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  • @Drfeelinu
    @Drfeelinu Před 4 lety +7998

    He ain’t lying about listening. We mostly listen to respond.. instead of listening to understanding

    • @longlivedemocracy756
      @longlivedemocracy756 Před 4 lety +4

      oldsoul so right!

    • @cindyking7229
      @cindyking7229 Před 4 lety +1

      Yeah men do

    • @hamididdy
      @hamididdy Před 4 lety +43

      @@cindyking7229 false, humans do.

    • @melisapalmorn4772
      @melisapalmorn4772 Před 4 lety +2

      oldsoul listen without already thinking about what you wanna say.
      It’s called always already listening. I learned to hear and listen. People appreciate that! ❤️

    • @lalaxo5869
      @lalaxo5869 Před 4 lety +1

      This should be a meme

  • @jrandall1131
    @jrandall1131 Před 4 lety +3818

    Speaking to Will's analogy: someone once said if a flower fails to bloom, the gardener does not look to change the flower, he changes its environment.

  • @haywirewilly3363
    @haywirewilly3363 Před 3 lety +234

    To me, the most important element of love is 'safety'. Safety from harm. Safety from lies. Safety from infidelity. Safety from humiliation. For until we feel safe with someone, we cannot be free to love with all our heart and soul.

    • @amiraabdel-fadil431
      @amiraabdel-fadil431 Před 3 lety +1

    • @gloshhaven
      @gloshhaven Před 3 lety +1

      Very true

    • @hikarii_flow
      @hikarii_flow Před 3 lety +14

      Nah. You have too many conditions for you to love and that immediately makes it not unconditional. Really, you don't need any reason to love. Only the ego needs certainty and security, both of which are illusions. No one can tell the future. "God" doesn't need any reason to Love you, he just does, in the same way the sun shines its light onto anyone willing to bask in all its warmth and glory. Until you Love without conditions and without needing anything, you will always be short of True Love. Let go. The lesson here is to learn how to Love EVERYTHING because all is you. To hate anything is to hate yourself. That's why if you can't even love your enemy, you can't love anyone else. Your enemy is you and you are your enemy. All is one. When you realize this, you will want genuine happiness not just for your family but even for your worst enemy. It is then that Love is overflowing within you and you can't help but Love everyone and everything.

    • @anymarcos2355
      @anymarcos2355 Před 2 lety +6

      @@hikarii_flow cute, but it’s extremely dangerous to say to someone to love anyone even if it doesn’t feel safe like wtf.

    • @anymarcos2355
      @anymarcos2355 Před 2 lety +2

      In other words willy you are right

  • @jilly235
    @jilly235 Před 3 lety +20

    The part he said about not being capable of making someone happy is soooooo true.

  • @s_h_a_w_n_d_a8903
    @s_h_a_w_n_d_a8903 Před 4 lety +2278

    Someone said. “Don’t fall in love.” Rise in love.”

    • @bbkkjbbv2997
      @bbkkjbbv2997 Před 4 lety +9

      I perfectly agree

    • @swif8192
      @swif8192 Před 4 lety +23

      You’re never in control when you fall..

    • @tramainechapman8289
      @tramainechapman8289 Před 4 lety +7

      @S R if I may humbly add to your "Don't fall in love quote by stating Don't fall in love. Rise in love and Walk in love."♥️💖

    • @TerryClemons
      @TerryClemons Před 4 lety +2

      🙏🏽

    • @MizDynasty
      @MizDynasty Před 4 lety +2

      Wow, that’s a new one for me. Ty for sharing✨🙏🏽✨

  • @youmanaa
    @youmanaa Před 4 lety +525

    “We accept the love we think we deserve”

    • @nyetavidel
      @nyetavidel Před 4 lety +16

      Nah, sometimes I get love beyond what I think I deserve.

    • @thomasthomasturbitt8417
      @thomasthomasturbitt8417 Před 4 lety

      I used to love u but now u just bore me

    • @alexisoleo
      @alexisoleo Před 4 lety

      Amén!!!

    • @liz_5888
      @liz_5888 Před 4 lety +2

      Amen. Then I just become so nurturing in my relationship. Nurturing the bare minimum of love I was given that I once thought was everything to me.

    • @humzarockstar13
      @humzarockstar13 Před 4 lety

      Perks of being a wallflower

  • @googlynile5626
    @googlynile5626 Před 3 lety +27

    GOD is love and love Is perfect when it flows from Him down into you and finally to people around you...that's what salvation or getting saved feels like...very undescribable feeling ..imagine opening your heart to the God of the universe and his love being poured out to you

  • @alexandertc688
    @alexandertc688 Před 2 lety +53

    Love is assaulting someone on live television for a crappy joke and forgiving yourself right after and making it only about you. That's love

    • @AntonioDrakeTV
      @AntonioDrakeTV Před 2 lety +1

      smh.. hated to see it.. that's one of the most punk ish things I ever witnessed.. will a coward for that

    • @Bazukas79
      @Bazukas79 Před rokem +1

      agreed

  • @maverickmentality5357
    @maverickmentality5357 Před 4 lety +1480

    I feel lucky to be alive on the planet at the same time Will Smith is

  • @MarisaCohenBeauty
    @MarisaCohenBeauty Před 4 lety +460

    “you can not make a person happy”
    Damn I felt that :(

    • @lalat5899
      @lalat5899 Před 4 lety +1

      Marisa Cohen emphasis on make

    • @sagalmusse6977
      @sagalmusse6977 Před 4 lety

      I absolutely did feel that too! BINGO 🎰

    • @abzm6160
      @abzm6160 Před 4 lety

      Marisa Cohen he is an actor not a doctor

    • @marcramirez2093
      @marcramirez2093 Před 4 lety +3

      in other words you can show a person a good time, make them smile make them laugh. you can even give them everything to make there life better for them. but at the end. only they can decide if they are happy or not, because happiness is an emotion.

    • @abzm6160
      @abzm6160 Před 4 lety

      Marc Ramirez - money make the world go round and the hos get down. Who this person that is unhappy? Go to Vegas man!

  • @viciousgamer0619
    @viciousgamer0619 Před 3 lety +26

    God bless this man. I hope he finds someone that luvs him as much as he luvs her

  • @mup2571
    @mup2571 Před 3 lety +3

    Losing that "get" mentality is gold. Love has no expectations. Most relationships have issues with devotion not love.

    • @richardsmith7696
      @richardsmith7696 Před 2 lety

      Hi mup, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??

  • @thaithaovy.1
    @thaithaovy.1 Před 4 lety +1585

    "There is nothing that feels better to a human being than to feel understood."

    • @juniorhlups3994
      @juniorhlups3994 Před 4 lety +2

    • @user-mx4eq4iw8y
      @user-mx4eq4iw8y Před 4 lety

      Thảo Vy Thái I am a single young man. I want to speak with a girl for marriage and stability. Do you accept me?

    • @cassierose-bell250
      @cassierose-bell250 Před 4 lety +1

      Thảo Vy Thái 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @CharityRay
      @CharityRay Před 4 lety +1

      Thảo Vy Thái 100%! I completely agree with you. It feels so amazing

    • @kavansakayenook6749
      @kavansakayenook6749 Před 4 lety +2

      Oh, dats beautiful

  • @RANDOMDUDENo1
    @RANDOMDUDENo1 Před 4 lety +663

    This literally needs to be taught in schools. We need a class on: Love.

    • @VivBeyer1111
      @VivBeyer1111 Před 4 lety +2

      I AGREE !

    • @m.chrisson
      @m.chrisson Před 4 lety +10

      Totally agree. Nowadays with kids growing up with the dangers of the internet its import to show them what REAL LOVE is really all about.

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 Před 4 lety +4

      I took a psychology class on happiness at ILSTU. I’m sure a class exists.

    • @CJCtelevisionnetwork
      @CJCtelevisionnetwork Před 4 lety +1

      liamarnold94 and finance

    • @foxworrier
      @foxworrier Před 4 lety

      YES!!

  • @Alxxisk
    @Alxxisk Před 3 lety +3

    The comfort i feel in Will Smiths voice

  • @mayusoma
    @mayusoma Před 3 lety +9

    Everyone wants to be heard, but everybody can't talk at the same time. It's easier for me to consider my own experiences- where people havent listened to me because of my packaging -as a young black woman when luving people + all I want to give them is my attention. I want them to feel seen because I remember what it felt like not be heard, to be looked over. What I'm trying to say is I think that of we as a whole listened to people + gave them the kind of understanding like he said + validation that we would want I think there would be less misunderstanding regardless of the different labels + packaging we possess-the kinds that automatically create communication barriers. Then, it becomes simple to luv because you're mirroring how'd you want someone to luv you. I find it very draining at times to try to luv people when I'm not full,s so it's very necessary to take personal time for filling your cup because you want to «leave people feeling better than when you met them».

    • @highbassandbeatsmusic9221
      @highbassandbeatsmusic9221 Před 2 lety +1

      True love.. is to plant a red rose in the path of those you love.. and sow in their imagination a beautiful story.. and sow sincere impulses in their hearts.. then do not wait for return..!

    • @mayusoma
      @mayusoma Před 2 lety

      @@highbassandbeatsmusic9221 this changes everything! Thank you angel for this message.

  • @truenorth4630
    @truenorth4630 Před 4 lety +848

    you are a wise and inspirational person Will.
    “When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new.”
    ― The Dalai Lama

    • @wutaeworld
      @wutaeworld Před 4 lety +1

      True North This is a friendly reminder my friend ❤️👉🏽 czcams.com/video/UXA6qUvVZIk/video.html

    • @mutsjoanah2425
      @mutsjoanah2425 Před 4 lety +1

      I agree...
      Couldn't say it any better. He inspires me on so many different levels.

    • @charlesahweyevu
      @charlesahweyevu Před 4 lety +1

      I disagree. You think you already know but I'm sure there has been several times you tried to explain an idea you thought you understood in your head but saying it out loud, you start to see holes in your logic. Talking and listening. Both are important....I feel like "that guy" for typing this but oh well.

  • @Mr300OG
    @Mr300OG Před 4 lety +641

    when 90s wisdom meets 2019s technology

    • @alfredonski
      @alfredonski Před 4 lety +1

      You people must be so smart taking your advice from hollywood elite.

    • @wilfredolynxrivera3349
      @wilfredolynxrivera3349 Před 4 lety

      💯💯💯💯

    • @brandontrammel4581
      @brandontrammel4581 Před 4 lety +5

      @@alfredonski it doesn't matter rich or not poor black white or whatever. Right is right

    • @jennypineda844
      @jennypineda844 Před 4 lety

      Wow I love this... WE are 19 and 20 and are having TWINS on the way. I would love if you guys can give us some feedback on are channel❤️

    • @alfredonski
      @alfredonski Před 4 lety

      @@brandontrammel4581 and wrong is wrong. quit spewing empty philosophy your sounding like another hollywood puppet. You probably watch more than 5hours a day of MSM. You should stop.

  • @sana-kk4il
    @sana-kk4il Před 2 lety +1

    the fact that he takes the energy to share this … incredible and so grateful for it

  • @ukjcjc8104
    @ukjcjc8104 Před 2 lety +2

    Will Smith inspires me everyday.

  • @cjfilmsweddings
    @cjfilmsweddings Před 4 lety +363

    “Seek to understand before being understood” Charles Ross

    • @wutaeworld
      @wutaeworld Před 4 lety

      Cj C Here is my video “how to love your self “ this is just a reminder for you❤️👉🏽 czcams.com/video/UXA6qUvVZIk/video.html

  • @dlux703
    @dlux703 Před 4 lety +752

    I always like this guy and now I understand why. He's an evolving human.

    • @raehughes
      @raehughes Před 4 lety +8

      Hes a Hollyhood sellout to satancrap which is all about promoting man without GOD OF LOVE our true divine life force source.. , in this video he leaves out the most important EMPOWERING UNDERSTANDING of LOVE is from CREATOR GOD OF LOVE SOURCE !!! #LOVEisACTIONS not words void of God #TRUTHbeREVEALED #exposehollywood #exposemusicindustry

    • @cindyking7229
      @cindyking7229 Před 4 lety +5

      @@raehughes you know I forgot they belong to that same crazy church as Tom Cruise,point well taken. Because he never mentioned God

    • @raehughes
      @raehughes Před 4 lety +1

      @@cindyking7229 prayers for all of those in #exposeINFILTRATORS #exposehollywood #exposemusicindustry that they find what is true LOVE ENERGY.. it can NEVER be void of GOD of LOVE .

    • @ethanjames6367
      @ethanjames6367 Před 4 lety +1

      A blossoming flower.

    • @ef6042
      @ef6042 Před 4 lety

      He’s just playing on what’s cool, and marketable for the time. It’s the oldest trick in the book to make someone who’s keys are in their pocket think they can get them back from you.

  • @meettheartist5506
    @meettheartist5506 Před 3 lety +1

    So genuinely happy and also proud of the fact of seeing Indian philosopher and writer "Jiddu Krishnamurti" in this video. I have not started to read about him in detail but seeing you referring his one of the teachings related to the concept of "love"... I'm definitely going to read about him as soon as I can.
    Also, since, visual media is one of the most prominent and strong forms of medium to communicate with people; I want to mention these 2 movies to everyone to watch and get an insight into the concept of "modern love" and its actual importance and/or role into people's life -
    1. Interstellar
    2. Don Jon
    PS these are one that I found accurately going in with the real-life scenarios and as well, with the meaning of love. Yet to discover more. Peace.

  • @hudairshaad
    @hudairshaad Před 3 lety +7

    I was constantly smiling. This has genuinely validated my actions. Although I shouldn’t need validation. But thankyou Will. All my life I have helped the ones who hurt me and didn’t hurt me. Despite of their actions I have never mistreated or treated them any less than any other person. I have always treated everyone with kindness. Some people easily manipulate me into getting what they need from me but who cares. That is their actions. I remember countless nights going to sleep while telling myself how different I was and I didn’t needed to change myself in order to prevent from getting manipulated and hurt. Because if I were to be anything other than the Giver and Helper and Guide that I am to every unit of people in my life God would have made me so. This video has uplifted me in ways nobody can see. I have said this to so many people but all I got was how they found me a little too much. I loved a little too much for them to handle. Love is giving. Love is kindness. Love is sharing. I have never commented on CZcams. But Kudos to Will. Kudos.

    • @koreoprezzii
      @koreoprezzii Před 2 lety

      I hope ur havin a good life right now person on the internet

    • @AnthonyBlankenship
      @AnthonyBlankenship Před 2 lety

      ...great comment 👍
      ...you're 100% right.
      If you have sec, here are few of my own thoughts on love. Recently celebrated 20 years of marriage! This is what works for me 💪 💛
      czcams.com/video/dzGgjD5J43U/video.html

  • @boystelllies1833
    @boystelllies1833 Před 4 lety +248

    I think one of the greatest things I've learned about love is that love is unselfish. You don't get anything out of love. Like Will said, love isn't an exchange. It's an undeserved gift. Love is someone slapping you in the face and you giving that person a hug. It goes beyond fairness and beyond justice but we're afraid of that kind of love because it often gives birth to abuse. It gives birth to hurt and continuous forgiveness. So we settle. We settle for desire and pleasure. We settle for the exchange because there's only so many times you can allow someone to slap you in the face.
    but the beauty of love is that one day when it's you who's fed up. When it's you who chooses to slap someone in the face and that person reaches out their arms and hugs you. You'll suddenly realise there's someone else out there who's just as willing to love. Just as willing to make that sacrifice. Just as willing to compromise, to listen, to understand and when you find that person then real love becomes worth it because it will never get to the point of abuse and so FEAR is removed.

    • @abznotvalid3389
      @abznotvalid3389 Před 4 lety +8

      Great minds think alike, I thought "yeah but the only person who deserves that kind of love from you is a person whose willing to love you also else you're setting yourself up to be hurt and miserable"

    • @MezmorizingAura
      @MezmorizingAura Před 4 lety +1

      BOYSTELLLIES I agree with you

    • @rtholman83
      @rtholman83 Před 4 lety

      Unconditional in a since huh? Like God treats us

    • @boystelllies1833
      @boystelllies1833 Před 4 lety +1

      God is Love 🙌

    • @celestialspirit9410
      @celestialspirit9410 Před 4 lety +1

      This is beautiful, thank you

  • @LilMace111
    @LilMace111 Před 4 lety +1309

    Its crazy how will is so intelligent and animated

    • @joezic
      @joezic Před 4 lety +2

      how is that crazy

    • @bigguccileo4723
      @bigguccileo4723 Před 4 lety +1

      Hes Chosen
      22

    • @leelebirdsong8339
      @leelebirdsong8339 Před 4 lety

      YUH BOY MACEO!! - LUV this GUY !

    • @nieshat
      @nieshat Před 4 lety +7

      Please people continue to lift each other up. If we continue to spread love and uplift one another we would not have time for negative comments and backlashes. Also we have to love with a Godly love and not an earthly love. Let's look out for each other bc we are all brothers and sisters in Christ.

    • @movieshake4945
      @movieshake4945 Před 4 lety +1

      Niesha T
      👌👍

  • @Jamesarlest
    @Jamesarlest Před 2 lety +8

    One of my favorite videos on CZcams. Very powerful, next level thinking on something we all strive for. The underlying prerequisite of love is to be one that exhibits those exact concepts explained in the video. Shout to Will Smith and to Love! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

    • @chrisvswill4187
      @chrisvswill4187 Před 2 lety

      Is this still your favourite video on youtube Now?

  • @rocktheqasbah
    @rocktheqasbah Před 2 lety

    This video changed my whole perspective about not just how I love others but also how I love myself.

  • @fatimasanni5268
    @fatimasanni5268 Před 4 lety +1106

    The sad reality is that a lot of us are single because the concept of love that is being sold to us in films, books and even social media is just not real life. we all have these unrealistic expectations of a significant other and aren't even ready to invest ourselves in the relationships we have. As soon as we get uncomfortable, we walk away forgetting that no one is perfect ourselves included. So if you find someone you really like being with that is ready to be there for you through the thick and thin of things then that's all you really need. Every order thing is just a bunch of fallacies. So let's just stop hurting ourselves by going after people we know we can never have that will only treat us like dirt but instead start truly recognizing the real thing when they come into our lives...

    • @Charrisnemtblueprint
      @Charrisnemtblueprint Před 4 lety +5

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯💯💯

    • @aichurokturgunbaeva3745
      @aichurokturgunbaeva3745 Před 4 lety +4

      Wow👍it’s really inspiring

    • @mellifluoustbone3684
      @mellifluoustbone3684 Před 4 lety +14

      What people don't want to hear is that love is a gift from GOD.... You will never be able to understand love with a carnal mind.... You will have to search within which is the spirit that dwells inside of you ❤️

    • @psamchirchir417
      @psamchirchir417 Před 4 lety

      Fatima sanni perfect 😘

    • @ashishagrawal9846
      @ashishagrawal9846 Před 4 lety +5

      No offense
      But I dont think there's anything wrong in being single👍

  • @smanslam1
    @smanslam1 Před 4 lety +203

    Wow, the "Gardener and Flower" is a great way to explain love.

  • @lwdrd
    @lwdrd Před 3 lety +3

    She couldn't handle real love... thank you Will

  • @universegivemefaithintheun2574

    I watch this every year of my life since I've seen this . It's like a reminder on HOW we need and want to be loved. This video is something I've sent to many friends, lovers, Family members as to what love and listening is to m me.

  • @Cyrillic_108
    @Cyrillic_108 Před 4 lety +262

    Letting someone have the only pink Starburst
    That's love

    • @liraven7676
      @liraven7676 Před 4 lety +4

      BEST COMMENT HERE.
      That IS love.
      Hahahahahaha

    • @mimineko1019
      @mimineko1019 Před 4 lety +2

      I've done that before :')
      Lmao the fact that a pink starburst can mean so much🤣

    • @FamiliaSuri
      @FamiliaSuri Před 4 lety +5

      Ashon Woodbury oh you are so right, those pink Starburst are special and if I give it to you then damn it you’re special 😂 😂😂

    • @jt1508
      @jt1508 Před 4 lety +2

      Red

    • @sheisamazing2246
      @sheisamazing2246 Před 4 lety

      Yes that’s real love

  • @l.mendes547
    @l.mendes547 Před 3 lety +1259

    Sometimes love is not only holding on, sometimes love is also letting go....

  • @FJ80Coop
    @FJ80Coop Před 2 lety +2

    Happiness is within yourself.. You're either happy with yourself and life or you aren't,and no one can change that... You have to be happy and content with yourself and who you are before you can accept someone into your life who expands that happiness... Don't sell yourself cheap or short for someone who brings you down,adds negative drama or interrupts your happiness...Me,circa 2021.. 😁

  • @Bruinouk
    @Bruinouk Před 3 lety +4

    Love, for me, is giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting that they won't.
    Love is not a noun,
    Love is a verb!

  • @aishamcmillan
    @aishamcmillan Před 4 lety +60

    Helping someone be the best version of themselves

    • @alfredonski
      @alfredonski Před 4 lety +1

      Let me guess you are the prowd owner of a "Live, Laugh, Love" painting ?

  • @Yadagamer22
    @Yadagamer22 Před 4 lety +271

    “Don’t fall in love, rise in love” 🥺👏🏻

    • @user-mx4eq4iw8y
      @user-mx4eq4iw8y Před 4 lety

      KaSha Ali I am a single young man. I want to speak with a girl for marriage and stability. Do you accept me?

  • @karinipanini6215
    @karinipanini6215 Před 3 lety +1

    This video was so calming for some reason . Heard every word & understood everything

  • @kaichan5754
    @kaichan5754 Před 3 lety +70

    When we think of love, we often first think of transactional love that fit our needs to be happy. But in fact real love is more like giving without expecting anything in return, and wanting the best for both.

    • @cameliapodariu5300
      @cameliapodariu5300 Před 3 lety

      But don t we have some rules?

    • @chantellekatire4356
      @chantellekatire4356 Před 3 lety

      ❤️

    • @hikarii_flow
      @hikarii_flow Před 3 lety +6

      @@cameliapodariu5300 If you truly loved someone, you would want for them to be happy no matter what. The moment you want something from someone, you don't love them. Love yourself so much that you don't need to burden anyone else with your happiness and fulfillment because the Truth is that no one can make you happy and fulfilled. That is your responsibility alone. You're already complete, you just haven't realized it yet. You are what you have been looking for all along. The answer was just so obvious that you couldn't see it. When you realize that you are complete, you are ready to Love at your highest capacity. Freely and without conditions. Unconditional Love.

    • @gracieartholic5488
      @gracieartholic5488 Před 2 lety

      @Hiraki you nailed it❤

    • @btjinenekizo3037
      @btjinenekizo3037 Před 2 lety

      I know of a great powerful love spell caster that can manifest your ex back within 48 hours without no delay

  • @samanthasalnave4909
    @samanthasalnave4909 Před 4 lety +367

    The paradigm for is gardener flower. The relationship a gardener has with a flower. The gardener wants the flower to be What it's DESIGNED to be. NOT What the gardener want it to be. What a deep revelation!!!!

  • @Zeaiclies
    @Zeaiclies Před 4 lety +56

    "If one sits still and is quiet, the foolish think of you as shy, but the educated know thee to be wise. One can gain the most, in silence."

  • @maryrhames6718
    @maryrhames6718 Před 3 lety

    Love is a deep desire. Love is showing you really care for someone. In love is sharing, and listening to each other. Love is action that runs so deep. thank you.

  • @BadassMoFo.
    @BadassMoFo. Před rokem

    *"You are what you are in this world, and that's either one of 2 things. Either you're somebody or you're nobody."*
    *-Denzel Washington*

  • @joesilkwood4958
    @joesilkwood4958 Před 4 lety +236

    This resonated strongly with me. His thought patterns are very different

  • @throughthelensfilmz
    @throughthelensfilmz Před 4 lety +236

    Love: is making a choice to benefit someone else.

    • @Lon3Starr
      @Lon3Starr Před 4 lety +16

      Dilan Bandara *yourself too. Can’t love anyone else until you love yourself.

    • @monab5032
      @monab5032 Před 4 lety +2

      In some cases making a choice to benefit someone else, benefits you too.

  • @mrsdevine161
    @mrsdevine161 Před 3 lety +1

    I read this quote, it has stuck with me a long time. " If you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knee's go weak, that's Not the One. When you meet your "soul mate" you will feel calm. No anxiety No agitation. " It, with thought makes sense.
    Sadly, I also read this quote " I'm sorry to say this, but, those who are most worthy of love are never made happy by it." Madame de Rosemonde
    But with love there is always hope... and so , I will always revel in Hope.

  • @brittaneyhudson6814
    @brittaneyhudson6814 Před 2 lety +3

    Will ... thank you incredibly! This small clip cannot amount to the value you put through this video. You definitely gave me a different perspective on love and maybe this point of view will allow my marriage to elevate. For the past five years , It has decline due to really making love and union off of expectations! Again, thank you! Praying all is well with you and your family.

    • @AnthonyBlankenship
      @AnthonyBlankenship Před 2 lety

      ...great comment. Wishing y'all the best!
      If you have sec, here are few of my own thoughts on love. Recently celebrated 20 years of marriage! This is what works for me 💪 💛
      czcams.com/video/dzGgjD5J43U/video.html

  • @mrapperlyrics
    @mrapperlyrics Před 4 lety +121

    Will Smith ages like wine ❤

  • @butternutswag
    @butternutswag Před 4 lety +226

    I’m 30 years old and just learned this today.

    • @tatiana486
      @tatiana486 Před 4 lety +3

      Same

    • @mauriciorodrix
      @mauriciorodrix Před 4 lety +13

      Is never too late to learning

    • @billydakid71
      @billydakid71 Před 4 lety

      💯🤝

    • @LAX2SanGabriel
      @LAX2SanGabriel Před 4 lety +2

      "And knowing is half the battle --g I j o e!"

    • @diyanamaya
      @diyanamaya Před 4 lety +5

      its not something you know immediately, it's something you learn over time as a human being.

  • @saintjimmy7696
    @saintjimmy7696 Před 3 lety +2

    This so beautiful! Will is spot on with this! Such a wise way to look at love.. thank you will smith!!

  • @parkdotlula9336
    @parkdotlula9336 Před rokem

    I love this, I've withdrawn myself from a lot and no one will fill my cup for me unless I do what I am in control off to Be and feel how I want to Be. Honestly my opinion doesn't matter but I value inspirational talk, of course there are games etc but the basis of one's intelligence is not how one is fluent the depth of our hearts. Watching And listening to this a few times led me to question my stand and if I genuinely understand what humanity is. I can't question God, his people but myself. To anyone who might read this and probably going through the most take care life is not brutal, us humans maybe struggle to understand the purpose of reproduction, life and humanity. Be well Guys and lean on what you can to pull through. You doing great, Thank You WS for this.

  • @BooneeCake
    @BooneeCake Před 4 lety +94

    What a wonderful world this would be if everyone was as evolved in their thinking as this

    • @Earthy9025
      @Earthy9025 Před 4 lety +1

      BooneeCake You said it! This was so uplifting.

  • @jawadsalwati7968
    @jawadsalwati7968 Před 4 lety +35

    “Love is really devotion to their struggle” oof hit hard

  • @swordtex420
    @swordtex420 Před 3 lety

    thank you so much will. you've helped me more than you know. your such a strong person and I admire you for that. thank you for always being the hero everyone needs.

  • @tdiddle8950
    @tdiddle8950 Před 3 lety

    I really adore Will Smith, and what he is saying that we need to be to touch with ourselves.

  • @doubleg4985
    @doubleg4985 Před 4 lety +80

    LUV: listen, understand and validate

    • @Earthy9025
      @Earthy9025 Před 4 lety +1

      Double G I liked the way he broke down the acronym “L.U.V.”

  • @tomasnieto2713
    @tomasnieto2713 Před 4 lety +255

    Will is one of the wisest people I've ever heard talk

    • @tyetye2311
      @tyetye2311 Před 4 lety +3

      Definitely

    • @ryenboi6119
      @ryenboi6119 Před 4 lety +1

      Yup

    • @raudeloruna2600
      @raudeloruna2600 Před 4 lety +5

      geez my guy...you need to broaden your horizons lmao

    • @yonathanasefaw9001
      @yonathanasefaw9001 Před 4 lety +1

      I agree.

    • @alfredonski
      @alfredonski Před 4 lety

      You have no idea how sad it is that the "wisest people" you've heard talk is a hollywood elite scumbag. I hope for your sake you get to see more of the world outside of your TV and MSM.

  • @cleansethyunholy7562
    @cleansethyunholy7562 Před 2 lety +2

    love is something that even the worst of us have in their
    hearts

  • @tshidi6533
    @tshidi6533 Před 3 lety +1

    So educational for me...I needed this as I go through a process of learning to love myself...

  • @zukiswalobola5698
    @zukiswalobola5698 Před 4 lety +134

    When he said "Listen" - Hitch popped into mind like "Listen to what she is saying and respond"

    • @ef6042
      @ef6042 Před 4 lety +1

      He said listen so you do... it’s a trick.
      e f
      This is some high level satanic mind control language here, what a massssster. Listen to the words he enunciate difficult, find, maintain, yarn, then the best one of all… Miss define. Love is beyond definition. Then he says “you cannot make a person happy“ LOLOL what a fool!!! Lying to us… When he says “nothing feels better than to be understood“. Nothing will? Nothing?! This LUV sounds like a sales acronym. All these internet people seeking validation, yeah, let’s make it about that.. lol. “everybody is having a hard time”. Everybody? Really will? This is meant to perpetuate a rise in depression which is common among people who use the internet more than an hour a day. Then he says the people you love “you want them happy“... well I’m guessing people don’t catch is three minutes before that he said you cannot make a person happy… This is called creating cognitive dissonance. Wake up and stop watching this language that’s confusing you and making you look for something outside of yourself

  • @Giancarlum
    @Giancarlum Před 4 lety +129

    Everyone:
    I want to take take take
    Will:
    Let me tell you what love is

  • @aapojaula9773
    @aapojaula9773 Před 3 lety +1

    Love is either your best friend or your worst enemy, nothing else.

  • @zaynetahiri6901
    @zaynetahiri6901 Před 3 lety

    The concept of listening, understanding and validating have been very helpful in my every day life.

  • @54blueroses
    @54blueroses Před 4 lety +2740

    What is Love? The best answer I have ever heard was the one from the Holy Bible.
    "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never gives up."
    (citation: 1 Corinthians 13:4-8)

  • @zanequillen3244
    @zanequillen3244 Před 4 lety +89

    This allows me to set a standard of how I want to be loved by other people

    • @MzOldsoul
      @MzOldsoul Před 4 lety +1

      Zane Quillen Same here

    • @szucsyp
      @szucsyp Před 4 lety +4

      But first you must set a standard for yourself how you want to be loved by yourself! And then you'll see it is possible to love anyone! And if you radiate this kind of unconditional, understanding, beautiful love then you will find it coming back to you❤️

    • @RPAudioeVisual
      @RPAudioeVisual Před 4 lety

      Then you got it wrong.

  • @GabrielyMuniz
    @GabrielyMuniz Před 3 lety +1

    Man, I didn't know I needed to hear this ... until I did.
    You are amazing bro!

  • @merrindaharrod1667
    @merrindaharrod1667 Před 3 lety +1

    He really is intuitive & willing to admit his shortcomings

    • @jackbubby3719
      @jackbubby3719 Před 3 lety +1

      Yeah that's true.. How are you doing today merrinda?

  • @anurananboro7141
    @anurananboro7141 Před 4 lety +81

    Loving someone without wanting anything in return,thats love.

    • @Raepostedit
      @Raepostedit Před 4 lety +5

      Love never fails

    • @liraven7676
      @liraven7676 Před 4 lety +4

      At that point, its not loving some ONE, its simply a state of loving regardless of ANY one.👍

    • @brandondenver4331
      @brandondenver4331 Před 4 lety +3

      That can also be used as justification for enduring abuse.

    • @bsmi1361
      @bsmi1361 Před 4 lety +4

      That can also be called getting used, depending on the situation.

    • @MRarvai
      @MRarvai Před 4 lety +1

      thats a pretty recursive definition

  • @giana6068
    @giana6068 Před 3 lety +2821

    CZcams has some nerve to put this on my home page rn

  • @skygrace2746
    @skygrace2746 Před 3 lety +8

    I watch this every couple weeks. My husband watches it too. This is so incredibly and utterly true. I have much love for this man and his family 💕💜💕

    • @andrewwilliam622
      @andrewwilliam622 Před 3 lety

      Hello, how are you doing

    • @johntaylor3001
      @johntaylor3001 Před 2 lety

      Hello, sorry for intruding your privacy, I am John Taylor by name, how are you?

    • @isabellajones8595
      @isabellajones8595 Před 2 lety

      I think Andrew has a crush on someone 👀

    • @btjinenekizo3037
      @btjinenekizo3037 Před 2 lety

      I know of a great powerful love spell caster that can manifest your ex back within 48 hours without no delay

    • @btjinenekizo3037
      @btjinenekizo3037 Před 2 lety

      Whats@app him now

  • @foreverjusiel98
    @foreverjusiel98 Před 3 lety

    Growing up I've been ALWAYS been a huge fan of you Will. You're such a great person, you're a true reflection of a true man💜 you'll forever be my favourite actor. I love you Will

  • @Isabel-lh8cx
    @Isabel-lh8cx Před 4 lety +85

    one of my teachers who's also a Catholic priest taught us this: the feeling of like is when the pleasure goes to you, love is when the pleasure is to someone else

    • @raehughes
      @raehughes Před 4 lety +2

      Love is about ACTION over feelings , its about PRINCIPLES of what is RIGHTEOUS ... that can mean experiencing a very bad scenario feeling bad .but if you are a person choosing true love from creator God divine source the POWER OF LOVES ENERGY will get us thru the worst feelings and challenges, love is solutions that restore balance .. its far beyond feelings .. GOOD FEELINGS r a result of love in action doing the right things , even tho the scenario might b bad.. love is not selling out to be a propaganda puppet for hollyhood like willsmith has done .. he can talk all he wants but no deceiver of humanity is actually living love .. willsmith is a fraud. #exposehollywood #exposemusicindustry

    • @cindyking7229
      @cindyking7229 Před 4 lety +3

      Catholic, really

    • @ef6042
      @ef6042 Před 4 lety

      Like Will to his son.. lust that is

    • @bobina3465
      @bobina3465 Před 4 lety

      @@cindyking7229 riyshhghufhug6hhitredgbxvbmlpokjytrw

  • @amonioda
    @amonioda Před 4 lety +486

    This made me break down completely. I've been in love with my best friend from high school almost ever since we met. He had a tough upbringing but he's such a talented individual. I've always been here (8 years) to help him with his struggles, and help him become the man that God meant for him to be. I always knew he had feelings for me but earlier this week he finally told me that he loves me and he broke down all the reasons why and the reasons were in this video. 💕

  • @skeletone5194
    @skeletone5194 Před 3 lety +4

    Will has some of the greatest things to say🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @bettygoncalves8333
    @bettygoncalves8333 Před 3 lety

    That was absolutely beautiful man !! I’ve come to this conclusion over the past few years when I decided to change myself ... to make myself a better person and, although it’s a process that’s always in formation, I have made huge progress and how do I know this ?? Because I feel and act as you mentioned in this video and it all comes from within...I truly feel compassion and love ❤️ for all ! I loved your story and through the most amazing ways and if we pay attention, anything and anyone can teach us very valuable lessons !! You know, I used to think to myself...how do people become famous or go from rags to riches and I honestly thought that it was mere luck or somebody helped them along the way but now I know that it has absolutely nothing to do with luck and it ONLY has to do with the heart ❤️ and the mind !! There are no coincidences and the universe only gives us that which we planted so I understand now how much strength and willpower that one must have to change the mindset !! I’m in the process and it has been 4 years of this and it seems to be working great !! I congratulate you Will, while your buddies were out drinking and at parties when you were young ... you had other ideas for yourself and you worked towards that goal - non stop !! Were you lucky ? I think not... you worked damned hard to get to where you are and I personally think that you’re an absolutely beautiful human being !!! God Bless ❤️❤️❤️

  • @4successfulpeople569
    @4successfulpeople569 Před 4 lety +127

    You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching, love like you'll never be hurt, sing like there's nobody listening, and live like it's heaven on earth.

  • @marinaboss2227
    @marinaboss2227 Před 4 lety +68

    Let's just appreciate how amazing Will is

    • @johntaylor3001
      @johntaylor3001 Před 2 lety

      Hello, sorry for intruding your privacy, I am John Taylor by name, how are you?

  • @plumsberries.4600
    @plumsberries.4600 Před 3 lety +10

    it is an exclusive entanglement with that 1 person who completes you.

  • @clementcastro9725
    @clementcastro9725 Před 2 lety +4

    Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me no more.

  • @wafabentouati2593
    @wafabentouati2593 Před 4 lety +69

    "We cannot make a person happy "

  • @shahid4481
    @shahid4481 Před 3 lety +453

    Look at his eyes. You see that pain it's given by a toxic person who you try to love with all your heart.

    • @adrianaadnan7704
      @adrianaadnan7704 Před 3 lety +1

      He cheated first

    • @francoisnel5253
      @francoisnel5253 Před 3 lety +11

      @MYOB feminism is satanic doctrine

    • @francoisnel5253
      @francoisnel5253 Před 3 lety +2

      Been there, very painful indeed

    • @francoisnel5253
      @francoisnel5253 Před 3 lety +1

      @MYOB Yeah, the most distorted femisnism logic these days is 'it' s my body I can do what I want'. Dated a girl who told me there's no difference between a guy sleeping with the same girl 100 times and a girl sleeping with 100 different guys in a year. Most of which without protection. Messed up times.

    • @ayeshashaikh5039
      @ayeshashaikh5039 Před 3 lety

      Love can be both sides ?

  • @rishika6925
    @rishika6925 Před 3 lety

    Love in two words - Peace and Kind

  • @TheJwcy
    @TheJwcy Před 3 lety +2

    Watching this video and having a partner makes me so happy and so sad at the same time. My parents (mostly my dad) taught me that love transactional: im created to look after them, to repay them, an investment and insurance for their future.

  • @WealthbuilderzTV
    @WealthbuilderzTV Před 4 lety +46

    Love can be different things. Like I love my wife but I love my mom differently. Love is your energy towards that person.

    • @sirmirelbey1184
      @sirmirelbey1184 Před 4 lety +1

      Makes sense...
      Great point

    • @liraven7676
      @liraven7676 Před 4 lety +5

      Its actually energy you put towards yourself through the projection to another.

    • @WealthbuilderzTV
      @WealthbuilderzTV Před 4 lety

      Li Raven that’s what I was implying

    • @jt1508
      @jt1508 Před 4 lety

      To love - to be IN love

  • @shayslife8102
    @shayslife8102 Před 4 lety +91

    I needed this. Right at this moment. I needed to hear this.

    • @theblackswordzman__8851
      @theblackswordzman__8851 Před 4 lety

      I’m on the same page as you

    • @actaviagrovesnor8690
      @actaviagrovesnor8690 Před 4 lety

      N that one of the other many reasons will's about to make is understand, n comfortable at the just n right time, we a have a purpose, bby!

  • @nezarjamal715
    @nezarjamal715 Před 2 lety +1

    Love the message, thanks for uploading this video. The Gardner Flower relationship example is an excellent way to help define true love. In essence, I believe true love is Unconditional and isn't dependent on needs or wants.

  • @NesiaC
    @NesiaC Před 3 lety

    Thank you, Will Smith. This is was exactly what's on my mind and you put it in words perfectly.

  • @ELLIOTCHOY
    @ELLIOTCHOY Před 4 lety +451

    holy crap. so much wisdom and how crazy is it that we can spread ideas like this online 🤯

    • @constanzamartin8104
      @constanzamartin8104 Před 3 lety +4

      Yes... but still we keep changing, nothing defines you, less the words..

    • @JayeAaronn
      @JayeAaronn Před 3 lety +1

      @@constanzamartin8104
      Hl

    • @AnthonyBlankenship
      @AnthonyBlankenship Před 2 lety

      ...you're 100% right.
      If you have sec, here are few of my own thoughts on love. Recently celebrated 20 years of marriage! This is what works for me 💪 💛
      czcams.com/video/dzGgjD5J43U/video.html

    • @btjinenekizo3037
      @btjinenekizo3037 Před 2 lety

      I know of a great powerful love spell caster that can manifest your ex back within 48 hours without no delay

    • @btjinenekizo3037
      @btjinenekizo3037 Před 2 lety

      Whats@app him now

  • @netoestrada6676
    @netoestrada6676 Před 4 lety +48

    I've had open heart surgery and a lot of my friends left me bc they think I'm weak but everytime I watch your videos somehow u just make me feel better like I know there's more to life u are truly an inspiration to everyone will

    • @nadiarey7911
      @nadiarey7911 Před 4 lety +4

      Best wishes in your recovery

    • @NA-fb7tf
      @NA-fb7tf Před 4 lety +1

      God bless you 🥰don't give up

    • @lovingmeinfinity
      @lovingmeinfinity Před 4 lety +2

      Play you recover and all goes well

    • @theuniquebean
      @theuniquebean Před 4 lety +2

      Real friends don’t leave. I have only had maybe 3 or 4 true friends throughout my lifetime. I send you hugs and positivity for the amazing that has yet to come into your life.

    • @shadowyuiop
      @shadowyuiop Před 4 lety +1

      Neto Estrada You will make new friendships
      A quote I used after I had a brain bleed. One day, can bend your life.

  • @MariaClarapg
    @MariaClarapg Před 3 lety

    Thank you universe for putting a person like Will Smith in this world!

  • @agapecenter8023
    @agapecenter8023 Před rokem +1

    Love is a high-frequency vibration / energy of God.

  • @carlasj.6814
    @carlasj.6814 Před 4 lety +106

    Will definitely needs to posf more often💛
    Who's agree??👇🌻

  • @jamesh2589
    @jamesh2589 Před 4 lety +477

    Title:
    BABY DONT HURT ME, DONT HURT ME NO MORE

  • @shayna-rayebernard1236
    @shayna-rayebernard1236 Před 3 lety +1

    I LOVE THE VIDEO, I think we love each other without validation but more so valuing each other instead. Much love for Will for opening the space to discuss this .

  • @riccardodeltorre2493
    @riccardodeltorre2493 Před 3 lety +2

    Love simply requires effort, that's why it is so hard to define.

  • @ginagrey5287
    @ginagrey5287 Před 4 lety +62

    This man is so much more than what we have had the privilege of seeing!

  • @vijiyanttanaji9800
    @vijiyanttanaji9800 Před 4 lety +314

    Physical attraction may be a part of love, but it's temporary ,love is permanent.

    • @asheryt3271
      @asheryt3271 Před 3 lety +12

      Physical attraction is just a feeling, but love is determined by the kind actions you do towards someone regardless of how you feel about them.
      This is why I believe that love is a action and not a feeling

    • @vijiyanttanaji9800
      @vijiyanttanaji9800 Před 3 lety +2

      @@asheryt3271 I agree

    • @overaroundunder
      @overaroundunder Před 3 lety

      Love is not necessarily permanent. Many people stop loving someone who they once truly did love.

    • @vijiyanttanaji9800
      @vijiyanttanaji9800 Před 3 lety +1

      @@overaroundunder Love is permanent only if you want it to be ,with your actions supporting it.

    • @mydelorean9490
      @mydelorean9490 Před 3 lety

      No it isn't

  • @nayah4427
    @nayah4427 Před 2 lety +1

    To me love is 'safety'.Safety from harm, safety from lies, humiliation.For until we feel safe with someone,we cannot be free to love with all our hearts and soul.

  • @leilagomulka5690
    @leilagomulka5690 Před 3 lety +1

    So true. This truth. Beautiful. ♥️♥️♥️