This hits home for me because I’ve had serious thoughts of suicide around his age. I made sure to get help. Mental health is a serious issue in the black community that I feel like we tend to overlook or push to the side.
It's a fact that black men are not considered citizens in the U.S. so we all gotta be messy look at the law... jobs relationships...we get disrespected in it all...look at R.Kelly he didn't get found guilty where he has to register as a sex offender but everybody say he mess with little girls...In VA the governor pardon Joe Morrissey white man had a baby by a black girl when she was 16 he work in the senate now...Bill Cosby got put threw the ringer so a black man having money mean nothin here cause we a target no matter what rich or poor
@@Benny-zo3qh Diet and exercise are a big help. I stopped consuming so much sugar and my moods greatly improved. Also, walking a lot more eliminates stress and anxiety. Then of course, removing yourself from negative stimuli. In other words, cut off abusers and users in your life. Take care of your mind and body. Think good thoughts, eat healthy, exercise, surround yourself with good people.
I remember being a kid and my brother passed away. My mom was devastated. Didn’t eat, barely slept. She would just lay in his room. She said she felt like she was loosing her mind, like she wanted to jump off the balcony. It’s a terrible feeling to loose a child.
My deepest condolences and prayers to Regina King, Ian's father, all of his family and friends. I can't even begin to imagine the pain they're experiencing...😪😭May God bless and keep them during this difficult time.
My anxiety after seeing this a few days ago and thinking of my daughter was at an all time high. God rest his soul and God bless Regina, her family and her son's other loved ones because the pain they're all going through is unbelievable
R.I.P I lost my son 8 years ago he was 12 you don’t recover from shit like that you just learn to live with it people who say it gets better they’re lying!!!😞😞😞🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@tsaunders4684 i tell people I’m here when you need me. You don’t get over things that life changing. It drains you everyday until you have less to drain or you lose it.
Sinead o'connor son, Lisa Priestly son, now Regina's son, the mothers are out living the children,...rip to all the family's and I pray that Regina finds the peace she needs❤️
He had no business doing that when he’s way better off then MAJORITY of everyone especially the black community. He had plenty of money, could have just fell back and chilled in the house
@@aisha-3857 Aisha, it has nothing to do with money love. Speaking from experience, mental illness really does not choose who it affects. I can tell you when you are in the throws of depression ( mental illness), it is quite unforgiving and extremely painful. I was hospitalized for it. It can seriously kill you if you are not treated. Money doesn’t equate to happiness.
I heard Kevin Hart said in an interview that Regina is one of the funniest real life people that he knows. Such a tragedy. Rip to her son Ian & Rip to Kim the comic as well.
Oshay you may never see this but I was in my mid 20s and I was going through a VERY hard time in my life and I found your channel after searching for advise for black men. I feel emotional typing this but you actually came through in a way a way you’ll never know and I then found out there was actually a black manosphere. I pray one day I will repay you in however little I can. You literally said Keep on keeping on and I’ve never forgotten that since 2018.
This is so devastating. Men all over this country are suffering in silence and feel lost, unseen, unheard. I’m so passionate about being there for my guys, pouring into the next generation, building myself to be the best example of healthy masculinity. I didn’t know my father growing up, so it pushed me into overdrive to make up for what I missed. I’m not perfect, but I’m intentional about the way I live my life. I’ve been depressed, I fight anxiety often, and deal with complex PTSD from things I saw and experienced during my childhood and after. Please talk to someone if you need help, it’s not weak, and it’s not soft. We need you here, man. To all my fellas out there: I see you, I hear you, I care about you, and I love you.
My partner of 16 years killed himself on 02/01/21 and it fucking devastated me and his family. I have been there over the years feeling suicidal and made attempts and I don’t think people realize how hard it is to live in the head of someone who is severely depressed. People can tell you that you are great but you just can’t believe it
I take natural drugs. Those pharmaceuticals are trash. Kanna(plant) is the best sri. Cannabidiol is good and increases bdnf and other positive health markers without getting you high. Has rapid antidepressant effects via 5ht1a agonism and increased endocannabinoid concentration in synapses due to fabp inhibition among other things. There are many other natural options that are safer than pharmaceuticals.
@@Fluer-de-Lis Exactly. So many of us hide our pain. My family nor my best friends know how much I struggle with depression because it’s not an easy thing to talk about. I’m sorry your husband had that much pain.
@@serfrazier8301 thank you. I am struggling right now and I feel awful even talking to my loved ones about it because they don’t get it. I can blame them at all. I envy people who have a “normal” brain that doesn’t constantly have the ups and downs. I pray for Regina and her family and those who this young man were close to. I pray for your recovery and continued fight sir. You are loved.
6:04 This is the quote that kept our people alive for 400 years. Sometimes there may not seem like there's a light at the end of the tunnel, but you really do just have to keep on keeping on, if not for you then for the generation that comes after you. RIP to this young man...
I wont lie, I just tried to call the suicide prevention line a couple hours ago....Hearing situations like this I don't really wanna put my loved ones through it. RIP to the young fella
I always ask my closest friends first if they are ok then proceed to ask how is there day going and make jokes. As i have suffered depression and anxiety at the same time it takes me 4 days to recover sucidal thoughts have come to mind but i always remember thats not my Destiny i start blasting music and working out. No man shoudl be ashamed of reaching out to other grown men
Sometimes depression hits so hard it feels like you can’t breathe and the only way out is to die. Trust me it has nothing to do with how much you have or how much your parents love you. There’s something that just pulls you down it’s almost like death is calling out to you . The really scary part is for the ones who are to far gone no amount of talk and love can save them.
It's a spirit. It's a demonic spirit. You can get delivered from this spirit if you are willing to accept Jesus Christ into your heart and learn the word of God. I shall live and not die and declare the works of the Lord.
@@Jennifer-7jays from experience, I’m telling you that yes it is a dark spirit, but based on your comment it confirms that we have work to do on educating each other about mental illness. Faith +works and education on mental illness matters in the black community.
This is a tremendous comment. I think death calls us all but some hear it too soon. We have to found a way to turn it down so light can drown out the darkest. We have too.
I year ago i was going through a hard break up. I was in such agony and wanted to disappear I even called the hotline. It was the small things that helped me heal and those small things became bigger and better things. Not I've improved my health and mind. I looking forward to my future and life again and it's an exciting time for me. Brothers' please don't give up. Find something small to focus on, something to improve you. Read a page of a book you always wanted to read, perfect that jump shot, practice putting or clean a pair of sneakers. Life will improve if you give it some time. 🤜🏾
I stopped calling people who commit suicide *COWARDS* after seeing how much my cousin had to battle living through each day. He killed himself eventually. But I appreciate the courage he had to prolong it for to long just because he didnt want to hurt his friends and family members.
Anytime I feel sad or flat out depressed I volunteer for something. I’ve volunteered as a literacy tutoring and soup kitchens, it helps. Believe me NOTHING gives you a self-esteem a boost like doing esteemable acts!!!
I had a suicide attempt when I was in my mid-20s. I'd just been released from prison, had a hard time gaining employment with a felony conviction on my back, I was in an abusive relationship with a 2nd child on the way and I felt trapped by my situation. I remember my mother coming to visit me in the hospital and she asked me if I loved her. Of course I do. Mom: "Then why would you want to hurt me. Don't you think that I've been a good mother to you?" Me: "Yes, ma'am." Mom: "What's going on with you?" Me: "Mama, I live in a whole different town with no one to help me when I need someone to listen to me, and when I try to explain what's going on, you brush me off and tell me to "man-up" and "keep moving". I've seen her cry before, but this was the hardest I'd ever seen her cry. It's been since 2005 that I'd even thought about hurting myself like that again. I thought about how often she said that my brother and I saved her life. I also thought about her and my brother trying to move on after my death. Even when I feel like giving up, I keep moving and working because I have 4 children myself. 2 grown children and 2 babies (1 son & 3 daughters). I have a lot to live for and even though I don't have a very good relationship with their mothers (married 2wice, engaged 1nce), my children are the reasons I live today. I'm sorry to hear about Regina King's son passing. It's hard to be a parent of a deceased child. I hope that she heals from this. Bless you, Queen.
I am 26 now and trust me. It’s almost like mid life crisis that hits you, because you think your expected to have all of these things by a certain time but honestly, that’s not how life works.
My husband says that I’m so sensitive, we’ve been together 20 years. I remember once he said to me…. I don’t want to know everything that’s on your mind, and that hurt really bad. I meditate everyday, I keep a journal of my thoughts, feelings etc. This has worked for me. I’ve had moments where I’m bored at home, I look around, house is clean, fridge is stocked, husband’s at work( we both have jobs) sons at school, doing well, but just bored . That’s when my awareness kicks in, I know I’m not hungry, I don’t need to go shopping, I don’t need to call a friend who I know is likely to come up with some gossip. So what do I do? I sit with my thoughts, it’s uncomfortable yeah, but the answer is not drugs, alcohol or looking for attention on social media. I say all this to say that we need to develop coping skills. This world is harsh. That’s why I ask God to help me stay sane when thinks don’t go my way… I don’t wanna lose it ..so to speak. As far as my husband is concerned.. his words, not mine ‘ I don’t wear my emotions on my sleeve’ Men are afraid of being vulnerable, then again, sharing to much information might work against you. Thoughts are powerful, they can make or break you. RIP …Young man…
You’re right about sharing too much information can work against us sometimes… I recommend 2 things. 1. Get a pet. 1 of my cats is purring and forcing his body between me and the phone as I type this because he wants attention. Lol. 2. Exercise/work out. It releases energy/relieves stress.
As a veteran and a Jamaican American man...i been through deep depressions that i didn't see a way out of. Felt that it wasn't worth it Literally the only thing that halped me was seeing the brighter sides(counting my blessings) and God. Removing all thr people that didn't really care about me out of my life and moving forward the best way i could and now I'm the happiest i ever been in my life. There's things i had to accept and didn't expect it to change but i have control over my life. And it's my duty to love myself because God has plans for me. 🙏🏾
Nobody is special. That’s part of the problem: people are led to believe that “you” are special, that you are “here” for a reason, etc. The only purpose of life is to live. Your existence is random, and life is mostly LUCK. Good and bad. Do what every living thing is designed to do, your only purpose is to LIVE! And how well you do that is mostly LUCK! And the rest is attitude.
Martin Lawrence said they filmed around her pregnancy in certain scenes in A Thin line between love and hate because Regina was pregnant with her 1st child, Ian, and he didn't want to recast because he specifically wanted Regina for the part. Prayers to the family and I hope they can get through this because death of anyone is tough but your only child has to be heart-wrenching.
Mental Health is complicated, private and Very Personal. I feel everyone has some form of Personality Disorder, which is not as insulting as using Mental Health Disorder Labels that cause people to be secretive and defensive when dealing with their disorder. Some disorders are more severe than others, however as long as a person is responsible and independent there is no need to worry about the type of shortcomings he or she has.
Nobody really care about the mental issue of a person. Folks need to check up on a person, because they are going through a personal problem they are afraid of expressing~ Wilmrbadguy
@@destroyerofsimps6574 bruh don't come here with that bogus illuminati garbage. You making a mockery of depression no telling what this man was dealing with take it from someone who gets it . Sometimes you really just want to die to be at peace.
Life is fragile. I don't really understand almost everything being blamed on mental health. Stronger, experienced men within the community relating and communicating with each other can be a positive. If nothing else, it helps to toughen the skin. I once heard years ago; "if you are going through hell, don't stop, keep going". Be strong out here and be thankful for some resistance in life. You will stronger and wiser for it.
still having suicidal thoughts but what can a young black man do but work and keep pushing forward. no one wants to help out people like us in this generation, we are still seen as super predators because of the actions of the few. all i know is once i get my money im getting my passport
I lost a good friend of mine 10 years ago. Until recently I felt guilty though his death has absolutely nothing to do with me. I kept saying to myself had I had been with him that night he'd be alive today. I don't know man. One thing that I realize everyday I wake up I have to look for a reason to live, to keep on going. I keep saying to myself no need to rush that day will come anyway. If not I would give up. I decide not to take my own life.
I have one child (a son) and I can't even imagine the pain and utter sorrow that his momma is going through. I know that God "lends" us these precious babies but I would ask the Lord to take me also cause I wouldn't be able to hold on
Salute to you, ODJ! I was super close to deletion when I was in my early 20's and before that at 17. I felt that I was a failure and that I was a waste of life, making mistakes and not fulfilling my potential. What I would say to all black men is that you can always turn around your life but my recommendation is for all men to take time for yourself. Part of why I stopped dating this year was to focus on career growth and mental health stability. All men should try to pray and especially meditate. My advice for my brothers is to sit down in a quiet room in your home somewhere, turn off the devices and let your mind wander. Let your mind think whatever you want and try to steer your thoughts towards understanding who you are and what you're about. Discover who you are and what makes you happy, what motivates you and what you think you can do to step forward into your own greatness. I hate to hear this level up stuff because that's not for everyone and it tends to bring those who want to exploit it around instead of those who will genuinely appreciate it and help you grow. For all who try this, please remember these 2 important guidelines (this is my own opinion based on the years of work I've done on myself). 1) You are your own person. Define who you and figure yourself out. You should never criticize yourself when you meditate, just try to understand your decisions and your life results. I like to break it down to what did I do, what did I hope would happen, what actually happened and what did I learn from the experience. As you begin to analyze your lives, you'll see that you can be your own worst enemy but some things need time to marinate as the results we seek do not always manifest instantaneously. Everyday is a new opportunity and sometimes you will get results if you are patient. God gives us things as we become ready, its not on our time. 2) This is not a quick fix. I would still advise men (and women) to see a therapist, start a journal, make a vision board and more. I started this years and years ago but I still have a long way to go. This will not cure anybody in one session or ten, maybe not even 100 sessions. The purpose is to get you to figure yourself out, learn about who you are and what you want to be about. If you are doing it correctly (in my opinion), this will be a lifelong thing but you'll find greater peace and contentment than ever before. From that contentment, happiness can grow and become a regular part of your life making it even more worthwhile. God bless to all the men and women out there, 2022 and beyond needs to be a focus for mental health for all. You do matter, you are worth a lot and you can be great. The question is do we want to put in the work to be unhappy or do we want to put in the work to be happy?
Sometimes there isn't anything anyone can do in situations like these. People often don't tell others how they really feel or what they're struggling with deep inside. I send my condolences and prayers to Regina and her family in their time of loss.
Suicide sucks, I remember at 26, when i got tired, jaded bored of life, and felt empty and purpose less, nothing i love ( basically rapping ,video games, sex, basketball, hanging with the crew, dabbled in crime) was fun anymore, & i realize achieving my trajectory (riches & fame) wouldn't make me happy so i spent a few months wondering what to do, I said their have to be more to life than this, & just walked to the church altar 1 day & became a christian),, As a youth i was forced to goto church & catholic school cause my mom thought i needed jesus, but i didn't find him. all i did was, play sports have fun & sex on the church property, I remember spitting bars like, "goto church but aint got christ in my plans, i got girls in the back of the chrysler van, on their knees in fellowship.. (fact check, more like 1 girl in my moms corolla in church parking lot, no head either) . but this time I felt new, baptized, reformed myself, was visiting inmates in prison, overseas mission, celibate no fornications, working on gospel album,, I was even being followed by official Reebok on twitter.. I found Christian life easy, and no challenge & did not see myself falling, because i did it all before getting saved & got tired of it Then I got betrayed, poisoned so thoroughly by those supposed to be Gods ppl, the facade of Christian life came crashing down..this new life with , comprised entirely of Christian friends, & events, doing gospel shows etc, seemed fake when those u pray with & who teach u plot & poison & holiness is just a tool... once again I'm empty and didn't know what to do with myself .After isolating ,=myself from old life friends & crew, of artiste, thugs and heathens, who was incidental more loyal & true than the good godly godless new Christians i met was so far removed and still found reverting unfulfilling so I almost became an atheist, but knowing the Big Bang theory, but not what banged or who banged it, i decided to acknowledge the creator.. but never once i contemplated suicide, its a cheap shot, an easy way out. which solves nothing. tho sometimes i say to myself, if i die now i wouldn't mind, because I've live a very complete life so much so i was bored of it by age 26.. Now at age 44 I am a Christian again, because i realize that as a godless talented upcoming rapper who called himself sin or sin_ical.. the devil had plans for me & that did not change when i found god & he has never stopped & continually send a stream of ppl to invade my life & constantly accuse & judge me for my few past non consequential misdeeds, as a excuse for legal; grounds to justify his hate of Gods child. so y be suicidal or sad I owe to myself to become what God wants..remember the bible cause the devil, the accuser of the brethren...that's all he does all day, sit down & point fingers,..the devil is the ultimate snitch, but he also lures and entraps and lies....but guess what he's a defeated foe, I job didn't kill himself, why should anybody...tough times dont last..tough ppl do
His main interest was making sure this video was monetized. He was so consumed with the thought that he couldn’t even keep it to himself… People don’t care as much as you think bruh. But then again why would he? These people ain’t got nothing to do with him the same way they ain’t got nothing to do with you… Everyone just wanna get paid 1st and foremost.
Strong black parents are no longer around. The parents that we have now is weak and dumbfounded. Back in the day our mothers when they see us put a fork in the wall or knife in the plug what they do they take it away but guess what it's not happening today..... these kids and young adults is taking a self out like it's a show. Stop being friends with your kids and be a parent. If they have a problem sit them down and demanded the answer interrogate your kids. Don't let them walk out that house with hatred in their heart against them self or against everybody else. Ain't no coming back once you dead you're dead your time is up you ain't coming back God and going to bring you back to apologize to your parents and when you leave this earth trust and believe me your parents won't know you were having with guess what all faces it's different in heaven no spiritual person with no the next person beside them so thank you for listening stop playing with your kids and be a parent
You got me in my feels when u said I ran to that egg against millions of sperms. That was so freaking touching. I was diagnosed with epilepsy and just always hated it. I'm glad God bought me hear. *tears*
It's true! Men in general, but specifically black men aren't allowed to voice our frustrations because we'll get called "weak" by women or pussies by other men. There aren't many outlets for men to go to where other men will show support for each other's mental hardships. People today are selfish and angry and give each the cold shoulder more than ever in our society. People will turn on you so fast. It doesn't feel good thinking that no one cares about you.
That’s true! We spoke about that on my live tonight! Some black women go HARD on a man who tries to voice his frustrations and how he feels & women have to stop that! Because if a man called us weak for our emotions we’ll be on Channel 2 news with pitchforks & fires.
@@ashasun6620 We still have to live life... and that means dealing with abusive people... Therapy doesn't remove hatred. It might can help you deal with it... but we still need to speak out against the hatred, especially when it's based on LIES.
@@TheMelanatingBee Could we go a day without gender warring? smh. I’ve been called weak for being sensitive. I’ve been yelled at and belittled because if it actually. I’m a bw im supposed to be strong is what I was told. This is an issue we have to address with more than finger pointing. There’s something deeply broken in this community and a lot of our people are in pain
We Men must be there for our Brothers. Talk to each other. Be available when the phone rings. Every young man needs a man and a mentor that can provide advice, or just be a listening ear. Everybody needs somebody.
It breaks my heart when someone feels so alone that they feel that deleting themselves is the only answer. All this alpha male shit and the people who try to emasculate men for expressing fear or despair are despicable human beings. Everyone has value and we need to let people be who they are. My first boyfriend looked like a biker- built like a brick dunny, shaved head and tattoos. He didn't have a mean bone in his body and did not hide his emotions. That made him no less of a man in my eyes - just human..
People who used that Alpha male talking points don’t even realize Alpha male doesn’t Mean stronger than Beta is not weaker male in the pack the Alpha has to make considerable decisions for the safety of Everyone including other males in wolf pack he can not always strike or beat his chest out of anger some days he has to cower or rest than the Beta is second in command these fools don’t know even alpha needs healing an peace of mind an can not always demand it he chooses his battles wisely
Sir he was the CEO of Marta, that is Metro Atlanta Rapid Transit Authority, he made 250k a year and was worth a 1mill an luv by the community and not hated by the employees, which means 💰 and leadership don't fix your core issue...you gotta addresses them head on...💯
“But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,” 2 Timothy 3:1-4 ESV
I'm a fan of the page but the thumbnail seemed kinda tacky. Her son killed himself. We gotta be sensitive and respectful of this situation n the crying frog seemed unnecessary for this.
Know we do need to talk more about mental health especially for men because they think they need to stay strong and not show emotions. And because of that lots of men commit suicide this is sad I'm a strong female always had been and believe me it's a hard pill to swallow knowing I needed help And I'm sure have it worse acknowledging theo need help because women will think there weak and this is why we need to let men know it's okay to seek help when things get overwhelming
Yup I Appreciate Your Spirituality etc's it's like when Content Creator's or CZcamsrs talk about Deaths & Ask You to Click the Thumbs Up or Subscribe it's Craziness To Me absolutely Craziness When i 1st saw that Frog i Shook my Head
When my son died nobody I mean NOBODY black gave a shit and yeah I had 2 suicide attempts.its been almost ten years since then and I'm much better but man it would've been nice to have someone black to understand and tell me something good which is what I needed at the time.i appreciate this brother
that "What if" path is a slippery slope. You cant change the past and it only makes you have emotions of regret and grief move forward and live your life to the fullest.
Sad to hear! Gotta wonder what is the cause of mental health issues and these in-balances of the brain. Is it hereditary, caused by the food we eat or societal? If someone just lived off in the forest away from society what are the chances of experiencing mental health issues?
Rip to Ian man. And you right the black community’s conversation around mental health isn’t very healthy. Being strong includes being able to express emotions at certain points in time.Hopefully it will improve
Peace to you ODJ. Brotha, the wisdom, love, information and encouragement you bring is priceless. You should be proud of yourself. You are bringing real value and you deserve everything good that comes your way!
Ironically that question gives people comfort. "What could I have done?". People don't want to accept the truth. The truth is that many times there is nothing we could have done. As long as we believe that there was something we could have done, we don't have to accept that we are often powerless.
Is it me, or does it seem like we black folks were and are happier when we're broke? I'm not saying we need to normalize that but, man there's a stark difference in levels of happiness.
It’s just a grain of sand man… You can’t let this situation paint the picture for what all people with money are like. Same way this family don’t necessarily got anything in common with yours simply because both of you are black. I hate to break it to you, but odds are you have absolutely nothing in common with those people.
I have always loved ms king ever since she was on 227. She is a well respected actress and women in my eyes. I didnt even know she had a son. I am so sorry for her loss, I'm sure he was a big part of the reason she kept going on. I'm so sad for her. I hope that she can keep herself together. RIP to her son.
This is such a heavy burden to deal with, for people dealing with Mental Health issues. Especially, for the loved ones. And, it's doubly worse for the black community, specifically, men!
When you have depression, it can be really hard even with medicine (which can make it worse) and therapy. I was clinically diagnosed at 12 and struggle to this day at 30. At times, it seems like the only logical decision to make when it seems like there is nothing else you can do that can solve life’s problems. This hurts to see. Regina King is such a great actress and I send my love and condolences to her and her family.
@@BRight298 Thank you. I lost my mother when I was 11, so it went downhill pretty quickly . It also runs in my family. In my case, I’d say it easier to cope with as an adult. Therapy helps a lot.
Mothers are emotionally crippling their sons through son-husbands relationship. After her divorce she said she pulled her son closer to her to cope emotionally with the breakup. The real question is whether this would have happened if she gave 100% custody to her ex. All research shows men raising sons are more successful vs those raised by single mothers.
I remember he son saying Malcom Jamal Warner was like his father. And then Regina King Split with Warner who was his main male rolemodel. Boys need a stable father figure to mold them into the strong men they are meant to be. No diss to Regina King, nothing but heart felt sympathy.
One of the deans at my alma mater just took his own life last weekend. It's such as shock because he was always someone anyone could talk to if they needed help. It's always a shame having to look back and wonder what was wrong, and why existing was such a burden on them in the end even though they appeared to be a beacon of positivity.
The spirit of suicide has been circulating around. It’s important to check up on your folks. Jesus is King 🙏🏾 I pray that you experience the Lord and my deepest condolences to everyone!
This is starting to become a slight problem for the young black youth in black community not just men the young girls too stay prayed up put it in God's hands they have some youth counselors within the black churches that are very good sometimes we have to reach out and get the help we need not all churches are bad!
Thank you sir I really needed to hear this and I don't know you personally but through your voice it seems as if you are a good dude keep up the good work
RIP. So sad. Very painful for all. It’s hard to believe but not everyone considers life a gift. It can be painful for many reasons. We must remember that no child asks to be born. Life is imposed on us all.
Oshay is spot on! People don't understand what men are going through. Whenever we express our feelings and frustrations with life and other things we are going through, we get labelled 'simps'. We men get the wrong end of the stick!
when i feel like crap and not soo happy (which is rare), i know im put here to spread the GOSPEL, to be a willing slave for Jesus cuz he wants me to be happy. the short time we have here is NOTHING in comparison to the infinite one he can give us thru his Love & Grace
Rip to this young man 🙏🏿😞 I remember going through this many years. I don't know how I managed it but I kept talking to myself that things will be better, have faith and ask God to guide me. Once again rip 🙏🏿😢 and my condolences to Regina King.
I know as black men, it's difficult talking about mental issues, as if it is taboo to even talk about it. But, it is never wrong to acknowledge that you have a problem, and to seek out help.
Super talented woman. Fun fact: she is the voice of BOTH Huey and Riley in The Boondocks.
Rah no way
That’s not common knowledge?
@@samuelcharles7642 no
@@nxet2669 Oh
@@samuelcharles7642 I knew that
This hits home for me because I’ve had serious thoughts of suicide around his age. I made sure to get help. Mental health is a serious issue in the black community that I feel like we tend to overlook or push to the side.
It's a fact that black men are not considered citizens in the U.S. so we all gotta be messy look at the law... jobs relationships...we get disrespected in it all...look at R.Kelly he didn't get found guilty where he has to register as a sex offender but everybody say he mess with little girls...In VA the governor pardon Joe Morrissey white man had a baby by a black girl when she was 16 he work in the senate now...Bill Cosby got put threw the ringer so a black man having money mean nothin here cause we a target no matter what rich or poor
Rondy can you share one or two things that helped you? I have a son..
@@Benny-zo3qh Diet and exercise are a big help. I stopped consuming so much sugar and my moods greatly improved. Also, walking a lot more eliminates stress and anxiety. Then of course, removing yourself from negative stimuli. In other words, cut off abusers and users in your life. Take care of your mind and body. Think good thoughts, eat healthy, exercise, surround yourself with good people.
Glad you’re getting help I’m getting help too we got this
Same here
I remember being a kid and my brother passed away. My mom was devastated. Didn’t eat, barely slept. She would just lay in his room. She said she felt like she was loosing her mind, like she wanted to jump off the balcony. It’s a terrible feeling to loose a child.
Sorry to hear that 🙏 🙏 🙏
I hope I never have to feel that pain and also sorry to hear that as well. I hope Regina gets plenty of support from her family.
It's devastating but I don't understand how these celebrities go on social media television like it's nothing Is the very next day or within hours
I’m getting ready to take mine to school man i couldn’t imagine smdh God bless you and your family
How did you feel, bro? I lost my brother 15 years ago and I still think about him everyday.
My deepest condolences and prayers to Regina King, Ian's father, all of his family and friends. I can't even begin to imagine the pain they're experiencing...😪😭May God bless and keep them during this difficult time.
My anxiety after seeing this a few days ago and thinking of my daughter was at an all time high. God rest his soul and God bless Regina, her family and her son's other loved ones because the pain they're all going through is unbelievable
R.I.P I lost my son 8 years ago he was 12 you don’t recover from shit like that you just learn to live with it people who say it gets better they’re lying!!!😞😞😞🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
My condolences 🙏🏿
@ Buck, sorry to learn of your lost, but what else are people suppose to say when things like that happen?
@@tsaunders4684 i tell people I’m here when you need me. You don’t get over things that life changing. It drains you everyday until you have less to drain or you lose it.
Wow brother Shalayam br to you my brother
Thanks everyone!!!
Sinead o'connor son, Lisa Priestly son, now Regina's son, the mothers are out living the children,...rip to all the family's and I pray that Regina finds the peace she needs❤️
He had no business doing that when he’s way better off then MAJORITY of everyone especially the black community. He had plenty of money, could have just fell back and chilled in the house
@@aisha-3857 Aisha, it has nothing to do with money love. Speaking from experience, mental illness really does not choose who it affects. I can tell you when you are in the throws of depression ( mental illness), it is quite unforgiving and extremely painful. I was hospitalized for it. It can seriously kill you if you are not treated. Money doesn’t equate to happiness.
Blood rituals fame comes with a price
@@athaliyahbaytjudas9334 Regina has been famous since she was a child.
I heard Kevin Hart said in an interview that Regina is one of the funniest real life people that he knows. Such a tragedy. Rip to her son Ian & Rip to Kim the comic as well.
What??? Lol f kevin
Oshay you may never see this but I was in my mid 20s and I was going through a VERY hard time in my life and I found your channel after searching for advise for black men. I feel emotional typing this but you actually came through in a way a way you’ll never know and I then found out there was actually a black manosphere. I pray one day I will repay you in however little I can. You literally said Keep on keeping on and I’ve never forgotten that since 2018.
This is so devastating. Men all over this country are suffering in silence and feel lost, unseen, unheard. I’m so passionate about being there for my guys, pouring into the next generation, building myself to be the best example of healthy masculinity.
I didn’t know my father growing up, so it pushed me into overdrive to make up for what I missed. I’m not perfect, but I’m intentional about the way I live my life.
I’ve been depressed, I fight anxiety often, and deal with complex PTSD from things I saw and experienced during my childhood and after. Please talk to someone if you need help, it’s not weak, and it’s not soft. We need you here, man.
To all my fellas out there: I see you, I hear you, I care about you, and I love you.
I’ve been there. I am there at times. There’s nothing wrong with taking medicine or talking to a therapist to teach you coping skills.
My partner of 16 years killed himself on 02/01/21 and it fucking devastated me and his family. I have been there over the years feeling suicidal and made attempts and I don’t think people realize how hard it is to live in the head of someone who is severely depressed. People can tell you that you are great but you just can’t believe it
I take natural drugs. Those pharmaceuticals are trash. Kanna(plant) is the best sri. Cannabidiol is good and increases bdnf and other positive health markers without getting you high. Has rapid antidepressant effects via 5ht1a agonism and increased endocannabinoid concentration in synapses due to fabp inhibition among other things. There are many other natural options that are safer than pharmaceuticals.
@@Fluer-de-Lis Exactly. So many of us hide our pain. My family nor my best friends know how much I struggle with depression because it’s not an easy thing to talk about. I’m sorry your husband had that much pain.
Join a gym. Get out. Keep moving. Talk to someone. Do not take psychotropics...it will make things worse. Just keep moving.
@@serfrazier8301 thank you. I am struggling right now and I feel awful even talking to my loved ones about it because they don’t get it. I can blame them at all. I envy people who have a “normal” brain that doesn’t constantly have the ups and downs.
I pray for Regina and her family and those who this young man were close to.
I pray for your recovery and continued fight sir. You are loved.
6:04 This is the quote that kept our people alive for 400 years. Sometimes there may not seem like there's a light at the end of the tunnel, but you really do just have to keep on keeping on, if not for you then for the generation that comes after you. RIP to this young man...
I wont lie, I just tried to call the suicide prevention line a couple hours ago....Hearing situations like this I don't really wanna put my loved ones through it. RIP to the young fella
It's okay we're here
People love you. Find a small reason but keep going.
Please seek professional help 🙏🏿😔 ur stronger than that
The only reason why I did not do it is because of my family and I know it would crush them. Please don't let depression or issues get the best of you.
Keep your soul high fam 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Men's mental health is something we definitely need to pay more attention to.
I always ask my closest friends first if they are ok then proceed to ask how is there day going and make jokes. As i have suffered depression and anxiety at the same time it takes me 4 days to recover sucidal thoughts have come to mind but i always remember thats not my Destiny i start blasting music and working out. No man shoudl be ashamed of reaching out to other grown men
Sometimes depression hits so hard it feels like you can’t breathe and the only way out is to die. Trust me it has nothing to do with how much you have or how much your parents love you. There’s something that just pulls you down it’s almost like death is calling out to you . The really scary part is for the ones who are to far gone no amount of talk and love can save them.
It's a spirit. It's a demonic spirit. You can get delivered from this spirit if you are willing to accept Jesus Christ into your heart and learn the word of God. I shall live and not die and declare the works of the Lord.
Honestly
@@Jennifer-7jays from experience, I’m telling you that yes it is a dark spirit, but based on your comment it confirms that we have work to do on educating each other about mental illness. Faith +works and education on mental illness matters in the black community.
@@BriaBarrows yes I’ve had family who’ve dealt with serious depression.
This is a tremendous comment.
I think death calls us all but some hear it too soon.
We have to found a way to turn it down so light can drown out the darkest.
We have too.
I year ago i was going through a hard break up. I was in such agony and wanted to disappear I even called the hotline. It was the small things that helped me heal and those small things became bigger and better things. Not I've improved my health and mind. I looking forward to my future and life again and it's an exciting time for me. Brothers' please don't give up. Find something small to focus on, something to improve you. Read a page of a book you always wanted to read, perfect that jump shot, practice putting or clean a pair of sneakers. Life will improve if you give it some time. 🤜🏾
I stopped calling people who commit suicide *COWARDS* after seeing how much my cousin had to battle living through each day. He killed himself eventually. But I appreciate the courage he had to prolong it for to long just because he didnt want to hurt his friends and family members.
Anytime I feel sad or flat out depressed I volunteer for something. I’ve volunteered as a literacy tutoring and soup kitchens, it helps. Believe me NOTHING gives you a self-esteem a boost like doing esteemable acts!!!
Queen is used too much among our people. It fits Regina King perfectly... Bless her and her son... This type of thing is devastating.
I had a suicide attempt when I was in my mid-20s. I'd just been released from prison, had a hard time gaining employment with a felony conviction on my back, I was in an abusive relationship with a 2nd child on the way and I felt trapped by my situation. I remember my mother coming to visit me in the hospital and she asked me if I loved her. Of course I do.
Mom: "Then why would you want to hurt me. Don't you think that I've been a good mother to you?"
Me: "Yes, ma'am."
Mom: "What's going on with you?"
Me: "Mama, I live in a whole different town with no one to help me when I need someone to listen to me, and when I try to explain what's going on, you brush me off and tell me to "man-up" and "keep moving".
I've seen her cry before, but this was the hardest I'd ever seen her cry. It's been since 2005 that I'd even thought about hurting myself like that again. I thought about how often she said that my brother and I saved her life. I also thought about her and my brother trying to move on after my death. Even when I feel like giving up, I keep moving and working because I have 4 children myself. 2 grown children and 2 babies (1 son & 3 daughters). I have a lot to live for and even though I don't have a very good relationship with their mothers (married 2wice, engaged 1nce), my children are the reasons I live today.
I'm sorry to hear about Regina King's son passing. It's hard to be a parent of a deceased child. I hope that she heals from this. Bless you, Queen.
Keep yo head up and keep progressing 💯💪🏿
Hang in there G
Glad that you are still here dear
Stop having children.
@@redsavage2141 💯
@@SuperValencia101 thank you ❤
Thank you for this ♥️ my cousin took his like this past summer.. 31 years old.. and I wonder a lot if there was something I could have done
I am 26 now and trust me. It’s almost like mid life crisis that hits you, because you think your expected to have all of these things by a certain time but honestly, that’s not how life works.
My husband says that I’m so sensitive, we’ve been together 20 years. I remember once he said to me…. I don’t want to know everything that’s on your mind, and that hurt really bad. I meditate everyday, I keep a journal of my thoughts, feelings etc. This has worked for me.
I’ve had moments where I’m bored at home, I look around, house is clean, fridge is stocked, husband’s at work( we both have jobs) sons at school, doing well, but just bored . That’s when my awareness kicks in, I know I’m not hungry, I don’t need to go shopping, I don’t need to call a friend who I know is likely to come up with some gossip. So what do I do? I sit with my thoughts, it’s uncomfortable yeah, but the answer is not drugs, alcohol or looking for attention on social media. I say all this to say that we need to develop coping skills. This world is harsh.
That’s why I ask God to help me stay sane when thinks don’t go my way… I don’t wanna lose it ..so to speak.
As far as my husband is concerned.. his words, not mine
‘ I don’t wear my emotions on my sleeve’
Men are afraid of being vulnerable, then again, sharing to much information might work against you.
Thoughts are powerful, they can make or break you.
RIP …Young man…
You’re right about sharing too much information can work against us sometimes… I recommend 2 things. 1. Get a pet. 1 of my cats is purring and forcing his body between me and the phone as I type this because he wants attention. Lol.
2. Exercise/work out. It releases energy/relieves stress.
Saw this on FB. I didn’t even know she had a son but it sucks to find out this way. I pray that her and her family get healing. Amen.
As a veteran and a Jamaican American man...i been through deep depressions that i didn't see a way out of.
Felt that it wasn't worth it
Literally the only thing that halped me was seeing the brighter sides(counting my blessings) and God.
Removing all thr people that didn't really care about me out of my life and moving forward the best way i could and now I'm the happiest i ever been in my life.
There's things i had to accept and didn't expect it to change but i have control over my life. And it's my duty to love myself because God has plans for me.
🙏🏾
...Amen!!
Nobody is special. That’s part of the problem: people are led to believe that “you” are special, that you are “here” for a reason, etc. The only purpose of life is to live. Your existence is random, and life is mostly LUCK. Good and bad. Do what every living thing is designed to do, your only purpose is to LIVE! And how well you do that is mostly LUCK! And the rest is attitude.
Martin Lawrence said they filmed around her pregnancy in certain scenes in A Thin line between love and hate because Regina was pregnant with her 1st child, Ian, and he didn't want to recast because he specifically wanted Regina for the part. Prayers to the family and I hope they can get through this because death of anyone is tough but your only child has to be heart-wrenching.
Poor ms.king... Wish her and her family well.. This sucks... No parent should lose they kid.. R.i.p
Mental Health is complicated, private and Very Personal. I feel everyone has some form of Personality Disorder, which is not as insulting as using Mental Health Disorder Labels that cause people to be secretive and defensive when dealing with their disorder. Some disorders are more severe than others, however as long as a person is responsible and independent there is no need to worry about the type of shortcomings he or she has.
Facts.. anger problems as well
Yup it’s not insulting. We need to seek help.
@@aummers6602 Thanks for sharing the information and thanks for the reply.
@@AS-so8dh Ditto. Thanks for the reply.
@@bobdollar937 You’re welcome
He seemed like a good son a good man . I hope he can rest !
Mr. Jackson. This was a good one. Thank you so much. God bless you sir! ❤️💕
Peppe the frog on the thumbnail was in poor taste
The biggest issue facing young black men today is mental health.
Nobody really care about the mental issue of a person. Folks need to check up on a person, because they are going through a personal problem they are afraid of expressing~ Wilmrbadguy
Where’s daddy, him gone affects kids for the rest of their lives. Condolences.
She recently played a movie role of a mother who lost her son which is just crazy.
Maybe it was foretelling that she was due for a sacrifice due to selling her soul for fame.
@@destroyerofsimps6574 // Right there wichu Ed... 🤔
@@destroyerofsimps6574 so everybody famous sold their soul for fame?? Help me understand this logic.
@@destroyerofsimps6574 I can't understand that stuff people always explain with selling souls. SMH!
@@destroyerofsimps6574 bruh don't come here with that bogus illuminati garbage. You making a mockery of depression no telling what this man was dealing with take it from someone who gets it . Sometimes you really just want to die to be at peace.
That's sad she lost her son. Praying for her family
Regina king represents the era when Black Women had real role models and had to have a real Talent.. Nowadays oh "I'm a Only fans IG Model" 😂
If he opened up about his feelings, I wonder how many knee jerk reactions would've been to call him soft, suss, or gay....
Sometimes it just feels like there are too many bad people in the world and I hate it.
GOD GIVE REGINA KING STRENGTH. REST IN PARADISE IAN ALEXANDER JR.
Brothas needs to get out and travel around world sometimes to see different.
Life is fragile. I don't really understand almost everything being blamed on mental health. Stronger, experienced men within the community relating and communicating with each other can be a positive. If nothing else, it helps to toughen the skin.
I once heard years ago; "if you are going through hell, don't stop, keep going".
Be strong out here and be thankful for some resistance in life. You will stronger and wiser for it.
Wise words.
still having suicidal thoughts but what can a young black man do but work and keep pushing forward. no one wants to help out people like us in this generation, we are still seen as super predators because of the actions of the few. all i know is once i get my money im getting my passport
Facts bro I’m outta here once I get my shit together.
I lost a good friend of mine 10 years ago. Until recently I felt guilty though his death has absolutely nothing to do with me. I kept saying to myself had I had been with him that night he'd be alive today. I don't know man. One thing that I realize everyday I wake up I have to look for a reason to live, to keep on going. I keep saying to myself no need to rush that day will come anyway. If not I would give up. I decide not to take my own life.
People don't know how to treat each other makes me sad I am alive today because of my children I would be locked up or dead
Find your God I wish you well🙏
Nothing you could have done
I have one child (a son) and I can't even imagine the pain and utter sorrow that his momma is going through. I know that God "lends" us these precious babies but I would ask the Lord to take me also cause I wouldn't be able to hold on
prayers to her and her family
How can you protect someone from themself?? In this world having no hope and without God
Salute to you, ODJ! I was super close to deletion when I was in my early 20's and before that at 17. I felt that I was a failure and that I was a waste of life, making mistakes and not fulfilling my potential. What I would say to all black men is that you can always turn around your life but my recommendation is for all men to take time for yourself. Part of why I stopped dating this year was to focus on career growth and mental health stability. All men should try to pray and especially meditate. My advice for my brothers is to sit down in a quiet room in your home somewhere, turn off the devices and let your mind wander. Let your mind think whatever you want and try to steer your thoughts towards understanding who you are and what you're about. Discover who you are and what makes you happy, what motivates you and what you think you can do to step forward into your own greatness. I hate to hear this level up stuff because that's not for everyone and it tends to bring those who want to exploit it around instead of those who will genuinely appreciate it and help you grow. For all who try this, please remember these 2 important guidelines (this is my own opinion based on the years of work I've done on myself).
1) You are your own person. Define who you and figure yourself out. You should never criticize yourself when you meditate, just try to understand your decisions and your life results. I like to break it down to what did I do, what did I hope would happen, what actually happened and what did I learn from the experience. As you begin to analyze your lives, you'll see that you can be your own worst enemy but some things need time to marinate as the results we seek do not always manifest instantaneously. Everyday is a new opportunity and sometimes you will get results if you are patient. God gives us things as we become ready, its not on our time.
2) This is not a quick fix. I would still advise men (and women) to see a therapist, start a journal, make a vision board and more. I started this years and years ago but I still have a long way to go. This will not cure anybody in one session or ten, maybe not even 100 sessions. The purpose is to get you to figure yourself out, learn about who you are and what you want to be about. If you are doing it correctly (in my opinion), this will be a lifelong thing but you'll find greater peace and contentment than ever before. From that contentment, happiness can grow and become a regular part of your life making it even more worthwhile.
God bless to all the men and women out there, 2022 and beyond needs to be a focus for mental health for all. You do matter, you are worth a lot and you can be great. The question is do we want to put in the work to be unhappy or do we want to put in the work to be happy?
Sometimes there isn't anything anyone can do in situations like these. People often don't tell others how they really feel or what they're struggling with deep inside. I send my condolences and prayers to Regina and her family in their time of loss.
Suicide sucks, I remember at 26, when i got tired, jaded bored of life, and felt empty and purpose less, nothing i love ( basically rapping ,video games, sex, basketball, hanging with the crew, dabbled in crime) was fun anymore, & i realize achieving my trajectory (riches & fame) wouldn't make me happy so i spent a few months wondering what to do, I said their have to be more to life than this, & just walked to the church altar 1 day & became a christian),, As a youth i was forced to goto church & catholic school cause my mom thought i needed jesus, but i didn't find him. all i did was, play sports have fun & sex on the church property, I remember spitting bars like, "goto church but aint got christ in my plans, i got girls in the back of the chrysler van, on their knees in fellowship.. (fact check, more like 1 girl in my moms corolla in church parking lot, no head either) . but this time I felt new, baptized, reformed myself, was visiting inmates in prison, overseas mission, celibate no fornications, working on gospel album,, I was even being followed by official Reebok on twitter.. I found Christian life easy, and no challenge & did not see myself falling, because i did it all before getting saved & got tired of it Then I got betrayed, poisoned so thoroughly by those supposed to be Gods ppl, the facade of Christian life came crashing down..this new life with , comprised entirely of Christian friends, & events, doing gospel shows etc, seemed fake when those u pray with & who teach u plot & poison & holiness is just a tool... once again I'm empty and didn't know what to do with myself .After isolating ,=myself from old life friends & crew, of artiste, thugs and heathens, who was incidental more loyal & true than the good godly godless new Christians i met was so far removed and still found reverting unfulfilling so I almost became an atheist, but knowing the Big Bang theory, but not what banged or who banged it, i decided to acknowledge the creator.. but never once i contemplated suicide, its a cheap shot, an easy way out. which solves nothing. tho sometimes i say to myself, if i die now i wouldn't mind, because I've live a very complete life so much so i was bored of it by age 26.. Now at age 44 I am a Christian again, because i realize that as a godless talented upcoming rapper who called himself sin or sin_ical.. the devil had plans for me & that did not change when i found god & he has never stopped & continually send a stream of ppl to invade my life & constantly accuse & judge me for my few past non consequential misdeeds, as a excuse for legal; grounds to justify his hate of Gods child. so y be suicidal or sad I owe to myself to become what God wants..remember the bible cause the devil, the accuser of the brethren...that's all he does all day, sit down & point fingers,..the devil is the ultimate snitch, but he also lures and entraps and lies....but guess what he's a defeated foe, I job didn't kill himself, why should anybody...tough times dont last..tough ppl do
An actual positive post about a black woman, I'm shocked
Not the thumbnail though…
His main interest was making sure this video was monetized. He was so consumed with the thought that he couldn’t even keep it to himself… People don’t care as much as you think bruh.
But then again why would he? These people ain’t got nothing to do with him the same way they ain’t got nothing to do with you… Everyone just wanna get paid 1st and foremost.
Strong black parents are no longer around. The parents that we have now is weak and dumbfounded. Back in the day our mothers when they see us put a fork in the wall or knife in the plug what they do they take it away but guess what it's not happening today..... these kids and young adults is taking a self out like it's a show. Stop being friends with your kids and be a parent. If they have a problem sit them down and demanded the answer interrogate your kids. Don't let them walk out that house with hatred in their heart against them self or against everybody else. Ain't no coming back once you dead you're dead your time is up you ain't coming back God and going to bring you back to apologize to your parents and when you leave this earth trust and believe me your parents won't know you were having with guess what all faces it's different in heaven no spiritual person with no the next person beside them so thank you for listening stop playing with your kids and be a parent
You got me in my feels when u said I ran to that egg against millions of sperms. That was so freaking touching. I was diagnosed with epilepsy and just always hated it. I'm glad God bought me hear. *tears*
It's true! Men in general, but specifically black men aren't allowed to voice our frustrations because we'll get called "weak" by women or pussies by other men. There aren't many outlets for men to go to where other men will show support for each other's mental hardships. People today are selfish and angry and give each the cold shoulder more than ever in our society. People will turn on you so fast. It doesn't feel good thinking that no one cares about you.
no in my opinion its the fact that what we say will be used against us
That’s true! We spoke about that on my live tonight! Some black women go HARD on a man who tries to voice his frustrations and how he feels & women have to stop that! Because if a man called us weak for our emotions we’ll be on Channel 2 news with pitchforks & fires.
Why not go to therapy? There are outlets but bm won't use them.
@@ashasun6620 We still have to live life... and that means dealing with abusive people... Therapy doesn't remove hatred. It might can help you deal with it... but we still need to speak out against the hatred, especially when it's based on LIES.
@@TheMelanatingBee Could we go a day without gender warring? smh. I’ve been called weak for being sensitive. I’ve been yelled at and belittled because if it actually. I’m a bw im supposed to be strong is what I was told. This is an issue we have to address with more than finger pointing. There’s something deeply broken in this community and a lot of our people are in pain
We Men must be there for our Brothers. Talk to each other. Be available when the phone rings. Every young man needs a man and a mentor that can provide advice, or just be a listening ear. Everybody needs somebody.
It breaks my heart when someone feels so alone that they feel that deleting themselves is the only answer. All this alpha male shit and the people who try to emasculate men for expressing fear or despair are despicable human beings. Everyone has value and we need to let people be who they are. My first boyfriend looked like a biker- built like a brick dunny, shaved head and tattoos. He didn't have a mean bone in his body and did not hide his emotions. That made him no less of a man in my eyes - just human..
People who used that Alpha male talking points don’t even realize Alpha male doesn’t Mean stronger than Beta is not weaker male in the pack the Alpha has to make considerable decisions for the safety of Everyone including other males in wolf pack he can not always strike or beat his chest out of anger some days he has to cower or rest than the Beta is second in command these fools don’t know even alpha needs healing an peace of mind an can not always demand it he chooses his battles wisely
@@Aboriginal_American_Hebrew Great point.
Sir he was the CEO of Marta, that is Metro Atlanta Rapid Transit Authority, he made 250k a year and was worth a 1mill an luv by the community and not hated by the employees, which means 💰 and leadership don't fix your core issue...you gotta addresses them head on...💯
You are absolutely right
“But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,”
2 Timothy 3:1-4 ESV
I'm a fan of the page but the thumbnail seemed kinda tacky. Her son killed himself. We gotta be sensitive and respectful of this situation n the crying frog seemed unnecessary for this.
He doesn’t care about that..it’s about views =$$$
Know we do need to talk more about mental health especially for men because they think they need to stay strong and not show emotions. And because of that lots of men commit suicide this is sad I'm a strong female always had been and believe me it's a hard pill to swallow knowing I needed help And I'm sure have it worse acknowledging theo need help because women will think there weak and this is why we need to let men know it's okay to seek help when things get overwhelming
I don't think oshay made it. He works with a team.
@@Atlstreetpodcast2.0 he probably does work with a team. They just gotta be better with how they thumbnail certain videos
Yup I Appreciate Your Spirituality etc's it's like when Content Creator's or CZcamsrs talk about Deaths & Ask You to Click the Thumbs Up or Subscribe it's Craziness To Me absolutely Craziness When i 1st saw that Frog i Shook my Head
When my son died nobody I mean NOBODY black gave a shit and yeah I had 2 suicide attempts.its been almost ten years since then and I'm much better but man it would've been nice to have someone black to understand and tell me something good which is what I needed at the time.i appreciate this brother
I’m very sorry for your loss, king 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@BriaBarrows I greatly appreciate that✊🏿✊🏿
That is an excellent commentary 👏..KEEP ON KEEPING ON!!
So great of you to take time to put out this very special video. Thank you.
that "What if" path is a slippery slope. You cant change the past and it only makes you have emotions of regret and grief move forward and live your life to the fullest.
That thumbnail ain’t right.
The best gift you can give to a person is to not birth them into this cruel world
Honestly I needed this message from you so much. I appreciate you Oshay.
Sad to hear! Gotta wonder what is the cause of mental health issues and these in-balances of the brain. Is it hereditary, caused by the food we eat or societal? If someone just lived off in the forest away from society what are the chances of experiencing mental health issues?
Rip to Ian man. And you right the black community’s conversation around mental health isn’t very healthy. Being strong includes being able to express emotions at certain points in time.Hopefully it will improve
thank you Big Homie Oshay. this is good words of aforemention. and the story is so sad.
That's fucked up man, she actually a solid sister, hate that happened to her rest easy homie 🙏🏿
Peace to you ODJ. Brotha, the wisdom, love, information and encouragement you bring is priceless. You should be proud of yourself. You are bringing real value and you deserve everything good that comes your way!
Ironically that question gives people comfort. "What could I have done?". People don't want to accept the truth. The truth is that many times there is nothing we could have done. As long as we believe that there was something we could have done, we don't have to accept that we are often powerless.
Well said Oshay 🙌🏾. “Gentlemen, you are NEEDED… Keep on, keepin’ on!” 👊🏾🙏🏾
Is it me, or does it seem like we black folks were and are happier when we're broke?
I'm not saying we need to normalize that but, man there's a stark difference in levels of happiness.
It’s just a grain of sand man… You can’t let this situation paint the picture for what all people with money are like. Same way this family don’t necessarily got anything in common with yours simply because both of you are black.
I hate to break it to you, but odds are you have absolutely nothing in common with those people.
I have always loved ms king ever since she was on 227. She is a well respected actress and women in my eyes. I didnt even know she had a son. I am so sorry for her loss, I'm sure he was a big part of the reason she kept going on. I'm so sad for her. I hope that she can keep herself together. RIP to her son.
Such a talented actress .Know her more as the voice of Huey and Riley in the boondocks
So sad to hear this .
This is such a heavy burden to deal with, for people dealing with Mental Health issues. Especially, for the loved ones. And, it's doubly worse for the black community, specifically, men!
I really do feel for her. May her son rest in Paradise, and may she find the healing she needs.
During his age I was borderline alcoholic due to unresolved depression. I feel for our brothers not treating mental issues SMH. Sad as all hell man.
When you have depression, it can be really hard even with medicine (which can make it worse) and therapy. I was clinically diagnosed at 12 and struggle to this day at 30.
At times, it seems like the only logical decision to make when it seems like there is nothing else you can do that can solve life’s problems.
This hurts to see. Regina King is such a great actress and I send my love and condolences to her and her family.
At 12!? Wow.. I hope it at least got better for you as you got older.
@@BRight298 Thank you.
I lost my mother when I was 11, so it went downhill pretty quickly .
It also runs in my family.
In my case, I’d say it easier to cope with as an adult. Therapy helps a lot.
Why is it that some of the most successful and privileged people have some of the most messed up kids?🤦♂️
Maybe because their successful parents aren’t the nice wholesome people that they portray themselves to be… Sometimes you reap what you sow.
I am pretty sure he was in therapy. May God have Mercy on his family. Let's normalize therapy for men. Oshay is right about that.
Mothers are emotionally crippling their sons through son-husbands relationship. After her divorce she said she pulled her son closer to her to cope emotionally with the breakup. The real question is whether this would have happened if she gave 100% custody to her ex. All research shows men raising sons are more successful vs those raised by single mothers.
Wow, only the weakest men on this planet will blame a mother for the loss of a child.
@@SmithandWessonismyprotection exactly my point.
I remember he son saying Malcom Jamal Warner was like his father. And then Regina King Split with Warner who was his main male rolemodel. Boys need a stable father figure to mold them into the strong men they are meant to be.
No diss to Regina King, nothing but heart felt sympathy.
Malcom dumped Regina so what's your point?
@@kisha4040 Boys need men in their life, thats the point.
Thumbnail is a bit insensitive, my friend.
Needed this right now Gshit big bruh. I’m feeling at a low point in my life rn... I appreciate you and this video. Keep on keepin on
One of the deans at my alma mater just took his own life last weekend. It's such as shock because he was always someone anyone could talk to if they needed help. It's always a shame having to look back and wonder what was wrong, and why existing was such a burden on them in the end even though they appeared to be a beacon of positivity.
The spirit of suicide has been circulating around. It’s important to check up on your folks. Jesus is King 🙏🏾 I pray that you experience the Lord and my deepest condolences to everyone!
This is starting to become a slight problem for the young black youth in black community not just men the young girls too stay prayed up put it in God's hands they have some youth counselors within the black churches that are very good sometimes we have to reach out and get the help we need not all churches are bad!
Thank you sir I really needed to hear this and I don't know you personally but through your voice it seems as if you are a good dude keep up the good work
RIP. So sad. Very painful for all. It’s hard to believe but not everyone considers life a gift. It can be painful for many reasons. We must remember that no child asks to be born. Life is imposed on us all.
It's definitely NOT a gift. It's a burden forced on all of us without consent.
Oshay is spot on! People don't understand what men are going through. Whenever we express our feelings and frustrations with life and other things we are going through, we get labelled 'simps'.
We men get the wrong end of the stick!
when i feel like crap and not soo happy (which is rare), i know im put here to spread the GOSPEL, to be a willing slave for Jesus cuz he wants me to be happy. the short time we have here is NOTHING in comparison to the infinite one he can give us thru his Love & Grace
She is one of the greatest of all time. Boondocks, Boyz N da hood, 227
Rest in power black man. I’m sorry for your loss.
She didn’t deserve this. Rest In Peace to her son.
Parent's nightmare. RIP to that young man, and may God be of comfort to his parents. 🕊🙏
Rip to this young man 🙏🏿😞
I remember going through this many years. I don't know how I managed it but I kept talking to myself that things will be better, have faith and ask God to guide me.
Once again rip 🙏🏿😢 and my condolences to Regina King.
I know as black men, it's difficult talking about mental issues, as if it is taboo to even talk about it. But, it is never wrong to acknowledge that you have a problem, and to seek out help.