THE TRUTH ABOUT BRITISH MEN â„ COLLAB w/ LOVE FLEURETTE |
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 30. 06. 2024
- So on my recent visit back to London, I was able to connect in person for the first time with my CZcams friend Love Fleurette! Her channel is epic, I've linked it below. We filmed this collab vid right around the corner from Shoreditch High Street and Box Park in the lovely AirBNB I stayed in while visiting my favorite city. In this video we discuss stereotypes of dating British/ English men. It is candid hilarity. Press play!
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I'm white english guy, and currently seeing a black girl from Gambia. She's beautiful!
I dated a girl from Guyana. Never thought about her colour? I just thought she was rather attractive, with gorgeous eyes and that was it? She liked my soft Irish accent, humour and I was tall. When we went to Dublin? My family and parents just treated her as one if the family. Too much is made about race and colour. If you like someone? That's it!
Her Father was black. I suppose you would say African descent? from Guyana. Mother white English.
Myself? Belong to a hugely extended and close knit Irish/Scottish family group. She had to pass my three older sisters scrutiny, little protective I guess? As I'm the baby. Three older brothers? not bothered in the slightest. My mother Irish and Father Scottish. She got a whistle stop tour of Ireland and Scotland seeing everyone.
The l need to move to London đ€đ€
@fenugreek lover What fuckin difference does that make? You people always making it about color and complexion (i.e., Indian, Black). Gosh, its its just skin color that's all.
exactly... yea yea
@@theesleekgeek73 To be fair I know some completely non-racist friends who just dont generally find black women attractive, and I'm sure that works vice versa. It's not just colour, we have different bone structures etc. And there's nothing wrong with that.
That's It ! I'm moving to London !!
Tianitra
Right!
My luck is horrible over here. I always have NO problems overseas..
!!!!!!!! London isnât the only place in Britain, try Northern Ireland !
People from London don't usually have a clue what's going on in the rest of the country
In fact Londoners might as well be from a different country than the rest of us !!!!
Andy Greaves I'm from London, and I can vouch for this, in London you have to go out of you're way to catch news about the rest of the country
Caressa Clark have you ever been to Dubai? Are they also into black girls ?
I'm a black woman who just started dating a fantastic British man & this video made me smile! Thank you so much ladies.
+KIMBERLY SIMMONS becareful and have fun!
KIMBERLY SIMMONS weâre not so caught up on race over there đđŸ
Hey how did you meet him? And are you all still together? (If you don't mind my asking).
He white
@@17yogabbagabba we stayed together for about a year but the distance became an issue.
I hope that you don't mind me adding a comment. I am an American guy. I've watched several of your videos (which are very good by the way). I've lived all over the United States too. My dad was in the military; so, we lived in places like Virginia, Tennessee, Texas, etc. My dad is from the northeast and my mom is from the south. I was actually born in Alabama (although I never actually lived there aside from the two weeks following my birth). I currently live and work in the Silicon Valley (not far from San Francisco). Still, I am politically conservative.
That said: You are an incredible woman and any man in any country would be exceptionally lucky to have you! Why? You're highly intelligent, personable and beautiful. You have a remarkable personality and a contagious smile. In addition, kindness and goodness just pour from your soul.
I think that this is the most important thing in finding love. It isn't the joining of two bodies (although that is obviously a part of it). It is the joining of souls (if that makes sense). The outward appearance is so fleeting. I read a study recently in which men and women were asked questions about what makes someone "beautiful." I was actually surprised that the top answer for men was a woman who is young (between the ages of 19 and 22). What will become of their "love" if it is based upon little more than a short period of that woman's life?
When I was in college, I majored in engineering and political science (weird combo, right?). In the freshmen seminar class for engineering, our professor pointed out the need to figure out whether or not we really liked our major (engineering). Why? He argued that we needed to like our major because it is what we would probably be doing for the next 40 years.
This is why true love can't be based on little more than someone's outer appearance. If a marriage or lasting relationship is going to succeed, it has to be based upon something much deeper than what we look like. Our race, religion, culture, etc. will always be a part of who we are. At the same time, such things are little more than tools that chisel the character of our souls. Consequently, I feel that love has to be based on that soul.
Thank you for sharing so much of your inner thoughts on your channel! Good stuff!
Thank you for chiming in. Itâs awesome when you actually get intelligent comments, unfortunately rare on CZcamsïżŒđ. So refreshing!
Iâm clearly on the wrong part of the globe đđ!
Nah uk ainât all that can confirm that as an English myself it only gets worse the further up north ya go
Some single black guys hardly have time for leisure, they're always on their GRIND. It can sometimes be a bad decision if one can't find a balance. Nice seeing 2 black women creating a masterpiece.
+Czar hahaha ok gotcha, grind away!
im a black girl dating an english man and he is the most amaizing guy ever
+Joleen Mwaka yay!! â€ïž
Please are all british guys uncut ...thats the fear for some of us here
+miss Acj hahahaa
miss Acj most are
mine is cut and he's probably among the small percent of the ones that are cut most are uncut đ
There's no 'lockdown', we just dont believe in being unfaithful/playing around
Thats a total no no
+Firey Flower understood!
@@kwasia100 that comment đđđ
There are some people who do multiples at once, but generally it's looked down upon as unsavoury behaviour
@@kwasia100 well said about the blacks!
@@anm4340 Blacks?? tf is wrong with u
Wow! Finally someone I can connect with! I love to travel too! I live in Atlanta and was in London last month and absolutely loved it! And I totally agree with your observations. I made the exact same observations! When in London, I felt like the "Black woman chip on my shoulder" that comes with all kinds of stereotypes was offloaded! Guess what? A handsome, educated Londoner stopped me at the tube station, chatted me up, and we've been dating ever since! I can't wait to see where the love journey takes us! I am subscribing to your channel and your friend's!
+Tintin my thoughts exactly! The chip is definitely unloaded. Such a heavy burden to always be carrying! Glad you found a lad here's hoping it all works out! Thanks for subbing!
best of luck to you.
It's Kells I think because London is more like a global city, I imagine that experience would be like in New York.
+Horatio Huskisson london was a better experience for me than NYC.. london is amazing
Welcome, love! hope all is still going well with you and your English guy!
Love from London to all on here, especially black women đ·đ
Hi
I have a serious affliction for brits đ I'm Latina and I loveeeeeeeee British men
+KareMel SWIRL welcome to the club đ
wish british girls would say that about us british men lol your beautiful kare :)
ian your all drab brexit brits
what? you dont make sense there explain thankyou :)
God, if only I could visit England!
You two are soooo pretty. and so well-spoken!! I really enjoyed the video. Ya'll have a very positive energy.
+aratsass1 â€ïžïž thank you so much
Great video! I enjoy all of your videos, you have an awesome personality. Keep shining! :)
+Nessa Blue thanks hun! Glad you enjoyed it! Hoping to do more Collab videos in the future!
can't believe I watched all this girls stuff till the end. Good job!
Feeling the vibe from Kenya
haha thanks!
You're welcome girl. Jut realized you reply to almost every comment here. That's rare & a good reason to subscribe to your channel. Keep them videos coming.
+Tain Bluxx you're appreciated! Thanks
Sisters!!!! Such a collaboration!!!! Beautiful Queens!!! Very informative! I'm on my wayđđ
+Vanessa Ratcliff đđ thanks for watching!
I'm so going to watch all your videos of London cause I'm planning my dream vacation to London n your videos are giving me a lot I need to know before I travel thank you
+Darian Lamour so glad they help!
Thank you
Kellâs smile is so infectious! Beautiful lady!
Thank you, babes â€ïž
I really want to move to the u.k after hearing that the men there only date or see one female, here in the US it's hard to find men that are genuine.
Because UK has a small population, the women also have high expectations. As British men, we are very family oriented, not obsessed with hypergamy so we marry shortly after being together
My god! I love your smile! it's making me smile too!
You guys are so awesome love the content! Love you guys from Austin Tx đđđ
+Sheena Simmons thanks sis!
U cute Sheena
Nice collab video! I know its old but its a nice one! I used to talk to a British guy on the phone for a bit-- he was def a bit low class-- it surprised the hell out of me!
First gen, born in New York & raised in Texas, and Africa for a little while. Went to Africa when I was 2, come back as a teenager.
i have absolutely no problem with interracial dating , but i will not stray , i love my dark sweet chocolate , that's my confession , and i'am sticking with it , Black women are the sweetest women in the world.
+ikatel Charles â€
I second that âđż... love my black women.... nuff luv from the uk
ikatel Charles disagree. being sweet do not depend on race.
Each to their own.
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This video made me smile....very nice.
+Cheree White đ glad it did!
My boyfriend is from England. I feel like he is the missing piece of my soul and vice-versa. â€ïžâ€ïž
Soo sweet, arenât they ?đ„°
English doesn't just mean white, posh and from London! Just an observation, as so many Americans seem to think that's exactly what England is. There's a whole country outside London, and other countries outside England. Come to North West England!!!
I can't wait to visit London!! Point me in the right direction.
I'm from South London and you would never catch me in a....tracksuit...
+The Matrix thank GOD đ
amen
The Matrix. Now I am picturing you secretly wearing one in the privacy of your own home and rushing to change as soon as the door bell rings. Am I taking your comment too literally?
love this!
+kynaat23 :x thanks!
I love black women,they're more genuine.They seem to be really shy or the oppisite.I like the regal shy ones.
Simon Taylor hello, there!
Simon Taylor hello, there!
Priya Sahoo
Hey you...wow! your not shy but you look like a queen
+Simon Taylor haha loved your original comment btw đ
It's Kells
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I lived in LA for two years, my ex was Afro Cuban. I had so many fights with Black Americans, it was really amusing. Also, back in UK I have had Black, Asian, Chinese Girlfriends. I don't see a colour, I see a human being, for me smile, laughter are more important. Secondly ladies, I'm English and British, I have French, Italian, Norse and Celtic blood. If you are born in England you are English and British then you have your cultural background. Ultimately we are all sums of our own being, who we are as a person, individual is everything. Thank you for your time ladies.
technationuk - Asian as in Indian/Pakistani/Bangladeshi? Itâs good youâre open to all, itâs our character and personality that define us not skin colour or ethnicity.
@@abcxyz-cx4mr Yes, Asian as in a Indian Girlfriend. Thank you for the reply. It is nice to see people who are not caught up in a person's colour, future or religion. We are all unique in our own little way, we just have to take the time to find out about one and other.
technationuk - Not a Problem thanks for the promo reply. Exactly, i couldnât have said it better myself! Nice to come across likeminded people.
*prompt
I really enjoyed watching this segment. I think we all suffer from a pov problem. That's why we stereotype each other in general. It's nice to see women who are not the normal portrait of unintelligent (sometimes ghetto) women who think to much of themselves expressing their views. Exposure to different places and cultures opens up a person to different things and outlook. I really liked it. Wish you young ladies well in your future endeavors.
Thanks Chris
So true about british guys! Sometimes i wish i could just marry my husband over and over again. And yes he is middle class which comes with very good manners!
My guy is certified English White .He's the best love i ever had, only the virus is keeping us apart . US & UK ALLIES !
@Spider Bloke
A true Englishman is top of the line. it doesn't get any higher than that ! I am a Black American Woman so i know ! UK fever , catch it ! :)
Hope you all are back together now!
@@ItsKells
We chat everyday and he will be here next year for sure ! :)
AYYY LEWISHAM!!
+leela đđŸ
Hey! I just subbed to you, I'm planning to travel to London this summer:) So excited!!
+BarelyBold woot woot! You'll love it!
It's Kells I'm scared đŹ but I'm just gonna do it! Lol
+BarelyBold #protip you're never not scared as a adult, do it anyway â€ïž
barely. be carefull major muslim problem in londonstan
like im scared to travel to us by myself lol :) but im gonna do it has to be done
British guys are amazing
I always enjoy your videos.. it's like talking with girlfriends Hi-5!
Thank youđ
I love ittttt
Posting here because your other video about reverse culture shock is closed to commenting. As a British born American I can say from a white male perspective that we find black women attractive, oh boy we do. I think that with the stigmas and attitudes here in America, most of us would rather err on the side of caution and stay within their race. I guarantee you that if you have a nice personality and make it known that you are open to biracial relationships you will be busy! I think that's it, we dont get the vibe that the good looking black women sitting at the next table are open to conversation, leading to a phone number, leading to a date later on with a white guy. In fact, hate to say it but the opposite is probably closer to reality based on my experiences. There are probably millions and millions of us who would jump at the chance to date someone like yourself. I hear the locker room talk and it's by far more positive than negative. Good luck and happy hunting! đ
"You will be busy" đđđđ
My goodness, you are two exceptionally pretty women. Love from Scotland.
When your in love, you don't see colour you see only the love of your life!
So very true...!!
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True đ
I'm a white British bloke whose always fancied African/ Afro Carribean/ African American women and I'm not entirely sure why. I've never been on a date with anyone (of any ethnicity) so I don't really know what to expect from dating.
Ask a lady out then! Go ahead! Iâm sure you would have so much fun especially since you fancy us
@@ItsKells oh i wish I could. I was seeing an Ethiopian woman from my uni prior to the pandemic but we broke off contact during the pandemic
U can give it a try
i really liked this video hahaha i didnt even realise these things happen until you said it haha
There was a Brit at S. California Walmart. She's super Friendly! And great customer service. I guess she came as a seasonal employee. That's pretty clever of her.if you need some money go to USA. There are some states that aren't expensive to live in
I'm engaged to a beautiful Filipina and getting married next year. Race, socioeconomic status, colour and anything else is completely irrelevant. We both love each other and we are both Christians.
@@ms.bubs4fun506 It isn't!
You two are gorgeous!
Thank you love â€ïž
I'm about to book a trip to London! Lol
+CurlyBronzeBeauty do it, do it!
I'm West Indian...from Trinidad&Tobago and I love British men! Their accent is the sexiest thing ever! Wish I could live in London.
There's more to England than London .
I'm a ginger white Irishman. I find myself dating black girls more than other races.
Just found this channel. Can you give us tips on how to meet British guys? I feel like it's impossible to meet anyone outside of work and I'm in my 30's
I live in the Black Country in the Midlands near Birmingham, so its very much a cultural mixing pot. I prefer a black girl because they are strong women but also very strong on there family. So you have all the love but the strengths that goes with it!
I will definitely keep my wits about myself. I've watched (and thumbs up'd) your other videos too. I plan on taking it slow & having as much fun as possible without getting too smitten especially with that accent. đ
Thank accent will get you everytime, BUT what I realized is that once you've dated more than one you realize what is charming and what is a regular, run-of-the-mill old British bloke lol
+KIMBERLY SIMMONS good girl đđŸđ
KIMBERLY SIMMONS lol ladies English accents do nothing for me. I've never gotten the hype over English accents but to each their own.
Whatever sisters! As a white girl, you two are absolutely beautiful. I would (and I'm straight) đđ
I literally laughed out loud at the image of a stunner like you sitting in a bar 'scavenging'.
Haha
Born and raised in London and I have no luck dating here. I seem to meet more men abroad.
I noticed, those in tracksuit are usually Eastern Europeans. I dated a posh English man in London, and he placed so much value on me. Showered me with love and care. I mean, I felt very feminine and sexy just being with him. I'm still fairly new in America and I have yet to find such men here.
Ahhh I need me a British guy! đđđđ đŹđ§ â„â„â„â„
Haha I feel you đŹđ§đ„°
Enjoyed! (-:
+Nurse Patti thank youu đ
Love â€
+blkchineycurlz â€ïž
Hi; would you say that they date AND marry or they just sow their wild oats?? Thanks for the info!!
this video needs emojis as a rating system.... another #manapproved video because you (briefly) touched on the main reason for swirl dating and the psychology behind it (you grazed it but it's there lol) and all I have to say was short and sweet lol even your long videos are to the point.
what lovely ladies :)
+Alloya huckfield thank you sweets!
If you want to meet a black man from London the best thing to do is go to an event were they play good hiphop rnb or soul music. We don't really hang out at bars that much as I don't think it is something we experienced our parents doing as we were growing up.
I've never had a problem with my long standing relationship here in Birmingham UK.
this video is in my favourites i listen to your american accent multiple times per day lol :)
haha thank youuu
no problem sweetcheeks :)
Kells you are so beautiful you can be picky whether you are in America or in London (smile).
+Emory Sims thank you đ
You're welcome.
Please say you have been other places in the U.K.? London is a very small part of England and is a poor representation of the whole country
Me too. I am moving to London.
Intresting infor...đ
Lady with the pink lipstick - you are gorgeous. Flaming beautiful.
When she mentioned I got approached because I am black, personally I would approach you because of your good looks.
Itâs both đ
I think most British people don't care what colour you are, if we see a women we're attracted to that's it. I'm a man your a woman (man-man women-women). The thing that makes me the most proud about being British is that for most British people we see a person first not colour, nationality, religion etc. And I would just like to add both of you are very beautiful.
+Malcolm ODonnell Agreed, love Brits â€ïž Why thank you đ
can i ask a question?
I've never met a person that is Black British, Black French, Black German. They dont label themselves as Black. They say im Bristish, I'm french or I'm German. Why do Black people in America say I'm African American and not I'm American.
I think if you label yourself as different then you are different, but if you label yourself as just American then your the same.
+Malcolm ODonnell it's not self prescribed
â@@tonner385 i get what you mean. I'm from Martinique, a French overseas territory in the Caribbean. I've been living 10 years in London. When I introduce myself I say I'm French from the West Indies/Caribbean. The terms "black/white have always made me feel uncomfortable as it is not acceptable in French culture to describe/reduce someone to their skin colour, especially in public spaces. It's considered offensive and racist. Now, some may use those terms in private conversations (this you have no control over). But in public, they would think twice before using them or they would get the side eye, and would have to apologise.
I couldn't agree more with these lovely ladies. I'm a Black American and whenever I'm in a tourist destination in America I'm constantly getting hit on by English women. Was very interesting.
I've always wanted to date someone British, they seem very proper and they seem more serious.
Marginally lol
I'm literally smiling the whole video! Lol! I've dated an American guy. Never a British man.đ Hmm...
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The ratio of men to women here in America is like 1:4. Reason being is that a lot of black men are either in prison married or gay. Guys end up playing the field because women here are extremely competitive with one another and the ratio is so high in favor of the men. Some women come at you harder if they know that you are married here in this country.
Enjoyed the video as I have enjoyed all of yours. I know you're a female, but I would really enjoy if you did a video about how the dating scene for Black American men is in London. If it's possible âșïžâșïžâșïž
+underdog2g3 if I had to guess, I would say that it would be excellent just based on the reception of Black American people in London in general. I will have to think if I know any black American men to ask to do a collab video with to get you a truer sense. Thanks for watching and thanks for commenting, I'll see what I can do!
Appreciate it! You have inspired me to look into doing vlogs when I go overseas. Keep up the good work!
+underdog2g3 very niice! where are you off to?
Idk yet. Planning something for the summer. Maybe London. Your vids have me interested in visiting.
yess visit! you'll love it!
Great video ;-)
+Stacia B đthank you!
Great video
Thanks babes đđŸ
Two beautiful women. Give me whatever name, but I am a sucker for this black woman with British accent; she is mad cute.
I always wanted to go to London
Why are black women with English accents just so damn cute and charming? I apologize to those I've offended with my opinionated observation. I'm sorry, in fact I don't care who've I've offended by my honest appraisal. If I had a do over on my marriage choice (38 years on) who knows? "Of all the words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these: it might have been." Don't live a lifetime of regret!
+Richard Milner haha â€ïž
Richard Milner
give me the American
Richard Milner right Britain Girls are beautiful
Ideally most British white people prefer if you ask them which part of Britain they originate from, they will identify with the region they come from. There are countries and regions in Britain where many people are resistant to the idea of being labelled British - Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland, Cornwall, Kent, etc. These regions are effectively living under British occupation.
+Nicholas Miles đ€ interesting
kent and cornwall? nahhhh.
wales at a stretch, scotland maybe, northern ireland definitely.
lol. you are funny.
Hey Kelly's you are beautiful........hugsssssssss
+Jay Parson đ
I only date black women. Im just more attracted to them đđđx
Jonny Bravo Let your other blokes know where it's at. There's BW who desire WM and other races, but few approach with the assumptions that we're only interested in BM.
PERIODT!!!!!
Jonny Bravo
I love men , light and bright and UK White ! :) x
Are yâall still on London?? Omg pleaseeeee hang out with me đ« Iâll be there in January and donât want to be alone for a year + đđđ
Not any more love, youâll be fine!
I have a Black British boyfriend and I love him so muchđđđ
I wanted to know if you could do a show on interracial marriage in London?
i understand from your video that English white men date outside their race but how many of them actually marry those women. Very informative video by the way!
Just this morning, I met a very nice british guy, but he's black british and I'm African-american. I found this video bc I was online trying to find out info on black british guys (in case there are differences from the general info about british men). Let's just say, I couldn't find anything!! Would you be willing to share some insight? Perhaps, the next video with you and Love Fleurette could comment on it. (crossing my fingers)
Where's his family originally from? Africa or the Caribbean?
Itâs like the Harry and Meghan fever over there! Thatâs it I just found my new home â€ïžâ€ïž
Interesting Iâm from NYC this makes much sense. I donât do interracial dating tho
two cuties
I was one of those white blokes dating black women in London. I was in London for about 2 years on secondment with my bank about 6 years ago, am from one of the whitest places in Britain, and I almost exclusively dated black and Indian women, completely and utterly by accident. I just found that very attractive black and Indian women were/are generally much more down to earth, funny and interesting than the white women in London, and far, far less arrogant. Iâm now married to a stunning black American and we have a beautiful little daughter together, and I still canât believe how lucky I am.
Lovely story. Treat her like a queen!! All the best to you and your beautiful family!
Cool ! :)
wow I wasnÂŽt aware that american need that ÂŽwe are b/g friend stipulation to not date others. This is halarious to me! fab video guys!
I'm white and been with a Nigerian girl for 7yrs
+ian neil đđŸ
Thank you ladies for your observations and taking the time to comment on them. I think Fleurette's observations are quite insightful but not entirely applicable to the whole of Britain. In London maybe, but London is not BRITAIN. You ladies would, or should be chatted up by any self respecting man because you're both beautiful (not exotic! - Britain is no longer in the age of discovery!!). Any man that can't appreciate female beauty is not a true man..read into that what you like!!
Anyway, if you return to this blessed isle, please consider visiting the North of England. I'm sure you'll receive a warm welcome, hospitality and the interest of a whole lot of potential suitors - black and white!
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I was talking to this English guy and i felt like he was going so fast lol
Haha itâs the accent I guess