Bigender TikToks - Pride day 17

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  • Bigender TikToks - Pride day 17
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Komentáře • 169

  • @ellabella001
    @ellabella001  Před 2 lety +75

    I apologize for the later upload!

    • @shyanimeboi
      @shyanimeboi Před 2 lety +5

      What are ur pronouns?

    • @Yuna_2291
      @Yuna_2291 Před 2 lety +5

      Yeah what are ur pronouns and sexuality

    • @ellabella001
      @ellabella001  Před 2 lety +8

      @@shyanimeboi she/her at the moment! Yours? Edit: any pronouns suits better I think

    • @ellabella001
      @ellabella001  Před 2 lety +7

      @@Yuna_2291 she/her and I am aroace (aromantic asexual) :) wbu? Also edit: any pronouns are fine aswell.

    • @ellabella001
      @ellabella001  Před 2 lety +3

      @@shyanimeboi Nice! I'll try to remember your pronouns 💛

  • @HumanHuman-fe8rc
    @HumanHuman-fe8rc Před 2 lety +100

    Being bi-gender:
    *”I want to cut my hair short and dress more masculine”*
    Two minutes later: I want to wear that red dress tomorrow! 😃

    • @MrPerfect_Pokemon
      @MrPerfect_Pokemon Před rokem +6

      Lol, relatable.
      Unfortunately I'm not out yet. I have been wanting to come out for a long time, but every time when I want to do it I just don't do it becouse I get scared.😕

    • @yumerepaint8287
      @yumerepaint8287 Před rokem +6

      Same, but for me it's like, I want to be/feel like I am a long haired boy who dresses like a 18th century dandy, who sometimes wears dresses, and I sometimes want to be / feel like I am a girl with short hair, either feel mostly masculine or mostly feminine as a girl depending on the day, and sometimes I feel like both at the same time, so anything goes!!!

    • @serenityhartwig999
      @serenityhartwig999 Před rokem

      Sameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

    • @K33TOPTRIS
      @K33TOPTRIS Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@yumerepaint8287reeeeaaaaaaaalllllllll

    • @cinnademon
      @cinnademon Před 8 měsíci

      Shit now I don't know if I'm bigender or genderfluid lol

  • @danielladanielwth30nlylumi2

    I recently came out as bigender (male and female), so I've been looking for videos like this one to help better understand my gender identity, and to see it celebrated.

    • @MrPerfect_Pokemon
      @MrPerfect_Pokemon Před rokem +5

      Congratz! People don't say that much when someone comes out. But I'll say it, becouse it is something that many people are scared of.
      I'm Bigender myself. I did come out to my parents (Kinda) But I stopped talking about it, becouse it is like Genderfluid for me, but also not. The one moment you feel a boy, the other moment a girl.
      Well, I got confused for a month, and now I'm to scared to come out again.
      It is just hard to understand.😕q

    • @danielladanielwth30nlylumi2
      @danielladanielwth30nlylumi2 Před rokem +3

      @@MrPerfect_Pokemon Thank you! Well, we're not always going to fully understand our genders immediately. I am bigender, but there are some days and situations where I feel more like a girl, and others where I feel more like a boy, and it's taken me a long time to understand this. I think that the best thing to do is to let time pass and let how you feel about your gender change with it, and to not put yourself in a box. I am sorry that it's been so confusing for you, though, and know that regardless of what gender you feel you are, it is valid. 🙂

    • @MrPerfect_Pokemon
      @MrPerfect_Pokemon Před rokem +2

      @@danielladanielwth30nlylumi2 Thanks for the comment, made me feel better.😃
      The hardest part for me is, that I have been struggling with it for the past 5 years.
      I have said to myself that I would come out last year at national comming out day, or on purple Friday. But I got scared.
      I wanted to do that this year too. But I didn't do it for the same reason.
      For me I think the hardest part is comming out. I want to, but don't know how.

    • @danielladanielwth30nlylumi2
      @danielladanielwth30nlylumi2 Před rokem +1

      @@MrPerfect_Pokemon As I said, these things take time, so if you feel like you can't come out yet, as much as you want to, you should wait until you feel like you can. I really am sorry that you've been struggling with this for so long, and I don't know how to help you when it comes to coming out, but regardless of what you do, only come out to people you know you can trust, and know that you have my full support. 🙂

    • @MrPerfect_Pokemon
      @MrPerfect_Pokemon Před rokem +2

      @@danielladanielwth30nlylumi2 I think you are right that I have to wait until I feel comfortable.
      Thanks for the comments! I'm happy that I can talk about it online.😁

  • @Olivergardenyuh
    @Olivergardenyuh Před 2 lety +87

    I thought my gender would never be done I already am getting serotonin

  • @ryuudrazyl5330
    @ryuudrazyl5330 Před 2 lety +30

    I'm a bigender witch and there is only one person in my life that supports me being myself. Never be afraid to be proud of who you are because there will always be someone out there who will cheer for you.

  • @becca2805
    @becca2805 Před 2 lety +28

    Finally, some people who understand it. I identify as a female and non-binary but I like to dress "masculine"

    • @itssashvlogs7578
      @itssashvlogs7578 Před 11 měsíci +1

      same but im male and non binary sometimes i like to dress fem

  • @failedfairytales22
    @failedfairytales22 Před 2 lety +76

    It's stupid how giddy it made me to see a bigender video(I'm bigender if you couldn't tell by that lol) thank you for posting.
    And honestly just thanks for posting all this pride. I hope you're doing well

  • @strawberriezzz2
    @strawberriezzz2 Před 2 lety +79

    Yay thank you for doing bigender not many people actually do bigender because some people don’t know what it is or it’s not one of the most talked about identitys!! Which is disappointing because i think I may be bigender but my friends didn’t understand what that ment. :/
    I love your videos btw ☺️

    • @ellabella001
      @ellabella001  Před 2 lety +4

      No problem! I hope your friends understand it, but anyway you deserve to be whoever you are. Happy pride

    • @strawberriezzz2
      @strawberriezzz2 Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you guys :)

    • @jianusollmann1844
      @jianusollmann1844 Před rokem +1

      Is there a difference between bigender (girl+agender) and demigirl (girl+agender)?

    • @strawberriezzz2
      @strawberriezzz2 Před rokem +3

      @@jianusollmann1844 I’m not sure there is a huge difference but I think personally you can use whatever term you like, or you don’t even have to have a term! You can just exist lol

    • @jianusollmann1844
      @jianusollmann1844 Před rokem +1

      @@strawberriezzz2 thank you for the answer! I guess I'm gonna stick with demigirl then. I was just wondering lol.

  • @jennabishop9597
    @jennabishop9597 Před rokem +15

    promised myself i would never question my gender identity bc of my family’s homophobia from when i came out (lesbian). guess you can’t wish away the inevitable. thank you for the video, really helped me be educated on being bigender. stay strong to anyone else coming out right now, it gets better, you are loved❤️

  • @makotomodachi
    @makotomodachi Před 2 lety +62

    Thanks for taking my suggestion on Discord. I'm bigender myself and I loved watching this comp as I feel represented.

    • @ellabella001
      @ellabella001  Před 2 lety +6

      You deserve the recognision! Happy pride

  • @Squidy-keiran
    @Squidy-keiran Před rokem +5

    As a bigender lesbian I am happy

  • @deathgirl388
    @deathgirl388 Před 2 lety +15

    THERES A FRICKING WORD FOR IT? I THOUGHT I WAS JUST CRAZY TO THINK I COULD BE A GIRL AND NON-BINARY!

  • @arandomdirectioner3568
    @arandomdirectioner3568 Před 2 lety +21

    6:27 I live for the pride cakes! Make me so happy for some reason

    • @ellabella001
      @ellabella001  Před 2 lety +1

      Me too haha

    • @arandomdirectioner3568
      @arandomdirectioner3568 Před 2 lety

      @suhani yeah, maybe haha Cake is soo delicious tho like omg you gotta love a nice cake. Maybe I also love garlic bread cuz I'm ace haha

  • @valerial9081
    @valerial9081 Před 2 lety +14

    Hiiiiiiiii
    After having a gender crisis for over a year, I think I'm confident to say I'm bigender 😃
    I've always went with she/her but want to try he/him to see if I'm comfortable with it

    • @sparkstudios2036
      @sparkstudios2036 Před rokem +3

      Literary the same I felt like a girl one day and non binary the next I ended up learning about bigender I ended up being trigender

    • @MrPerfect_Pokemon
      @MrPerfect_Pokemon Před rokem +2

      @@sparkstudios2036 Can relate to it.
      I ended up confused. Becouse I know I'm Bigender, but Sometimes I don't have dysphoria for a month straight. And then it comes back.
      I'm just scared that I'm wrong. But I also want to come out.
      I have come out to my parents and they support me, but I haven't talked about it for I think 3 months now.
      And I think they also forgot about it and think that it is just a part of a depression.
      I think I have to talk to my parents about it again, and tell them I need help, becouse I can't handel this on my own anymore.😥
      (Sorry for the big amount of emotion. It happens when I'm typing.)

  • @uwu-vs3cz
    @uwu-vs3cz Před 2 lety +49

    happy pride month everyone
    From your aromatic, non binary and pansexual friend known as me :)

    • @ellabella001
      @ellabella001  Před 2 lety +4

      Happy pride!

    • @uwu-vs3cz
      @uwu-vs3cz Před 2 lety +2

      @@ellabella001 thank you ,you to I use they/them pronouns may I ask what to be friends

    • @ellabella001
      @ellabella001  Před 2 lety +3

      @@uwu-vs3cz Cool! Do mean you want to be friends? If so, yeah!

    • @uwu-vs3cz
      @uwu-vs3cz Před 2 lety +2

      Oh, well I say may I ask instead of do I but yeah :)

    • @ellabella001
      @ellabella001  Před 2 lety +1

      @@uwu-vs3cz Ahh okay!

  • @dorky5598
    @dorky5598 Před 2 lety +15

    Took a quick glance at the title and thought it said "big gender" 😭💀💀 anyways love this vid lmao

  • @PunkMycology
    @PunkMycology Před 2 lety +13

    Happy pride!!!!

  • @Rainbow_Heart
    @Rainbow_Heart Před 2 lety +8

    Okay I was gonna be happy & thank u for the representation & subscribe, but I’m already subscribed….
    But still thank u! I know there’s many other Bigender people around who probably don’t expect to get that much representation, yet here you are, and here’s this
    Thanks buster!!

  • @readyainefire9706
    @readyainefire9706 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you thank you thank you I’ve only seen just a little bit of Bigender TikTok’s and not a lot of people know about it, when I see these videos on bigender it makes me feel like I exist thank you so so so much and I hope you have an absolute amazing day every time you read this comment

  • @IHazMunchies91
    @IHazMunchies91 Před rokem +4

    I feel at times I am both genders. And I've rarely heard Bi-gender and want more representation honestly. 🥺

  • @KawaiiCat2
    @KawaiiCat2 Před rokem +2

    I live in the LA area and have been to all the major pride events in the area including WeHo Pride, LA Pride, etc. Out of all the events I only saw one bigender flag and that was at the WeHo Pride flag booth. I’m always constantly educating people and it’s tiring. I haven’t met anyone who is bigender in person yet. I’m constantly educating places that two spirit is technically bigender but isn’t appropriate to use if you aren’t Native American. But I do carry my bigender flag as a cape to all the events and have educated a lot of folks by just being visible and I’m pourd of it!

  • @-MistytheYT-
    @-MistytheYT- Před měsícem +2

    OMG ITS SO RELATED TO ME WITH THE BIGENDER PROBLEM!
    I HAVE A BOY LIKE HAIRCUT AND DRESS LIKE BOY AND GIRL MIXED,PEOPLE THEN QUESTION IF IM GIRL OR BOY, I OFTEN SAY GIRL BC IM AFRAID TO TELL THEM THAT IM BIGENDER-

  • @Bibobthebuild3r
    @Bibobthebuild3r Před 2 lety +8

    I’m here to find my gender just wanted to let yall know idk why
    Edit/update I’m bigender sllllllaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyy

  • @MushNathan000
    @MushNathan000 Před rokem +2

    As a bigender person, I'm glad this compaltion made me smile :)

  • @trashcan1432
    @trashcan1432 Před 2 lety +4

    3:56 my line of thought

  • @-blanket-bundle-
    @-blanket-bundle- Před rokem +4

    I'm bi-gender, bisexual and...
    Bi myself ✨✨✨✨

  • @joseanrodriguez-ux1wh
    @joseanrodriguez-ux1wh Před 7 měsíci

    I become a bigender for both of women and men too!, when I was 13 year old!, I love to learned to be respect to another peoples in the world!!! 🌎❤️🏳️‍🌈!

  • @ericab65
    @ericab65 Před 9 měsíci +1

    3:47 that was in the exact order of identities that i went through 😅😅

  • @Scarlexthedemonwolf
    @Scarlexthedemonwolf Před 3 měsíci

    These tiktoks help me so much as a bigender person I sometimes feel dysphoria and feel i am not valid I got laughed at by my friends because I said I feel like a guy and a girl and it kinda hurt

    • @Scarlexthedemonwolf
      @Scarlexthedemonwolf Před 3 měsíci

      But than I remembered I shouldn't listen to them and keep being myself as I'm happy with identifying that way and shouldnt feel ashamed of myself

  • @JoyfulIsAnOctopus
    @JoyfulIsAnOctopus Před 11 měsíci

    Love the I/Me/Myself. Its by my favorite song artist, Will Wood

  • @idleteen4276
    @idleteen4276 Před rokem +1

    YES GIRLS BY MARINA IS THE BIGENDER SONG

  • @ImBiBitch4u.
    @ImBiBitch4u. Před rokem +2

    I just love this💖 I just discovered that I was bigender and I'm also bisexual which is cool 💖💜💙

  • @ghitamae6952
    @ghitamae6952 Před 9 měsíci +2

    The bigender tears literally gave me goosebumps. I didn't know my body could have a physical reaction over art like that.

  • @-MistytheYT-
    @-MistytheYT- Před měsícem +2

    I'm m a bigender and i use multiple pronouns:
    She/them
    They/them
    Xe/xem
    Zi/zer

  • @bigbrainalien3403
    @bigbrainalien3403 Před 5 měsíci

    Bigender is a seriously under reported gender experience. Gen V is a major step in the representation of bigenderness

  • @CJP_Chan
    @CJP_Chan Před měsícem +2

    I'm bigender and I just came out both female and non-binary

  • @jesusthewhore659
    @jesusthewhore659 Před rokem +1

    pov: youre trying to see if you're bigender and watching this to see if you relate

  • @A_Simpxx
    @A_Simpxx Před rokem

    The first tiktok is facts

  • @Alejandro-eq7xq
    @Alejandro-eq7xq Před 2 lety +3

    I feel bad for that one person who lost over 1000 followers for posting a video about being non-binary. Like, what the hell is wrong with those people?

  • @jamarstroud7303
    @jamarstroud7303 Před 2 lety +4

    It’s ok I just thought you thought it was the 17th

  • @--idom3thehehhehe
    @--idom3thehehhehe Před rokem

    I've been bigender, and I've never realized it until a year ago.

  • @__dumpsterfiree
    @__dumpsterfiree Před rokem +1

    3:13 Yooo toh edit

  • @ehmiystudios
    @ehmiystudios Před rokem +1

    im questioning again and i might be bigender 😭😭

  • @aprilmccommon3608
    @aprilmccommon3608 Před 2 lety +1

    I think I now know my idenity

  • @sleepybear666
    @sleepybear666 Před 2 lety +10

    Ellabella pronouns?

  • @LeonHenderson-cx8cu
    @LeonHenderson-cx8cu Před 10 měsíci +1

    I’m bigender and haven’t come out yet because I’m scared and everyone I know is against lgbtq except my family and friends

  • @sparkstudios2036
    @sparkstudios2036 Před rokem +1

    Yayy bigender is getting recognized not allot of people knot about it ( I'm trigender in case you didn't know)

  • @JazzOLantern
    @JazzOLantern Před rokem

    Just recently discovered this about myself.

  • @aqua3890
    @aqua3890 Před 5 měsíci

    The first girl so cute. I'd date 100%

  • @Sophie-oq7wx
    @Sophie-oq7wx Před rokem +2

    Wait can someone confirm the bigender flag? I’ve seen 3 diff ones ;-;

  • @SALORISMS
    @SALORISMS Před rokem +2

    i identified as bigender for some time, but when certain friends kept Only calling me a girl it hurt yknow? i thought i was trans for a while after that but now i identify as bigender again, i do like being a girl and being feminine but only being seen as that is a No. good vid tho!

  • @grandmastermario3695
    @grandmastermario3695 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I'm bigender both male and female but only in private, just can't risk having negativety

  • @fridaydokifan
    @fridaydokifan Před 11 měsíci

    when someone asks me, "are you male or female?", I now simply tell them, "yes."

  • @jamarstroud7303
    @jamarstroud7303 Před 2 lety +4

    It’s the 18 actually

    • @ellabella001
      @ellabella001  Před 2 lety

      Yeah but this is the video from yesterday 💛

  • @darkgalaxy5548
    @darkgalaxy5548 Před rokem +1

    Is a big-ender anything like a 2 spirit penguin.

  • @LukeSilver-fe7iv
    @LukeSilver-fe7iv Před rokem

    Can you feel both at the same time

  • @melvinsimping1406
    @melvinsimping1406 Před rokem +2

    Can someone please tell me if gay people can like bigender people??
    (Please I’m crying right now/hj)
    ((I’m bigender but I discovered that yesterday and I want to know))

  • @tyjahnedorsey907
    @tyjahnedorsey907 Před rokem +2

    Soooo i might be bigender cause i feel that i am a girl and non binary at the same but also in waves so idk at this point

  • @guisorefrito5927
    @guisorefrito5927 Před 2 lety +1

    MEEE

  • @Raygeouspigeon
    @Raygeouspigeon Před 3 měsíci +1

    To describe where I am right now, you know heartstopper? (spoiler) when Imogen gets a crush on that girl? I’ve seen a post on Pinterest saying “girl allied to hard”.
    They did, didn’t she… that pan allying person that pushed down their feelings for way too long seems to be bigender.
    But I’ve got a crush on my non binary friend (that’s the one person I want to talk with about this) and I told them about my feelings, they don’t feel the same and now I need to take some distance for a while and pray to god that we can still make our friendship work after that. So now I try to get some comfort from CZcams. Hi :)

    • @Raygeouspigeon
      @Raygeouspigeon Před 3 měsíci

      Casually spilling some drama on CZcams at 00:56 am on a Wednesday when I have to get up early check

    • @Raygeouspigeon
      @Raygeouspigeon Před 3 měsíci

      PS: I don’t want to be alone but it’s scary talking with other friends about this. I feel so comfortable talking to my friend. My cis and trans friends both would be understanding. And it’s not like I’m not friends with other enbys. I just don’t feel ready yet to talk to anyone except for them and one other friend and I guess what I’m writing is a mess, I’m tired but I don’t want sleep. If anyone actually should read this: thank you. I’m an atheist and it’s the second time I mention god now but I feel like saying god bless you. I need sleep ok bye

    • @cutiepiepanini
      @cutiepiepanini Před měsícem

      ​@@Raygeouspigeon saying god bless you if you're an athiest is disrespectful

    • @Raygeouspigeon
      @Raygeouspigeon Před měsícem

      @@cutiepiepanini I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to be disrespectful

  • @ajslamander9828
    @ajslamander9828 Před rokem

    i meant to like not dislike!

  • @RiceTrees
    @RiceTrees Před rokem +2

    5:16

  • @-tingling-balls-asmr
    @-tingling-balls-asmr Před rokem

    I think I finally figured out my gender

  • @jamarstroud7303
    @jamarstroud7303 Před 2 lety +1

    It’s the 18

  • @S0FIATH3CL0WN
    @S0FIATH3CL0WN Před 10 měsíci

    me irl

  • @Fcyre
    @Fcyre Před rokem +1

    I go by girl in minecraft and boy irl

  • @jaxonthefox
    @jaxonthefox Před rokem

    🔋💚🤍💕👄
    👄💗💜🤍💜🗳💙

  • @i95jss
    @i95jss Před rokem

    3:57 yeeeeeeeeea

  • @bee2596
    @bee2596 Před rokem +1

    Pov: You're trying to figure out if you're nonbinary or bigender but right now you just feel like a mass of crap.

  • @sreyarnair
    @sreyarnair Před rokem +2

    I'm having gender dysphoria..don't know if I'm a girl or bigender ...

  • @Autiee209
    @Autiee209 Před rokem +1

    Im having this question in my head, am i still bigender if i rarely/sometimes express my other gender? Cuz I sometimes feels like i wanna be a male but still wanna remain as female
    Pls help im genuinely confused

    • @SALORISMS
      @SALORISMS Před rokem +1

      yeah! give it some time and think about why u do wanna be the opposite gender, thinking like that could give u more insight on how you identify and why, Wish u the best of luck!!

  • @AlexanderHamiltonTheOG

    ATTENTION!⚠️
    I AM LOOKING FOR MY FRIEND TORI, WHO I HAVENT SEEN IN A YEAR.
    THEY ARE BIGENDER AND GAY.
    TORI ARE YOU HEREEE😭

  • @uekibachi9780
    @uekibachi9780 Před rokem +2

    Can I be bigender ( boy and girl ) AND a demiboy, both at the same time, without being trigender?

  • @RiceTrees
    @RiceTrees Před rokem

    3:57

  • @TinmanNSM
    @TinmanNSM Před rokem

    Do you have to be born bigender? (Pls answer my question by replying)

  • @Kamilp03
    @Kamilp03 Před rokem +1

    I identify as demiboy and demigirl

  • @furryempath9619
    @furryempath9619 Před rokem +1

    I'm bigender. A FEMALE and an azurgirl I think. :>.

  • @lee.puppet
    @lee.puppet Před 6 měsíci

    I have two questions, first Can someone explain what bigender really means in easy words? Second is bigender also that someone is physically a female but somehow feels like a boy? What I mean is when someone is a female but also feels like a man but doesn’t want to be a man but does feel that. Is there different types of bigender or possibility?

    • @lee.puppet
      @lee.puppet Před 6 měsíci

      Sorry if there are more than two questions

  • @Kamilp03
    @Kamilp03 Před rokem

    If I was both agender and genderfluid would I still be considered bigender

  • @thecraftypotato3621
    @thecraftypotato3621 Před rokem

    Just want to put it out there that the original flags creatervwas very problematic and to please please use one of the many redesigns!

  • @jugodepatas
    @jugodepatas Před 2 lety

    Me

  • @-Whoknows-oy7ki
    @-Whoknows-oy7ki Před 3 měsíci

    What would it be if you feel like a boy and a girl?

    • @kuki2800
      @kuki2800 Před 9 dny

      bigender? what-

    • @-Whoknows-oy7ki
      @-Whoknows-oy7ki Před 9 dny

      @@kuki2800 wait sorry I don't even know what I typed there 😅

    • @kuki2800
      @kuki2800 Před 9 dny

      @@-Whoknows-oy7ki its okay! (happens to me way too often too lol)

  • @TheybornInTheSnow
    @TheybornInTheSnow Před rokem

    I identify as male, female, and nonbinary. 🤞

  • @avalongaisbauer8501
    @avalongaisbauer8501 Před rokem

    By Spirit -
    As a bigender male and female, I approve. However, I don't like the problematic original bigender flag.

  • @ysoserious4356
    @ysoserious4356 Před rokem

    Can someone please tell me the difference b/w bi gender and genderfluid??😊

    • @SALORISMS
      @SALORISMS Před rokem

      bigender means two genders! while genderfluid could be a variety of genders not just two

    • @ysoserious4356
      @ysoserious4356 Před rokem +1

      @@SALORISMS ty 😊

    • @SALORISMS
      @SALORISMS Před rokem

      @@ysoserious4356 ofc! 🤝

  • @freebeerishere
    @freebeerishere Před rokem

    I thought bigender was 2 or more genders similar to how bisexual is two or more?

  • @Nellie769
    @Nellie769 Před rokem

    Trump 2024💗💗

  • @ChristianKhan-yj6sw
    @ChristianKhan-yj6sw Před 11 měsíci

    All these kids are just extreme narcissists