Remarrying after divorce is a SIN. truth Or religious scam?|Dat chrisitian woman talk #4
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- čas přidán 26. 09. 2022
- hey favourite, so i got his questions from a brother on here to share my opinion on this topic of REMARRYING. in this video i share my understanding of what God words is saying with regards to the scriptures is quoted.
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thank you my sister for your response i really appreciate you taking time to look into it. can truly say i have learnt a lot especially on the issue of biblical legal, permitted grounds for divorce, hence it (remarriage) not being a sin. had never actually looked at it from that lens thus the confusion obvious not only only me but a lot others. Proverbs 27:17 indeed, may the Holy Spirit continue to guide the Church as we wait for the Bridegroom who will find us as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. AMEN
Amen, Amen. Thank you for raising the question, I was blessed by it.
The Greek word in 1 Cor. 7:15 is not the same as the Greek word in 1 Cor. 7:39. In verse 15 Paul says that the abandoned spouse is not ENSLAVED or IN BONDAGE to the spouse who left. He did not say they are no longer BOUND as one flesh until death! To make it clear, he reiterated in verse 39 that a woman is BOUND to her husband for as long as he lives!
To interpret this passage to mean that Paul was saying the abandoned spouse is no longer in a one-flesh covenant with their spouse is to make Paul contradict himself!
Capitalizing on the “exception clause” while ignoring the whole point of what Jesus was saying!
What about the same passage in Luke which contains no so-called “exception clause”?
In Matthew, we see an example of this “divorce” for “fornication” when Joseph was going to divorce Mary before they were actually married! If Jesus was saying that if your spouse commits adultery then you have the right to divorce, then why did he not use the word for “adultery” rather than the Greek word “porneia”?? And why does this “exception clause” only appear in Matthew and not in Luke?
It's hard to tell, the only way is to ask the Holy Spirit for guidance 🙏
It's can be sis chioma but like you said nothing is hard with the holyspirit. He will guide us and the word of God never changes. Have a blessedness week.
What we don't see is that the whole 1COR.7 is dealing with fornication the wife becoming one flesh/sex with a man before she has become one flesh with a husband. Jesus made it clear in Matt.19:9 that the only reason to divorce is fornication so in 1COR.7:10-11 we know the reason for the divorce, and when we go on to verses 12 to 15 they are still divorcing for the same reason but now they want to know what to do if someone in the marriage does not believe. The lord has now asked in the previous verses 1COR 7:10-11 that we stay together, the wife not leave but if she does she should remain unmarried ie not sex, or be reconcile to her husband, and that the man not divorce her. So Paul's advice is if there is an unbeliever and the unbeliever wants to stay married then they should stay together rather than divorce 7:12-13.
In verse 14 the children are holy being children of a marriage but if they divorced the children are unclean having come from and unclean act and have no father, or I should say "have 2 fathers (John 8:41).
In verse 15 the reason the brother or sister is not under bondage is because remember this divorce is due to fornication (this is something she did before marrying her husband) and the unbeliever doesn't believe in Christ asking us to stay together (1COR.7:10-11) so the unbeliever is gonna want to divorce according to the Law in Deut 24:1-4 and go be with someone else. So rather than us being held in bondage in a marriage to and unbeliever who wants to leave then let them leave.
Thank you so much for your comment, reading on my way home. And my attention is pulled to verse 14and 15 of 1 corinthians 7.
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Yes I know your attention is pulled from 1COR.7:12,13,15
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Woman can only have a new husband if she is guilty of becoming one flesh before becoming a wife to her husband and has been divorced by her husband.
(Matthew 19:6 KJV) Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
But we know that was changed with Deut.24:1-4 which Jesus made it clear that if a woman has becomes one flesh with someone before she has become one flesh with her husband Matt.19:9.
So if the man becomes one flesh with another wife he has not sinned unless he has put away his wife for adultery or anything other than fornication, but if a woman becomes one flesh with another husband while her husband lives she is called an adulteress, (Romans 7:3) unless she has been put away for fornication (Matt.19:9)
Now we are commanded to stay together or the woman should be reconciled back to her husband 1COR.7:10-11.
Why must she remain unmarried to return to her husband, because sex is marriage but it is called marriage when it is between a husband and wife, so if she goes out and has sex, the same rules apply of Deut.24:4 she can not go back to the former husband.
People get confused reading Paul's letters
In 1COR.7 Paul is addressing fornication as he said in verses 1 and 2. but he is addressing 3 groups
Groups
#1 The unmarried in verses 3-9
#2 The married in verses 10-24
#3 The virgins/betrothed in verses 25-40
A woman is called wife during the engagement period but it's not official until sex or what they called "becoming one flesh".
So now clear understanding is given to the
#1 The unbeliever believes in the law
#2 Children being unclean
#3 Not under bondage
#4 If thou marry thou hast not sinned
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A good example of fornication is the story of what Joseph thought of Mary in Matt.1:18,19
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(Matthew 1:19 KJV) Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not willing to make her a publick example, was minded to put her away privily.
This is the public example which is before being married
(Deuteronomy 22:20 KJV) But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel:
(Deuteronomy 22:21 KJV) Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father’s house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you.
This is at any point before the husband marries wife .
But if he doesn't find out until after the marriage then he can divorce her Deut.24:1 which Joseph thought to do
Now when we understand that sex is marriage but only called marriage between a husband and wife, then we can understand how marrying another person is adultery If the wife was not put away for fornication.
So once you marry a woman if you divorce her for fornication and she marries another you can not take her back Deut.24:4 so if you divorce her for adultery how could God tell the woman to be reconciled to her husband in 1COR.7:11? The thing would have to be done before the marriage because she can't marry, leave for another man, then come back because she is defiled.
Jesus did not say you can divorce and remarry on grounds of adultery! He said that if you divorce and remarry, that IS adultery!! The “exception clause” does not say that if your spouse commits adultery, you can divorce them and marry someone else. It says “except for fornication”. It is not the same word as adultery. The word for “adultery” is only in that verse as an explanation of what REMARRIAGE after divorce is!! It is a twisting of Jesus’ words to claim he gave anyone permission to divorce and remarry! He said that what God has joined together, man MUST NOT separate! Divorce and remarriage is a grievous evil!!!
The best thing for a woman to do is remain unmarried once divorced for her fornication which is not adultery, but premarital
(1 Corinthians 7:10 KJV) And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
(1 Corinthians 7:11 KJV) But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
(But if the husband or wife who isn’t a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the believing husband or wife is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you to live in peace.)
1 Corinthians 7:15
For example, when a woman marries, the law binds her to her husband as long as he is alive. But if he dies, the laws of marriage no longer apply to her.
Romans 7:2 NLT
Once the man or woman dies yhe other is free to remarry without being guilty of breaking any law.
And I tell you this, whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery-unless his wife has been unfaithful.”
Matthew 19:9 NLT
If you divorced in the ground fo adultery, and you remarry u are not guilty of sexual immorality or adultery bcos you first married is dead on permissable grounds.
Btw I think all these is to demonstrate that we have to live with christ ,in spirit and not the law.
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(Matthew 19:9 KJV) And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Notice he didn't say adultery he said fornication if he wanted to say adultery he would have said it as he did in the verse.
Adultery was punishable by death
(John 8:3 KJV) And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,
(John 8:4 KJV) They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
(John 8:5 KJV) Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?
(Leviticus 20:10 KJV) And the man that committeth adultery with another man’s wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour’s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.
@@Datchristianwoman the Greek word in 1 Cor. 7:15 is not the same as the Greek word in 1 Cor. 7:39. In verse 15 Paul says that the abandoned spouse is not ENSLAVED or IN BONDAGE to the spouse who left. He did not say they are no longer BOUND as one flesh until death! To make it clear, he reiterated in verse 39 that a woman is BOUND to her husband for as long as he lives!
To interpret this passage to mean that Paul was saying the abandoned spouse is no longer in a one-flesh covenant with their spouse is to make Paul contradict himself!
Jesus said that Moses permitted divorce because their hearts were HARD! If your heart is hard, you are willing to divorce your spouse, abandon them, give up on them, and replace them with someone else! Jesus is not giving permission to have a hard heart toward your spouse! He is explaining why Moses permitted divorce. But he is pointing us back to before Moses. He is telling his followers not to have hard hearts but to have God’s heart toward their spouse! God’s heart is shown in Hosea, who repeatedly took his wife back after her repeated adulteries! Was Jesus saying it’s okay to have a hard heart and give up on your spouse? Did he give the sermon on the mount, only to turn around and say it’s okay to have a hard heart? Or was he saying to be like God and love those who sin against you? In Matthew, clearly Jesus was allowing an out for the betrothed whose intended spouse is found to have committed fornication. We have a prime example in Joseph, who was going to divorce his betrothed wife for that very reason, until he was informed that Mary had not committed fornication but had conceived through the Holy Spirit!
By accepting the popular view that Jesus gave us “permission” to divorce our spouses and marry new ones, you miss the very heart of what Jesus was teaching!!
Ook. So I have this questions, if listened to my talk I mentioned the hardness of the heart, but why is that this hardness of the hard is not seen on the sideiof adulterous spouse who refuses to change and constantly gets involve in adulterous activity? Why can Christians not look at his action as deliberately selfish ? Why should the other spouse who decides to leave because theycan't take it anymore, the stress, trauma, diseases been seen as the one who is unforgiving?
So i complete disagree with you my sister. In the old testament adultery was punished with death but today we pamper it, and yes the heart of Jesus like you clearly mentioned is love , so if you love your spouse like Christ expects us to do you will not hurt and break them tirelessly . So it's a two way obligation both are suppose to give each other that. Ephesians is clear on that. If Christ said it, then I respect it. 🙏