7 Reasons Why God Took A Relationship Away From You

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  • @arnellehardy1091
    @arnellehardy1091 Před 6 měsíci +882

    My fiancé was killed in a car crash one month before our wedding in 2023. He was a man of God honored me as a woman and his queen in every way. When I got his phone back from the police after his death no cheating or sexually explicit pictures or videos from any other women. Just pictures of Me A few of him and some stuff from work smh !! 🤦🏽‍♀️ it still painful to think about he was helping so many children who came from broken lifestyles and there to help them. When I think of the type of Man he was how many people came to his funeral to talk about his life and he died before the age of 40 smh. I just pray God will bless me again with such a gentleman who fears the Lord like Me

    • @WR12974
      @WR12974 Před 6 měsíci +57

      I’m so sorry to hear this. He sounds like a wonderful person. My deepest condolences. May God heal you and restore you for all of eternity.

    • @andreamegec9836
      @andreamegec9836 Před 6 měsíci +10

      Bless you and keep you Lord, blessings and very sorry to sister🙏🤍

    • @michellevibonese5673
      @michellevibonese5673 Před 6 měsíci +12

      May God keep you in His grace, faith & peace during this difficult season. I lost my husband in 2022, 4 days before our 1st wedding anniversary. My late husband strengthened my faith in God & encouraged it. One sign I knew he was right for me. Sending you prayers & hope for your future.

    • @JanetUrban-tr1cz
      @JanetUrban-tr1cz Před 6 měsíci +10

      I'm so sorry for your loss. He lived a life as a good man helping others. He is definitely in heaven and watching over you

    • @lejo2x
      @lejo2x Před 6 měsíci +5

      awww 💕

  • @Red-yi7ou
    @Red-yi7ou Před 6 měsíci +1207

    If you are truly a child of God and you turn from your sin, and humble yourself, and pray for understanding of the Word…. You will know what to do when the time comes

    • @Josephlopez724
      @Josephlopez724 Před 6 měsíci +4

      😮

    • @l.f.6878
      @l.f.6878 Před 6 měsíci +8

      Amen

    • @HumbleYourself-es3xo
      @HumbleYourself-es3xo Před 6 měsíci +7

      Amen ❤️ 🙏🏾

    • @imakeherskeet-wj8jz
      @imakeherskeet-wj8jz Před 6 měsíci +40

      I never did nothing to nobody thats why they have to try & set me up to make it look like I've done things to people god & Jesus know the truth 🙏🏽 no weapons formed against me shall prosper in God's name amen 🙏🏽

    • @BerthatuttieCrochet
      @BerthatuttieCrochet Před 6 měsíci +7

      God Bless You!! God Wins Always,, tuttie from Louisiana

  • @yalissafigueroa
    @yalissafigueroa Před 4 měsíci +154

    Everytime I drifted away from God he always called me back to him. I love God so much

    • @sarahsoto8322
      @sarahsoto8322 Před měsícem +2

      Same Amen 🙏

    • @AprilSummers-um6tf
      @AprilSummers-um6tf Před měsícem

      I had an NDE and spiraled into a completely self destructive cycle. I felt abandoned and condemned to live in a hateful world. I was raised in an abusive home, married an abusive man and ended up joining the military to escape. Now I know he had something far better for me waiting in the future, I just couldn't see it. I'm so thankful he never turned his back on me even though I tried to turn my back on him. Apparently God can recognize a temper tantrum just like any other loving parent. ❤️

    • @Unclefester596
      @Unclefester596 Před měsícem

      Same here as well!
      Amen 😊

  • @AMB1782g
    @AMB1782g Před 6 měsíci +266

    54 days No Contact, so proud and at peace😁. The Lord picked me up and dusted me off. God is good!

  • @sarahdimas857
    @sarahdimas857 Před 6 měsíci +480

    1. Where God isn taking you they can't go
    2. You weren’t supposed to be with that person.
    3. God will allow that person to hurt/betray u, he gives you signs too.
    4. Will take away the relationship so that you can be closer to him.
    5. God has something better for you
    6. Immaturity...or u where the problem too.
    7.That person draws you closer to sin then God.

    • @user-zw4qz2et2o
      @user-zw4qz2et2o Před 4 měsíci +27

      I wish people will understand that God doesn't allow people to hurt you 😢 he is a God of love and he doesn't cause pain. Jesus loves us ❤

    • @soblessedjj
      @soblessedjj Před 3 měsíci +6

      Come on!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @Dominicus13
      @Dominicus13 Před 3 měsíci

      @@user-zw4qz2et2oRepent and read your scripture

    • @iloy1218
      @iloy1218 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Amen 🙏 ❤

    • @Cardinal_Prince
      @Cardinal_Prince Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@user-zw4qz2et2oidk man, that old testament goes kinda hard tho

  • @AlexisLexLexi
    @AlexisLexLexi Před 6 měsíci +905

    I can attest to all of these. I have been married for 9 years. Early on in the marriage I realized that I came into union with a narcissist who love bombed me into the relationship, and he soon thereafter started displaying some demonic tendencies. I would get ridiculed for reading the Bible and harassed for trying to keep the sabbath. I dealt with aggressive behavior and verbal / emotional abuse. During the marriage I started smoking weed to cope with the anxiety and depression. TMH started waking me up in 2020. As I was waking up, the abuse got worse . I prayed fervently for a smooth exit, and the opportunity finally came. I humbled myself and moved in with my parents until I can get my own place. I am 1 month free of weed and I have so much peace.

    • @SarayahDaughterOfAH-Y-AH
      @SarayahDaughterOfAH-Y-AH Před 6 měsíci +36

      All Praises Sis. My story is similar and I'm glad you got out. Hope to see you in the Kingdom👑💎

    • @BelovedManda
      @BelovedManda Před 6 měsíci +2

      Praise God sis! I am grateful you were freed. I was married and in a relationship for 9 years with a man who despised spirituality, he despised it all! In the beginning he was compassionate and thoughtful, I had a poetry blog and he was a fan ( we met when we were teens ) and even having years of friendship, intimate conversations and belief that he was connected to God, as soon as we were living together, he was the complete opposite. I got pregnant and was so lost. We married and I was led away from Jesus, became a Buddhist even to try and heal my mental health because I was battling depression and had a partner who removed all peace with his demonic leadership, this man wound up being in a band that sings about the devil and makes fun of Jesus. Anyway I was woken up in 2019, in 2020 Jesus gave me visions and then I got led into new age and had to learn that blasphemy to be able to be freed from my demonic marriage, God used it for that anyway. I now am sharing my testimony and the gospel in places most people won’t go, because I have no fear and see all deceptions. Because of all the lessons and teachings from Jesus. You are free! God will use you for his glory and I pray for your healing and recovery ❤️‍🩹 ✝️☀️

    • @takimj4912
      @takimj4912 Před 6 měsíci +16

      wow! APTTMH YAHAWAH, i experienced this as well, when i speak of the word/scriptures my ex-wife of 17 yrs, would laugh and mark what was being said. her family as well, but YAH said don't be silent because a few laugh or mock you, because its not you but me they make fun and lite of, remember YAHAWAH is not Mocked, whatsoever a man sew that he shall reap! Shalawam Daughter of Zion

    • @nalveyna
      @nalveyna Před 6 měsíci +14

      Good for you. Glad u got away from that person. Nothing should come between u & the Lord your God.

    • @terrionley-griffin9493
      @terrionley-griffin9493 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Same here

  • @AprilSummers-um6tf
    @AprilSummers-um6tf Před měsícem +27

    My first husband was a pastor. He was abusive mentally and physically. God really did intervene. I developed rheumatic fever in a foreign country where i did not speak the language. He kept me locked in a back room and told the congregation that I was mentally ill. I really thought I was going to die, I was hallucinating and could barely walk. One day after about a month a young nurse came to the parsonage and demanded to see me. I heard them arguing then she came into the room and looked shocked. She examined me and told him if I wasn't allowed to return to the states i could die. She saved my life, I believe he was prepared to let me die. I thought for the longest time that I was going to Hell because I was divorced. Now i know that God did not place us on this earth to be abused by evil people.

    • @Stacey-vi3cb
      @Stacey-vi3cb Před měsícem +2

      Praise GOD. Glad you got away. Pray for the new one. The twin flame. Divine partner who he made to love you. From alpha and Omega. I love you.

    • @AprilSummers-um6tf
      @AprilSummers-um6tf Před měsícem +1

      @Stacey-vi3cb Thank you. I met my husband a couple of years later and have been married for 30 years. My Christian college sent me a letter calling me a jezebel and said the entire college knew he was innocent and I was guilty. Hmmm I was 18 he was 34...OK? It was a vicious letter and I would routinely pull it out to punish myself. However after I met my husband I began to realize that the organized church does not speak for God!!!! Blessings and prayers to you 🙏 😊

    • @Yari6022
      @Yari6022 Před měsícem +1

      It’s so sad that people who hide behind God (pastors etc) do harmful things in any way to others but they are not questioned because “oh he’s a pastor he wouldn’t” that’s why God tells us “beware of wolves in sheep’s clothing” not everyone who claims to walk the path of Christ is true and this is why we should ONLY follow God and not follow man! I hope your okay and doing well now your a strong lady

    • @AprilSummers-um6tf
      @AprilSummers-um6tf Před měsícem +1

      @Yari6022 Absolutely. One of the eye opening things for me about that experience is how cutthroat large religious organizations actuallycan be. I'm finding more grounded Christian teachings from gifted youtubers than I have been able to find in physical churchs. Money has corrupted a huge swath of churches. Many operate as much like a corporation as Walmart or Mc Donald's. Now I know that I need to listen to God's word and the answers to my prayers, not some stranger standing in the pulpit. You are right about the wolves in sheep's clothing. It seems like there are more in positions of authority now than I have EVER seen in my lifetime. Thank you for your kind comment. 🙏

    • @lindasigler1123
      @lindasigler1123 Před měsícem +1

      Sis love is not suppose to hurt and God bless Marc because he is right, God does take away the ones who hurts us. Now you can focus on good things not the pass. Sister I went through a little something different from you situation but again. Someone beat us is not love, God loves us, Amen sis, i am glad that you got away from that evildoer.

  • @aleshiathompson6213
    @aleshiathompson6213 Před 6 měsíci +175

    Amen. Dont blame them blame yourself. Take accountability. start listening to your intuition and stop lying to yourself.

    • @lyndsey4453
      @lyndsey4453 Před 5 měsíci +16

      True! Just gave an ex of mine a second chance after God and my intuition said, "No!" Long story short, it didn't last long.

    • @user-or8zf2mh2r
      @user-or8zf2mh2r Před 2 měsíci

      Facts🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿

    • @cargoimpexp8921
      @cargoimpexp8921 Před 2 měsíci

      Boy...sometimes these people comes to with these smooth lies...

  • @Jmharris46
    @Jmharris46 Před 6 měsíci +323

    God brought me back. I didn’t even realize I had strayed. I was of the world.

    • @altheabrewer5116
      @altheabrewer5116 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Amen

    • @mayamaya1735
      @mayamaya1735 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@TriciaPerry-ef7bithere’s always room for improvement and getting close to him, instead of continuing to think this way, go to God, pray to Him, surrender it all to Him, it’s okay to ask for Him, but God doesn’t hate u it’s the opposite

    • @nalveyna
      @nalveyna Před 6 měsíci +7

      God did that for me too when I started reading the Bible for myself beginning with Genesis back in 2020. 4 years later I'm now in the book of Daniel. It has literally changed my life. Praise the Lord!

    • @rarag2204
      @rarag2204 Před 4 měsíci

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 APTTMH

    • @wiles3953
      @wiles3953 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@nalveyna Book of Daniel is 1 of my favorite books that I have red so far besides the book of Revelations.

  • @misfitking_0143
    @misfitking_0143 Před 6 měsíci +276

    The Devil wants you to live in Condemnation! But the LORD wants you to live in His Blessings!!! Amen!!!

    • @Patricia-cp3if
      @Patricia-cp3if Před 6 měsíci +4

      AMEN THE DEVIL IS THE FATHER OF LIES

    • @jespernielsen5464
      @jespernielsen5464 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Just seek him man

    • @dennismclaurin1487
      @dennismclaurin1487 Před 4 měsíci

      That's why Satan is called the accuser of the brethren ( Rev.12:20)
      They're the ones Satan seeks to devour 1Pet.5:8 /eat up the sins of Hosea 4:8
      They represent the outcasts of Israel Ps.147:2, described in 1COR.1:-27,28

  • @Truckhergirl
    @Truckhergirl Před 4 měsíci +234

    I just hope one day I will be rewarded for choosing loneliness over sin

  • @francescarene8787
    @francescarene8787 Před 6 měsíci +103

    Went through all of that . I found that you can’t try to help save someone that doesn’t want to be saved. I know God is faithful.

  • @rawfafcts
    @rawfafcts Před 6 měsíci +326

    I'm in solitude ,and isolated, seeking Yeshua, cruxifying the flesh ,meditation 🙇🏾‍♀️🙏🏾📖

    • @cecilieluse5289
      @cecilieluse5289 Před 6 měsíci +10

      I'm in isolation with my animals patiently waiting for the door to this ark to close.

    • @imakeherskeet-wj8jz
      @imakeherskeet-wj8jz Před 6 měsíci +4

      💯

    • @SgtHelljumper777
      @SgtHelljumper777 Před 6 měsíci +17

      Same! Solitude is healing and peaceful! I spent a lot of time trying to help people that didn't need help , specifically depressed people and it drained me , so solitude is very refreshing for me so I can find myself and care for myself and seek Yahweh! ❤️

    • @misslady5029
      @misslady5029 Před 6 měsíci +14

      I'm on this straight and narrow path for my life through Christ. The more I get into his word, the clearer my mind becomes, and the better I feel 😌🙏🏾.

    • @bobbyscalchi4013
      @bobbyscalchi4013 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Same. Trying to anyways. I'm putting my mind on anything but my emotions of my current circumstances. Holy Spirit. God. Jesus. Scripture. You Tube Videos. Deliverance. I feel very stuck. At first in a resistant way but then in a good way as there's many things I need to reform.

  • @charitahawkins3598
    @charitahawkins3598 Před 3 měsíci +37

    I was with my husband for 6 years and was completely depleted emotionally, spiritually and physically abused for the last 2 years. I truly held him in high honor believing him to be someone he truly wasnt. I found myself completely obsessed with my husband he had no true loyalty to me and I had to fall out the hard way. God kept showing me through his actions but i was in complete denial! It took 2 years to get over the betrayal long story short! This lead to my spiritual awakening and I was delivered by God❤

    • @nancykayyy8640
      @nancykayyy8640 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Currently going through something very similar. Watching these videos for my healing 🙏

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      @youngpablo6278 Před 2 měsíci

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    • @jeanettekeller5782
      @jeanettekeller5782 Před měsícem

      Thank you for sharing, I know me seeing and reading your comment was not an accident! I no longer feel alone in this horrible journey I've been on for the past 3.5 years. Your comments completely describe what I've experienced. Thank you again!!!

  • @armondocordova3121
    @armondocordova3121 Před 2 měsíci +25

    My ex left me continuously over the years. I always took her back because I loved her. I started to noticed a couple years ago that every time I took her back bad things happened in my life. I finally realized that God didn’t want me with her no matter how much I loved her. Thank you 🙏 your video helped a lot.

    • @ArtG-qc6ei
      @ArtG-qc6ei Před 2 měsíci +4

      Bruhhhhhhhhh. His the same thing of my ex wife of 10 plus years. Even after the divorce, I would still take her back. And ultimately I would get hurt by her more and more. It was like she don’t even have a soul.

    • @armondocordova3121
      @armondocordova3121 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@ArtG-qc6ei wow, that’s crazy I felt the same about my ex… soulless smh!

    • @jaylensmith6746
      @jaylensmith6746 Před měsícem +1

      Same retable comment

  • @user-kj6yc1pd4k
    @user-kj6yc1pd4k Před 5 měsíci +31

    Heart pain IS extremely painful. Especially when when your plea for help is harshly rejected by literally any you turn to.

    • @clintonnagy1662
      @clintonnagy1662 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I pray everyday telling God I need his help, and I messed up. The answers don't come because I caused my own demise and must suffer for my sins.

  • @Jesus.saved.me.
    @Jesus.saved.me. Před 6 měsíci +330

    Unfortunately this happened to me recently. We’re both “Christians” and he talked a good talk and knew the Bible well but unfortunately he didn’t have the fruit of the spirit. But still I held on until he hurt me so bad I had to let go. 10 months down the drain. Lesson learned. Now the hardest part for me is trusting that God has someone better .. it’s almost like I don’t even feel deserving of that sadly. I know I just have to focus on building back my relationship with God now.

    • @waarheidsgetrouwe288
      @waarheidsgetrouwe288 Před 6 měsíci +32

      We have to resemble Yahusha Who also dont have a wife or is dating. We are to suppose to sacrifice everything of a personal life even our physical life. In this time there are not so many good men or women. We have to spent time to do good without gaining anything in return only gaining a happy Father that must be our goal. If We make Him pleased and satisfied He knows our heart He will give us what We need most of the time We dont even know what that is. He knows us so much more than We ever could.

    • @amycb5548
      @amycb5548 Před 6 měsíci +19

      We are not necessarily meant to have a partner. It's been a hard realisation for me as I have always felt I needed a man. No.

    • @sandyroop8365
      @sandyroop8365 Před 6 měsíci +21

      I've been married 10yrs this past Nov. And 3 yrs ago I devoted my life to Jesus, I watched preachers on utube that taught me so much, but every time my husband caught me watching or praying, he would get angry and make fun of me, I tried everything to get him to listen along with me and he said he was saved at 7 yrs old and he didnt need to waist his time
      Cause he already knew he was going to heaven. I finally had to leave him, was I wrong? I felt he was jealous of my relationship with Jesus. Now he says I'm going to Hell because I Moved out, I don't want a divorce, I just don't want to be persecuted by my own husband. I've just put this in the hands of my lord Jesus.
      I need some advice. Thank you

    • @altheabrewer5116
      @altheabrewer5116 Před 6 měsíci +7

      I overstand, it was me. Stay focused on Jesus. This is a very motivating video ❤ AMEN

    • @MakisMosesYarh-by3ir
      @MakisMosesYarh-by3ir Před 6 měsíci +3

      Hi I am Makis Moses Yarh,
      Thanks for sharing your story. God have a better n wonderful person for u.
      Please always trust n depends on Jesus.

  • @cola11984
    @cola11984 Před 6 měsíci +97

    I just recently met a guy who was a Christian and into God. We were talking for a few weeks he seemed like a good guy hard worker, single dad etc. But he kept trying to justify fornication and eventually stopped talking to me because I didn't want to break my celibacy. I'm sorry at this point in my life I'm not going against TMH for nothing or no one. A Godly man would never ask you to compromise on God's word.

    • @christalhardy8771
      @christalhardy8771 Před 5 měsíci +10

      Same with me .I didn't want to break my celibacy, then he stopped contacting me .his rejection = God's protection

    • @RyanLovesReds
      @RyanLovesReds Před 5 měsíci +9

      Men always give in to the flesh, too often anyway. I say this as a man. Women lead the church in spirit. Time for men to step up, me included.

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Exactly!!

    • @bernadettehankins470
      @bernadettehankins470 Před 4 měsíci +4

      I can relate, was talking to a guy at my church. He was on that page too. Until I called him out on it. I felt something was not right about him, so I followed with God put in my spirit to leave him alone.

    • @jenniferberry6748
      @jenniferberry6748 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Amen!! Never compromise 🙏🏼

  • @justchanel6472
    @justchanel6472 Před 6 měsíci +47

    It Was My Fault, For That Relationship. I Regret It. The Situation Taught Me Allot. GODBLESS Me. I Take Full Accountability.

  • @jessicaganzermiller5091
    @jessicaganzermiller5091 Před 2 měsíci +7

    15 years in a narcissistic relationship. 2023 my eyes were opened and it was the hardest year filled with brokenness and betrayal. 2024 I gave in turned my life to God and have been at peace ever since

  • @MsMars1972
    @MsMars1972 Před 6 měsíci +187

    I'm in agreement with your message. I was in 8 year old relationship and I know that God helped me with the strength to let go. I couldn't do it on my own. I ended it last year. Since then my focus is on Jesus. Amen.

    • @ace-paidinfull5240
      @ace-paidinfull5240 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Ive been suffering this since 2009💔

    • @joycelyn1747
      @joycelyn1747 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Well done.. HallaluYah.
      I'm nearly there..please say a little prayer for God's strength to lift and guide me. Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏻

    • @MsMars1972
      @MsMars1972 Před 6 měsíci +5

      @@joycelyn1747 I will lift you up in prayer Sister. I know it's difficult. Please trust and continue praying God hears and he will help and will make a way. He did for me and I will do it for you. Don't let the enemy win. Jesus is with you and has fought the battle for us. We are conquers in Jesus name. Amen.

    • @MsMars1972
      @MsMars1972 Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@ace-paidinfull5240 please stay strong and have courage. I will pray for you. I know is hard but stay focus on Jesus. He is with you and will give you strength. I never thought I would be able to leave but God made a way and I am so much happier and no longer a prisoner. I know that I couldn't do it alone until I dedicated my devotion to him and that's when he came through and removed him from my life.

    • @ace-paidinfull5240
      @ace-paidinfull5240 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@MsMars1972 sorry let me correct that.
      I met her in 2009 and we split in 2020 somewhat. But in regards to the hurt and pain, that really started in 2013 and even though we are not officially together, alot of nonsense is continuing.
      I appreciate you praying for me and replying back♥️

  • @omegaconstantinidis
    @omegaconstantinidis Před 6 měsíci +115

    Year of the level-up indeed! I suddenly quit nicotine cold turkey last night after well over a decade of consistent use. I'm over 24 hours into it, staying strong by the Grace of God -- keep me in your prayers please! 🙏

    • @flamingsword777
      @flamingsword777 Před 6 měsíci +8

      The Father and you got this! He helped me quit cigarettes, cigars, weed and sleeping pills! If he can help me quit, I know He's got you too!

    • @sillyme1642
      @sillyme1642 Před 6 měsíci +3

      I want to stop but can't seem to

    • @Grateful4Lyfe1
      @Grateful4Lyfe1 Před 6 měsíci +1

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @user-qq6bz4th8e
      @user-qq6bz4th8e Před 6 měsíci +1

      Get a vape.I quit smoking a few months ago.Now I am free after forty years of smoking.The vape is a crutch for a while.

    • @5kdaking334
      @5kdaking334 Před 6 měsíci

      @@user-qq6bz4th8enah then vapes are awful they have taken over high schools. I can’t stand em lot lost hella friends cuz of them

  • @saramill5822
    @saramill5822 Před 4 měsíci +14

    I knew I had fallen into a wrong relationship, I was very angry because he was cheating and lying. I did it to myself. Took time to let it go. Now I am happy by myself.

  • @adriennelatimer2491
    @adriennelatimer2491 Před 6 měsíci +34

    So thankful for this video my husband left me after 27 years of marriage and has gone to the world. I have turned to God and I’m growing

    • @uspeak7
      @uspeak7 Před 4 měsíci +2

      YOU'RE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM
      HIM LEAVING IS YOUR WAY OF ESCAPE
      DONT TAKE THE EX BACK
      THE EX WILL BRING YOU AN INCURABLE DISEASE
      AND YOU WILL
      DIE ALONE
      KEEP THAT DOOR CLOSED
      GOD WILL PROVIDE
      GOD IS MAKING ROOM
      FOR THE HUSBAND GOD HAS FOR YOU
      LET SATAN KEEP HIS COUNTERFEIT

  • @madmire
    @madmire Před 6 měsíci +57

    All my life, I've been in and out of counterfeit relationships and I never knew why I wasn't getting the love I deserved. I've been single for 4 years now and as a young man, getting unrequired love from people made me feel like I wasn't worthy of love anymore. I felt like I was going to stay single forever, so it made bitter inside. Until today, God led me to this video to clarify that I wasn't giving my all to God, I let the past get into my head not allowing myself to heal and let go. I've regained my connection with God now and I'm allowing God to love me fully and unconditionally and accepting my life right now. All I want is to have joy, peace, love and happiness etc. and I'm coming to realize that God is the only person right now in my life to give my wish fulfillment.

    • @Yvell
      @Yvell Před 6 měsíci +2

      Avoid narcissists

    • @DeeDee53MYCREATORSCHILD
      @DeeDee53MYCREATORSCHILD Před 5 měsíci +1

      Amen

    • @PYT.123
      @PYT.123 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Amen. It's funny how we as genders blame the opposite sex, but your post taught me that it is the same fight. We just have to focus on what's important...God.

    • @denisegreene5366
      @denisegreene5366 Před 4 měsíci

      I felt you hun sane with ne but God is a healer

    • @GoldMeadowsOnTv
      @GoldMeadowsOnTv Před 3 měsíci +2

      Real. God doesn’t want to be second. Just learned this after my 4th long haul fraudulent relationship. Finally struck me that I focus everything into the person and forget God like clockwork. Can’t forget the third strand of the cord. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I love this time of repentance and redirection.

  • @NatalieReid88
    @NatalieReid88 Před 6 měsíci +49

    My "christian" ex husband left me... and then ended up marrying my friend, (quite close to me), who was lying to me the whole time/seeing him behind my back. Man - betrayal is a doozy!!! But I am glad I saw this video because I am so much better off without both of them snakes, and all the people that left. God has someone better for sure and I won't tolerate less anymore - peace is too valuable!

    • @Yvell
      @Yvell Před 6 měsíci +3

      Narcisissts

    • @thundering.modifier
      @thundering.modifier Před 4 měsíci +4

      💙 You are incredibly preseverant and noble. May the Lord comfort you always. I can't imagine what that must feel like, and I will pray for you. You are loved so dearly by God and by all us fellow siblings in Christ. God bless! 🙏✝️

  • @joedavis7400
    @joedavis7400 Před 5 měsíci +18

    God got me out of a 20 year marriage and I could not be happier with my life and have a new love. So remember you have the right to be happy and loved

    • @ashleyjohnson3939
      @ashleyjohnson3939 Před 4 měsíci

      Yes...

    • @msray7405
      @msray7405 Před měsícem +4

      How did God remove you out a marriage...just asking. I am completely confused about God breaking up marriages when He clearly states he HATE DIVORCE. I'm going through something similar but my ultimate goal is to please God not myself or man.

    • @erikmunoz55
      @erikmunoz55 Před měsícem

      @@msray7405very, very true. It’s interesting that’s for sure.

    • @dleon0902
      @dleon0902 Před měsícem +1

      @@msray7405 The only basis for divorce based on the Bible is adulterous relationship. Matthew 5:32.

  • @christinabriggs1782
    @christinabriggs1782 Před 2 měsíci +9

    I spent this evening crying because my husband confirmed that our marriage is in trouble at 21 years and we've struggled for years. I prayed tonight for God to help me out and an answer for what to do. As I got a traffic light there was a sign with the word divorce. I cried. My husband is far from the Lord and angry with God. I heard earlier in the year that they can't go where I am bringing you. I didn't and still don't know what it means but I know that I'm sad that our marriage is crumbling. Praying for my husband's heart to draw near to Him. Praying our oldest son comes back to God and protects our children and guides me in the days weeks and months ahead

  • @1111spiritualone
    @1111spiritualone Před 6 měsíci +67

    definitely in this season, removed toxic family and friends that served no purpose. setting boundaries and not looking back.

  • @joycelyn1747
    @joycelyn1747 Před 6 měsíci +57

    22yrs of trying to make the relationship work.. it's time!!..no kids with him and no marriage.
    I so needed to hear this right now. Praying earnestly God finally gives me the strength and finances to make it out this time.
    In Jesus Christ name please pray for me Marc 😢🤲🏽🙏🏾💪🏾
    Thank you so very much🕊️🇬🇧

    • @skuddabeezy
      @skuddabeezy Před 6 měsíci +16

      22 yrs and no marriage sweetheart I’m a male and if it’s been that long and no marriage 😮😮 don’t look forward to one within the first two years a man knows if he wants to marry

    • @tmc1373
      @tmc1373 Před 6 měsíci +6

      @@skuddabeezy What if there was marriage in this situation where both are Christian and the man despises and REFUSES to lead? What does that mean for them if marriage is forever?

    • @tmc1373
      @tmc1373 Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@soundsolutions It says the Most High hates divorce. Even if there is an exit clause, who wants to be single forever? It's truly a death sentence, either way.

    • @taghazoutmoon5031
      @taghazoutmoon5031 Před 6 měsíci +5

      you missed out on marriage and kids because wasted 22 years

    • @Juliukas101
      @Juliukas101 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Kick him to the kerb, lady! You'll be alright without him, it'll just seem a bit strange after all that time.

  • @alastairhopkins245
    @alastairhopkins245 Před 5 měsíci +10

    God might want you to break it off with that person but still pray for them. Even if you are not going to be husband and wife you could still have a part in leading that person to Christ.

  • @victorhernandez7948
    @victorhernandez7948 Před 6 měsíci +21

    Wow! All of this it's real Bro, it's been almost 2 years God showed me this wile I was in a relationship with my woman. A few months before breaking up God let me know I was with a narcissist and was pulling away from Him, he let me know through dreams and youtube videos till I had to finish the relationship, and now God has blessed me much more 🙏🏽

  • @corinnjohnsonbaugh4613
    @corinnjohnsonbaugh4613 Před 6 měsíci +91

    7 months deep into my separation. 22 years and 3 children later ☹️don't overlook the signs!! Our Heavenly Father will continually give you signs! I'm so grateful to have finally woken up from my stupor!! Thank you for your videos!! Spot on🙌🙏Praise Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ ❤

  • @currentmood5052
    @currentmood5052 Před 6 měsíci +34

    #4 came to pass not even two days ago, and not only did God give me discernment something wasn’t right but when it came to pass my intuition was right I’m not gon lie it hurt to the core but I realized I unintentionally committed idolatry against God. Lord I repent thank youuu for covering me🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @juliaarmstrong8282
    @juliaarmstrong8282 Před 4 měsíci +11

    This is true I remember I prayed for God to remove anything in my life that wasn't from him. The guy I was with removed himself. And there were signs like you said but I didn't wanna believe it. Just trust God and allow him to lead you through your relationships

    • @jeandandridge9107
      @jeandandridge9107 Před měsícem

      Happen to me for almost a year God was speaking to me I let the devil mislead me when God kept specking. To when I did listen boy this person has tried to destroy me totally I thank God I let him go he wasn't the person a narcissist cheater lier selfish no compassion I blame me I new better didn't listen to God's voice but never will I ignore Gods words and voice

    • @user-sr6bq1ru5d
      @user-sr6bq1ru5d Před 3 dny

      Same experience with the woman I was with. However, I messed up in that relationship by telling a big lie. I knew I did too. I wanted to tell her, but as it went on, my walls went up. I sensed from the start something was off. I began to stray further, lose myself, got depressed, careless, and when she discovered my lie, I took accountability and saw the harm it did. When I started to do right and praying, things got worse. I prayed about her, and got signs. A lot of signs of evil. She betrayed me, and I felt it.
      I see the lesson involved. Although I can see who she really is now, it’s been a huge, painful lesson..

  • @tamekshenderson2877
    @tamekshenderson2877 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Yes!!!!! God showed me. It took me almost 10 years!!! I thank the LORD FOR IT ALL. OF COURSE YOU DON'T SEE IT AT THE MOMENT, BUT IT HAPPENED AND NOW I'M FREE

  • @mariamendoza5353
    @mariamendoza5353 Před 6 měsíci +54

    My family; mom, stepfather, niece, her wife, and my nephew. Once I listened and obeyed the Holy Spirit's conviction to return to Jesus wholeheartedly, things at home worsened. My family was always dysfunctional and toxic, but that has increased to a whole new level. I've been cussed at, yelled at, and betrayed even from my mom. I pray for them but I feel drained, tired, and hurt. I talk about Godly things yet never really heard. I know this message is of God. It is confirmation. Thank you Jesus for sending this word to me. I needed to hear this. 🙏Amen

    • @Hddhjnfstjnddf
      @Hddhjnfstjnddf Před 6 měsíci +7

      God be with you

    • @preciousangelica4095
      @preciousangelica4095 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Same, that is what I'm currently feeling right now😢 My whole family is against to me because going and serving in our church. As in, minutes ago they were scolding me from going home late because of fellowship... I'm 22y/o right now, I feel like I'm still a child😢

    • @nicoedits6940
      @nicoedits6940 Před 6 měsíci +6

      Everything is going to be alright, you might have to leave that environment because you cant heal in a toxic environment and remember, Matthew 10:37 Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
      I left my house with no money, no job but God provided for me through my cousins

    • @bonnielewin8520
      @bonnielewin8520 Před 6 měsíci

      I learned narcissists have a demonic root. This could be your problem with your family.

    • @mariamendoza5353
      @mariamendoza5353 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@nicoedits6940 Thank you. I appreciate your encouraging words 🙏

  • @yvonnemuli4046
    @yvonnemuli4046 Před 6 měsíci +24

    Where God is taking you they can't go..
    Next level(leveling up)
    You weren't supposed to be with that person on the first place
    God will allow the person to hurt/betray you until you get strength to let them go
    Draw closer to God
    God has something better
    You were the problem
    I felt this!..This year i'm trynna level up

  • @vivianadams8810
    @vivianadams8810 Před 4 měsíci +13

    Yes, God does allow people to betray you to get them out of your life. 😢❤ I lent a friend money because they were down, and after I gave them the money, they wrote me a check, and the next morning, they stopped payment on the check for no good reason. He also stopped calling me and texting me. I'm not mad because I realize I'm at a different level, and I have a forgiving heart. I believe GOD has a better plan for me and is elevating me right now.

  • @sandrakreger7476
    @sandrakreger7476 Před 2 měsíci +5

    My betrayal hurt me so much I had a mental breakdown and now suffer from some amnesia. I just keep asking God, "What do I do next?"

  • @user-so2vs2bh2f
    @user-so2vs2bh2f Před 6 měsíci +70

    I believe God will bring the right person into your life when you are doing what He's saying to do in His word. Men waste alot of time and money chasing women, and women waste alof of time trying to get the attention of some man. And this usually ends in heartache. God knows best, He knows who's good for you, and who is not.

    • @Lightness.
      @Lightness. Před 6 měsíci +4

      This is sobering!!#truth!

    • @user-lb9hr7ru1w
      @user-lb9hr7ru1w Před 5 měsíci +3

      100% is correct

    • @Crystal-wo2sd
      @Crystal-wo2sd Před 3 měsíci +1

      Wow I've gone through every one of these reasons you pointed out so far😮 thank you Jesus 🙌🙌

    • @fionagrant2023
      @fionagrant2023 Před měsícem

      This is wrong

    • @user-so2vs2bh2f
      @user-so2vs2bh2f Před měsícem

      @@fionagrant2023 I understand why you may feel that way. You have to realize how the god of this current world system 2 Corinthians 4:4 works to blind people's minds to the truth and get them looking at life the wrong way in an attempt to bring destruction. From the USDA food guide pyramid, to alot of Big Pharma when there's often spiritual roots to many diseases. I'm not saying a woman can't look good for her man, or take pride in how she looks. Or that a man can't pursue a woman. I'm trying to say at the core here we should be more concerned with what God thinks about things, than with what other people may or may not think. And when we do that He takes care of alot of things for us.

  • @remnant4827
    @remnant4827 Před 6 měsíci +55

    Pay attention to your dreams definitively! God speaks through dreams🙏🏽💪🏽❤️

    • @deerod5490
      @deerod5490 Před 6 měsíci +5

      Yes he does!! And they are hurtful too !! He showed me the guy i was talking to was in fact talking to other women and even showed the color of their hair and that they were significantly younger than him ew

    • @ashantiiiiaa7153
      @ashantiiiiaa7153 Před 3 měsíci

      God showed me again, he has someone else pregnant and he never changed! It’s hurts.

    • @lydiaaugustin9439
      @lydiaaugustin9439 Před 2 měsíci

      I just said this. that's how God primarily speaks to me. my ex husband told me he had a dream once, and his dream was an answer to my question that I had asked God the night before. He had no clue lol. I never told him, but he's an ex for a reason now. So thankful for my relationship w God

    • @AprilSummers-um6tf
      @AprilSummers-um6tf Před měsícem

      Absolutely. I had a dream a few years ago. God showed me a table full of wholesome food, vegetables, meat and real bread. He told me that I needed to prepare. I misunderstood and thought I needed to store food. Within a few months I started to have health problems that got worse and worse. I went to Dr. After Dr. and was told I had severe asthma. I was maxed out on inhalers and medication. I routinely had to get steroid shots to reset my lungs. One morning I got up and passed out hitting my head because my oxygen levels had gotten so low. I went to the hospital and got yet another steroid shot. I went home and resigned myself to death. I made my peace with God and told him I was OK if it was my time. I do have food allergies and thought maybe I had a hidden one. I ate plain chicken and pasta for a week and started feeling better. I started avoiding processed food and within 6 months I didn't need my inhaler. I started researching food additives and realized that was what was causing most of my problems. I recently tried a boxed mix of my favorite cake Angel Food cake. I woke up so ill I had to use my inhaler and couldn't sit up in bed for a full day. Guess what is in Duncan Hines Angel Food cake mix...SODIUM LAURYL SULFATE!!! This ingredient is banned in many countries because it is so irritating in shampoo and soap and yet here it is in our food. I believe God showed me that dream and allowed me to suffer so that I would truly understand the truth of it. I think he was telling me that our food is toxic and to use caution with what we put in our bodies.

  • @monicadejesus7664
    @monicadejesus7664 Před 6 měsíci +22

    So true, I gave my husband 4 chances, and I kept coming back to the same darkness! But I build my trust and faithfulness to the word of God. Throughout my straggles, the holy spirit show me the way to Jesus and now I am free from condemnation, rejection, recement, abandonment, shame, and hate!!!

  • @Journey4Vitality
    @Journey4Vitality Před 6 měsíci +12

    Wow, I’m only on 1) and you said my whole situation. I was with him 7 yrs, he was heavy into the Word, but he would act insane at times. I didn’t feel that his behavior was righteous. I had to move from him, to be with family for emergency - he decided not come. He was crazy mad that I left- he just told me he got someone pregnant (in less than 4 months of me being gone). It does hurt, but I know I was removed from that situation for a reason. Thank you for this great video😊

  • @TravisGarnett
    @TravisGarnett Před 6 měsíci +59

    @45:48 - "Healed people heal people." -Bishop Dale C. Bronner

  • @ytchi1
    @ytchi1 Před 6 měsíci +18

    2023 was one of the worst years of my life I pray and hope 2024 is better 🙏

  • @cynthiarogers3178
    @cynthiarogers3178 Před 5 měsíci +20

    I WANT MY HUSBAND TO BE THE SPIRITUAL LEADER OF MY HOME BUT HE ISN'T THERE YET. HE BELEIVES BUT DOES NOTHING TO LEARN ABOUT THE BIBLE & STRENGTHEN HIS RELATIONSHIP. .I KEEP PRAYING THAT HE WILL TAKE AN INTREST. . I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO. Will you PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM. HIS NAME IS DOUG... THANK YOU..😊

    • @user-or8zf2mh2r
      @user-or8zf2mh2r Před 2 měsíci +3

      He has to want it for himself. You can pray all you want to, but God has given us free will. I will pray that God show you a way out, not trying to change him. I've been through it. My ex-husband and I would go to church every time the church doors were open. I even set up marriage counciling for us, which was a waste of time. I was told to stay in prayer. Seemed like the more I prayed, the worse he got! I remember standing in my living room, and I spoke out loud to myself. I can't change him, but I can change myself. I filed for a no-fault divorce and paid for it. He didn't even try to stop the divorce. My sis, he signed those papers as if a relief had been lifted off his shoulders! On this day, he still lives his life the same way when he was with me. It just is what it is.

    • @cynthiarogers3178
      @cynthiarogers3178 Před 2 měsíci

      @@user-or8zf2mh2r We have a Good relationship.. He is Always Good to me. He EVEN STEPPED UP TO BE MY Granddaughter'S FATHER. WE ADOPTED HER AT 6 MONTHS. SHE IS GONNA BE 9 THIS YEAR & HE IS GREAT WITH HER. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR OVER 20YRS. BUT IF THE LAST YEAR I have started going to Church 💖 I FULLY Surrendered. EVERYTHING TO JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH...HE BELIEVES HE, - JUST ISN'T THERE YET. .I AM HOPING THAT GOD CONVICTS HIS HEART. THAT HE HAS A SUPERNATURAL EXPERIENCE & FULLY COMMITS .

    • @LumiseriesTeam
      @LumiseriesTeam Před 2 měsíci +1

      Same.

    • @LumiseriesTeam
      @LumiseriesTeam Před 2 měsíci +1

      I got same situation

    • @LumiseriesTeam
      @LumiseriesTeam Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@user-or8zf2mh2ryour very right. God keeps telling me to divorce and I don't want too but I understand it's from having a husband like you described unequivocally yolked

  • @user-me2hu7ls9o
    @user-me2hu7ls9o Před měsícem +1

    My grandmother always told me take accountability don't always blame the devil. Some people are watching so that they can cast their evil energy upon the chosen ones like me.💯🙏😊👏

  • @laurahennessy2893
    @laurahennessy2893 Před 6 měsíci +67

    I was 17, then 25, and now age 54. I am 57 now and stepping forward to God's plan for my Life. Hope I find my way back to God's path for my Life.

    • @joyricherson4570
      @joyricherson4570 Před 6 měsíci +1

      What do you mean by you hope?

    • @user-js7cw3yd4l
      @user-js7cw3yd4l Před 6 měsíci +1

      Amen,it's never to late,and you will,praise God.

    • @joyricherson4570
      @joyricherson4570 Před 6 měsíci

      God I already knew every decision that you would make. The Bible says if you see him you will find him if you seek him with your whole heart.

  • @JaeBrown01
    @JaeBrown01 Před 6 měsíci +13

    ALL FACTS! 27 years with the wrong person- Finally woke up

  • @ZombieKnight-mn4jd
    @ZombieKnight-mn4jd Před 2 měsíci +3

    I need prayer. I have been dealing with toxic people. My family, fake friends. It cost me my relationship with my girlfriend. I take accountability for the things that I have done, too

  • @zzerxes
    @zzerxes Před měsícem +1

    “Some people never recover”
    It’s almost like God never intended for us to be heartbroken or betrayed, so we weren’t built for it.

  • @fabulouzconceptshomedecor5316
    @fabulouzconceptshomedecor5316 Před 6 měsíci +10

    Oh my Goodness I’m going through this now just blocked him and walked away from a situationship… listen if you are in a relationship that take away your Joy and peace and draw you away from God … walk away periodt! Pick up your cross and get back to following God!

  • @jessicalong6011
    @jessicalong6011 Před 6 měsíci +36

    This is so on point with what happened to me. I knew I shouldn’t have been in the relationship. I am learning that I was betrayed but God loves me and is healing me from more than the relationship. It has been a blessing. Thank you for your message ❤🙏🏾

  • @ktsosa7385
    @ktsosa7385 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Going thru this rn. I ended our relationship yesterday after almost 2 years of being on & off, and it’s crazy bc we was literally the same person when it came to goofiness, being in sync, worshipping The Lord etc. but everytime we would argue it would be so bad to the point we would bash each other then we would make up & I got tired of that toxic cycle. I just pray my journey with Christ will take my mind off that person as well as her taking her mind off of me🙏🏾

  • @kayjohnson5524
    @kayjohnson5524 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I’ve been thru it with my family. I just walked away from my daughter, it has taken me years to walk away. Both of them are addicts. Most important, never marry someone who is unsaved. You suffer but your children suffer the most. I just raised my youngest Granddaughter. Never gave me a minute of trouble in high school. During her Senior year, 2nd semester. She met a guy 3 yrs older than her. Because she didn’t have her Father in her life, he gave her something I couldn’t give her. He love bombed her, I’m sure he is a Narcissist, very controlling. They got engaged in Sept, I pray for her many times a day. It’s been a mess. My youngest daughter had a hand in this whole mess. I haven’t seen her in 17 mos. We text but haven’t haven’t talked or seen each other. This boy n my daughter tried to track me on my phone. There is so much more to this. I tried to tell her, a Christian man isn’t going to send you dirty jokes, and definitely not going to get you to move in with him. I pray to God she wakes up & sees the light. God Bless you & all you do.

  • @indigowarrior8158
    @indigowarrior8158 Před 6 měsíci +51

    This teaching came to me today when I needed it the most. I am being abused and betrayed by the same person over and over and I just allow it to keep happening. We go thru the same painful, senseless loops over and over. Enough is enough. I really needed to hear this today, thank you, much love brother. Praise God

    • @zek280
      @zek280 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I was too toxic marriage

    • @JesuisLord
      @JesuisLord Před 6 měsíci

      Same today is the last day

    • @lashawnablanton4649
      @lashawnablanton4649 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Same here and I just ended it today then this video came up. It's time. God bless

    • @QueenVeronica92
      @QueenVeronica92 Před 6 měsíci

      Same. Thats amazing how god works ​@lashawnablanton4649

    • @ashleyjohnson3939
      @ashleyjohnson3939 Před 4 měsíci

      Yas! Nomore!

  • @JRemedy82
    @JRemedy82 Před 6 měsíci +160

    Patience is definitely a virtue

    • @MoPerspective
      @MoPerspective Před 5 měsíci +3

      Indeed

    • @khayil
      @khayil Před 5 měsíci +1

      What does that mean?

    • @dennismclaurin1487
      @dennismclaurin1487 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@khayilI believe it has to do with being long-suffering during adversities.

  • @deecrawley2680
    @deecrawley2680 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Yes this is the year of level up i been cutting people off left right and center not letting no one bring me down with their negativity cause i know my God will not let no weapon/person formed against me will prosper so glad i found your channel my brother love from Nova Scotia

  • @user-pb1oj4ny6f
    @user-pb1oj4ny6f Před 5 měsíci +5

    Been on my journey with God for 59 years Amen

  • @yolandacoleman8128
    @yolandacoleman8128 Před 6 měsíci +19

    Isolation is self reflection time.

  • @tiptontipton3185
    @tiptontipton3185 Před 6 měsíci +14

    When me and my ex husband got married.. I was throwing up the entire drive there.. a snow storm hit us on the way to Reno… we couldn’t see anything.. God was warning me.. and even before that we went through hell.. and even after.. I see now after he lied to the judge about me and had me arrested.. he betrayed me so bad and did me so dirty that I can’t believe I still love him and care for him.. I put up with so much because we have an autistic son together, but the closer I get to God the worst things got between us..

  • @brandonshoen7957
    @brandonshoen7957 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Marc, I’ve been watching you for 2 years now. One of your best videos yet. Bravo.
    2 months ago, my ex broke up with me a week before our anniversary. We were both Christian and waiting till marriage, but unequally yoked and I lacked self control and discipline she had. I was and still am so in love with her, and still recovering from losing the one I thought I would marry. I now realize how much I’ve grown closer to God and it’s only been 2 months, I cast my anxieties and depression on Him, and seek his way not mine.
    I truly believe that God put her in my life to draw me closer to him and took her out in that same way. All glory and blessings to the most high.
    Thanks Mark for your testimony and wise words. Bless your soul brethren

  • @maggiehill4741
    @maggiehill4741 Před 3 měsíci +2

    You are so absolutely right! This exact situation has happened to me, but I was 4 years into the situationship. I had so many red flags I didn't pay attention to and now I'm paying the price.

  • @tresyfana
    @tresyfana Před 6 měsíci +61

    Reason number 3 definitely resonated with me . He started becoming very abusive . He was misleading me. It came to the point that I had to put a restraining order on him because he got physically and verbally and emotionally abusive . It was a spirit of anger . Super scary. I had to let him go. God had to hurt my feelings to protect me . Jesus is love . Now I’m single and enjoying my singleness in which I’m healing through the word , prayer and fasting . He is amazing . Leveling up is a must!

    • @BlueRivers-xg2rt
      @BlueRivers-xg2rt Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes.

    • @ashauntetatianna
      @ashauntetatianna Před 6 měsíci +2

      @tresyfana yessss girl amen , I need to go on a fast myself

    • @zek280
      @zek280 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Amen 🙏

    • @Esmeb89547
      @Esmeb89547 Před 6 měsíci

      Don’t get married, it’s not worth your peace

    • @ashauntetatianna
      @ashauntetatianna Před 6 měsíci

      @@zek280 it depends on your situation and where your heart and life is at at that time

  • @tammiebennett4632
    @tammiebennett4632 Před 6 měsíci +13

    I wasted 5 years I had to learn the hard way . Now I know I must move on from the ones not meant to go with me

  • @dr.pjcooper3799
    @dr.pjcooper3799 Před 2 měsíci +2

    This was the confirmation message for me ! I left march 18 fled for my
    Life after narcissist and physical abuse for 3 years ! I hate divorce but I’m not finishing my life like this ! Discernment set in and will be fooled
    No more ! I am believing Yah for my true mate !

  • @nikkicalton2148
    @nikkicalton2148 Před 6 měsíci +7

    This is the year of level up. Accountability

  • @mariamendoza5353
    @mariamendoza5353 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Yes, you are so right, Marc. God had given me the signs but I felt guilty leaving my family, leaving the dogs I take care of. But just today I was given a drastic sign where my nephew cussed the f word towards me and my daughter repeatedly and my mom was there and never intervened. Not the first time my mom chooses them over me, never defends me. This was the last I could stand. It is over.
    Thank you for your powerful teaching.

  • @crystalhanson4310
    @crystalhanson4310 Před 6 měsíci +20

    I have been going through this with my husband, since June of 2023 and in the thick of a long and drawn out battle of divorce. My husband has actually been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder and has been using our children as pawns this entire time. That is a wound that keeps happening, repeatedly, and it's so sad and unfortunate for our children's sake, but God has been moving in so many amazing and incredible ways in our lives, ever since, and He has brought us so much peace. He has also opened my eyes to the many errors of my ways and He is helping me heal and grow in my faith, daily. So to God be the glory for all that is being done to rid this insane world of evil and in separating the wheat from the chaff!

  • @footprintsinthesand2009

    My responsibility is being shown due to my disobedience to TMH, believing the lies from the enemy, and ignoring the gift of discernment.
    Thank God for the betrayal, lies, & hurt so I could return home to the Father. 🙌🏼

  • @nicolecogliandro1169
    @nicolecogliandro1169 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Be kind and compassionate to yourself Marc! (The spelling) Your message is on point. Thank you for sharing your gifts!!

  • @JeremyTurner-fx7nj
    @JeremyTurner-fx7nj Před 6 měsíci +38

    This happened to me I was with a woman I thought loved me we was together for 2yr and married for 1yr,I am divorced now and I believe God was telling me I needed to get away from her,she ended up cheating on me it hurt but God helped me thru the pain

    • @30apaddleboarddeliveries
      @30apaddleboarddeliveries Před 6 měsíci +7

      Right there with you man, my marriage of six years fell apart after I watched her cheating on me. We have two small children where I’m the primary caretaker. She forces me out of the house away from my wonderful children. Through this I’ve been needing someone to talk to about my situation. Wanted to let you that you’re not alone. Keep your faith and don’t let that crush your soul. Praying for you

    • @JeremyTurner-fx7nj
      @JeremyTurner-fx7nj Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@30apaddleboarddeliveries thank you as I will pray for you and your family too

    • @AR-zn1uy
      @AR-zn1uy Před 6 měsíci +2

      I feel you bro. Mine was selling herself for money behind my back while I took care of her.

    • @30apaddleboarddeliveries
      @30apaddleboarddeliveries Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@AR-zn1uy that’s rough man sorry to hear that. It seems that modern women are struggling with demons in this modern world. I’ll be praying for you brother. Keep your faith in God

    • @AR-zn1uy
      @AR-zn1uy Před 6 měsíci

      @30apaddleboarddeliveries her Christian roommate who pushed me to start studying the Bible n seeking Jesus is the one who told me. She's moving out. Everyone's leaving her disgusted with her. I forgive her and pray for her. But God heard my prayers.

  • @skylarsmith2629
    @skylarsmith2629 Před 6 měsíci +15

    You ain't never lie smh. 9yrs but it took me a month to let go. When I said prayers n fasting. Hmmm surrendered all my feelings I had for him to God. N to be honest, I felt light after it was like he was waiting for me to do that. It been a year now, and I never looked back. God is great 💙

  • @jonniedennis8975
    @jonniedennis8975 Před měsícem +2

    My heart was broken recently, I thought he loved me until I had I amputation and he left me after seven years. But to God be the Glory 😢

  • @bridgettedavey4422
    @bridgettedavey4422 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Exactly 💯, The Most High has to come before family , friends, etc....its hard sometimes, but discerment is so important, we must take heed to the red flags

  • @janeenwatson427
    @janeenwatson427 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Yes, that absolutely happened to me basically my whole entire life. And now God has me in a place of isolation where he is ministering to me; and downloading his spirit in me, and I have become stronger. I have a better understanding of God's word, as He continues to working on me. To God be the glory! 🙏❤️💯

  • @jesuschristmylord2962
    @jesuschristmylord2962 Před 6 měsíci +18

    I think that is what happened to me. I met this girl and put all my concentration on her she was the most important one. I’ve stopped praying stopped reading bible started sinning drinking alcohol cussing and committing adultery she didn’t want to hear or talk about God. Needless to say we broke up and I was wondering why but now I know. I’ve only now come to a point of letting her go because up to this day I wanted to give her a second chance and work things out but I guess I never meant to be with her. So no I started praying again started reading bible and desiring to live holy.

  • @cultured_paint2964
    @cultured_paint2964 Před 6 měsíci

    I feel no judgement when u speak in this video. It’s appreciated. Beautiful video and message.

  • @jesusacruz8165
    @jesusacruz8165 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I prayed hard " take me out on this relationship ,I wanna go .crying but my kids so small .I waited let my kids grow and GOd made a plan for me to walk away and rest is history .I'm at peace, happy my kids have their own family .I'm not guilty I left my toxic ex .GOODBYE.

  • @DameyunHenry-fr7jl
    @DameyunHenry-fr7jl Před 6 měsíci +8

    This man is speaking the truth this is why GOD is removing people from my life AMEN and AMEN

  • @bridgetenglish3334
    @bridgetenglish3334 Před 6 měsíci +15

    Yeah you are right some time he can take away jobs and personal things out of your life. I got fired from my job because I got blamed and written up for everything that I had no business with. Toxic co-workers who followed, harassed, and lied on me so l let them go but l will move on and find a better job. I got tired of trying to help people who only complained and don't appreciate my help. My boss was toxic and he gossip about me to co-workers. So l am glad God took me out of that toxic workplace. Please pray for me and l will pray for you.

  • @user-nb6nj6so6o
    @user-nb6nj6so6o Před 6 měsíci +3

    I got my heart broken at 57 years old left was just a close in my back left everything behind started from the bottom up. Getting closer to Christ and isolation for a whole year. I love your video. I just came across it today and I’m gonna keep watching many blessings to you.❤

  • @rhondajohnson6992
    @rhondajohnson6992 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wow you hit the nail on the head with this person for 39yrs. And I know you are not lieing

  • @amberlynnamyers1368
    @amberlynnamyers1368 Před 6 měsíci +9

    The devil is a liar and he is just trying to take your focus away with any negative comments keep it moving bro don’t let him win

  • @twobeagles1365
    @twobeagles1365 Před 6 měsíci +16

    I love what you stated Marc, I dont follow religion, but I follow Christ.... AMEN !

  • @lawlessbylena
    @lawlessbylena Před 6 měsíci +1

    Marc you have been blessing me with your videos for YEARS. IM ONLY 21. Your words/help/rebukes!!

  • @almostbetterthanmartha7673
    @almostbetterthanmartha7673 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You are a true man of God. I just love how the Spirit of God just flows from your spirit. Thank you for referencing the Bible throughout all of this. Shows that everything you're sharing is biblical and from the Spirit!!!!

  • @laurahennessy2893
    @laurahennessy2893 Před 6 měsíci +15

    I'm in the middle of ending a 30 year mirage, going to stay single after this. I can not ever trust man again.

    • @teresagaylor3995
      @teresagaylor3995 Před 2 měsíci

      I had a friend who never married. She was happy and never had the burden, of worrying about a man, and the way he might treat her. Stress free life, content. Dated men, but never let them live with her. What a woman, a great lady.

  • @Mr.Smith313
    @Mr.Smith313 Před 6 měsíci +8

    I'm going through a really tough time.... facing an eviction, unemployed, lust at an all-time high, just overall low spiritual vibration in my life. I stumbled across your videos earlier (God lead me to you), and I been soaking in all this good wisdom every since I pressed play. I appreciate you, young brother. Keep fighting the good fight and informing us on the love and teachings of God. Peace ✌🏾

  • @ayeem4142
    @ayeem4142 Před 6 měsíci +1

    this is sooo good and so on point .. I felt all this stuff was what God was sayin. ITS CONFIRMATION 🙏🏾

  • @divinebeauty10
    @divinebeauty10 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I'm only into a few minutes of this video and it speaks VOLUMES... blessings to you and your unfiltered #wisdom to guide in the way of spiritual thinking. Bless you. 🙌🏾

  • @believebugsey4482
    @believebugsey4482 Před 6 měsíci +22

    I’ve been betrayed too although I saw the signs I’m still hurt and now I feel blessed knowing this😊❤God bless you Marc❤🫂

  • @Alkebulanchirld
    @Alkebulanchirld Před 6 měsíci +9

    Its like God sent you to adress me . For 2 months my girl broke up. I’ve been depressed. But i started this year with tellin myself im gonna bee a chirld of God and i feel already so much better ❤️

  • @Vinegarissweet
    @Vinegarissweet Před 5 měsíci +1

    All of this was spot on. Thankfully, I learned my lesson sooner than later.

  • @user-me2hu7ls9o
    @user-me2hu7ls9o Před měsícem

    Everything that you are talking about is everything I've been through and is currently going through. You are speaking the truth my brother keep up the good work🙏👏 and may God bless you all the way from North Philadelphia....

  • @AAdren
    @AAdren Před 6 měsíci +18

    Hi Marc. I saw this on my feed and thought I misread it because of how relatable this topic is in my life right now. I was recently cheated on by my girlfriend and still feel heartbroken about it but I know now for certain that it was God who removed her from my life. The relationship was ungodly and I knew I was going against his will and I know that God has a greater calling for my life than some sinful relationship. Love your vids, I used to be big on watching you all the time but I backslid and this is the first vid that brought me back to your channel. Thank you and bless you brother❤️

  • @MutesiMelissa
    @MutesiMelissa Před 6 měsíci +25

    Thank you Marc for allowing God to use you as a vessel ! I really needed this message; God bless you and your family !

  • @frankcrawford5404
    @frankcrawford5404 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I went through all this after being single for 53 years of life. I never thought about being with anyone. I had a prayer answered. A prayer that should never have been asked for. It was a tough lesson that I am still working to get over. 😢 I was told it was the wrong path. I was just too stubborn to see. At the time I thought it was a test. Now I know it was a test to see how low I could make myself go. Not if I could make it work. All of these Resonate with what I went through. 💔💔💔. I knew better, but I also thought I was ready to handle the relationship. I tried to show love and compassion. In the end I can say it was never meant to be. I ask God and myself for forgiveness. Thank you for your help. Please pray that I can soon move on. I have to let go. My heart can't stop.

    • @MoPerspective
      @MoPerspective Před 5 měsíci +1

      Have faith that God has already removed the pain. Blessings🙏🏾🖤

  • @stephaniepappas5240
    @stephaniepappas5240 Před měsícem

    I didn’t finish the video yet but I will definitely finish. I haven’t seen your videos before and I have to say you have a wonderful speaking voice and presence so far. I appreciate authenticity and truth, so this is right up my alley. Thank you for sharing and for going public with your gift to speak and share.