I say "u said it so correctly". People listen to all kinds of advice but never reflect our self to where we stand. Which is a bad move in improving our self.
The four C's of attraction: 1: Cleanliness (groomed appearance) 2: Core confidence (confidence in EVERY situation & environment), deep believe in yourself (don't need to be liked by a female to feel good about yourself) 3: Congruence. If you look confident, be confident. 4: Consistency. Holding frame all the time.
its not as u dont tho. Women are required to be constantly perfect/pretty/smart/perfect body/confident but not too much/feminine/submissive/strong but not too strong/hairless/glowing/skinny/delicate/elegant/the way we dress/ the way we walk. and so so so many more beauty standarts and standarts in common put on women everyday. If not men have the easiest standarts. All yall gotta do is be nice tall and not a loser yall dont even have to be cute.Saying men have soo many standarts is the funniest shit ever. Really!
@@TeaTea777 True you're right, I wouldn't really know the pressures society places on women.. Although having standards and qualities to look for in a woman aren't things to be nonchalant about.. That still doesn't mean that we aren't able to hold women to a standard that is similar to our life.. E.g. Living a healthy lifestyle, Being faithful and respectful, Having good morals, values and goals, being open-minded, willingness to grow and not be complacent.. Everyone is different in what they're looking for in a partner, but I'm sure every sensible and intelligent man who wants a long-lasting and quality relationship would have some or all of these as essentials.. You will find that women are often too hard on themselves due to the media and often other women's criticisms and judgmental suppressing towards them.. Having someone who operates at a similar standard isn't too much too ask for.. In fact it seems logical and wise to do so, if she's not willing to put in work to a be a better version of herself and grow then why does she deserve men who live and operate at high standards. This is what I mean by high standards.. She will be an asset in a relationship where we are both growing and challenging each other to become a better version of ourselves.. Society doesn't always know whats best for us, but what is a definite thing is the better version you are at with your life corresponds with the standards you would look for in a future partner..
Junior Vatukoula thats the best way to do it I just wanted to point out that society always puts standarts on both genders sometimes standarts that are not even worth to achieve. So just focus on being a better you rather than following stupid videos like this telling you what you should and shouldn’t be and Im talking about everyone here not just men or just women.
@@TeaTea777 I'm just trying to improve my already terrible natural personality. Can I do that? just the words "be yourself" isn't good enough. I get nowhere by "being yourself". I want to improve and grow as a person, I think this video is great.
More likely: 1. Height 2. Face 3. Body structure As for physical traits: 1. Confidence(therefore self esteem) 2. Social status(therefore money) 3. As a guy, you must be masculine, LOL.
I know it is but maybe we shouldn’t make it so important and see if it really is or it’s just our perception of the importance of money 🤔does that make sense 😂
Always too busy to watch all these vids.. I come to these pages to see if anyone summarized these lists and I always find that golden comment..All you guys that do that are amazing 😎💯✌🏾
These are all essentials to become a high value man! It feels good that all FarFromAverage subscribers are going to pass their knowledge to their sons. I will also definitely pass all my financial wisdom to my children, all the things I wish my dad would have told me when I was younger.
One thing is listening to these tips, second thing is understanding them but the most important part is living these lifestyle. I assume that at most 1% of the people watching the videos are living that.
you're more than a boss. You're a wise. Thanks for sharing you don't need a woman to like yourself. I supposed that from long ago. But you told exactly what i was looking for hearing
I like too much "cleanliness". It is the first time I hear about bad breath, dragon's breath, and it is the very important fact to have in account due to a possibility of a kiss.
Stop trying so hard. Grow up and be an individual. Don't feed narcissists that don't appreciate you. These are things you should do for yourself regardless.
Okay, let me try and safe you time (maybe I manage prior to watching the video - let´s see) 1. Currency/Capital 2. Chaseframing 3. Cock-proficiency 4. Calibration Julian actually inspired us with his latest video to summarize most of his videos till now with just C´s. Let´s look at it: Bonus 5. Charismatic 6. Catchy (appearance) 7. Chivalrous 8. Concise 9. Communicative 10. Cogent 11. Clandestine (Seduction) 12. Condone (when she is mad) 13. Connoisseur (concerning Sex, food and restaurants and the things at home) 14. Casanova (behavior) 15. Condom (expert) 16. Cynosure (in party situations) 17. Concordant (to being there for her) 18. Coherent 19. Cocksure (in situations of adversity) 20. Clique (builder) 21. Choreograph (when going out) 22. Circumlocution (in party situations) 23. Critic (of societal rules) 24. Cesar (mindset) 25. Catapult (of enemies) 26. Cerebrate (in fights) 27. Clitoris (stimulator) 28. Charmer 29. Conscientious (concerning work) 30. Coalition (molder)
Floss BEFORE brushing, FarFromAverage. That's where bits of food and bacteria hide out at. Don't believe me? Smell the floss after you've gotten every single tooth, that smell goes away if you floss on the reg. If you're not flossing, you're only doing half the job. Ask any dental hygienist that one.
Super important especially if you've had dental work done such as crowns or implants and there's deeper pockets for food to hide. Also using a waterpic helps alot too, it can reach into spots where floss can't get to. Great advice couldn't agree more.
And the secret 6th "C" is "Commodity." It's often thought of as playing hard to get, but that's not what it really means. Your time is a commodity, so don't waste it all on your gal. Busy yourself with work so that she'll chase you.
Most of us whether male or female,care about looks......Yes females do care about behavior but they do same for physical appearance as well.......not just females,male too.....and there is nothing wrong.
Looks are much more important for a guy to be attracted to a girl than the other way around. Women are much more attracted to a guy based on his behaviour and HOW HE MAKES HER FEEL. He can be the best looking guy on the planet, but if he has weak character and so-on and doesn't make her feel anything, her attraction for him will die quick-smart.
I have ALL of these things, in endless abundance, but so far I still haven't found a truly single and high quality woman who appreciates those things about me... where is she?
@Raja Ghosh Exactly!... That's just what I'm doing is concentrating on continually bettering myself. I don't really give a shit if a woman notices me or not because I know my worth and only the women who are up to my level of awesomeness will be worthy of me possibly getting to know!... I definitely don't need *anyone* else to "validate" me in any way, because I know now exactly who I am and everything I have to offer and so now its just up to the right girl to notice that about me whenever she is ready... I definitely don't "need" anyone else in my life to know my complete worth, but I would still appreciate finding a girl who is actually on my same level to *share* life's many wonderful experiences with!... I'm totally fine and happy by myself, but I'm also open to finding and getting to know a girl who is *complementary* , *beneficial* and *harmonius* to me and my life, as I would be with and to her too... The single life IS great, but with the right partner by your side it could be even better still!
just be nice and good personality my guy dont try to follow stupid rules. Being a boy shouldn’t be a law to follow. Be yourself be happy dont try to meet any criteria. A nice girl that appreciates you for you is more worth than anything.
It's because there are many thousands who also have these qualities. It doesn't make you stand out. Far from average is right spot-on average, every video.
Okay, wonderful. Thumbs up. However, what about what happened to that character in the movie called The Blue Angel, 1930, whereby the professor became a clown, and went insane? He then went back to his true occupation. The Blue Angel is a tragedy about a man who was too strict, and serious, as a teacher in the Gymnasium; what is called High School here. The professor went astray, met a beautiful, charming young lady, who was supposed to be his Miss Right, and got lost. He got very lost.
for the guys who say money,women dont need your money,and they certainly dont need to sleep with guys to get money,they have orbiters for that,they pay them stuff and never sleep with them
Literally studies have been done showing women don't give a shit about your personality, it's all your looks. Check out Better Bachelor's videos, he cites the studies.
Confidence is the key to success in life. Confidence within. Confidence without. I think there is too much caring about what women think. Who gives a fuck what they think 😂 Do you 😎
Serious question. If one as a man has to make all this effort, is there something women have to do to attract a man or are they born with this natural talent to attract men?
There's generally much more that contributes to the attractiveness of a male, but it is certainly a great idea to focus on the things you can actually influence! Someone that is born handsome, attractive, graceful and possessing supreme beauty of complexion will likely have an advantage though.
To some dudes complaining about females not having to do anything... Have you guys ever wondered that they may litetally have no other choice but to make themselves look pretty, and WAIT? As men are more visual than women, and we are the ones supposed to approach them?? We have a much easier time here, guys. By looking clean and simply changing our behavior, we may attract the opposite sex, thats not the same for women though. Complain less and improve more
I highly suggest that just dont go through the comments to get the gist of the video in short. The explanation around the gist is more important then the Four C's of Attraction that some people comment so that others dont have to look at the video. If you are not intelligent enough to dedicate 8 mins of this video so that your life can improve then why the hell do you even look at the video. He is providing value to us. Be smart enought to take that value.
Sometimes I have my Lotus pull away sounding like a vacuum cleaner as a test to her. See if she's a superficial materialistic thrill seeker. To see if she wants me or simply an image. I want a woman. NOT a little girl.
Number 1 - Stop wearing socks with rubber sandals (and keep those sandals for the poll or the locker room)! You're not a basketball player, and it just makes you look poor and disheveled.
Thanks for your suggestions bros. But here is the tricky thing, i hope y'all understand this. We haven't talked yet, at all. She just stopped seeing my social media stories, reacting to my post etc. This girl is a damn introvert, she's very tricky. Do y'all think it's worth the risk?
If you are searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look at the mirror 🖖
No
My reflection isn't going to help. Try again.
I say "u said it so correctly".
People listen to all kinds of advice but never reflect our self to where we stand. Which is a bad move in improving our self.
Old Dudes Wisdom - Life requires Wisdom Channel as Ozzy says in the song “I’m going threw changes “
Excellent
*5 C's:*
Cleanliness
Confidence
Congruency
Consistency
...and *CASH*
Lol so True
You won
Absolutely correct, except cash should be top of the list!
and Cock
Totally Agree With You...🤑🤑🤑
The four C's of attraction:
1: Cleanliness (groomed appearance)
2: Core confidence (confidence in EVERY situation & environment), deep believe in yourself (don't need to be liked by a female to feel good about yourself)
3: Congruence. If you look confident, be confident.
4: Consistency. Holding frame all the time.
Thanks.
5. Cash…
Lol
Sounds like everything RSD has been teaching for over a decade! lol
so basically take care of how you look, believe in yourself, don't be afraid of exiting the comfort zone and don' pretend to be someone else
We as Men have the right to hold women to high standards too. It isn't just a one way thing..
its not as u dont tho. Women are required to be constantly perfect/pretty/smart/perfect body/confident but not too much/feminine/submissive/strong but not too strong/hairless/glowing/skinny/delicate/elegant/the way we dress/ the way we walk. and so so so many more beauty standarts and standarts in common put on women everyday. If not men have the easiest standarts. All yall gotta do is be nice tall and not a loser yall dont even have to be cute.Saying men have soo many standarts is the funniest shit ever. Really!
@@TeaTea777 True you're right, I wouldn't really know the pressures society places on women.. Although having standards and qualities to look for in a woman aren't things to be nonchalant about.. That still doesn't mean that we aren't able to hold women to a standard that is similar to our life..
E.g. Living a healthy lifestyle, Being faithful and respectful, Having good morals, values and goals, being open-minded, willingness to grow and not be complacent.. Everyone is different in what they're looking for in a partner, but I'm sure every sensible and intelligent man who wants a long-lasting and quality relationship would have some or all of these as essentials..
You will find that women are often too hard on themselves due to the media and often other women's criticisms and judgmental suppressing towards them.. Having someone who operates at a similar standard isn't too much too ask for.. In fact it seems logical and wise to do so, if she's not willing to put in work to a be a better version of herself and grow then why does she deserve men who live and operate at high standards.
This is what I mean by high standards.. She will be an asset in a relationship where we are both growing and challenging each other to become a better version of ourselves.. Society doesn't always know whats best for us, but what is a definite thing is the better version you are at with your life corresponds with the standards you would look for in a future partner..
Junior Vatukoula thats the best way to do it I just wanted to point out that society always puts standarts on both genders sometimes standarts that are not even worth to achieve. So just focus on being a better you rather than following stupid videos like this telling you what you should and shouldn’t be and Im talking about everyone here not just men or just women.
@@TeaTea777 No worries, I see where you are coming from and you are right..
@@TeaTea777 I'm just trying to improve my already terrible natural personality. Can I do that? just the words "be yourself" isn't good enough. I get nowhere by "being yourself". I want to improve and grow as a person, I think this video is great.
My experience :
External appearance :
1: face
2: height
3: body structur (muscular, slim, fat...)
Psysical traits:
1: dominance/confidence
2: masculinity
3: diligence/money
4: self esteem
5: social status
True that
More likely:
1. Height
2. Face
3. Body structure
As for physical traits:
1. Confidence(therefore self esteem)
2. Social status(therefore money)
3. As a guy, you must be masculine, LOL.
Cleanliness
Confidence
Congruency
Consistency
You're welcome!
thanks!
Thanks!
Currency
Thank you
Thnks
Number 5 - Money. Sadly but nowadays it's quite important
It was always like that and its logical
Knowing the language of money can save you so many headaches down the road. It’s crucial!
5 C's:
Cleanliness
Confidence
Congruency
Consistency
Cash.
Lets stick with the C’s and call it currency. Sadly yes that’s true.
I know it is but maybe we shouldn’t make it so important and see if it really is or it’s just our perception of the importance of money 🤔does that make sense 😂
confidence, control, challenge....cleanliness is a given
Always too busy to watch all these vids.. I come to these pages to see if anyone summarized these lists and I always find that golden comment..All you guys that do that are amazing 😎💯✌🏾
I'd be long lost without You, It's been three years now. Bless you
Damn boi
These are all essentials to become a high value man! It feels good that all FarFromAverage subscribers are going to pass their knowledge to their sons. I will also definitely pass all my financial wisdom to my children, all the things I wish my dad would have told me when I was younger.
One thing is listening to these tips, second thing is understanding them but the most important part is living these lifestyle. I assume that at most 1% of the people watching the videos are living that.
I date a r al handsome who loves me I miss him all th time
Exactly!
I’ve watched your videos for years now.. then I can understand when you talking about confidence ❤️❤️
Cash
Cash
Cash
Cash
You’re welcome!
you're more than a boss. You're a wise. Thanks for sharing you don't need a woman to like yourself. I supposed that from long ago. But you told exactly what i was looking for hearing
I was searching for this channel for ages. Keep it up 👌
Again excellent and inspiring content and just exactly right.
1. Cleanliness
2. Confidence
3. Congruence
4. Consistency
You’re welcome 😉
If you want to be with a woman, then you'll have to be real man. That's the thing I learned, and your videos helped me with that. Thank you alot man
I appreciate your wisdom thanks ..
Mans said “Dragon Breath” I’m done ✅ jaja 😆 so underrated, but legit true 💀
I knew guys that loved to sniff the thongs of strippers.
If you have GAPO, you're not going to score. (Gorilla Arm Pit Oder)
That is a trap folks, don't live to impress others, live to make yourself happy! That is all
Congruency is new word I learned today
Me too
Maintain your Masculine frame consistently 24/7
I like too much "cleanliness". It is the first time I hear about bad breath, dragon's breath, and it is the very important fact to have in account due to a possibility of a kiss.
when the lotus takes off and you hear the sound of a small vacuum cleaner 😂
its a British car so its natural state is to not even run but look fast, therefore incongruence is its nature
Thank you
Stop trying so hard. Grow up and be an individual. Don't feed narcissists that don't appreciate you. These are things you should do for yourself regardless.
Hi... I would like to know what software you use for those awesome videos?
Okay, let me try and safe you time (maybe I manage prior to watching the video - let´s see)
1. Currency/Capital
2. Chaseframing
3. Cock-proficiency
4. Calibration
Julian actually inspired us with his latest video to summarize most of his videos till now with just C´s. Let´s look at it:
Bonus
5. Charismatic
6. Catchy (appearance)
7. Chivalrous
8. Concise
9. Communicative
10. Cogent
11. Clandestine (Seduction)
12. Condone (when she is mad)
13. Connoisseur (concerning Sex, food and restaurants and the things at home)
14. Casanova (behavior)
15. Condom (expert)
16. Cynosure (in party situations)
17. Concordant (to being there for her)
18. Coherent
19. Cocksure (in situations of adversity)
20. Clique (builder)
21. Choreograph (when going out)
22. Circumlocution (in party situations)
23. Critic (of societal rules)
24. Cesar (mindset)
25. Catapult (of enemies)
26. Cerebrate (in fights)
27. Clitoris (stimulator)
28. Charmer
29. Conscientious (concerning work)
30. Coalition (molder)
Getting found!!! Leveling up!!🔥🤘🔥🤘 big love from another youtuber
All confidence is situational
Just be good at being you!
You are my NZT Tablet.
Floss BEFORE brushing, FarFromAverage. That's where bits of food and bacteria hide out at. Don't believe me? Smell the floss after you've gotten every single tooth, that smell goes away if you floss on the reg. If you're not flossing, you're only doing half the job. Ask any dental hygienist that one.
Super important especially if you've had dental work done such as crowns or implants and there's deeper pockets for food to hide. Also using a waterpic helps alot too, it can reach into spots where floss can't get to. Great advice couldn't agree more.
Seriously good advice
Always great tips to follow, Thanks
And the secret 6th "C" is "Commodity." It's often thought of as playing hard to get, but that's not what it really means. Your time is a commodity, so don't waste it all on your gal. Busy yourself with work so that she'll chase you.
Any video on Tips we can use please with out the story's thank you
👉CONSISTENCY and CONGRUENCE = Same/SAME ❕
True
That diss on Lotus, nice! I hate Lotus too.
I just felt myself level up after this video 😅
The add playing Ik 2 confidence courage
Most of us whether male or female,care about looks......Yes females do care about behavior but they do same for physical appearance as well.......not just females,male too.....and there is nothing wrong.
Looks are much more important for a guy to be attracted to a girl than the other way around.
Women are much more attracted to a guy based on his behaviour and HOW HE MAKES HER FEEL.
He can be the best looking guy on the planet, but if he has weak character and so-on and doesn't make her feel anything, her attraction for him will die quick-smart.
Ima guess calm, confident, courageous
Cash cash cash catnip😂😂😂
I have ALL of these things, in endless abundance, but so far I still haven't found a truly single and high quality woman who appreciates those things about me... where is she?
@Raja Ghosh Exactly!... That's just what I'm doing is concentrating on continually bettering myself. I don't really give a shit if a woman notices me or not because I know my worth and only the women who are up to my level of awesomeness will be worthy of me possibly getting to know!... I definitely don't need *anyone* else to "validate" me in any way, because I know now exactly who I am and everything I have to offer and so now its just up to the right girl to notice that about me whenever she is ready... I definitely don't "need" anyone else in my life to know my complete worth, but I would still appreciate finding a girl who is actually on my same level to *share* life's many wonderful experiences with!... I'm totally fine and happy by myself, but I'm also open to finding and getting to know a girl who is *complementary* , *beneficial* and *harmonius* to me and my life, as I would be with and to her too... The single life IS great, but with the right partner by your side it could be even better still!
just be nice and good personality my guy dont try to follow stupid rules. Being a boy shouldn’t be a law to follow. Be yourself be happy dont try to meet any criteria. A nice girl that appreciates you for you is more worth than anything.
It's because there are many thousands who also have these qualities. It doesn't make you stand out. Far from average is right spot-on average, every video.
Went out with a woman who told me I'd old man's breath... She dug infection out of my tonsils... This got rid of my bad breath...
Haydee Haydee Haydee hoooo... 🎶
Peter Griffins bad breath song... 🤣
I've literally had several women walk into my apartment and the first thing out of their mouth was how "clean" it was.
Okay, wonderful. Thumbs up. However, what about what happened to that character in the movie called The Blue Angel, 1930, whereby the professor became a clown, and went insane? He then went back to his true occupation. The Blue Angel is a tragedy about a man who was too strict, and serious, as a teacher in the Gymnasium; what is called High School here. The professor went astray, met a beautiful, charming young lady, who was supposed to be his Miss Right, and got lost. He got very lost.
whats the difference of congruence and consistency
Context: 4 Cs
*Cleanliness
*Confidence
*Congruency
*Consistency
........Honorable Mention
*Cash
If You want to save a alot of time and skip his monotone voice just put playback speed to 1.5 , its actually fine lmfao
Actually, it's 1.25
👏👏
Console for gaming.
Controller n#2.
Anything else and it’s “GTFO of my space!”
So if you don't have infinite resources they will eventually see that you're not what they really wanted lol
Suuperb
Can you upload your deleted videos about pareto princhiple and other to improve us Julien
Catch22 here! If you work to get the 4 C's to get women then you loose them!
It gets deeper
for the guys who say money,women dont need your money,and they certainly dont need to sleep with guys to get money,they have orbiters for that,they pay them stuff and never sleep with them
5:10 wut? after the "lotus" and the "vacuum cleaner" i thought it would be a tesla roadster.
Literally studies have been done showing women don't give a shit about your personality, it's all your looks. Check out Better Bachelor's videos, he cites the studies.
Confidence is the key to success in life.
Confidence within. Confidence without.
I think there is too much caring about what women think.
Who gives a fuck what they think 😂
Do you 😎
What are nails supposed to look like for it to be attractive, mine are destroyed completely
If they are long enough to capture a bit of dirt underneath, it's time to cut them. Maybe you should check out some of Alpha M's videos.
Vincent Vega do you recommend any
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Serious question. If one as a man has to make all this effort, is there something women have to do to attract a man or are they born with this natural talent to attract men?
This was unnecessarily complicated. The formula is actually quite simple:
*C* ash + *C* ash + *C* ash + *C* ash => *C* unt
👍👍👍
i wanna look like a person from the X men
Move on your purposes, women will follow like rain, and you will get to chose. Be alpha don't tolerate
Why do I feel like I’m hearing Tom Cruise’s voice when I see these videos?
Money
Money
Money
Money
Money
wow, first :)
Jajaja You were 😄
Hey mate can you tell how you edit this anime video
Love from India 🇮🇳
September 16
Congruency should be compatibility they want to get along - they do not want someone who is always agreeable; they take that as weakness.
Brush the tongue while brushing your teeth or buy a tongue scrapper.
Bro. You have no idea how many people don't know what that is
1:25 Why is that guy sitting on the floor?
There's generally much more that contributes to the attractiveness of a male, but it is certainly a great idea to focus on the things you can actually influence! Someone that is born handsome, attractive, graceful and possessing supreme beauty of complexion will likely have an advantage though.
4 c's
1. Cleanliness
2. Confidence
3. Congruency
4. Consistency
Number 5. Cash
To some dudes complaining about females not having to do anything... Have you guys ever wondered that they may litetally have no other choice but to make themselves look pretty, and WAIT? As men are more visual than women, and we are the ones supposed to approach them?? We have a much easier time here, guys. By looking clean and simply changing our behavior, we may attract the opposite sex, thats not the same for women though. Complain less and improve more
😉❤️🙏🏻
I highly suggest that just dont go through the comments to get the gist of the video in short. The explanation around the gist is more important then the Four C's of Attraction that some people comment so that others dont have to look at the video. If you are not intelligent enough to dedicate 8 mins of this video so that your life can improve then why the hell do you even look at the video. He is providing value to us. Be smart enought to take that value.
Cash, crypto, cars, and credit...
Second
no dragon breath with a mask on
self and other are really One
thank me later
namaste
First
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only cc’s is tasing like these
Sometimes I have my Lotus pull away sounding like a vacuum cleaner as a test to her. See if she's a superficial materialistic thrill seeker.
To see if she wants me or simply an image.
I want a woman.
NOT a little girl.
Read bagawat gita 🙏
Wear nice shoes..Women notice it. They love shoes. Why do they pay $$$ for them? They love shoes.
I expected charisma to be on here
So this is for men only? Wow
Number 1 - Stop wearing socks with rubber sandals (and keep those sandals for the poll or the locker room)! You're not a basketball player, and it just makes you look poor and disheveled.
Agreed💯🚫🎓
#1: Cdoggins 😏
Literally the 1% who is reading this, God bless you, stay safe, and have a wonderful day 😊(my dream is to become a famous CZcamsr) thanks! CLOSE TO 1K
Can someone help me?
What can you do if a girl suddenly stopped being in touch?
Don’t deal with her no more
Two things: Move. On.
Fart on her face 💨
Thanks for your suggestions bros. But here is the tricky thing, i hope y'all understand this. We haven't talked yet, at all. She just stopped seeing my social media stories, reacting to my post etc. This girl is a damn introvert, she's very tricky. Do y'all think it's worth the risk?
Work on the 4 C’s of attraction.
Don’t chase women. Chase excellence.
Never put a woman on a pedestal.
Be the prize.