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Komentáře • 85

  • @culturenomad2951
    @culturenomad2951 Před rokem +13

    These women just can't let the guy speak..bure kabisa !

  • @africatodayke
    @africatodayke Před rokem +14

    this man needs his own shows here on youtube. he's good.

    • @ekimbangola
      @ekimbangola Před rokem +2

      I agree and he doesn't get mad at them. He pauses and comes up with a good argument.

  • @roybinaisahmaina4462
    @roybinaisahmaina4462 Před rokem +5

    Man speaks wisdom,he is also considerate and argues respectfully....he speaks less,but sense

  • @good_hands1696
    @good_hands1696 Před měsícem +3

    Please after watching this interview. Watch the guys interview kingori

  • @ckkevinkigen4968
    @ckkevinkigen4968 Před rokem +8

    Dutchess does not allow Nyanchwani to talk. She asks and talks.

  • @samshadmuchui7857
    @samshadmuchui7857 Před rokem +12

    Those two ladies talked more than Silas

  • @faithnjoroge8390
    @faithnjoroge8390 Před rokem +8

    The two women needed to get a hold of themselves and keep their emotions in check to allow the guest give more insights.. I couldn’t even watch this halfway coz it just got noisy

  • @geraldnjoroge8922
    @geraldnjoroge8922 Před rokem +3

    This guy provoked my thought on gender and development especially when he takes it back in time - hunters and gatherers era.

  • @MrPendomojah
    @MrPendomojah Před rokem +18

    If only the guest can be allowed to finish his points and articulate without constant interference

    • @TalismanSarkozy9814
      @TalismanSarkozy9814 Před rokem

      True, they get triggered then they start shifting the goal post to avoid the answers

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 Před rokem +6

    I agree with the writer...most of the time the man lives in the woman's house hence the stunted growth of men...

  • @prestonkenyaofficial
    @prestonkenyaofficial Před rokem +5

    Silas was my Lecturer very smart fellow.

  • @africatodayke
    @africatodayke Před rokem +11

    this interview was a cringefest, the hosts were not prepared to listen to what the gentleman has to say.

  • @kijanayaaput8940
    @kijanayaaput8940 Před rokem +5

    *A woman should only be a compliment but not the main focus in a man's life.*

  • @rickomba
    @rickomba Před rokem +10

    Love the convo. Always interesting that women such as these get worked up when men have standards. But if women who have standards it's a great thing.

  • @tomodiero7524
    @tomodiero7524 Před rokem +8

    Let the dude talk and stop going to the exceptions all the time, there is a thing such as the average or the 95% rule. Hypergamy makes every woman think she is the top 5% of everything. She believes she is the exception, she is a princess, she is smart, she is beautiful Kevin Samuels used to say this a lot. RIP Kevin Samuels

  • @alexngash8327
    @alexngash8327 Před měsícem +2

    let the man speak ladies WHY interrupt him so much?

  • @kevintarruz2833
    @kevintarruz2833 Před rokem +2

    Silas talks then..... (interception in conversation). good ladies allow him to finish his stroooooong points

  • @shamimaoko
    @shamimaoko Před rokem +6

    Gosh they are attacking him from all sides...

  • @felixfelix2923
    @felixfelix2923 Před rokem +9

    You invited the guest for his opinion. Let him articulate his thoughts. It's like you invited him to put him down. The hosts argued based on emotions rather than facts. Let the man talk.

  • @kimaningethe9523
    @kimaningethe9523 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Karigo has just demonstrated exactly what Silas was describing in terms of argueing with the other gender. They are very fast to see the men who are 1 percenters and complain lack of representation at the top but they don't complain about the bottom tough jobs that are dominated by men such as fishing, mining, pushing carts, quarrying etc.

  • @winingmindset1934
    @winingmindset1934 Před rokem +2

    Tunafakuleta Adrew kibe here

  • @kimkeymoney478
    @kimkeymoney478 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This taught me the type of women to avoid...these two😅😅

  • @leonardoketch7652
    @leonardoketch7652 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I salute Silas for the patience in handling these women. It's just too annoying listening to them. When you bring in a guest on your show, your work is to moderate otherwise you can have your show and talk monologue. Poor journalism.

  • @someotherjamaa1443
    @someotherjamaa1443 Před měsícem +1

    I think if a guy is economically disadvantaged should first take care of himself to a point where he is living sustainably. Then and only then can he consider bring a woman into his life.

  • @edithpassionproject1098
    @edithpassionproject1098 Před rokem +11

    Can the gentleman get his word across? He can barely talk

    • @Kapteini
      @Kapteini Před rokem +1

      That host is domineering on even her co-host. She needs to let other people talk. It's all about her.

    • @ckkevinkigen4968
      @ckkevinkigen4968 Před rokem +1

      2hrs show he spoke 25mins i think.... Dutchess talks alot

  • @someotherjamaa1443
    @someotherjamaa1443 Před měsícem

    1:01:12 This is very very true...

  • @africanprince8941
    @africanprince8941 Před rokem +2

    Legendary guy

  • @williamunga
    @williamunga Před rokem +4

    Why did these women invite a man to the show when they cant let him speak?

  • @RamHadji
    @RamHadji Před rokem +5

    Silas N. is a writer focused on masculinity. He also writes memos on Facebook and has written almost 140 so far. They discuss reminders for men about women.

    Memo Man writes about masculinity and relationships
    00:00

    Marrying older women stunts men's growth
    05:44

    Advancements in society have led to opportunities for everyone, and women are not being treated unfairly.
    18:13

    Men blaming women for their problems is not always justified
    23:49

    Men need to reprogram themselves to prioritize self-care and supporting their partners.
    35:22

    Men are afraid of marriage due to increasing material responsibilities.
    40:53

    Women cheat for emotional or financial reasons
    53:16

    Illicit relationships may seem better, but they are toxic and not worth it.
    58:52

    Advice for fathers of daughters
    1:14:22

    The changing dynamics of relationships in modern times

  • @jessethedr7925
    @jessethedr7925 Před rokem +2

    Men had to go to wars and protect their countries, Women and Children. See what happened to Ukraine ,I didn't see the women battalion going up in arms demanding they will also go to the frontline.People are being mislead by the toxic feminist. But respect to the guy, very composed and we'll informed

  • @leonardoketch7652
    @leonardoketch7652 Před 2 měsíci +2

    The two ladies MUST learn to listen to their guest. They shallowed the conversation with too many interruptions. Journalism training is needed here.

  • @samsonchege7208
    @samsonchege7208 Před rokem

    Putting women/men rivalries into perspective

  • @ondemand-vo9ri
    @ondemand-vo9ri Před 2 měsíci

    Am watching this one year later and I can tell a clueless employee in the room

  • @Knowindustry
    @Knowindustry Před rokem +2

    interesting conversation 😀😀😀, key note in the bible, eve was nake after adam ate yet already eve ate first. female are totally compilated

  • @fredondima8170
    @fredondima8170 Před měsícem

    this man Nyanchwani spits a lot of sense.bt the moderators.waaah,,!😮😢

  • @zachariakinuthia1503
    @zachariakinuthia1503 Před rokem +2

    SILAS NYACHWANI
    KIBE
    AMERIX
    UNPLAGGED GUY
    Making men to wake up as you cant win an argument

  • @inmyveinsinmyveins1465
    @inmyveinsinmyveins1465 Před rokem +2

    BARBRA, is so hurt. Is she a single man?😂😂😂😂😂. she is trying to prove statics wrong as if she knows everything. Why call silas to a show and talk 60% of the time arguing😂😂.

  • @nomahsimdeux
    @nomahsimdeux Před rokem +4

    Could barely watch it man
    Let the man speak.
    Geez .

  • @ErycOyugi
    @ErycOyugi Před rokem +3

    The dude is typically the definition of a Purple Pill dude in which he is aware of Red Pill balance , but for a variety of insecurities he is uncomfortable with the truths of the harsh, ugly truths that the nature of women, the nature of Hypergamy and the natural selection process of intersexual dynamics occurs…. Rollo tomasi

    • @shamimaoko
      @shamimaoko Před rokem

      You sound deluded your brain is not engaging with your mouth...

  • @nyanumbamartin1487
    @nyanumbamartin1487 Před 6 měsíci

    Sometimes you could be responsible as a man but circumstances can slow you down, should you be blamed.

  • @kompanysisi5735
    @kompanysisi5735 Před rokem +2

    These ladies are very ignorant, men and women do not bear the same nature and nature owes you no explanation.

  • @itssshana335
    @itssshana335 Před 16 dny

    I'll try and keep this short. i like the comments. right observation. The two ladies are what Silas is talking about. Not in bad way. but they are failing to see Silas points. It's like they are selectively listening to men language . Their defense mechnisms or lack of accountability is up there . For example the pointing on boys going to sch and girl children not. Back then fees was scarce. Remember this was something new and traditionally men were expected to be the bread winners and are still. Men were expected to be the persuers in matters marriage. So the old folk preffered equiping the men. Women then just had to be marrriage material and they could find themselves living well. That was then. Yeah this is now hence the change. And these two men are supposed and are probably listening much better than the women out there.For example, how would this discusion go in a bar somewhere? Bottles would fly!!!
    Next time Silas have an older succesully marriad couple who have lived and thrived when this so called old ways prevailed. They will help you articluate ur points using a third and probably neutral eye. Coz already becuase of ur memo, ur like public women enemy no1. So ur points are valid but even before you utter a word, you are already playing near ur goal post, mostly defending. Yet, if women would very actively listen to you before marriage instead of Mombasa raha etc, then they would be better able to cope with living and helping their men succeed. Becuase atlaest they would learn the way we think, and be better able to help us succeed. instead of looking for ready-made men ($$$$$) who 90% of the time will not commit to such a person.

  • @samsonanami
    @samsonanami Před rokem +2

    You didn't give this bright man a good time to answer the questions, next time let him be interviewed with a man, you're talking a lot than the interviewee 😥

  • @PeaceLove-lb8rg
    @PeaceLove-lb8rg Před rokem +1

    Poor moderators,moderators spoke too much.

  • @Mburu1
    @Mburu1 Před rokem +1

    they cooked bro alive😂

    • @gakahuruko2331
      @gakahuruko2331 Před 3 měsíci +1

      How they were not allowing him to complete his thoughts. The ladies are emotional.

  • @chrisphineodhiamboogutu2111

    Who invited who? Am confused.

  • @kephakimani9338
    @kephakimani9338 Před rokem +3

    Interviewing skills poor. No moderation when he speaking. Poor listening skills.

  • @ikengitau
    @ikengitau Před rokem +2

    Karigo kept interrupting with irrelevant statements and goal-shifting

  • @eo9438
    @eo9438 Před rokem +2

    Why can't this duchess let a guest explain himself? She should learn to keep quiet when a man is speaking. She speaks too much. It's simple courtesy.

  • @tomodiero7524
    @tomodiero7524 Před rokem +4

    What happens if I have more than you? Are you then entitled to walk into my life? That's why many relationships are non starters, women have really nothing to offer men. If they have money they won't share.... it's pointless. Marriage is a bad deal for men nowadays period.

    • @futurefarms3440
      @futurefarms3440 Před rokem

      If a woman cannot give you atleast two kids forget it.

  • @wasilwajames4880
    @wasilwajames4880 Před rokem +1

    But I think it is wise,,to let a guest make his or her point without just interrupting carelessly

    • @wasilwajames4880
      @wasilwajames4880 Před rokem +1

      It is hard to hold logical conversations with some women

  • @dominicruriga5866
    @dominicruriga5866 Před 6 měsíci +2

    The two women are noisy and interruptive.

  • @donwambugu
    @donwambugu Před rokem +2

    This was just a crucification You cannot reason rationally with women. Sir keep teaching your target audience, men.

  • @mauricemonroe2836
    @mauricemonroe2836 Před rokem +2

    The women on this show should be taught on-air etiquette. They are just interrupting him from putting his point across.

  • @greyosoro1885
    @greyosoro1885 Před 5 měsíci +1

    the most useless interview to watch where the moderators talk more than the guest

  • @langat007
    @langat007 Před rokem +4

    This man is sitted in the room with two women trying to convince them how men think.
    It's a losing battle man.
    Sasa sikia, he's editing his words juu it's incongruent with how he's thinking. He might get cancelled like Shafi Weru and lose his opinion piece in the columns section on the dailies.
    Investigate why they are single mothers, therein lies the issue.

    • @ErycOyugi
      @ErycOyugi Před rokem

      The dude is just a purple pill guy aka Mr nice guy

  • @galanxotv
    @galanxotv Před rokem +1

    most young men find jobs and get married. Which jobs ? These typa conversations are always fine when they are unilateral, Nyanchwan or whoever you are its even weird youre having it with women. Plus size noisy ones.😔