know that it isnt personal or a blow to your self worth. And move on.
why do i feel like he was speaking from his own experience? :,) he didn't even try to sugarcoat it, he literally said it like it is: this is the best way to deal with anything in your life, pretty much. you always have to hold your head high, and don't act like it's the end of the world if things don't go your way. especially if it's a minor crush, or if you're not really sure if that person will return your feelings, it's always best to be upfront, and tell the truth. the worst thing to do is avoiding the topic altogether and just keep pining after someone hopelessly without even taking an initiative.
The way they portrayed the sobbing suggested to me that his experience was a rejection to all those groupies and more, I think many of them could not adequately accept rejection. So yeah, I think he has experience on that side.
Maybe he has had an experience like this with a crush, but it's also important to remember that he is an idol that trained for 7 years of his life under jyfuckingpee, if anyone knows anything about rejection and moving on, it's him
the way he's staring into our soul when he said 'REJECTION.' he knows its not a 50/50 chance, its like a 99% chance we get rejected 😭😭 its okay, guys we have chan
Well some of the comment during his live is nothing new. Chan answer question that he feel okay for audience. I remember asking him TMI during his Rona quarantine and he said all he did is making music cause he got nothing to do
Naurrr cuz I always think of this and I’m happy I’m not the only one. Not just with chan but with other idols or celebrities who do lives often. They just seem to say something that’s not even seen in the comment section💀
Stay: Chan, how do I talk to my crush? Chan: be ready for ✨REJECTION✨ lmaooooooo I totally what he's saying tho but it was just too funny for me hahaha
Lmao the fact that I’m actually having a crush and idk how to talk to him - the timing lol I just wish I could talk abt everything to him he’s just the best dude ever
All the best bestie 🙃🙃 just do it .... I mean i only hv celeb crushes and i don't hv a real crush yet but i just talk to any boy with confidence nd trust me they will like u nd don't be nervous oky .... 😁 My tips for u .....
You can still talk to your crush and get closer to him/her as a friend its not like you have to date him/her to get close............ but if you really wanna date that person as a person myself who got rejected about two days ago by my crush lol.... just get ready for rejection physically and mentally....... Better to be prepared like just imagine you'll be prepared for rejection but that guy/girl likes you back, you'll feel so happy, but incase you get rejected, I mean you were prepared for it........ so its a win-win situation ALL THE BEST HOPE Y'ALL END UP DATING❤
Why don't you start sending little notes and by little I mean little like "hi how are you" and then on other day you can send another one complimenting something about the outfit. Or you can just go say hi while passing by and same with the compliment just passing by like "hi I like your (example) shirt" I feel that way you make yourself notice and it gives you the courage to talk a little bit more later or the person will start actually talking to you. The notes are in case you are to shy. I like giving notes because it makes you stand out in my personal opinion.
Watching a man for 1:45 explain in the nicest, kindest way to be prepared for rejection and don't go in with super high expectations so your heart doesn't get broken. Chan never wanting to hurt anyone's feelings is too sweet!
This best advice my mom gave me was “never have great expectations” because if u do, there’s a higher chance of getting upset. Chan’s right, you gotta mentally prepare yourself for rejection in life in general but stay strong at the same time!
i love this man so much; he cares for Stays so much to the point where he doesn't just tell us the good things or things we *want* to hear, but he's so careful with our hearts and making sure we know the reality of things so we don't set ourselves up for disappointment♡ honestly, even tho ppl might just want to hear encouragement and stuff, channie rly shows how much he care by being mature and realistic in the sweetest and most gentle way possible:'((( gosh i love him
"If you get rejected it's their loss not yours" Chan the knight in shining armour for stays, amplifying us all with just this one sentence ... Ngl his advices and talks are really helping me a lot
when i was 16 i confessed to my crush ( i'm turning 23 this september good god i'm old) and i got rejected and i didn't expect for it to hurt a lot so i avoided him and mostly skipped class and never talked to him again :') back then i was stupid but now i learned to accept rejection but i'll still not talk to that person again and just go separate ways
like honestly expecting the worst rejection is the way to go about it, It won't hurt as much if you're already expecting the worst.. idk if it's healthy or not but it is what it is
The universe just loves sending advice from Chan when I'm in this exact situation. It's now or never I guess uwU Edit: Uhhh I didn't expect people to be invested in this but here's some background info for those interested. Basically we met online through a game. We've been talking for nearly 2 months and about halfway through I realised 'Shit I like like him'. Then a few days after making this realisation we had a conversation about this guy he's liked for awhile (ah I know qwq) and that he's been chasing after awhile even though this guy hasn't really paid him any mind. Now I'm stuck in the common dilemma of wanting to confess but not wanting to lose him over it, especially since we've just recently met. From the beginning we've always been pretty flirty and sharing art, he's a freelance artist and I do writing on the side as a personal passion. He exchanges photos of his pets and I do the same with the neighbourhood cats I'm friendly with. For those of you interested in MBTI I would love some feedback. I'm an INFJ and he's an INTJ, so if any of you could tell me what the signs are when you're crushing I would greatly appreciate it. (TωT ) When we initially met online he initiated talking outside of the game. He calls me cutie a lot and always comments on the stuff I say as cute. I had an honest conversation about something personal and he called me sweetie. That is the first and only time he has ever called me that and I found it an anomaly. It did seem like he was keeping himself distant from me after he shared a very personal artwork he drew in the beginning of our friendship. Because of past experiences I'm kind of hesitant to believe he would like me that early on after meeting me. However after that conversation we had about the guy he liked, my brain basically dismissed any possibility that he might like me back qwq. I haven't asked him about the guy since I can't really slip it into conversation and being direct about it seems too forward. We just click really well and our sense of humour bounces off each other. (UωU)
Chan is so sweet and his lives are so comforting. Thank you channie 🙂💕I took his advice and asked my crush out, but I went into it prepared for rejection. Sadly I got rejected 😔but it’s ok, they just weren’t right for me and I still have bangchan, who will never leave me ☺️
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That's actually a pretty good advice. If you're not afraid of being rejected, it'll make you feel more confident and the probabilities for you to be rejected will be lower.
I just adore how channie was meant to give advice on how to talk with your crush without getting awkward but he started talking about dealing with rejection and just ended it with "be you", a quite generic term but imo, it sounds more philosophical coming out of chan and at the end there where he agreed to the last comment after her couldn't really think of anything to say cus he got so awkward sounds exactly like a dad trying to give advice to his daughters about things he doesn't know how to explain and ends up piggy backing on the mother's advice😂
it's good advice though.... i mean.. there is SO much that goes into attraction.. if someone doesn't want YOU, it doesn't automatically mean there's something lacking with you, and it also doesn't mean that they are bad people for not liking you. There are so many reasons why the two of you are not a fit, and if the other person see that before you do, then you can know faster they were not meant for you. you want someone who is READY to go an that date with you. someone saying YES, that they want you - that should be the easy part... actually being together for a long time is the hard part. them accepting you to begin with, that should be easy. If they don't want you, who knows WHY it doesn't matter... don't break your OWN heart, by liking someone so much, before you've even gotten to know them
Chan: If you ever get rejected then it's their loss" How sweet of him to boost our confidence after brutally telling us we'll get rejected. Thanks 😭😭😭😭
The reason why he is such a boyfriend material is his maturity...but I really like to be friends with him ...I think he'd be a really reliable person when you are facing a problem
I am quite late but I have to say that. I love that man so much but he gave me those "dad talks vibe" so much there hahaha. You know that feeling? When you sit down with your dad and talk about girls/boys (choose what you want) and they became shy but try their best to help you. Like. He tried his best to protect us and gave us that knowladge that we should prepered ourselfs first. He doesn't want us to be hurt or smth. He was kinda shy and hectic while talking about that just like most dads are. He's just precious
im sorry but "yeahhhhhh! therer you gaur" is killing me for no reason lmao. i love his accent, it's adorable. and his advice is good! if youre gonna confess your feelings, go for it!! but before you do, try to mentally prepare to get rejected. not because you will get rejected, but because you dont 100% know how that person is gonna respond and it's best to go in with a plan like "okay im gonna tell them i like them, and if it goes well then awesome but if they dont feel the same then my bestie is already updated on the plan and she'll/he'll/they'll meet me at my house and we will eat ice cream and watch 500 days of summer on repeat". it's a bit easier to take the rejection that way
These some of advice that you just said was actually true and your advice really does help a lot you are a very good adviser because we are good listener which that makes you a good advisor that you would like to help out and that is one of the most kindest thing you ever do , Awesome job 👍☺
I feel like some people misunderstood. I think he meant that no matter how much your attracted to your crush you should always know that there’s a chance of rejection. That way you won’t be as hurtful , and i feel like that goes for most situations
Guys, he spittin wisdom 😭 he’s totally right, I’ve been there. Don’t let your emotions make you feel like your life is over, cuz it’s not. Conclusion: That person rejected u? Ok, sad, now move on. Don’t stick with the bad feelings. I have gotten over that person and now I get it. Now I like this guy not because he’s cute, but because he’s amazing. Best thing? I don’t feel attached. I could just tell him I kinda like him and if he rejects me I’ll be like: ok, no shoit. we still friends. So, me and Channie want you to know that you are going to get thru this and you’ll be ok. You just have to work it out. Believe me, cuz it took me 2 years to forget the pain. I couldn’t see the terrible person I had fallen in. Now that I know, I feel free. Love y’all STAYs! Take care!
aweee i wish i was comfortable to go back on vlive but ever since i was bullied on the fan board, i haven’t watched any new chan’s room in about a year and a quarter. it used to be so much fun racing to be one of the first stays to enter chan’s room on a sunday and then spamming hello and other positive comments whilst gone days plays. i’m glad he’s doing well and he’s actually like a big brother figure i’ve never had 🥰
he knows we're gonna get rejected 🤡
naurrrrr💀
Well…..it’s good to be truthful Channie I guess?
He definitely said its a 50 50 chance
Hecwas consolling you and making stay prepare for the worst
But your still saying weird thing
@@orakimchi3577 it's a joke 😃
@@hongjoongspinky yarrrrrrrrrrrr
i like how his advice is basically: be prepared for the worst
we love a realistic king
I- 💀🤚
YESSSSSS
i love this realism😭i have a massive crush on a girl who has a bf atm so i definitely have no chance
the whole time he's talking about rejection LMAO
ayo mf steph curry in my comment section🤩🤩🤩
like he was talking from experience🤣
He's the one who wrote the famous lines in EX lyrics
@@hongjoongspinky 😂😂😂
makes me chuckle though hahaha 🤣
Stay: so how do I talk to my crush?
Chan: lol prepare for rejection
💀 he isn't even trying to sugarcoat the truth
🥲
👁👄👁
😭😭😭😭
Just do it because you only live once
- bald keeho
chan is so awkward when talking to us but atleast he gives good advice
He's always soo awkward but that's one of the things we love about him 😆
Lmao
To me him being awkward feels comforting to me because I feel like he is just like us and I am awkward too so I love to have him to look up to as a role model
YES and the fact that he said he doesn’t give good advice is so so false he gives great advice
Chan's advice: take STAY's advice
He was too funny reading STAY's comment at the end. When he said "that boosts your confidence" he looked like "why didn't I think of smth like that?"
i loved that he actually said "wait i just saw a really cute question lemme scroll up" before telling us we'll be rejected akhdslhslfsklfs
by cute he meant pitiful
@@hongjoongspinky SCREAMING ASFDSDFHGJGHKJ
lmao fr 💀
Lmaoo
🤭🤭🤭
why is he emphasizing so much the rejection part i'm screamingggg
mans must know the pain ig 😭
@@lyllaby nah I think he just knows that our real crush is actually him-
'Cause you do need to prepare mentally for those results lol
we're kpop fans
@@user-vh4ms7mb3n or that yea 💀
Someone in the Vlive comments was like “I HOPE YOU’RE NOT SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE”
I mean he could be, we all go thru rejection. It doesn’t have to be a romantic rejection, lots of things don’t go our way
well i mean he's probs had a crush before.
@@iluvuforever Who hasn't? 😂
@@iluvuforever of course he had, dude is 25, the probabilities of never having had a crush at that age is almost non-existent hahah
@@avanny3915 he’s 24
when you have a crush on bang chan 👁️👄👁️
dang😭🐺
An underrated gem o god I'm wheezing
Get ready for rejection 🤷🏼♀️😂
Your not alone tho-👁🫦👁
IKR🤣🤣
This probably isnt the advice people wanted to hear but it's incredibly mature and thoughtful and very true. One of the best pieces of advice you can get for anything in life is how to be okay with rejection. Know that it isnt personal or a blow to your self worth. And move on.
exactly!
Chan : you should be mentally prepared to get rejected
Me who's bias is lee know : 😃👍🏼
you’re ✨experienced✨
@@hongjoongspinky 😔✌🏻
😅
“If you wanna confess, you gotta confess”
-Chan 2022
why do i feel like he was speaking from his own experience? :,) he didn't even try to sugarcoat it, he literally said it like it is: this is the best way to deal with anything in your life, pretty much. you always have to hold your head high, and don't act like it's the end of the world if things don't go your way. especially if it's a minor crush, or if you're not really sure if that person will return your feelings, it's always best to be upfront, and tell the truth. the worst thing to do is avoiding the topic altogether and just keep pining after someone hopelessly without even taking an initiative.
The way they portrayed the sobbing suggested to me that his experience was a rejection to all those groupies and more, I think many of them could not adequately accept rejection. So yeah, I think he has experience on that side.
I mean... He is 25, there is no way he didn't have a crush at some point of his life
he was just saying the truth, udk if he's talking about his own experience? y'all too dramatic
Maybe he has had an experience like this with a crush, but it's also important to remember that he is an idol that trained for 7 years of his life under jyfuckingpee, if anyone knows anything about rejection and moving on, it's him
@@avanny3915 yeah and plus he’s also human
the way he's staring into our soul when he said 'REJECTION.'
he knows its not a 50/50 chance, its like a 99% chance we get rejected 😭😭
its okay, guys we have chan
Chan's advice: Confess, but be prepared for rejection
Nicki Minaj's advice: Don't do it. Zon't zoo it.
“ if u get rejected then it’s their loss “
Chan: yeahh…! 😃
PLS IM LAUGHING
his future partner will be so lucky to have him
that's me
@@dia_love_quotes oh yeah of course
@@santoshmishra9641 * inserts felix's voice * oh yeah sure 🤣
thats me im bang chans future partner
and he will be so lucky to have them!!! love is a 2 way street and everyone is just human :)
He sounds like he’s speaking from experience
lmao who knows 💀
do you ever think channie makes up questions to dicuss stuff he wants to talk about xD xD xD
nah cuz sometimes i feel like he really does that💀
100%
Well some of the comment during his live is nothing new. Chan answer question that he feel okay for audience. I remember asking him TMI during his Rona quarantine and he said all he did is making music cause he got nothing to do
he prolly definetly does
Naurrr cuz I always think of this and I’m happy I’m not the only one. Not just with chan but with other idols or celebrities who do lives often. They just seem to say something that’s not even seen in the comment section💀
WOW THIS WAS FAST- THE LIVE HASN'T EVEN ENDED YET FJRJBFJF
chan reminds me of that meme where the kid goes *"DID YOU EVER HAD A DREAM?? WHEN YOU- AHSDBEIVNFKSJNVUSERNFLSUSVBKSERU YOU CAN BE ANYTHING??"*
couldnt have put it better myself
Lmao i haven't confessed to any crushes at all, because no :D
But the "if they reject you, IT'S THEIR LOSS NOT YOURS" SPEAK YOUR TRUTH FAM
your first sentence is such a mood and me too
Stay: Chan, how do I talk to my crush?
Chan: be ready for ✨REJECTION✨
lmaooooooo
I totally what he's saying tho but it was just too funny for me hahaha
Lmao the fact that I’m actually having a crush and idk how to talk to him - the timing lol I just wish I could talk abt everything to him he’s just the best dude ever
All the best bestie 🙃🙃 just do it .... I mean i only hv celeb crushes and i don't hv a real crush yet but i just talk to any boy with confidence nd trust me they will like u nd don't be nervous oky .... 😁 My tips for u .....
@@kuhu....148 oml thx Gurl
yeah me too, but i try not to because he isn't our therapist :(
You can still talk to your crush and get closer to him/her as a friend its not like you have to date him/her to get close............
but if you really wanna date that person as a person myself who got rejected about two days ago by my crush lol.... just get ready for rejection physically and mentally.......
Better to be prepared like just imagine you'll be prepared for rejection but that guy/girl likes you back, you'll feel so happy, but incase you get rejected, I mean you were prepared for it........
so its a win-win situation
ALL THE BEST HOPE Y'ALL END UP DATING❤
Why don't you start sending little notes and by little I mean little like "hi how are you" and then on other day you can send another one complimenting something about the outfit. Or you can just go say hi while passing by and same with the compliment just passing by like "hi I like your (example) shirt" I feel that way you make yourself notice and it gives you the courage to talk a little bit more later or the person will start actually talking to you. The notes are in case you are to shy. I like giving notes because it makes you stand out in my personal opinion.
There's a Korean saying that goes like: "Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst."
I think he did a pretty good job elaborating just that
Watching a man for 1:45 explain in the nicest, kindest way to be prepared for rejection and don't go in with super high expectations so your heart doesn't get broken. Chan never wanting to hurt anyone's feelings is too sweet!
"Im really horrible at advices" hes so awkward and its so cute
This best advice my mom gave me was “never have great expectations” because if u do, there’s a higher chance of getting upset. Chan’s right, you gotta mentally prepare yourself for rejection in life in general but stay strong at the same time!
The zooms always send me but yeah his advice is true. Love how this is up yet he’s live atm lmao
i love this man so much; he cares for Stays so much to the point where he doesn't just tell us the good things or things we *want* to hear, but he's so careful with our hearts and making sure we know the reality of things so we don't set ourselves up for disappointment♡ honestly, even tho ppl might just want to hear encouragement and stuff, channie rly shows how much he care by being mature and realistic in the sweetest and most gentle way possible:'((( gosh i love him
the advice i never knew i needed
"If you get rejected it's their loss not yours"
Chan the knight in shining armour for stays, amplifying us all with just this one sentence ... Ngl his advices and talks are really helping me a lot
when i was 16 i confessed to my crush ( i'm turning 23 this september good god i'm old) and i got rejected and i didn't expect for it to hurt a lot so i avoided him and mostly skipped class and never talked to him again :') back then i was stupid but now i learned to accept rejection but i'll still not talk to that person again and just go separate ways
23 is still young don't worry :)
Old or young
We always are learning so no need to stress about the age...
Wish You the Best for the future
“REJECTION” the zoom 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Expect rejection 💀😂 I mean honestly that’s the best advice though.
Channie is still live and I’m still watching him lol
Well I have a crush but that person is giving advice through online for other people about how to approach their crushes....
BANG CHRISTOPHER CHAN💓
I don't know why but when this man (Chan) talk ... My heart just melted 🤧
Whoever edited this, thank you! The part at “rejection” and when he did the convo with himself were awesome 😂
like honestly expecting the worst rejection is the way to go about it, It won't hurt as much if you're already expecting the worst.. idk if it's healthy or not but it is what it is
i love how he was preparing everyone for heartbreak the entire time, then at the end be like but yk JUST BE YOU 😀
I can’t believe he talked about this😂
I love how he cares about how we feel😭😭
'you know just try not to think too much about it'
bang chan * thinking too much about it
greatest advice giver back at it again
I always went with the "silently pine and never tell a SOUL because then I can't get hurt" method....... 👀👀
honestly same💀
ALSO CHAN WHY YOU SO FVCKING CUTE.
He really said “uh your gonna get rejected so prepare for it”
The universe just loves sending advice from Chan when I'm in this exact situation.
It's now or never I guess uwU
Edit: Uhhh I didn't expect people to be invested in this but here's some background info for those interested. Basically we met online through a game. We've been talking for nearly 2 months and about halfway through I realised 'Shit I like like him'. Then a few days after making this realisation we had a conversation about this guy he's liked for awhile (ah I know qwq) and that he's been chasing after awhile even though this guy hasn't really paid him any mind. Now I'm stuck in the common dilemma of wanting to confess but not wanting to lose him over it, especially since we've just recently met. From the beginning we've always been pretty flirty and sharing art, he's a freelance artist and I do writing on the side as a personal passion. He exchanges photos of his pets and I do the same with the neighbourhood cats I'm friendly with.
For those of you interested in MBTI I would love some feedback. I'm an INFJ and he's an INTJ, so if any of you could tell me what the signs are when you're crushing I would greatly appreciate it. (TωT )
When we initially met online he initiated talking outside of the game. He calls me cutie a lot and always comments on the stuff I say as cute. I had an honest conversation about something personal and he called me sweetie. That is the first and only time he has ever called me that and I found it an anomaly. It did seem like he was keeping himself distant from me after he shared a very personal artwork he drew in the beginning of our friendship. Because of past experiences I'm kind of hesitant to believe he would like me that early on after meeting me. However after that conversation we had about the guy he liked, my brain basically dismissed any possibility that he might like me back qwq.
I haven't asked him about the guy since I can't really slip it into conversation and being direct about it seems too forward. We just click really well and our sense of humour bounces off each other. (UωU)
Good luck fam!!
Aaa good luck ✨
Good luck 🍀🍀🍀
Fighting 💪🏼💪🏼
did you do it??
I miss chan’s room so much. 😭 he was a literal therapist and oh my god HE IS A SWEETHEART
I think he just wanted us(stays)to not get hurt or heartbroken 😭… awww I love Chan❤️
i miss chan's room...i hope he will do it again in a future
Why is his accent so attractive?
Chan is so sweet and his lives are so comforting. Thank you channie 🙂💕I took his advice and asked my crush out, but I went into it prepared for rejection. Sadly I got rejected 😔but it’s ok, they just weren’t right for me and I still have bangchan, who will never leave me ☺️
CAN WE ALL JUST HOLD ON A MOMENT and appreciate your absolute IMMACULATE editing skills?! I laughed my fricking ass off because the edits made everything ten times better. Thank you so much for your effort! ❤️
thank you so much i really appreciate it 😭💕
That's actually a pretty good advice. If you're not afraid of being rejected, it'll make you feel more confident and the probabilities for you to be rejected will be lower.
I don't agree with that especially if you're constantly getting rejected or don't have the confidence to ask someone out
I LOVE THE EDITING OH MY GOD, it really shows his cute rambling so well T-T
I just adore how channie was meant to give advice on how to talk with your crush without getting awkward but he started talking about dealing with rejection and just ended it with "be you", a quite generic term but imo, it sounds more philosophical coming out of chan
and at the end there where he agreed to the last comment after her couldn't really think of anything to say cus he got so awkward sounds exactly like a dad trying to give advice to his daughters about things he doesn't know how to explain and ends up piggy backing on the mother's advice😂
He just finished his live and his byeEe UGH SO CUTE
He was still live wtf! I respect you so much for that fast editing
it's good advice though.... i mean.. there is SO much that goes into attraction.. if someone doesn't want YOU, it doesn't automatically mean there's something lacking with you, and it also doesn't mean that they are bad people for not liking you. There are so many reasons why the two of you are not a fit, and if the other person see that before you do, then you can know faster they were not meant for you. you want someone who is READY to go an that date with you. someone saying YES, that they want you - that should be the easy part... actually being together for a long time is the hard part. them accepting you to begin with, that should be easy. If they don't want you, who knows WHY it doesn't matter... don't break your OWN heart, by liking someone so much, before you've even gotten to know them
He knows love ain't easy neither always reciprocal, our king of reality
I seen this live and was honestly dying at the question and the answer because it’s funny duh
Okey but why does he look so damn good with blue hair! Also I hope his hair is doing okey 💀
Dude now the girl is never going to tell him. Thanks for the advice
Chan: If you ever get rejected then it's their loss"
How sweet of him to boost our confidence after brutally telling us we'll get rejected. Thanks 😭😭😭😭
The reason why he is such a boyfriend material is his maturity...but I really like to be friends with him ...I think he'd be a really reliable person when you are facing a problem
ok no he's actually right. i expected too much and got my heart broken when i got rejected :/
I second this advice with everything: do your best and be prepared for the worst...that way you'll be less likely to regret it
Just a more chan way of saying "be prepared for rejection"
stay: how do i talk to my crush?
chan: get ready for your rejection
He's so human❤
"I'm really horrible at advices" plz I just wanna squeeze him. He's too cute 🥺🥺🥺
That's not the advice that person wanted, but it's one they needed. 😌
I am quite late but I have to say that. I love that man so much but he gave me those "dad talks vibe" so much there hahaha. You know that feeling? When you sit down with your dad and talk about girls/boys (choose what you want) and they became shy but try their best to help you. Like. He tried his best to protect us and gave us that knowladge that we should prepered ourselfs first. He doesn't want us to be hurt or smth. He was kinda shy and hectic while talking about that just like most dads are. He's just precious
Dude's experience in every field is what I am thankful to him 😂... Atleast i can get knowledge about most of the things specially as a teenager.
im sorry but "yeahhhhhh! therer you gaur" is killing me for no reason lmao. i love his accent, it's adorable. and his advice is good! if youre gonna confess your feelings, go for it!! but before you do, try to mentally prepare to get rejected. not because you will get rejected, but because you dont 100% know how that person is gonna respond and it's best to go in with a plan like "okay im gonna tell them i like them, and if it goes well then awesome but if they dont feel the same then my bestie is already updated on the plan and she'll/he'll/they'll meet me at my house and we will eat ice cream and watch 500 days of summer on repeat". it's a bit easier to take the rejection that way
I'm always like "oh okay" when I get rejected, but at home I'm like "wHYYYYYYYY"
These some of advice that you just said was actually true and your advice really does help a lot you are a very good adviser because we are good listener which that makes you a good advisor that you would like to help out and that is one of the most kindest thing you ever do , Awesome job 👍☺
i love your editing, dude 😭💛
Man doesn't even try to sugarcoat it, he's fond that we're gonna get rejected help
thanks for being real with us channie
He’s so realistic, that’s good😅 it’s so funny and cute to see him trying to give that stay an advice😅🫶🏻 love Chan sm❤
I feel like some people misunderstood.
I think he meant that no matter how much your attracted to your crush you should always know that there’s a chance of rejection. That way you won’t be as hurtful , and i feel like that goes for most situations
Guys, he spittin wisdom 😭 he’s totally right, I’ve been there. Don’t let your emotions make you feel like your life is over, cuz it’s not. Conclusion: That person rejected u? Ok, sad, now move on. Don’t stick with the bad feelings.
I have gotten over that person and now I get it. Now I like this guy not because he’s cute, but because he’s amazing. Best thing? I don’t feel attached. I could just tell him I kinda like him and if he rejects me I’ll be like: ok, no shoit. we still friends.
So, me and Channie want you to know that you are going to get thru this and you’ll be ok. You just have to work it out. Believe me, cuz it took me 2 years to forget the pain. I couldn’t see the terrible person I had fallen in. Now that I know, I feel free.
Love y’all STAYs! Take care!
Channie don't reject Stays cuz we got a big crush on you😭😭
The edited version is so much better😂
I love the “woah. That was great”. His ego👏👏
The advice is true. If that is the person you think is right for you, go for it. The person could feel the same way but is afraid to tell you.
Chan: giving advice
Me: the problem is ur my crush
You can see how much he's struggling to try and positively say it could go completely wrong
you can tell he has experience… damn.
The ENFJ in him was ENFJing hard
The way that he didn’t acc say he agreed in the end but just said it boosts our confidence and is a nice comment 💀🤣
I confessed to my crush, and we’re dating now. But I accepted the possibility of rejection and that gave me the strength to do it.
He really said: isme tera ghata mera kuchh nhi jata
Bro really said “You’re gonna get rejected, deal with it👹”
Jokes aside, it’s good advice
aweee i wish i was comfortable to go back on vlive but ever since i was bullied on the fan board, i haven’t watched any new chan’s room in about a year and a quarter. it used to be so much fun racing to be one of the first stays to enter chan’s room on a sunday and then spamming hello and other positive comments whilst gone days plays. i’m glad he’s doing well and he’s actually like a big brother figure i’ve never had 🥰
I love how he was teaching is what to do after rejection
THE 50 50 CHANCE HELP ITS 3 AM AND I'M ALREADY TIRED BUT THIS IS CROSSING MY LIMITS AGHXSHIFSJ
He is saving us from the heartbreak
He makes me feel soooo confident 😂