Scot McKnight on Warning Signs of a Toxic Church Culture

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • What does healthy church leadership look like? Scot McKnight, author of A Church Called Tov said “Our goal was to present what the churches learned about mega-churches, and these mega-leaders from Willow Creek, Harvest Bible Chapel, and the Roman Catholic Church. We learned a lot about these situations, but we didn’t want to spend our time exposing them. I became convinced that it was about culture in churches.”
    Churches with tov cultures recognize, and resist toxic culture in the church. McKnight suggests that building habits of “tov” can counteract evil and toxicity in the church, and the human heart. The heart-beat of the book is a roadmap for forming church cultures, which would ultimately lead to goodness. Listen to the full episode "Scot McKnight on Toxic Cultures, Truth-Telling and Discipleship." www.smallgroup...
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Komentáře • 55

  • @Reach5959
    @Reach5959 Před rokem +8

    Accountability is much needed in church. Thank you for this video! It needs to be heard.

  • @jamessheffield4173
    @jamessheffield4173 Před rokem +7

    When one has a problem in a church, all you can do is leave.

  • @Ngan.marianguyen
    @Ngan.marianguyen Před 4 měsíci +3

    it's toxic when u can't be urself. I constantly feel tense and judged when im at my church. like I can't be myself..

  • @aprilkilroy3163
    @aprilkilroy3163 Před 3 lety +15

    My church lacked empathy

    • @SmallGroupscom
      @SmallGroupscom  Před 3 lety

      Sorry to hear that. Sending prayers your way. Keep the faith!

  • @stevehicks399
    @stevehicks399 Před 3 lety +10

    Good Word
    Have been a member of alot of Churches and have seen alot of self promoting.

    • @SmallGroupscom
      @SmallGroupscom  Před 3 lety +3

      We have to fight against our own sinful nature, to self promote. It's not always easy. But we can look to Jesus who set the best example of humility for us.

  • @shellcshells2902
    @shellcshells2902 Před 2 lety +16

    My church is full of cliques and plays favorites. I'm disabled and always left out of the woman functions.

    • @Curtoonstv
      @Curtoonstv Před rokem +2

      It’s like that at this Young Adult Group. Just a weekly dating seminar. I only went for the word and they have a problem with that. I had to leave.

    • @urbanvoice5323
      @urbanvoice5323 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Prayed for you sis! im sorry to hear that. The bride (church) is noway as loving and holy as the groom (christ), may he give you grace to love his church more. 1 peter 5:6-7

  • @christinekisuule7685
    @christinekisuule7685 Před rokem +9

    One of the church members, a female of course, as she walked into the church, she did not greet us. Instead, she said, “There is not a presence of God amongst us.” So, she went downstairs until the pastor showed up. That’s really messed up!

    • @virginiaconley5465
      @virginiaconley5465 Před 8 měsíci +2

      What does “female of course” mean? A male won’t do the same thing?

    • @SuperMichelleDJ
      @SuperMichelleDJ Před 6 měsíci

      Should have told her to leave and never come back.

  • @patsmith8523
    @patsmith8523 Před 3 lety +15

    My church practiced favoritism to the max.

    • @SmallGroupscom
      @SmallGroupscom  Před 2 lety +2

      I'm sorry to hear that. Praying that God renews your strength and hope in Him, even after these discouraging experiences that happened at your church.

  • @randalljohnson3061
    @randalljohnson3061 Před rokem +4

    I found the church in general the Apostolic church in particular. To be extremely rigid, religious, unloving and unwelcoming! All of which created an extremely toxic environment! Resulting in many leaving the reformation!

  • @yvonnemaldonado8910
    @yvonnemaldonado8910 Před 2 lety +5

    Leadership at First Assembly of God in San Antonio are good at spinning stories. Even when there is evidence that leadership has done wrong, the story is spun to make the other person the complete guilty party. #firstassemblysanantonio #firstagsa

  • @tiredtimmy7288
    @tiredtimmy7288 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Me and my wife are in an awkward situation. I was brought back from a life of backsliding by a good friend that's now a leader of the church we're going to. (before I was married). Now I feel that there's a feeling of finger pointing if we didn't attend church when we didn't feel like going.
    We're aware that our spiritual lives needs food as well from other believers but we're uncomfortable about the fact that the church sermons they preach very often involves comparing themselves to other churches when other churches make bad doctrinal practices.
    I feel that this whole situation is so tricky yet a blessing to navigate because it got me and my wife to really try to know God more and hopefully reveal truths for what steps we need to take instead of just staying on because of owing the church my growth in faith.

  • @SuperMichelleDJ
    @SuperMichelleDJ Před 6 měsíci +1

    I recently left a reasonably good church that had a lot of toxic groups within it, not wanting to follow decent leadership from the pastors and biblical understanding. The church is extremely popular so the leadership has a hard time keeping track of who's doing the right thing by everybody and themselves.

  • @Ngan.marianguyen
    @Ngan.marianguyen Před 4 měsíci

    truth brings freedom! Hallelujah!!

  • @CrimesAcrossCultures
    @CrimesAcrossCultures Před 2 lety +7

    my church was narcissistic

  • @CJ-sw8lc
    @CJ-sw8lc Před 2 lety +2

    Greeaat video - love it. Wisdom, kindness and truth!

  • @Maltese280zx
    @Maltese280zx Před 2 lety +2

    I believe the what the Bible teaches about toxic churches is worldly churches.

  • @YippydaSnoop
    @YippydaSnoop Před 7 měsíci +2

    I used to kind of laugh when the church wanted to feed the homeless on Thanksgiving I would be the smart Alec and say why do we only feed them on Thanksgiving and no other day is that the day they're hungry because we are

  • @Iwant-truth
    @Iwant-truth Před 2 lety +1

    Great video

  • @geoffstokes
    @geoffstokes Před 7 měsíci +2

    It's called a spirit of witchcraft

  • @awilliams382
    @awilliams382 Před 10 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @driver3605
    @driver3605 Před 2 měsíci

    So, they're phonies. We had a preacher when i was a kid who used to say "would you like to go to church with a few of them, or to Hell with ALL of them?" He had a point.

  • @paullywantafirecracker397

    The book is a great read!

  • @bethelshiloh
    @bethelshiloh Před rokem +2

    Lent?

  • @virginiaconley5465
    @virginiaconley5465 Před 8 měsíci +1

    If a person gives away a gift you gave them to someone else right in front of you with no thought of your feelings, is that sign of narcissism?

  • @geraldpolmateer3255
    @geraldpolmateer3255 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Leaders should have a great fear of God and that they might fall. They need to have a team of people around them whom they know will tell them the truth.

    • @Scarred4life420
      @Scarred4life420 Před 7 měsíci

      You mean truth like the fact that all religion is fraud? Are you even a serious person? Why would you think that anything coming from any religion is "truth"?

    • @geraldpolmateer3255
      @geraldpolmateer3255 Před 7 měsíci

      @@Scarred4life420 Are you suggesting that the example James gave is a lie "Pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress, . . ."?

    • @Scarred4life420
      @Scarred4life420 Před 7 měsíci

      @@geraldpolmateer3255 what truth is in religion?

    • @Scarred4life420
      @Scarred4life420 Před 7 měsíci

      @@geraldpolmateer3255 what god is looking for us to be in his sight?

    • @Scarred4life420
      @Scarred4life420 Před 7 měsíci

      @@geraldpolmateer3255 I wasn't commenting on the video. I was talking about what you said. What truth is in religion? How is your god any more real than the thousands humanity has invented? Why don't you believe in Zeus? Or Quetzalcoatl?

  • @charlesreimler962
    @charlesreimler962 Před 3 měsíci +1

    ++ Mica Miller +A Protestant Pastor’s Wife Who Recently /Committed “Suicide”/ Unfortunate Victim Narcissist Clergy Abusive Husband.

  • @alastairhopkins245
    @alastairhopkins245 Před 7 měsíci

    The perfect church on Earth does not exist and you cannot make the perfect church. If you can prove me wrong and find this church DO NOT JOIN IT!!! If you do you will spoil it.