Returning to Work After Psychosis or Other Trauma

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  • čas přidán 5. 11. 2022
  • Hey guys! This video has been requested a lot so I decided to make it. Hope it is helpful for you!
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Komentáře • 70

  • @simplewelshman
    @simplewelshman Před 11 dny

    Thanks for the content. Wishing everyone the recovery you need.

  • @briellehunter7233
    @briellehunter7233 Před rokem +7

    I’ve definitely self isolated far too long. I’m scared of everything but have no choice but to get working. Thank you so much.

  • @Persephone7243
    @Persephone7243 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you for making this video ! This is exactly what I needed to hear today.

  • @tinamarie1111
    @tinamarie1111 Před rokem +1

    I just found your Chanel on my feed and I am binge watching your channel,great information on this Chanel I can relate so much to everything you speak of so I thank you 🙌

  • @SadPerson-gr6qh
    @SadPerson-gr6qh Před 7 měsíci +7

    Oh, I am So NOT returning to the work which gave me psychosis. Best for me best for the work. Housewoman now but no psychosis.

    • @yousmallfish5069
      @yousmallfish5069 Před 2 měsíci

      Female privelege

    • @bobostyle1996
      @bobostyle1996 Před 2 měsíci +2

      ​@yousmallfish5069
      Not a nice thing to say to a person suffering bro

    • @eye-leenlove
      @eye-leenlove Před měsícem

      She’s being honest. It’s her way of healing. Her way of retreating! Jeeez. You guys are atrocious!

  • @DanFr33man
    @DanFr33man Před rokem

    Hey Hayden, thank you for sharing, you've done a lot to make me feel less alone and more normal with my experiences. What you have to say often aligns with the more useful, meaningful and positive things I have learned about recovery for myself and others. I wish you the best for your continual progress and look forward to your future videos!!

  • @getupandgo77
    @getupandgo77 Před rokem

    this is so helpful! Thank you again

  • @M.Sid9.3
    @M.Sid9.3 Před rokem +3

    Your content has been a great support for me, life has never been so hard on the daily. Thank you so much.

  • @marks8225
    @marks8225 Před rokem

    Thank you! This is content for me✌

  • @MarioStankovic
    @MarioStankovic Před rokem +4

    Dear Brother thank you for sharing your experience and giving hopeful thoughts. I am exactly at this point you are referring to, I try to free my self of this overwhelming anxiety and look at the small progress from week to week. Loving people, spirituality and faith helps a lot. ❤️

  • @redballoonluke
    @redballoonluke Před měsícem +1

    This is fantastic thank you

  • @toastytoast001
    @toastytoast001 Před měsícem

    So relatable, thanks, I feel less majorly bad about things

  • @mikecollins2371
    @mikecollins2371 Před rokem

    Just wanted to say thanks for the words of encouragement and sharing your story with us as always. Im currently working for the agency's program that helped me get through my psychosis three years ago. I just started so im still unsure how well ill be at my job of youth peer support. But the team is really optimistic and proud of how far ive come so thats comforting in having the extra support here. Im working for whats called the ihope program, and its sole purpose is to help people with first episode psychosis or prevent them from having psychosis at all. Anyway just wanted to share and give you some praise for your videos of encouragement.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před rokem +1

      Hey! Thank you for sharing! I'm so glad that there are resources like that out there and that you are supporting others through similar experiences. I am glad that you have enjoyed and found my videos of benefit. Thank you 🙏❤️

  • @lazarmitrovic180
    @lazarmitrovic180 Před rokem +5

    I have my first date today, and it is first time after psychosis, and oh man I am nervous. Dates were always what I used to love doing the most, but now, after psychosis, damn, it is so hard,I am so weird in social situations...

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před rokem +2

      Thank you for sharing and good job having the courage to step out of you comfort zone! Good luck on the date!

    • @lazarmitrovic180
      @lazarmitrovic180 Před rokem

      @@justbeinghayden9451 Ty man

    • @lukehwadsworth9851
      @lukehwadsworth9851 Před rokem +1

      Just trying to understand what feeling weird in social situations means to you. Are you overly self aware or self conscious or are you still experiencing any low level symptoms that distract you where you can’t focus as much.

    • @lazarmitrovic180
      @lazarmitrovic180 Před rokem +2

      @@lukehwadsworth9851 cognitive problems from my psychosis, my brain function rly bad. I have trouble understanding, memory problems, trouble focusing, I forget words... My head is just one big mess right now

  • @danieljones4648
    @danieljones4648 Před rokem

    Great video and good advice bro I can relate to what your saying really good points and practical steps thanks for another one keep them coming man

  • @queenoftemplar
    @queenoftemplar Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you so much

  • @EmceePinks
    @EmceePinks Před 8 měsíci +4

    Still having trouble with this after 8 years.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před 7 měsíci +3

      Sorry to hear this I am sure it has been a challenging journey. I appreciate you sharing this on the channel 🙏

  • @ania-sk9lz
    @ania-sk9lz Před 8 měsíci

    I listen 2 meditation music ,chill out , asmr , deep om. Shamanic drums.... I'm recovering from psychosis... ( damaged brain 2 the rest of my life)

  • @asuicidemachine
    @asuicidemachine Před rokem

    Good man.

  • @seanbertsch3999
    @seanbertsch3999 Před rokem

    Would you mind including specific examples of what you experience? ie in experiencing a different reality.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před rokem +1

      I have videos that go into detail about this if you check out some videos about my psychosis experiences. Feel free to reach out if you have any further questions after watching those.

  • @Kristel280
    @Kristel280 Před 14 dny

    I feel very frustrated with not being able to work or studie.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před 8 dny

      That's understandable. Holding space for it being frustrating and identifying ways in which you do have control to take action are how you can feel more empowered.

  • @greentea_3885
    @greentea_3885 Před rokem

    May gof bless you

  • @Moonstonee212
    @Moonstonee212 Před 10 měsíci

    4:00

  • @Moonstonee212
    @Moonstonee212 Před 10 měsíci

    2:51

  • @Moonstonee212
    @Moonstonee212 Před 10 měsíci

    5:52

  • @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi

    Can psychosis be recovered in a state that he no longer need medicine and no longer feel any symptoms of psychosis? Just need any honest review from you, any idea?

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před 24 dny

      Yes, I am not on medication and do not have psychosis anymore. I was able to recover and taper off of medication.

    • @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi
      @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi Před 24 dny

      @@justbeinghayden9451 After how many days you stopped your meds? I'm curious because I also don't feel psychosis anymore and I'm still taking medicine from last 7 months.But the doctor still recomending to take meds. Due to side effects, I'm thinking to stop meds after 1 years, so I want to know about you, when did you stop your meds? Thanks:)

  • @woutje280
    @woutje280 Před rokem

    Can you give me your opinion about my current situation? Im currently at a level where people can go fk themselves and idgaf about others anymore. I only have contact with my brother and step-sister, with them i only have the feeling that i can be myself. Is this a common phenomina of recovery?

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před rokem

      I would have to know more about the situation, but it sounds like you might have some anger and pain from being hurt by others sometime in the past. Anger can be part of the recovery process and can be helpful towards healing when funnelled into productive channels.

    • @woutje280
      @woutje280 Před rokem

      @@justbeinghayden9451 nah its not anger. I uhmm wrote it wrong down. Idgaf about other peoples opinions and people who want to change my life how they think i should live my life. And yes maybe some anger towards those people who think what is best for me. If i want to sit on the couch all day and scream i like cheese i do that and what other people think idc because most of them are retards anyway

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před rokem

      @@woutje280 You don't have to take other people's advice and you can live the way you want to. Just know that all actions have consequences, wether positive or negative, and if your actions are affecting other people you will get feedback on that whether you want to or not. When it comes to feedback and advice I try to understand the intensions behind the advice or feedback and why it might be coming to me. It can sometimes be a lesson for me to stand in my power, to become aware of a blind spot I have, or a little of both. Either way you have a choice as to how you respond.

    • @woutje280
      @woutje280 Před rokem

      @@justbeinghayden9451 thats true, but i think the only one's who are honest and true to me is my brother and step-sis. The rest is very judgemental and arrogant.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před rokem

      @@woutje280 It's good you have people who are non-judgmental and supportive. You choose who you give your power to. Give time and energy to people who help you grow, learn, and who genuinely care about you 🙂

  • @martymar2113
    @martymar2113 Před 6 měsíci

    Feels like it’s a condom over my emotions

  • @ladydejaneiro
    @ladydejaneiro Před rokem +2

    I'm amazed you still believe in spirituality and raising your vibration etc after a psychosis. I just feel ashamed. Delusional. I lost my faith.

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před rokem +2

      I have always been someone who tries to find solutions to problems. In my search and pursuit of answers, I have found that a present-focused and practical approach is most helpful. When it comes to spirituality, I don't see anything we do in life as separate from spirit. For me, life, existence, and consciousness are manifestations of spirit. So I don't think anyone needs to believe in or not believe in it. It just is.
      I can understand why you may feel shame about the experience. It can feel demoralizing. Know that your experience is valuable and part of some peoples' experience. There is a lot of stigma in our society about states like psychosis, which is not understood. Know that it is similar to any other intense experience, like a car accident or the death of a significant person in one's life. You are not broken because of it, and nothing is wrong with you. I know it's difficult, and you can still grow, learn, and have positive experiences after having psychosis.
      I am sending you positive vibes and wishing you integration and connection. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @bobostyle1996
    @bobostyle1996 Před 2 měsíci

    Great insights, thank you. I tried to go back to working two months after my psychosis amd it was really challenging. I gave up on that job and it was the right decision to make because I was in the early stages of psychosis. Now I feel much better and I'm working easier jobs, its been almost a year since my psychosis and I hope to become independent in the next months. For everyone going through this hard experience I would say: "slowly but surely". Keep pushing at your own pace, we can do it. Let's learn from this and may that make us stronger.
    Have a good one

    • @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi
      @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi Před 24 dny +1

      Are you still taking medication? I was also detected psychosis in early stage, but after one year I am thinking to stop meds. So I want to know about your experience?

    • @bobostyle1996
      @bobostyle1996 Před 24 dny +1

      I was diagnosed with psychosis and started taking 1mg of risperidone in may 2023, I stopped taking it march 2024, so more or less 10 months.
      Every experience is different, I'm doing fine now. My family paid for therapy, twice a week at the psichiast for the first six months, then once a week. After the psychosis I had lots of problems in the relationship with my parents and my brother, I feel stronger now and I try and not interfere with their lives and try to support them in the measure that it's healthy to me. Thankfully my parents moved away, not far but enough distance so that I can feel calm in my house, the house that my parents own. I don't speak that much with my father, because he was aggressive with my mother when I was growing up.
      I bought a bycicle and when I used it for 2-3 hours a day everytime I could.
      I got closer to god and dig deep into spirituality and psychology.
      I even used to go out and drink alcohol and use cocaine with new friends as a coping mechanism.
      This is just my experience and if I share it maybe you don't make the same mistakes.
      Take your time, find what you like doing and do it as often as you can, thank god for the awakening that you received, follow your heart, this pain is all temporary, use it as something that will make you stronger, open minded and kind. Dont get into drug addiction, enjoy nature, the sun, the sea, the greenland that our god gave us.
      Important thing is to train your body, go for walks, go the gym, do something! Don't stay in the house thinking about what went wrong, dont take anything personal and forgive who did you wrong, free yourself from those thoughts because you dont deserve to think of them, you deserve to be free and to be at peace.
      Eat healthy foods, stay away from alcohol and coffee, drink pleanty of water.
      This too shall pass, I know that you can do it because you have it in you, you were given everything when you were born.
      Sorry for talking too long and grammar errors.
      Believe in you, you can do it.
      Love, Robert ❤️
      @@ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi

    • @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi
      @ThulungaBasumatary-cq5qi Před 24 dny

      @@bobostyle1996 Thanks for sharing your experience, it will be helpful for me.

  • @bobostyle1996
    @bobostyle1996 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Hey, have you ever talked about the fact that psychosis can be present due to underlying trauma and more specifically childhood trauma?
    I ask this question because this was/is one of my interests after I experienced psychosis.
    If you did please link the video, if not you could consider talking about it in one of your next videos.
    Cheers!

    • @justbeinghayden9451
      @justbeinghayden9451  Před 2 měsíci +1

      There are many reasons why psychosis can present. I can look into this more for sure. Thank you for your comment.

    • @User98681
      @User98681 Před měsícem +1

      I went thru physcosis that was induced thru years of physcologival and emotional abuse throughout my childhood