DATE your WORTH | Stop giving the benefit of the doubt and Attract QUALITY men

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
  • Bonus tip: If you find yourself getting triggered in dating while you're trying to attract a high value man, try owning your desires, not just cutting him off straight away
    1:1 coaching: theilluminatress.contact@gmail.com
    COACHING: theilluminatress.contact@gmail.com
    Include a sentence on what you'd like to discuss in our sessions. I look forward to meeting you 1:1!
    Available Courses:
    RAVISHINGLY RELENTLESS ---x theilluminatress.thinkific.com

Komentáře • 21

  • @passerby6168
    @passerby6168 Před 14 dny +6

    It's very simple but many have forgotten it and now reside in confusion - you find a friend of the opposite sex, someone you feel you could be friends with forever, with some sexual attraction (it doesn't have to be max sexual attraction and even if it is the grass in another field will one day look greener so just enough attraction is enough). And then know temptation is real and overcome your trials. Because it's funny how one's mood mostly comes down to gratitude for having what one has, and how one's mood changes once we start thinking and comparing to someone else and what we don't have.
    People are putting numbers on each other, wanting this societal "quality" man or woman instead of considering whether they actually like them and can be themselves around them and whether he or she cares about them.
    It's a kind of madness, helped along by social media and "image".

  • @bugra320
    @bugra320 Před 14 dny +13

    By just looking at the title I've already seen two red flags. I'll say pass, thanks

  • @chrisfox9492
    @chrisfox9492 Před 15 dny +5

    Good points, but I have to strongly disagree on letting the man lead the conversation.
    It's a big red flag if a girl just sits there reacting to his questions. Todays women are way too passive which is a big turnoff. A true connection thrives in equal distribution of effort and we men notice that immediately. There's no such thing as feeling overpowered by a girl showing interest.

    • @cortesimerci35
      @cortesimerci35 Před 13 dny

      No
      Sexual attraction comes from male-female dynamics. Male leads and is dominant, and women wants to submit. Equality and emotional connection is a bs you see on disney movies. Women are attracted to masculine men, if he needs encouragement to take action he is not a strong man -she will be physically unable to feel any attraction. On the contrary women will almost always gonna give some shittests to scout how you will react to test your confidence. Because women are not sexually attracted to comfort and convenience and emotional connection.
      Main traits women find attractive are confidence and decisiveness , emotional stability and independence, not seeking approval etc. And she sees those traits from how you take initiative and how you lead her.

  • @gregbettger3196
    @gregbettger3196 Před 13 dny

    On your example of “needing space,” I’m glad you figured out that you needed to reach out and contact your guy. His response was exactly as I would expect: you asked for space, and he wasn’t sure precisely “how much space.”
    I think if you did read back over the messages and step away from all emotion (eg. Read all the messages literally) you would know everything was ok.
    Also, your note that the masculine supports the “structure” of the relationship is spot on, but when you asked for space and didn’t specify any details (duration), your guy respectfully allowed you to structure how the next few days went. I’m glad you figured it out.
    Keep up the good personal work.

  • @Sacred.Masculinity
    @Sacred.Masculinity Před 14 dny +1

    You are well spoken and good on camera. Keep up the good work!

  • @tjwithanak7517
    @tjwithanak7517 Před 13 dny

    Since my last relationship a few years ago, I had to take a hard look at myself and admit that I’m not healed enough for dating or even casual relationships. Although I aim to suppress it, my insecurities and fear of abandonment often result in me being an asshole as a preemptive defense, even when things are overall going well. It’s unfair to the other person so I choose to chill for now.

    • @The_illuminatress
      @The_illuminatress  Před 13 dny

      I see you, TJ with an AK. I've been here too and I'm sending you an open heart, faith and wisdom to help you through 🙏

  • @user-zf9us1ud1y
    @user-zf9us1ud1y Před 13 dny

    Very good your video

  • @jeffb.140
    @jeffb.140 Před 13 dny +1

    Quality men look for quality women .. that includes being young and a virgin

  • @jagdeepjano
    @jagdeepjano Před 16 dny +4

    You're completely gorgeous, Talia, you look like a supermodel. Wish you the best finding your person, however I'd by lying if I said I didn't wish it was me

  • @teamhenriettabiro
    @teamhenriettabiro Před 16 dny +2

    Smart and gorgeous ❤

  • @lewisvogel466
    @lewisvogel466 Před 15 dny +4

    Can I give you some advice? Stay single. I'm very available. I'm a college graduate, I make good money, I'm attractive looking, I travel, and I've written seven books. I'm the guy women fight over. But I don't ask women out. Forget dating. Men want sex. If you want sex, then dating is for you. If you want a husband, make sure you have cash and no debts. Otherwise, divorce laws in the U.S. will allow you to marry a guy, divorce him, and take everything he has ever worked for. You're a good-looking woman, but I would never marry you. Too risky.

    • @monkeys50000
      @monkeys50000 Před 15 dny +4

      Are you ok mate?

    • @lewisvogel466
      @lewisvogel466 Před 15 dny +2

      @@monkeys50000 Yeah, last time I checked. You don't seem to agree. Lucky you. The country you're from probably doesn't have divorce laws that allows the woman to divorce and take everything. So here in the U.S. in case you haven't heard, men aren't approaching women like they used to, and the ones that do approach usually get rejected. Yeah, I'm OK. I've learned to adapt.

    • @miamike215
      @miamike215 Před 14 dny

      @@lewisvogel466 if tou make good money, find a women who makes more than you, then you can take all her money

    • @RadioPsychicAstrologyByPepper
      @RadioPsychicAstrologyByPepper Před 13 dny

      @@lewisvogel466you have the same name as my husband only the first name is spelled differently.

  • @Malekfahad420
    @Malekfahad420 Před 14 dny +1

    Hi Talia, Your content is fantastic! I'd love to assist you in enhancing your videos with premium editing and captivating thumbnails that can attract more viewers. Let's discuss how we can work together to grow your channel.