Quadriplegic tries metal arm! *Yikes*
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This is eye opening how much more challenging every day tasks are for people of limited mobility.
Joy Goodwin I was thinking the exact same thing.....
So true. Makes you appreciate small things that you take for granted everyday
We should thank God for everything ,every morning when we open our 👀1st thing in the morning.
Bummer, man.
Laundry pods. (Don't eat the pods. Smile.)
I love how charisma doesnt allow him to give up on himself and encourages him to be independent. She is such a supportive partner
getting the laundry pods might be easier for Cole than the big liquid bottle.
We agree
I was thinking the same thing
I was also thinking maybe a larger rolling basket might be helpful to try make moving the laundry easier? you will probably have to rig something to his chair for him to pull it
Hey this is Brian! I'm a paraplegic and I love the pods!
when you guys get more money, maybe invest in a touch screen washer and dryer thats front facing.
We have a front load washer and dryer with spring loaded doors - you push it to close and push it again to open - no fine motor skills or pulling required. I can just hit mine with the side of my knee/wheelchair and it pops open.
I would also recommend a low table about the height of your knees to put the laundry basket on - then you can load the basket on the table and slide it on to your lap rather than having to pick it up from the floor.
I hope Cole and Charisma read this
What the detergent how do you manage to put the exact quantity?
What the detergent how do you manage to put the exact quantity?
I would guess pods are easier
Yeahh..they need appliances that he can use!! That help out since he has a disability!!
Cole is a comedian for sure, keep us laughing and smiling, the the world needs more of it. Blessings to you both.
this was so funny right?!
I'm getting here in 2021 September
How is it going 🤔 with the independence Cole 😳 you are doing well from what I am seeing I do get to view everything but I try to keep up. You guys are awesome 👌.it's challenging but u will get better
It takes time. Praying for one 🙏 all things are possible .
When cole fell forward charisma’s spidey senses kicked in
Gotta love Charisma, encouraging him the whole way. What an amazing woman!!!
Yes Cole..........with the independence! Love that.🤗💕
Cole: “what do I do?”
Charisma: “keep trying” 😂😂😂
❤️💕🌻❤️🌻💕❤️
I loved when she said that!
CZcams recommended one of your videos the other day... I haven’t stopped catching up. I love both of you. Your positivity (and also sense of humor) is an inspiration. Greetings from Puerto Rico.
Thank you! You’re awesome
I don’t have a physical disability and I’m completely exhausted when I change my bed sheets. Cole is putting me to shame.
Haha same here! Now I feel so lazy! Lol
My tip is a two in one machine. You only need to put it in and get it out when finished. I have one and it literally has saved my sanity. Plus it’s all push button so it’s so easy to use.
Wow I'm here holding my breath, shaking my head with you Cole. I am so proud of your attempts. Just remember practice makes perfect and Charisma is the perfect teacher supportive and challenging when necessary. Team C&C we are rooting for you. Cole I can see that you will do your share...You have done great!!
Never stop trying Cole. In any relationship you want to be a partner and your independence is important.
" Behind every great man is a great woman". I literally jumped out of my seat to cheer you on. Cole continue your gallant fight with the love and support of Charisma. STAY POSITIVE!
I think Cole did a great job for doing all that for the first time! I wonder if a laundry basket with wheels might be helpful. That way it can just roll along with you while positioned directly in front of your feet. I'm not sure if they still sell the ones I used to have years ago, but hopefully there are still some out there. In any case, I admire that you didn't give up! And even if you couldn't/can't do everything, it still gives Charisma a break. For example, I bet she'd still appreciate only having to turn on the washer if you loaded it and tossed a laundry pod in there beforehand.
Tipp 1 from a Quad...lock your breaks before every move!!! Makes everything easyer 😉
Hahaha I say this everyday 😂 - Charisma
Roll with Cole & Charisma Tipp 2: pillows first 😅
I'm a complete C5-C7 quadriplegic and make videos to help people live life just like they would've able-bodied. My goal is to make videos for others like myself and Cole to become more independent.
I do not understand how anyone in this world could down-like/dislike any of your videos. Admirable doesn't even scratch the surface in describing you and your journey. Rock on dude!!!
Cole’s determination to be independent and Charisma’s encouragement are a winning combination. I am intrigued at this effort. Never give up!
@ROLLWITHCOLEANDCHARISMA I'm a C6-C7 complete and pretty close ability wise, but a little stronger than Cole.
1. Transferring on incline, I use arm rest to push off of. Decline is just getting over the fear of falling and hopping in one motion.
2. Doing chores like laundry or dishes is a lot less challenging with the aid of a chest strap on. Also use Tide Pods as others have mentioned.
3. Taking the sheets off with the head of the bed in sit up position is way easier. Pillows, bite the pillow and pinch the sheet with both hands and pull.
Hope this helps!
Proud of you dude!
Charisma and Cole, job well done. Cole as time goes by and with charisma encouragement you will only get better. What's most important is she is so patient and soft spoken, guy's job well done
Imagine how strong he’ll get just by doing that stuff.
Mans gonna be jacked
@@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 idk if you're talking to me or her but I didn't make a joke and im confused as to how it would come across as a joke. I was agreeing with her statement that doing these new independent things will be forms of exercise for Cole and, in turn, make him "Jacked" which is a slang term for Stronger.
@@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 he doesnt have triceps but he has biceps and shoulders and he is still a grown man capable of working out and getting stronger. What exactly did she say that was wrong?? She didnt say he's going to look like a damn body builder. She said "stronger".
There is no video on this channel even IMPLYING that none of coles muscles are functional. If they weren't he wouldn't even be able to move. He lacks triceps. He still has other muscles and works out multiple times a week. Make sure you're correct before coming after someone for such a simple statement
@@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 you're the one who is uneducated. Case closed. 👋
" why did we go to the gym i should have just took the sheets off" lmaoo awe
Those two thumbs down are seriously from pure haters.
Love from Africa!!!
Its deffo gotta be an accident cos how can you hate on such an inspirational and cute couple!
Everybody has a reason to be mean, I have no idea why someone would dislike it either. People should just skip the video if they're not into it.
@@Evounme09 they're simply jealous that Cole & Charisma have an amazing relationship...👍😉👌
They need a quarantine Partner👫!!!! That's okay haters!!! We provide enough love to shield them from you❤️❤️!!
Yes. We can only pity these haters.
I take the sheets almost off of my bed when laying down. I am a Cerebral Palsy quadriplegic.
That's clever
Yea it is.
That's what I do, I'm para from waist down.
We do what we do to help out.
yup that is what i do. quad due to NMO.
Keep it up Cole. Well done Charisma. You are so supportive. Happy Mother's Day.
I like that you decided to engage in things you dont do regularly. Every husband, husband to be, should try to learn new skills to help around the house!. Is a plus for you! Good job!
Pains me to see Cole struggle with basic things that some of u do everyday..I have a son hes my 1 kid that God has bless me with and i cant image thr hurt Mama Kelly feels to see Cole struggle. But his attitude and out prayers he will be just fine..
We understand! Although these tasks are difficult for me, I really enjoy feeling more independent from doing them.
I’m a quadriplegic myself but I’ve grown very fond of Cole from following his journey and the mother in me comes out like you say when I see him struggle. As a quadriplegic I can so relate but as a mother I wish I could jump up and help him. I love his attitude and never give up personality and it is in his best interest to learn these tasks. I’ve had to accept after trying that there are some things that I am not capable of doing and others that are difficult but very doable. I pick and choose my battles and accept and request help when necessary. Charisma is so awesome too and I’m so happy that they have each other. I am very excited to continue to watch their journey as they move forward in life.
@@coleandcharisma Cole, you'll only get better!
@@coleandcharisma Good job, Cole!
Good job. From Jamaica.
Cole, I wonder if sewing some big loops, big enough for you to fit your hand/wrist through, on the corners of each sheet, would help you to get the sheets off easier!?!?
Cole is definitely a comedian 😂 "i raise me up".
Hi Cole & Charisma “nothing beats a try but a failure,” you didn’t fail so you did great. You also determined where improvements need to be made. Keep up the great work and much future success. As I say, “keep it moving.”
DOGMAN3161 The quote is “nothing beats a failure but a try”. And Cole was definitely trying. So happy for you.
Edna Nelson sorry to tell you but you learned the phrase backwards, but it still all means the same thing.
Practice makes perfect 👌🏼 Cole, I love how even when you can’t do something you keep trying til you overcome it. FYI front loaders will help you better.
#StayPositive 💕
Yass 20 minute video, I’ve just been rewatching old videos. Hope everyone is doing safe. Much love from Barbados
Ashley Maria me too😂
26 minutes to be exact. ♥️😘
🤗🤗
Hahaha same!
Ashley Maria hey I am from Christ church. But I live in Florida
Tip for the mailbox put a bag on your chair that you can put the mail in two 😁
Here’s to you Cole for showing that with hard work, many can prevail over difficult tasks. Super kudos to Charisma for being a awesome OT on top of a a fabulous fiancé.
A quote I lived by when my husband was struggling through his quad obstacles and always wanted me to help him out....
“You can enable someone to the point where you disable them.”
Love you both. 💕
They literally remind me to STAYYY POSITIVE ✨✨
Happy to see you again lovely couple.Cole you did a good job.I loved your determination,refusing help from Charisma.❤👍
Suggestion: Cole, take a small plastic tub or basket to place the mail it. Put it on your lap for the pickup and return. Dollar Tree has some great plastic tubs and baskets.
How many times can you hit something with this metal arm?
Cole: Yes
The one good thing to come out of quarantine was finding you twos videos! Cole and Charisma your both so inspiring and positive its contagious lol
If it is any consolation I too get exhausted when trying to deconstruct my bed, wash the sheets, and put them back. Not with as much emotion and sass as Cole though! Keep practicing, y'all are gonna have a lot of laundry when those three beautiful mixed babies get here. Love you all! Tell your mamas this internet fan wishes them a wonderful day!
Thank you!
That's so true, it's a exhausting task for able-bodied persons too!
Believe me, Cole you did a fantastic job. I am always sweating after I change my bedding, too.
You too are funny and lovable! Praying for your beautiful life. It’s so
special that both families are so
supportive, and your family get together are so fun and happy.
Cole your attitude is everything! As determined as you are, with practice and a few tips and modifications , I think you can do almost anything you set your mind to. 🦋
*What? **26:00** minutes with my favorite CZcamsrs?? Yay!!! ♥️ 😘 Thank you so much for my Mother's Day gift! Love you guys!* 🌷🌸💐💞♥️🌹🤗💖💜 P. S. - I think the front loaders will definitely be a lot easier for you to use since you just press the buttons and the doors sit lower to the floor.
Have been bingwatching your videos the last week and I feel like we are best friends now 😉
I don't "not see Cole's" wheelchair, but by now it's just part of him. Like someone people have black hair and some have blond hair. Or some have dark and some have light skin. I'll always 'see' it but it doesn't define the person! What's important is the personality.
And well, there is plenty in Cole 😂😍
And as an civil engineering student I LOOVE learning about the insight in accessible building design ❤
Lots of love from Denmark 🇩🇰
This video just put the biggest smile on my face, Cole’s energy and positivity is so inspiring
God bless you cole for trying. That the first step is to try. Many blessings to you and charisma
I really cry when I watch you guys
I spent the last 3 days binge watching all your vids from the start and i'm hooked! I love seeing the progress you guys are making! It's so inspiring, it makes me want to do more in terms of disability advocacy. I live in London UK, and from an able bodied point of view, I never fully realised the day to day difficulties a disabled person faces in doing the things we take for granted. After seeing your courage and determination, i'm gonna pledge to be more active in advocating for disabled rights here in the UK. So much needs to be done, and it will only happen if we step up and demand the change! Thank you, Cole and Charisma for all the work you do! Keep it up, you guys are awesome! Love from across the pond x
Wow, this is so amazing to hear! Thank you so much for your support and pledging to be an disability advocate in the UK!
@@coleandcharisma Thank you in all the work you do inspiring others! We all live in a society, and society should work for everybody living in it.
Cole, I love your quest for as much independence as possible and your comfort with sharing your learning curve. Don't give up!
Cole you are amazing and Charisma does a great job encouraging you to do all these chores. Beautiful couple! Love watching your stories all the way from Colombia. Keep rolling!!
Great job Cole. I am sure there is someone watching who will have great ideas on how to modify washer and dryer. I loved that Cole was not beaten by the task and completed them. You two are the best. 💞
You guys are so cute together! God bless you both! Cole never lose hope about walking again medicine is changing daily!!! 😘
4:40 lol I like how he uppercuts all the pillows
Yes, I appreciate all your efforts, and show more independence. That's the best encouragement.
Charisma’s name is super fitting! And yay Cole, learning new ways to be independent is awesome! How lucky you guys are to have each other 💕
Love your determination Cole! Sometimes tough love is the best love, but we don't see it at the time.
You will find the best way for you to do things. Great first try! Love to you both 💙❤
Good for you Cole! I was frustrated and exhausted just watching. Perseverance pays off. Thanks for sharing your adventure in independence.
I really have too give it to Cole so much will power. My hat goes off to you!! Love you both..
So courageous Cole 🙏 modifications will help and you will get better 😀 you did excellent for your first time trying these new activities.
Watching form Germany.
Miele washer and dryer are often front loaders and have the manuals front faceing and are quite accessible.
Good to know! Thank you!
@@coleandcharisma plus: often the door opens automatic when you push a little button.
@@Kreativlaboratorium True. Good point.
Also from Germany. I like the Miele brand for household machines (washer, dryer, vacuum, dishwasher) too. In my experience there're reliable for many years and have a reasonable price for their quality.
Ahh another German fella
Through all the bumps and bruises; you still #staypositive ! I needed this video today. Cole, you kept going and Charisma, you wouldn't let him quit. Thank you two beautiful people!
Seeing both of you always just so optimistic is so amazing. I've been diagnosed with severe depression and sometimes it's really hard to do anything, but when I have those bad days I just watch some of your videos and it helps so much. Keep making the world a happier place!
Hi Samantha...hope these CUTE Pets, plus Slice n Rice (comedic couple) will Cheer you up on those dark moments. All the Best...🐴✌
💖 Stay Healthy 🤗 and Safe 💖
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Hello from St. Louis, Missouri! #staysafe #staypositive. And yes removing the bed sheets and making the bed are a workout!
You did such an awesome job!! My heart stopped when Cole was turning around by the stairs. 😳Keep up the great work. My mother suffered a traumatic brain injury last year and was left wheelchair bound with very limited ability to do for herself, I've gotten so much encouragement and some ideas from your videos. Your attitudes and smiles are beautiful but I have an idea of how hard some days can be. Thank you for the great energy you are putting out in the world!
Cole your so humorous. I'm surprise every time i watch how you push yourself to accomplish things. You do not give up easy. Confidence certainly is one key!😀
You got this Cole! I live in contant pain daily, you inspire me to keep pushing. Charisma, you rock girl! May God Continue to bless you both.
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I'm so proud of you Cole. I'm glad that you are discovering and learning how to do more tasks on your own. With more practice, you'll definitely be able to do it more smoothly in the future.
He can try using laundry soap pods see if he can grab those
I think this an excellent idea
We agree! We do not like tide pods because they leave oil marks on our clothes! Is there another brand that works well?
Roll with Cole & Charisma arm & hammer, purex
Gain is what I use.
Thrive market place has some natural ones that work well!
Great to hear Chrisma the OT, pushing and encouraging. I can remember working with PT and OT and getting so frustrated or mad and they'd encourage me and I'd want to do more. Good work Cole
Your resilience is incredible Cole; well done! Charisma is great at motivating. Great team work, guys!
cheers you did great!! Tell your Moms Happy Mother's day from your Fans!!
I’ve been binge watching your older videos so happy that you posted a new one and 26 minutes long. But beside the fact this is so unrelated to the video but that 26:00 is soooo satisfying.Y’all are such a wholesome couple the love you have for each other is amazing. How can such a beautiful women and such a handsome man find each other both of you are amazing people inside and out. Seeing Cole become more and more independent is truly wonderful. God bless and stay safe and most importantly STAY POSITIVE!! 💛💛
Thank you so, so much!
You deserve to be happy 😊❤️🎈 Cole and Charisma.
You are doing a great job Cole. You are making good progress. Keep up the good work you are doing. Bless you and Charisma. Excellent teamwork.
Cole, you did a good job and Charisma is such a good motivator!
My advice would be to put padding around the metal that is in direct contact with your skin when using “the claw”, something that doesn’t add a lot of weight but prevents it from pressing into the skin like that. Also, padding around the pincers could prevent it from ripping through whatever you’re picking up, like the plastic bag or perhaps the sheets even.
This video was really interesting and it has my mind racing for ideas and solutions, I’m autistic and I get hyperfocused/excited whenever I see scenarios that could be made easier or more efficient. I would love to see more of the solutions you come up with as you explore ways of greater independence and I hope you continue to make videos about it!
That's awesome to see Cole doing more stuff. He's killing it! More vids like this please
I am so happy for you for not giving up and for wanting to do the most you can do for yourself Cole. You are a beautiful couple. I wish you the very best.
This is one of my favorite videos. Thanks for allowing us to watch as you learn new ways to do things! I’m glad you all have a sense of humor about life 😊
So proud of you Cole. Charisma you’re such an encourager.
So inspiring! 💖 I love how you both look out for each other so much.. truly a team 💖💖💖💖💖
Cole your determination will carry you through any adversities you may face. Don't be so hard on yourself. You did an excellent job for your first time. I know you will figure it out and with Charisma by your side, nothing is too difficult. Love you both for bring awareness with such humor and positivity.
This is occupational therapy for Cole. So nice of Charisma to support. She knows where to step in.
Oh I really loved this video...
I love when ppl try to become the best version of them self
Good job Cole! Be careful and do things more slowly until you get better at it. 😇
Cole you did such a good job!!!!! 💕Charisma you are so helpful and supportive. I love you guys
Well done Cole, you got it all done eventuality. You will get better with more practice. You guys always but a smile on my face. And I'll remember to stay positive 😊😘
I hope that Cole can find a washer and dryer that meets his user friendly needs.
Cole you did a great job and I love how you had fun while doing the laundry
Great job Cole! I love how she encourages him until he realizes he can make it work in his own way. I love this video!
Cole, just watching you do these tasks with such determination, I know you will master them in no time! You both are so positive and strong! Love watching your videos. Keep up the great work! Love from N.C.
Hey you guys. I hope you're staying safe. Love you both😘😘😘
Oh how I can relate lol. I try so hard to be more independent and I end up in some unbelievable situations 😂😂😂 I have a few mastered now, well kind of....sort of.... maybe mastered is a bit too strong 😂😂😂
Hahha!! What have you sort of mastered?
I am super proud of Cole. He just make me appreciate the small things of life more. Such determination
Outstanding Cole.....Charisma you are an awesome cheer leader. All the best.❤🙏
One day at a time! Don’t give up.. Prep for those triplets! You got this!
Mouths are great tools!! I use mine a lot for tasks that I probably shouldn’t.... that didn’t sound right 🤣🤣 ya know what I mean 😜
Hahaha! 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂my teeth hate me!!!
OMGOSH! This is the best video from the two of you ever. You two are AWESOME!
Independence for Cole. It was great to see you doing the laundry. You did it!!!!!💕💕.