As someone who is AFAB in a friend group of all cis girls, one of my biggest insecurities is that my voice is the deepest among us. But your deeper voice sounds so cool and adds to the androgyny. I’ve never really thought of it that way before. Now I don’t feel so uncomfortable with it all of a sudden.
first off, you are literally so stunning oh my god. second, i absolutely loved this video so much- thank you for sharing an androgynous look, i really love androgynous looks and am starting to figure out my gender identity more and i know i can’t come out to my family and most people i know, but to even just except myself as i am is my main focus right now. because as you said, you spent all of those years hating yourself, i’m in that right now and have been for a few years. it’s a long journey for sure, but you’re very inspirational. i’m going to go listen to your podcast right now. alsooo i subscribed :)
you sold me 80 elf product in less than 15 minutes. proof you dont need tons of $$$ to look fabulous. also you look amazing as always with or without the great elf products 🌈🤠❤️
Ok your makeup tips, and you sharing your journey was very helpful for me. I’ve noticed that i feel confident in a more androgynous look where I can embrace both masculine and feminine features of myself. ❤ thank you
thank you so much for being you and sharing yourself with the world🖤 i have never felt so seen and understood; i wish you all the best and hope you continue to spread your energy to others who need it🖤
fellow Femmeboi here who loves this look! I especially loved that you did eyeliner with eyeshadow because I struggle to do traditional eyeliner due to my dexterity. Will definitely be trying my own version of this look soon 😁
I love every word you've said in this video. Like you dont have to label yourself, you're human, and that's that. The authenticity is what matters and as long as u love yourself, live your life.
I've been doing more or less the same make up as this for years. Over the years I've been dressing more and more androgenous without thinking about. I simply feel more like me this way. Didn't know there was a word for it until recently. Androgenous!. Now it all makes sense. Lol. Great video. Thanks so much 🙏💓
Thank you so much for this, used to hate makeup because i dont like the fem style on me, but im looking forward to trying to learn this androgynous style!
YOU’RE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL HUMAN😍🤩✨💕🏳️🌈 HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE Thank you so much Tatchi for always being so inspiring, loving and all around amazing❤️ WE LOVE YOU
thank you for sharing!! can i ask who inspires your makeup looks? or do you kind of just create your own looks based on your own vision? amazing video, keep it up 😀
Hello and thank you so much for the work you put in your content! I have a question about the androgynous eyebrows: I'm experimenting with my gender expression and love that androgynous/dapper look that seems kind of polished. In your video, you emphasize that a big, messy eyebrow helps seeming more masc as an afab person and I definitely agree. Unfortunately though, even though it does work great for you, I personally feel like when I try to pull that look, I don't look androgynous but rather untidy and like a young boy. (Maybe I need to throw in the addition that I don't know how to make up. I like videos about it but I use it like twice a year and it usually looks messy.) Do you have any tipps for me? Also let me share a little thought about the labels as boxes thing. I personally find labels extremely helpful to communicate what's going on inside me and to connect to people who experience similar stuff. But that's it. In my spare time, I'm also reading up about sex and gender (I try to use the most credible sources like surveys and medical information) and the thing is that those labels really are more of a model - like a map for example, never catching all the individual details. This is simplified, but generally you can say that sex is a set of many characteristics. They vary from person to person and the psyche is an imporant part of it. Therefore, it can be helpful to have a label and tiring to not be sure what fits, but whatever the decision is, it's fine and doesn't belittle or change who you are. It's also fine to switch labels if you notice another one works better for you.
Hi, I'm Courtney! First time watching your videos and to me you are gorgeous! You seem so inside and out! My take on the LGBTQ community is beautiful to me! It doesn't matter to me what your sexual orientation is! You guys are still human with thoughts and feelings like everyone else! As long as your kind to others but most of all to yourself, that's all that matters to me! ❤😘💋🤗
I wanna dress/be perceived as androgynous but whenever I don't have basically a buzzcut and dress super masculine I get referred to as she every single time 💀I don't correct people though or really get offended because I'm not at all open about it lol. (Also, do you use anything to get your hair to stay like that? Mine is about the same length and looks pretty masc when sort of brushed backwards, but always falls into this weird bob that just makes me look like a girl with an ugly haircut lol)
What if you have a REALLY round fem face as myself 😭 As a non binary person, my face probably gives me the most uncomfortable feeling other than getting put in binary titles and my chest but I wear a binder for that XD I just don't know what to do with my round ass cheeks ;-; The only thing giving me euphoria are my irl friends using my preferred name and pronouns since I haven't came out to my work place
For a split second I was wondering too if I might be gender fluid or genderqueer. I soon came to the same conclusion as your mom told you and I even reject the concept of gender (for myself, ofc I respect anyone as they wish to be seen). Who says a female bodied people cannot express themselves as androgynous or even masculine? I am thankful for the way I was born and I will fight for true equality until everyone can feel safe being an everchanigng individual.
did anyone else not realize elf stands for eyes, lips, face? just me, ok.
wait what...
i didn't either
WHAT
Wait what?
Crazy
As someone who is AFAB in a friend group of all cis girls, one of my biggest insecurities is that my voice is the deepest among us. But your deeper voice sounds so cool and adds to the androgyny. I’ve never really thought of it that way before. Now I don’t feel so uncomfortable with it all of a sudden.
I love elf!! I also love your make up and the fact that we don't have to put labels but we are only humans💙 happy pride!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
first off, you are literally so stunning oh my god. second, i absolutely loved this video so much- thank you for sharing an androgynous look, i really love androgynous looks and am starting to figure out my gender identity more and i know i can’t come out to my family and most people i know, but to even just except myself as i am is my main focus right now. because as you said, you spent all of those years hating yourself, i’m in that right now and have been for a few years. it’s a long journey for sure, but you’re very inspirational. i’m going to go listen to your podcast right now. alsooo i subscribed :)
Happy pride🏳️🌈 It’s beautifull how you open up to us and just be yourself , love ya Xx
Yes!!!! looking to get in touch with my divine masculine side, and who better to inspire me than the king themselves.
you sold me 80 elf product in less than 15 minutes. proof you dont need tons of $$$ to look fabulous. also you look amazing as always with or without the great elf products 🌈🤠❤️
their teeth are perfect LOOK AT THEIR SMILE omg i would die for it
i came here for the makeup and left teary eyed goddamn i didnt expect this to get so deep and emotional love you tatchi
Ok your makeup tips, and you sharing your journey was very helpful for me. I’ve noticed that i feel confident in a more androgynous look where I can embrace both masculine and feminine features of myself. ❤ thank you
thank you so much for being you and sharing yourself with the world🖤 i have never felt so seen and understood; i wish you all the best and hope you continue to spread your energy to others who need it🖤
fellow Femmeboi here who loves this look! I especially loved that you did eyeliner with eyeshadow because I struggle to do traditional eyeliner due to my dexterity. Will definitely be trying my own version of this look soon 😁
I love every word you've said in this video. Like you dont have to label yourself, you're human, and that's that. The authenticity is what matters and as long as u love yourself, live your life.
at this point i don't know if wanna be them or with them
Both. Both is good
I love the one earring look you're pulling off !! :)))
I've been doing more or less the same make up as this for years. Over the years I've been dressing more and more androgenous without thinking about. I simply feel more like me this way. Didn't know there was a word for it until recently. Androgenous!. Now it all makes sense. Lol. Great video. Thanks so much 🙏💓
Just in time for pride yessss!!!
Edit: just got a like from Tati and I'm freaking out ahhh. Tati, I love you
I'm enby too. I pretty much gave up on makeup for years because i always looked too "pretty" to be comfortable. But this gives me hope. Thank you!
u look so kewl n mama sounds so sweet 💓🙂
No other comments? Hmm
Thank you so much for this, used to hate makeup because i dont like the fem style on me, but im looking forward to trying to learn this androgynous style!
literally so pretty wtf
this. video. was. so. satisfying to watch. love you tati!
YOU’RE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL HUMAN😍🤩✨💕🏳️🌈 HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE Thank you so much Tatchi for always being so inspiring, loving and all around amazing❤️ WE LOVE YOU
happy pride tatshi and everyone else! ure valid and ily❤️
Tatchi’s eyes are absolutely beautiful like omg!!❤️
yesssss!! love this, youre gorgeous
Hi! I love your videos and have been watching for a while. You are so inspiring and remember that we are here for you
happy pride month y’all!!! 🏳️🌈
im bi and dont know how to come out to my mom. your videos helped me realize my sexuality and gave me the confidence to accept it. any tips?
THANK YOU!! You're a wonderful being and this was soooo entertaining, informative and fun to watch. Made me smile! Stay awesome 💕
Really easy. Looking great on you💯✨💜☺️
Thank you for this ❤️💕 ordered a few of the pieces you used and this helped a lot with general application
such a legend, tanks for always inspiring me, happy pride month ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
You have no fucking idea how much this has helped me. thank you thank you thank you. you lifted so much weight of my fragile human shoulders. Ily
Question, how would the contouring work on a more round face? I don't have very angular facial features I am very round with very chunky cheeks lol
thank you for sharing!! can i ask who inspires your makeup looks? or do you kind of just create your own looks based on your own vision? amazing video, keep it up 😀
LOVED THIS also you are so so so beautiful!!!!!!!!
not exaggerating when I say you are the most beautiful person I have ever seen high key my bi awakening
You are a beautiful person! 🌞❤️
Hello and thank you so much for the work you put in your content!
I have a question about the androgynous eyebrows: I'm experimenting with my gender expression and love that androgynous/dapper look that seems kind of polished. In your video, you emphasize that a big, messy eyebrow helps seeming more masc as an afab person and I definitely agree. Unfortunately though, even though it does work great for you, I personally feel like when I try to pull that look, I don't look androgynous but rather untidy and like a young boy. (Maybe I need to throw in the addition that I don't know how to make up. I like videos about it but I use it like twice a year and it usually looks messy.) Do you have any tipps for me?
Also let me share a little thought about the labels as boxes thing.
I personally find labels extremely helpful to communicate what's going on inside me and to connect to people who experience similar stuff. But that's it.
In my spare time, I'm also reading up about sex and gender (I try to use the most credible sources like surveys and medical information) and the thing is that those labels really are more of a model - like a map for example, never catching all the individual details. This is simplified, but generally you can say that sex is a set of many characteristics. They vary from person to person and the psyche is an imporant part of it. Therefore, it can be helpful to have a label and tiring to not be sure what fits, but whatever the decision is, it's fine and doesn't belittle or change who you are. It's also fine to switch labels if you notice another one works better for you.
Amazing post.we have to try to stop thinking of labels (until you want to at certain times) and just enjoy. Easier said than done, however can be done
Love the hair color 😃
your bone structure reminds me sm of zoe kravitz!!!
*HAPPY TEARS* IM NON-BINARY GENDERFLUID TOOOOOO!!!
Came out non-binary a couple years ago but have been to self afraid to try makeup, this is my first video tutorial I've watched.
You are literally so beautiful.
I’ve missed you 😭😭😭
good shit :) happy for you tati!
Their smile guys :) im melting
please do an updated tattoo tour!!
Girl u needa become a model 😭🤚🏽
Idk if they’re still doing it but they did model for a while, u can check their past videos
@@isabelwilliams233 oh oop I didn’t know that thx for informing me :)
@@-janae-9885 no problem :)
Thank you so much for sharing!
How did you style your hair in this video? 😍 Please please make a video!!
Happy Pride!!!🏳️🌈💞
Can you do a video on how you style your hair? I love the cut but I’d have no idea how to actually style if everyday
Hi, I'm Courtney! First time watching your videos and to me you are gorgeous! You seem so inside and out! My take on the LGBTQ community is beautiful to me! It doesn't matter to me what your sexual orientation is! You guys are still human with thoughts and feelings like everyone else! As long as your kind to others but most of all to yourself, that's all that matters to me! ❤😘💋🤗
Your makeup looks great
wowza 😝🤩🤩🌈
We just love u a loth😘😍
Thank you
Love this, thank you! 😊💖
You are amazing! 🥺🥺
omg absolutely love this
your answer to the lips question has me crying.
Your so pretty ❤
We missed you ! ❤
what primer did you use?
Hairr routine/tutorial pls😩❤️
Bless
ily!!
happy pride month ily:))
Happy pride month tatchi💞
that thumbnail is hawwwt
missed you!
what is androgynous mean
happy pride my fellow queer babiessss 🥰
I wanna dress/be perceived as androgynous but whenever I don't have basically a buzzcut and dress super masculine I get referred to as she every single time 💀I don't correct people though or really get offended because I'm not at all open about it lol. (Also, do you use anything to get your hair to stay like that? Mine is about the same length and looks pretty masc when sort of brushed backwards, but always falls into this weird bob that just makes me look like a girl with an ugly haircut lol)
Happy pride month everyone! 🏳️🌈 🌈 ! ! !
Que linda 😍😍😍 apaixonei
happy pride everyone!!!
happy pride month everyone 🌈
ok i found you from the “someone i fucked once” music video and omg now i’m obsessed
I love you
I am so jealous of people with naturally pink lips. Mine are just the same color as my face :( they are full but I always have to wear lipstick
your eyes are so earthy if that makes sense
what are ur prounouns?
What if you have a REALLY round fem face as myself 😭
As a non binary person, my face probably gives me the most uncomfortable feeling other than getting put in binary titles and my chest but I wear a binder for that XD
I just don't know what to do with my round ass cheeks ;-;
The only thing giving me euphoria are my irl friends using my preferred name and pronouns since I haven't came out to my work place
For a split second I was wondering too if I might be gender fluid or genderqueer. I soon came to the same conclusion as your mom told you and I even reject the concept of gender (for myself, ofc I respect anyone as they wish to be seen). Who says a female bodied people cannot express themselves as androgynous or even masculine? I am thankful for the way I was born and I will fight for true equality until everyone can feel safe being an everchanigng individual.
😍🥰😘💕💋
☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️😘😘😘😘
I love you I muss you 😭😭❤❤
Flaca me enamoré de ti desde que te vi en el video de Zolita. 😥
I Hope u found someone who can see how beautiful you are inside and appreciate u because when i gaze at u i just see a pure soul
I love this I wish I could be this open about being a gay guy it's depressing and embarrassing
bro where are you at
this changed my whole life 🏳️🌈🥵
Hello. 🌹
So all this time I've been doing androgynous makeup... interesting
I love you
I just came here from “ surprising my boyfriend “ video. And now I’m lost? Can some one tell me what am I missing here?
they broke up with their boyfriend, came out as queer, then came out as nb(non-binary) and here we are:)