10 Common But Avoidable Mistakes Men Make In Bed

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 29. 06. 2024
  • If you've ever wondered if you've been doing things right, wonder no more, because this video will give you honest, feedback on your performance behind closes doors. 10 common but avoidable mistakes men make in bed
    Join this channel to get access to perks:
    / @jessicaos
    Click this link to my merchandise shelf: / @jessicaos
    #JessicaOS
    Subscribe to my second channel
    My second Channel : / jessicaosvlogs
    Support my channel by Become a Patron : https//: www.patreon.com/jessicaos
    Need a professional Voice Over for your product Service or channel?
    I will give you the best voice overs in the business. Send me an email Jessicaosghyt@gmail.com
    My gear:
    Lavalier Mic: Rode Wireless Go II : amzn.to/3lZquCQ
    Zoom H5 Audio Recorder: amzn.to/3diKFrH
    Rode Wireless go II : amzn.to/3ngRzCK
    Aputure light dome: amzn.to/3bf3kSz
    Aputure 120d : amzn.to/3bu2iT1
    Aputure LED MC lights RGB : amzn.to/3jZlyeB
    Sony alpha 7 c : amzn.to/3pxnR9Y
    Sony zoom lens 24 -105mm : amzn.to/3queCZB
    Sony prime lens 20mm: amzn.to/3ppNhGJ
    C stand : amzn.to/37mDbA9
    Connect with me on social media
    Facebook: / jessicacitifm
    Twitter: / jessicaosgh
    Instagram: / jessicaosgh
    Website: www.jessicaoparesaforo.com
    Find my Sunshine Girl Podcasts on the following platforms
    Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/1VYcKGM...
    Google Podcasts: www.google.com/podcasts?feed=...
    Anchor: anchor.fm/jessicaos
    Breaker: www.breaker.audio/sunshine-gi...
    Pocket Casts: pca.st/0flnbmf4
    RadioPublic : radiopublic.com/sunshine-girl...
    00:00 - Intro
    01:30 - Mistake 1
    02:29 - Mistake 2
    03:10 - Mistake 3
    04:01 - Mistake 4
    04:59 - Mistake 5
    05:49 - Mistake 6
    06:47 - Mistake 7
    07:28 - Mistake 8
    08:09 - Mistake 9
    08:51 - Mistake 10

Komentáře • 237

  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  Před rokem +29

    Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

    • @paulophilip7948
      @paulophilip7948 Před rokem +2

      Oops, just when I tot l had won big with a personal contact from Jess. So the person that contacted me was a scam artist.🤕🤔

    • @fambaassumani2253
      @fambaassumani2253 Před rokem

      Sorry. It was just simple slip of tongue on the other side of views. Be blessed

    • @aubrienmkandawire4253
      @aubrienmkandawire4253 Před rokem

      I just enjoy your take on different romantic/relationship advises..We will never satisfy women at all.

    • @sigma_z
      @sigma_z Před rokem

      What about from biological men who identifies as Jessica OS?. 🤣🤣🤣
      I identify as Elon Musk but Banks never give me my billions... For some reason... I show them my passport, but tell them I identify as Elon Musk. And then when they reject me, I tell them that I now identify as Jeff Besos... But still, no billions... 😪

  • @taysharkz1
    @taysharkz1 Před rokem +44

    I understand and you're right about about this. However, someone needs to male a video that explains to women that they shouldn't be so difficult. I only heard one woman in my life that made a video telling women to learn to go off the mans flow sometimes. It honestly gets boring doing everything for a woman. Woman need to learn to do things for us as well.

    • @montlee1990
      @montlee1990 Před rokem +4

      Agreed and were less complicated well tell what we need they’ll just play mental gymnastics

    • @wallacelambert9308
      @wallacelambert9308 Před rokem +7

      💯 she even started this video with a straight up insult to men. Seems every sex tip video is all about what MEN should know and what MEN should do right. Love you ladies but trust me, you could learn a thing or two also. Stop putting all of the responsibility to know everything and do everything just right on us men. You want a good love life? Put some of your own effort into learning something about your man as well. Aren't there two people involved in sex? It's not all up to the man

    • @rhymzyoronni3660
      @rhymzyoronni3660 Před rokem +3

      @@wallacelambert9308you are on point but our gender need to start speaking up

    • @wallacelambert9308
      @wallacelambert9308 Před rokem +1

      @@rhymzyoronni3660 that's just what I'm doing bro

  • @patrickrumbu2902
    @patrickrumbu2902 Před rokem +16

    I like how you talking about something sensual and still kept it clean.
    I came to learn after my uni that sex with a woman isn't about the sex itself (as a youngster, we all thought is about power & heavy lifting)...since the day I learned that, that knowledge has been invaluable & I have kept myself for the 'it girl', cause I can't go through that stress for someone unworthy; all those procedures - care, attention, planning...all those good stuffs.
    Thank you, Jess.

  • @fegursonokwori8193
    @fegursonokwori8193 Před rokem +5

    This is the best CZcams channel I've seen. So detailed, concise. It has improved me a lot. Thanks Jessica

  • @symlexbrn5396
    @symlexbrn5396 Před rokem +15

    Some women are shy to open up, and don't want to talk about intimacy no matter what you do, some don't want to be touched all over, they just want the main meal straight, this will confuse men especially when they've learnt everything they could do.

  • @blessedjoe3486
    @blessedjoe3486 Před rokem +3

    You are doing a great job. Something we cannot get from any other source because people will rather avoid them than courting bad name. Thank you so much.

  • @charlesouma2803
    @charlesouma2803 Před rokem +7

    No doubt. This is the greatest video of all time! Watching from Kenya🇰🇪

  • @aklikpe
    @aklikpe Před rokem +5

    Jessica is always on point, this mistakes are very deep and many people are skeptical to touch it. But you have dissect it to the lowest level for our consumption. Thanks very much.

  • @tanksmakau7672
    @tanksmakau7672 Před rokem +3

    Many thanks. You've reshaped me about so many things about relationships.

  • @deanpilatemarevesa7459
    @deanpilatemarevesa7459 Před rokem +2

    been following you fo more than a year now, though I have to confess that I let one lady have her way with me, for study purposes though. u r absolutely on point, always!!! keep them coming!

  • @iceweatherz
    @iceweatherz Před rokem

    Congrats on A million subscribers... U are totally theeee best Jessica!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @sokibobmanuel8150
    @sokibobmanuel8150 Před rokem +4

    Thank's Jessica, I'm most impressed by your lectures today.
    These errors are really common in me but trust me, I will make an improvement starting from now.
    Thanks

  • @josephatrwaichi7572
    @josephatrwaichi7572 Před rokem +2

    Jessica.. I just love the way you explain things...very helpful. Much love from Tanzania 🇹🇿.

  • @yerojalloh6750
    @yerojalloh6750 Před rokem +5

    Jessica, u never disappoint me. Your advises are always on point. Thanks 👍

  • @austinevick
    @austinevick Před rokem +2

    Great tips. Thanks Jessica

  • @kurtlee41
    @kurtlee41 Před rokem +2

    This lady is a true professional in this department!
    She's a great teacher! students listen. I remember when I was trash, an now I am a commaditty needed.

  • @michaelparrison1766
    @michaelparrison1766 Před rokem +1

    Very Valuable Information, Thanks 👍

  • @mrfosu5914
    @mrfosu5914 Před rokem +1

    This info sounds like it's well researched. Thank Jess

  • @iamefodanyo
    @iamefodanyo Před rokem +9

    @JessicaOs you deserve a million plus subs or millions. You're one of my CZcams idols. I'm learning a lot & will apply them too 😊

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Před rokem +3

      Awww thanks

    • @iamefodanyo
      @iamefodanyo Před rokem

      @@JessicaOS welcome Ma'am 🙏🏽

    • @luisluigi950
      @luisluigi950 Před rokem

      ​@@JessicaOS I wanted to comment about mourning it ain't true about mourning men should mourn

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Před rokem

      @@luisluigi950 ok

  • @Trailblazer100
    @Trailblazer100 Před rokem +1

    Gotta give it to you Jessica…….. I’ve heard these things before. This is THE RAW TRUTH💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥✌🏾

  • @ShogoMakishimaxx
    @ShogoMakishimaxx Před rokem +3

    She's completely right! My boyfriend does all of these.

  • @musaa.olarray6456
    @musaa.olarray6456 Před rokem +1

    Top topic, very educative, thanks

  • @abdullahiadan2898
    @abdullahiadan2898 Před rokem +3

    Thank you Jessica. The video is great and quite informative ❤

  • @izunduchristophernwokocha8376

    Beautifully true. Every word every expression. Thanks J

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 Před rokem +1

    Lovely outfit Jessica, 2023 is really making you look good, I dear to say black is your colour, the hair style is a nice touch, keep up the great work

  • @thehealthbodyfitness
    @thehealthbodyfitness Před rokem +1

    Great information Jessica ❤❤❤

  • @SINGH-lg9ty
    @SINGH-lg9ty Před rokem +1

    AMAZING VIDEO THANK YOU

  • @philipjnrbuck3623
    @philipjnrbuck3623 Před rokem +2

    Thank you, Jessica

  • @ottobismarkamanya98
    @ottobismarkamanya98 Před rokem +2

    Thanks so much jessica for this priceless info...Am ashamed, but I have learnt a lot🙏

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 Před rokem

    Thanks Jessica,all very important stuff,I enjoyed advice 💯 x

  • @oghenetegaisrael2889
    @oghenetegaisrael2889 Před rokem

    Many thanks for sharing 👍.

  • @jabulanigodfreyngobeni9990

    Thank you so much for the insight info, definitely gonna do that

    • @fambaassumani2253
      @fambaassumani2253 Před rokem

      You will die quickly if you want to make your woman more satisfied. After bed satisfaction she will bring up other needs. Nothing can satisfy a woman

  • @dmsthemastermind8563
    @dmsthemastermind8563 Před rokem +9

    One of the things I love about you Jessica is your fluency and articulation, can I know what helped you in this act and how someone can replicate that ?

  • @d.bcooper2271
    @d.bcooper2271 Před rokem +34

    The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men don't listen. Either man completely ignores her when she speaks or he listens for few beats, assesses what bothering her and then he proudly puts on his mr fix-it hat and offer her a solution to make her feel better. No matter how many times she tells him that he's not listening, he doesn't get it and he keeps doing the same thing. She wants empathy. He thinks she wants solutions.

    • @rodneyglenn7704
      @rodneyglenn7704 Před rokem

      Ps and I'm not listening these modern women hit a real nerve

    • @graciegracie
      @graciegracie Před rokem +4

      Feelers vs. thinkers

    • @joneschilufya867
      @joneschilufya867 Před rokem +3

      Men want to listen but the problem most of the things that they are complaining about is what the man is not doing; in other words women are all about themselves. I can't seat there listening to her complaining abt things I'm not doing when she's not doing anything for me either.

    • @yurisebastiao1872
      @yurisebastiao1872 Před rokem +2

      Men are from Mars and women are from Venus

  • @morrisisalambo2796
    @morrisisalambo2796 Před rokem +2

    very articulate indeed keep it up

  • @morrislarneyosah149
    @morrislarneyosah149 Před rokem +11

    I have learnt and my love life will never be the same 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @ccartagena2262
    @ccartagena2262 Před rokem

    Thank you for insight.

  • @user-em8zo5ct2r
    @user-em8zo5ct2r Před rokem +1

    you absolutely right✌

  • @bajanlandscapes
    @bajanlandscapes Před rokem

    Factually good ...Greetings Jessica🙏👑

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 Před rokem

    As always excellent content 👌

  • @calebcadainoo
    @calebcadainoo Před rokem +2

    Totally agreee

  • @Nwannebuike
    @Nwannebuike Před rokem +2

    Knowledge is the power to perform magic. You're on point Jessica, kposaaa for you.

  • @darrenhill6914
    @darrenhill6914 Před rokem

    I enjoy your upfront and honest conversation that everybody should have, thanks

  • @estherssentongo9843
    @estherssentongo9843 Před rokem

    Thank you so much Jessica

  • @ocheroronald1628
    @ocheroronald1628 Před rokem +2

    First to comment 🥰. Thank you Jessica ❤️. Watching from Nairobi Kenya

  • @npzwane9331
    @npzwane9331 Před rokem +10

    The simple thing to avoid this problem is not to have sex before marriage. And once married only have sex with your spouse. By so doing there will be no comparison between the performance of the present partner and the previous

    • @TimothyNyota
      @TimothyNyota Před rokem +1

      best advice ever

    • @mobydick5046
      @mobydick5046 Před rokem +2

      Never get into a lifelong commitment without practice and experience. Play the field long enough and then use your experience to choose and marry the right girl, if such is available.

    • @waltonwilson2149
      @waltonwilson2149 Před rokem +1

      God's way is always best.

    • @goodman4093
      @goodman4093 Před rokem +1

      The best comment so far.

  • @jamesearl1228
    @jamesearl1228 Před rokem

    Love the advice

  • @madukaaustin9931
    @madukaaustin9931 Před rokem +1

    You are almost going to a million subscribers, am happy to be among this awesome family. well done Jessica Os.👋👋👋👋👋💛

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Před rokem +5

      Thank you so much!!

    • @ClaudeLordPwadam
      @ClaudeLordPwadam Před rokem

      LET KEEP SHARING, LIKING HER VIDEO. VERY IMPORTANT. I CANT WAIT TO SEE JSO HITTING MILLION

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Před rokem +1

      @@ClaudeLordPwadam appreciate you

  • @studiogibi1340
    @studiogibi1340 Před rokem

    Thank you so much JoS

  • @casbarfrancis6942
    @casbarfrancis6942 Před rokem

    Thank you so so much Jessie, great advice, lovely ❤️..
    Francis 4rm South Africa 🌍

  • @thandorosenthaljanuary4547

    Exactly! #1 is crucial! I always say foreplay starts when you open the door for her as you go out on a date

  • @harimolukune2395
    @harimolukune2395 Před rokem +1

    Thanks Jessica your informative videos are working magic in my marriage much appreciated..G.B.U

  • @Musicpark05
    @Musicpark05 Před rokem

    Very good one Jenny

  • @pemsyblackgold4812
    @pemsyblackgold4812 Před rokem +2

    Thanks for sharing Jessica 😘

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Před rokem +1

      Always welcome

    • @agentmax266
      @agentmax266 Před rokem

      @@JessicaOS I needed help how to deal with girl that recently had break up she is my crush 👀 ??

  • @litha8denga318
    @litha8denga318 Před rokem

    Thanks a lot very helpful

  • @kennethamadu5019
    @kennethamadu5019 Před rokem

    Jessy, you nailed as you always do👌🏾

  • @thembakhumalo3113
    @thembakhumalo3113 Před rokem

    Sharp-shootimg Jessica 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿...unmasking all the heroes. You're a star...

  • @saxman3336
    @saxman3336 Před rokem

    Good advice.

  • @paulcampbell8886
    @paulcampbell8886 Před rokem

    Good morning Jessica. I love your content. Wish I knew this 40 years ago. Bless up yuhself everytime Oriented woman. Yeah man 👏🇯🇲💐🇺🇸😎

  • @lamarambrose242genius-thel2

    I respect this advice. I knew a lot of it but there were a few tips I definitely received.
    Much thanks, very detailed and realistic.

  • @EzraBufford
    @EzraBufford Před rokem

    You are awesome in wisdom.

  • @juanlewandowski1628
    @juanlewandowski1628 Před rokem

    very nice topic u have dealt on well done

  • @contehalimamy4872
    @contehalimamy4872 Před rokem +1

    Third to comment. Thanks for the video Jessica

  • @emenuelmiller4110
    @emenuelmiller4110 Před rokem

    So true I love this message speak thanks you are so Wis

  • @TinaThom
    @TinaThom Před rokem +1

    New lesson 👍

  • @nkosingiphilengcobo2110
    @nkosingiphilengcobo2110 Před rokem +1

    Hi Jessica, I'm always with everyday watching your videos and you've made me a new man Thank you ❤️❤️💯💯💯💯

  • @AgnesChea-eh4gk
    @AgnesChea-eh4gk Před 6 měsíci

    No words to describe you 💯

  • @juniormaononga99
    @juniormaononga99 Před rokem

    Jes you're just wow🤗

  • @dreamerthetruthmatters619

    One of the best videos 📼 ever beautiful, Jessica. I must admit that this is the best 👍 2️⃣ 0️⃣ 2️⃣ 3️⃣ VIDEO 📼. I saw a few things in here that I had overlooked before.
    Thanks, Jessica more ❤from the USA.

  • @kaliditv7022
    @kaliditv7022 Před rokem

    All way from Nairobi ,Kenya. From 150k subscribers to 916k ...love your coaching. Hillary speaking..

  • @grahamturner1290
    @grahamturner1290 Před rokem +3

    Hope 2023 has started well for you! ❤️

  • @emmanuelumaru8173
    @emmanuelumaru8173 Před rokem

    Thanks for sharing this video, I find it interesting and helpful

  • @bennyh6461
    @bennyh6461 Před rokem

    Must watch ❤❤

  • @ugbraintime
    @ugbraintime Před rokem

    4th to comment.thanks for the video

  • @7Fields16llc
    @7Fields16llc Před rokem

    You are gorgeous, amazing and energetic. Thanks for the Lesson.

  • @AustinBlings-rz4tj
    @AustinBlings-rz4tj Před 11 měsíci

    I enjoy watching your vy🤗❤️

  • @luckyhmasasa4720
    @luckyhmasasa4720 Před rokem

    💯💯💯💯💯🌹💥💥🔥I have nothing to say, but I love it, because you're talking the truth

  • @normansindana4366
    @normansindana4366 Před 11 měsíci

    Finish the game well 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Sonyahenry268
    @Sonyahenry268 Před 4 měsíci

    Facts

  • @samadopeyemi9684
    @samadopeyemi9684 Před rokem

    Mehn you always hit 🔥❤️

  • @alfredsimbo2991
    @alfredsimbo2991 Před rokem

    noted

  • @sundayokpanachi4480
    @sundayokpanachi4480 Před rokem

    Hi jissica how are doing' I really love this.

  • @AfroStudio942
    @AfroStudio942 Před rokem

    Ali.. South Sudan
    Perfect Jessica.

  • @formicapple2
    @formicapple2 Před rokem +6

    Many thanks. I wish I had that knowledge 35 years ago when my wife and I were married. My incompetence led to the last 30 years of a wife who eventually refused any form of intimacy or affection. We are good friends and house mates though.

    • @emmanuelighorodje7269
      @emmanuelighorodje7269 Před rokem +6

      She was definitely cheating on you

    • @kenyansimpo7356
      @kenyansimpo7356 Před rokem

      So you havent smashed in the last 30yrs?

    • @formicapple2
      @formicapple2 Před rokem

      @@emmanuelighorodje7269 absolutely not. I know for sure.

    • @formicapple2
      @formicapple2 Před rokem +4

      @@kenyansimpo7356 no. I’ve learned to be celibate within my marriage. Marriage is sacred. I would never go outside my marriage for sex. Instead I’ve learnt that sex is not the only aspect of marriage.

    • @mobydick5046
      @mobydick5046 Před rokem +2

      @@formicapple2 Celibate in marriage? Are you insane? You are torturing her!

  • @MarkKaranjaM4K
    @MarkKaranjaM4K Před rokem +1

    Target locked...proceed with full intent...save time, I've got places to be and money to make😎

  • @inspirewisdom
    @inspirewisdom Před rokem +1

    Usually the men that go into score a goal are the men with brute strength and they see "this the chance to put the ball in the net" . They do it based on Nigerian Parlance "The Gra Gra Way"

  • @champinehibbert1362
    @champinehibbert1362 Před rokem

    Real talk me sister 💯

  • @sbonisoskhosana5590
    @sbonisoskhosana5590 Před rokem +1

    Those with ears have heard.Amen 🙏 🇿🇦

  • @margaretsarpong8213
    @margaretsarpong8213 Před rokem

    Very true haha haha thank you

  • @samuelebute8041
    @samuelebute8041 Před rokem

    Your English is superb, gush making me trip for u

  • @paulophilip7948
    @paulophilip7948 Před rokem +7

    Modern women require too much. Our mothers, grandmothers did not ask these things. Today's environment put much pressure on men to deliver things society put on men's shoulders to keep a home.
    After going through all the day's stress of bringing in the bread. It would be a bit asking too much for him to face more stress at home because Alice in wonderland has gigantic fantasies that needs to be fulfilled.
    The least she should do is happily spread those legs apart and let him come off. On the weekends, when work is a bit reduced, he can slow down and put in the work on her body.
    Anyways, thanks for a great vlog Jess, this information is handy. And I will try to keep these pointers in mind to satisfy my partner more.

  • @teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419

    My jess my bombshell teach we real ignorant for sure💪😍 as guys

  • @onebin4894
    @onebin4894 Před rokem +1

    Jessica Os
    trying some of these thing will work but some of these ladies are crazy 🤪 🤪
    what more can I do???? just learn to live with it.
    just make sure you're metal stronger than she in confidence to accept her choices
    that is my take on this topic thank you a lot.

  • @bismarcknkansah9518
    @bismarcknkansah9518 Před rokem

    Oh God l like this lady too much 👍

  • @sylvanusfinney4202
    @sylvanusfinney4202 Před rokem

    Jessica is my favourite......

  • @fredericktsanu
    @fredericktsanu Před rokem +3

    Nr 9 Women should remember that men have to erect before having sex and it is sometimes difficult to stay in that energy without being distracted by some actions of the woman. that is why men rush sometimes. Ask men first about how they feel too men are not puppets ok

  • @uafyoung
    @uafyoung Před rokem +1

    VERY FUNNY...SHE SAID "FORGETING TO BREATH" BASE ON E DEY SWEET LOL..... GOD ABEG LOL

  • @larrysmith120
    @larrysmith120 Před rokem

    Hi Jessica real talk

  • @sigma_z
    @sigma_z Před rokem +7

    Someone told me that if you have to ask if a girl is enjoying it or for feedback then you've already lost the girl because the girl will see this as someone who's weak and inexperienced.
    Which is a vicious circle because you can't get good at something unless you have experience and if you don't get feedback then you can't get better, yet women's minds are wired to not want a man who's not good in bed.
    It doesn't make any sense. But then again, we're talking about women's logic here. 😂

  • @directorsampro
    @directorsampro Před rokem +1

    😊😊I like this content, I would like to know what kind of camera 📷 you use please 🙏🙏!?

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Před rokem +1

      Check my video description. The list of my gear I use is all there

    • @directorsampro
      @directorsampro Před rokem

      @@JessicaOS wow this is really great 😊 and keep it up the grad hard work