I Don't Know Who The Father Is | Underage and Pregnant | Full Episode | Origin
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15 year old Abbie went from doing ‘normal teenage things’ like drinking, smoking and getting arrested to being a clean living, healthy eating, mature and responsible future parent; but that was just the easy part…
Abbie was relieved when she found out she was pregnant because previously one of her biggest anxieties was that she wouldn’t be able to have kids. This angst was soon replaced by another as she is unsure who the baby’s father is. When she broke up with her ex-boyfriend she slept with her best friend and found out she was pregnant shortly afterwards. The father could be either of them. This topped by her overwhelming pregnancy hormones results in a roller-coaster of emotions as she swings between who she wants to be the father and who she thinks it might be.
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Normal teenager stuff? .. when I was 16 I was still eating turkey dinosaurs and potato faces..
Brooke Hall ngl u were a weird 16 year old then
Hell I'm 24 and would be so happy if I had that for dinner. But my mom refuses to buy that because im too old for it. Lol
Same and I thought I was the weird one, sitting at home playing with my DS and eating potato chips.
We're you the baby of the family, that's cute. It's always best to be over loved then under loved
My baby is due in March next year and I tell ya what if he wants to eat turkey dinosaurs and potato faces when he’s 16 then he most certainly can😝
She's 15 and tries for a baby before 😐 when I was 15 I was closing the fridge slow to see when the light will cut off 😶
I was doing that at 5 years old, you may be a bit slow mate
@@yvettenjosh I think it was just sarcasm
😂😂
I was looking under my bed and in my bed for what I don't know.
I was closing the fridge quietly so no one would hear I’m in the kitchen in the middle of the night. 😂
Assaulting police officers, getting drunk, smoking weed and having sex with tons of guys is not normal teenage stuff.... that’s very concerning that she believes that’s normal.
She just meant smoking cigarettes I think if she meant weed she'd probably have said getting stoned.
Maybe she hasn’t been brought up properly.
It will be normal in her friend group so to her it's totally normal but she doesnt get that's quite extream (assaulting the police officer)
Maybe not assaulting a police officer but you cannot tell me getting drunk and doing drugs and having sex is not normal for a teen. Have you met a teen?
@@Weightingtablesafter I'm 15 and never in my life have I took drugs, taken alcohol or had seggs. I haven't even had my first bf yet. Thats not normal lol.
"We had a really long relationship... Like 3 months"
😳😳😳😳😳😳🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Mpume Phakathi 🤣
@@lindyolivier9097 Wonder if all of her siblings have the same father? I married my high school sweetheart 36 years ago. Total of 39 years. Our son will be 20 in a few months. Relationships & raising children are a lot of work. Abbey's life will be forever changed. Hope she graduates high school..
Yeah people trust way too soon...
When she say that I look at myself I was married for 13 years now
thats not long lol to her it is cause shes silly teen
They dated for 3 months and she called that a really long relationship 😭
Yep. Only 90 days. 😂
🤣🤣🤣 like... I consider a year short. Maybe I'm old fashioned
honestly, me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and even then I dont consider our relationship super long. its just at the one year milestone lol
is 3 month that long?, cuz i've always had long relationship for 1-2 years, my new relationship is the longest relationship i ever done, me and my bf already be together for 3 years and we still going until now, and she call 3 month aready long, its really suprise me
😂😂😂
"We had a really long relationship...3 months maybe?" Mate what?
Tbf it's a long time when you're that young
well, she thinks getting arrested at 14 and spending a night in jail is normal teenage stuff. haha.
She is stupid.....periodT!!!
Lord Quax I’m 16 and I’ve been in my relationship for over 2 years and I consider that a long time, but when we were at the 3 month stage that also felt like a long while, just because of how young I was.
Misuzu Kamio meh sort of, I’m 18 and have been with my partner since 16 and we now have an 8 month old so I guess it’s long depending on your maturity...
drinking, smoking, assaulting police officers... you know just normal teenage things
@GLOSSYMARMARXO True voice of the youth🤣
That’s not normal
Right?!
I was about to type that then saw you said that u took the words right out of my mouth .
i’ve learned from watching these videos that that’s normal behavior for teens in England
When I was 15, only 5 boys knew what the inside of my room looked like... they were also known as One Direction
Oh goodness ! You've read my thoughts
Same
Same. My male friends never went near my bedroom.
As a current 15 year old this is what I do but add Conan gray
I don’t think a lot of it happens indoors 🤣🤣
“Smoking, drinking, getting arrested, assaulting police officers, and spending the night in cells. You know normal teen stuff.”
In what universe?
It was where I grew up
This is Britain lol
maininikira
When I was a teenager, books and learning were my life... Books and more books. I still spend a few hours every day learning and reading whatever I am currently interest in. Even though I am not quite that young no more.
maininikira shit they get away with a lot in the uk, parenting gone wrong
That’s like normal college dorm shit maybe but definitely not teen
Nothing more beautiful than seeing a mother/daughter bond over figuring out who knocked up her 14 years old Angel 😍
lol! Love it
Actually loled
Lilith The First ...yah really...CRINGE 😂
Lol
😂🤣😂🤣
Normal teen stuff? Is she crazy? I was a teenager once and I never behaved like that.
Yeah she’s immature but I could bet you did a lot of wrong things when you used to be a teenager I hate that 😂 just because you didn’t act like her doesn’t mean the way you acted is considered right
@@keekz6023 I used to be like her coming up except I was on the streets by 14 or 15 sleeping on friends couches etc ! But the way she lives isnt right (I'm not gonna say normal because theres no normal) her parents are the reason she acts like that ! Hell her friends mom kept the baby so they could go out OVER NIGHT to party doing God knows what ! I blame the parents
Its sad it happens a lot these days, people as young as 13, and they promote it on CZcams thinking it's normal, when I was 13 to 17 I wasn't even thinking about sex or having a baby, I was enjoying my childhood going to the park, swimming, theme parks, holidays, sleeping😂
@@keekz6023 I was a boring teenager to be honest, so you could say I always was a good girl, never skipped school, never smoke or anything like that
Omg I looked down and saw what I was thinking.... normal teen stuff??. Smoking drinking getting arrested at 14!!! Erm no no no no non
The Mom is such an enabler but the Stepfather seems to be a healthy remodel.
he;s the mom's live in fiance not her stepdad, therefore he probably hasn't been a part of her life or raising her long enough to have any impact. More people out here worried about the weather than kids being raised without any fathers.
He is clearly ex drug user look at his gaunt face
Actually mother is a loving supportive realist, not a brainless judgemental freak. It's amazing how loving people appear alien to much of humanity... if that's what you are supposed to be trying to act like ...
@@fingerprint5511 she’s loving but at the same time lacks the authority necessary to be a parent
"Underage and pregnant, without knowing who is the father?" I am 32 and I still wonder how they print M&M's on chocolates... For Christ...
No shit
With automatic stamp Duh
Saffron Sinclair guess I’d be very light barely touching the top
im hoping its cause you need to start making stamped sweets as well...
Me to tbh 😳
If losing her phone was the worst thing imaginable, she isn’t going to like labor very much
She needs to stop giggling, grow up, and start taking responsibility for her actions. I find her really frustrating to watch.
I don't understand why this young woman did not take any childbirth classes to learn copeing skills. Tightening up and screaming make labor so much more painful. From experiance I know. I have 4 kids (all adults now), born at home. No drugs. Yes it's painful, but learning what to expect helped.
She has no idea how hard it’s going to be! Being a mother is hard, isolating and you have to be able to put your needs 2nd. Her life is over, it’s now all about the baby.
It was her only contact with one of the potential baby daddies. Which is why she is so upset
rika furude probably
That poor 12 year old little sister isn’t gonna get any sleep having to share a room w her sister and baby. That’s so unfair. I would never allow that
Right and that might affect her grades too. :/.
Honestly yeah, especially if she’s a light sleeper !
Especially because her sister is a super bad influence, being 15, having been arrested before, drinking and smoking and GETTING PREGNANT
SELFISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Completely agree. The little sister shouldn't have even been worrying about thing like if the baby woke up in the night and her sister didn't wake up... Its making her grow up quickly too
I feel like the mum is half the problem here. Unwilling to accept her daughters wrongs and allowing her free reign to do what the heck she likes. My mum would slap me in to next week 😂
Her mums a good mum supporting her
I see it as yeah her mom was probably sad she got pregnant young but that doesn’t change the fact she pregnant.
@@gwyn6907 Her mum acts like a mate, not a mother....who actually parents.
@@binkybun8692 no she doesnt
& creepy stepdad co-signing it perhaps? :/ just a thought 👀
I'd be mortified if my daughter sat me down and asked me to help her work out who the Father of her child is..
I’d be mortified if my 15-year-old was pregnant whether or not she knew who the father was.
Elizabeth R why?
Dejuh Vuh why would you be embarrassed? People like you are judgmental
Elizabeth R RIGHT?!!? And that boy better demand a dna test after reading the title of this video!
@@strawberriesblueberries2258 the fact that they knew how to but still didnt play it safe and use protection would be embarrassing to me as a parent. I'd feel guilty that I failed them in educating them properly on sexual health.
“I was a normal teen drinking, smoking, getting arrested…” WHAT IN THAT SENTENCE IS NORMAL?!
Haha that’s so true
Smoking n drinking yer most teens do , getting arrested nope
@@charlieblue2987 I don’t remember smoking, drinking or getting arrested when I was that age
@@lightning_fl Weird, I don't know anyone who didn't start drinking once they were legally old enough.
@@sophielorber4571 Maybe the people commenting are Americans 🤔 , So they wouldn’t be allowed to drink when they were teens.
"Never did I imagine id be a mum at 15"
"I did try for a baby once before..."
Well which is it?
🤣😩 poor thing
lolol...i know when i heard that ...i said right....she lies ALOT!!!
coco blu 😭😂😂😂 she tew muuuuuuuch. Confused ass chap.
I was thinking they played that part of the order in maybe she never thought she’d be a mom because when she tried before she said she never got pregnant so maybe after that she never thought she’d be a mom so then when she’s in my 15 she’s like damn I don’t think I’d be a mom at 15
I just turned this to 1k
When I see things like this it makes me think DNA testing should be mandatory at the hospital. She clearly picked the baby's father with her emotions
Yes it should. They offer prenatal testing now, too. This will allow the parties truly involved to handle their business from the start.
It's already becoming mandatory in many if not all of the U.S. States
@@thomascostello259???? I don't think that's correct at all.
@@thomascostello259 It's not mandatory in the hospital in any state. It is mandatory in court to adjudicate paternity.
Wait so did she ever get the DNA test done?
At 14 I was going to slumber parties and school dances, not assaulting police officers and getting knocked up. My parents would have killed me.
Same here if I had of got pregnant at 14 my parents would have killed me
At fourteen I was still playing with barbies 😂💀
@The The abortion? heck no the baby deserves to live adoption is way better
But her moms totally ok with this behavior 😣
Yes I choose life and my Daughter now makes that same choice by being a smart girl...
ah yes. 3 months. what a long and enduring relationship.
At her age I had just ended a 4 year relationship
No babies though!
Lmao my thoughts exactly
Mrsthebeatles81 preach
@@mrsthebeatles8159 ended a 2 yrs relashit lol
Can we appreciate how great her step dad is being ? He’s making sure she eats well, cracking jokes and being supportive
He's a very good stepdad, people like that are rare. They're a lucky family :)
@Fact Speech Is Not Hate Speech gross
i was thinking that too. he looks like trash but he was being a real gem
@@marycanary86 he looks like trash? Not judgmental at all are you? Says alot about you that you'd even make such a comment
Maybe that's why she doesn't know who the dad is because her step dad really is the dad and she can't say anything
What an immature girl, thinking a three month relationship is “long”. Wants her ex boyfriend to be the father and want him back in her life after he cheated on her. Flirting with a life guard and crying over lost phone 😂
Well, considering she is only 15, being immature is normal. I was more mature at that age because, as the oldest, I was often responsible for my three siblings. My youngest brother is over 10.5 years younger than me. I changed my first diaper when I was 8.5 years old. I am sure that the girl in the video matured a lot by the time her baby was 6 months old.
@vbiasland earlier on in my pregnancy my touchscreen stopped working and I cried like someone had kicked me 😂 hormones are mad, it just needed to go to the shop for a few days like calm down me
She’s 15 dude, of course she’s gonna act like a child :/
Absolutely ridiculous in this day and age, she's a spoilt immature brat😬
3-4 months is the amount of time a crush or lust lasts. Many many unplanned pregnancies happen within that time frame. I’m so happy my 8th grade English teacher taught us that little fun fact😭
I hope they actually do a DNA test instead of guessing dates to know who the father really is.
Heather Rae. 😂😂😂
😂😂 cuz that's sholl what they doing
Agree
Heather Rae lol well I’m sure the mother of the both boys should push for it
I would kill my kid. And my son better never bring no baby to me without a DNA test.
Her ex boyfriend doesn’t show up for the birth and already has a six week old baby. She thinks they’re gonna last forever? He left his first baby momma what makes you any different?
He's probably married. Maybe that's why they couldn't show him.
@@cg9653 No he was also child lol
C G nope parents wouldn’t allow it. He’s not a great kid. Didn’t want to be embarrassed on national tv lol. Don’t blame them.
They literally cheated on each other 3 months in. Despite what she says, that’s not a long relationship at allll
I wouldn’t doubt it they probably already broke-up with each other if the boy already has a kid and left his first baby-mama I don’t see how he’ll make it with her 😂☠️
When I was 15 my crush smiled back at me and I thought that was extreme😂
I don’t even look in his direction loll teach me your ways
The dark horse Always wins you sound mad not everyone gets into relationships at 13 🥴
Yep this makes me grateful for being a late bloomer nerd.
Yes omg
😂😂😂 sooooo true...
Poor sweet sister having to share a room with a newborn.
that sleep deprivation coming her way could have really serious long term health impacts for a 12 year old!
I was sleep deprived at that age and it impacted my height massively.
My sister had a baby at 16 and our younger sister had to share a room with her and the baby at 14. Luckily it was only for a few months because we moved shortly after.
What not sleeping affected your height don't get it
@@mygodrocksbiggo5086 your body produces human growth hormone while you sleep so if you dont sleep enough you won't produce enough.
Plus gravity has an impact. People shrink in the day and stretch out again at night as not easy for your body to grow when your skeleton is compressed under your weight and gravity so proper time horizontal is important too.
I share my bedroom with my mother
The fact that she thinks she'll end up being responsible for the baby when her mum won't wake up low key concerns me :/
When I was 15.. I was sneaking out of my room.. TO GET INTO THE PANTRY FOR SOME DAMN OREOS then get caught by my dad LOL
My stepdad: Would you like some milk with that?
@@kiwikiwi657 🙂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I thought sneaking a beer was big time!
“He didn’t expect for me to get pregnant...but his lovely. He’ll make a great daddy”
The ex-boyfriend: cheats on her and has a 6-week baby
Abby: :)
Her giggle is so annoying. She thinks this is a joke. I can't deal.
Kay McGarden lol she’s not gonna think it’s a joke when she’s screaming in pain in labour
😂😂👏🏽
Abby is a child herself. She only knows she should be nervous and self conscious, but hasn't been raised to know why. Abby's mother seems warm, but not a strong source of guidance. Likely contributed to Abby going down this road in the first place. I imagine this will become a generational pattern.
She is giggling because she has the emotional maturity of a 10 year old.
I thought the very same thing. Can't stand her already, she has the mind of a bird or a hamster just like her mum.
The mom act like her best friend and that’s part of the trouble.
I know what you mean! You get the feeling that the Apple didn’t fall far from the tree! It’s difficult to not judge the whole family!
And if the mum doesn't get her child straightened out then they're gonna be doing this again in 10 months! She'll be 18 with 3 babies if her mum doesn't stop giggling with her 15 yr old and talking about the 16 yr old baby's dad & how happy she is he's gonna be there with her 15 yr
Agreed and both of them are very immature.
Right? "Now I know how you got pregnant in the first place!" Like it's a joke. Her teenager who is pregnant by she-doesnt-know-who is still acting like a boy-crazy child, with no understanding of the attitude that got her here in the first place and no understanding of the seriousness of her situation, and she's gonna joke about it?
the BIGGEST issue is no dad in the picture beside some "stepdad" who if you paid attention to the voice over is only a live in boyfriend of the mom...erm fiance.
There is nothing sadder than children having children and Abbie is a VERY young 15 year old. No child of that age should have to be making decisions that carry a lifetime of consequences and becoming pregnant puts her in exactly that position.
Yes, this girl is 15, but had the mind and maturity of a young kid. The problems that led her to become pregnant will get so much worse once the baby comes.
I had my daughter at 16. I'm now 18, father was never in the picture, but I regret none of it. I know being pregnant is not the best thing for a teen, but that doesn't mean it's a bad experience. My daughter is my little angel and will always be. And if I could go back to the past, I wouldn't change anything. So no, teen pregnancy is not the saddest thing in the world.
@@evaimarinacoendersvrecar I don't think that's what people are saying. Yes, the child is a blessing and awesome! But also, the struggles that you will have are extremely impactful to not only you but your child. Overall, the goal is to reduce this for teens and babies to allow the best possible outcome for everyone.
You're a great mom to value your child above all!
The way my great grandfather exited this world when I was
a 14 year old and seeing watching my dearest dear grandmother crying was/is EASILY sadder than British teens having babies
@evaimarinacoendersvrecar Children born to teenage parents in general are much more likely to be neglected, abandoned at birth, grow up impoverished and be taken into care. It should still be something that's reduced regardless of one's personal feelings or experiences on the subject.
My faith in humanity is not only dead, it was given a funeral, cremated and its ashes scattered.
DrGrukar McNinjaSixthGun don't lose your faith in humanity! There's lots of hope still, I promise. God bless you. 💋❤️❤️❤️
Wow how positive
do you even actually know anything about humanity any Frigging anything at all
Lmao humanity was dead wayyy before teenage pregnancy was normalized in the eye of society
😂😂😂
There was a family delima and the family pulled together. Faith in humanity restored.
Did she say her ex-boyfriend already has a 6 week old baby. 😲 Her child is potentially his second baby. 😶 Whoa.
Raeshon Opah nice family legacy lol
Raeshon Opah ikr this kid need 2 rap it up he’s gonna have 10 kids by the age of 20
She said that her ex-boyfriend already has a 6 week old baby!!! You got it correct Raeshon Opah.
Raeshon Opah: Yes she did..... and they dated a "really long time, like 3months" so given his kids are born 6 weeks apart, fair to assume he was double dipping😅😅 in that 3 looonngg months!
Brilliant But Blue We do know that he cheated on her - because she didn’t know the baby daddy as she had ‘revenge sex’ with her friend after finding it out that she was cheated on. :3
Theres so much wrong here that I dont know where to start.
I don’t even why this made me laugh real hard 😂😂😂
2.5braincells&guavas Sings 😂
Parental guidance is missing
She is way too immature to handle herself let alone the baby.this is all going wrong.i feel for the baby not born yet.
Right?! I am shocked and lost for words. 🙄
Without wanting to sound judgemental I really feel so sorry for that mum and her daughter, it appears that they have no real grasp of reality. The only person who seems to be taking any responsibility is the step dad, its just shocking. I truly think the mother enables and encourages this immature behaviour. Zero parenting skills!
Yes to everything you said. This was a while a go though so hopefully the young lady has matured a bit more mentally.
I agree your the first comment speaking raw truth
What do you know about this young girls mother she is being a supportive towards her daughter
Agreed. I’ll take it a step further the mother needs a slap upside the head she’s giggling and encouraging gross behaviors like she’s 15 as well. The stepfather should take the child and kick those two barnacles to the curb.
That’s not normal teen stuff,that’s reckless immature behaviour and a whore she doesn’t deserve a kid
Seems like the mom and the teen think that sleeping around, getting pregnant at 15 and having a baby is one big joke. The only one taking any real responsibility is the stepfather. I hope the mom realizes how lucky she is to have someone like him.
She did take Abbie to go swimming to stay healthy though
All I can say is we saw a pretty small portion of their life. And honestly I don't blame any teens for getting pregnant. Your body is literally begging you to get pregnant and people don't educate kids about cycles and fertility windows and all of the options for birth control available. Like for goodness sake stop telling them to just not have sex because it obviously doesn't work. Teen pregnancy rates will only drop when education is a priority over prudism and sheltering and helicopter parenting and religious schpeals that kids can't understand
it’s honestly so normal for teens to act like this in britain. it’s because there’s literally nothing else to do if you’re not in london.
I know...it seemed to be one big giggle fest. Some parts made me cringe. I honestly don't think they know any better..or they just don't care.
@@dorothycarter2891 I think the giggle fest you're referring to might be a misunderstanding. We only see a glimpse of these people's lives and they probably are acting weird because a camera is shoved in their face. The girl obviously had no idea how her reproductive system works when she said "I didn't get pregnant the first time I had sex so I thought I just couldn't get pregnant." Which is evidence of a complete systemic lack of education, meaning her school system failed her. Just like some people can't teach math to their kids, some people can't teach reproductive health so it must fall on the education system to teach kids about their bodies.
And as a final point, when you get pregnant unexpectedly, you have about a day or a week of "oh fudge what did I do" before you roll into either "okay I'm having a baby this is gonna be a rollercoaster but I'm determined to love this baby and care for it" or "okay I need an abortion or adoption." So I'm not surprised you saw it as a giggle fest. I think we saw an immature girl that got pregnant due to lack of education but in all, I believe that throughout the last ten thousand years (dating back to the ice age) we have had girls at 10-16 regularly impregnated and some of them have been better mothers than women at 30 having babies. I'm really just miffed that people feel welcome to cast judgement on a little girl in a bad situation that could have been avoided if schools would do their job.
I can’t have been the only one who thought she was in labour or something when she lost her phone 🤦♀️
🙄🙈😂😂😂😂😂
Same 😂😂
I was one of them AHAHAHHAHHAH
When I was pregnant I cried bc I spilled a glass of ice water 🤷♀️🤷♀️
I thought something was wrong with the baby!! Ridic
The fact that the LITTLE sister feels she needs to assist when her CHILD wakes up crying blows my mind , umm no take care of YOUR baby
Nothing wrong with having a support network
A 1 a child is not a support system and is gonna be forced to grow up fast because they expect her to help
@@user-qr7eb1sf3l the sister is 12....
I would have wanted to love, hold and help take care of a little baby if my older sister had one. My friends and I used to love to take the neighbors baby out with us partially because of all the attention. Other than that it was fun to have an baby to feed, cuddle and dress up. It wasn't like a baby doll was real and fun until it was time to change a poop diaper!
LIFEBEAUTYNMORE she barley a child she’s 12 in 3 years she will be an adult with her own home, and probably family of her own and has grew up in a big family so will be use to helping with babies that’s how it is in big families
She should have still gotten a DNA test its not fair that it could be the other guys kid and shes just saying its her ex's because she wants him to be the dad.
but it’s all about her.. unfortunately
I got pregnant at 29 and my dad was so mad at me! 😳
I was at 23 and married with both parents mad. I couldnt even amagin there responds at this age.
@@BayMaxAcademy why were they mad if you were Already married?
@@prncessbaby16 Because they thought 22 was too young to have a kid.
@@BayMaxAcademy did they also think you were too young to get married then?
@@prncessbaby16 Yes, I was 21 though.
“ she looks like her dad” who ever he is.
Yeah exactly 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Maybe she had a realization.
Hahahahaha
“He didn’t expect for me to get pregnant...but his lovely. He’ll make a great daddy”
The ex-boyfriend: *cheats on her and has a 6-week baby*
Abby: :)
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol.. ex boyfriend's pull out game 👎
That was my first thought 😂😂
She’s already shown her judgement skills are somewhat lacking so I wouldn’t be taking any recommendations from her to seriously.
😂😂😂
The ex-boyfriend had a baby on the way when this girl decided to be with him and got pregnant. Mercy. Terrible choices.
I know, not great Father material
It’s sad, and the damage is done; there seems to be absolutely zero common sense between the lot of them.
@@joeyree22oh good
SCREW “cOmMoN sEnSe”
She smiles about it as if she's proud or cool for doing all that 'teen' crap
* Birth control and sanity has left the chat *
😁
Bold of you to assume they were ever in the chat to begin with 💀
Birth control? At 15? How about not being a slag. Just an idea.
So the mom to be has a history of smoking and drinking, being arrested for assaulting two police officers, and cheating on her boyfriend to 'get back at him' for cheating on her.... The potential father to be also cheated on the mom, and has a six week old baby by somebody else.... Wow. That baby is being born into a world of maturity and responsibility. That poor kid. :/
😂😂😂 looks like she got it all figured out
This whole family is a dumbster fire, glad we can agree on that.
poor kid? I doubt that child will be thinking that in the slightest when she is 14, running around having sex and doing whatever she wants. The pitiful cycle continues.
knowbert exactly!! These people are sickening.
But they really really do looooove each other
When I was 15, I didn’t talk to boys in real life
Maryam Bangura when I was 14 I was getting in guys cars and skipping school
Sophie Rosewarn oooh we’ve got a cool kid on our hands
Charlotte thank you
Conservative girl 👍👍👍
i'm 17 and still
“We had a really long relationship…3 months” …. Just that sentence alone shows how immature this girl is! That poor baby!!
LUCKY baby Lexi
Because not every baby is always actually wanted
When will teen girls realize they can't "keep" a boyfriend by getting pregnant. He can still be a father, but not be in a relationship.
When will grown women realize they can't "keep" a boyfriend by getting pregnant.
Men do the same thing too. Teen boys as well.
@@KillMePete teen boys and men have done those things too. Not just girls and women.
Oh my goodness thank u
The fact that she cries like a crazy person for a lost phone shows she's not ready to be a mother
michelle gonzalez hormones are through the through during pregnancy you cry at the smallest things. I’d very upset if I lost my phone they don’t come cheap and I’m not made of money
I am actually getting her after three pregnancies as a grown-up, for example I stepped on a bug, albeit a rare one and protected and I broke down crying - and there are more stories of the kind. Pregnancy hormones are...interesting.
How could a 15 year old possibly be ready to be a mother anyway.
Also, pregnancy hormones make you cry over everything really.
I have to admit, pregnancy hormones are REAL. Normally I'm blunt, straight to the point and always try to look at things realistically and logically, but when I was pregnant I was extra sensitive and empathetic. I would cry about anything and everything. I once cried, like boo who cried, because as I was driving my prego belly kept hitting the steering wheel as I was making turns. Something triggered and I had to pull over and cry it out 🤷🏽
You can tell the level of maturity (or lack of maturity) by how she's laughing at not knowing who the father is.
this is the problem with british people: no marriage, giving birth at young age, living in council homes, living on benefits, the kid doesn't know the father
@@Gencturk92 what does that have to do with being British? These things happen all over..in Britain we have just started supporting families that they happen to rather than shuning young girls.
@@Gencturk92 yes the whole country can be generalised 😑..dont be stupid if you think that the whole country can be represented by the few you obvs not very educated. Is that a reflection on your country?
@@alexrobbins4891 thats how society in UK is now. English people dont want to work, they only do 9-5 mon-fri while immigrants work 24/7. Thats why girls get pregnant so they can avoid work. Marriages dont last good in UK either, even prince harry and meghan left. no wonder why
@@Gencturk92 😂🤣🤣 so because we have certain rights that stop us being exploited were all morally corrupt..ok fella. And fyi I dont think immigrants should work that much if there over hear legally that the same laws that protect us will protect them from exploitation as they should
boyfriend: does the bare minimum by showing up
abi and her mum: that was very good of him
for christ's sake
•Smoking and drinking also getting arrested is a normal teen stuff
•really long term relationship-3months
Like, what the hell ?
I had a relationship at that age we got together at 16 lasted three years. I wouldn’t call that even long
I think life is messy in western societies ,,,
@@raheemabderraheem8325 facts
Roses are red🌹
Violets are blue💙
I didnt search for this
And neither did you...
I did tho
Yes I did...?
Lol it came up in my recommendations, a bit weird though as all there is in it is BTS and BlackPink...
@@queenjisoo9221 lol, same
@@rinlina8463, lol
Is nobody gonna talk about how MESSY the house is??
Organised mess actually! 😂😂 Depending where you live in the UK it's pretty normal 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ they have curtains, and eat at the table though so that's something 🤷🏾♀️
i think it is mainly they are a large family living in a smaller house with very small rooms. so much stuff needed for so many ppl. it is organized and stacked as much as possible so while very crowded not really messy.
It’s the uk ;)
or their really bad teeth.
No wonder she lost her phone
she's 15 and pregnant, i'm almost 16 and still hyperventilating at the thought of eye contact for a second with my crush
her ex- *cheats on her*
her-he's lovely i want him back in my life
her friend-im so supportive and excited for you
GIRL
🤣🤣🤣
The way the mother is so obsessed with Abby, I almost didn't realise there were other children
i think it seems like she’s neglecting her other kids because the show is about abby but i doubt it’s actually like that
@@tasha9007 The sad thing is, she probably ended up bring the one to raise Lexi.
The show is only filming her time with Abby. You aren't seeing her relationship with the other children because they are not the topic of filming.
The whole show is about her not the siblings 😂😂
3 months is a long relationship? That's the time I take to be sure I've got the right guy before sleeping with him...Building trust and getting to know each other take times
Emily Delamar nah you sleep on the first date
3 months!? Can't imagine many guys would stick around that long tbh,at least not exclusively.
3 months is a long time to make sure u have the right guy, good on u for not putting out too soon but 3 months?
Custard Ganet Horny idiots won't. And I don't want them. I didn't have sex for two years, I didn't die and they won't, and I want to be sure. Weeks go by so fast, and I'm busy with university, so we can't meet every day. I'm not saying I wouldn't do kissing and hand stuff, but I'm kinda old fashioned and there are guys worth the waiting and who don't want to get in your pants on the first date. I don't want to regret like some of my friends do because they did it with douchebags
Tanya Jones Weeks go by fast, and I don't have time for a date every day with university etc. I really want to know the person, and I've learned that I need to check peoples intention twice, because I trust too quickly and sometimes regret it. And I never want to regret any intimacy I had, and until today, waiting was always worth it, because I found out who was an asshole before I slept with them. A loyal person doesn't mind, because he's not that horny that he doesn't give a fuck about fitten together
Bruh if losing her phone is enough to break her, imagine the stress from the babie's constant crying.
Dude, she's pregnant. It's her hormones. Lack of pregnancy understanding in this comment section is disturbing.
Crying during pregnancy is part of being pregnant.
This comment isn't meant to be taken full on seriously jesus I know pregnancies are super stressful . And by crying I mean the baby crying for food, diaper changes ect.
@@averymartin1327
how about YOU take of her baby?oh wait I bet NOT
Notice how she wishes the dad to be the guy she gets along with. Then when she fought with him she said he is not the father. Cause we fought. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ it’s sad .. she still a little girl she doesn’t know what a relationship mean
I met my daughter's father at 14 and we had our baby at 15. Been together ever since. Not every teen mom is irresponsible in relationships. Hell, at 11 I was in a relationship for 3 years.
This girl is just a mess in general.
Well yeah she's 15.
@@shelbymasters having a relationship for 3 years at age 11 doesn't make you responsible or mature. I say getting pregnant or even having sex at 14/15 is irresponsible.
shelby masters sounds really irresponsible to get pregnant at 15. Doesn’t matter if you two are still together. It’s still irresponsible and no 11 can be in a “relationship”
shelby masters lmao! Yeah you are just so responsible while someone else gotta pay for your roof heat food ...delusional. You can’t even work at 15 never mind somewhere that pays for daycare and insurance and bills. Liar
Why do they automatically think having a baby means getting bk together with the ex they're ex s for a reason
Bc they are immature little girls that are still living in the world of dreams instead of reality
lucy Johnson probably because she’s a child ? The whole immature mindset thing is playing a role and her mother played a huge role multiple children with multiple fathers it’s a cycle .. get pregnant to get the man and the council flat .
This girl is actually my ex sister in law she not with the babies dad but she is great mum. Her daughter is lovely.
@@charlottebarnes1282 well i hope the dad is doing great, she seems so inmature
Maybe they didn't mean to break up you don't know
Is there something wrong with both the mom and pregnant teen? They don’t seem too bright
The kid has impregnated another girl and the mom is hoping he's a good boyfriend/father. Hasn't he proven what a douchebag he is? Mom is friggin mental!! 😱 I feel so sorry for the sister who has to share a bedroom with the baby.
The mom and the step dad seemed a little off to me.. What's wrong with them? They seem like teenagers themselves. And the girl just giggling about not knowing who her kid's father is.. Shameful.
Kimberley O' Ryan I feel that to
I firmly believe people should be required to take a test before they reproduce.
She has a daughter with a fatherless child in a society that hates on teen moms and bastard children; she wants her child happy so eh
I got pregnant at 14. I had a baby girl. Nothing anybody said about me mattered. I’m grown up and she’s all grown up now. I love my life and everything and everyone in it! Life is and always has been amazing!
im happy for you!
That’s amazing that things went well for you. As we know it doesn’t always go well for the young mother or the child. I think it’s hard for so many of us to imagine such a wonderful outcome for such a young child and such huge life changes.
who fed your baby when u were 14 ? did u earn?
“Abby loses her only means of contact with him: her mobile phone”
Wasn’t she literally just messaging him on a computer?
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Maybe he has no internet, so no Facebook 😭😭 being a teen in the noughties is tough when you run out of data, have to rely on free texts/minutes 🤣🤣
Even though she is young, her family seem so supportive in wanting her to have a healthy baby, making sure she eats healthy and exercising. That's love ❤️
Meh now they want her to act right 😑 meanwhile they should've been keeping her ass in the house from the jump
I know I was thinking the same thing. I got pregnant at her age ( not being promiscuous just stupid) and I wish I would have had the support from my mother like she has. It would have made things so much easier on myself. She is so lucky to have such a wonderful support systems
@@alittlebitofeverything2968 she'll realize when she gets older
Lailani Messina yea that’s true at that age you kinda see what u want to see.
I got pregnant when I was 15 but she was born premature at 23weeks my waters went at 12weeks/3months she passed away an hour after birth at 23 weeks x
Omfg sitting down with your 15yr old daughter trying to work out who the father to her child is #parentgoals 🙄😂😂
Jen Delaney smh this is what the world has come to lol 🤦🏾♀️
@@precaesroyale3676 the thing is they actually think it's normal 🙄 I lived in the UK for a long time and that's how a lot of people are there and their parenting skills are practically non-existent, basically breeding an even worse generation than the last 🙄
Jen Delaney I live in the uk and you’re right the kids are horrible they don’t listen in school the break the bus stop windows and the parents don’t even care
At least she has a mom to help her with things. I've seen many homeless teenage mothers with no one to help with anything.
A veritable rite of passage for some people, apparently
The mother “I wrapped her in cotton wool”, really?!
Seems like she just let her do whatever she wanted and never made a deal out of it.
10:04 did I just hear that right?! This is her 16 year old boyfriends SECOND child?!?!
i'm guessing he knocked up the girl she said he cheated on her with
That's what trash does.
my ex bf cheated on me and had a baby when he was 14
Yes. Yes we did. My heart SANK.
He should consider vasectomy
The step dad seems like a good dude
Really?
Yeah
He seems really nice.
He seems to be the only sensible person in that household.
I'm a teenager and I have never done any of the things she says are 'normal teen things'....
The Closest thing to assaulting I've Ever done is yelling at my brother....
Well, the majority of us didn't do that... Assaulting police officers?! DEFINITELY not normal...
@@karayna9071 that's what I said...
That’s her normality everyone has a different teen experience
Karolina Å really is one of the most common charges in fact me and all my mates were like this we are now all now just about 30 either have uni degrees, successful business or career
12 doesn't count as teen. Drinking and smoking are definitely normal teen things... Not so much the police part but eh
"Smoking, drinking, having sex, being arrested, assaulted policial officers... You know, teens stuff."
That's right, I did that a tone of times with my friends in GTA.
Why do some British teens look like they're in their forties?
EDIT: This is a joke. Calm yourselves, my fine British friends. 😘 I laugh when you poke fun at us you can take a wee bit of ribbing.
Because most of them have very pasty dry skin, usually mottled and freckled, crooked/yellow teeth (water is not flouridated over there I don't think but they eat junk(, small eyes, etc...actually I COULD go on and on but you get the jist I think because in no way am I lying 😁
Literally they don't all look like that, it depends on the life style if they smoke and drink at an early age, it ages their faces. Alot of teens look their age though most documentaries are about low income families with wayward children. Also our teeth aren't crooked we get braces for free while we are teenagers...
Why do American teens look like they're all trigger happy crackheads
@@katiem6620 As an American, I approve your outrageous comparison! Reality TV always show off the hot messes because that's what people want to set. It's not ACTUAL reality
@MyCherie Amour teens are kids...
Why WOULDN'T she be pregnant at 16? Her family seem totally cool with it...I'm surprised this is only her first child.
She says she tried before, so the fact that she only has 1 at 16 was not for her lack of trying.
this would not do in africa, get pregnant at this age or any other younger age family will kick you out, mum wont listen to ya, terrible life if you are a pregnant african
High Maintenance Minimalist and what is wrong with being cool with it? People like you irritate me.
@@strawberriesblueberries2258 and people like you irritate me. Why the hell would anyone encourage an adolescent with no real life experience and resources of their own to bring another life into the world?? Completely irresponsible!
High Maintenance Minimalist because unlike you we believe having children is a beautiful thing. People like you is the reason why so many mothers have abortions or have to hide their babies from society. Plus I never see anyone shaming the men for knocking women up. My question is, why do people like you support sex out side of marriage and abortion but got the nerve put down unwed mothers? That’s hypocritical. Plus people like you who judge the most is probably sleeping around.
''I wasn't shagging about , i was just trying to get back at this boy' idk boss
lol I I don’t think he even cared . So she wasted her time now she has a baby . Silly idiot
Being the “friend” instead of the parent is going to make you a grandparent well before you are ready.
Her mother wants to be her friend, one of the girls not her mother. 😖
Mothers cannot be their childrens friend .... first and foremost we are their parent not their mate.
@@lorrainewadsworth9019
Exactly, that's why I cringe every time I hear a parent say my daughter/son is "my best friend" a friend doesn't set rules for a best friend. It's impossible to be friend and parent.
My mother was one of my best friends growing up and still is but there were very very strong rules!!!
@@lorrainewadsworth9019 my mom is pretty much my best friend but she also had proper rules and I knew who is boss. Obviously now with me being 23 and moved out there aren't really any rules anymore lol
My mum is my best friend ever. The connection with a mother can be stronger than any other bond. It really just depends on the child and the rules that they need to guide them, for me I've never needed to be ruled or disciplined unless of course I was a young child.
i don’t like the girl but her two little brothers are literally adorable my heart omg
Olivia Smith you can have kids ,can't you ?
@@raheemabderraheem8325 ?
Lol, no
They are not adorable they grew up to be theiving little shits I should know their my sons uncles... as these five kids have a much older brother my ex husband
@@charlottebarnes1282 what is abbey like as a mum?
To think that a baby has to depend on a creature like this to take care of it. Poor baby.
Bit judgemental...
Are you referring to yourself and your parents, mate? I don’t want you to snap back either. An eye for and eye as they say 😒
@@burnedflowers141 She's a 15 year old girl who can't pinpoint who the father is. She's not even close to being a qualified parent. She can't take anything seriously (except when she had a meltdown over a phone). Who giggles while telling stories about drinking, smoking and assaulting police officers? Immature children.
@@eginteractive yeah, but fortunately people are capable of change. Her brain isnt even fully developed yet.
@@burnedflowers141 Which is precisely why teenage girls and boys shouldn't be fucking around, especially without birth control. The maturity level just isn't there. Realistically this girl won't mature until probably her late teens, early 20's, which means that child will have to deal with at least 3 / 4 years of instability, meaning being raised by grandparents, never having a stable father figure in her life, and so on. In my opinion we need to get back to a time where having children in your teens was shameful and unacceptable. The majority of people defending this girl / her mother are the reason why we have an epidemic of teenage pregnancies, as the attitude for the last 15 years has simply been, "Oh well it has happened, let's give her the benefit of the doubt, she might make a great mother!" It's thoughts like this that continue generational teenage pregnancy, creating more uneducated children, poverty and welfare dependency. The reason why we feel bad for the child is because the chance that the child will ever have stability in their life is nil. It's the same story over and over. Young girl falls in "love", the boyfriend impregnates her, then vanishes. Then the child grows up, most times without a father figure, and repeats the cycle.
I'm not from the UK and we have the same problems in the US. Half of my own family has encountered this, as well as many of my friends from school, neighbors, and so on. People can be supportive without burying their head in the sand. The people who seem harsh on this girl are the ones who are going to be footing the bill for the future generations of teenage mothers and their children, and we want to see this trend stop in its tracks. Young girls should be focusing on their future, securing proper employment, and starting a family with someone who is respectable and will stand by them, not getting into bed with the first guy who shows them attention.
I think I’ll actually show these documentaries to my future kids ,this might scare them enough 😅
Exact same thoughts 😂😂😂
Her ex-boyfriend has a 6 week old child and another one on the way!?! Two baby mommas! Two babies at 16/17! Thats going to be a hard life all around: Moms, Dad and babies. That boy is being reckless!
@Jake Dean the girls shouldn't have to take pills just so the guy doesn't have to wear protection
@@MurderMysteryArchives How about both?
@@Noa...... if both people decide thats whats best then fair enough. otherwise the guy would have to wear a condom because at the end of the day its just a bit of latex, birth control can cause so many problems for women, not to mention if you forget to take it one day theres a higher chance of impregnation, so in the case of the women using the pill the male should still wear a condom and in the case of her not being on the pill he should wear a condom, or her wear a female condom it doesnt really matter, point is there has to be protection there somewhere without forcing the women on to pills
Lauren Hope he's an idiot from the sounds of it. Her too.
@@menosbbgirl hes probably got another one by now
They have a nice big house but everything inside is cramped and a mess how the hell is there going to be space for her baby
They need Kim and Aggie
Omg, she’s 15. I thought she’s older than that, she looks old.
The 12 yr old looks like 9 as well Jesus
She looks at least 18 to 21 but not too old.
Yes but behaves like an 8 yr old - still checking out guys at the pool. The situation is a disaster zone. Won’t be surprised if 13 years later her kid is repeating the cycle.
she looks 30
Yes. She’s thrown her youth away. No doubt there will be a succession of babies, all with different fathers. And she’ll be bringing them up alone, on benefits.
The part where she was crying like a total 5 year old over her phone irritated me so much. I really feel like she never really received firm parenting and that’s probably why everything is the way it is now
Have you ever heard of pregnancy hormones? they’re real they make you cry over everything
understandable HORMONAL crying like a total teen you mean
Has a breakdown when she loses her phone, but sure, you can handle a child.
Currently pregnant, at 24, cried this morning because i couldnt find matching socks. Lol.
It's hormones.
My friend cried because the MC Donald's ice cream machine was not working
Exactly
If she were 30 you'd say pregnancy hormones shes a teen so you say temper tantrums. Listen its pregnancy hormones. Read a book.
I really hope he asked for a paternity test. “Calculating” the dates at home isn’t exactly accurate 😩
Exactly! I'm currently pregnant, I know who the father is, but I tried to figure out the day of conception just for fun and I still have 3 different possibilities 😂
@@FLmanispretty I know who the father is, I was talking about the different possibilities for the day of conception, not for the father 😂
I had a friend who banged 9 guys at the same time, got pregnant, and told them ALL they were the dad. She said, whichever is the most interested will be the dad. She was 28…😮
@@FLmanispretty we love that energy tho! Lol
why do all these 15 year olds look so much older? I'm British and 15 and look about 10 😂😂
emily lave im 21 in September and I look about 15 😩😂
She smokes and drinks
Most British friends I've made on the internet don't look like this either, they also aren't as of the rails as this girl though and more normal.
She is a redhead, they tend to look a bit older than everyone else. Idy why. Not all redheads, I just notice a good bit of them prematurely age though.
AnnieMustange because white skin ages when the sun hits it
Can we take a moment to appreciate the step father what a wonderful and supportive father !!
Childbirth - the moment when she became aware of the situation.
Her stepdad is so sweet, he makes sure she eats well and so supportive. I think he's going to het attached to the baby and probably will care for her more than the mother herself
My dad had a fit when I told him I was pregnant. But I was 24, married and living on my own. How is this girl still alive?
@The dark horse Always wins um what
Wait why was he angry tho
Why did he get mad??
@@melonie_peppers Lol my guess is he didn't like her husband and was hoping they'd split up
Why were you married and living on your own? Where was your husband living?
Who else is just scrolling through the comment section liking all the comments instead of watching the video?
The step dad is so supportive and nice to her x
He is just spoiling her. Making it seem as if everything is so easy and smooth.
Sophie Jane she's lucky for that.
Kelly John wow how respectful
Sophie Jane I wish more people would be supportive
He’s probably the dad 🤦🏽♀️
When she was crying for her phone i thought something really bad had happened until the woman said 😅
Emily Torrent Jones that’s pregnancy hormones for you!
Emily Torrent Jones when your pregnant your hormones are so bad you cry like that over nothing/everything
I would cry like that if I couldn’t find my slipper lol
My mate cried because her egg was runny when she was preg it’s just hormones
Right lol
i’m 15 right now and i could never imagine myself with a baby, that is mental
That was easily the most REALISTIC BIRTHING I've ever witnessed, thanks to this program & this young lady being open in agreement allowing that process to be filmed. It was horrifying, at 40 rethinking my last attempts or efforts, that was REAL & not Hollwood. I could sense that stratosphere of pain, I appreciate them giving it straight!! Especially for young CHILDREN trying to grow up too fast & think it's all fun & games. Maybe this will dissuade the overly eager, I know it has me.
Same here I'm glad she let them show all of it to help others.
I gave birth two weeks ago and it was the worst pain ever but once u meet your baby you forget completely about it the love you feel just overpowers the pain yeah it is the worst pain ever but it ends and you have a beautiful baby at the end there’s millions of people in the world going through that pain and don’t get a baby at the end of it
What pissed me off was when the healthcare provider said “no more screaming.” i would have told her to stfu.
@@kat_________________same 😄😂😮
Now if they'd also shown the nurse pulling away the pad covered in her own feces because you 100% poop yourself too, it would have been perfect.
Does she have mild learning difficulties or is she just very immature?
Zoe Dark. Thought the same thing...maybe a bit "slow"
Preeti K no she was born early which has its affects
A 1 I think that was her brother that was born early and not here
@@user-qr7eb1sf3l i was and I'm fine
@@user-qr7eb1sf3l doesn't have to have an effect though. Many people are born very premature and are completely fine.
Seeing things like this makes me so grateful for the family I was born into...
Jennifer Huerta fax
Saaaame girl saaaaame
Same 😂
*Hears demonic screaming*
I must seal my uterus, immediately.
IUD lasts five years lol
@@cinnamonbagel5914 there are birth control pills that have been taken off the market for literally killing people. Each person to their own and tbh this "barbaric horseshoe" that you're talking about it far more effective and cheaper in the long run than birth control pills. Go and educate yourself before trying to attack people about something like birth control...
Honestly having birthed 2 kids and currently pregnant with my 3rd I have never screamed like that. I know everyone has a different pain tolerance but dam that was a bit much.
@@mariascorner8043 congrats on your 3rd baby!!! 😊
@The dark horse Always wins ok so let me start by saying that karma came back and kicked my ass. 😂 3rd baby was born 3 months ago. Had a one hour labor had to wait 40mins for my husband to get home from work and the 10 minutes that it took for us to get to the ER and then 10 mins that it took for my OB to come down and get me up to my room my daughter was born. Literally screamed “get this baby out of me” from the ER room to my L&D room. Husband was scared for his life because I kept punching the ceiling of our car from the pain I was in. Hell girls if you’re in labor and you need to scream then scream all you want. Im everything happened so fast that they didn’t even have time for my OB to get all her gear on. Baby was crowning as I was going up in the elevator.
Their Mama is so very compassionate . And she shows such unfailing support to all her children.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤