Nate Berkus: How Saying 'No' to Oprah Changed His Career | Fast Company
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- Nate Berkus, the interior designer, author, and television personality, became a household name when he first appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show. He's since created a design empire and, along the way, learned a lot about becoming a leader and bouncing back from big mistakes.
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I have always liked Nate, from the moment I saw him on Oprah! He’s such a down to earth cutie!! I’m so glad that his company is successful for him. I’m glad he found love again. Losing a partner, especially in the way he did, would shake anyone’s world apart. 🙏❤️
How did he lose his partner? I don't know this story.
@@tigergreg8 He and his partner at the time Fernando were in the 2004 Indonesian Tsunami in Sri Lanka. Nate survived but Fernando was pulled in another direction while they were in the tsunami water and was never found.
@@Lady_Kirkpatrick oh my gosh, how horrible that must have been. I can’t imagine how many, if only’s, you’d go through in life. Thanks so much Lana. Happy New Year 🎊🎆🎈
@@tigergreg8 they still have a portion of the interview he did with Oprah. Heartbreaking. czcams.com/video/8gMwSBztlkc/video.html
Happy New Year to you too!
Never heard about Nate until Oprah. He didn't say NO he offered a great suggestion. That's what comes with maturity. Unless you're in the military, you don't get asked to Jump and repeat how high as an independent adult. You negotiate.
That's what I thought he didn't say 'no' to Oprah. He said yes, to her assistant and kind of said, 'We're going to do this my way.'
I saw Nate once in person and he was so down to earth and kind.
For every person that has become an icon, there is a cast of hundreds of people that help them make their dream a reality.
why?
Absolutely 💯. So many people.
@@woodswal for every generalization, there are, generally, some generalizers....
So many people.. that are barely talked about and rarely known...
True
I love Nate's honesty about what true leadership looks like 👍
I remember the first time Nate was on Oprah, it was fun, exciting and he seemed so shy. It's been pure joy watching him grow, evolve, create and build his brand.
Yes! And, he just comes across as such a nice, well grounded, guy. He’s «whole wood», as we say in Norway. His empathy towards others and his warmth, shines through. I’m so glad he has such a wonderful life now, with his hubby and two beautiful children, esp. since he has been through so much pain and grief over losing his previous partner in the tsunami in Asia... 😊
Heidiinphilly more handsome than 25 years ago!
Was so sad for him when his partner died in the Tsunami. But so happy for how he has overcome that heartache and built such a beautiful life for his family ♡
I remember him from HGTV before that. He was great on that show.
Click bate. He didn't say no to Oprah. Talk about Click bate! SMH
Yeah, I got sucked in too! Pure click bate! LOL!
BAIT
Tam , if you listened in the very beginning he said that he got a call from Harpos requesting that he round up professional workers ( plumbers, etc.) and be somewhere the very next day and he said that he would have to call them back. After ten minutes her called her back and said “no” to bringing his own crew and that they would have to hire crews that are local to the area. I think that is what was referred to in the Title.
@@patriciahulett4411 This IS click bait. We all listened and in the very beginning and I agree with Tam, he didn't say no but negotiated a more feasible solution which is what any professional would do in his situation. The title suggests that he may have had some sort of clash with Oprah and he turned her down flat. That is not the case here and in fact this story actually brings to light how their professional relationships came to be. He actually said yes to Oprah. Still click bait especially because here we are still debating something that happened a couple of decades ago.
Lyle Nicholson , some people will argue with a sign post that they painted themselves.
Nate is one of only designers on TV who is unpretentious, thoughtful, kind, and sees the design through the clients eyes.
This young man shows depth of character......so refreshing to listen to him. In recent months, I had one of the most enjoyable experiences of my life when I attended a Paul Anka concert. It was absolutely amazing to listen to his stories. Unbelievably talented but so kind and down to earth like Nate. Never knew that it was Paul Anka who wrote "I did it my way" for Frank Sinatra. Seems he wrote many songs for great artists. Absolutely amazing to watch and listen to this so gifted man perform on stage at 80 years of age. For some reason I see similarities between he and Nate - kind and real and true to himself. So gifted with talents and hard work, of course. I
Margaret O'Hara Thank you, I had no idea he wrote "My Way", what a great song! I loved Elvis singing it too. Cheers.
Nate on Oprah many moons ago made me understand that love was love. Love, love, love Nate forever and always.
Nate Berkus, you're one of the best designers that I've happened upon. I love your design shows with Jeremiah&we get to see the children as well. Your work is wonderful &doable even for beginners; like me. Continue bringing joy &beauty to those who need it. Stay well&God's blessings always.🤓👍👏💖🤗✌
He didn’t really ‘say “no” to Ophra’… he just suggested a different way and still worked Ophra.
Agreed. Misleading title
Exactly.
yup, I was almost going to be interest in him...but no.
@@nancyjohnson5483 ...*interested
*Oprah
Love Nate. What he is saying is sensible in any business interaction. He’s a gem personally. I know we only see a “snapshot” of him on television but I like to believe he’s genuine in what he’s saying- he gets emotional on camera often enough too. Just seems so heartfelt.
Basically he did say "No". In the industry, there's always the chance that they'll drop you if you can't meet their demand, so that was really a brave decision young Nate had to make.
Very misleading headline
That’s the moment he showed he was professional. Their request was unreasonable. Who expects tradespeople to blow off their existing projects?
@@BerachahJudahvery misleading story went completely different than title
Great video. I appreciate how Nate Berkus said, no, let’s do it this way. He remained true to himself. He thought the idea and process through. Hats off to you sir ❤️
He only said “No” to the suggestion to use his crew. He accepted Harpo’s offer to do the job. He knew what he was doing to get into the business.
Fanouvvi right!🙄
Fanouvvi the thumbnail is very misleading
It was a risk he took . He did tell Oprah ( the show) “no , I can’t do that. “
Harpo could easily find someone else ,just as great ,who would do the job the way they proposed it.
Nate Berkus wasn’t a national name back then.
Becoming famous may not have even been on his bucket list .
He probably expected them to say “Thanks , but that’s not what we’re looking for”.
Luckily ,they accepted his plan & it worked so well they continued doing it on the show for years .
“There’s no way around a horrible situation. You just have to go through it.”
yeah there is-click
Nate has such a calming voice
He's just adorable and really good at his chosen profession. 💗🙏💗
Nate is an amazing person as you can tell from this interview.
Loved Nate Burkus then, still love him. Keep up the great work Nate
Great interview! Nate is so good, so gifted at what he does.
I stopped watching Oprah years ago when she belittled a gentleman on her show who said he couldn't afford something on her Christmas wish list. Who does that??? Brain tumor patient who makes 814 a month....living in housing that I struggle just to keep clean!
Oprah's Christmas list is annoying for me. I am basically at the lower middle class level and I can't afford most things on her list. Oprah forgets how it was to be just getting by.
I too stopped watching her, as I think she’s intrusive and only wants the views which equals money.
@@mojamurphy4905 she turned me off too with that list one year when she suggested we all buy $200 slippers for all our girlfriends. Huh? I do ok but my friends don’t give that level of gift and frankly I would never spend that on slippers. She had lost touch.
I'm sure Oprah didn't miss you.😊
OMG. That's so cruel
Great interview. Tnx
Nate, you got it brother. Love your self-respect.
Keeping you honest and confident.
God bless ♥️ 🙏
Nate is a very wise and uber talented designer! Love his humility!
Nate looks so tired. I just adore Nate and Jeremiah!!❤
Nana Dean : kids period. Been there. That’s what raising
Kids does .
@@Robsav-yx6vi Oh, pleez... what r the kids' names? COKE & BOOZE?
An army of Assistants, Secretaries, Maids, Cooks, Nannies, Gardeners, Bodyguards, Managers, Drivers, Accountants, Lawyers, Spokespeople, etc. make life so easy he literally does not have 2 lift a finger (yeah, they can actually feed him). The things he does are for pleasure. This is not a mere doctor that makes $200k - $300k a year (heck, his assistants make more than that!). He's been a multimillionaire for over a decade... his grandkids can live off of the dynastic wealth!!
As a human being he deserves compassion for his pain & his struggles.
However, it is unfair & disrespectful 2 the millions of people who struggle with 2-3 kids (AND 2-3 jobs and barely come up 4 air) and are exhausted -- 2 be compared with someone who has an entire village at his beck and call.
Fabulous interview, it is why everyone Loves Nate, and Jeremiah
Always loved Nate and his work. Blessing love.
Nat, Nat, Nat...he is the most humble designer person to whom ever he does business with. You can tell his willingness is 100% on track. I enjoy watching his transformation....every episode is 100% satisfying to his clients. Their gratefulness to him is rewarding and in return his gratefulness to them is always rewarding to their respect. Awesome heartwarming person!!!!!!! I hope one day I can shake his hand.
Oprah is the one who oppened the BIG DOOR for Nate , for Dr Oz , Rachel Ray and others.
Yes Nate is talented, and Iam one of his fans, but alot of people didn't know who he was until he appeared on the Oprah show . His appearance on the show leaded him to bigger things etc.
Dr. PHIL!!!!!!!! Surprised you did not put his name first
LED him to bigger things, etc.
Oprah rocks!!! She's got the Midas touch
I agree
Uncle phil & Dr.oz- seem to want to go their own way & become a billionaire like O-they say later for the BS.....
I wonder why no p.o.c.
were
given an opportunity like them?.....
Nate berkes humble beautiful spirit. Love always
Love you & your talent!! Watched you forever!! Your style is always amazing!
Love this video.. had no idea how difficult it was to be your on designer.. good for you..ego so gets in your way!!😌
That question about leadership was good.
He is such a gentleman and shows his heart! Big heart... humble genius.
Words of work wisdom from Nate! Learned a lot from this chat
Loved those days. And everything he designed.....love ur work Nate!!!!!
The episodes Nate were in were always the best ones on the Oprah show.
I love Nate, he is great and gorgeous! Beautiful eyes. Love is creative design work, best in the business.
Still love his upfront honesty about owning mistakes
I had no idea First Dibs was his..I live that sight. Great insight about owning your mistakes.
He/his goods are represented in 1st dibs but it is not his own business. He just has one booth out of hundreds.
Ditto. First Dibs is not owned by Nate. Many people showcase their retail goods there.
I love Nate. Seems like such a genuinely nice guy:) Super talented too.
A very nice and wise person! It is good to see positive, admirable videos of inspiring people!
SEEMS LIKE A GREAT GUY...BLESSINGS FOR STAYING TRUE TO YOU!!
The best thing about Oprah is that early on, she made a decision to say " No" to negative reporting. She won't have on evil guests and give them public attention. She has good taste in designers!
Nope, she had Donald Trump on her show and encouraged him to run for president. Talk about evil.
Maria Cintron
She had Barak Obama on her show, and encouraged him to run for president. That's the first time I saw him. On that show.
He shared with the audience once, to "shop your own house"; best decorating advice I ever heard and took to heart. lady in NE
Nate you have integrity. Good on you.
Well, he actually said yes to Oprah.
Bingo. Such click bait.
yeah they slept together...who cares
eric l why do u say that
@@firasharb1454 channeling dorothy golden girls fedupedness i guess
He said ‘no’ to bringing along the very craftsmen that made his visions possible.
Nate, you Rock!!!
He actualy said no to hiring his own crew. Not to Opreah.
His crew missed a chance for recognition on a grand scale
*Oprah
Just love the creative instinct of Nate Berkus...inspiring..
Beautiful person inside and out. Respect to his acumen and priority to be true to himself always
Learn a lot from this interview. Tq.
Good interview with Nate.
Nate most humbled and just a great person and talented
I told my cardiologist that he looked like Nate Berkus and he’s also from
Chicago!
Oooh lucky you
He’s a cute handsome man ,great tallent ,great designer, and great man 👍❤️
Runner Girl - So what? Doesn’t make him less cute! He’s got a super cute husband and equally cute children too... ☺️
Runner Girl - Yes he is❗️
Nates products are beautiful!
Such a sweet man.
But you did change as a person, you learned and focused, you changed, change is good, out of the rut, new thinking
nate is my hero and muse....
Thank you Nate Berkus
He is such a great nan❤
He’s a beautiful man
GIANCARLO G. GUERRA - personal preference, right? So he’s not your kind of guy. I’m sure there’s one out there for you.
He sure is. But he's gay. 😭
He is truly a beautiful man who has aged beautifully 😍
He is from our Gay community and that makes us proud.💎🙏✌
He used to be. He hasn't aged well. But who does? lol
He said “yes” to not only Oprah, but to Martha STEWART as well.
Enjoyed watching this you've had quite a life so far.
Yes I love his honesty
Nate shows integrity
What an awesome personality he has!!❤
another clickbait.. he didn't say "no" to Oprah. He just called her team back.
That was a misleading title! 😤
I would not subscribe, that's for sure.
Hm. But he did say no to bringing his own tradies.
Thank you for this ....i m learning from you
Loved this ❤❤❤
I LOVE Nate!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
He sounds so humble.
Smart man!!
Good Job, I remember being your server a few timea at Leona's
Oprah lift people up, what a remarkable woman!
I’m a designer, love love.
Listening to this man being reasonable in his decision to say no to Oprah lends me to think that a female would not have made that decision. She would have been determined to work with Oprah.
Why do you guys put a head line that is Not even what the story is about ???? Very deceiving!
❤️❤️❤️
Love you Nate!!
I LUV NATE....AND OPRAH TOO! 😉❤❤❤
1st dibs is ruining the midcentury furniture market with the insane prices they have to charge for their crazy overhead.
Misleading click bait title 🙄
So grounded.
Nate's success and strengths are his looks and personality and charisma. He draws you in. That actually makes him a great manager and business person and public image for his brand. Designer wise, I find his work quite mediocre and without any signature point of views. Anyone with a budget can buy and arrange furniture.
Tam...thanx
Tam, he said No regarding bringing in his own crew for the first show.
Im only here because google said hes a triple virgo and a was reaaally curious
I love authentic ethnic designs. Mexican , Persian , European etc..so much crap is marketed from China as contemporary. I don’t like that. Great job Nate !
So nice!!
Very Good
I knew of him because of Opera. She has touched & opened a lot of doors for so many people...So I don't get when he actually said No to Oprah 😀 I guess they got us to click ...
How do get in contact Nate. Please Help me. I really need help with my home. Thanks
Those Oprah haters threw a lot of VENOMS on this thread 😁
Good nate
I have such a huge crush on him the first time I ever saw him, now I love him to death!
Nate and Jeremiah 💕