You're not NICE, you're ENTITLED.

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Komentáře • 35

  • @noriking1467
    @noriking1467 Před rokem +31

    This is awesome, great to see sg youtubers like you sharing all vulnerable things that guys go thru, i feel that no one talked abt it

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  Před rokem +5

      Tbh I don't think it does too well in the local space, means no one's really found a format that works. Men, Explain seems like the most likely series that covers these topics

    • @noriking1467
      @noriking1467 Před rokem +1

      @@Dargoyaki yeah, but this is awesome to see like male starting the conversation first ! :) great start uh

  • @kristina4894
    @kristina4894 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Here bc of buzz feed. Saving for sharing later. Thank you for being open about your experiences and sharing your journey

  • @veergala9751
    @veergala9751 Před rokem +4

    Thank you so much for this video , can't express how much I appreciate this

  • @sidatl152
    @sidatl152 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Yup. Nice guys finish last. Common courtesy and being respectful is a good start. I used to laugh at the phrase GTL from the show Jersey Shore, but it made sense (gym, tan, laundry). Also, be knowledgeable and supportive of other people's interest.

  • @MebiManga
    @MebiManga Před rokem +3

    Churning out banger videos about personal stuff, and love your B rolls too.

  • @shyviking
    @shyviking Před 9 měsíci +1

    That has to be some of the best and most honest content, I have seen on the net for a long time.
    Most guys probably have a least a little sliver of "nice guy" in them. And yes; I agree with Dargoyaki - get rid of that.

  • @x22578
    @x22578 Před 11 měsíci +3

    so refreshing to see such a self-aware take from a guy! keep it up man

  • @ExtraLivesMusic
    @ExtraLivesMusic Před 9 měsíci +2

    Loved this video, loved the video game music you used to score it even more!

  • @cy3970
    @cy3970 Před rokem +2

    dude i fking love your channel. you’re so real, pls keep the channel up 🫶

    • @cy3970
      @cy3970 Před rokem

      the one abt guy friends too also hit deep, dk how u do it but u don’t miss

  • @reviewfreak66
    @reviewfreak66 Před rokem +10

    This just proves that in the scene of dating physical looks still trumps personality.☹️
    Also I feel just because u didn’t dated at all in middle/high school u should think lowly of yourself or brand yourself as a loser. You are more than just that date/Exgf count. You can suck at getting dates but be exceptional at sth else. I think it is more important for teens to realise different people excel at different things and getting dates is just one of the many things. And from there work on their strong points to built that confidence.

  • @BANGWJ
    @BANGWJ Před rokem +1

    2023 IS DA YEAR

  • @ZandraKim
    @ZandraKim Před 9 měsíci +3

    I’m cis-gender female and 65… I’m here because BuzzFeed posted this today. I can say with certainty that I behaved the same way from lack of confidence almost all my life - it’s not just males that suffer in this way.
    I do believe they may suffer more in some ways than women do, though. Cliché maybe, but the struggle is REAL. Great work, Dargoyaki! 👩🏻‍🦳

  • @silverchairsg
    @silverchairsg Před rokem +2

    Make a guide for guys on how to talk about feelings (with guys and girls). Like what you mentioned in your previous video.

  • @goghana92
    @goghana92 Před rokem +1

    Nice Zelda BGM

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  Před rokem +1

      Nice catch

    • @larad9180
      @larad9180 Před 11 měsíci

      @@DargoyakiAll the Persona 5 bgm was what I noticed

  • @psychiatry-is-eugenics
    @psychiatry-is-eugenics Před 9 měsíci

    Only thing that really matters

  • @lifesnonintendo
    @lifesnonintendo Před rokem +2

    didnt know you're a nanhuarian as well

  • @AbbieChwann
    @AbbieChwann Před rokem +1

    💛

  • @ysngngys7753
    @ysngngys7753 Před rokem

    ask urself when is the last time u squatted down to talk to kids (when called for)...

  • @astronightsprincess
    @astronightsprincess Před rokem +1

    are u going to find a corporate SWE job or pursue content creation full time?

  • @jaredlowky
    @jaredlowky Před rokem

    so i guess the only way is the to hit the gym get those gains

    • @larad9180
      @larad9180 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Not really. Some women like athletic guys, but there are a lot that couldn’t care less about “gains”.

  • @danielleong7067
    @danielleong7067 Před rokem +1

    Eh I nice guy to my pioneers y no reciprocation

    • @Dargoyaki
      @Dargoyaki  Před rokem +1

      you weren't nice when we bought XDNYJF :(

    • @MebiManga
      @MebiManga Před rokem

      @@Dargoyaki need to write down the trauma sia. Painful memory.

  • @xena2shoes
    @xena2shoes Před 9 měsíci

    I mean, two things can be true at the same time. You can be genuinely nice with no ulterior motives while being disadvantaged by societal norms. And the solution is not to just be happy with self improvement and be content without a relationship. Sure those things are great and highly recommended but that doesn’t solve the problem which is objectively that men are taught by society that being the unattractive good guy gets you little to no romantic attention while being the attractive asshole gets you plenty of it. That’s why you see all of these pick up artist books giving people advice to “neg” the girl of their interest and not compliment them.

  • @ignatiusparadenceremony9242

    Nice guys are like narcissistic like this

  • @laughandbelly
    @laughandbelly Před rokem