He CHEATED because I did not Satisfy him...It BROKE Me

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Komentáře • 95

  • @SotySpecial
    @SotySpecial Před 2 lety +35

    Loved our energy in this video!! Thanks for having me ❤️

  • @amygraceysdiary007
    @amygraceysdiary007 Před 2 lety +1

    I really enjoyed every part of this! Learned alot too!! Thanks so much Ladies❤️❤️❤️

  • @Chykoli
    @Chykoli Před 2 lety +20

    I relate so well with that time when u just bring out everything the kids love for them and beg them not to bother you. I literally beg and tell them mummy needs a break. Neso is so good with that, she would serve me drinks, cover me with blanket and take everyone to her room.

  • @xo_ijay
    @xo_ijay Před 2 lety +1

    Please we need more of this collab… The reactions to the questions were are on point😊

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries Před 2 lety +1

    So many things learnt in this video👌👌👌❣❣thanks for sharing your opinions and honest answers.

  • @ruthohams
    @ruthohams Před 2 lety +1

    I just finished watching the collab on her channel . Very long video but super interesting. Totally enjoyed 🥰🥰🥰. Plus it was my first time on her channel and I subbed instanta🌹🌹

  • @Toksgg
    @Toksgg Před 2 lety

    I love your straight from the heart answers.

  • @christabelonitiri6522
    @christabelonitiri6522 Před 2 lety +3

    Love the vibe of this video and how different your opinions are...

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet Před 2 lety

    Yes you have to bring something to the table when marriage is concerned. You can also do that while in marriage but don’t just be there without getting something done I mean developing. Yes I know someone though a younger friend she is waiting and doing the baby girl thing.

  • @StellaSylvester
    @StellaSylvester Před 2 lety +1

    This video is so informative. learnt a lot

  • @JenniferAnidu
    @JenniferAnidu Před 2 lety

    Great Q&A I really enjoyed this video so much!

  • @MetrogypsieS
    @MetrogypsieS Před 2 lety +2

    When one married earlier than mid twenties, I don’t think they are referred to as ever being in-waiting sha.

  • @alheri_ebenezer
    @alheri_ebenezer Před rokem

    I really enjoyed watching this video
    I love your conversation

  • @NenyeEze
    @NenyeEze Před 2 lety +1

    Lol the both of you are really similar! She doesn’t sugarcoat anything just like you I likeeee! I can so relate with getting angry and saying shit! Sometimes my mouth lose control when I and my husband gets into argument.
    I don’t believe in cheating back too! To think that I’ve been in the shoes of being cheated! And now it’s like a daily reminder! Cheating breaks a person so so much.

  • @ZIKKIESWORLD
    @ZIKKIESWORLD Před 2 lety +1

    Very interesting and entertaining too.
    Thanks beautiful ladies

  • @ruthohams
    @ruthohams Před 2 lety +3

    I will come low with you and raise up from there Nelo won't wound somebody 😊. When trust is lost, it's hard even for me . But divorce is deep when kids are involved

  • @NazorEzeh
    @NazorEzeh Před 2 lety +2

    Recurring conflicts are too annoying!🤣🤣. I filter my words ooo because my own hubby will take them to heart.
    Exactly! They fling chairs at each other in the house of reps🤣

  • @victoriaobidegwu2208
    @victoriaobidegwu2208 Před 2 lety +3

    Love this video, I’m Nelo in this regard. Most times I ignore actually, till it gets too much or if what he did really pissed me off. Once everyone is in bed i will just go and meet him downstairs and hit him with the line “do you have a moment?” That’s when he knows gbege don occur.

  • @ellanomba1587
    @ellanomba1587 Před rokem

    “I didn’t know I had bad character”😂😂

  • @Giniwonders1
    @Giniwonders1 Před 2 lety +1

    Watched this to the end and learnt a lot! Seriously, for me … Don’t just Cheat.

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet Před 2 lety +5

    Yes humiliation isn’t the problem for me but it is the fact I can’t trust you again. I can be very vindictive so I will get you back.

  • @olamideafolabi5961
    @olamideafolabi5961 Před 2 lety

    Oh! I just love you Nelo😍. I love the vibe of this video, thank you❤️❤️

  • @irenedarkwah6329
    @irenedarkwah6329 Před 2 lety

    Just to appreciate you ladies for all you do. God bless you.

  • @aboutbusinessknowledge5675

    Nelo you're a vibe - I just love your authenticity and I'm pretty that is one of top 3 reasons papa Adanna loves you. Thank you for another engaging video.

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries Před 2 lety +2

    Thank God you put a disclaimer before some people will go open their mouth waaaa and talk anymore and see themselves in their fathers house🤣🤣🤣🏃🏃🏃🏃but lesson learnt talk about issues then allowing it linger for long.

  • @lucyemmanueltv1238
    @lucyemmanueltv1238 Před 2 lety

    This is so lovely I love it 💝😍❤️❤️😍❤️ thank you

  • @blessingkcndeka
    @blessingkcndeka Před 2 lety +1

    I reckoned one improve on self while waiting, I enjoy watching

  • @mubi27
    @mubi27 Před 2 lety

    Great Q&A👏🏾👏🏾😍😍

  • @thethrivespace7743
    @thethrivespace7743 Před 2 lety +1

    You guys are beautiful and I enjoyed this video …love you

  • @ngpeter550
    @ngpeter550 Před 2 lety +1

    The part of sleep to relieve stress works well.... Kudos guys. This was so nice 😍

  • @AmytSpace
    @AmytSpace Před 2 lety

    I also think that in waiting, one should try improving on oneself. This was so much fun watching

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet Před 2 lety

    Sotonye I like when you said nails. I get my nails done because it helps me with stress. I feel like I leave my stress on the nails tech chair when am done with my nails.

  • @juniesiaka1141
    @juniesiaka1141 Před 2 lety

    Love this video

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka Před 2 lety +4

    See if someone cheats, it's going to be hard for the other person to forgive

  • @florenceonuoha9631
    @florenceonuoha9631 Před 2 lety +1

    Same with me ooo, if am upset I will Start cleaning and cooking, but more especially cleaning up my house 🏠 like tomorrow no dey 🤣🤣🤣

  • @misskalonge2932
    @misskalonge2932 Před 2 lety

    The last question the other lady is absolutely correct. This days a lot of people don’t have the patience to wait for someone to change or work on themselves. Also working on yourself before getting into a relationship helps you to know yourself and worth the benefit of doing this is, you can’t be treated less. You know when to walk away when the other person doesn’t appreciate you or treat you right. So find you while waiting you know what you want in a pattern.

  • @TinaIsoa
    @TinaIsoa Před 2 lety +2

    Hmmm cheat I leave period

  • @callygram9236
    @callygram9236 Před 2 lety

    Exactly there are things you can't take back. When my ex husband said I was his biggest mistake" gooosh that was my breaking point.

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka Před 2 lety

    I get mehn.... I feel bad about missing out on some things also

  • @momoftriplets4392
    @momoftriplets4392 Před 2 lety

    Dish it out, we are taking notes

  • @stephnieogbonna7070
    @stephnieogbonna7070 Před 2 lety +1

    Nelo is just me in settling conflict in marriage but sadly my husband doesn’t understand me and things have really gon left

  • @HealthyVeemai
    @HealthyVeemai Před 2 lety

    So much to learn from this video ✅

  • @ella.j
    @ella.j Před 2 lety

    Great content

  • @yummykitchendirect4528

    Sote, you make me laugh that some they just sit down and be waiting, as for me to release the stress l listen to gospel music the volume will be high, l will be cleaning and eat, then l feel ok.

  • @karinawari2864
    @karinawari2864 Před 2 lety

    I love love this

  • @Adeosun_Temitope
    @Adeosun_Temitope Před 2 lety

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @AbujaYummyMummy
    @AbujaYummyMummy Před 2 lety

    I really enjoyed this, nah I cannot
    Even imagine cooking as a form of destresser , chilling or sleeping is how I de-stress lol

  • @ijeunachukwu8925
    @ijeunachukwu8925 Před 2 lety

    Fav❤️

  • @ruthohams
    @ruthohams Před 2 lety +3

    Nelo is super self aware 🌹🌹

  • @Favourkikelomo
    @Favourkikelomo Před 2 lety

    Enjoyed it 🤩.

  • @DebbyContentsTVlog
    @DebbyContentsTVlog Před 2 lety

    It's the I don't want that public display of madness for me 🤣🤣
    This is an interesting video ma'am

  • @DominicaTraditionalWear
    @DominicaTraditionalWear Před 2 lety +1

    You CZcamsrs and Your View are really trying to empower your viewers. Good job.
    It would be interesting to hear a man's point of view on those topics especially on the issues of domestic violence.

  • @DebbyContentsTVlog
    @DebbyContentsTVlog Před 2 lety

    I wish the video is longer than this 🥰

  • @ezinneokereke4660
    @ezinneokereke4660 Před 2 lety

    Interested watching

  • @faithbriltv
    @faithbriltv Před 2 lety

    Nice video I enjoyed it and learnt a lot.

  • @naimasvlogs
    @naimasvlogs Před 2 lety +5

    Sotenye gives me Adaezes vibes

  • @jessiekeya
    @jessiekeya Před 2 lety

    A lot of facts in this video 👍

  • @oluwaseyiamadu9869
    @oluwaseyiamadu9869 Před 2 lety

    Lovely

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet Před 2 lety +1

    It is oga Francis you Dey try for me.

  • @enyojo707
    @enyojo707 Před 2 lety +2

    Nelo here with a very beautiful face

  • @ihuomachinda8834
    @ihuomachinda8834 Před 2 lety

    Soty feel free to come visit me when ever you are stressed. I want have bathrooms😁

  • @DebbyContentsTVlog
    @DebbyContentsTVlog Před 2 lety +1

    Lemme head over to sote's channel

  • @Chinesefires
    @Chinesefires Před 2 lety

    She says lets just take it that "Nigerians we are animals" 😀

  • @DominicaTraditionalWear

    There needs to be more interaction with men as most often they are the perpetrators. It would be interesting to hear the views from persons in the rural areas.

  • @PrisTvv
    @PrisTvv Před 2 lety

    nice one as always ❤

  • @tosanogis4166
    @tosanogis4166 Před 2 lety

    ❤️🙌🏾

  • @NenyeEze
    @NenyeEze Před 2 lety +5

    I’m a stay at home mum yet I caught my house help beating the shit out of my daughter when she was 9 months old! I blamed myself for a long time. But will I say because of that I won’t have a life or get a break from the kids because I want to be there always and watch how house help is taking care of the kids? nahhhh I had to learn to give myself break for my own sanity! Coz I was almost losing it it can be overwhelming. I really enjoyed this video! Thanks for sharing🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @AbisadeAdedayo
      @AbisadeAdedayo Před 2 lety +2

      Oh God!
      That's so wicked

    • @NazorEzeh
      @NazorEzeh Před 2 lety +1

      Heeey God!!!😯😯 I hope you removed her teeth

    • @NenyeEze
      @NenyeEze Před 2 lety

      @@NazorEzeh the sad thing that annoys me till today is that I didn’t beat her to my satisfaction 😢 ☹️☹️

    • @NenyeEze
      @NenyeEze Před 2 lety

      @@AbisadeAdedayo people can be very wicked dear

  • @jessiekeya
    @jessiekeya Před 2 lety

    Jeez.. you people are vexing here o. See internet speed 😂😂

  • @DebbyContentsTVlog
    @DebbyContentsTVlog Před 2 lety

    When I found man 🤣🤣

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet Před 2 lety

    The walk of shame

  • @nazomumoh93
    @nazomumoh93 Před 2 lety +1

    Dear husband if you cheat on me, we will both pig each other out, and we will baff after, kpichikom 😆🤣😂 Nelo me I've sha taken your advice. Cheating and abuse (domestic and emotional) are my deal breakers in relationships, I might forgive you, but best believe I'll never forget

    • @AbisadeAdedayo
      @AbisadeAdedayo Před 2 lety

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ellanomba1587
      @ellanomba1587 Před rokem

      You aren’t supposed to forget. Even the Bible didn’t say forget. But despite the pain, you rise above it and do the opposite of how you feel.

  • @mercysoschristopher
    @mercysoschristopher Před rokem

    Aunty Nelo's facial expression 😂😂😂😂

  • @marymartin2770
    @marymartin2770 Před rokem

    Is the lady with you your mom

  • @enyojo707
    @enyojo707 Před 2 lety

    I'm very revengy I got it

  • @stephnieogbonna7070
    @stephnieogbonna7070 Před 2 lety

    I swear
    After pigging together we will bath
    We have so many things in common nelo

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka Před 2 lety

    Nelo o... 😂

  • @Chykoli
    @Chykoli Před 2 lety

    Hi

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka Před 2 lety

    😂 😂

  • @Tallsylvia
    @Tallsylvia Před 2 lety

    Third ☺️

  • @adycyn
    @adycyn Před 2 lety

    Who else thinks that Soty and Adaeze has this resemblance like real sisters

  • @Toksgg
    @Toksgg Před 2 lety

    Please know that there is no perfect marriage. Some husband's cheat because their spouse create the atmosphere. They tell friends/colleagues how wonderful, generous, kind etc their husband is and before you know it somebody is calculating how to replace you. They achieve this by even going diabolical to corner the unsuspecting husband. Wives should learn to keep their marriage private. Also, please decide to forgive your partner either way no matter the offence, it actually makes your union stronger. Marriage is a school which we never graduate and we keep aspiring to get better grades.

  • @zainabgimba6372
    @zainabgimba6372 Před 2 lety

    First

  • @GloriousMum
    @GloriousMum Před 2 lety

    Third 💃💃💃💃

  • @victorychinazaveee_naz1718

    I love sote mama 😍 beautiful video

  • @momoftriplets4392
    @momoftriplets4392 Před 2 lety

    Me I do sandwich approach