How Can I Improve Productivity Before and After Marriage
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- I took a video while advising one of you clients during our Counseling session. His question was around how to be productive before marriage and not loose productivity after marriage.
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Jazakumallahu khayran!
Alhamadlallah I agree 💯 I been praying sunnh and Quaim for a long time ago it feels so good, powerful. I’m 29 years old now Alhamadlallah I’m not married yet May Allah makes it easy. Alhamadlallah I’m so productive and disciplined I been doing it since I was 20 years old. I’m from KSA 🕋 I came to study in USA I was so sad wanted to go back to saudi because I was scared I didn’t want to lose my deen so much Fatnnh around. I was alone I been praying asking Allah to keep me a way. Alhamadlallah I always push myself harder no excuse the deen is extremely important to me. I’m in a good Shape been lifting for 8 years helping the community and everyone. The night prayer is everything because the feeling that I get is unexplainable it is so energetic and everyone I know tell me mashallah you so calm, positive and disciplined. I’m happy with whatever Allah gives me.
Asalamu alaykum akhi, can I get in contact with you somehow in shaa Allah? I’m 23 and live in the UK, you inspire me allahumaabaarik
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Jazakallah khair sheikh, your absolutely right about career woman, very rarely does the marriage work out
May Allah
Protect our mothers and grant them peace and mercy in this world and in the hereafter ... insha Allah
As a single parent for many years, and a women who works in a mixed environment, I reverted back to Islam, first time was due to marriage but it was contradicting, I left praying etc but always believed in god. However the last 2 years allah has guided me back but this time I feel for the right reason and that is to try and pls allah, not perfect but trying. My point is not all women in a mixed environment go out of hand or do wrong things, we do have fitnah, nafs and understanding. As for
My children, are they perfect no but considering they have had me juggle work for money not career and being a parenting, allhumdulliah I thank god for the way they have turned out. I always took annual leave when they were on school holidays, work was never a choice but a necessity. We should be looked at as individuals and individual circumstances.
Fair points.
I liked before the video even started because of the title
Salam Alaikum Gabriel, my wife sent me this video (maybe I should be offended), but what a message. I worked with you back in the Al Hosn days and wish I got some of your wisdom back then! Definitely, need to take charge of my own schedule and get back on track, inshallah. Eid Mubarak brother and I will be looking into more of your content.
Productivity is bound to increase after marriage that's the beauty of it
Jazak Allahu kheyran brother Gabriel, I’ve listened to this video so many times now, and each time I take some benefit from it. May Allah give you strenght to pursue your work, as well as the whole My Tazkiyah team. Ameen
SubhanAllah, I feel I have become better after marriage. There is now a role that needs to be done by the man and there is a woman that I am providing for. That internal drive and fire is like nothing else.
Criminally underrated video. BarakAllahu Feekum
جَزَاكَ اللَّهُ خَيْرًا
My honourable brother
JazakAllah. Beneficial tips.
Video really helped!!! Gotta start incorporating this ASAP💯
JazakAllahu Khair for this. This will make a lot of us more productive In Shaa Allah 🤲
MashaAllah brother, Allah blessed you with wisdom and knowledge,,,,
Jazakallahu Khairan dear Teacher , wonderful video full of wisdom and advice.
Shukran Jazakallahu kheyr
This was very beneficial, Allahuma Baarik. I'll probably have to visit this video regularly.
I have to say one of the best videos on CZcams, jazakom Allah khair
edit one month later didn't stick to the program make duaa for me
the best video ever on marriage solutions
MasyaAllah..ur good👍
JazakaALLAH Qayran ustadh.
JazakAllah khairan brother
Alhamdlillah
We are blessed by Allah
In so many ways . Always remember that and be grateful .
keep up the good work
Masha Allah, you're right
جزاك الله خيرا اخي جبريل بفضل الله وثم بفضلك غيرت هذا الروتين المسموم الذي نعيشه في هذا الزمن والحمدلله اشعر انه صحتي وتفكيري وكل شي تغير برك الله فيك ووفقك وان شاءالله سأقوم بدعوة كل من اعرفه لي يفعلو هذا كما كان النبي محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم وان شاءالله كل الاخوة والاخوات نحظى بحياة صحية ونكون اقوياء وقربيين لله الحمدلله.
May Allah bless you in all fields of your life and grant you Jannat Alfirdaws Al2a3laa my brother Jibreel❤
بارك الله فيك يا جبريل
منور حبيبي 😁
Omg thanks so much may Allah reward you for such amazing raw videos providing great solutions.
Just one point or question is that my husband works from 6:30am to 3:30 pm and it’s one hour drive to work and one hour to get home and by the time he gets home my kids wake up form their nap but my husband also wants to nap since he wakes up at 5:15 am and how or what would you reccomend.
My son is 3 years old and daughter is 1 and half so it’s very difficult for me to make them sleep early because that would mean my husband can not take a nap and we would have to go out for 2 hours and my son is a very hyper kid and runs and does not hold your hand or walk at all. We have tried many things but slowly I hope he gets better. This is the main reason I can’t take both of them outside Becuase my son doenst understand and is very naughty and likes to do everyhting his way mostly when we are outside he feels like he has not gone out in so many years even though I take both kids out in three daytime and with my husband at the evening. It’s like my son is never satisfied and always wnats to be outside for many hours.
We of course get tired and still take him for few hours but he soemtimes still sleeps late like around 11 pm so it is hard and my son also has to take a nap otherwise he will be very tired after 8 hours of being awake and will fall asleep no matter what which is why we make sure he naps after 6 hours of being awake.
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It July could I start now. I'm going to start now.
Ok I will try to pray tahajjud.
Not for to control my wife well
But for to please Allah
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The quality of the content is amazing allahuma barik, what is the camera?
I think he’s phone and just good position where the lightening ends up good
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Lol,so true
Conclusion:
To have a happy marriage -> Become a responsible leader -> Organize your life -> Discipline -> Islam
So implement Islam in your life, and you will thrive, because it is the perfrect way of living, given to us by the Perfect Himself ☝
Bro As salamu aleykum. There is this girl I’m about to get married to that my family is pushing me to marry. She’s learned the Deen but my issue is that she wants to be a career woman (midwife) and she tells me that she wants to work till she gets old, and that if we get married I’d have to accept that...she’s a good girl, but idk what I should do?
Assalamualaykum. May Allah swt reward you. Can you talk about sleep time?. How many tours should we sleep? How many hourd did Prophet Muhammad sws sleep? May Allah bless and reward you. Ameen
type sallallahualaihiwasallam in full way brother.
Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
As it is prescribed to send blessings upon the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) in prayer when saying the tashahhud, and it is prescribed when giving khutbahs, saying du’aa’ and praying for forgiveness, and after the adhaan, and when entering and exiting the mosque, and when mentioning him in other circumstances, so it is more important to do so when writing his name in a book, letter, article and so on. So it is prescribed to write the blessing in full so as to fulfil the command that Allaah has given to us, and so that the reader will remember to say the blessing when he reads it. So we should not write the blessing on the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) in short form such as writing (S) or (SAWS) etc, or other forms that some writers use, because that is going against the command of Allaah in His Book, where He says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Send your Salaah on (ask Allaah to bless) him (Muhammad), and (you should) greet (salute) him with the Islamic way of greeting (salutation, i.e. As‑Salaamu ‘Alaykum)”
[al-Ahzaab 33:56]
And that (writing it in abbreviated form) does not serve that purpose and is devoid of the virtue of writing “salla Allaahu ‘alayhi wa salaam (May Allaah send blessings and peace upon him)” in full. Moreover the reader may not take notice of it and may not understand what is meant by it. It should also be noted that the symbol used for it is regarded as disapproved by the scholars, who warned against it.
@@mahinshaanthru6494 is bad to write it in a short way brother? if yes, can you please explain to me why? jazaka Allahu Jairan
@@alihourag5070 Best quality got sleep 8 hours. It depends how much you caffeine you tolerate. Or how fit you are when you wake up.
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First become a caring person..When it is said Islam does not promote hate, some people immediately reply 'love for Allah and hate for Allah is part of Imaan". This is perfectly correct. If a person doesn't know what's "love for Allah" he can't grasp the other part. To get a loving heart requires a lot of refinement of heart and this can take many years. If you achieved this mental state, you won't build mosques using cheap workers and boast "about going to jannah". Rather, you would spend on people with a lot of concerned effort and prudent thinking.
Hate for the sake of Allah doesn't mean growing grudges for people even if they are Muslims or not. Islam doesn't allow grudges to grow in the heart because such a person can't pray to Allah or have relations with people. If you have grudges in the heart, you can't give salam to people and your most close people become psychologically ill. What comes from the tongue is what's in the heart. A person who has no peace can't give peace to others. Please try to understand the context of "hate for Allah's sake". It means you have to judge matters very strictly and don't let your heart become interested in kufr even for entertainment purpose. You have to be judgemental but can't grow grudges.
Synonyms for interest can be attachment,appreciation,passion, curiosity and obsession.
If a person talks a lot of kufr people or kufr ideas,his heart is getting attached to kufr slowly and losing interest in Islam. Sadly, he doesn't even know it. Next, his family becomes ill and depressed even if they are practicing Islam outwardly.
You talk about very important things - becoming a caring person and having a loving heart! And it is so difficult to achieve, especially when a toxic person lives with you. It affects your iman so much. But I pray that one day I'll learn how to be more forgiving and let go. I just don't know where to start from.
Beautiful advice jazakallahu khair
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but brother what about the people who do 9 to 5 jobs ?
May Allah guide the jewish woman and give her a real muslim man husband
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U were talking to him, i didnt realise,
SubhanAllah I'm a woman and just finished telling a man this advise, to man up and be the imam of his family. The wife is walking all over him, kids out of control and he's physically sick from stress and does nothing about it. Big disappointment in a man that used to be an alpha male.
After exposing the decadence of modern woman, we must not forget that man is mostly responsible for such a decadence. Just like the plebeian masses would have never been able to make their way into all the domains of social life and of civilization if real kings and real aristocrats would have been in power, likewise, in a society run by real men, woman would never have yearned for or even been capable of taking the path she is following today. The periods in which women have reached autonomy and preeminence almost always have coincided with epochs marked In manifest decadence in ancient civilizations. Thus, the best and most authentic reaction against feminism and against every other female aberration should not be aimed at women as such, but at men instead. It should not be expected of women that they return to what they really are and thus reestablish the necessary inner and outer conditions for a reintegration of a superior race, when men themselves retain only the semblance of true virility. - Julius Evola
i am very, very, very, very disappointed in you brother, you call the holy land, occupied palestine by this name, which was given to it by the zionists, it is the land of israel prophet of god yaakoeb tho, but its not the land of those who occupied it in our time, so say palestine or refer to it as allah in the quran does as '' the holy land'', by saying ''israel'' you are recognizing that land as property of the zionist settlers who occupied and stole it, they are not even the real descendants of israel sallalahu alayhi wa sallam, we palestinians are the descendants of prophet israel, so be aware ra`aka allah. salam
ps: im not angry akhi
Career doesn’t ruin all marriages. It’s baffling how most Muslim scholars ruin it for us. It begins with the man himself. What is ruining, is lack of communication and compromising. The woman herself should also know when to draw the boundaries with her coworkers and everything else that happens there. However, it shouldn’t necessarily stop her job just because the man is jealous.
If he can’t control it, that’s his issue. Women get jealous too but we shut our mouths regardless what kind of job the man has. On the issue of mixing, there will be mixing everywhere. It’s inevitable. Therefore, that concern is useless.
And I’m not saying women should only work and forget about the problems that are happening in the marriage. No. But we have our dreams, goals and potential too. And we are allowed to fulfill that.
Muslim men need to relax and take it easy. Also, usually men who tend to have such unhealthy jealous traits, are the same men who are incredibly abusive and egotistical.
The prophet SAW said: Ad dayooth will not enter jannah. Who are ad dayooth? These are the men who don't have protective jealousy about their women ( sisters, mothers, daughters and wives). They don't have gheerah and don't care if their women go out of the house alone, without hijab and talk to non mehram men. They are the people who don't tell their wives to cover up and some time even tell them to not cover up so as to showoff their wives beauty to other people, taking pride in it.
Women can chase careers but the ones in which she is most protected unless and until necessary. they can have a business for themselves but not the kind where they have to comprise their deen for it . They can chase their dreams and goals but not at the cost of their own families welfare (same goes for the men).
Sure there are men who are abusive and egotistical but don't look at every man's jealousy with the same glasses of abusiveness and egoism, some are just protective.About the women shutting their mouth about being jealous, i don't know if their is any women that just shuts their mouth, they say it but they can't do anything about it but still i get your point.
In the end it all comes to have much are you willing to sacrifice for the sake of allah and to earn the rewards of jannah (this for both men and women).
Simple solution to this is to marry your potential spouse based on honest goals and conditions you have and specify in the marriage contract. So that later the husband or wife wouldn’t have to deal with complaints about the conditions. Don’t marry someone if you know that they aren’t 100% accepting your terms.
@@robertpaulson3645 You can have jealousy, but not unhealthy jealousy. Unfortunately, most Muslim men don’t know the difference and sometimes don’t even care to know. Their ego gets in the way lot of the times. And then, they take it out on most of their wives. It’s not our problem to care of that.
Like I said, not against women staying at home. And by the way, working from home doesn’t do much safety as much as you think (Incase this came across your mind). A lot of things can happen online without the husband knowing.
@@anikaabida6019 Perfect.
Incase anything does change within the marriage, it’s important we approach the situation in a mature manner and communicate it to one another clearly so nothing is dismissed. That way, you don’t necessarily have to ditch something that your husband may not be accepting of.
Career gets in the way of raising kids and being a functional housewife.
I've seen married people, they still eat at their old parents houses, the kids stay at grandma because mommy is working. God forbids what happens in mixed environments. Guidelines are there for a reason.
Why do new Muslims think that the beard is a necessary thing in Islam?
Because it is. The prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said leave the beards and shave the mustache. He صلى الله عليه وسلم had a beard as well as the companions. Its waajib to leave the beard.
@@Inhjhgfg It is not obligatory... If you leave it, you will not be punished... The beard is not Islam.. I do not know why they impose beards on new Muslims... Westerners do not grow beards as much as easterners... So why do they impose this on them.... And why The old dress...the dress of the ancestors...how do they make a European wear a turban and Arab pants...I am frankly surprised by this...I was born a Muslim and I see that these things are alien to Islam...Islam is not it because I dress like the Messenger before 14 A century... Islam existed before the Prophet Muhammad with Abraham, Moses and Jesus... and before that with Noah, Idris and Adam....
@@layal304 astagfirullah. Hey excuse me are you a scholar!!! All the prophets have beard . Just because you don't like it doesn't mean we have to shave it . We are keeping it for the shake of Allah . You are pretty much brainwashed by Western culture!!. May Allah protect good righteous Muslim men from women like you? Don't talk about something when you have no knowledge of , keeping beard is fardh according to sahi hadith . There is sign of qayamah " besides scholars there will be people who will give there own opinion about halal or haram , knowledge will be taken from people who don't have it " you are a perfect example of this hadith .