Marrying someone you don't love (Full Video) | Nouman Ali Khan | Taqwa and Tawakkul
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- čas přidán 9. 09. 2022
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This is a more indepth video of the discussion of one of the most important and difficult topics dealt with by the new generation. How westernisation has effected our thinking and makes us believe how something haram is halal or can be converted into halal.
Join the prominent speakers. The revolutionary thoughts of Nouman Ali Khan & Omar Suleiman along with Abdul Nasir Jangda on this controversial topic of DATING & MARRIAGE in islam.
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They both have their points. It's easy to say for sure that you just let these people do as they want, but you wouldn't want them to go through so much pain and suffering, as well as have regrets in the end. It is harder to fall in that pit. Taking my experience, I wished I had listened to my mom to not pursue something, like getting married to the man I love, due to some circumstance. It's never too easy going through all the guilt every time. As things progresses, like what Sheikh Omar said, it's like a web that is hard to get out from. For example, you would be thinking about the future of your kids, and so on, and a lot of other factors will hold you back even if you are not happy anymore. Not happy not in a superficial way, but not happy because it is a relationship that is not helping you grow Islamically.
I would also agree with the other Sheikhs, some people, or maybe people like me, just don't get things right the easy way. Thus, the hard way it is for them. Still, that is something to learn from. I learned to make more good choices, I learned to have more consciousness of Allah SWT, I learned to be strong and more. I think I wouldn't be where I am now if I hadn't made mistakes in my life.
May Allah SWT guide us all. Ameen.
11:50 , i think Sheikh Sulaiman at this point is not making aright point ..
Brother nouman is right 👍
If they cannot let eachother go and stay in haraam relationship it's much better to do halal nikah and then get divorced ...parting while in love is painful , no one does that , until they test and try . Divorce is not haraam . If they separate after living fir 3 months in nikah , it's much better than staying 3 months in haraam relation
I see your point, it’s a journey that both parties are destined to go through. At least if both marry, they are striving to correct their wrong.
So according to sulaiman people who have been dating for a few years should not get married because they have already been through the rosy part and would end up getting divorced in a couple of months. If we apply this logic to married couples who never dated then after a few years of bliss they'd end up getting divorced too.
Good point made 👍
U did not understand the concept
no lol
one is in the disobedience towards Allah and the other is not.
mawaddah n rahmah is something you can never ever obtained unless Allah wills it. how can u obtain that if you're in state of disobedience to Allah?
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No they wouldnt. If it was so easy to get out of a marriage, then cowards today wouldnt be avoiding it. It is MUCH MUCH harde to get out of a marriage then it is to get rid of a slut.
No you’re just twisting words lol.
One guy did the halal from the beginning, the other person did the Haram & only did the halal when it benefited him/her. The latter, allah swt was a last resort & hence your marriage will be a last resort to allah swt as well. Don’t be surprised if your Haram marriage turned halal after countless zina won’t work out
Dream team dropping wisdom 🙌
The title is wrong, the content is good
I'm really terrified of the idea of marriage 😢 I'm not young and good suitable " compatible" people are not showing up. And when you're at a certain age you are not ready to compromise the level of wisdom, character ( ofc good character not the bad) and so on if i make sense. Add that to the terrible cultural norms and stereotypes of the society it's definitely a NO NO to marry so easily
سبحان الله وبحمده
سبحان الله العظيم
سبحان الله
الحمد لله
لا إله إلا الله
الله أكبر
ولا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلي العظيم
رب اغفرلي ولوالدي وللمؤمنين يوم يقوم الحساب
Subhanallah
How about discuss " live and let live" people make their own choices decisions and live their own lives stop trying to butt into peoples lives
Assalamo alaikum
I sincerely appreciate all your efforts I'm sorry for asking you this I'm just seeking advice,
Is it OK if I marry someone I don't love for the sake of my parents. ?
Do not marry anyone you do not love unless you are attracted to him. I married a man I did not find attractive or loved, and I have had a stable marriage but I always feel a sadness and depression inside my heart because, I wish I would have married someone I like and someone I love. After 15 years of my marriage I still feel depression and unpleasant feeling towards my husband. Please marry someone you like and that you have feeling for each other. Marriage is a trap we can not get out easy, and if you are with a person you do not love, it is going to be difficult for you in many ways to be happy.
@@erikapereznegron9712 There's a man I used to admire and love but after doing shalah istikharah my feeling changed completely. Now not only I don't like him anymore, I also don't want to see him. The more I do this shalah and ask for Allah's guidance the more I don't want to be with this man. But there's no logical reason as to why I started to dislike him. He didn't do anything wrong. He plans to see me in a few months to propose me. I feel so guilty. What do you think I should do? 🥺
Absolutely no!!! That is a big problem, ask your parent's to marry him!!!
@@erikapereznegron9712 Hi, can I ask you if you’re Muslim?
@@erikapereznegron9712SubhanAllah you exactly described how i feel. Constant sadness inside. I am married for 18 years and exactly, the marriage is a trap - especially when there are kids involved. With time you just come to the point when you see no way out and you just accept the idea that you will hv to live this way till the end of your life. And this grey cloud covers you fully from top to toe. And you dont live but just exist. So, my advice to all single ppl: please, try to marry someone you feel physically attracted to, this will help you to avoid a big personal drama and disaster.