Wow. Your txiv ntxawm really cares about you to tell you his experience to prevent you from the same stupidity. You owe him. He's truly the one who has your back. And you better never take your wife for granted again. Appreciate and love the one you've been with from the beginning, the one who you got as a young, hot babe who grew old with you. No one else will compare, ok? She's truly yours, she's your nkauj txhav qaib. Be committed and stay with her until death parts you. Chose love, commitment, and integruty over temptation. Good luck.
Totally agree. If Hmong women would toughen up---emotionally and mentally---and make it very clear that infidelity is NOT acceptable, then Hmong men would think twice before cheating and disrespecting us. After all, if a man knows that if he cheats, he risks losing it all, he will likely not cheat unless he's truly done with the marriage.
A secret to life is "Don't Cheat". It so important that you should vow to yourself and help your partner to see the same. Cheating has far wider implications some with deadly consequences. And even on the small things, in repetition, it can grow into a big problem and out of control. That little bit of advantage is not worth the potential danger. Don't cheat.
Nrog tus siab rau peb cov poj niam hmong uas raug cov txiv siab phem li no ua neej qi muag nti vim peb hlub thiab tiv thaiv peb cov me nyuam li no thiaj uv txiv neej txog hnub tuag xwb os
Honestly, I'm tired of these stories. Let's hear those stories where people have good morals/ethics. These people need to share their success story and how they went about it.
Ua tsaug ntau2 Zaj no mas yuav ua ib txoj kev kawm rau cov xav xav ua yawg nrauj kawg, tab sis yog yus txawm yuav hlub thiab pab tus poj niam npaum twg los nws yuav khiav kom dim ntawm yus mus xwb2 ces lam ua ib siab lam ua yawg nrauj kiag xwb. Hehehehe
Like I always say: When a couple divorces, dies or ends a relationship, it doesn't mean the end. It just means a new beginning with a new and better person.
This is why I hate Hmong religion smh… when the guy cheat everyone says let it go. When he wants to divorce the wife he is right and everyone blames the wife. But when the wife wants to divorce the husband because of infidelity everyone says she’s the one cheating
I agree with you 100%! They got too much privilege and pride they treat women like property, not a wife. They don’t accept equal rights and they certainly don’t side with the women when he’s wrong.
Koj tus Pojniam tsi qias dub, Tabsis Koj Yog tus qias dub, vim Koj tsi tau muab Koj cov Nyiaj rau koj tus Pojniam khaws Kia, Koj tus Pojniam Koj tsi hlub, Koj cov menyuam kiag Koj twb hlub Kuv tsi tuaj Koj Tog,
You're so lucky your wife took you back, mister. I hope from here on forward, you so pour love to her. You will SHOW her how much you love and appreciate her. She deserves it. You suck for all the pain you caused her. Good luck, mister. Wise words at the end.
Thank you for the life lesson brother. You’re a true and brave to share you’re life story. I hope you will be true to your wife and family. Most of all you need to be true to yourself.
Ca txiv neej nyiam cov poj niam zoo nkauj xb ta si ho tsi kam yuav mev kam lo yu tha yu yuav ma ho ce yu thb xav tau poj niam zoo ta si tsi kam siv nyiaj li e tsi paub nej cov tab si kuv tu ce nyiam kom kuv zoo tab si tsi pub siv nyiaj zoo li no xb xyov yuav ua ca
👏 👏 👏 👏 so proud of him..proud of a man finally admitted his mistake n wrong doing....this brother or uncle here since u admitted ur wrong doing ur life will be glowing again..I agree ntiaj teb no leej twg yuav kawm txawj kawm ntse yuav xav li cas los yeej tsis cuag ib tus person ua have experience....no matter how much we talk how much we think how much we say is different from what we experience it..
Once you cheat you always guna cheat. Maybe not the same but you will. Dont need to be giving advice as if men guna take any advice when they wanna cheat, they funa cheat. Easiest advice out ther for hmoob women. Hmoob women need to start realizing that hmoob men aint want a house wife ok.
If I was his uncle I would tell him to divorce his wife and marry her. Life would be easy for him to find another good wife. So hard to find a truthful responsibility caring person.
One lucky bad ass man. This shows that women are more forgivable then man's and we love our marriage and treasure once we find the one to spend our lives with. Sister, I would have divorced him and took care of the kids alone. Who's need an unclean man like him. If you cheat for sure, he already put you in the trash can. We live in the 21th century, don't live in the past.
Men don't deserve good women. They deserve women who treat like dirt. This woman deserves to be loved, and this man is lucky that she gave him a second chance.
Thaum kuv tus txiv tham ib niag poj nrauj es ua ib yam li no nyob rauv pem twv txiaj thiab ua nws pluag tag nrho thiab ces npam kiag lub niag neej puas tag thiab
Those kids must be stupid wasting time and money to go to court over their parent's house. Don't they know that the wife, even if it's a new wife, has more authority over their father and their father's assets than the kids? When your mother dies or divorce and your father remarries, even if she's a nkauj mos ab, everything that's in your father's name belongs to the new wife by default. When your father dies, it goes to her, not the kids (unless it's under the kids name or his Will states that it goes to the kids). In US law, it's not kwvtij, it's not the children who decides the fate of their father and his assets. When your father is on life support. The wife, even if she's a new wife, has the final say... not like Hmong where women has no say. So the tens of thousands of Hmong American kids whose fathers divorce their mother for a nkauj mos ab, unless the wife is smart enough to take everything, everything will go to the nkauj mos ab when your father dies... even if it's just a divorce, if the nkauj mos ab is smart, she can go to court and get everything like the house, car, cash, 401k, social security (if he died), etc... plus the added bonus of alimony and child support. So everything that your father and mother worked so hard all their lives for goes to the nkauj mos ab who didn't even make a single contribution. Niam mos ab already won the lottery by getting a free ticket to the US and a free green card. Now niam mos ab will also get everything that belongs to your mother and father. So I don't know why some kids and some 1st wives help their father/husband get a nkauj mos ab. Then again, the kids and definitely the husband doesn't care as long as he gets his nkauj mos ab so to hell with it.
Wow, your wife must love you lots to endured all your evil doings… you are a very lucky dude. You are one of those examples of what us women are afraid to encounter. But anyway thanks for sharing your story for those cheaters like you to redeem themselves and for those who think to cheat to come to their senses.
I have no pity for men like these in general. These neej tsa can take that pathetic advice and shove it. They aren’t the ones married to him! They’re not the ones suffering. She’s better off without him.
I agreed. I don't understand why these neej tsa still practice this mentality. We're in the US, we dont need a man to complete us, especially evil man like this one
Wow. Your txiv ntxawm really cares about you to tell you his experience to prevent you from the same stupidity. You owe him. He's truly the one who has your back. And you better never take your wife for granted again. Appreciate and love the one you've been with from the beginning, the one who you got as a young, hot babe who grew old with you. No one else will compare, ok? She's truly yours, she's your nkauj txhav qaib. Be committed and stay with her until death parts you. Chose love, commitment, and integruty over temptation. Good luck.
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Kuv yog koj txiv ntxawm ces pha kom koj kav tsij muab nrauj ruag ruag mus, kuv yuav los yuav nws mus ua poj niam...
Tub yog txiv ntawn tseem zoo lo mas😂
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Wow koj yuav luag plam koj thooj kub os! Zoo kawg uas koj tus niam tsev tseem kam yuav koj os!
Couldn’t be any more wise words than one who has the experience!
Ua tsaug uas koj Yog ib tus txiv neej lo qhia qhov tseeb ntawm nej cov txiv neej siab phem thiab ua tsaug rau koj tus txiv ntxawm siab zoo pab koj thiaj muaj hnub no
Twb hais tias tsis hlub lawm tiam sis hos txawj khib thiab... Ua neeg nyob, txhob pheej tos2 luag tej qhia yus yus mas li paub mas. Koj yog ib tug txiv neej muaj hmoo heev, koj yuav luag plam koj thooj kub tiag. Nco ntsoov tias pojniam zoo tsis txaus txiv neej yuav. Lwj liam li koj, koj twb tau ib tug poj nrauj dog dig, koj tsis xav tias leejtwg thiaj li ntshaw poj niam zoo li koj tug. Txhua tus txiv neej ntshaw mog. Hlub nws kom pauj koj tej kev phem dhau los nawb
This is the thing I don't understand about hmong men. Money to drink party bet football date and etc, but no money to support his kids.
Yeah it true my ex do that to cheap and drink player and with a lot guys player too
Best advice: "Hais koj tsis mloog. Koj nrauj tag ces kuv yuav yuav vim koj tus pojniam zoo."
Cas hais tau rau kuv mob siab tas tas li, peb poj niam hmoob siab zoo dhau lawm es txiv neej hmoob saib tsis taus thiab tsis hlub peb li
Totally agree. If Hmong women would toughen up---emotionally and mentally---and make it very clear that infidelity is NOT acceptable, then Hmong men would think twice before cheating and disrespecting us. After all, if a man knows that if he cheats, he risks losing it all, he will likely not cheat unless he's truly done with the marriage.
Some of us are too faithful and loyal to our husband! This can be a flaw bc we end up suffering too much.
@@maolee8152 agreed 💯
@@PM-oe5mk I am totally agreeing with you 💯
A secret to life is "Don't Cheat". It so important that you should vow to yourself and help your partner to see the same. Cheating has far wider implications some with deadly consequences. And even on the small things, in repetition, it can grow into a big problem and out of control. That little bit of advantage is not worth the potential danger. Don't cheat.
Zoo siab nrog koj nawj tus txiv tsev txawm koj ua tsis yog los koj kuj txawj thim xav zoo siab nrog neb os leej twg yeej txawj yuam kev tab thov kom rov thim xav es txhob ua ntxiv lawm xwb
Nrog tus siab rau peb cov poj niam hmong uas raug cov txiv siab phem li no ua neej qi muag nti vim peb hlub thiab tiv thaiv peb cov me nyuam li no thiaj uv txiv neej txog hnub tuag xwb os
Cov niag txiv neej liam phem li no yeej tsis paub nws kev txhaum!! Yog kuv los kuv yeej tsis khes tu niag txiv liam thiab. Nes npam nws thiaj ua tsev txeev, nyuam qhuav ntxim!!! Your wife deserves someone who loves her!
Yawg lau koj muaj hmoo uas koj pojniam tseem ntshaw2 thiaj tos2 koj yog lwm tus ces koj plag kiag li lawm os
Thaub Aw koj ces ntshai tsam koj niag txiv ntxawm yuav koj tus poj niam xwb mas 😂😂
Honestly, I'm tired of these stories. Let's hear those stories where people have good morals/ethics. These people need to share their success story and how they went about it.
Tham tau zoo kawg li os,
Dev liam txwv. Pab koj txaj muag dhau lawm
You should be grateful that your wife is still with you! Better shape up!
Koj txoj kev mus Ua hluas zoo ib yam nkaus li Koj tus hluas Nkauj twv Txiaj ntag mas me phooj Ywg
Ua tsaug ntau2
Zaj no mas yuav ua ib txoj kev kawm rau cov xav xav ua yawg nrauj kawg, tab sis yog yus txawm yuav hlub thiab pab tus poj niam npaum twg los nws yuav khiav kom dim ntawm yus mus xwb2 ces lam ua ib siab lam ua yawg nrauj kiag xwb. Hehehehe
Cov niag tsov tom txiv neej zoo li no mas txim txub tshaj plaws. Pab tus niam laus no mob siab tshaj plaws.
OK zoo
Poj niam tes yog tau koj muab koj lub hlub nws tag nrhw lawm yeej sov siab. Koj poj yeej yog ib tug niam zoo tshaj plaws, tabsi koj saib nws tsi zoo xwb vim koj vwm rau poj nrauj lub ncuav thiab koj poj nrauj nqi. Yog koj muab koj nyiaj siv rau koj poj niam li koj siv rau poj nrauj ma ntshe koj poj niam yuav puag koj txhua hmo.
Great advice..thank you . Is good advice for all men to learn..
Yeah, it was one hella good advice. If I was the uncle, I would advise him to complete the divorce and marry his wife...lol
Aiv Yias aw !!! Koj ces hmoov nyiaj hmoov kub yuav luag tag tiag Aiv Yias koj os.
Cov txiv dev zoo le nuav mas ntxis ntxub tiag tiag. Tws zoo koj tus poj niam ces xav yuav koj os. Yog kuv mas koj tws nyob qab choj lawn os.
I cried listening to this story. I cry for your wife 😢 she is such a humble and loving wife…
Like I always say: When a couple divorces, dies or ends a relationship, it doesn't mean the end. It just means a new beginning with a new and better person.
I am a divorced woman myself, but now found a loving, caring and super loyalty husband for 9 years now
Great job lady so glad u moved on don't ever let a man treat u the way he did. U deserve so much better
This is why I hate Hmong religion smh… when the guy cheat everyone says let it go. When he wants to divorce the wife he is right and everyone blames the wife. But when the wife wants to divorce the husband because of infidelity everyone says she’s the one cheating
It’s more of a cultural thing. This is why everyone is finding love overseas. There is a void in the understanding/compatibility of couples.
I agree with you 100%! They got too much privilege and pride they treat women like property, not a wife. They don’t accept equal rights and they certainly don’t side with the women when he’s wrong.
Agree
Please understand the difference between religion and poor cultural behavior. Otherwise you have missed the point.
It’s not a religious belief to act this way. It’s poor personal behavior.
Lus nyiaj lus kub
May aw mloog zaj no mas ua rau kua muag poob vim ntau tsim xtom zoo li ntag os
Ntuj eee kj hais yog kawg, kv tus X, txawm yog li ko los nws tseem chim tag rau tej minyuam, rov Los muab peb cov mi niam tub txiav kev tu tag ,
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Koj muaj hmoo kawg, yuav luag plag ntshav tiag
You were very lucky to have had someone come and saved your marriage and opened your eyes.
Ab cas koj hos tsis tuag es peb ho tau yuav koj poj Niam los es nws thiaj li paub tias kev hlub zoo npaum cas
😂😂😂
Koj tus Pojniam tsi qias dub, Tabsis Koj Yog tus qias dub, vim Koj tsi tau muab Koj cov Nyiaj rau koj tus Pojniam khaws Kia, Koj tus Pojniam Koj tsi hlub, Koj cov menyuam kiag Koj twb hlub
Kuv tsi tuaj Koj Tog,
Zoo kam os py
Hahahahhhh hnub no koj txhom tau ib tug ntses qav loj kawg hahahhhhh. Koj tus kheej tseem sexy kawg. Love you.
Koj tus poj niam tsis zoo nkauj los twb tim koj tsis hlub tsis pab nws ne. Yog koj yog ib tug zoo txiv ces nws yeej zoo nkauj.
Txiv dev ruam!
You're so lucky your wife took you back, mister. I hope from here on forward, you so pour love to her. You will SHOW her how much you love and appreciate her. She deserves it. You suck for all the pain you caused her. Good luck, mister. Wise words at the end.
Thaub aw
Koj tsis zoo yuav ua txiv lawm…Koj pojniam nrauj koj zoo dua, mam mus nrhiav tus hlub2 Koj pojniam xwb
Vim koj yog txiv dev laus xwb, koj nco qab ntsoov tias koj yuav mus nyob qab choj sai2 tom ntej no tiag yawg nrauj.
A husband like this, I would throw in the trash long time ago..
Thank you for the life lesson brother. You’re a true and brave to share you’re life story. I hope you will be true to your wife and family. Most of all you need to be true to yourself.
Kev npam kev khaum caum cuag kiag koj.
Kuv xav peb cov txiv hmoob nyob ntiaj teb cov txiv tsis tab cuab mas ntshe 90% yog cov neeg phem xwb os hmoob cov txiv neej tab cuab ces ntshe tshuav 10% xwb no nawb hmoob aw......
You reap what you sow...you made your bed so you sleep in it. Your spouse acts according to your behavior/actions.
Good Good
where can we find a wife like this...asking for a friend
Ca txiv neej nyiam cov poj niam zoo nkauj xb ta si ho tsi kam yuav mev kam lo yu tha yu yuav ma ho ce yu thb xav tau poj niam zoo ta si tsi kam siv nyiaj li e tsi paub nej cov tab si kuv tu ce nyiam kom kuv zoo tab si tsi pub siv nyiaj zoo li no xb xyov yuav ua ca
Aiv Yias !!!! Koj yuav luag khaub hlab os koj os
Sister good question
yayyyyyyyy happy ending 😁
Koj tus txiv ntxawm yuav luag tau koj tus poj niam tiag os.
👏 👏 👏 👏 so proud of him..proud of a man finally admitted his mistake n wrong doing....this brother or uncle here since u admitted ur wrong doing ur life will be glowing again..I agree ntiaj teb no leej twg yuav kawm txawj kawm ntse yuav xav li cas los yeej tsis cuag ib tus person ua have experience....no matter how much we talk how much we think how much we say is different from what we experience it..
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MAY HAVE YOU EVEN LEARNED ANYTHINGS FROM THOUSANDS OF STORY??….WHY YOU END UP IN OKLAHOMA??…Hahahaha 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Once you cheat you always guna cheat. Maybe not the same but you will. Dont need to be giving advice as if men guna take any advice when they wanna cheat, they funa cheat. Easiest advice out ther for hmoob women. Hmoob women need to start realizing that hmoob men aint want a house wife ok.
Wow tus txiv neej no siab phem tiag2. Koj pojniam ruam thiaj zam txim rau koj. Tsis tsimnyog kiag li. Ua neej yuamkev ces yog koj pojniam
If I was his uncle I would tell him to divorce his wife and marry her. Life would be easy for him to find another good wife. So hard to find a truthful responsibility caring person.
Niag txiv neej no tsi muaj hlwb
One lucky bad ass man. This shows that women are more forgivable then man's and we love our marriage and treasure once we find the one to spend our lives with. Sister, I would have divorced him and took care of the kids alone. Who's need an unclean man like him. If you cheat for sure, he already put you in the trash can. We live in the 21th century, don't live in the past.
Men don't deserve good women. They deserve women who treat like dirt. This woman deserves to be loved, and this man is lucky that she gave him a second chance.
Txiv neej es tsi tees koos loos li koj es tsi Txaj muag los cas tseem muab koj zaj neej neeg los qhia rau ntiaj teb os thaub
You don't deserve her.
Thaum koj tu koj niam tsis quaj rau koj lawm ces koj npaj siab ua yawg nrauj ntag
Koj muaj hmoob tshaj muaj koj Tus txiv ntxawm pab cawm koj lub neej ib zaug ntxiv os
Lawv aw cas yuav hlub tus sab nrauv dua yus tus hauv tsev li os tsis tsim peb cov poj niam tsis xa hlub nej os
kwvtij peb yog txiv neej yawg ib yam nyias laus nyias tas li no, tej laus twb ib txwm piv lus haistias tus kaus nqeeb yuav ntse tsis tos leej twg hliav, ib tug neeg laus tub rag xub li koj kuv peb no yuav paub tsis tos lwm tus piav. Tsis tas li ntawd xh tshaj lug vaj haistias, peb ua neeg nyob txhob pub luag qhuab, tuag txhob pub luag qia, luag tuaj ntuas koj tas luag tsis npog koj lub qe tsw lwj, luag mus txog twg luag muab koj lub qe rhuav txog qhov ntawd.
Thaub aw, koj tus poj niam zoo dhau lawm os. Yog lwm tus ces ntshe koj twb tsis muaj tsev nrog luag nyob los ntev lawm os.
Yus lob yus nrhab rau yus hau!😮😢
Twb yog koj tus poj niam zoo dhau lawm nws thiaj yuav koj
Koj es muab koj cov nyiaj pub poj nrauj noj tag xwb
Tsuas yog koj tus poj niam thiaj yuav koj xwb.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Don’t even finish listening I already judge you bad
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Thaum kuv tus txiv tham ib niag poj nrauj es ua ib yam li no nyob rauv pem twv txiaj thiab ua nws pluag tag nrho thiab ces npam kiag lub niag neej puas tag thiab
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Heev diam ua tiag Kom yeej kiag poj niam maj !
great story lesson to be learn
It doesn’t matter, you’re still a Txiv dev!!!!
U uncle right
Those kids must be stupid wasting time and money to go to court over their parent's house. Don't they know that the wife, even if it's a new wife, has more authority over their father and their father's assets than the kids? When your mother dies or divorce and your father remarries, even if she's a nkauj mos ab, everything that's in your father's name belongs to the new wife by default. When your father dies, it goes to her, not the kids (unless it's under the kids name or his Will states that it goes to the kids). In US law, it's not kwvtij, it's not the children who decides the fate of their father and his assets. When your father is on life support. The wife, even if she's a new wife, has the final say... not like Hmong where women has no say. So the tens of thousands of Hmong American kids whose fathers divorce their mother for a nkauj mos ab, unless the wife is smart enough to take everything, everything will go to the nkauj mos ab when your father dies... even if it's just a divorce, if the nkauj mos ab is smart, she can go to court and get everything like the house, car, cash, 401k, social security (if he died), etc... plus the added bonus of alimony and child support. So everything that your father and mother worked so hard all their lives for goes to the nkauj mos ab who didn't even make a single contribution. Niam mos ab already won the lottery by getting a free ticket to the US and a free green card. Now niam mos ab will also get everything that belongs to your mother and father. So I don't know why some kids and some 1st wives help their father/husband get a nkauj mos ab. Then again, the kids and definitely the husband doesn't care as long as he gets his nkauj mos ab so to hell with it.
Yog tej txwj nkawm ua tau le zaaj nuav kev sis nrauj yuav tsawg zuj zug moog...
Koj yog ib tug txiv tsi taab cuab vij zeej
Another poj hmoob hlwb rwj xwb
You dropped close to 10k on your gf but won’t buy a $500 piano for your daughter? Thats just sad. You’re story isn’t over…good luck.
Wow, your wife must love you lots to endured all your evil doings… you are a very lucky dude. You are one of those examples of what us women are afraid to encounter. But anyway thanks for sharing your story for those cheaters like you to redeem themselves and for those who think to cheat to come to their senses.
Tus txiv tshuab Cuab ...quav dev li koj xwb ..yuav Los yeej tsis ntxiv dabtsi...nrauj koj lawm Los yeej tsis tsawg dabtsi...yuav koj ntxiv ces lwj siab xwb..vim koj yog ib niag khib nyiab xwb.
This happens everywhere. 😞
Tsis hais poj niam muaj txiv los yog txiv neej muaj poj niam lawm tias ua neej pheej vam khom kwv tij los sis puas neej tsa qhuab qhia xwb no ces nws lub neej yuav tsum muaj setbacks tas li.
Koj tus poj niam mas siab zoo dhau lawm os thiaj kam rov qab yuav koj, txawm musj koj thiab tsis muaj los nws yeej ua tau nws niam tsev koj tej nyiaj koj twb tsis muab pab nws, mus yuav saw kub saw diamond rau lwm tus mus tsav luag lub neej xwb koj tus poj niam tseem lees koj yuav koj mas koj muaj hmoo tshaj koj tus poj niam yog ib tug poj niam hmoov phem tshaj nyob hauv ntiaj teb no tab sis txawm li cas tsuav muaj lub niag npe muaj txiv xwb c4s twb zoo zoo koj niag poj niam siab lawm os.
I have no pity for men like these in general. These neej tsa can take that pathetic advice and shove it. They aren’t the ones married to him! They’re not the ones suffering. She’s better off without him.
I agreed. I don't understand why these neej tsa still practice this mentality. We're in the US, we dont need a man to complete us, especially evil man like this one
100 yaam tsaav yog koj ua tug tsim tawm xwb las mas.
Koj yog ib niag txiv dev liam tiag tiag koj tej minyuam thov 400,500 dollar koj tsis muaj nyiaj rau tabsis koj niag poj nrauj taij npaum li cas los koj muab rau , liam npaum li koj twb yog koj tus pojniam zoo dhau lawm thiaj lam nrog koj nyob
pos chob xuas pos dig ces li no tiag thaub
Why would your wife care for you. You cheated on her. She is ignoring you because you don't want to be in the relationship.