5 Rules to Follow as You Find Your Spark by Simon Sinek

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  • New Look is an organization that helps teens find their "spark", or passion, & live purpose-driven lives. In this video from our Signature Event, author, optimist & TED celebrity, Simon Sinek, gives 5 rules to follow as you find your spark! Invest in Usher's New Look program to help more teens find their spark www.ushersnewlook.org/donate #StartTheSpark

Komentáře • 651

  • @Habakalabababs
    @Habakalabababs Před 7 lety +1083

    To skip the intro: 1:20

  • @transplantclub
    @transplantclub Před 7 lety +954

    1. You can go after whatever you want, in the way you want, but you cannot prevent others
    from going after what they want
    2. Sometimes the Problem is YOU
    3. Learn to Receive and Give Help
    4. Learn to Be the Last to Speak - a. gives others they have been heard b. you get benefit of
    hearing what others think first. Seek to Understand their Why.
    5. You will always deserve the Styrofoam cup/your position is NOT you =
    Remember Humilty

    • @javedsheikh7476
      @javedsheikh7476 Před 6 lety +8

      transplantclub thanks for write this thing its help to me write my note
      thanks once again

    • @gagansholu8192
      @gagansholu8192 Před 6 lety +10

      Nice summary. Helped me save my time.

    • @djn48
      @djn48 Před 6 lety +27

      +transplantclub: Your list is almost perfect, but I think the second point needs to be amended to "Learn to recognise and take responsibility for your failures as well as celebrating your successes".
      "Sometimes the problem is you" is just something he said on the way to making the actual point.

    • @davidhaman4485
      @davidhaman4485 Před 5 lety +7

      Find out what really drives people, even people who suck.

    • @ClausGRiedel
      @ClausGRiedel Před 5 lety

      transplantclub s

  • @basheerashaik3106
    @basheerashaik3106 Před 3 lety +98

    This is mastery in public speaking. Pauses where needed, voice fluctuation on point, everything about this talk is to learn from, not just the content.

  • @kawrno5396
    @kawrno5396 Před 3 lety +7

    Now it hit me, being last to speak not only a decision making process, but also a kind gesture to let others speak. But what we see is a competition, a power exercise of who gets to speak last.

  • @jsr2516
    @jsr2516 Před 7 lety +387

    Simon Sinek is an absolute pleasure to listen to, words just flow out of his mouth like a Mozart symphony!

  • @christophergonzales3531
    @christophergonzales3531 Před 6 lety +46

    One of my professors presented me with his speech about starting with why. I have continued to listen to Simon's speeches and appreciate all of his messages. I'm absolutely thankful for that professor for introducing me to Simon's wisdom.

  • @fokjohnpainkiller
    @fokjohnpainkiller Před 7 lety +128

    1:23 You're welcome

    • @HassanMachlab
      @HassanMachlab Před 7 lety +13

      Chris Fokjohn fucking thank you.

    • @fokjohnpainkiller
      @fokjohnpainkiller Před 7 lety +1

      Hassan Machlab‏👍

    • @fokjohnpainkiller
      @fokjohnpainkiller Před 7 lety +5

      Warzed Arcanist No worries, it was just as painful for me

    • @Anicca88
      @Anicca88 Před 7 lety +7

      Thank you my friend. That was a great act of kindness.

    • @ycjoelin000
      @ycjoelin000 Před 7 lety +4

      LoL This is what I'm looking for man

  • @chingbachiller2613
    @chingbachiller2613 Před 3 lety +7

    Simon is one of the best speakers I've heard. Very inspiring. Thank you. God bless you more...

  • @namanydv_garud
    @namanydv_garud Před 2 lety +13

    Simon is a real gem and so are his talks... MAD RESPECT🙏🏼

  • @BrigSushilBhasin
    @BrigSushilBhasin Před 5 lety +24

    I just admire and salute this wonder man called Simon Senik.
    His Start with Why and Golden Circle have never stopped amazing me. I use them, in my workshops as well as in my life.
    There is a lot to learn from him.
    1. He ignites sparks.
    2. He makes them so so so simple.
    3. He is so authentic.

  • @robbyharmon2456
    @robbyharmon2456 Před 2 lety +2

    I just heard this guy for the first time. My name is robby Harmon. Everything that Mr. Sinek has stated is so true. On behalf of everyone who needed to hear this, we Thank you for not being like the other 99% of the world and being more like the 1% who wont lie to catch a like but tells it like it truly is. To all younger generations, please listen to this Man and hear his words. I pray you all needing this listen will hear it for what it really is. And I pray you act on his points and adapt them into your lives. This is how we save humanity as a whole. Thank you and God bless you

  • @harrydaplatypus361
    @harrydaplatypus361 Před rokem +8

    Found your spark, now what?
    1. Determination - Go after what you want while not preventing people from getting what they watn
    2. Self-accountability - Sometimes the problem is you, take responsbilities for your actions
    3. Help - Make it your habit to offer and receive help from others
    4. Understand - Listen to your teammates, consider everyone's thoughts fully, and be the last to speak (in sections of conversation)
    5. Humility - As you get famous and high-ranked, don't be entitled to what you receive from others, because everybody deserves the same treatment as normal people at the end of the day.

  • @shanikayrs9116
    @shanikayrs9116 Před 6 lety +2

    I am usually not a big fan of motivational speeches, since I always find it is some kind of of word games mask the ugly reality. But Simon, he is worth listening, there is some genuine sense of his words, and humility in power of waking you up peacefully than shook you to death and force to be awake

  • @PamelaGiacometti
    @PamelaGiacometti Před 7 lety +91

    The most "real" 5 rules I have heard in awhile. Amaziiiing.

    • @EmileAI
      @EmileAI Před 6 lety +1

      gaves me goosebumps lmao

    • @Horvat55555
      @Horvat55555 Před 6 lety

      Pamela Giacometti you're cute

  • @matrixate
    @matrixate Před 6 lety +88

    Rule 1: 3:52
    Rule 2: 6:43
    Rule 3: 9:32
    Rule 4: 11:27 (watch to 12;29)
    Rule 5: 14:07 (watch to 15;23)

  • @matrixate
    @matrixate Před 6 lety +954

    I almost didn't watch this because of the intro.

    • @stacielivinthedream8510
      @stacielivinthedream8510 Před 5 lety +19

      I had to pass it after only a few seconds of ridiculousness too!

    • @andrewh.4186
      @andrewh.4186 Před 5 lety +20

      Yeah, I got spared by a comment giving me a heads up.

    • @techdiesel4026
      @techdiesel4026 Před 5 lety +14

      I know right! It was soo. Bad. Like bad doesn’t even begin to describe it
      It was a hate crime against public speakers

    • @bennyparambi3924
      @bennyparambi3924 Před 4 lety +3

      I was almost miss this amazing speech if it is not simon

    • @revathyb5526
      @revathyb5526 Před 4 lety +4

      Intro was cool!

  • @TheBenBenitaShow
    @TheBenBenitaShow Před 4 lety +1

    LOTS of great points here!!! ALL women and men are self-made, BUT, only successful people will admit it!!! Simon Sinek is AWESOME!!!

  • @pavlina.f
    @pavlina.f Před 6 lety +36

    I already saw this speech somewhere else and I thought that it was mind-blowing. Number 4 is my favorite. I am a total empath, but it's true that I shouldn't advise/speak my opinion before I come to understand the other's "capacity" of understanding their issue first. I shall speak last from now on! Thanks, Simon Sinek

    • @lurettagarner9670
      @lurettagarner9670 Před 2 lety

      YES INDEEDY SISTER! I CAN RELATE....SOOOO PROFOUNDLY SAID!!!!!!

  • @maggiedebono2307
    @maggiedebono2307 Před 7 lety +4

    Listening and appreciating Simon Sinek's philosophy on matters of life, learning and attitudes resonates strongly with me. I find he is in tune with many teachings of the Dalai Lama whether he is aware of that or not. I enjoy the uplifting messages Simon has to offer.

  • @spacegreycoralred
    @spacegreycoralred Před 6 lety +3

    Its my pleasure to introduce someone that knows how to speak intelligently

  • @dwightcox4627
    @dwightcox4627 Před 4 lety +6

    Simon, I have listened to your "Styrofoam cup" presentation multiple times and it continually resonates with me. After 30+ years with the US government and DoD (US Air Force) I’d noticed (Long with Rules 1-4) many of our leaders have forgotten Rule #5. Simon, you and I are both Hugh Fans of Mr. Bob Chapman's (St Louis, MO) Truly Human Leadership model that current day leaders SEE PEOPLE AS OBJECTS OF OUR THEIR OWN SUCCESS have forgotten about caring of people (No the profits and position) so those people can take care of the mission. I wish your "Styrofoam cup" message could get out to our Freshmen Congresspeople, Future (Ivy League graduates) Corporate business managers and our military leaders (early and often) throughout their careers. Then repeated multiple times over as a reminder the “The Nice Ceramic Cup (Corporate Jets, Hotel Suites and Large Entourages) were never meant for them, just the position they hold.” Your message starting with the Under Secretary of the Air Force (12:50) and summarizing with seeing General Schwartz at the Acela Express (15:27) in Washington DC, then so brilliantly summarized (14:25). Thank you

  • @vincentfassom1354
    @vincentfassom1354 Před 7 lety +11

    Thank Simon Sinek. Brilliant lessons.

  • @thesuccesscommunity6916
    @thesuccesscommunity6916 Před 2 lety +1

    We love how he mentions, looking for the things you are most passionate about, on the first rule.
    Dream Big, Always!

  • @thandosiwela959
    @thandosiwela959 Před 7 lety +5

    Hi Simon. You inspire me to be the best leader I can be. God bless you

  • @expertbyexperienceshared9903

    His content is ages old but his delivery makes it palatable and effective.

  • @isabelwiese1528
    @isabelwiese1528 Před 4 lety +7

    Also.. never stop making coffee - you're never too busy or too senior to make a coffee

  • @jeroenw9853
    @jeroenw9853 Před 5 lety +21

    I've spent Christmas with my family. They are all great leaders. Nobody said a thing.

  • @swississue4950
    @swississue4950 Před 4 lety +9

    I'm in tears...awe inspiring. Of course i knew it all along
    ✊😁
    Love you guys

  • @happylucky1993
    @happylucky1993 Před 4 lety +6

    Thank you for uploading the video.
    I appreciate it.

  • @rahmamassawe7746
    @rahmamassawe7746 Před 7 lety +1

    Gold, This is absolute GOLD!
    Thanks alot Simon and New Look.
    God Bless You All.

  • @TheNathanNicholson
    @TheNathanNicholson Před 7 lety +30

    This is an amazing talk! Loved every second of it.

  • @creativespaces9355
    @creativespaces9355 Před 4 lety +1

    Awesome principles to live by. Thank you Simon Sinek!

  • @clay392
    @clay392 Před 6 lety +1

    Simon Sinek is absolutely a very good speaker. I enjoyed listening to his speech.

  • @constanzagonzalez1253
    @constanzagonzalez1253 Před 7 lety +10

    Estupenda conferencia. Me quedo tus 5 Rules.... Gracias, gracias, gracias.

  • @paedrufernando2351
    @paedrufernando2351 Před 4 lety +1

    He is a celebrity in his own right.. Goood. Luck Simon

  • @a.natural.choice.for.wellness

    You are an inspiring speaker! I have all of your talks saved and listen to them multiple times. I share them with my business leaders!

  • @designeratworkind4123
    @designeratworkind4123 Před 7 lety +15

    One of the greatest of our times!

  • @saidwalilatifi2775
    @saidwalilatifi2775 Před 5 lety +1

    Wow, Simon Sinek's words are just inspirational, you are the great leader you really do the best and have the rest to do great things, thank you for having you!

  • @middlepillar7494
    @middlepillar7494 Před 5 lety +17

    Goose bumps here.......awesome Simon, just awesome.......you deserve a golden cup of coffee!. Thank you

  • @simonsinek2957
    @simonsinek2957 Před 7 lety +588

    What does one call a typo in a speech? I said renaissance, I meant Age of Enlightenment.

    • @dynastylong6268
      @dynastylong6268 Před 7 lety +2

      Lol, I have no idea

    • @PamelaGiacometti
      @PamelaGiacometti Před 7 lety +12

      Simoooon! Thank you. We are grateful for YOU. :)

    • @TinhaRolfsdotter
      @TinhaRolfsdotter Před 7 lety +4

      Never mind, we were focused on the message! :) Thank you, you always have something interesting to say Simon.

    • @clintsoo1
      @clintsoo1 Před 7 lety +14

      Caught it, - didn't care! Great speech!

    • @ErinUrbanLife
      @ErinUrbanLife Před 7 lety +1

      :-) It doesn't matter when you can inspire - and you do! Thank you for yet another great speech and message!

  • @Seadre
    @Seadre Před rokem +3

    1st Rule 2:06
    2nd Rule 4:06
    3rd Rule 7:07
    4th Rule 10:07
    5th Rule 12:30

  • @vz-Hello-ANewDay
    @vz-Hello-ANewDay Před 3 lety +3

    Styrofoam cup & former head of air-force handling his own suitcase - thank you for this clarifying point and lesson, will remember this.

  • @amc7687
    @amc7687 Před 4 lety +3

    I think the bigger part of the line problem in the beginning of the talk was not willing to spend the time in line. That time spent can many times bring connections and information to help you in many ways. Professional connections, creative inspiration, you name it. I also don't agree with jumping the line unless you are respectful of those who were there before you.

  • @EliteConfiDance
    @EliteConfiDance Před 4 lety +1

    Simon Sinek is the best!

  • @msbean1
    @msbean1 Před 7 lety +37

    Simon has a gift from God.

  • @Time_Traveling_Corgi
    @Time_Traveling_Corgi Před 2 lety +1

    I don't know how I ended up here... but I hope more channels like this pop up.

    • @Broomful
      @Broomful Před 2 lety

      I agree with you a ton I used to put down motivational speakers for giving false hope and what not. But They actually have some points here and there I randomly found this video but I'm glad i did even if I never meant to.
      Would love too see more of simon and more like him

  • @andrewbramleycareerwarriors

    Another great message, thanks Simon, the world is better for having you in it.

  • @anilimo9296
    @anilimo9296 Před 4 lety +1

    Advice no 3 contradicts advice no 1 or so it seems to me. Advice no 4 is excellent!

  • @seconta2non
    @seconta2non Před 4 lety +2

    My strong, smart son went through buds training @Coronado to be SWCC, (they are watercraft Seals essentially, they deliver the seals) the camaraderie and encouragement for and of his cohort brothers were probably some of the best lessons of my son’s life. He is an amazing martial arts trainer now.

  • @TheCarmel52
    @TheCarmel52 Před 7 lety

    I love Simon Sinek so inspiring and inovative accountability and responsiblity

  • @Jodl007
    @Jodl007 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow lesson no.5 hits the spot. Thank you for these lessons.

  • @nevenaprokic
    @nevenaprokic Před 6 lety +1

    So sweet and great speaker! Tips useful and ispiring as always!

  • @karolinae499
    @karolinae499 Před 7 lety +2

    Fantastic lessons!!! Thank you Simon :)

  • @hagbardc623
    @hagbardc623 Před 4 lety +1

    So many dissing on the intro, I think it had style and jazz! it's easy to criticize, especially in this format! ---Sinek is the MAN! as someone needing advice in being a better leader, I listen very closely and hope to instill some of these values more in my practice. Easier said than done. Peace!

  • @catut7042
    @catut7042 Před 7 lety +1

    More people in charge need to hear this and incorporate these ideas.

    • @Broomful
      @Broomful Před 2 lety

      People like simon don't want to be in high positions of power because he is not power hungry like lots of people in charge 1 example are politicians.

  • @jamesabeyta1092
    @jamesabeyta1092 Před 7 lety +19

    Simon Sinek is everything I aspire to be

  • @CalumnMcAulay
    @CalumnMcAulay Před 7 lety +1

    What an incredibly powerful talk!

  • @AllisonMagicElite
    @AllisonMagicElite Před 5 lety +4

    This touched my soul.

  • @urbanmetal7802
    @urbanmetal7802 Před 4 lety

    The best presenter without using any slides.

  • @Langthorne
    @Langthorne Před 7 lety +2

    An epic and enlightening speech as always by Simon.

  • @solrex2504
    @solrex2504 Před 4 lety +2

    1-2-5-3...sweet man...love his smile❤ my fav motivational speaker...big kiss😗

  • @wildsoniadiaries273
    @wildsoniadiaries273 Před 6 lety +8

    The story of the styofoam cup is one I haven't heard before. I have watched so many of Simon Sinek's talks and even though there are similarities I always gain something new and special from them, even when I rewatch! I love that I live in a time where people like him have already established such a clear vision of something I only had inklings of in the past. Im truly inspired and grateful for these talks.

  • @faithsf
    @faithsf Před rokem

    Very insightful! #5 is absolutely true and a "must" to keep our feet on the ground at all times.

  • @shakitashontajones
    @shakitashontajones Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you for having the courage to be you.

  • @EmileAI
    @EmileAI Před 6 lety +1

    What a great lesson ... mind blown

  • @caroleperezcoach-leaderena8727

    Simplement Génial Merci Simon de nous inspirer .

  • @natchathiram
    @natchathiram Před 5 lety +2

    Goosebumps and happy tears :)

  • @berryfairy68
    @berryfairy68 Před 6 lety +5

    What a relief to the ears to hear a well spoken person... I wondered if I clicked on the wrong video at first.

  • @recibeloquemereces
    @recibeloquemereces Před 5 lety +2

    Amazing!!

  • @samuelkwadwotuffour1283
    @samuelkwadwotuffour1283 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you Simon.

  • @balasubramanik3378
    @balasubramanik3378 Před 7 lety +10

    Absolutely inspiring as usual. The last point is my fav though, thank you Simon!!

    • @garywatson3343
      @garywatson3343 Před 6 lety

      Keith Wilson do you even know why those qualities produce a leader? There's 5 levels of leader and every one past level one require confidence and power yes. However gratitude and humility are required 10 fold. To make the calculation easy that's a multiplier of 1,024. Because people skills are what is required for success. Be confident yes, and also develop humility so that you can be effective with others just as you breed confidence to be effective with yourself. Confidence alone creates success to the leader level of 1 because there you only lead yourself. Plus at level one, people who are victims definitely loose the success to those who are level 1 leaders "leading the people they themselves are". Just as those who develop only confidence loose their success to those who develop humility far beyond the confidence they have since they have more then their own strength, they have the strength of those around them, added to theirs at first but the higher the leader the more that effect multiples.
      If this makes no sense watch simeons other video describing this in the world of business using players of finite vs infinite games called nobody wins
      czcams.com/video/pXOAnQfet-Y/video.html

    • @tony3017
      @tony3017 Před 6 lety

      Keith Wilson do you think it's easy.....????

  • @maven1818
    @maven1818 Před 7 lety +2

    Great thinking..

  • @alexanderSnilsson
    @alexanderSnilsson Před 7 lety

    Was a while since I listened to Sinek, one of my true virtual mentors in life. I look forward to the day I get the oppertunity to interview you. Until then, live life!
    / Alexander

  • @johngonzalez5087
    @johngonzalez5087 Před 7 lety +1

    so happy I found this

  • @billionairecharles5329
    @billionairecharles5329 Před 4 lety +1

    it might be late to see,watch and learn from this video but its timely. thanks

  • @joannemckee8547
    @joannemckee8547 Před 6 lety +1

    So refreshing, everyone (millennial or not) should listen to this and embrace Simon's inspiration message

  • @EvilAntic
    @EvilAntic Před 6 lety +1

    Everyone is avoiding the first guy. Man I learned almost as much from what he did wrong as I did from Simons brilliant speech.

  • @kidaniels8199
    @kidaniels8199 Před 4 lety +2

    Great way start yourday with this!

  • @SRoyalty
    @SRoyalty Před 7 lety +1

    Wow what an amazing way to put a message across. Well done

  • @bennersftw2644
    @bennersftw2644 Před 7 lety +1

    Remarkable presentation, and one I'm sure the audience will not soon forget.

  • @cc1694
    @cc1694 Před 6 lety +1

    #5 just amazing!!!!!

  • @tashidolkarsamdrupling5720

    Thank you thank you thank you Simon. Wow amazing speech. I like it keep it up! It's true what's you have said.

  • @mandystraight4618
    @mandystraight4618 Před 4 lety +5

    I am so in awe of how you convey so much in under 17 minutes - and it's so packed with encouraging insight. Thank you!

  • @matthewocchiato154
    @matthewocchiato154 Před rokem

    Awesome video!! Simon is so inspirational!

  • @fernandafurlani7114
    @fernandafurlani7114 Před 3 lety +1

    amazing, truly inspirational

  • @gersonyamada5366
    @gersonyamada5366 Před 5 lety +1

    I totally agree !!! I have been using this concept at University, and corporate companies. The result: I got fired!!! Here, in Brazil, this concept is no so much welcome, as I discovery toooo late... It is a pit!! So, after so many tries, I am a bit frustrated. Indeed!!
    But I still get going... and, maybe, one day, I will get my job back, if I still alive...
    Anyway, I still respect, admiral you and I wish you all the success that you deserve it.
    Gratitude 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

  • @nataliapanic9000
    @nataliapanic9000 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you.

  • @TheBrainVortex
    @TheBrainVortex Před 5 lety +1

    number 5 holds such a truth.

  • @Max_Motivation
    @Max_Motivation Před rokem

    I Love this speech, exactly what i needed to hear today thank you 🙏🙏

  • @evb1601
    @evb1601 Před 5 měsíci

    Fabulous! Thank you.

  • @taymason
    @taymason Před 5 lety +8

    This intro is painful, but Simon Sinek is enough for me to hang on until he arrives.

  • @stasinossofroniou7430
    @stasinossofroniou7430 Před 7 lety +1

    Great speech!

  • @jschauer31
    @jschauer31 Před 4 lety +1

    That was totally awesome

  • @patrickhill2985
    @patrickhill2985 Před 7 lety +1

    On being the last to speak... As a leader, you don't have opinions; you have policies. When "the boss" says, "I think we should...", an eager, hard-charging follower is going to take it for action, even if the boss was just thinking out loud or trying to stimulate conversation.

  • @danwitzke-yourfinancialhea8995

    Great clip, worth the watch!

  • @sheilalemon
    @sheilalemon Před 3 lety +1

    Superb!

  • @jasonviljoen1294
    @jasonviljoen1294 Před rokem +1

    Words of wisdom🙏🔥

  • @AyikosMedley
    @AyikosMedley Před 7 lety +14

    The guy doing the introduction 😂😂😂 lol hilarious could he have been more dramatic?!

  • @sandrabellanirvana540
    @sandrabellanirvana540 Před 4 lety

    love his eyes!!

  • @janapalcek9191
    @janapalcek9191 Před 5 lety +1

    Simon simply shines so strongly that you don’t need to do much in order to get on his playful success vibes. You can Learn by embracing it fully, expanding experience.. we can make it if we can imagine it... (Einstein) tho if we can experience ‘it’ through somebody we may just cut through ..