My Loved Ones Vanished (Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 105 | Season 3

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  • čas přidán 16. 03. 2022
  • 2 Guests share their stories on how their loved ones vanished
    Studio Guests: Zodwa Magwayi & Mamikie Moshoeshoe
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Komentáře • 181

  • @msm5887
    @msm5887 Před 2 lety +127

    Dear God… You know where these kids are. I am asking you to MIRACULOUSLY BRING THEM BACK HOME TO THEIR LOVED ONES, in a way ONLY YOU CAN. In the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour Amen 🙏🏽

  • @albechabikoumou5647
    @albechabikoumou5647 Před 2 lety +130

    I can 😭😭😭😭😭 relate to their pain ...my father went missing for 4 full years we searched everywhere mortuaries hospitals almost all over Jozi we opened a case at jeppe police station since we lived in bez valley but nothing since he was the bread winner we had to relocate to the western cape it's was super tough for our family until one day the Benoni police called the jeppe police to annouce that their missing person was buried by the gvt because his family wasnt found he was shot 6 times and his car was stolen one robber was found the announce it to my uncle and we came back to Jozi so that we could identify him but my mother couldn't bare the pain of seeing the photos and everything so our elders did it ....Yoh the pain of losing yo father just because of a car imagine my brother will never know how joyful and loving he was till this day my life was never the same again ..... depression hit me hard I couldn't even attend the hearing of the robber the found whatever sentence the gave him I didn't want to know he took away my father that little girl that I was still cries out everyday longing to see or hear from him I still believe and feel he never died 😭😭😭😭😭😭even if he did he never deserved to die that way he was my father my friend and protector no one is there to protect me now 😭😭😭😭

    • @Skhonza
      @Skhonza Před 2 lety +7

      Soo sorry to hear that dear. Phephisa!! Praying for healing kwiFamily yakho yonke. 🤗🕯

    • @cbosjourney4733
      @cbosjourney4733 Před 2 lety +5

      Ngxesi sthandwa, I’m so sorry I can only imagine your pain… may you find peace nd restoration

    • @ipelengk9593
      @ipelengk9593 Před 2 lety +5

      I’m so sorry 😞😞💔💔💔

    • @zanelemathonsi5474
      @zanelemathonsi5474 Před 2 lety +4

      Strength and healing to you my honey... ♥️

    • @MY6797A
      @MY6797A Před 2 lety +4

      May God grant you and your family peace.... Am so sorry you are going through something like this. 💔

  • @phindilemahlangu3103
    @phindilemahlangu3103 Před 2 lety +90

    The police failed these families, I can't imagine how painful this experience is. Lesego's mother did what the police was supposed to do. What a heartbreaking story 💔. I hope they both find healing

  • @Charmaine_Nguse
    @Charmaine_Nguse Před 2 lety +40

    This one hit home💔. My mother was kidnapped 20 years ago til this day we haven’t got any trace. My grandma spent a year in Johannesburg searching for her. I just wish I could find her body so I could be at peace.

    • @asanda.mkhize
      @asanda.mkhize Před 2 lety +2

      I'm so sorry this happened to you 🤍

    • @doremi131
      @doremi131 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Eish, South Africa maar. This human trafficking, our government keeps silent about things like this.

  • @hudihoodz
    @hudihoodz Před 2 lety +30

    I always watch true crime cases and stories.
    How I wish out SAPS could have the same dedication, passion and commitment as other countries. I mean , they had leads and suspects already! Most of the work was alredy done for them!
    Our justice system is always failing us! 😢

  • @tinyiko2949
    @tinyiko2949 Před 2 lety +32

    I pray for these two mothers. I can't imagine what they are going through 😭😭😭

  • @leratomaphothoane3243
    @leratomaphothoane3243 Před 2 lety +23

    As a mother I cannot even imagine their pain. May GOD continue to give them strength

  • @oliviankosi6469
    @oliviankosi6469 Před 2 lety +52

    Your pain is unimaginable.May you find healing and hold on to dear memories and opportunities you have shared with your beautiful children. Relebogile thank you for showing us the other side of the curtain. We just read statistics and not for second live in the real pain the affected parties carry every awakening day.

  • @zanelemathonsi5474
    @zanelemathonsi5474 Před 2 lety +39

    As a mother this is one hard episode to watch yho!!!

  • @QueenQueen-ee4nx
    @QueenQueen-ee4nx Před 2 lety +9

    My uncle went missing in 1992 I was very young but I feel like my grandmother still feels the pain.I wonder if he is still alive.His name is Socrates Sibanda from Gwanda, Zimbabwe.I wish one day he comes home and meet his mom.

  • @onelembunye7552
    @onelembunye7552 Před 2 lety +15

    While watching this episode I thought of Amahke Thabethes mother and the pain it is to lose a child not knowing uyaphila or not😭

  • @nosihlematyeni7650
    @nosihlematyeni7650 Před 2 lety +9

    For me it's how these mothers still go on, how? After so much pain and suffering? I cannot even begin to imagine how it must feel for them everyday, every moment they think of their kids. The most saddening part is how does one even begin to find closure? I'm torn, I just pray that God continues to give them strength.

  • @enduranceholdon4932
    @enduranceholdon4932 Před 2 lety +19

    Mbali’s Story Hurts. Cannot Imagine What She Went Through With That Animal Who Was Even Disowned By His Parent. Lesego’s Case Sounds Like That Of The Protea Guy Who Had His Girlfriend’s Parts In The Fridge-That Family Needs To Be Questioned And Taken To A Lie Detector Test.

  • @saloshniejagathesan1577
    @saloshniejagathesan1577 Před 2 lety +48

    We are desperate for properly trained and educated police in this country. We need police to solve crimes, keep us safe and make us feel that we can rely on them. Most of the time they are taking the easy way out by checking cars, securing bribes instead of going after the real criminals

    • @malehlohonolo8463
      @malehlohonolo8463 Před 2 lety

      Mxm, oho. Most police stations when you call them the call goes to voicemail- that says a lot about SAPS

    • @xolingwane4070
      @xolingwane4070 Před 2 lety

      They should behave like Police in MEDICAL DETECTIVES/ FORENSIC FILES

  • @nomsasibanda5877
    @nomsasibanda5877 Před 2 lety +25

    There is no justice for poor people, it's sad.may you find healing

  • @BiancaLeesa
    @BiancaLeesa Před 2 lety +8

    At this point naming and shaming is the way, call out the names of everyone involved in the justice system. Yes though it won't bring back the children but it will help in future for other people who are still yet to experience this. I'm so sorry for this.

  • @ipelengk9593
    @ipelengk9593 Před 2 lety +7

    This was too painful. I pray to never need help from SAPS 😞💔

  • @sisandanyuswa2453
    @sisandanyuswa2453 Před 2 lety +11

    The incompetence of the SAPS is shocking! So They've been incompetent since since, it's nothing new!!??? Yho 💔 one thing they will do successfully is harass and shame women who open cases, any thing else is just vibes. We really are in trouble as a country, is there even a solution to this level of incompetence and negligence??

  • @bettyndaba3283
    @bettyndaba3283 Před 2 lety +16

    The lack of accountability/passion from the SAPS is disgusting

  • @sammie_khay2604
    @sammie_khay2604 Před 2 lety +8

    It's painful because these parents never get to know what really happened to their children, I know how deep this cuts I recently have a brother who is missing and haven't been found my mom can't cope

  • @iviweimthandazo3042
    @iviweimthandazo3042 Před 2 lety +6

    This is so hard breaking. I pray no parent ever goes through what they are still going through. I am so sorry they have to go through it I pray God gives them the strength and peace to make it through it each day.

  • @sphelelem4800
    @sphelelem4800 Před 2 lety +16

    Eish...this is difficult to watch...The fact that a child can disappear in our country for years is mind blowing

  • @nthatimatswa1179
    @nthatimatswa1179 Před 2 lety +11

    This is just unimaginable. Praying for you bo mothers ♥️

  • @teshmula2750
    @teshmula2750 Před 2 lety +9

    No mother deserve to feel this pain.😭

  • @nonkululekolushaba641
    @nonkululekolushaba641 Před 2 lety +3

    This is so heart breaking. Sending love and healing to you mommies!!

  • @gugukhumalo9313
    @gugukhumalo9313 Před 2 lety +5

    I pray for closure for both mommies. May God be so kind 🙏

  • @pointa2b388
    @pointa2b388 Před 2 lety +12

    Eish i will watch later, this pain seem worse than losing a person due to death.at least you will console self by knowing where they are buried

  • @vhomakhadzi4845
    @vhomakhadzi4845 Před 2 lety +2

    Yoh this is beyond heartbreaking💔.
    Every time I hear of missing people, I always think there were no leads and that’s why they haven’t been found BUT this showed me that our Justice system is broken and lazy. Each of these women had a lead, why was Sabelo not interrogated to find Lesego. Why was that guy not questioned on the whereabouts of Mbali?
    This is honestly unfair. I will pray for the women and their families.
    This breaks my heart because it makes me think of what Amahle Thabethe’s mother is going through

  • @sibahlengalo
    @sibahlengalo Před 2 lety +6

    Tjo this is so painful 😭💔.
    I wish I could do something.
    Lord intervene 😭

  • @zwanenompumelelo7915
    @zwanenompumelelo7915 Před 2 lety +6

    My 19 years daughter is being missing since 12/03/2022 last seen 12:45 pm..💔💔😭😭please pray for me I'm in darkness I don't know where she is please help me south african

    • @goitsemangmolefe1549
      @goitsemangmolefe1549 Před 2 lety +1

      I am so sorry. I pray your daughter returns home safely ❤️. Sending you love and light. I will keep you in my prayers 🙏🏿

    • @busisiwekhambula7895
      @busisiwekhambula7895 Před 2 lety

      Go consult with a prophet, sangoma maybe there maybe a light as to where is she

    • @zwanenompumelelo7915
      @zwanenompumelelo7915 Před 2 lety

      Please continue praying for me and my family we still in darkness we haven't find my daughter

  • @nonoechibs2775
    @nonoechibs2775 Před 2 lety +3

    Eish m touched, this story is every mom's worst nightmare

  • @kananelomolosioa6404
    @kananelomolosioa6404 Před 2 lety +2

    This just made my heart soo heavy...

  • @misst1869
    @misst1869 Před 2 lety +8

    Our police officers are so relaxed yoh

  • @zinhlemakwakwa6580
    @zinhlemakwakwa6580 Před 2 lety +5

    This so called "justice system" in South Africa has failed these mothers😭😭

  • @mantelekhitsane8935
    @mantelekhitsane8935 Před 2 lety +9

    How can someone scam a parents while thy are in a pain of not knowing where thier kids are?wow ppl can be something 🤔 💔

  • @molelekoatsepo9699
    @molelekoatsepo9699 Před 2 lety +2

    Eish what a episode am touched 😭😭😭😭

  • @molebohengmaphepha80
    @molebohengmaphepha80 Před 2 lety +2

    SAPS is so disappointing, I am lost for words😞

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 Před 2 lety +5

    Congratulations Relebogile on your big win, this is just the beginning. I wish to you many more, you are one of the most phenomenal and passionate human beings I know.

  • @lindomavuso5088
    @lindomavuso5088 Před 2 lety +1

    Maggie More, we pray for Lesego'safe return🙏😥😥 stay strong God will protect you and your family.

  • @puseletso98
    @puseletso98 Před 2 lety +6

    My heart breaks for the parents ☹️🥺💔💔

  • @kwakha6103
    @kwakha6103 Před 2 lety

    I can't imagine all the pain these families have been going through 💔

  • @pheladinare2876
    @pheladinare2876 Před 2 lety

    Shoo this is too painful our police failed this families could sence the pain in Relebogile's voice. May God give you closure.

  • @nondumisobuthelezi3553
    @nondumisobuthelezi3553 Před 2 lety +5

    I feel sorry for these parents, especially umama kaMbali. The police did her dirty. It's sad futhi ukungabi namali beause they could've hired a proper lawyer.

  • @kesegofetsempona1657
    @kesegofetsempona1657 Před 2 lety +3

    Heartbreaking 💔🥺

  • @tshidimokone6595
    @tshidimokone6595 Před 2 lety +6

    The world we live in.💔💔💔

  • @malehlohonolo8463
    @malehlohonolo8463 Před 2 lety +9

    SAPS tells the lady to wait 48hrs then after she waits they tell her to go do her own investigations🤦🏾‍♀️ "go ask around at the school to see if anyone has seen him" lol what a joke.

  • @palesaletaoana7865
    @palesaletaoana7865 Před 2 lety

    This is heartbreaking💔

  • @annwanjiku5923
    @annwanjiku5923 Před 2 lety +5

    Hey rebo much love from kenya, it's so painful to lose someone close to you,😭😭😭

  • @Thulz.
    @Thulz. Před 2 lety +2

    A very heartbreaking story 😭💔💔 I don't think they are still alive, especially uMbali 😭😭😭😭😭😭 stay strong women, one day you will find closure 😥❤️

  • @ruthndlovu3305
    @ruthndlovu3305 Před 2 lety +2

    As a parent this is so heartbreaking💔💔💔

  • @magugayonela8978
    @magugayonela8978 Před 2 lety +1

    May God heal you this is beyond painful 💔 ngumgowo njee life can be unpredictable nd it can push you to the deepest..

  • @nonkululekopreciousmncwabe2821

    Yoh😭this is so painful💔

  • @shataditswai2673
    @shataditswai2673 Před 2 lety +3

    I love your dress 👗 Rele👌🔥

  • @promisejuqu7592
    @promisejuqu7592 Před 2 lety +1

    There is no human being deserve such heartache of loosing a child,be strong women God will give you a light to find your kids😢

  • @mantelekhitsane8935
    @mantelekhitsane8935 Před 2 lety +2

    Jesu mara why Justice system is like this iyoh this is so painful not knowing whether ur child is dead or alive,God please sent any lead 🙏💔

  • @ziyanda6521
    @ziyanda6521 Před 2 lety +9

    Black people, we are on our own

  • @tanyasnyman-stanford8012
    @tanyasnyman-stanford8012 Před 2 lety +7

    I don't want to even imagine it!!!

  • @thembisaodendaal
    @thembisaodendaal Před 2 lety +9

    This was hard to watch😭😭😭what kind of evil people still scamming these broken mothers

  • @kiddyawili9648
    @kiddyawili9648 Před 2 lety +1

    Very sad, hard to listen as a mother i put myself on their shoes, pray God for them to get closure 😭😭

  • @kedibonemathebula9307
    @kedibonemathebula9307 Před 2 lety

    It hurts yazi... I'm watching this and I'm trying to keep it together kodwa I can't... Lord help these families

  • @tholangmoeketsi6093
    @tholangmoeketsi6093 Před 2 lety

    Yhoo this hit home 15 years later our brother is still missing, SAPS is disappointing, but only God knows why and when.

  • @candiceadriaanse9147
    @candiceadriaanse9147 Před 2 lety +3

    This is every mother's worse nightmare😭

  • @pezanosipho482
    @pezanosipho482 Před 2 lety +2

    A friend of mine went missing March 2020 in Cape Town😔

  • @innocentmatlakala8389
    @innocentmatlakala8389 Před 2 lety +3

    I can relate to their pain😭💔💔💔I have a brother who's missing and the SAPS is not helping at all!!!!!!! Since 2020 till today💔😭😭😭

  • @misschrissy7488
    @misschrissy7488 Před 2 lety

    So heart breaking 💔💔💔💔
    God plizz look after our children 💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏..
    We leave in a dirty cruel world 😥😥😢😢😢😢😢...
    I pray for these parents and many other parents out there to find peace .

  • @bulelwaadoons777
    @bulelwaadoons777 Před 2 lety

    That's really sad news at least it will be better if they can find them or their bodies so that they can have closure

  • @shataditswai2673
    @shataditswai2673 Před 2 lety +6

    People are cruel out there,u in pain of the disappearing of your child instead of helping you they crock your, we are living in evil 😈 world 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @nomfundomngomezulu2566
      @nomfundomngomezulu2566 Před 2 lety

      Cruel world indeed... as a mother I feel so bad because the world we living in has changed

  • @nosandilegasela1437
    @nosandilegasela1437 Před 2 lety

    This is so sad 💔💔

  • @NomD05MZ
    @NomD05MZ Před 2 lety

    Please God help all families who are going through this pain.

  • @samanthantuli1482
    @samanthantuli1482 Před 2 lety +1

    I lost my brother in 2011, he was 21 at that time… we never heard from him ever😭😭😭😭😭😭 this just opened up my wounds

  • @thembisaodendaal
    @thembisaodendaal Před 2 lety +4

    Yhoo this is so painful I'm so sorry nomama I pray for strength and peace.SAPS what a joke

  • @simphiwemabuza3229
    @simphiwemabuza3229 Před 2 lety +2

    🥺🥺🥺🥺 ohh Nkosi yami 💔💔💔

  • @lamenthibelang3270
    @lamenthibelang3270 Před 2 lety

    I sympathize 😭God!

  • @seithatibaloyiletstour9073

    Mother's go through a lot kannete 😥this is sad.

  • @fanelesibongentshangase8608

    Our cousin went missing 9 years ago in jozi till today asimutholi yabona nje 😢

  • @olebileMothanka
    @olebileMothanka Před rokem

    It will be ok

  • @minkymajaja8258
    @minkymajaja8258 Před 2 lety

    part 2please💔

  • @nomcebomthethwa4653
    @nomcebomthethwa4653 Před 2 lety +1

    This is sad😥

  • @nthabisengportia1093
    @nthabisengportia1093 Před 2 lety +1

    This is so painful 💔 😢 😞 yoh

  • @mikatekomaluleke4099
    @mikatekomaluleke4099 Před 2 lety +1

    This is painful to watch 💔

  • @NomD05MZ
    @NomD05MZ Před 2 lety

    Is there any chance that these cases can be reopened again?💔💔💔😭😭😭

  • @vivm2794
    @vivm2794 Před 2 lety +1

    Ooooh modimo. Help them my God😭

  • @refilwemoshole4837
    @refilwemoshole4837 Před 2 lety +2

    Yoh🥺🥺🥺😭😔😢🥺so sad

  • @mma206224398
    @mma206224398 Před 2 lety +1

    so this guy is in jail but no one is having him account or atleast talk gore where is mbali hai NO SAPS is crooked indeed how heartless
    i am sure he was there at shoprite cause mbali was long sold for sure or taken to some country imagine a whole 3 years.

  • @busimazambani2898
    @busimazambani2898 Před 2 lety +1

    Nkosi yami boooo 😭

  • @senzo_D28
    @senzo_D28 Před rokem

    The fact that Lesego got kidnapped on my birthday doesn't sit with me. I pray that both mothers finds healing 😭 ❤

  • @mahlatsemasha2308
    @mahlatsemasha2308 Před 2 lety +1

    Yoh😔💔😭

  • @cbosjourney4733
    @cbosjourney4733 Před 2 lety +5

    Eish this country mxm… I have no words for it’s law… rubbish

  • @germinahnkadimeng2430
    @germinahnkadimeng2430 Před 2 lety

    very sad story, praying for strength for the mothers and their families and return of their children.
    My son survived kidnapped by God's Grace, when he was 14years old in 2013. He called his two friends who are brothers (his age and 2years older than him) that he's coming to their place to play playstation. He got to their gate, when he tried opening the gate he saw the friends' father who peeped through the window. He thought they will open for him since he was aware the father saw him and nothing happened for about 20minutes waiting outside the gate. When he turned his body to leave a car approached as if entering the gate. Four guys came out of the car and immediately the driver went back to his seat and three fought with him and two back to the back seat and one shoved him in the front seat which he shared with my son. He said thats where he started fighting the one sharing the seat . Luckily when they drove off his new phone fell on the ground and the guy on the passenger tried to pick up the phone while the car on motion and my son fought him and fell why they speeding the car. One car which did not want to assist him appeared and they guys sped off. As he was trying to stand as he was badly hurt, the father of his friends who did not want to open for my son or allow his sons to open for my son appeared and took my son into his car. Guess what by that time the wife called me and said my son is badly hurt . Instead of the father taking my son to the doctor or mediclinic which was km away, he took my son bleeding and told him that hes taking him to someone to pray for him. When we got to their house they were not there, he wasnt answering my calls and didnt tell us where he went to with my son, until when my son was dropped outside our complex after 3hours after the incident. The parents didnt even enter my house.Talking about police a long story despite all the links we didnt get any support.Since then the friends never spoke to my son......

    • @kiri1517
      @kiri1517 Před 2 lety

      My goodness. We're they involved in this? Scary

  • @criticallyspeaking
    @criticallyspeaking Před 2 lety

    Part 2?

  • @sanelisiwemyeni3760
    @sanelisiwemyeni3760 Před 2 lety +1

    Oh Msindisi wami😭

  • @pointa2b388
    @pointa2b388 Před 2 lety +1

    Where is part2

  • @Here-for-comments1023
    @Here-for-comments1023 Před 2 lety

    Part two thleee

  • @herthamaryandreas445
    @herthamaryandreas445 Před 2 lety

    Where is part 2? 😭

  • @mphomaluleke6748
    @mphomaluleke6748 Před 2 lety +1

    Painful

  • @mmathapelominniemahlangu

    Part 2 ?👀

  • @doremi131
    @doremi131 Před 11 měsíci

    > Eish this one ka Mbali, ezwis'ublungu worse is that she was taken at gunpoint & drugged & used for prostitution by someone known to police and they did nothing.
    > I wonder where those 2 girls are who were kidnapped by the same monster.

  • @malebogogaeepe8653
    @malebogogaeepe8653 Před 2 lety +2

    Name of prosecutor? HE IS A DANGEROUS PROSECUTOR..... A CRIMINAL ACTUALLY

  • @khanyibuthelezi4694
    @khanyibuthelezi4694 Před 2 lety +1

    😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @simamkelelengisi7104
    @simamkelelengisi7104 Před 2 lety

    😢💔