recurrent miscarriage | fertility testing•what I changed•pregnancy after loss
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- čas přidán 18. 10. 2022
- Thanks for watching y’all🤍 this was all over the place but wanted to share our recurrent loss story. Constantly praying for those hoping for a baby or walking through loss. It’s not easy. I’m always open to chat on DMs on Instagram🤍 feeling so much better and excited to get back to my normal content !
Im so happy you’re expecting your rainbow!! Also, I want to thank you for being so open with your recurrent losses. As a person who has also experienced these losses, its so isolating and so heartbreaking. I experienced my second loss back in March and being able to see someone who I have been watching for awhile speak so openly about it, has been really great. It is such an isolating experience and I am so sorry you have gone through it. I hope the rest of this pregnancy goes smoothly and I can not wait to see you be a mom of 2!!
Missed your videos so much! So happy you’re pregnant!! Praying for you and this sweet baby!
So glad to see you back!! I am also pregnant currently, just had my 20 week anatomy scan yesterday! I am looking forward to following along with your pregnancy since our due dates aren’t too far apart! Also, I totally get what you said about losing your appetite after having your first son. I didn’t even know that was a thing until it happened to me!!! Blessings to you!!!!
So glad you’re feeling more like yourself, praise God! Continually praying for you, your husband, Wilson and baby girl 💓🫶🏻
Sending you prayers and lots of excitement for you! This is such “only God” timing. I commented on your video after your second loss sending encouragement, as I also had 2 losses and was currently pregnant. I lost that baby at 12 weeks in February. We just experienced miscarriage #4 at 12 weeks 3 days a few weeks ago and I’m beside myself. I also have 2 other kids and all of my testing has come back “unexplained” and no answers. I would love to listen to your video on trusting God through this because my faith is so shattered. Nothing compares to losing a baby and multiple times is so rare and feels so lonely. Thank you for speaking out about this ❤️🩹
The Lord Is close to the broken hearted
always!Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable. Praying for your heart and mind through your current pregnancy. 💖
❤❤❤ you’re a beautiful woman inside and out. Thank you for sharing as it helps others who are going through the same thing. I am a grandmother now, but had a tough time after my first pregnancy. Way before a lot of these home kits. Sending positive thoughts to you and your lovely family.
So so happy for you and so glad you're back!!
You truly are amazing and I hope you start to feel better soon! Congrats on your pregnancy and thank you for sharing your journey. 🤗❤️
Congratulations to you hon. Best of luck on your journey. Will keep you in my prayers!
Yes please keep sharing on YT I don’t have Instagram so I had no clue but was curious how you were doing ❤ Congratulations on your pregnancy
So glad you back. I’m so happy you’re pregnant
Soo happy for you
Welcome back ❤️
Greer, I can’t even imagine how difficult going through several miscarriages must have been for you, I am happy God held you by the hand during that difficult time and you are now carrying a healthy baby girl 💛 I too had a easy smooth pregnancy with my first daughter and we will be trying to conceive again and hearing your story just makes it very scary to realize how different each pregnancy can be. All we can do is lean on God and trust him. Many blessings to you and your baby girl and family! Xoxo
I’m so happy for you! You have no idea how sad I was when you posted that video of your first miscarriage. I am 16 weeks pregnant with my second and I am so glad I randomly had the urge to check up on you. We are going to be having our second babies together! ❤❤❤❤ Also, I too thought my current 15 week bump looks like my previous 20 week bump 😂
Aww happy for y’all ❤ I was just thinking of you the other day and looked to see if you had posted recently and I missed it!
you look so glowy though! I've been hoping soo hard for happiness for you since the first loss ❤️❤️
I really appreciated this video. I just had my second miscarriage this year, last week. I was 11 and a half weeks and it was so heartbreaking. We have been trying for our 3rd baby here on earth for over a year now and it is so hard. I used to get pregnant so easily. I pray your pregnancy continues to go well. ❤️
I’m so happy you’re back!! And SO happy you’re pregnant with baby girl!! Praise Jesus!!💕🥳
I’m pregnant with my IVF miracle. Infertility and/or RL trauma can stick with you. Therapy has really helped but I’ve had to also accept that this experience has changed me. So happy about your current pregnancy! All the luck to you!
IVF isn’t a “miracle”. It’s a sin.
Techniques that entail the dissociation of husband and wife, by the intrusion of a person other than the couple (donation of sperm or ovum, surrogate uterus), are gravely immoral. These techniques (heterologous artificial insemination and fertilization) infringe the child’s right to be born of a father and mother known to him and bound to each other by marriage. They betray the spouses’ “right to become a father and a mother only through each other.” (CCC 2376)
So happy for your happy ending! ❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations!! Praise God and bless you.
So happy for you🫶✨ i came across your video while looking for answers as i just experienced my 2nd miss carriage at 5 weeks. 🥺 I’m lost idk if to continue trying or look for help.
I’m so sorry for your losses. 💔
So happy for you! If you don’t mind, can you give tips on what you did to gain weight? I have always struggled in this area and would love some tips of what worked!
I’ve been dealing with this for 1.5 years and might finally have some answers/treatment. I also get pregnant decently fast but have lost 4 so far. Thank you for sharing!
How did things go for you? ❤️
I'm so glad I found your video. I walked through 5 losses since November 2022, after becoming pregnant with my daughter in one shot in 2020. I'm confused and tired and so so sad. I pray I get my rainbow baby too.
Oh my goodness girl I'm so happy for you! I am going through a similar situation I miscarried in December and had a chemical pregnancy, now I'm 9dpo and have had four faint positive pregnancy tests. I am 9dpo and have to wait a couple more days to get the BFS.🙏 Thank you for sharing your story it helps 💗 congratulations 🎉👏
Hi . How are you doing ? Did you get your bfp that cycle ? Plz uodate
Our story of the last year is so similar. I’ve had 3 losses this year. I’ve have 8 total over the last 9 years. I’m also on 25mg of levothyroxine now, and baby aspirin. Im not pregnant yet, but if/when I am I’ll be going on lovenox and progesterone as well. I was on the progesterone and aspirin the last pregnancy and it didn’t help. But we are at the “kitchen sink method” at this point. Because all of my blood work is normal and so was my shg. Thyroid was 4.26 last time, lowest I’ve gotten it completely natural ways is 2.98. I also lost a lot of weight because of it all. But have been working hard at that. I’m sending you hugs for your losses and prayers for peace and the health of this new baby. Thank you for sharing. This gives me hope. He is sovereign and in control. In my darkest and hardest moments he is sustaining me. ❤
Hi. I watched this video n your comment today. I am going through same phase of life. Experiencing MC is soul crushing! Can you tell that how do we know that we need baby aspirin. I m having recurrent mc. And drs are saying that now they will try to find out the reason. Did you get any blood test done ? Plz if you cal tell what treatment you got? Did you get pregnant after that if you dont mind me asking plz 5:46
A few minutes ago I was wondering how you were doing and just saw this vid. I'm happy for you. I recently had a miscarriage..my first pregnancy ever..
Me too. I’m so sorry for your loss.
I’m happy to hear UR back
Keep the FAITH
God is in CONTROL
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I'm so happy for you! I've checked your channel several times waiting for this news. I've been on a similar journey and have had 2 losses. We are finally pregnant with a healthy baby girl and due in Feb as well ❤️ Congrats!!
Hi, just curious if you did anything different? We’re they chemicals?
@@Nikki-nf1ci They were not chemical. One I miscarried at home and one I had to have a d&c.
My OB really cared and tried to find a cause, and after a couple of procedures and an exploratory surgery- no answers.
I ended up finding a naturopath and realized I had a tapeworm (destroys gut health and basically steals all of your nurtrients) and other parasites (a decade of missions trips to third world countries). I had to detox those.
Also found I had issues with Lyme and co-infections of bartonella and epstein barr virus. Plus, as a by product of all of that- I had horrible overgrowth of candida specifically in my reproductive organs.
Basically, I was a mess! Under her care I went through multiple detoxes and Lyme treatment for 7 months.
2 weeks after ending detox/Lyme treatment I was pregnant and we weren't even trying. I had really given up hope at that point so it was an amazing surprise.
I do have to say, I am a person of faith and I prayed continually that God would bring healing. I feel he led me to the naturopath and also brought healing to any gaps the protocol left.
Sorry, that's a long answer, but its been years of trying and loss and finally answers. We are now about a month out from delivery and everything has been a good report so far and expecting a healthy baby girl.
@@haleybullard8500 oh wow that is a lot. Sounds like an amazing doctor! So happy for you!!
I had a loss at barley 5 weeks a few months ago and this month another but if I didn’t test early I wouldn’t have known cause my period started on time. But it has me worried if this is a cause for concerned so waiting to see my OB
@@Nikki-nf1ci so what are you testing? Just had my 2nd miscarriage as well
@@annamilenamariani3751 I did pregnancy test. If I had another miscarriage my OB was going to run clotting tests. Right after my chemical I got pregnant again. Currently 11 weeks. Been a bit bumpy cause I have a hematoma in there but praying for a good outcome.
I would love to hear you talk about your faith and how it got you through because that's how I've gotten through I know it without my Faith dear to my heart, idk what I would have done🙏💗
New subbie! Congratulations. I'll be 10 weeks on Saturday. I had three losses prior to this one. Had to see a Reproductive Immunologist to get my sticky bean.
How did you find a reproductive immunologist? I need to do this.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I had 3 early miscarriages and after my third miscarriage went in for further testing and they saw I had a uterine septum. I had surgery to have it removed and got pregnant a few months later and carried to term. I just had an early miscarriage last week and felt so sad again. I'm doing much better now. It is in God's timing and giving this to Him has helped me so much
I had 6 misscarriage...what test you do ?
It's called a hysteroscopy
How big was your septum?
@@jessicaharrison4099It was fairly large. I'm going to have another one done soon to see if there is any leftover
did u hear heartbeats in previous 3 losses
Praying that everything goes good for you so happy that you are having a second child pray for my daughter she is wanting a baby she only got pregnant one time and she lost it and she's not ever been able to have any other ones she's 33 and she wants a baby so bad and she don't understand why God will not give her one please pray for her name is Tasha and the sad thing is is my husband and I right now have a kinship baby that is 5 months old we have had her for 3 months and her mom just informed us that she's 3 months pregnant again she was addicted to meth
I’ve struggled with recurrent loss as well. I got pregnant with my first three children so easily. Then I lost my son, Darcy, at 15 weeks. My daughter, Liesl that same year at 14 weeks. Then my son, Theodore, at 14 weeks. They’ve found some possible reasons as to why I lost them, but they don’t know for sure. I do have an MTHFR mutation and PAI, but I was on blood thinner injections with Theodore (and progesterone injections) and still lost him. With all three I was induced and delivered them. They were all perfect. ❤❤❤ I then this past spring had exploratory surgery and it was discovered I had stage 1 endometriosis. There were a few different spots removed. We thought after Theodore we’d for sure be done, but now we’re considering trying again soon with a slightly different protocol. Everything we went through was so heartbreaking and traumatic, so the thought of doing that again is scary. But I also think we’d regret not trying again. Send prayers our way if you happen to see this. ❤
So sorry for your losses ❤️
I found your miscarriage video from 8 months ago and was so happy but also mournful for you to see this latest video.
In August I miscarried our 2nd child. He or She was only 6 weeks when he/she passed and I didn't find out until I was 9 weeks. I didn't actively miscarry until 11 weeks. Hitting the 12 week mark not* pregnant was such a crushing, helpless feeling.
We just tried for my first cycle back to normal, got a negative and I got my menstrual cycle. So we'll be trying again... very sad and paranoid about our ability to conceive. I'll be following your story from here on out 🙏🏻
Similar story here.. Hitting that 12 week mark being pregnant but not really pregnant anymore crushed me..
Saying a prayer right now that God will give you both a child! Praying in faith 💞💞
Wow we have such similar stories! My first pregnancy, my daughter, was a surprise pregnancy, super smooth pregnancy and birth. A few years later (last fall) I got pregnant by surprise again but sadly lost the baby in December at 11.5 weeks. I’ve since had 3 chemical pregnancies and a 6 week miscarriage, now trying to conceive again and on cycle 3 now with no positives. Praying for our rainbow too. Congratulations on yours! ☺️
How many losses in total if I may ask?
@@brendabenitez7359 5 total
@@brendabenitez7359 but currently almost 12 weeks pregnant! 🤞🏻🌈
Did you have your baby?
I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks the very end of July. I am pregnant again (4 weeks) I am surprised it happened again so quickly but I don’t want to get my hopes up. I just want to fast forward to 4 months to see where I am. I just don’t know. I was so empty after I lost the baby. I felt empty.
I miscarried on November 8th of 2022 😢at almost 9 weeks. Worst thing ever. Then I had 2 extremely long cycles & then I got pregnant the end of February & got positives for a week & then went negative and I started bleeding. So here we are now & I'm ovulating normally at CD 15 & I'm hoping I'll get pregnant & keep this baby.
Hi Greer, I’m in a similar situation. Had a first pregnancy that was perfect in every way but now it’s been 7 months of trying to get pregnant and just had a chemical pregnancy. It’s been so hard to process and understand. Then the women in life have been so absent and really unsupportive with my miscarriage. Which is so lonely. My doctor is putting me on 200mg of bio identical progesterone cream and I’m really praying that works.
any luck? similar here, pregnant with my daughter after our first try, stopped breastfeeding in february after 12 months and now had 4 consecutive chemicals!
Oh Greer!! Thank you so much for sharing the hard aspects of life. You are amazing and God is using you on this platform. Praise Jesus for a healthy pregnancy! I’m a nurse at a prenatal and fertility clinic that specializes in recurrent miscarriage and progesterone supplementation including progesterone injections and recurrent loss testing for genetic blood clotting disorders such as MTHFR, PAI and factor 5. If you ever are interested, please reach out to me! I’m so happy that you have gotten the care you needed for this pregnancy 😭🤍
How old were you dear when you had a successful pregnancy after recurrent miscarriages?
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I’ve lost 5 consecutive miscarriages in less than 2 years. I still don’t know why. I’m just blaming it on my age, I’m 38. Just like you I get pregnant easily but I just can’t retain them. I’ve clenched my fist at God and asked why . I don’t even know how to pray anymore or continue to ask him for the same thing. I’ve ran out of words.
How long was your journey for and how many losses?
I’m so, so sorry for your losses. I’m praying right now, in faith, that God will give you a child!
I’m so sorry to hear about all your loss. I just had my 3rd missed miscarriage. I’m 12 weeks and 2 days exactly today and I’ve miscarried my baby at home on my own without any support. Only pain reliever was my 3 year old son who was having his dinner while I was having horrendous contractions like crams. He was giving me cuddles when I was having my contractions. Your situation is so similar to mine. I can easily get pregnant but to retain it so hard. Baby stops growing around 6 weeks but my body doesn’t pick up until I’m 11/ 12 weeks. It’s so so sad. I’m coming from a very religious family. But after all of these miscarriages happen within 2years, I don’t know what to ask from God or how to pray anymore. I know deep down god has better plans but it’s so hard to admit. I totally get where you coming from. Also I blame on my age too. I’m 39 years old. Going to be 40 in March. It’s so heartbreaking. It doesn’t matter how many miscarriage you went through or how many weeks you were pregnant when you had your miscarriage you still lost your baby and you’ve lost a part of you. I wish I could give you a hug. I’m sure you will hold a beautiful baby in your hands very soon. Sending a big hug 🤗
@@sheyferdinando thank you so much! Your not alone. I’m going through the same pain ❤️
@@Baileyroberson Thank you so much Bailey. All prayers are welcome.
@@sheyferdinando Thank you Shey. I’ve been through so much grieving from the loss and my dream, along with age shaming, so I’ve even grieved my youth. I remember hating my 37th birthday and my 38th too because i knew it was getting harder as years passed. I don’t want to hate my body. I’m trying to fight it. Lose weight, trying to push forward. The worst part in all this is that many people don’t understand what I am going through unless they’ve been through it. I also have other kids. Never in a million years did I think I would go through this. I’m even struggling when I see other pregnant women. It’s so unfair and heartbreaking. I’m like why not me. What have I done? I’m a good mom. I can raise a good person for this world. Infertility is so unfair. I’ve had 3 losses in 2021. 2 losses in 2022. God knows what will become of me in 2023. I keep looking for stories of hope from other women that have gotten their rainbow baby just to encourage myself and keep holding on to a little bit of hope because I just don’t see it. This journey has made me doubt God at times. I know we are suppose to want after his heart but how can he take away what I most want in this life. All I want to do is give love and be a mother. It’s a hard pill to swallow and I haven’t found my peace yet in accepting that maybe this might not in the cards for me. As of right now I am not ready to walk away, all I can do is pray even though I’ve run out of words because it’s out of my control. What can we do? I continue to thank God for still haven’t my organs and my period. If I didn’t have those then it’s really a dead end for me but as long as I have them I continue to have faith that maybe my God will have mercy and change things around for me and my family. My losses have been devastating and so sad. I only got to hear a heart beat with my first loss. It was a boy, we were going to name him Jason, and at 15 weeks he no longer had a heart beat so I had to have a D&C. After him it’s just been no heartbeats or empty sacs and I end up miscarrying them at 11 weeks too. I tried twice with that Misoprostol pill, the first time I hugged my son all night as I cramped and lost my baby all night. The second time I bleed out. It was traumatizing! Blood everywhere I say, blood on my legs, through my clothes, it looked like a massacre. It was the worst thing that could ever happen to me. I remember grabbing the pieces of blood clot and telling it goodbye through tears and just laying on the bathroom floor crying inconsolably. My heart goes out to every woman who has experienced this. I understand your pain and your fears. Hopefully our stories end with a happy ending so we can help others through this pain. Shey I pray that the blood of Jesus covers both of us and protects us from the spirit of infertility. God is the maker of life. He gives life. He didn’t even want to be apart from his children and made a way for us to be with him so in my mind it is so hard to believe that such a loving God can want this for us. I send you a big hug and tears with it girl because I feel your pain. I see you ❤️ 🤗
My first miscarriage happened on mother's day
Greer have you tried reintroducing red meat into your diet? I would look into the podcast freely rooted by kori melody. She had endometriosis and was able to reverse it and conceive! Anyway, just a thought....
I thought u can show a positive on a pregnancy test after miscarriage for up to 6 weeks after? Some of those times could of been that.
Has your partner had his sperm/semen analyzed? 40% is female however 40 % is also male factors (sperm quality and dna abnormalities ie shape) the other 20% is male/female combined. You will get pregnant but if it’s not healthy sperm your body will reject the pregnancy
I haven’t even watched yet but PRAISE GOD! I have been waiting on this video! 🥹
Love and prayers.🍂🤎 Listen to the message by David Gibbs, “ the secret place.” It’s so good.😍
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