REN made MY WIFE cry! Ren X Chinchilla - How To Be Me [REACTION] W/ Wifey

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    REN made MY WIFE cry! Ren X Chinchilla - How To Be Me [REACTION] W/ Wifey
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  • @katebuss742
    @katebuss742 Před 8 měsíci +253

    Watching your wife BROKE me. From both a place of pure sadness, and real healing. Please let her know that from one mother to another, I see her. ❤

    • @carlahelin5203
      @carlahelin5203 Před 8 měsíci +12

      I wanted to give her a hug. ❤ (((hug)))

    • @jamestorrance4664
      @jamestorrance4664 Před 8 měsíci +7

      ❤❤❤

    • @rkburnsoh
      @rkburnsoh Před 8 měsíci +9

      The honesty and emotion pouring from both of your hearts touched me at my core. I can feel the pain and suffering that you both have been going through and so appreciate the vulnerability you both were willing to show. Tears are in my eyes as I type this and to see the two of you being so open and real are an inspiration to me. Hugs to you both and a huge thank you for this amazing reaction.

    • @Lotus.Lottie
      @Lotus.Lottie Před 8 měsíci

  • @brianwilliams8436
    @brianwilliams8436 Před 8 měsíci +170

    If Ren has taught us anything it's that it's
    OK to show our emotions and vulnerability.
    Love your honesty guys.

  • @queenelizabethdamnit
    @queenelizabethdamnit Před 28 dny +5

    They say "I don't feel safe in these halls, there are bruises on the walls...there are bodies in the floor...and they breathe so loudly...I wish I could move, get up and walk right out this tomb" it hits so hard because when you lose someone that is so close that there are memories all over your physical life...your home, your car, your childhood places...the place you had your children...you can't escape...you can't just move...it's a tomb while you struggle in your grief...😢😢

  • @jacks9624
    @jacks9624 Před 9 měsíci +100

    We love the two of you not because you're perfect, but because you are real, and you clearly love one another. God bless to the whole family. Love you guys.

    • @Vikkigamesbadly
      @Vikkigamesbadly Před 5 měsíci +1

      the communication between them is beautiful

  • @SoullessGingersnaps
    @SoullessGingersnaps Před 8 měsíci +93

    First off... Your wife is absolutely gorgeous and a badass mama bear! I'm genuinely stunned by the vulnerability you both showed us today. I'm genuinely sorry your daughter is having to endure this type of battle so small. Thank you for this reaction💚🤗🍀

  • @suzitee8225
    @suzitee8225 Před 8 měsíci +87

    Ren’s ability to connect to people is unsurpassable! He’s literally just amazing! ❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥

  • @joyplant6275
    @joyplant6275 Před 8 měsíci +11

    I lost my 11 year old son,Wayne,32 years ago very suddenly from rta accident.Dont be afraid to shoe your grief.I still shout and scream into the pillow and now and again it comes right back like a sledge hammer and I am a mess still but I get by.Ren has captured the grief so totally keep safe you two😢😢😢😢

  • @speechless_389
    @speechless_389 Před 8 měsíci +42

    We lost 2 pregnancies one in second trimester and other in the third. It really messed with our heads. I had given up and didn't want to try anymore. We got our rainbow baby now. I thank God for my daughter.

    • @nsx9512
      @nsx9512 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Congrats bro, God blesses us when we least expect it! ❤

  • @themadcadder4847
    @themadcadder4847 Před 8 měsíci +49

    Just for the record, I never get tired of watching you do Ren reactions.

  • @ecurtisd
    @ecurtisd Před 8 měsíci +21

    I’ve listened to this song uncountable times. Every single time, the “where is my god? Where are you?” breaks me. It just breaks me down. Ren is so special.

    • @wcoasttigger
      @wcoasttigger Před 6 měsíci +3

      Im a non believer but that killed me too. You can feel the desperation. Their calls for help. Its beautifully done.

    • @patriciaobrien6600
      @patriciaobrien6600 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Same! The way he looks to the skies and is so desperate and authentic 😢❤❤

  • @Microdave75
    @Microdave75 Před 8 měsíci +57

    So much love and respect to you both for opening up to us all like this, I lost my 2 year old daughter over 20 years ago, it still hurts like hell to this day ❤️

  • @Tessimistic420
    @Tessimistic420 Před 8 měsíci +23

    Anyone who doesn't cry a tear the first time they listen to this track, I question if they're human. ❤️

  • @sammyd8860
    @sammyd8860 Před 8 měsíci +38

    Ren & Chinchilla have a way of performing that draws you in completely and Ren's writing resonates with so many people. Thank you so much for sharing this heartfelt reaction - I wish you both, and your daughter, all the very best going forward.

  • @cweissable
    @cweissable Před 8 měsíci +21

    I'm glad that you are reacting to a lot of Ren. He deserves the attention for sure. I think he's a musical genius. Your wife is beautiful....

  • @amydavies2529
    @amydavies2529 Před 9 měsíci +26

    Very brave of both of you going through this song ❤ Ren's genius is getting to people's hearts. I know he can have fun with songs but...Ren really reaches people in different ways. Please keep the faith..

  • @christinecorlett6672
    @christinecorlett6672 Před 8 měsíci +8

    My heart is breaking for your wife…. I could instantly see your wife swallowing so much trying to keep her tears in! So much love for you guys! ❤

  • @stevewilliams7880
    @stevewilliams7880 Před 8 měsíci +24

    What a beautiful couple you are. Thank you for being the honest people you are. A beautiful reaction to a beautiful song and it's very good that you are both able to share this way when many of us would struggle to do so. Love to you both.

  • @outlawking4106
    @outlawking4106 Před 8 měsíci +34

    Such a great and genuine reaction. Without the bad times in life we would never appreciate the good it brings

  • @donnaringland
    @donnaringland Před 8 měsíci +26

    Awwe.. your wife is lovely. And, I appreciate the authenticity you both shared. Thank you for this therapy session. Ren's music really does hold mirrors to our own selves. I think it's been beautiful yet painful at times hearing everyone share their pain or vulnerabilities through their lives. I'm all for this healing vibe. ❤

  • @belgand5555
    @belgand5555 Před 8 měsíci +7

    As you said there is no coincidences.. Ren has come into our lives at the right time for a reason.. he is our blessing.. 🙏🏻♥️🙏🏻 Thanks for always sharing with us..🥰

  • @kallen2377
    @kallen2377 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Having lost theee babies due to stillborn and miscarriage when I was married I can’t ever watch this video without crying my eyes out.
    I’m supposed to be a strong man and as men we can’t show feelings.
    Thank you for doing this.

    • @branenichols386
      @branenichols386 Před 8 měsíci +3

      @kallen2377 Wouldn't it be wonderful if the taboo of men being able to show their feelings would disappear? Feelings are a human experience. As a fellow human, please know, you are seen. Virtual hug & ❤

    • @debthecpn
      @debthecpn Před 8 měsíci +2

      It takes balls to talk. We must let our younger generation of boys that it’s not weak it’s desirable. So sorry for your losses. ❤

  • @annfarmer9704
    @annfarmer9704 Před 8 měsíci +13

    no couple is perfect. no human is perfect. but seeing the love and support was beautiful.
    this vulnerability is what sets you apart. the bravery of addressing it on a public platform is powerful. people do need to see this. to know that you can make it through such unimaginable heartbreak and loss and still be together, be caring and there. that is what makes the two of you so beautiful.
    the honesty here on your channel is your super power.
    it is also what earned my loyalty to your channel.
    ride or die I'm with the two of you.
    ♥️🙏♥️

  • @Ph4n_t0m
    @Ph4n_t0m Před 9 měsíci +26

    I love the strength you bring to each other - the hardships you shared and survived, and what you've brought out of those hardships, clearly shows the calibre of both of your characters. We get to see you, Roberto, many times a day and that's your hard work, determination, integrity and dedication that brings us that privilege - but on the flip-side, your wife is the same because while you're here, she's there. You both work tirelessly to keep up the shining edifice of your life together and I'm filled with admiration of you both. Thank you both for sharing with us when you really didn't have to. I feel honoured to have lived this moment.

  • @piwaka50
    @piwaka50 Před 8 měsíci +24

    I have deep admiration for both of you for your courage to bear your souls and speak so publicly for your loss. PTSD is insidious. I suffered five years of trauma recently that changed my life with some significant loss and has left me with this as well. My saviour is music, and seeing others talk about how they have got through. I have said it before BP, I have watched you open yourself up on this channel mostly because of Ren. His gift to us all is profound, much more than just music. Kia kaha from NZ

  • @abisparks1473
    @abisparks1473 Před 5 dny

    I love the way y'all LOVE each other through this song. The way you check in with her, the way she looks at you 🙏 nobody's perfect and that's okay. Just want y'all to know I pray with and for you - and your strength to share your story gives hope to those who need it ❤️

  • @YetiGirl
    @YetiGirl Před 8 měsíci +1

    This is what human beings need. We need to commune with each other and let our friends help us carry these burdens, especially those that are the heaviest. You've been through the worst thing that can happen and you've not only survived, but thrived! That's so inspiring. You will likely profoundly help multiple people with this type of conversation...and this is a music reaction video! The message of imperfection and hope is so helpful. I'm a goofball at rest, and I love to share in all of the fun and insane talent online, but I absolutely cherish these intimate moments that are shared like this. Thank you so much.

  • @jenneper
    @jenneper Před 8 měsíci +3

    I'm a psychology student. I am in a death and dying class right now and we're writing about music that relates to various topics of death. I chose this song as I also lost someone to suicide (my husband). You're right, we do deflect from our own emotions by laughing, joking,.etc. I guess it can be seen as part of the "fight or flight" response seen in PTSD.. its automatic to shut down, evade, etc. I'm so sorry your sweet wife knows the loss of your children.

  • @ritamarchi2168
    @ritamarchi2168 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I lost my son in 1995 aged 19 in a car crash & to this day I have never gotten over it. But please let me say to you that you will always grieve your baby & that is ok but please don't let that grief stop you living your life with the family that you have now. Don't let it stop your dream of another baby if that is possible or if that is what you would like. I let my grief destroy mine & my family's life because I could not let him go. I wish I had had someone who had spoke to me because everyone were too afraid of upsetting us to be honest or even to let him be in our memories. Don't let that happen to you because it is not a favour. God Bless to you both. I have found that Ren's music has let me relieve myself of some of my pain. I found HI REN 1st & loved it but a lot of his other songs have helped me & I am 71 now & love his music all round.

  • @jeanfieler9885
    @jeanfieler9885 Před 9 měsíci +16

    Beautiful reaction. Thank you for sharing your experience with us - and ignore the haters. Your Ren reactions are awesome. 🙌💖

  • @independentinstallations8419
    @independentinstallations8419 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hey guys thanks for making me blow snot bubbles first thing in the morning. Ren has no problems being so vulnerable it is an inspiration for so many that keep these things wrapped up so tightly.

  • @MoreKellBellPlease
    @MoreKellBellPlease Před 9 měsíci +7

    Your wife seems lovely. I"m glad you have each other to get through these things together. Although you've had these horrible things happen to you, you are blessed to have each other Some of us have never found their other half. Thanks for the great reaction.

  • @zachhenderson7982
    @zachhenderson7982 Před 8 měsíci +2

    The part where she was tearing up and you put your hand on her shoulder is where i broke. My wife lost her mom a year ago, i lost my step dad who was more like my real dad, so there's been many moments like that. Words never help as much as human touch sometimes.

  • @aliverbirduponmychest3055

    I have suffered in silence for 35 years with complex PTSD after an huge traumatic, very public event because I haven't talked. Watching you both opening up was such a beautiful experience, don't make the mistake i did by internalising and trying to ignore it. Talking is healing and I admire so much you trying to open a pathway for you both to communicate with the audience, but much more importantly for you both to communicate with each other! Talking is healing, I hope you can both use this platform to communicate with each other and find your way together❤

  • @_katie_
    @_katie_ Před 6 měsíci +1

    The fact that you let her process it before talking speaks volumes. Sending you both so much love.

  • @tomtom420dsnut7
    @tomtom420dsnut7 Před 8 měsíci +7

    My wife and I have gone through a lot of the same as you and yours and now my daughter is almost 3 and just hearing others have had similar problems and overcome them with Fath ! I had a big struggle with my Fath as well ! So thank you and your wife for sharing ❤️ 💕 💗 my thoughts and prayers will be with you guys always 🙏! 💯 % 40

  • @heartwork8318
    @heartwork8318 Před 9 měsíci +7

    So nice to see Wifey again rocking that Georgia Bulldog sweatshirt! Great reaction! It amazes me to see people’s inner strength on display even when they don’t necessarily recognize it themselves! Not perfect but strong, loving beautiful human beings! Thanks so much for sharing! ✌🏻🫶🏻

  • @RockinMamaT
    @RockinMamaT Před 8 měsíci +5

    This is such a powerful song. Tell your wife I cry every time I see or hear this. We have all suffered loss and this hits home❤😢

  • @kathiloadholt
    @kathiloadholt Před 9 měsíci +11

    You both are wonderful. Thank you for letting her hear this music. It affects all of us. ❤

  • @mldkenny
    @mldkenny Před 8 měsíci +7

    You two together are so magical, the love is tangible. ( and no one is perfect )

  • @MissyGail4eva
    @MissyGail4eva Před 9 měsíci +9

    The strength of you both is remarkable and your faith in one another is authentically beautiful, as is your tribute, "Robert Houston III", which I'm quite certain resonates deeply in the hearts of all who take a listen. It's not difficult to see why Wifey felt as if the words in "How to Be Me" were as if written with her in mind..the pain that comes from that soul crushing of a loss is universal, and while it is tragic so many must experience this sorrow, it is however somewhat heartening to remember that, as Ren would say, "we are all human beings". Thank you for this, both to you, BP, but most especially Wifey. You are a kindred spirit who deserves all the love life under god's grace can give you. 🌈ᥫ᭡

  • @wildaboutlife1234
    @wildaboutlife1234 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Having lost a baby ,I feel your pain ,no one understands it unless you have been through it ,I was the same about leaving my second child , and I really understand that .
    No one should have to go through the loss of a baby .
    Much love ❤️

  • @zerofox3d
    @zerofox3d Před 8 měsíci +3

    The pain of losing a pregnancy is such a common experience but rarely discussed. Been there, done that and suffered the ripple effect of fertility issues after that and the battle to have children. Not something you ever forget and certainly makes you appreciate if you are then lucky enough to have kids. Hugs!

  • @Veeliscious
    @Veeliscious Před 8 měsíci +2

    I remember you saying - think it was after your For Joe reaction, that you believe sometimes our loved ones 'sacrifice" themselves for the greater good of those left behind, eg your mum for your daughter's stem cell discovery, Joe for Ren's musical depth & inspiration that would reach the masses one day and that really struck a chord with me. We may not see or understand it at the time but even with my own dad's s...cide, I can see, years on there are positive ways that shaped & influenced me and what i now do to help others who struggle with mental health in particular

  • @yinunit
    @yinunit Před 8 měsíci +4

    Thank you for bringing your wife on for this. It is nice to see her. My heart goes out to her (you too) What a beautiful genuine soul she is. I hope we get to see her again. Much Love ♥

  • @JayB_210
    @JayB_210 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Thanks for reacting to another Ren & Chinchilla masterpiece & thanks for being so open. I think talking is a big healer, for the people being open about their pain & for those listening who also have a lot built up. Big respect & big love to both of you from the UK 🤝

  • @dasnora6120
    @dasnora6120 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I love how you gave your Wifey Space and Comfort at the same time, so cute

  • @kimzwolinski9919
    @kimzwolinski9919 Před 8 měsíci +11

    Beautiful reaction ❤ thank you both for sharing some of your story with us.

  • @marvintanner180
    @marvintanner180 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Just wanted to say thank you to both you and your amazing wife. Sharing and talking about loss is such an important part of life. Peace and love y'all

  • @Corvid76
    @Corvid76 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Chinchilla is about to blow up now that she's on The Voice. That's global exposure. She's almost certainly going to win it.

  • @xxnik76
    @xxnik76 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Thank you both for such an honest and vulnerable reaction. It broke my heart to see the pain and heartache ur beautiful wife carries with her. I have carried the loss of both my parents from an early age and also the loss of an unborn child. Ive found there's absolutely no time limit on grief and when it bubbles back to the surface where it feels like its just happened. Some days i listen to this song and have chills all over purely from the beauty of this performance. Other days i listen to this song and it cuts me to the core and shatters me into a billion pieces. Its not something i share with anyone else, besides Ren. He's lyrics and their performance is so raw and brutally honest it resonates so deeply, it allows me to connect and feel what i need in that moment. I feel BP trying to be a constant source of strength for his beautiful woman to try and take her pain away for fear of it consuming her. So its becomes a taboo conversation, with walls built up all around it. Over time it can become really quite damaging for u not to be able to talk about with each other. Break down those walls BP, show ur vulnerability to ur wife when u need to so she can be ur warrior when u need it. She is an amazing woman amd mother and has incredible resilience. I wish ur family so much health and happiness xx much love

  • @BrookePS23
    @BrookePS23 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I just love your beautiful wife!! ❤ You’re lucky to have each other! My husband & I have been together since we were 15! 😊
    I’m grateful you decided to spend some time doing this, just the 2 of you! Your sweet daughter Alinea (spelling??) is absolutely angelic!! 👼🤍 The day she came to work with BP and you two watched Bongo Bong is one of my favorite videos on here! My daughter just turned 18 & graduates HS this year! And I wish I could blink and make her 5 again!! 😂 God Bless you & your family! 🙏🏼 😍

  • @iamsquatty
    @iamsquatty Před 8 měsíci +8

    This is such a beautiful song, we have all forgotten how to be ourselves at one point or another. Lots of love to the both of you 💜💜💜

  • @WelshAmethystGirl087
    @WelshAmethystGirl087 Před 8 měsíci +1

    This means the world that you agreed to do this I know its difficult for you. Mad respect and love to you both

  • @danrandall3772
    @danrandall3772 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Sending uplifting vibes to both your wife and you. do many things I want to say but nothing seems to come out right. Such a brave, courageous even thing to open up like that. Thank you so much for your time and work that goes into your reactions. It's greatly appreciated. Hope you guys have a truly blessed day.

  • @Tteaspoon
    @Tteaspoon Před 8 měsíci +4

    What a heartfelt reaction. Thank you for sharing such a personal story. How To Be Me is a mighty powerful song. ❤

  • @scifimonkey3
    @scifimonkey3 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Chinchilla has entered the UK version of The Voice and got through the audition show so it will be interesting to see how she gets on with the TV watching public.

  • @peterbarclay2472
    @peterbarclay2472 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Sometimes we never square things in our heads completely but talking definitely helps, bless your beautiful wife your daughter and your good self Sir ❤

  • @Brenda12911
    @Brenda12911 Před 8 měsíci

    You have a beautiful wife ❤ As a mother who has had a miscarriage I understand the pain of losing a child, and I also lost myself afterward. Her bravery to come and expose herself to the world online where there are a bunch of assholes shows her strength. Her showing her strength could help another woman who is experiencing such grief. God bless you and your family it is beautiful. Protect them ❤ 🇺🇲

  • @RyanESmail
    @RyanESmail Před 8 měsíci +1

    You two are amazing! I just want to comment regarding your channel….it is YOUR channel, not ours, but yours. Don’t ever let the naysayers change your mind regarding what you film/post. This is your channel, please don’t ever let commenters dictate what you decide to do.
    P.s. it’s amazingly evident how beautiful of a relationship/family that you two have together

  • @MikeyPea72
    @MikeyPea72 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Life can be unbearable sometimes. Virtual hugs from me to both of you and thank you for trusting us by sharing your pain.

  • @jasonhauser2903
    @jasonhauser2903 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Frequent viewer, never commenter. But felt compelled on this one. Thank you for your willingness to allow people into that vulnerable window. I can only imagine how helpful seeing this is for others who have gone through similar things. And on a very unrelated note, I feel like I have to also add a “Go Dawgs.” Keep up the awesome content

  • @MommaOsoIrish67
    @MommaOsoIrish67 Před 8 měsíci

    And to your beautiful wife... I understand. It's been 28 years since I lost my baby, but there are still times, there are still certain things, that remind me of that profound emptiness and deep grief. I can feel it in that moment without getting lost in it now. It's okay to feel. Through feeling it, comes the healing it. You're both in my prayers!

  • @AnneAndersonFoxiepaws
    @AnneAndersonFoxiepaws Před 7 měsíci +1

    Your wife is beautiful, a beautiful lady and a beautiful soul, you can see it in her eyes. This is an incredible song and I'm so sad the two of you had to go through the loss of a child. I know you never forget but I hope both of you are better now❤ I had the same trust issues with my two (now adult) boys. Only my parents, their grandparents on dad's side and direct family were the only people I trusted. Both of mine were slightly premature, one 5 weeks the other only s couple but, having to see your child, in a neonatal unit, and see the other, tragically sick babies, changes your perspective and you realise that life can turn on the head of a pin and what's OK just now can change in a heartbeat. It affects who you trust and you find yourself unwilling to leave your children with anyone, other than your most trusted family members. In the beginning, I wasn't even ok with that as you feel that if you take your eyes off them, the worst will happen. You have to let go and trust your close family.

  • @philhallbrook7008
    @philhallbrook7008 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Your talk of Indigo had me weeping in sympathy guys.
    No words help really, but much love. These feelings of loss don't necessarily go away, but we can become more accomodating over time xx

  • @KarriSimone
    @KarriSimone Před 8 měsíci +2

    🎉❤❤❤❤ I actually love these emotional insights. I also had 2 stillbirths in a row, both around 20 weeks, a boy and a girl also. My partner and I never really get around to talking about it because we have 3 older children and no time. It was basically sorry that happened but its time to move on kind of thing I told myself because I had to get up out of bed every morning. Even though I was bogged down by guilt, shame, and emptiness when I opened my eye's

    • @Cunning.Stunt7
      @Cunning.Stunt7 Před 8 měsíci +2

      🫂🫶💋
      I couldn't even begin to imagine hun! 💔
      I've lost 2 (first and last) both missed abortions (miscarriages but my body didn't abort, so needed DNC) both around 18 weeks.
      We do have 3, so we are blessed, still have those two parts of my soul that died with my boy and girl.

    • @beccahouston7239
      @beccahouston7239 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Im so sorry 😢 hang in there!

    • @KarriSimone
      @KarriSimone Před 8 měsíci

      @@beccahouston7239 Thank you Becca truly. It is comforting that we aren't the only ones who understand how soul crushing it can be.. Not to mention the fuel it becomes for our nightmares. Opening up is hard because no one wants to ever re-live those tragic moments again. However opening up is the only way to keep this healing ball moving. Your conversation today gave me the push I need to get into therapy again. So Black Pegasus is right you two being vulnerable helped me make that next step because I don't feel so ashamed for not just moving on and forgetting about. IT has been about 6 and 5 years ago so I m in a better place to start healing these wounds. Thank you so much.

  • @carolmillins9199
    @carolmillins9199 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Beautiful emotional reaction. Love and prayers to you both❤

  • @Charlee1776
    @Charlee1776 Před 8 měsíci +3

    This was very brave and I, for one, truly appreciate you sharing these reactions with us. I relate to both Ren and your wife very much. Autoimmunity (and fertility/carrying to term) issues as well, and I just want to let you know that this sort of sharing is healing for some of us so don't ever let negative people try to stop you from doing exactly what you choose with your channel because it's meaningful. Thank you both, truly. ❤‍🩹

  • @colcar3136
    @colcar3136 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Hey BP, Thank you to your incredibly brave wife and yourself for such an honest and heartfelt video. this song relates to everyone who has experienced such a heavy loss in their lives. It speaks to people in so many levels. for me personally my best friend made a rash decision late in the night, and ever since I have felt that I lost a piece of me too. it was like the spark if life went missing for me, my mam then passed away in 2020 and My son was born in 2021. Its only now am I seeing and feeling joy like I did before my friends passing. kids are a blessing and give us a new lease of life with a different perspective.

  • @TifaAnnTheEmpressJourney
    @TifaAnnTheEmpressJourney Před 8 měsíci +1

    Very beautiful reaction had me crying I'm happy you both reacted to this together and had a healing talk
    I believe those babies come in just to leave to gift the parents deep lvl of compassion that they would not have gotten any other way like how it brought u Pegasus back to God. know how truly loved and blessed you both are the fact you both were chosen for this is the proof 💗💖💗 so much love sent to you both

  • @kimetherington2252
    @kimetherington2252 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Don't ever let someone talk you out of playing Ren! I, for one, love your reactions to his music, and I look forward to seeing them, I think, as most of us do!

    • @kimetherington2252
      @kimetherington2252 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I sometimes react before your reactions are over! I know you can relate to Ren's music. It's universal in many ways! You and your wife have nodoubt been through the trails and tribulations of life. Losing loved ones are the worst, especially when they didn't get the chance to live life! Ren has the ability to reach people and put you in your feelings! I'm happy for you both, now that you're in a better place and hopefully the trails behind you! I wish you both only the best life has to offer! BP, continued success on your channel! See you on the next.😊

  • @kaynesheldon4905
    @kaynesheldon4905 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Watching you guys tear up makes me tear upaswell! But it’s always amazing seeing your feelings. It’s nice to see people on common grounds. Loved this reaction you guys.

  • @cathryntruebloood3913
    @cathryntruebloood3913 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I cannot in any way say I have walked your shoes or your wife's shoes; I can say this though I can deeply empathize. If you crack the door, the control you have will crack and you will never stop the tsunami. Much love to you both.

  • @bluenimzy8656
    @bluenimzy8656 Před 8 měsíci

    I went through a very dark time when my sister/ best friend passed. We finished every sentence; it was like our own language. We knew exactly why the other one liked a piece of music, food, friend etc.
    She was also my memory. I never needed to remember anything or anyone- she had my 6.
    I tried to be friendly, but I just couldn't do it. I couldn't listen to music, because everything reminded me of her. Either because we had heard it together, or one of our friends or us had played/sung it.
    Then my new roommate bought me the best book. I didn't really expect a book to help. How can a book understand what I needed - how I hurt?
    No, not the Bible. That's great when you're not struggling with too much for you to even understand the Bible.
    Fortunately, a pastor wrote a book called "The Purpose Driven Life ". The author is Rick Warren , and it got me out of the deep, dark funk that I was in. Give it a shot, together.
    For the ones you love. ❤

  • @berrycreative7196
    @berrycreative7196 Před 8 měsíci

    From a parent who has also experienced baby loss, thank you for your honesty and openness. This subject needs to be more out in the open so others don’t suffer behind closed doors and feel they can’t talk about their loss ❤❤❤

  • @davidmcintyre6444
    @davidmcintyre6444 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for your really real and beautiful reaction, I love RENs music, talent, realness, the gift of watching how his music affects people is inspiring. Your reaction and to braveness of your wife and your own reaction is beautiful. ❤❤

  • @mdh6977
    @mdh6977 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Wow... powerful reaction guys... very sorry for the loss of your child... cannot even imagine

  • @chdudeeh
    @chdudeeh Před 8 měsíci +1

    I was watching the voice UK and our girl Chinchilla is on the show. I was so pumped to see her on the show. She is going to slay!

  • @user-jr1op3yk6k
    @user-jr1op3yk6k Před 8 měsíci +1

    Love your reactions with the other half bp, me and my missus been through a lot of trials with pregnancy and can definitely relate, still born and 5 more late loss, have 2 to healthy kids now, But my missus struggled with our first born to be watched by even grandparents for a while, there's a song by James blunt out at the moment which stings a bit but would a very challenging reaction for you guys. Had us both in tears. Sending good vibes . YNWA

  • @andrasforis1969
    @andrasforis1969 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you for showing us this reaction. I like all of your reactions to support REN's talent, but it was more deeply personal. We cant never let our Lost goes, we can just live with our pain. Wish you all, more and more streight for Believe and God bless you and your family.

  • @christianking8962
    @christianking8962 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Just want to say that, YES! Opening up and being real definitely helps ME! Personally. I have my own shit going on (just like everyone else). And even if I disagree with some of your personal beliefs, I agree with the sentiment behind your beliefs. Episodes like this help me with my own personal inner dialog and I respect and appreciate that! Thanks Black P! Keep it up!!!

  • @AndrewS-et2jx
    @AndrewS-et2jx Před 8 měsíci

    Very moving piece that you and your wife gave us all. If ever there was an example of music being a portal to one's own emotions, this is it. It is an extraordinary song and performance by Ren and Chinchilla and incredible honesty and tenderness from you both. Sending you both best wishes and love from the UK.

  • @tinadavis5626
    @tinadavis5626 Před 8 měsíci

    Your vulnerability and honesty is beautiful, and so is your faith. It’s really hard to hold onto faith when the awful things happen to us. I pray to God that you receive the healing and the strength you need.

  • @chezgraham
    @chezgraham Před 8 měsíci +2

    you two are perfect, and I don't mean Ren & Chinchilla, you just moved me more than the song did, which is quite something. Stay just as you are x

  • @GaiaNative
    @GaiaNative Před 3 měsíci

    This reaction bought me to tears. I tried to comment from the place I felt in my heart, listening to your story, but I cannot find the words to express the feelings I have. Can I just simply say, no relationship is perfect but you both have shared loss and heartache yet maintained a strong love, and have a future to look forward too with your lovely 5 year old daughter. I wish you both all the very best for a rich and rewarding life in the best possible way for you both and for your daughter. Miracles do happen and prayers are a great comfort. Love and blessings, Helen.

  • @tinamorley2764
    @tinamorley2764 Před 8 měsíci

    How beautiful, please continue to look after your wife so deeply. She is integral for you and your familys growth. Sending love to both ❤

  • @StephanieEMT16
    @StephanieEMT16 Před 8 měsíci

    Your wife has such a sweet soul. I can see it. I relate to her as a mother, and you both as parents. When you lose a child or more than one, it’s indescribable. This song brought that up on me too. I’ve lost 2 and they were miscarriages, I had been trying to have a baby for a few years and lost two. But I had my son and he had to be in the NICU for while and when you go to the hospital having a baby and having to leave without them is a feeling you can’t explain as a mother. So I feel it with her, it’s so hard to keep going. But like your daughter, my son pushed me to get back up and keep going.
    Then I got hit with a lot of the same health problems Ren has, and I’m 15 years into that fight. Life went from good to not really quickly. I’m still fighting every day to be healthier because not being able to function as a normal human being causes me to have to sit with my feelings way too much. That almost overtook me, but I’m still trying. So your wife’s comments on the song make so much sense to me. This song got me at the same place your wife. I remember when this song was going around YT and I cried A LOT…..but I needed to. Ren is amazing at getting to your pain and then helps you work through it. God bless you both and your family. 💗🙏🏼💗

  • @jeremiahzambrotta5580
    @jeremiahzambrotta5580 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you for sharing yourselves with us. Ren is like medicine for all of us. He reaches everyone and its was great to see you share this moment together. We appreciate you. I watch regardless the content reviewed bc i enjoy your perspective and that of your guests and watching your journey of exploring whats unknown and different. Dont ever let this medium or the draw of the "fans" change you. Dont get lost in worrying about making us happy. Make yourself and your family happy and you cant lose. Stay up fam.

  • @HEKATE-A
    @HEKATE-A Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you to this wonderful lady for showing this emotion, I know the suffocation & loss of self after the loss of my baby, it shifts you into the eye of a storm & it takes such strength to anchor back in to a 'you' that is forever changed. But to give such reverence to your partnership is necessary too, the loss of a child can cause a couple to separate into opposite directions in the storm, and you two have obviously found ways to still remember each other and remind each other who you were, and being forever changed explore who you are now.
    May you both be blessed and may your daughter go from strength to strength

  • @sorenm.lairdsorries7547
    @sorenm.lairdsorries7547 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you 🙏❤ BlackPegasus & Wifey ❤ for your 🎸🌉 Ren X Chinchilla - How To Be Me (live) reaction! #ren #chinchilla #howtobeme #1uk

  • @djhassoun
    @djhassoun Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you for being so honest. It's why I come back. You're lucky to have your wife and she's lucky to have you.

  • @taller1443
    @taller1443 Před 8 měsíci

    I love both of you guy's authenticity. You're not up here trying to put on a persona, you two are just authentically you. Don't lose that and F those haters trying to force you into a lane. God Bless you both.

  • @Dorivit
    @Dorivit Před 8 měsíci

    Omg, she needs to visit lots more… what a beautiful family you have… I’ve heard this so so many times but your wife reacting made me very very emotional.. literally had a cry sesh… love love… you are an original artist I’ve not heard anything that I don’t play volume up kids have to hush they know better than to mess up my bp music.. my youngest is turning 30 and she will always be my baby, call her your baby.. so much much love. ❤❤️❤️❤️

  • @stevejarvis4174
    @stevejarvis4174 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thx you 2 made me blub ..,bless you and your family, hope things get so much better for you .stay strong Mrs peg .🎉

  • @deliciousficticious3150
    @deliciousficticious3150 Před 9 měsíci +1

    You two are beautiful together and to share such hard emotions to us is purely humbling. Thats why we love you. Together we help heal each other❤ please don't think you cant ever comfort each other on screen. I know I'd need a cuddle.

  • @Shiroar
    @Shiroar Před 8 měsíci +1

    Big hugs to both of you 🫂 I hope you manage to heal at least enough to be okay with it by the time your daughter starts school. Sounds rough to be so scared of being away from her 😢 I hope Ren getting you talking about it together will be a step in the right direction ❤ Anyway maybe let your wife see a more fun side of Ren too at some point even if not in a reaction 😅

  • @AuthorLaurieAnnSmith
    @AuthorLaurieAnnSmith Před 8 měsíci

    I think all of your Ren reactions are awesome! Ren touches so many hearts and lives. Who cares about the haters! I'm so glad to see you bring your lovely wife on with you. I am so sorry for the losses of your family. I lost my baby, she was also stillborn and I was never able to have children. My heart goes out to you. God bless you and your family.

  • @kirsty.H34
    @kirsty.H34 Před 7 měsíci

    Massive hugs to your wife, I too have ptsd from losing my baby girl, she died in her sleep from cot death god rest her. You will never not worry and if u need that baby monitor for another 10 years then you use it hun. I'm obsessed with germs and temperature I don't even sleep in my own bed, I sleep downstairs just incase and it's been 15 years. We are lucky though that you and I have such fantastic partners who understand us and our profound fears. God rest your beautiful babies who are safe in God's arms waiting for you, rest in paradise and to all the babies taken too soon, the kingdom of heaven was created for children such as these 🙏❤

  • @johnbrownsboys
    @johnbrownsboys Před 8 měsíci +3

    Thank you for a brilliant reaction and being so open and honest! Much love to you both xx

  • @user-od1pn9nm1h
    @user-od1pn9nm1h Před 5 měsíci

    To be honest mate, I always watched your reactions, then when I saw you show other people reactions I thought ah I won't watch those ... But now I get it, love the way you just let people listen and see how they react, will definitely be going back and watching them all now. Big love from UK to you and your wife!

  • @NativeNYerChicHK
    @NativeNYerChicHK Před 8 měsíci +1

    Man, my kids are now 17 & 19 yrs old and we got through their whole childhoods without ever trusting anyone outside of select family members to care for our kids in our absence. It was either myself or my husband that sacrificed attending events to stay back with our kids. We lost years of date nights outside home but made the best of time together when we could inside the home. Once the kids went to bed we had our time. While we didn’t suffer loss, we just weren’t comfortable with taking unnecessary and avoidable risks with the lives of our children. Statistically, the people most often responsible for hurting children are family members, close friends and other trusted adults in positions of authority. So we avoided letting our guard down until they could be strong in their own independence. We don’t regret one second of it. We’re now together coming up on 28 years together, dating and married, and finding our footing as we begin to enter the next phase of being parents of adults and gearing up to have an empty nest in the not so distant future. We are far from perfect, but we did and will continue to do the best we can. And that’s all you guys should do too. Make choices you can both live with and be confident in them ♥️