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  • @user-wm6rv6xo5q
    @user-wm6rv6xo5q Před rokem +4312

    What hurts most is if that evil person is part of your own family.

    • @nikkiturnup1688
      @nikkiturnup1688 Před rokem +308

      Yes family these days are the worst !

    • @user-hk2wr5yi3p
      @user-hk2wr5yi3p Před rokem +164

      Feel your pain

    • @tamtamtt63
      @tamtamtt63 Před rokem +98

      Yeah tell me about it

    • @avasmith3451
      @avasmith3451 Před rokem +223

      That will be my parents and my 2 sisters , im the middle child , they made me the scrapegoat for everything , they were like clones of each other the things they did and said the smirks the eye rolls , i knew though they were pure evil , hence i left home soon as i could 17 years old , and live as far away from them as possible

    • @robertc.6441
      @robertc.6441 Před rokem +73

      @@avasmith3451 I know how you feel, with me it's not necessarily my sister's, but my brother, SAD!

  • @lucillekluivert343
    @lucillekluivert343 Před rokem +2157

    DONT TELL PEOPLE TO SET BOUNDARIES WHEN DEALING WITH AN EVIL PERSON BUT TELL THEM TO STAY AWAY FROM THEM OR RUN FROM THEM

    • @sanzupun4713
      @sanzupun4713 Před rokem +93

      Most of the time it's impossible to get away from evil person as it can be any one in our family..we won't be able to run from them..we can't just change our job whenever we want or ghost our siblings if any of them turns out to be evil person.its easier to say than done...it's good to know how to set boundaries and fight back than just running away

    • @lindaoneil5085
      @lindaoneil5085 Před rokem +106

      Agreed. Evil people don't respect boundaries. What they do respect is a punch in the nose.

    • @lucillekluivert343
      @lucillekluivert343 Před rokem +60

      @@sanzupun4713 I WOULD RATHER DO WHAT PLEASES GOD THAN MEN BECAUSE I DONT WANNA WALK ON EGG SHELLS WITH ANYBODY NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE ITS BETTER TO CONNECT WITH PEOPLE ON THE SAME PATH LIKE YOU THAT MEANS EQUALLY YOKED AND IF NOT I DONT WANNA DEAL WITH YOU TO TAKE ME OF MY PATH WITH GOD ,I CAN PRAY FOR THEM FROM A DISTANCE I WANNA LIVE IN PEACE WITH GOD AND MEN

    • @laurenduvall8547
      @laurenduvall8547 Před rokem +27

      Hell yes! It doesn't matter if they are your boss or parent.

    • @lucillekluivert343
      @lucillekluivert343 Před rokem

      @@laurenduvall8547 TRUE BECAUSE THEY LOVE TO RUIN YOUR PEACE AND BREAK YOUR SPIRIT

  • @dekka888
    @dekka888 Před 8 měsíci +181

    After 50 yrs of life on this planet I have learnt to see Everyone as evil until they show me otherwise.

    • @vordman
      @vordman Před 4 měsíci +24

      I think that's a sensible policy. I'm ten years older, and outside family and long-term friends I don't trust anyone. I've been stung a few times and now I don't care who I offend while sticking to my beliefs. One tip I'll happily share is, never trust anyone in a suit. Unless you're at a funeral or a wedding!

    • @billfarley9167
      @billfarley9167 Před 4 měsíci +2

      You must be fun to be with.

    • @DavidReyes210TX
      @DavidReyes210TX Před 2 měsíci +10

      We are all born in Sin. It's inevitable we are all evil
      We all have pride ego and Arrogance. We seek pleasure in food, money, sex, drugs, attention, etc. no matter if we have it all we will still feel empty.
      The Bible states we do not wrestle with flesh and blood, but against rulers, against the authorities of the unseen world,
      Against might powers of this dark world and against evil spirits in the heavenly places
      Ephesians 6:12.
      That's why we Must trust in the Lord. Jesus died in the cross for us. Resurrected on the 3rd day so we can have everlasting eternal life in he's presence of LOVE.
      Once you Follow Christ.
      Chris will live within your heart and you will no longer be a part of this evil world we live in
      You will stand out. Your love & peace will be recognized.

    • @CoreyWagers-hi6cu
      @CoreyWagers-hi6cu Před 2 měsíci +2

      Good ? Evil ?? These terms are childlike descriptions... Nobodys evil until they are.... No bodys good until they are... All a stage .. all bs..

    • @yamiyo6050
      @yamiyo6050 Před 2 měsíci

      Bible agrees with u

  • @jsj31313jj
    @jsj31313jj Před měsícem +8

    "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places".

  • @ana.d5367
    @ana.d5367 Před 11 měsíci +1332

    1) Charming/too good to be true
    2) Lack of empathy
    3) Manipulative/lying/gaslighting
    4) Controlling/violent/noisy
    5) Pathological liar

    • @mssoulsister2186
      @mssoulsister2186 Před 11 měsíci +4

      = A NARCISSIST!!

    • @judycrisenbery2982
      @judycrisenbery2982 Před 11 měsíci +35

      My 2 sisters

    • @fjj310
      @fjj310 Před 11 měsíci +103

      Also the signs of a narcissist

    • @dylanx9327
      @dylanx9327 Před 11 měsíci +57

      looks like you are describing Mohamed in the Koran..

    • @salmaabbasi6978
      @salmaabbasi6978 Před 11 měsíci +33

      @@dylanx9327May Allah guide you to treat people the way you want to be treated. Have a blessed life🤲

  • @redfritz3356
    @redfritz3356 Před rokem +1424

    Blaming you for their mistakes is also a very common trick.

    • @LION-on4gd
      @LION-on4gd Před rokem +40

      Anyway these ones Always do "Blameshifting".

    • @flintwestwood3596
      @flintwestwood3596 Před rokem +15

      Blaming others is not necessarily a sign of evil. It may just be they have a hard time relating to people, but big picture, they actually protect you and bail you out of sticky situations. Their actions then show they're good people. I live with someone who's exactly like this, they abuse me verbally and physically, always blame me for thigs I'm not responsible for, theaten me with destroying property under my name to "punish" me when they feel disobeyed, tell me I'm nothing but a failure and will always fail at my projects and accuse me of being a bad person, but this person always has my back when faced with challenges from the "outside world." Has never dropped the ball once on me.

    • @jeffreyfunke8866
      @jeffreyfunke8866 Před rokem +17

      Any politician!

    • @olavi401
      @olavi401 Před 11 měsíci

      Good call. I just worked for a devil for six months. What a stereo type of an untruthful, uncivilized, and evil person. Scary thought is that perhaps 75 - 85 percent of small businesses are run by criminals like him. Never again!

    • @nataliecampbell2439
      @nataliecampbell2439 Před 11 měsíci +19

      Shifts focus off of them and placing blame on you to make themselves feel better

  • @RuboXing
    @RuboXing Před 2 měsíci +14

    One more way to spot an evil person is when he / she trying to gather information about you

  • @ay-tj7pj
    @ay-tj7pj Před 26 dny +10

    You see people's evilness when things don't go their way. They will get mad, belittle, shame & also manipulate other people to hate you.

    • @Deborah-uw5ip
      @Deborah-uw5ip Před 22 dny

      Going through just that. Ignoring works...until they repeatedly call even after I said I'd only text bc I don't want the verbal BS.

  • @blessedacre2933
    @blessedacre2933 Před 10 měsíci +1161

    Serious question. Does it seem like evil people are increasing, or is it just me? Seems like it is REALLY hard to find people who are genuine and kind.

    • @NewKasuto
      @NewKasuto Před 10 měsíci +65

      I think people are just more open about it now. Occasionally you would see people looting stores after a riot or a natural disaster years ago, but now in 2023 you can see some people just walk into a retail store just fill up a cart or bags and walk out the store.

    • @everrealeuginia75
      @everrealeuginia75 Před 10 měsíci +35

      I know right! So crazy!

    • @elsiegreer826
      @elsiegreer826 Před 10 měsíci +82

      Very hard to find genuine caring friends. If you have one - that’s enough

    • @Matthew_85k
      @Matthew_85k Před 10 měsíci +38

      In my experience, I walk into places where I know people and most of them are "decent" but a truly nice person is always hard to find. I suppose it's worth pointing out that sometimes it's easy for nice people to give a bad impression. I myself have definitely put my foot in my mouth more than once. There have been times where I blurted out something mean or should have given someone more attention than I did.
      Perhaps part of it is your perception has changed over the years which has made you more aware of peoples flaws. I suppose, sometimes we have to take the good with the bad. Even my closest Christian friends have displayed their ugly side to me before.
      If indeed evil people are increasing, I blame the media and world around us for telling them that it's OK.

    • @charleswhite758
      @charleswhite758 Před 10 měsíci +38

      Many people are genuine and kind - but only up to a limit. Perhaps we expect too much? The worst are "Christians" who are so nice and kind to you but you know it's all fake because they want to go to heaven. When people are nice but are not religious, that is quite something, because it's genuine with no self-interest tacked-on.

  • @davidhunter2824
    @davidhunter2824 Před rokem +1668

    Evil parents and relatives are even harder to deal with. If you're dealing with a toxic parent or relative, the best way to deal with them is to avoid being around them as much as possible. Show them that their behavior is unacceptable and you will not be around them. Its hard to deal with toxic parents and relatives, but remember this: you deserve respect and anyone who doesn't respect you should be removed from your life.

  • @nikiyubari5499
    @nikiyubari5499 Před 5 měsíci +12

    you hear it in their voice and see it in their eyes.

  • @kristoff1skalet176
    @kristoff1skalet176 Před měsícem +4

    Gotta love the ones who manipulate you into sharing your life stories just so they can gossip

  • @angelacarbon4010
    @angelacarbon4010 Před 10 měsíci +196

    Sometimes they only seem interested in you to get information about you to attack you at a later time.

    • @fishstar3740
      @fishstar3740 Před 7 měsíci +12

      That’s true, I have experienced it.

    • @Morisonparker10
      @Morisonparker10 Před 6 měsíci

      Please forgive my manner of approach, for dropping a non related comment here on your personal page. I'm trying to be cool and believe me I'm cool. Please feel free to become friends with me and talk to me, I will really appreciate that.Your profile was suggested to me, so I decide to drop a comment as a medium of asking permission and friendship, so it wouldn't had been possible to know that such an amazing young lady like do exist if you were not suggested to me

    • @angelacarbon4010
      @angelacarbon4010 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@Morisonparker10 Who suggested my profile to you?

    • @Morisonparker10
      @Morisonparker10 Před 6 měsíci

      @@angelacarbon4010 I was just going through some news here and your profile popped up, wanting to know you so i write to you so we can get to know each other. i mean no harm.

    • @Morisonparker10
      @Morisonparker10 Před 6 měsíci

      @@angelacarbon4010 I don't know if you had a whatsap so we can get to know more about our self if you don't mind

  • @Awake-Free-CT
    @Awake-Free-CT Před 10 měsíci +536

    I have one more important piece of advice when dealing with these people. Never tell them your personal business or your fears, or anything you dont want people to know as they will most definitely use it against you to control you and possibly blackmail you with and get inside your head, making you feel guilty etc, turning other people against you.
    I find the best way is to just keep certain things to yourself and don't trust anyone fully.

    • @reeseythings6575
      @reeseythings6575 Před 10 měsíci +10

      Weaknesses is the word your looking for

    • @Rhiannoncout
      @Rhiannoncout Před 10 měsíci +7

      You are so right!

    • @RonHolland-ke8jc
      @RonHolland-ke8jc Před 10 měsíci +6

      Hello. I remember seeing a poster decades ago that said "trust everyone but cut the cards" took me awhile to understand it. However I didn't know it also refered to relatives.

    • @Kim-427
      @Kim-427 Před 10 měsíci +15

      Absolutely do not tell them your fears. They will use them against you and to manipulate you to control you emotionally.

    • @yolandabendter903
      @yolandabendter903 Před 10 měsíci

      I had one,,,Who planned his evil strategy,,,from the onset,,,An evil minded android"(NOT EVEN,,,AT LEAST AN ANDROID,,,IS NOT EVIL ON ITS ON FRUITION),,,Why must you destroy,,,a person who did nothing to you---because you are decayed within---"(NOT EVEN---AT LEAST DEAD MATTER DOES NOT Destroy)",,, WHAT MATTER OF concoction is this thing,,,

  • @jennieosborne3530
    @jennieosborne3530 Před 4 měsíci +16

    I can't tolerate anyone that is controlling or manipulative. I had to either step back or cut it off completely with them.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před měsícem

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @Fre-k9f
      @Fre-k9f Před 14 dny

      You Want to Be Narcissistic of Yourself so that people will praise you, but do not think about Others in order to change their Evil to the Path of Good​@@KM-oy5yh

  • @Betterversion09
    @Betterversion09 Před 9 měsíci +67

    To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life. I hope anything that bothers you and makes you feel depressed will go away and you will feel comfortable with this video. Don't worry, tomorrow is a new day. Start over. It's not too late yet.

  • @renecurry9978
    @renecurry9978 Před 11 měsíci +242

    Through my experience evil people don’t tolerate boundaries. They resent your attempt to have them and seek revenge.

    • @Dawn737
      @Dawn737 Před 10 měsíci +15

      Yeah, that's what I thought. The video describes evil people well but gives absolutely terrible advice about how to handle them. If evil people listened when told "I need credit for my own work", they wouldn't be so evil in the first place! The better way to deal with the evil person is to cut them out of your life as much as possible and never be shy to tell everyone else why. For instance, tell the boss that your coworker keeps claiming credit for your work, not your evil coworker. If your boss is the one who is evil, leave him scrambling while you walk away to your new job.

    • @GrowWildOutdoors
      @GrowWildOutdoors Před 10 měsíci +6

      Agreed - the retaliation is fast & fierce.

    • @phylliscruz7090
      @phylliscruz7090 Před 7 měsíci

      You said exactly what I am thinking but I wasn't sure if I was thinking correctly. So thankyou and God Bless Us Everyone!

    • @RekhaSharma-gh7hs
      @RekhaSharma-gh7hs Před 2 měsíci

      This is sooo true @renecurry9978

  • @randomvintagefilm273
    @randomvintagefilm273 Před 10 měsíci +591

    One clue that comes to mind is they never say they are sorry (because they aren't)

    • @netosampaio8548
      @netosampaio8548 Před 8 měsíci +35

      Yes, they do say sorry when they think they can get more out of you, or when they need to fake empathy. It's all transactional with these monsters.

    • @YakyahMuhammad-ep9ne
      @YakyahMuhammad-ep9ne Před 7 měsíci +2

      Wow lol

    • @YakyahMuhammad-ep9ne
      @YakyahMuhammad-ep9ne Před 7 měsíci

      Yep Antonio Finn and Sebastian manning

    • @bettyh3747
      @bettyh3747 Před 7 měsíci +6

      I had bosses like that

    • @dannyg6053
      @dannyg6053 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Or thank you

  • @GodHelpMe369
    @GodHelpMe369 Před měsícem +5

    I was best friends with a psychopath.
    I always admired how calm he was. Cool and calm. He was a nice guy. Former preacher.
    He always drove as fast as he could. Drove in the left lane.
    He faked empathy.
    He future-faked me all the time.
    He betrayed me in the end. After 12 years of friendship.
    I now realize that psychopaths want to see you beg. It makes them feel powerful.
    He did the same thing to his ex wife. He abandoned her when she was pregnant with their baby.
    He refused to help her. I now understand why she despises him so much.
    He has no conscience. He lies to everyone. He steals every chance he gets.
    If you meet someone who shows little emotion, watch out!

    • @user-wh1lz1et9w
      @user-wh1lz1et9w Před 14 dny

      How do u know if his wife cheated or not? U must be fried

  • @nadiakhan6577
    @nadiakhan6577 Před 5 měsíci +17

    To stay away from EVIL PEOPLE.... I have nobody I socialize with beside my immediately family.... It keeps me safe from these horrid evil people 😮

    • @theresaaubry2481
      @theresaaubry2481 Před 2 měsíci +2

      👀 This is exactly why I love being an introvert...

    • @TheSecretDwellingPlace
      @TheSecretDwellingPlace Před měsícem +1

      Exactly same here. You have to move different to be safe from these evildoers.

  • @diopfifi4937
    @diopfifi4937 Před rokem +292

    Yup. They take pleasure causing pain, humiliation. I worked with a lady like that.

    • @lindaoneil5085
      @lindaoneil5085 Před rokem +26

      So did I. I had a co-worker who gave off bad vibes that made me nervous just being around her, even though I had never met her before. But as time went on, she deliberately gave me bad info so I would make a mistake, and the boss bawled me out in front of the crew. She smirked, enjoying my embarrassment. She did everything she could to make me quit or get fired. She sabotaged my work, used verbal and physical intimidation, lied to the boss about me, and tried to start a fight with me one day by getting within an inch of my face. She was lazy, did the bare minimum of work required, and didn't help when the workload got heavy. We worked together for 18 months, then she quit. Nobody was sad to see her go, because she had alienated the rest of the crew with her laziness and lying. *if someone is giving off bad vibes trust your instincts*

    • @diopfifi4937
      @diopfifi4937 Před rokem +13

      @@lindaoneil5085 that's exactly what I was dealing with. OMG they are scary and evil 😈💔😭

    • @melissagreene4174
      @melissagreene4174 Před rokem +14

      I had one of those coworkers.

    • @lindaoneil5085
      @lindaoneil5085 Před rokem +15

      @@melissagreene4174 I understand totally. You have enough stress about work, without some hateful person trying to trip you up and cause more unnecessary stress.

    • @jamesbyrne9312
      @jamesbyrne9312 Před rokem +4

      My friend does this through sports we play together. They can't stand looking second to me. They are mad

  • @garycordle5295
    @garycordle5295 Před rokem +305

    Boundaries is nothing but challenge fuel to these evil parasites, once you know you go you get out and you stay out,no contact 🙏

    • @kristineloader1876
      @kristineloader1876 Před 11 měsíci +3

    • @SJJewel-fl2jl
      @SJJewel-fl2jl Před 11 měsíci +10

      I had someone in my life for a few years that was the poster child for being a boundary crossed. It was the fight of my life and the most exhausting thing I ever experienced. I finally had to totally ignore this person to the point of being cruel which was foreign to me but I persevered. It really was them or me. I knew I would win because ultimately they cannot stand to lose..it's too much of a hit for their fragile ego. They are finally gone..ŵell it's been a year since last contact..what's important I am gone..because they may try contact even after a long time. I do not respond and that is the key...never..ever respond.

    • @batphink2655
      @batphink2655 Před 10 měsíci +4

      AND return or preferably throw out ALL gifts they may have given you or anything you let them borrow as these object will have 'Spiritual Attachmendt' with them increasing their power over you.

    • @courtneymeyers82
      @courtneymeyers82 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Boss trying to get me to quit or get fired, scapegoated and sabotaged. High turnover, she can't resist playing her twisted games. She has actually gone in and manipulated files in my work queue. I really think she enjoys harassing and tormenting people until they quit, like a cat plays with a mouse before killing it

    • @tatie7604
      @tatie7604 Před 10 měsíci +7

      ​Consider changing jobs. Seriously.

  • @ROCKNROLLFAN
    @ROCKNROLLFAN Před 9 měsíci +10

    I do my best to keep them OUT of my circle especially for peace of mind and focus.

  • @donnahaynes2325
    @donnahaynes2325 Před 5 měsíci +15

    He was nice, giving and charismatic to everyone but me, the girlfriend. In addition to verbal & physical abuse. I finally managed to get out of it. Thank God! 🙏

    • @Stubbornclarity
      @Stubbornclarity Před 4 měsíci +1

      They target kind people. And use them for everything they can! Wishing you healing and recovery. And happiness.

  • @georgeenke4937
    @georgeenke4937 Před rokem +205

    I just want to live in a small cabin on a little island.

  • @elizabethcameron6045
    @elizabethcameron6045 Před 10 měsíci +352

    My mother was this. A malignant narcissist.
    As a child I was terrified of her and, after years of hard work in therapy, I feel the best I have ever felt in my 65 years on this earth.
    20 years with her almost did me in and I have a brother and a sister who didn't survive her both mentally and physically.
    Evil people are no joke! Get away from them any way you can. You deserve your freedom!

    • @funsiwemargaretmzyece9601
      @funsiwemargaretmzyece9601 Před 10 měsíci +9

      Read the bible about PARENTS

    • @danielconde001
      @danielconde001 Před 10 měsíci +28

      ​@@funsiwemargaretmzyece9601 doesn't matter what it says. parents should earn their honor, not given by default.

    • @Dom-vo9ni
      @Dom-vo9ni Před 10 měsíci +4

      ​@@funsiwemargaretmzyece9601Mary has to have faith Jesus is the messiah.

    • @nancyranft4801
      @nancyranft4801 Před 10 měsíci +4

      ​@@danielconde001
      In my opinion most parents do "earn" the respect they're entitled to...and then some. The "troubled" child (be they 15 or 50) will not recognize what they are not capable of understanding, respect.

    • @Khalfrank
      @Khalfrank Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@nancyranft4801shut up

  • @jeffreygallahar4650
    @jeffreygallahar4650 Před 7 měsíci +17

    I have cut ties with a family member after years of being passive about the abuse that I suffered and witnessed. I was a full blown practicing alcoholic . After 7 unsuccessful trips to treatment I was able to stop drinking (almost 900 days now) by standing up to him. He is very good at playing the game. Now my other family members have turned against me, it's Christmas and I'm spending it with my dogs, sober though. Sure beats slowly killing myself with alcohol.❤

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql Před 7 měsíci +2

      When I tried to tell my siblings about my childhood abuse they stood up for my parents. That is when the relationship ended.

    • @sandradsouza3272
      @sandradsouza3272 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Pls don't Drink I Beg of U...God Will Surely Heal U. I Will Pray for U. U Will Even Testify to the GLORY of God Amen!!

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před měsícem

      ​@@sandradsouza3272AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER, In #Jesus's Name, AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

  • @scottyoung1489
    @scottyoung1489 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Sadistic people are often quite manipulative.

  • @iamjustsaying4787
    @iamjustsaying4787 Před 10 měsíci +270

    Being “aggressive” to get your way is not usually yelling. The yelling is very often the victim trying to draw boundaries. The most evil is the passive aggressive. The ones who quietly make the victim look like the bad guy. Now that’s evil.

    • @xthexskrillex
      @xthexskrillex Před 9 měsíci +15

      underated comment!

    • @VeronicaDavis-zv3mo
      @VeronicaDavis-zv3mo Před 7 měsíci +7

      My mother was narcissistic.God rest her soul.

    • @scarletevans4474
      @scarletevans4474 Před 5 měsíci +2

      I usually try to reply to them with passive-agressive too, it can be quite effective! 🙂People are often demonizing passive-agressiveness too much, while it's often good both for being assertive, as well as opposing people that are trying to be too manipulative!

    • @somethinggood222
      @somethinggood222 Před 4 měsíci +1

      yes!

    • @dannyg6053
      @dannyg6053 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Ya bc passive aggressive ppl have no spine they are sneaky nosey jealous and irrational people.. Matter of fact they are full of sociopathic traits.. A cowardly manipulator can create a lot of chaos thru others, although they are usually stupid AF and CANNOT handle confrontation

  • @theresahaines2647
    @theresahaines2647 Před rokem +328

    You’re describing all narcissists!

  • @EttyMachete
    @EttyMachete Před 3 měsíci +9

    Spotting evil people is simple. The real challenge lies in identifying genuinely good individuals.

    • @angieangiel2666
      @angieangiel2666 Před 28 dny +2

      And those kind of people have hundreds of friends while good and real people seldom have any. People like being around toxic people.

  • @karenbell4145
    @karenbell4145 Před 7 měsíci +11

    There are a few people in my life who I feel are evil. One of whom is really sick and out of control. I would start to get palpitations from this person. That's not good 😢. This video was so on target on so many levels. Thanks for showing this.

  • @kathymankin1624
    @kathymankin1624 Před 10 měsíci +168

    Run for your life once you realize someone is evil. They can’t change.

    • @lamonthamilton667
      @lamonthamilton667 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Or Rarely!!!!! DO.

    • @tommcdonough6086
      @tommcdonough6086 Před 7 měsíci +7

      Agree life is to short to be around TOXIC people, don't have time for drama. Peace.............

    • @Morisonparker10
      @Morisonparker10 Před 6 měsíci

      Please forgive my manner of approach, for dropping a non related comment here on your personal page, I saw your profile and found you intriguing .Your personality of fun loving is very attractive to me. You seem quite intelligent and have a mature perspective on life.I'm looking for friendship please feel free to talk to me here on our comment section i will highly appreciate that❤❤❤

  • @sleepydoppy8516
    @sleepydoppy8516 Před 11 měsíci +172

    If you think you are with a narcissist, run as fast as you can. And for your own health and sanity, no contact as much as possible

    • @batphink2655
      @batphink2655 Před 10 měsíci +7

      When you live near Toronto that means half the people you've e met!

    • @mariaalexander7037
      @mariaalexander7037 Před 10 měsíci +5

      When the evil person tries to destroy you that vampire ends up destroying himself when you detatch yourself completely. Children included. They chose his controlling and disrespect toxic behaviour. I won. They lost.

    • @BST-lm4po
      @BST-lm4po Před 10 měsíci +3

      Just remember, anyone who would cheat on a partner,.. would stab you in the back too!
      They're narcissists,..all they care about is themselves!

  • @user-gv1yg8ym7m
    @user-gv1yg8ym7m Před 2 měsíci +6

    Most people try to be a good person but greed has corrupted most people so much that when they actually meet a genuine human being, they try to exploit them without any regrets.
    Humans will be the reason of extinction of humanity.

  • @mirellefritz9862
    @mirellefritz9862 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I was dating a guy who pretended to be kind and turned out to be very sick mentally, especially sexually, with disturbing proclivities. He used emotional torture on me, and at one point, an overwhelming sense of evil struck me as I sat in this mans presence. I've never felt evil that strongly before, but I see that event as bringing me back to my faith in God and Jesus.

  • @josiah5776
    @josiah5776 Před rokem +387

    My parents were narcissists, and I later married a woman who was diagnosed as a psychopath. Her father was also a narc. All of them strongly displayed all five of these traits.

    • @rizcayrecordings
      @rizcayrecordings Před rokem +37

      That is terrible i hope you are doing well in life though!

    • @josiah5776
      @josiah5776 Před rokem +51

      @@rizcayrecordings Thanks man! Happiest I’ve ever been after cutting all of them, and Corporate Amerika, out of my life.

    • @SmokeyMcb
      @SmokeyMcb Před rokem +19

      Earlier tonight I called out my mom's error while calling her to repent of her blasphemy of taking Jesus's name in vain because my mom professes to be a Christian and yet she proudly blasphemes Jesus's name and refuses to repent and here written below is my narcissistic mother's response:
      "You are a worthless son."
      Be aware that my mom used to verbally, emotionally, spiritually and physically abuse my younger brother while gaslighting him which is what caused my younger brother to commit suicide.
      My mom was smiling when my mom rejoiced in my brother's suicide while my mom told me these words which were:
      "I'm glad your brother is dead."
      My mom has even threatened to murder my unborn children through a forced abortion if I ever get my fiancée pregnant.
      That means that my mom will resort to even pushing my pregnant fiancée down the stairs in order to kill both her and our unborn children if my fiancée refuses to do what my mother says and get an abortion.
      My mom wants to kill off my bloodline because my mother does not want me to fulfill God's will which is fall in love, get married and start a family all because my mom does the will of her father the devil who comes to steal, kill and destroy.

    • @mickac4073
      @mickac4073 Před rokem +12

      @@SmokeyMcb omg, how horrific i!! Are you ok …. Did you go to therapy…?

    • @arcwellhernandez9127
      @arcwellhernandez9127 Před rokem +15

      @@SmokeyMcbro you need to run now no matter how bad the situation is u need to get out fast . That’s an evil spirit on her . I have delt with something similar as well

  • @mattansell8275
    @mattansell8275 Před 10 měsíci +32

    People are never more evil when they see themselves as good and those they are harming 'deserve it'.

  • @Princessunicorn01
    @Princessunicorn01 Před měsícem +2

    I’ve dealt with controlling family members before… I’m glad I left them 😅

  • @JaneNoordpool
    @JaneNoordpool Před 10 dny +2

    Most of the times evil people underestimate their victims. They think that you are stupid and you dont know whats going on.

  • @Godwins47
    @Godwins47 Před 11 měsíci +148

    Until Karma hits!!!! Then they lose! True story!! Seen it happen right before my eyes!

    • @OumyLand-wf7tp
      @OumyLand-wf7tp Před 10 měsíci +22

      I don’t know I’ve seen people that did horrible things but they seem living their best life 🤷‍♀️

    • @bridgettestone5585
      @bridgettestone5585 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Me too

    • @Monatio79
      @Monatio79 Před 10 měsíci +18

      @@OumyLand-wf7tp But are they really "living their best life" or does it just seem that way?
      And the thing about karma is spot on. The laws of nature dictate that you cannot keep getting away with being an evil person and expect nothing to happen. Maybe not tomorrow, next week or next year, but eventually; what goes around comes around.

    • @OumyLand-wf7tp
      @OumyLand-wf7tp Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@Monatio79 i hope so

    • @PacDarRelaxation
      @PacDarRelaxation Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@Monatio79 This is very true. I saw this happen many times to people who treated me badly for no reason.

  • @larrymaxwell8565
    @larrymaxwell8565 Před rokem +105

    If you just meeting someone and they tell you they have a personality disorder "runnnnn".

    • @breakthroughmoment1647
      @breakthroughmoment1647 Před rokem +9

      @@dextermorgan4490Right. With narcissists it’s a CHOICE. They choose to do evil.

    • @jaquayjenkins538
      @jaquayjenkins538 Před 11 měsíci +2

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    • @petesaria-hf1xh
      @petesaria-hf1xh Před 10 měsíci

      Yes, it is, and yes, they do.@@dextermorgan4490

  • @Jason-Moon
    @Jason-Moon Před 7 měsíci +3

    We all have the potential for good and evil within us and we have free will to choose between them in our thoughts, words, and actions. It's the choices we make between good and evil that define the shape of our souls.

  • @tracyarnett1279
    @tracyarnett1279 Před měsícem +2

    That’s why it’s better to have acquaintances only

  • @courtneybealdavis6493
    @courtneybealdavis6493 Před 11 měsíci +491

    This basically describes Anti Social Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and possible Psychopathy. Very good video.

  • @MauriceRivers415
    @MauriceRivers415 Před 10 měsíci +223

    When dealing with evil people, distance yourself ASAP and cut off all contact. Silence is killer to their ego, because then they have no access to you, which is what they crave in order to feed their insecurity.

    • @elizabethbowie9753
      @elizabethbowie9753 Před 7 měsíci +12

      True, but when I went No Contact, they got crazier, to get a reaction out of me.

    • @tanyawales5445
      @tanyawales5445 Před 7 měsíci

      Eventually that sort of behavior stops. It can take a long time though. In my ex-husband's case it was when I got the third protection order for myself and my son. My ex-husband's lawyer told him that if he didn't give me what I wanted that he would lose all contact with our son. I got physical custody, 100% child support and medical coverage for my son. I was also able to move with my son to within a 600 mile radius from where I was living. I called it the "Zone of Freedom". Prior to that, I was confined to the county where the divorce was granted. Up to that point I was dragged into court multiple times, harassed and our son who had mental problems had his medication and treatment withheld periodically by my ex. I was bankrupted from the legal fees. My ex also tried to ruin my reputation. This happened for SIX years after the divorce.
      Once I had my freedom, my ex left the area suddenly and didn't contact his son ONCE in over three years. My ex did pay his child support. All of this childhood trauma ruined my son. He won't take his medication for bipolar illness since his father always told him that I was the crazy one and my son became threatening towards me. I had to cut my adult son out of my life for my physical and emotional wellbeing.
      What I learned was to always stick to the letter of the divorce agreement and to never compromise with the ex-spouse because they will always end up double crossing you by stating to police that YOU violated the divorce agreement in an effort to get you arrested. Use the court system to protect you and your children if there is violence with Orders of Protection. If you can get alimony - take it! Alimony would have paid my legal bills from when I was dragged into court by my ex who had more money than I did. With alimony I would have avoided bankruptcy.

    • @janharris8949
      @janharris8949 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thanks!

    • @spaideman440
      @spaideman440 Před 4 měsíci

      @@elizabethbowie9753 yes, when you go no contact, they will try every mean to get a reaction out of you, including trying to influence my children to achieve the evil person's goal.

    • @kd741
      @kd741 Před 4 měsíci

      @@elizabethbowie9753just do. All you can to keep them away.

  • @bbbelay
    @bbbelay Před 7 měsíci +1

    “I appreciate your interest in my work, but I would prefer it if you didn't take credit for it. It's important for me to receive recognition for my own contributions. “ thank you for your words of wisdom. I’ll memorise those words and hopefully I’ll be able to protect myself in the workplace.

  • @CarmenGarcia-sq2ld
    @CarmenGarcia-sq2ld Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you for letting me know about evil people. I've ran across people like that. It's beast that if you feel funny about being around a person, please stay away from that person. I was in a 3 situations that I felt funny whenever I see that person; I've ignored that feeling and went on ahead and delt with them anyway. I was lied to, cheated on, lied on, used and played with by them.

  • @joekidd1057
    @joekidd1057 Před 10 měsíci +193

    Spotting Evil is getting really easy in these Days. Try finding someone kind and righteous, now there's a challenge. Thanks for the thumbs up, it's a shame there wasn't more. It's more than 1 though. Keep up the good work, and God Bless.

    • @user-tr5ts6dp6i
      @user-tr5ts6dp6i Před 10 měsíci

      Evil people lie, dominate, burn with jealousy, make u sick n eye your money. I know two people, n only God can save me from them.

    • @anony5021
      @anony5021 Před 10 měsíci +3

      💯

    • @seanodwyer4322
      @seanodwyer4322 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Royal Prophet/seer/ Intercessorr- Sean O'Dwyer- 136- 140 Hobson street.- Auckland city.- 1010. - new zealand.- South pacific.'''

    • @janaleland9038
      @janaleland9038 Před 7 měsíci +1

      YSHUA Said that when HE Came Back, would HE Find even one person of this Faith and belief --in reference to the legionnaire's beloved and very ill servant.
      And JESUS Said, " Take ME to him and the legionnaire said for HIM to just speak the healing out and it would happen.
      The Moral of this story is that there is a Remnant that is in place. We just have to be able to discern whether we want to be that Remnant or be the popular many. Being the Remnant is and can be lonely. But, it's Rewards are mighty.

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql Před 7 měsíci +2

      Agree! I have not found a real friend.

  • @edemontfort9482
    @edemontfort9482 Před 10 měsíci +119

    I'm an empath. Very good radar. What's scary to me is when I know a person is evil or split personality but nobody believes it even when it is obvious to me. I call it cloaking, covering their evil with a veneer of niceness.

    • @ananamu2248
      @ananamu2248 Před 8 měsíci

      O'Callaghan it illusion spinning

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql Před 7 měsíci +1

      My daughter came to visit. I told her about the man in the complex being evil. He said hello to her and all she sees is a nice old man.

    • @DavidAKZ
      @DavidAKZ Před 6 měsíci +1

      What do you think causes splitting thanks ?

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql Před 6 měsíci +5

      @@DavidAKZ trauma causes splitting. But splitting does not always cause a person to become evil. Evil people choose to follow that lifestyle. We all have a choice because we are all given free will.

    • @DavidAKZ
      @DavidAKZ Před 6 měsíci +2

      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql thanks for replying. I have a partner from a religious family who displays spliting and can refer to herself as evil. It's very sad. I hesitate to think what happened in her childhood. Thanks again.

  • @mrwindsor9082
    @mrwindsor9082 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I have one consistent problem when dealing with evil people. Frankly, this is that they have harmed me by the time I recognize their true nature. Hopefully watching excellent videos, such as this, will help to wise me up. Please keep posting on CZcams.

  • @BalanceEnergy888
    @BalanceEnergy888 Před 14 dny +2

    The same demon followed me through life and the characteristics of the demon are identified in different people I know. I have ended friendship and love relationships in the past due to this fact. Demons don't stay in one body, they move around and find a new host (the mind)🌺❤️

  • @soal3415
    @soal3415 Před 11 měsíci +271

    You've described my son's wife. Boundaries mean nothing to these people and they enjoy stepping all over you and your boundaries.
    What bothers me most is the lieing and then the manipulation.
    My son is brain washed.
    It's so hurtful.

    • @elisacullari5557
      @elisacullari5557 Před 11 měsíci +16

      My husband 100 percent and his family.

    • @Lisa-mg3ms
      @Lisa-mg3ms Před 11 měsíci +16

      I'm so sorry your son is going through this. Prayer sent for him

    • @anzelac5808
      @anzelac5808 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Same situation!😢

    • @ruthokelley5833
      @ruthokelley5833 Před 10 měsíci +4

      It may be best as hard as it seems to stay away…I find it hard to believe that your son is satisfied with the status quo. If so…he could lack empathy.

    • @princesschariclea
      @princesschariclea Před 10 měsíci +6

      That is really hard for you and sadly there is only one way out of this situation: keep in touch with your son as long as you can and don't try to change his mind. He has to see it by himself and then you can love and help him!

  • @carlosmatthews8652
    @carlosmatthews8652 Před rokem +72

    Once u been around the block, so many times, evil people don't surprise me, I could spot them a mile away they all got the same game, and u could feel the bad energy

    • @debbieallen2686
      @debbieallen2686 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Yes. The person I work with the air in the store was always heavy . I felt so tired all the time. Now the air is light and the whole place is different..

    • @anzelac5808
      @anzelac5808 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Absolutely!

  • @jadegreen1554
    @jadegreen1554 Před 6 měsíci +1

    “Too good to be true” is a phrase that needs to make a HUGE comeback, FAST.
    We all need to Recalibrate about what “good” is and what “too good to be true” is.

  • @caboodlebricks6930
    @caboodlebricks6930 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Videos like this make me thankful for my loving sister

  • @Andrea-LovesYouStill
    @Andrea-LovesYouStill Před 10 měsíci +86

    Trying to set boundaries with evil people is difficult because it tends to set them OFF so they start yelling / get defensive / deny / gaslight you. The worst is when it’s hard to escape the situation you’re in with them…

    • @AnthonyManzio
      @AnthonyManzio Před 10 měsíci

      ignore them, bullies always win.

    • @MalikaBourne
      @MalikaBourne Před 5 měsíci

      Have you noticed they have the knack of making everything an "urgent crisis"?

  • @igtgw
    @igtgw Před rokem +132

    Thinking being evil makes you a badass is the dumbest thing I have ever heard 😊

    • @lindahollander3588
      @lindahollander3588 Před rokem +12

      Being a badass is not a good quality, I guess they don't know it

    • @johncorson6599
      @johncorson6599 Před rokem

      Yep, one of my brothers’ thinks exactly like that .. I believe he is psychopathic and barely escaped living in his house during Covid lockdowns after getting laid off just over a year ago … a totally fake person and knows how to pretend to be a good person but is nothing of the sort .. I believe he poisoned me after he took control over all food coming into the household and started cooking the meals and he can’t cook to save his soul . I couldn’t figure out why his 3 adult kids never visited him, his son visited for a hour and half once in a blue moon .. I thought it was because I was there and they would feel uncomfortable or something as they didn’t know me very well .. nope .. it’s all him .. fake smiles, fake kindness, terrible jokes trying to be funny .. contrived humanity .. a month after I moved far away (4.5 hrs) he found his ex gf with her brains blown out .. he was the last one to speak with her .. she had left her paid off house to him but had broken up with him over a year prior but they remained ‘friends’ .. I wondered after I found out about her if my leaving triggered him to go on a narc rage and took it out on his ex gf (I had planned for over 6 months and coordinated with good friends in another city before getting the help out of there) .. I don’t know nor will I ever

    • @petesaria-hf1xh
      @petesaria-hf1xh Před 10 měsíci

      Says who?@bmascariful

    • @ym2931
      @ym2931 Před 10 měsíci

      @bmascarifulyou're so right. They are

    • @user-gc4ce3vr5x
      @user-gc4ce3vr5x Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thank you

  • @user-qy3in7kk1y
    @user-qy3in7kk1y Před 5 měsíci +1

    Yes is definitely true and I am so so blessed for making us more aware of this evil and controllingfric tnx so much for this video ❤

  • @wirrldwideundawirrld
    @wirrldwideundawirrld Před 10 měsíci +3

    It's amazing how on point this is against my ex that's crazy helps me see I wasn't wrong for leaving it's so many like this out here I'm staying single

  • @nicole7642
    @nicole7642 Před rokem +91

    Evil people have mean souls

    • @christianbenn316
      @christianbenn316 Před rokem +13

      & God will punish such persons

    • @newjerseydevil6115
      @newjerseydevil6115 Před rokem +20

      They have no souls.

    • @abba1459
      @abba1459 Před rokem +17

      They’re soulless, due to their behavior & choices, they’ve already lost their souls

    • @user-qi8vj2bi8j
      @user-qi8vj2bi8j Před 11 měsíci +12

      Or no soul because the devil has their soul.

    • @chef1549
      @chef1549 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Lost souls

  • @nancystinger7393
    @nancystinger7393 Před 10 měsíci +59

    It’s so hard in a work environment, I am now happily retired but had a bully manager at a job. I went to HR and they defended her. I went to a doctor because of stress and he had other patients from my office with complaints about her!!!!! Evil people can wreck your health and if at all possible remove them from your life period.

    • @randyg.7940
      @randyg.7940 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Shes not evil. You just never really cared about doing your job right. Coming in late, taking longer than alowlled lunches, and standing around gossiping all the time would pass anyone off. They why HR sided with her, everyone knew the way you were!!!!

    • @Morisonparker10
      @Morisonparker10 Před 6 měsíci

      Please forgive my manner of approach, for dropping a non related comment here on your personal page. I'm trying to be cool and believe me I'm cool. Please feel free to become friends with me and talk to me, I will really appreciate that.Your profile was suggested to me, so I decide to drop a comment as a medium of asking permission and friendship, so it wouldn't had been possible to know that such an amazing young lady like do exist if you were not suggested to me

  • @szszszsz95395
    @szszszsz95395 Před měsícem +3

    You know what is truly evil????? People who KNOW someone is truly in need of help, yet accuses that person of playing a victim and being "needy". The evil people will accuse people in need of being too needy, while they gorge themselves of greed and excess. They accuse the person in need of being lazy, not trying hard enough, etc. REAAAAALLLY???? ARE THE PEOPLE WHO ARE BORN INTO POOR FAMILIES WITHOUT BOTH PARENTS LAZY, OR ARE THE PEOPLE UNWILLING TO HELP THEM THE LAZY ONES?????? OPEN YOUR EYES, PEOPLE!!!! LOOK AT WHO THE ACCUSER IS!!!!

    • @edithturner6119
      @edithturner6119 Před měsícem

      What hurt me is when I was sick and almost died of 3 illnesses family and friends were telling me I should work. How evil!

  • @debbiesimons3059
    @debbiesimons3059 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have recently realized that I was brought up by a narcissist mother, who manipulated me into bad relationships because she was so afraid of being alone. My father dumped her& my older sister listened to every single thing my mother told her! She & I were never close & that's how she liked it! I then realized that when I told my sister that I was an empath. She in turn seemingly (my mother used to laugh at her saying that she was the most gullible person she'd ever known) so then I realized that she'd been literally manipulated into believing everything my mother ever told her!

  • @pyr1017
    @pyr1017 Před 10 měsíci +164

    As a young woman in my 20's, I was always running into brick walls that I didn't understand why they were there. So, one day I began to read the Bible from beginning to end. I didn't skip around like some people encourage you to. I got a King James version and a NIV and started reading. Soon, the Bible readings described people in my life as evil doers and how to spot them. After reading and learning about people from the Bible, I was able to live my life with ease and caution. Whenever I came across an evil person, I eventually separated myself from that person and stayed away from them. After awhile, my life was easier and happier. People say they have to have someone in their life, but, for me, I'd rather be by myself than get caught in an evil person's web. I'm 60 now. It's been a long road to peace.

  • @pj3770
    @pj3770 Před rokem +178

    It's never too late to break free from evil relatives and others. Make sure that you stay far away from them. Always be polite. Even then they want to retaliate. Stay safe and away. Once you do, they will continue to lie in a worse way behind your back. Others will notice their evil. You maintain your truths and be strong in spite of it all. It is extra sad when the ones most jealous of you are your relatives. If that hate is from your own kin then, you might fall to fast in trusting others. They can take advantage of your siruation too. Stay vague about yourself until you know what others are up to and want from you. It is a harder world to live in for an empath born into an evil manipulating family. You can survive it and the liars who who took advantage outside of the family. You stay strong. You are not different or weird. Other good people are out there. And sone of them might be empaths. You can put your true friendship list out to the Universe and receive like-minded people in your life. Not all are on the same page as you, we're all on different levels of our journeys. It is okay to rock solo alone for awhile waiting rather than being with the wrong one making your life a living hell. Patience. Believe. And do sonething to have fun alone or with invitations from others. Just because people invite you over doesnt mean that you have to be loyal to them and tell them your business, dreams and goals.

    • @Patricia_Stewart337
      @Patricia_Stewart337 Před 11 měsíci

      pj3770
      I want to tune in your channel

    • @marthaisley-wansley1256
      @marthaisley-wansley1256 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Iamdealingwiththisrightnow❤❤❤❤❤
      8:36

    • @batphink2655
      @batphink2655 Před 10 měsíci +3

      My now deceased Uncle was a total narc, compulsive liar., Racist and Freemason. He was a 'Tool & Dye' guy so not a simpleton. HE was a music fan and my family are musicians some of us ex pro, he used to tell us' how it was' he never attended one of our shows in his life though his wife my Aunt did.

    • @pj3770
      @pj3770 Před 10 měsíci

      @@Patricia_Stewart337 Thanks but I don't have a channel. I just watch videos here and sometimes I comment on something I view.

    • @pj3770
      @pj3770 Před 10 měsíci +6

      @@marthaisley-wansley1256 This too shall pass. It's only a temporary situation. Plan ahead. Keep your plans in your mind. Don't leave around evidence while you're planning to create your positive future. Whether it's going to a better work environment, home environment, even switching churches, keep it to yourself because some people won't want you to leave for their own selfish reasons. Keep yourself, kids and fur babies safe.

  • @Ninja_Gaiden
    @Ninja_Gaiden Před měsícem +2

    Ah, true evil is often not seen until it's too late. The good people in life are often bypassed.

  • @TA-yf7hh
    @TA-yf7hh Před 10 měsíci +5

    I think as humans we have traits of both good an bad. It's a balance

    • @davidslavinski8197
      @davidslavinski8197 Před 3 měsíci

      Humans are inherently selfish"non bad context " by nature,if this is denied they it you are denying a part of themselves eg lie'ing to self the worst kind of lie . It's a disservice to the person .
      I learned this
      No one will come to save you ,you gotta save yourself
      Amoral Realism
      Amoral self reliance great skills
      A very realist look on life and the world ..
      Babies gotta be taught to see outside theirselves empathy,sympathy ,tc gotta be taught by parent
      humans are inherently selfish by their nature . Very true

  • @robertc.6441
    @robertc.6441 Před rokem +129

    Evil people tried to ruin my life, first it was my dad at age 5, then my ex wife at 25, then my brother 5 years ago, he was even jealous that I had a kid and he didn't, he tried to claim my daughter as his own. Him and my ex are so evil they tought my daughter to gradually be narcissistic. Now at 56 I don't trust anyone at all and live alone in the country with my dog.

    • @michellesibille8281
      @michellesibille8281 Před 11 měsíci +21

      A dog will never deceive you. It s true. I THINK THE SAME. My all family 's membres are narcissists. Im' the only one walking with Jesus. Who saved me from their curses. They are from the Devil.

    • @user-hj6cp5ex1t
      @user-hj6cp5ex1t Před 11 měsíci +12

      Wish I could get away from it like that. Good for you.

    • @shellymaconi143
      @shellymaconi143 Před 10 měsíci +9

      People NEVER FAIL TO FAIL YOU !!! Sad 😢

    • @grimreeper7225
      @grimreeper7225 Před 10 měsíci +5

      You should write a song 🎵 or a book

    • @KAMRULHASAN-gw9re
      @KAMRULHASAN-gw9re Před 10 měsíci +3

      I'm with one evil entity here who tries every way to destroy me but I'm aware now and will dish him bigger plate of something and later go my way

  • @harvelle1
    @harvelle1 Před 11 měsíci +30

    “ If they appear too good to be true, they are”. Initially, they are all very charming. Got it!

  • @escalade8759
    @escalade8759 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Awesome video! I've recently experienced a contolling and manipulative person and decided to distance myself.

  • @shadnunemaker5869
    @shadnunemaker5869 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Good points from the comments. Its always been a strange paradox to me that they try and make it feel like you are a sociopath because you don't like being around people for that reason, when in reality it is they who are the sociopaths. Some people's moods are so toxic that i cringe just looking at them. Their tone of voice spews out horrible bad energy. And they never can seem to understand anything you say to them. Nightmare.

  • @pamelabeaton6667
    @pamelabeaton6667 Před 11 měsíci +33

    When you realize what they are silence is truly and always the best policy. As well as distance.😊

  • @annamassek9064
    @annamassek9064 Před 10 měsíci +20

    There are way too many evil people in the world. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @barbararichards7202
    @barbararichards7202 Před měsícem

    Thanks. That last point about setting boundaries is very helpful.

  • @Luckystoic
    @Luckystoic Před 2 měsíci +1

    WOW, I have never heard these things before, thanks for your video

  • @robertc.6441
    @robertc.6441 Před rokem +50

    The problem is a evil person will take credit for your work or whatever even if you tell them not to! Because evil people are so evil they don't care, they only care about themselves.

    • @BEve218
      @BEve218 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Oh yes

    • @romancetips365
      @romancetips365 Před 10 měsíci

      They would even take credit just to harm you even if they don't care about it. You can never tell them anything or be open and honest with them about anything.

    • @aqeelramathula9717
      @aqeelramathula9717 Před měsícem

      Hell yeah

  • @salomesidiropoulos8343
    @salomesidiropoulos8343 Před 10 měsíci +49

    What terrifies me are the groups of evil people working in a concerted effort to force their will upon others in underhanded and covert ways.

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 Před 10 měsíci

      Very astute comment. A perfect description of the various military and spy agencies (DoD, CIA, DHS, NATO, MI-6, Mossad, etc).

    • @stoots1000
      @stoots1000 Před 10 měsíci +5

      Politicians?

    • @wydryfly
      @wydryfly Před 10 měsíci +3

      Democrats specifically 😂

    • @Robert-bg2nm
      @Robert-bg2nm Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@wydryfly democRATS!........100% spot on!

  • @janmcsween7079
    @janmcsween7079 Před 3 měsíci

    When I discovered that the evil person ruining everything was me I had to separate from things and go inward, and in therapy and via a newfound spiritual life I was led to find my real self, a self who has morals and values and can actually strive to live up to them.

  • @ann.obrien5139
    @ann.obrien5139 Před 5 měsíci +2

    The child and the food part is not manipulation, that’s bribing ! Lol

  • @LeniDell
    @LeniDell Před 10 měsíci +65

    As crappy a situation as it is, people like this are unavailable. Sooner or later we’ll ALL have to deal with one.
    Best piece of advice… never tell them your secrets, your fears or your wants in life. Keep them at a polite arm’s length. Especially if it’s a coworker.
    Don’t live by the old adage of “giving the benefit of the doubt”. Some people aren’t worthy of trust. So don’t.

    • @Stubbornclarity
      @Stubbornclarity Před 4 měsíci +4

      I wish wish wish I'd known that years ago! Would have saved me a world of pain!!! Never again will I trust ANYONE!

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před měsícem

      ​@@Stubbornclarity💯💯💯💯💯

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před měsícem

      AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

    • @Fre-k9f
      @Fre-k9f Před 14 dny

      ​@@StubbornclarityYou Want to Be Narcissistic of Yourself so that people will praise you, but do not think about Others in order to change their Evil to the Path of Good

  • @nohometv5730
    @nohometv5730 Před rokem +69

    And if all else fails....whoop they ass! 💯

  • @MatTheLesser
    @MatTheLesser Před 7 měsíci

    Dude i got bullied so much from i was 5 years old all my life if i had your video i would have turned out better. Without addiction, shyness, being timid with anxiety and depression. The people i was around in the 90s were not my friends they put me down in front of people and used me for food and a place to crash and to get them out of trouble with the law or just other people. They sucked. Your video will help these generations. I wish I had CZcams back then. You are Awsome

  • @keithakers5871
    @keithakers5871 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The system is designed to churn out soulless people detached from their higher self and totally absorbed by material things. It's done a damn good job too.

  • @marjutpaech
    @marjutpaech Před 10 měsíci +14

    People who lack empathy do not care about other people's feelings.
    Nor can they feel guilt.
    They lack the ability to understand the interaction with other people.
    They lack the ability to feel pity and compassion for others ... 😢

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql Před 7 měsíci +1

      My son came to visit. He is an adult, but raised by his dad, who is narcissistic. I see tendencies of narcissistic behavior in him. Not a lot of empathy. When he left, I looked at his face. All I saw was a little boy.

  • @eastafrika728
    @eastafrika728 Před rokem +22

    The origin of evil is the entitled, neglected and traumatized child in us. At this level is Hell as fear, rage, grief and hate, negative self identifications of physical death, hunger, pain. We must train ourselves to think positive of ourselves against these negative mental conditions or be caught in the hell of those who live and organize themselves by these conditions.

  • @angierox6964
    @angierox6964 Před 2 měsíci

    This is presented very well! I really like how you give examples of normal behavior versus the extreme unhealthy behavior. And then I like how you give different examples of the evil negative behaviors. Often, when CZcams videos are describing personality disorders, they use the most extreme examples….a fairytale evil stepmother, a psychotic murderer in a movie.
    This is excellent! Keep it up, people need better intro info. Thank you thank you!

    • @angierox6964
      @angierox6964 Před 2 měsíci

      Btw… The series Killing Eve is excellent. The portrayal of severe psychopathy including the creation of and questions surrounding healing, are spot on! Experts in the field were definitely involved.

  • @deborahmccarthy8000
    @deborahmccarthy8000 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I have a so called Friend who stated that I'm suffocating , I make them nervous and they can't leave fast enough, Yet their still willing to take from me!

  • @myLordSaves
    @myLordSaves Před 10 měsíci +41

    I live in a development that has a few people just like this.
    They go around and cut the people they don't care for down and when you confront them, they play the "innocent card".
    This is so true and spot on.

  • @donallan6396
    @donallan6396 Před 10 měsíci +18

    A friend of twenty years just ghosted me and a few others that he has known long term.
    The older he got , the more manipulative and self serving he became.
    I'M happy he has gone from my life . I learned from the experience and have grown spiritually and mentally.

  • @juanitasullivan3372
    @juanitasullivan3372 Před 7 měsíci +1

    At a job I had a few years ago, there was this one guy that reeked of evil. I swear I could feel it each time he walked by. You could see it in his eyes. It would send chills down my spine.

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql Před 7 měsíci +2

      I have a neighbor like that. Just walking past him feels horrible. His wife comes across nice. She brought me candy and I immediately threw it in the garbage. I have been poisoned before by someone I trusted.

    • @juanitasullivan3372
      @juanitasullivan3372 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql Wow! I would have thrown it in the garbage too. It's really creepy to get that feeling around someone.

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql Před 7 měsíci

      @@juanitasullivan3372 I wont eat any food a person gives me. I only trust my children.

  • @jamesgarde8495
    @jamesgarde8495 Před 10 měsíci +3

    EVERY HUMAN BEING NEEDS TO LEARN HOW TO COHABITATE. LEARN TO GET ALONG & SHOW RESPECT 🙏 & MINE OUR OWN BUSINESS. IF THESE THINGS DON'T EXIST OR MATTER. BEST TO BE ALONE.

  • @marlonwebber4952
    @marlonwebber4952 Před rokem +201

    Every evil person is watching this video right now and are adapting as we speak, so just stay alert for attitudes and snap backs, oh and let us not forget: piercing angry eyes!😂

    • @lindaoneil5085
      @lindaoneil5085 Před rokem +29

      Evil people *hate* it when you backtalk them and make them look bad in front of others, even if they are the ones who started it. I had a co-worker like that, and she went berserk if I smarted off at her for a snarky comment she made to me in front of others.

    • @marlonwebber4952
      @marlonwebber4952 Před rokem +21

      @@lindaoneil5085 true…true; I totally agree with you on that! People like that and con artists are similar like that! The key to figuring them out is to listen to them! They’ll give themselves away eventually.😂

    • @lindaoneil5085
      @lindaoneil5085 Před rokem +38

      @@marlonwebber4952 I have never understood why some people hate your guts and want to make your life miserable the minute they first meet you. A total stranger, and they already have a bone to pick with you.

    • @marlonwebber4952
      @marlonwebber4952 Před rokem +8

      @@lindaoneil5085 exactly!😏

    • @ciaran134
      @ciaran134 Před rokem +19

      You need to always beware of the ones who are quiet and analysing everything and behaviours. They are worst ones because before you know it it's like a viper bitten you. Also they are impossible to catch or notice

  • @draganamarevic
    @draganamarevic Před rokem +54

    When they are family it is difficult to cut them out of your life and it takes a long time to reinforce boundaries but well worth the effort, wish I had done this even earlier. No exceptions for family, especially as people with evil tendencies are not only toxic but dangerous to your well being and safety.

    • @Dawn737
      @Dawn737 Před 10 měsíci +5

      My mother is the evil person in my life and, I hate to say this, but I've found the safest way to cut her out of my life was to claim to her that random strangers were now robbing me of my time, so I had none left to spend on her. She gets angry and quite vengeful if she thinks my downtime is spent relaxing rather than doing chores for her. I just assure my mother that I am being bullied by the world, just as the doormat she raised me to be, meaning the entire world now expects me to run around doing whatever they want, so I have no time left to do what she wants. This explanation satisfied her well, so she now leaves me alone so I can be "busy mowing neighbors' yards", etc. If she ever asks if I'm being paid, I remind her that just as a good daughter would never expect payment, neither would a good neighbor, which is what I am.

    • @charleswhite758
      @charleswhite758 Před 10 měsíci

      @@royjohnson465 Beware, that might make them search for you. You don't want them showing up on your doorstep, no doubt with a tirade of abuse. Probably better to tell them you are moving away and just let the relationship wither away naturally. If you never contact them eventually they will tire of contacting you, especially if you remain taciturn on the phone

    • @foreverunsaved6661
      @foreverunsaved6661 Před 9 měsíci

      ​​​​@@royjohnson465Good thinking, but that is not enough. You will want to cut ties with everybody connected to the toxic person as well. If you want to get away from a toxic friend that has - for example - a brother that is not toxic, the last thing you want to do is move, and write to the brother. You might end up putting your return address in the upper corner of the envelope. The toxic person could always find it. I myself am taking disappearing to the extreme by getting my name, and social security number changed LEGALLY. All you have to do is go through a complete federal, state, & local police check, not have any arrest warrants - or be wanted, not owe any court costs, and not be on Megan's Law.

  • @calliopivogiatzis2235
    @calliopivogiatzis2235 Před 7 měsíci

    I know someone who constantly begs me for money. Up to now,I've given in to her. She calls just about every day to say hi but I'm getting cautious now about when her next money attack will come!

  • @1jtwister
    @1jtwister Před 2 měsíci +1

    Don't second guess yourself... don't think of yourself as capable of dealing with them and don't attempt to verify the evil. Trust your instincts and cut contact any way you can.

  • @IronKong-1_2-sb3df
    @IronKong-1_2-sb3df Před 11 měsíci +18

    It’s better to have conquer the enemy within than it is to conquer the enemy external. To conquer the darkness within is the highest victory that one can achieved. If you can conquer the enemy within, the enemy external can’t hurt you.

  • @alexistaylor7483
    @alexistaylor7483 Před rokem +47

    Be surprise how many people are like this smh that's the scary part. It is always best to remain positive. I been learning everytime someone wants to comit an evil act. Being humble and positive is to much for them to bare. Less likely to get violent...but if they do defense is different than being violent back. But shall it ever get to a physical point you have to leave. There is no boundaries after that. To much damage has been done.

    • @HighSpeedNoDrag
      @HighSpeedNoDrag Před 11 měsíci +5

      Never Ever underestimate anyone in regards to violence and their capabilities.

  • @rosepetals8181
    @rosepetals8181 Před měsícem

    Time to shine the LIGHT...LIGHT WORKERS💡✝️👁️💜🌎😇✨

  • @byron8657
    @byron8657 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Yah what hurts most is that A Narcissist evil person is part of your family I endured and outlived 2 Grandmothers on both sides and A Narcissist Father and now married to a Narcissistic wife for 28years what for sure i have learned is that whatever Goodness you do to them they will never appreciate it or accept it my love and efforts are always undermined always lacking to their standards. Well now i got an epiphany thats not my problem its their own problem. As for me im continuously doing what is right and what is Good towards my family to my 2 daughters who appreciate everything I’ve done and to my wife who is unappreciative. I don’t need her appreciation n approval. The love and respect affection of my two lovely smart daughter is enough for me to live happily k!