How to Handle Failures in Life | Brian Tracy
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- Everyone tends to make mistakes and the busier you are, the more mistakes you will make. The only question is, do you stay positive and move forward from life’s inevitable ups and downs? Let's talk about how to handle mistakes and failures. bit.ly/2Q0P4UH
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Tell me about a mistake you made, what did you learn from it? Leave a comment and I will be sure to follow up with you.
Life becomes more difficult when you refuse to accept that you made a bad choice. Develop the resilience to be a master of change rather than a victim >> bit.ly/34zqpKI
My mistake and lesson...
picking and harboring around a lower vibration of beings...mainly for comfort. Writing this reply, I feel guilty, knowing I know better and demand more of myself. I'm learning that I work more on self in quiet moments alone, and will strategically kick the attachment of comfort seeking behavior.
Thanks, Brian, for continuing to be instrumental...encouraging the necessary disciplines for self reflection and personal achievement.
thanks mr brian and my mistake is why i didnt following you for long time because i lost many things before i know you
Sir Brian, my mistake is staying at the relationship because of my daughter and I don't want to have a broken family,. I know that I'm responsible. But really hard to trust again... And that's holding me back to success. so I'd leave,sacrificed,and learned. And keep going.
My biggest mistake was starting a business and thinking I could do it on my own. Now I know it takes a team of like-minded people working towards the same goal. Mastermind alliance
Dear my mistake is procrastination after reading your book lakhshya a drastic change found.
Thanks sir
I recently failed training for an airline. It’s a permanent mark on my record but I’m I know everything will be fine. Just have to learn and keep pushing forward
I failed my practical driving exam for the third time, the first two times I was extremely down emotionaly and I even cried but now I'm just a little sad and I'm looking forward to try again. I think I got better at driving and also I become a better person, with a stronger mentality. So, for everyone that is reading this and gets through a moment of failure remember to stay positive and don't quit because "other than death, all failure is psychological". Much love from Romania !♥️🇷🇴
FAILURE IS JUST AN OPENING DOOR TO NEW AND BETTER OPPORTUNITIES! Who agress? 👌
I do agree
may be!!
Absolute
But sometimes its costly
Abu Malik Thanks for sharing Abu :)
Sometimes people who have been traumatised and suffer PTSD or C-PTSD have a more negative view of life because the neural pathways have changed in response to that trauma. Negativity is involuntary. It is not their fault. And if they really are a victim of something that has caused trauma, acknowledging that they are a victim and that their response is norma is very important. While neural plasticity means positive change can occur, it is a very difficult thing for the traumatised person to do. First you have to come to the place where you believe change can happen and that damage can be reversed. Then you have to put in the daily work to help that happen and that is a tough fight. But here I am listening to you after 3 1/2 years of the fight, still alive, and making change bit by bit. Respect to those who know that fight .
You are right. First share your story with a person who will not make you feel guilty or shameful. I’m writing my story to share my mistakes and to highlight how even within legal systems and support networks the help you seek is not there. How many women who are in grief and trauma after domestic abuse do not find the law on their side, re victimised, called out as an angry or vengeful ex spouse, after what may have been years of emotional and psychological abuse in a relationship.
I failed through my bachelor's degree and I graduated with less average grades with extra year, I learned that I need to be discpline in my duties and do not go only after my short term desiers. It is a hard lesson and I want to learn how to be resilince and discpline
I’ve really done a lot of mistakes in my interview and feel like I was a failure but after hearing this, I just really need to get up and study and learn from my mistakes. Thanks!
I try to follow the saying I saw on a meme. " Don't look back your not going that way". Damn makes sense.👍
My main man Brian. Love the videos. Very helpful. I made a mistake in my 2nd semester of college. Procrastinated until almost the last month of the semester and I was told I was 3 weeks behind work and I may have to repeat the class, which was very depressing because I believed to be an avid student in the subject. Biting more than I can chew, I began to fail the class. But after making a few sacrifices, and having to fall asleep very late and waking up just as early, I am back on track and already passed that class and will be moving on to the next
It's never too late to get back on track, Jake!
Exactly. Just go for it.
God decides in the end whether you get it or not.
Your only decision is to go for it.
Here are some notes
1. Disclose yourself completely to at least one person.
2. Remain positive
3. Cut your losses
4. Learn from your mistakes and improve
My crazy passion is to share summaries like the way I have started doing on my channel for books.
soooo happy to see you again
As a service to Mr. Tracy's lecture here are the main points of the lesson
1. Disclose yourself to at least one person
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2. Remain positive. take responsibility
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3. Cut your loses.
4. Learn from your mistakes and improve.
An estimated 70 percent of of decisions made will be wrong. so expect most of what you will make to be mistakes and have plans or steps to fall back to when things go wrong for as much mistakes as you can so you can ultimately master the process and be successful.
Thanks Brian. It's always great to hear your voice.
It's interesting that you say it is those who get hurt or fail the most are those who don't change from the mistake they are making quicky. I pursued something in helping someone else over 12 years. At times I thought maybe I was doing the wrong thing, but I pressed on with helping them because I had learned the principle of dedication. But I wish I hadn't! It's not always easy to know when to stop doing something and when to change from that direction.
At the beginning i wanna tell that i love so much to listen to your lecture Mr/Brian....
my mistake that i did when i didn't make myself my first priority so i lost more but i learned more and more
Nice to see you again. Thank God for Life. Failure is a stepping stone towards success. We have no other choice but to fail forward not backwards!
Long Live Brian Tracy God Bless You
Great to see you. Our prayers for you to have a pleasant happy healthy day.
It is a great to see you again. Thank you sir.
I am trying to think a lot before speak because sometimes i wanted to be so honest but is really hard so i am getting into a more wise person, thanks Mr Tracy.
I've been a procranitor for a very long time and I'm trying to change it, to be honest it's very hard because of of procranition i lost a lot. I've reading your books and listening to your audios, it's giving the way to become better in life. Your are really making lots of change in our life's . Thanks for your great work.
Dear Brain Tracy,
First of all, thank you very much for sharing the valuable thoughts.
I made a mistake about 4 month ago in my office the mistake was “I took more time than usual to understanding the business requirements” unfortunately it became a perception and they thew me out of the project. This failure is killing me everyday, at same time I am working on various ways to concentrating to find my best version.
The mistake that made me learn the most was that I quitted my full time job without any specific direction. I tried to run taxation consulting services but failed badly. But despite of loosing my finances, I have learned extremely valuable lessons: 1. Find your purpose in life. 2. Create a side hussle which would eventually substitute full time job. 3. Improve your education to entertainment ratio.
Thank you Mr.Tracy
My biggest mistake was a state of mind...I would not take action...never realized that by setting a thought in motion how much further I could be in a year rather than letting fear disable me from a successful project. Wonderful to see you Brian as always and thank you for inviting us to your beautiful home for another lesson in spiritual productivity.
I studied for a test over the weekend and bombed it on Monday. I became anxious and wasn't able to settle myself down during the test. I missed the rest of the afternoon of school, got mad at myself and totally got myself off track. I watched this video and the "cut your losses" part reminded me that I have a choice to either hold on to this negativity or to let it go. Well, I decided to let it go and get back on the horse and ride into the Sun! Thank you Brian Tracy for your inspiration!
Thank you for all the years of good advice BT
I see mistakes as the universes way of an ongoing test of our resilience and capacity to push on when things are at their toughest.
I made a mistake a few years back by releasing a book that was found to still have grammatical errors. It was a big mistake however an even better learning opportunity for future publications. Appreciate your video Brian.
Great. I have watched all your videos , the first one was Time mangement.
Thank you 🌷
We make so many mistakes that it's harder to choose the ugliest one.
But, one mistake I would like to mention.
I made it while I was in school, at that time I developed a belief (from Sourounding) that being a less spoken person is more appreciated.
But when I failed at many stages in real world, I realised my belief was wrong.
I worked harder to change it and become a person who can share his thoughts clearly, respond rationally, interact meaningfully.
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thanks Mr. Brian Tracy for another great video. You help me a lot. Thanks again
Good to see you sir you are an inspiration, thank you bless you
From my past failure I have learned that I need to do my work faster
I've been making the same mistakes for years with allowing people with a bad influence in my life believing they wouldn't affect me. After stagnating and standing still for 5 years 2 months ago I finally recognized one of my biggest mistakes and decided to cut most of my friends out of my life and fight for the life I want to live. Bought your Audiobooks Eat the frog and goals. and listen to them as often a possible. Appreciate your work and thank you for giving me the tools to chase my dreams
Only 8 months age that I know who you are and I started to watch your videos about selling and marketing then I begin to read most of books about success and achievement in life. I’m a different person now thanks to you and I won’t stop developing and growing.
Greetings from Saudi Arabia.
My wish for Mr. Tracy... many many more years and a youthful life in every way possible
Sometimes we are moving by taking some steps some steps which we expect to be highly beneficial but is not material but it gives knowledge.
Staying positive will open up many ideas so that the knowledge what we gain can be used
Happy seing you again .. god bless you .
Hi Brian, thanks for the insight. Today I lost money because of a mistake I been making recurrently. Your words are always a source of motivation. Thanks.
I decided to try something new with my most recent job. I was a bit more trusting and open, even though I'm usually a very cautious person. I was trying to overcome my natural anxiety. I didn't realize my anxiety was actually serving to motivate me. Without it, I became far less competitive and my performance tanked. I understood my mistake almost right away and I'm grateful for the lesson but it's very hard-won, considering the cost.
Thank you for this information !
Thank you so much !!
Hi Brian nice to see you again. Thank you always for your words. It’s my breakfast
You’re my rockstar BT !!
God bless you thank you very much sir
Great, I learnt to be fast and quick and not waste time.
Yesterday, I had an Olympiad, and yes I failed. I made big stupid and childish mistakes. I learned that I have to practice more. The only reason why I failed is me who did not practice enough. I hardly accepted this, thanks Brian. It is great process designed for a greater accomplishment.
By mistake I click on your video...Learn many unexplainable things...Thank you Mister❤
Thank-you sir
Obstacle = Opportunity
Wow, this video was so informative! You have a unique way of explaining things. Keep it up!
I trusted someone close and he manipulated me and destroyed my business. I learned to take things seriously, study courses in accounting, focus more on my life/ health/ finance, and work harder on my confidence.
I’m not finished yet from my goals, but I keep learning which is the best thing ever happened to me.
Quit job when I had a huge salary. I learned that having a job or money or career isn't the only measure of success and happiness at every stage of life.
Thanks for helping us 🥰
Thank you
This guy is brilliant
I really benefited from the part about cutting your losses. Thanks
Glad it helped.
I loveyou Brian ❤️❤️❤️ thank you
With every failure comes an equivalent wave of success !
Hello!Sir Brian im one your avid fan and consider you as one of my mentor...i took a job which i didn't like it just to survive for financial need that's my biggest mistake that i did to my life...thank you so much Sir for your generous sending me emails have a wonderful day
Brian Tracy is most interesting man in the world
He is like the wise caring grandfather you always dream to have
I've listened to him for a minute and already I can tell ya he's brilliant
my favorite Brain tracy...
That's the most important lessons in life! Children should be taught it at school:)
Thank you so much!!!
p.s. Sadly, I don't have a single person who I can disclose my mistakes to...(who wouldn't judge or use it against me in the future)
This video came at the right time
At a big job interview right before graduating college, I told my interviewer from a major bank that one day I was going to be the Chairman of the Federal Reserve Bank. She said that's a lofty goal and asked what my plan was to achieve it. I had NO ANSWER to her question and my bravado probably cost me a job. The short term lesson I learned was to be humble, don't brag, and don't boast. Longer term, the lesson I learned is to develop solid plans to reach my goals and to be able to review my progress and make any changes that are necessary.
So happy to see you back! I thought you quit....
*The thing that I got from his video is about how to handle failure :
• Disclose yourself to at least one person
• Remain positive
• Cut your loses
• Learn from your mistakes and improve
I make new mistakes everyday and try not to repeat the old mistake
The mistake that I learned from is not to care alot about the people who I gave love and care and weren't faithful enough to give it back , it actually gave me the sense of not to wait for them to give it back because it might slow me down from achieving my goals in life.
more than helpful
i get stressed when i fail to submit homework
but i should ACCEPT this failure as i CHOOSE other tasks and sports over homework, That is, when not doing homework is purely my choice, then, failure to submit it on time should not be a matter of guilt and stress for me.
(this is what my teacher said when i shared it with him after watching you video)
thank you Brian, you're a great help
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I am 40 years old and never knew what I really wanted in life untill now, it was just the way I was brought up, now I am learning as much as I can through books, these kinds of videos and so much more free stuff on the internet to increase my financial income and become truly financially independent before I turn 55, with God's will. God bless you Mr. Tracy. And every one else.
Yes, good luck to you!
Thank you both very much
Thanks
Great smile!
Thanks brain.
This man is the goat 🐐
And also I should keep pushing myself forward maybe work harder towards my goals and dream life
If you fail to get the job you want, don't tear yourself down. I always looked at it as dodging a bullet, leaving me free to find bigger, better opportunities. Time to celebrate, not feel down and out.
That is a great way of looking at it, Ted. Accepting failure and using it to propel you to even greater success will be better for you in the long run, as it spurs you forward and fans the flames for better success in the future. czcams.com/video/Q7Pv3k_rjlA/video.html
I just failed at something. I spent two months building a video for healing adults who witnessed domestic abuse a sa child. And after I launched it, it failed. The beautiful thing is for the first time I didn't let this failure bother me. I actually moved on to the next task force. It is amazing :)
Another great video
It's very helpful suggestions to overcome failure thank you so much sir 😊😊👍👏👏💞👏👏👌
thanks
Thank you 🌹 🌸 I am learning how to stay positive when I failed.
One of my failure : to find a job in chemistry after I finished my studies.
Because I failed to find a job in my field, I lost courage and I started seeing myself negatively.
Because I had many problems because I was unemployed, I went to work in IT. A field that I don't like.
It was also a period that I cumulated failures after failures.
Because I am still injured by all of these failures, because I identified myself as a failure, I cannot say for now what I learned. I have to switch my perspective first. I know with my intelligence that I learnt from failure but emotionally it is not the same understanding
Rose-Marline SIDNEY Hello! My grandmother always read this poem to us called start where you stand. So many of us have ended up working in areas that are not our areas of gifting, interest or passion. It is never too late to start where you stand. I say be encouraged, know that you are walking the same path that others are walking as well and just be willing to take a step.
Two years, 5 years, 10 years are going to come and pass regardless of if you make an effort to start taking little steps toward walking in the career path that you are interested in.
Wouldn’t you rather have the 2 years, 5 years, 10 years come and you are enjoying your day-to-day life? I am in the same process as you right now and it is not always easy but progress is fantastic big and small. I think what you have to contribute in your desired career makes a difference. I encourage you to make it a go!
@@pauletteb.9652 wow thanks a lot for your words. U encouraged my soul. I will read it again and again. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you 🌹 🌸 U're a blessing! 💖 🎉 I also encourage you in your own path to reach your goals. Thank you 🌹
Thanks very much more than this 🌹🌹💐💐🌹🌹💐💐🌹🌹
Really I feel so good to hear from you.. but I want be a super star in selling.. through in tough market
Good morning Brian. I have gained immensely from your book “Maximum Achievement “ when I was in crisis way back.. but recently due to very toxic professional environment and politics I had to leave the organisation. Since then I have tried every bit to hand myself an opportunity and have kept a positive attitude towards the situation( by utilising the time to dabble in learning, upgrading myself)...I am yet to get anything positive. May be I am not being effective. May I please have your guidance to better my confidence and esteem. There seems to be no end to the chasm since it started 4 months back.
This video has changed my life! I’ve found the secret in “Think and Grow Rich” now it’s time to take action and apply myself more now. I’ve been thinking too much; now it’s time to grow rich!
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Many years ago, I had a bad experience with a horrible driving instructor. Then I failed my theory driving test. I should've learned from my mistakes and tried again. Instead I gave up on learning to drive. That was ten years ago.
Two years ago, I renewed my learner's licence. Last year, I passed the theory test. This year, I might finally have my driving licence. If I fail, I'll try again and again until I pass. I won't give up this time.
Dont say might, say I will pass, if you believe it, you will do it. Your thoughts become your reality
@@cherishedautos Thanks. I WILL pass! :-)
@@cherishedautos Thanks for being so positive. I failed twice but passed today!
I failed twice but passed today!
You're such a great mentor Mr. Tracy!
I listened to my parents but didnt listen to my heart. I always gave priority to others and expected from them but didnt invest to keep my own mind happy.
Take action and take action now!!!
My teacher; Brain Tracy.
Why, thank you!
I fell in love with a man that I put my trust in. I thought I had found a man that was my friend lover and soul mate. He turned out to be non of those things. I found out after many years and even after he had betrayed me in 2018 I forgave him, I put my faith in him to be the man I met from the start. This was a big mistake, he took advantage of that and as I was recovering my confidence and self esteem in 2020 he terminated our relationship to run into the arms of an old flame. I learned never ever give up on your life or your purpose for anyone and never for a man that will dismiss your beliefs and ideas, and you end up being dependent on them.
I haven’t been making the same mistake for years. I keep putting my foot in my mouth. I say things that seem to be too abrupt or abrasive for children or adults. I need a way to practice more rational and effective communication so that all of my clients and customers, audience members will like me instead of being afraid of what I might say next.
Inspiring! It is true we can benefit from our failures and learn from our mistakes. Having a positive view of the world can really lift us up whenever life pushes us down or if something doesn't go according to our plans, a positive mindset will help us push through. Pick ourselves up and keep moving forward. Success is not linear, the journey is tough, but we can find opportunity in our failures!
Awesome video, every young entrepreneur should watch this. :)
Totally agree with you, Brian! Thanks for this!!
Hello from Russia, I respect a Brain Tracy becouse his information have a structure. I only learning English now and I can to make mistakes howewer thank you for information, have you nice day
Not taking care of my health. Overworked myself and didn't sleep enough. That led me down a long road of depression and physical problems. Make sure to stay healthy!
March to victory or march to defeat. But go forward. Only forward.
What did I learn?keeping to survive and thrive the way I used to in my childhood at least I was confident and willing to share stories with people I'm gonna get this straight everyone is brave at the childhood because I was running around playing superheroes like wonder woman,spider man,supergirl etc
Oh Mr.Brian Tracy... I've failed so much I don't know how to get up from that. I'm trying though not given up yet.
Nice sir
Listening to the wrong people. That was one big mistake for me. Unlike Mr Tracy , some people give out advice when they have no experience, knowledge or skill in that area.
Brian Tracy has changed my life. I have triple my income and been a better person since I started following his wisdom.
Listen to his programs wile you drive. Buy his books and but into action what he says. The extra time and money you will have as the result will prove to you what I already know.
Thank you Brian for telling me I can do it, when I met you. Be Well Al H