how to be an attractive introvert
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Inside this video: Learn how to become a confident introvert. This is how to be more confident in yourself. Full confidence guide for men.
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As an introvert I’m forcing myself to go to an event tonight where I’ll likely know absolutely no one so this video comes at the right time
💪 Good stuff bro.
I’m going to a concert on the 22nd on my owm
@@glennchinyangarara8225 Lets go good stuff 💪
lets go, being comfortable with doing the uncomfortable things is the start!
Own the night brother
A lot of people hating on introverts not realizing introverts can find peace in the most simple things extraverts would find frustrating.
Being an introvert is different from being socially anxious. Being an introvert means that you find your inner world more interesting than what's around you. You can be quite relaxed and confident, but not willing to express yourself too much. On the other hand, you can be socially anxious, but you would die to be more comfortable to express yourself. I think I am both. When I am extroverted and relaxed, the micro-expressions of people tell me that I'm too much. When I'm introverted and relaxed, people think I'm a bit arrogant. I regulate myself to be more introverted sometimes because I tend to talk too much and overshare. I regulate myself to be more extroverted when I am socially anxious and unfortunately people can tell. I really thought I hid my anxiety well with my last date, but she told me I was just as shy as she was (I was not shy or introverted, just anxious).
The goal is to have a very small friendship group to where you can be your extroverted self around without being judged. Then when you go into an environment where you dont know a lot of people, you will be comfortable knowing you have that friend group to be yourself in. But be very careful as some of your closest friends can end up being snakes and gossiping about you.
You can’t choose lmao, you’re either introverted or extroverted
I’m 17, I noticed a night and day change when I realized we are programmed to have low self esteem since we were children. and it stuck with us since then and we’ve conditioned ourselves to think that way. The best fact I learned is that those thoughts and those opinions are fake and the only ones that matter are the good ones about you that you and others portray on you. Because the one who puts you down doesn’t see your value and the person who lifts you up sees what your worth. Also don’t change who you are to impress someone like a girl or a friend, improve who you are…
Exactly 💯
We need to get this comment to at least a thousand likes!
Inner voice part is so on point i can't even think doing something positive or social and its already all over my head giving me ten thousand reasons I suck
Thank you David 💯
This might be one of the best videos youve made.
You always inspire me to better myself and as an Introvert I am working hard to recreate myself. Thanks man
Beast- Once again you have blessed us with Amazing advice 💯🤜🏽🤛🏽
Thank you for this. I appreciate it ❤
Thank you. That is sooooo on point and present. No judging, just helping to those on the same path. I appreciate you. So real.
Needed this. Just started dating my first ever 10 two weeks ago. Legit a model. And I'm constantly fighting these battles in my head about simping, or thinking too far in the future. Coming back to these videos are a great help for a reset. Her actions are fantastic, and I need to just focus on that.
Thanks David. I attribute your videos to even starting to date this exotic beauty
Dont show her caring behaviors immediately
Don’t put her on pedestal
@@nicka2709 ya I am honestly following a ton of David's advice and it's working great. Worst case scenario I've now been with a model and confidence is all time high moving forward, or it ends up working out as a LTR
Remember that you can always get another attractive girl, maintain an abundance mindset
@@jjwilly5114 you're right. Despite her looks, she's also just pretty awesome. I'm keeping the mindset, but still maintaining a possibility mindset too
This was one of your best videos in recent time David, predicate the tips brodie!
Great advice bro❤
Great Video as always, thank you.
Man I gotta compliment you on how you can give amazing advice while also making it fun and enjoyable to watch, I actually got a few laughs out of this video :)
I never knew this about you! That's awesome. I'm pretty introverted myself. I'm gonna get back to watching the video now lol
Those are GOLDEN tip brother thank you❤❤❤
Today this girl recently talked to me today and I honestly didn't feel nervous. She asked me about someone was absent today and I told her I didn't know. She also asked me about my brother who was coming in and where was he at. It was just small talk but she smiled when I was talking to her. She seemed nice though she is an introvert like myself.
this video helped me a lot bro thanks !
Valuable informations thank you man❤
Love this!
Thanks, great info as usual … also I like that black cat head image!
Solid advice
Finally get to hear some good stuff
Beyond Based and straight to the facts. Love it bro. 💪🏻
Let's get it! 💪🏼
Im only 16 turning 17 here soon, but this has to be the best video that i've watched about being introverted and how to not feel like a loser; and I've have been able to relate to it pretty easily lmao. Great tips, good advice, and just overall great information. Keep it up brotha 👊
Bro be spitting bars.❤
Thx bro!
Bro you are freaking genius! Not a cliche points these are real valid points you putting out there. While going thru this vid, I’m getting certain things and mindset right on what I’m doing right now. This really helps to establish right attitude/ quality for what I’m currently building, MYSELF! I just hit that subscribe and like button! My next recommendation: how to build a social profile!
Being an introvert most of the time means you are you worst and biggest enemy. Self-sabotaging is so prolific.
Bro spitting facts❤
man, I am only 50 seconds in and I am already so glad you uploaded this video because this is EXACTLY what's been bothering me the whole time
Damn.. good advices
I agree bro! Good shit beast 😂
Thans for this great video David!
Man this is the first of these dating coach videos that resonated with me a bit, not knowing what to say at all is right now my biggest struggle not just with girls, but people in general. Last week was rough, but I promised myself to try and stop trying this week, chill out a bit.
The super power thing... I never even realised I did this. I am literally happy as hell in my own company, and can get loads done. I really enjoy this kind of content, thank you
I’m an extrovert who is forced to be an introvert because I have no friends. I tried to make friends so many times, what do i do?
@@Okar-gu4ek the answer is to do the things that you truly enjoy. The things you'd really love to do if you had the perfect life with friends to do these things with. That's where you will find those friends 🤞
I’m 22 and I moved out on my own after college for work, I used to be extroverted and be able to talk to anyone. After moving I was alone all the time so the voice in my head grew worse and worse and I became insecure and anxious all the time. it took a lot of work and now I overcame it and am becoming my own self again due to videos similar to this one and podcasts.
Thank you
I personally won’t consider my inner voice an issue. Although it tells me very bad things but it gives me advice especially when I start to get nervous in front of girls.
Great advice! I agree about James Bond 007. I always tried to emulate him... Awesome movies👍
I only chucked in the video going for some nice drone shots too test the quality of my internet. Went away with some great tips for my date tomorrow
This helped a lot, thank you. Tbh I thought I was one of the only ones that though this way.
Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what kept you going.
I always appreciate every advice you give us bro. Stay beastly!
when are more podcasts coming out?
Mediation is an absolute game changer. I dealt with that voice for so long until I found the headspace app. I’ve been using it for over 6 years and still use it daily
Thank you David, this couldn't have come at a better time. Really struggle with my introversion, I seem to have gotten worse with this in my later 20s even though I have levelled up other areas of my life
@@FreewheelinFranklin probably should have added that I've been in a relationship for 5 years and very happy. We have a place together and very stable jobs, I just can't shake these old habits which I thought I'd overcome
That literally me everything u said is basically what i go through everyday when i know my worth and approach beautiful woman that i know i could pursue instead the ones hurting me for no damn reason
Bro this is god level advice.
I think my power is being introvert. Let others tell in themselves. Do not interrupt your enemy while they are making the mistake.
The crazy thing is introverts have the most interesting personality. When i let myself flow and being myself, I'm the crazy one in the middle of people. I just need time to break the freeze
as an introvert, i’ve always asked a girl out through text. But lately, I’ve been feeling like a coward doing this so i just asked out in person the last girl i was interested In. It felt so good bc I was like “oh, i actually can do this”
I’m introverted, but I’m not shy. I just don’t feel the need to talk to people and I actually enjoy not talking to people… the sad reality of that I know I’ll die alone because of my choices
That kitty sound made me laugh lmaooo. Real shit tho man your stuff helps.
10:34 the advice i needed the most, thanks bro
Beast video as always homie! But I gotta know, what’s the background song at 9:00? I know it’s a 91 Nova joint.
Yes sickos🔥🔥🔥
Good video
James Bond is a brilliant example. Like u said he is cool, confident and a hit with the ladies all the things I aspire to be.
I'm the same as you bro, I don't have problems with clubs or anything like that, I just don't like to waste time, but if I'm with a group of at least 5 people, I agree to go to a club or something.
The Voice in my head is pretty positive but also when i do something wrong it always calls me stupid as fuck lol
5th - Damn... truth, especially about the inner voice. Thanks David, more on this topic please. You had my FULL attention for the 13 minutes.
Damn, David nailed that on the head.
Yeah you're right
Bro make a video on consistency please 🥺❤️
You are gem 💎🔥🔥
It’s really rough as an introverted male
Hey David been having this question in mind for a while now.What are your thoughts on Stephan Speaks?
💯 🔥🔥🔥
I like how you went from the classic James Bond with one screenshot to the new James Bond with multiple screenshots, who was your favorite?
Damn this guy is good
09:55 it’s insane how that works. You would think it only works on girls that are shy and introverted themselves, but I actually did it on the most extroverted punk girl ever who usually talks twice as loud as me 😂 still, she broke the silence
DAVID can you send me the link to the CZcams video you did telling about your tattoo and you got it! Thanks
This video was made for me
When David mentioned the one person with strong presence I knew he was going to say James Bond, but I thought of someone who also has a strong if not stronger presence than James Bond and that is Thomas Shelby from the Peaky Blinders.
I like the grind better then
Bro, where have you been all this time
I might be wrong cuz i recently started learning new concepts and being introvert is one of them
I'm an introvert myself
Yk, i had crowd anxiety and all these crap but it started to slowly fade away when i started to break the ice and communicate with people and found out that they don't really bite, some of 'em still may do 😂
So introvert is not being shy or antisocial, but maybe it means you have better function doing things by yourself, or you just enjoy being alone more, or you might be brainstormed in your time alone which is a gift that mostly introvert people possess, but that doesn't mean you can't sit around other people and learn things from them, at least that's the case for myself
And i think the level of being introvert is different for everyone
Im like 60 to 65% introvert
And 35 to 40% extrovert
Yk what i'm sayin?
Yo David, where's that white shirt you wear at 2:39 from? Shirt's fire
Probably his line of clothes. I forgot the name. Edge, I think.
I always go by the phrase: "actions speak louder than words". Don't tell them, show them.
3:00 wtf bro... 🤣
Where can I buy that shirt hes wearing?
David, bless, just gotta kill that voice.🫡
More videos like this and your numbers will go up again
Same page bro
Lemmie tell you guys the Shy, Cover the face, introvert nerdy rizz is crazzzzy
12:06 lmao that made me laugh
The worst is being an extrovert who are not likeable..
I have a little bit oftop question if I may. I'm doing this 16 hours fasting from 7PM to 11AM. And decided to start with gym in the morning like 7:30AM to 8:30AM. Is this good schedule? Anyone tried similar?
Brooo the first exemple with politics and Trump is exactly what I encoutered yesterday with anti-trump person and I was like I don't mind him (even tho I don't have many political knowledges). You couldn't pull off a better exemple for me ty ahah
Sigma 🐺
Whats the background song at 6:37?
I honestly forgot Valentine's day was a thing
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being an introvert. I have always been one. But, if I’m offered to go out with friends, I will never say no, because I crave camaraderie and fun once in a while. Being an introvert does not make you a pussy. Sometimes we’re not comfortable being loud and obnoxious, we don’t need to be. It’s often those people who are insecure and have to prove it wrong to their mates and themselves.
Hey im from boston
Whats the song at 6:37?
Actually felt heard for once :)