Birthday Wishes & Twin Flames: They didn't wish! To wish or not to wish?
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- čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
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Your Twin Flame not wishing you on your birthday is absolutely a commonly occurring factor according to my observation! Most of us are not wished by our twin flame on our Birthday.
Then obviously you are getting into a dilemma, if you should wish them or not?
Why should you wish? because they did not.
There are so many questions rising up with intense emotions like hurt and pain and rejection.
In this video I discuss about these things and how I have handled it in my journey and what mindset you need to have while navigating through this experience!
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I was the first person to wish my TF happy birthday on his birthday. A month later I didn’t hear from him the entire day of my birthday. It truly was such a heart-wrenching and painful experience, I can’t even begin to describe it.
If you celebrate your birthday on your own even once after meeting, he celebrates yours too.If you give yourself a present, he comes to you with a present even energetically.It's tried and seen😉
Omg, this video is exactly what I need. My birthday is approaching and I started thinking about this topic today. They never wish me "Happy birthday" and I do wish them every single year. Somehow this time my ego wanted to take over and I started questioning whether I should stop doing it. Thank you so much for this beautiful and spiritual piece of advice 💓
I wish him a birthday 🥳 wether we are talking or not, he always replies and says thank you. I know he knows my birthday but never wishes me a happy birthday but I understand the circumstances he is married. But I will always wish him a happy birthday! I love him and he matters to me!
Wait what?!!!! Today is my birthday and you uploaded this video. Wow. Universe never fails to amaze me 🙏
Happy Birthday!
Happy b'day...🎂🍰💜😊
@@msudhirc thanks ❤️
@@sayonara11111 thanks ❤️
Happy birthday dear soul 👭sister.... May you progress in your journey perfectly according to god's plan
Follow my heart and said Happy Birthday in person today and he replied with Oh Thankyou after almost 11months of no communication we finally have communication in 3D😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️ Thank you
When you spoke about wishing your twin flame and doing all the creative ways to wish him. Yet he never wished you over the years. It felt as though you were talking about me ...
So beautiful that he had wished u
Great video. For her first birthday in separation, I have wished her birthday and let her know that I love her. I know intuitively that she has smiled receiving my audio. And she has playback many times I think.
Gratitude 🙏
Great to have you back. I had my bday on 12th Nov and I was thinking of asking you before my bday, does your twin ever wish you along the journey, and you gave the answer today without my asking, they eventually do :)
This year I did something completely different on my bday with the guidance from my guides. Instead of waiting for him to wish and spending all my day in anxiety thinking whether he will or will he not, I woke up at 5 am in the morning on my bday, 12 am his time, and called him. We had not spoken over phone in a year. So he was very surprised. I told him I woke up at 5 am only to call him. I didnt tell him it was my bday. We spoke nicely for an hour. What difference it wud have made if he had said those 2 words to me, 'happy bday', nothing. He talking to me nicely was all that I needed. Later he told me on chat during the day that he was pleasantly surprised by my call. I told him, 'I was giving myself a treat'☺️
We had come out of a no talking period just before Diwali.
I didnt plan to tell him abt my bday but later in the day I felt it was an ego driven decision to rob him of the opportunity to wish me and may be later make him feel guilty. So, in the evening I sent him a picture of me with the cake. Did he wish me? Of course, he did and tried to make me feel special for the rest of the evening. And to my great surprise, he said sorry for forgetting my bday. For the last 2 years, I have been reminding him on my bday. This year he admitted that he does not remember anyone's bday.
On his bday this year, we were in a no talking period where he had not responded to my email. So I decided not to initiate a conversation but give him space. I wrote 2 pages of gratitude for him in my journal, did special prayers for him and sent lots of love. Later when he did come back on his own, I did share with him the gratitude I wrote.
Hey, thats really good to hear 😀
I just found your channel and it is helping me so much, to understand my situation. My last birthday I was so sad, thinking he won’t reach out, I went to work, while driving I was just playing something on CZcams, can’t quite remember what it was, in the middle of it. What I was listening stop and I hear. Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, just that out of no where. So I parked go in the building, checked my phone and there was his message, saying happy birthday honey, after six months of not communication.
Then just this week was his birthday and I wasn’t sure if I should reach out, I didn’t want to interfere in what ever is going on in his life but I couldn’t stay without, wishing him happy birthday, so I did and it was like he was waiting for it. He replied within seconds…It been six years of pain and confusion so much that I still don’t understand.
Your vídeos are very helpful, thank you for the time you put into bringing clarity into this journey.
🥰🙏
You are 💯 correct. This birthday we met accidentally & he didn't wish. I reminded him it is my birthday and he wished me. He said he doesn't remember. I said it's okay and I remember his birthday. He smiled and we both walked together talking of other things.
Last year he hadn't wished me nor did I
It certainly wasn't pleasant so I have decided that I will always wish him and this Diwali
He messaged me out of the blue ❤️
Have never communicated with my tf in 3D but I did receive an energetic birthday wish last night through a beautiful song. ❤️
We better wish each other a happy birthday. My twin flame and I have the same birthday. Our birthday is coming up July 29. I’m nervous for that day.
I did the same, I wished and celebrated his bd, made it special for him though he had not wished me on my bd
It gave me so much of happiness
He never forgot mine in / after 37 y and 18 y ago, his first son is born on the same day, my birthday. I hope my journey isn't that long anymore......
One more miracle...we ask and Devine answers.❤ I was asking for sign...whether to wish him on his bday or not as we hvnt spoke to each other ever. This video of urs appeared. Thank u and devine for this guidance. His bday is on valentine's day ❤❤❤❤❤
My twin has never wished me happy birthday, but like you, I have never missed hers. I know it makes her smile when I do it, so I do it. My twin has never replied to my birthday messages, I don't mind and I definitely don't expect it.
I’ve always wished him happy birthday, his is 10 days before mines, same month, in 5 years he hasn’t wish me hb this last time, I got so angry about it cause he says last year that he would put it on his calendar, I guess he didn’t so he forgot again, my anger was so high that I my ego over powered me and I told him yo get lost and disappeared. Which he did and I haven’t hear from him, but is ok with me, I’m in peace now and minding my own business.
Thank you for this timely message. My twins bday is 6/7 I wasn’t going to with him a HBD because I was so hurt when he didn’t wish me a HBD but this makes so much sense ❤️🙏🏻
It was my bday too on 6/7 he saw my stories, didnt wished but and tom 19/8 is his birthday !
Yes ma'am...this bday wishes r very vital n confusing....thank u for clearing my doubt 🙏
There's less than 24hours between mine and my twins birthday so we can't forget it 😂
Pradnya, you always follow your heart. I agree, what matters is if I have done right by someone I love. I could be dead this very night and this could be my last action on earth. So, give, and let God be the judge.
I was really missing my twin on the day of my birthday. I didn't expect him to uncontiously show up on his friend's charity livestream 20 minutes before the end of it. He had been with his mother & brother visiting their family in Sole Korea at the time. It was around 6:30 PM U.S. EST when he popped on. It was one of the best birthday surprises I've had in a great time. 🥰 His birthday is coming up this month on the 28th. And no. We are not in physical communication.❣ He's 32. I'm 56.
That's the Divine's way (and also your twin's higher self) to wish you!
Oh I was so triggered he didn’t wish me happy birthday, I unfriended him from all social media platforms.
It was a couple days later when I was not triggered anymore but still felt like it was the right thing to do.
But then in meditation that night I went into this dimension that was like a video game a fighting one. I was a beauty pageant queen (lol ego)
And after a couple rounds I thought I was winning against shadow man, who was radiating love and gentleness, and in the last round he gently finished me.
I came out of that with so much compassion and understanding, I love giving to him and making him feel special so I will still make sure I do that unless doing so would not be in alignment for the highest good
Such a great sharing!! Thank you!!😇🥰
Hi pradnyaa
Thanks for your support and guidance .recently my TF has asked me not to call rather than he would call me as he was going to celebrate his birthday with his
family so I was waiting whole day to wish him as I can’t call him as he said but he didn’t called me at all . But as pradnyaa suggested I sent him a gift and wrote all my feelings of unconditional love.
Having no expectations . But when he received it he felt very happy and he himself confronted about this connection.
Thank you so much god it’s really amazing feeling that though we are not in contact still our soul is connected.❤
My tf was on tour in France on his birthday and his birthday was on lions gate and I flew to France and was there on his birthday. I think it triggered him and I got upset and told him I didn't want to be his friend anymore. But as always he came back and I have surrendered again we spent Christmas together and new years but went back into separation in New years day. My birthday is coming up and on my last birthday he came to my birthday and performed my favorite songs and he gave me a necklace a tigers eye which has healed me so many times. I am so grateful for that day. 🙏 best day of my life
Pradnya,, I burst out crying about your bday greetings story!
💞🙃💫🤗
My twin flame asked me to not wish him:(
He said even on his birthday there’s no need to wish him birthday, that’s why I can’t wish him 🥲
He put it the way that if I love him and respect him I would respect his wish and this is his wish to not contact him.
That's okay as far as you yourself are not restricting it out of your own issues.
If he is at this place mentally, it's okay. He will process it sooner or later.
God bless you both. ❤️
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa
Thank you so much for everything you do for us❤️🙏
He came with a birthday cake and presents for my birthday this January, it was a super special day for me, it was first time he did it in our journey, now we are in separation again..
You are strength Pradnya... If you do not mind sharing, will you be comfortable making a video as to how did you navigate the pain and grief when he left this 3D world.. your journey...
Thank you 🙏🏻❤
The video you want is already there.😊
It is a special episode of Empower Hour - Love transcends life and death. Even death is the beginning.
Watch it here -
czcams.com/video/eUaYPo5qyfY/video.html
My dm text me before night of his birthday .. and he said don't wish me tomorrow also don't disturb me😅🤣.. i said okk
LOL!! 😂 This is a very peculiar trait!!
My Twin Flame (when we were on that juncture) once contacted me and initiated a conversation when he got to know that I was in the same town, by telling me - "please don't contact me."
If I was in your situation, i would have probably said, "Okay then, Wish you a Happy Birthday in Advance!!" 😂🤪
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa we both are also in same town 😊💛
Thanks for this much needed video!
Does my twin want me to wish him on his birthday? (I have done that without fail every year ever since we've known each other). But it would be interesting to know what is his take on my birthday wishes.😅
He forgot mine this year and my heart hurt. I cried for so many days! I never forget his. Always wish him. I was so heartbroken 😢
Hearing you is so liberating. His birthday is on 23 june. I am going to put my ego aside and wish him. No expectations just pure love. It's been 6 months we are in separation and he doesn't even know my birthday. Glad I found this video now :)
Hello ma'am I'm back again to really thank you from the bottom of my heart to help me take forward in this journey with your guidance since tbe last year. I had first time commented on this very video of your's and expressing my disappointment of what I did in his birthday but you being there by my side your kind words had definitely made an impact in my heart and understanding of whatever you try to explain to us in regard to this connection.
Today is his birthday ma'am and I've fondly wished him and felt so pleased to do that I can't even explain that. Finally I can say that I've worked on myself atleast a bit also and that peace and love is always there in me for him irrespective of the ego that always try to make it's way. Thank you so much pradnya ma'am 🙏❤
Wow!!! Snigdha, thats incredible! 💕🤩
Amazing 😃 my tf's (in separation for nearly 2 years) Birthday is coming up in two days and I've thought so much about it and him lately. Since we don't communicate in the 3D other than meeting randomly, should I extend my wishes to him etc?.. Today, I saw him outside at a house he owns - I can actually see it from my kitchen window. It took me three attempts, but I eventually went and wished him a happy Birthday in advance. My heart just smiles when I see him 💞 after that this, your video shows up to divinely confirm, it was an approved choice
Last year on my birthday my TF celebrated my birthday on her own choice. She surprised me and asked me to come in her house. I also wanted to see her on my birthday but i didn't say anything about it.I was very lucky that she celebrated my birthday last year. Let's see what happens this year. Coming July 30th is my TF's birthday and I will definitely wish her and I have already planned to give her a gift this year. Though last year i couldn't give anything to her. If possible i will also meet with her, be it a short or long meeting. We are same gender TF. She is married with two children. I am unmarried but in a committed relationship as of now. I also think in this way Ma'am because I know that she is my TF and I love her very much and I only want to see her happy. If any action from my side put smile on her face, I will definitely do that for her and it makes me very very happy. If we will not meet on her birthday i will definitely send her my own created video where I will wish her. I can also call her but making video for her is on the list. I have already done two insta reels video for her to make her happy. I know those reels video make her happy.
Thank you for your videos, they are inspiring and I’m sorry to hear about your TF. Sending virtual hugs from across the miles. 🤗🤗🤗
I don't think he remembers, but I wished him this year...I have no expectations I just wish he keeps talking to me
Today is birthday of my twin..
Please everyone bless him❤️
Happy birthday to your counterpart 💫🥳
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa thanks dear ma'am ❤️🙏💐🌺
Wesa hi hai jesa apne video me btaya ...usne nhi Kiya butt mine aaj wish Kiya pr no reply...but it's ok kyi bar esa huaa h jab usne ego alg rakh k mujse baat ki h aaj nhi ki to bhi koi baat nhi ...muje ab smjna hoga ...
Thanks for beautiful video and guidance
God bless you ❤️
This completely resonate me... A week before my birthday I already remind him but on that day I was expecting that he will b the first one to wish me but he didn't even care to wish me even though I put a status on my WhatsApp also... It's heart broken💔
So glad to see you Pradnyaa. Great video on an important topic
I being a chaser did not wishy twinflame on his birthday for the more or less the same reasons that he would feel I am still there waiting for him and he would run harder. Would the runner feel hurt if the chaser did not wish on his birthday? And thank you for your video, after seeing this I did wish him 8 days later and his reply was so so beautiful that I can't explain. Thank u so much 🙏
Every runner is at a different juncture, when it comes to understanding this connection so we can not have a general answer to it.
However, it is not about they will hurt or not, we are not sure.
But if we wish, most of them will at least have a smile on their face. And I feel that is significant.
I did wish my tf recently, got lot of venom in return gift, I will still wish him every year.
i have experienced this and we have had numerous fights about this before we seperated
Happy to see you back!! I was wondering even just yesterday about you and understood you needed to take time off!! This journey is not easy, but it’s so incredible! Past few weeks….I’d be satisfied with your channeled messages on Instagram. You’ve made such an impression on the twin flame collective!!
So timely, many thanks ❤️
Missed seeing you.
Glad you are back! 🙏 ❤️
You are so wise, thank you for sharing your experince, greetz from Holland ❣
Your message resonates with me greatly ❤❤. I agree 1000% with everything you said. I genuinely love your videos, your messages, and you 🥰🥰🥰🥰
🥰🥰🙏🏻🙏🏻
I did wish her, but i am not chasing, i don't expect her to reply just felt called to text.
Its a dilemma to all twin flames about birthdays😅 but most of the time i only reach out to greet him in person only eye to eye then pulled away after
I met my twin on my bday over 20 years ago. We are in separation now but it's impossible not to think of him each year.
I just subbed after your answer on my post thank you so much.
In my birthday I wish him and I was so sad the next Day when I went to my class he came you know he didn't have that class and before he came I felt he is coming it was deeper knowing and 2 minutes before he opened the door I saw 1111..but because my heart beat was so bad I couldn't look at him and then he felt bad and leaved...I never can forgive my self 💔
I do not know if it will be kinder to gently give a reminder/hint to them . Since we actually met on birthday years ago, it seems like some power play to just not even mention it as if i am testing them!?
It's not a power play really. You feel that because there is some sort of expectation in your heart that they should remember it.
Even your giving hint - is a reflection of that expectation. (Like, if you are not remembering, let me help you...) This can also seen like putting indirect pressure on them to act upon your hint.
I too had this dilemma!!!!
My birthday was on 8th this month. He disappeared from everywhere. He is a regular on Twitter, on April 8, he was totally gone only to appear next day in the evening. I think he ran away because he is struggling to go away from me. If he would have called, he would have broken completely. He is leaving now cryptic messages on twitter which makes me realise how much he loves me
My tf is not want to celebrate his birthday and he never wished me on my birthday
I choose to love
Thank you so much, so I know how I have to follow my heart. ❤
But, reaching out to them in that way will count as chasing yes? The whole point of the journey is surrendering. Aren’t they going to pull back further when they sense the chaser’s energy? Like man she just doesn’t let go of me!
Not for birthday!!
Look at this from plain slate.
As I expressed in the video. Why labels, chasing, running, analysis? It is a plain simple birthday wish!!
All those thoughts coming in our mind - (wouldn't it be chasing etc) are coming from our ego. Because we put that label onto them. Remove the label. Everything will become simple. You do not need to think in terms of surrender/chasing etc. Not from our soul. Operate from the place of soul.
"She just spent let go of me!" - they will think that - is your assumption!!
Coming from your fear/past exp/logic.
It may not be true.
If it is true - why would you give in? I never gave in to my twin flame's negative relations. I only expressed love. And that is what I am trying to say here.
We are "expressing" what WE feel truly, not "reacting" to their behavior.
How about not wishing but sending a little gift that was of significance in our journey?
Thanks a lot for this wonderful guidance 🙏
Thank you soo much for this🥺🥺
So much time it takes and struggle for twin flames to get into union... Really wonder do they actually always reach that point.. Some of them.. Not all..
Yes not all. Because everyone can not learn all those lessons in this life.
Also - Union -many expect it as typical conventional romantic union where two come under one roof as a couple.
However twin flame union is not that and is much beyond than most people expect it to be. I have explained that in video - understanding union.
Hi madame❤️❤️❤️. Yes last month was my birthday he didn't wish me but i was sad but on his birthday I wish him. And after 10 day he unlock me on social media. Last week he txt me. Sine am not in my country so he ask me when u r coming back. I answer him no ll nt come back and I ask him y this question after 10 month of no contact and I moved to UK.
Thank you so much 🙏❤ ma'am 💖
Tomorrow is her birthday on 14th September but she have blocked me from everywhere so i can't wish her even if i want to 😅
I too feel that we don't have to hold back with our twinflame... because holding back is harder ...
But my question is what about other relationship in our life... friends, or family... especially in this era of school, college or family groups,... every day there is a birthday or anniversary or their kids birthday... most of the time we are really strangers and have hardly interacted with them ...so how do we handle that ...
I would say, don't make wishing on a birthday a formality or a duty. I know many can feel bad if you don't wish, but it is practically impossible to keep wishing people every day.
I have made it a policy - if I remember or happen to see someone having a birthday - I definitely wish them. But I do not carry the burden of remembering every occasion and wishing everyone come what may.
At the same time, if some people don't wish me on my birthday - that too is completely okay for me. I don't take out conclusions from that.
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa
Thank you for responding... you know how it is in groups...if one person wishes...then the whole group follow suit... some how I feel it is so hollow... that personal connection with people is missing... I tried quitting the group (3 times)... I was added back...
Most people wish there because they feel, "what others will think, if they don't". Leave that.
If you really want, wish the person personally one to one. If you really want to. Else why give in to such pressures!
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa
Exactly my thoughts!!
🙏🙏🙏
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa I also think in this way.
I am wishing my twinflame from last 10 years . She never wished me. She is not married, she is divorcee, I do not wish because I don't know, she likes or not
Once she didn't Reply thanks.
Main thing is if she doesn't like me then I should not wish her
On my part I am sure she is twinflame ( Masculine)
I came to know I am in to twinflame journey just one month before
You have been doing the right thing. Wishing someone does not or rather should not depend upon a condition. That's not a true wishing.
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa as I am not going to wish her on her next Birthday.
You saying, I am doing Right 👍 ?
@@vivekarora2411 no I am saying right for - you wished her for last ten years!!
My twin text me in the morning Happy Birthday but did not answer My birthday invitation
I think I messed up everything because he had birthday in this month and I was adamant enough to not wish him this year. Last year I wished him on his birthday and indirectly wished him new year also and he also did the same thing this year but I thought this whole process was continuing but nothing was working out so this year I became so adamant that i didn't wish him because i somewhere knew that if i again do so things would start again and go nowhere else. I messed up everything 😞
That's okay! 😄 We are learning.
Introspect deeply.
Your descision to not to wish him is coming from the "expectation" of some "outcome". "Things need to go somewhere - ideally where YOU want them to go..."
And upon anticipating that they won't, you don't want to wish them.
Some sort of anticipation, expectation, protecting yourself from sny disappointment and some sort of ego - eveything is involved here.
Let it go.
It is a simple birthday wish. Dont attach such emotions and issues to it. And see how amazing you feel!!💕💕
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa yes😞🙏😊I really hope i let go of the unnecessary things and be the original version of who actually I'm 😊🙏
I wish I would have seen this video in June. His birthday was 6/26 and mine was 7/30. I didn’t send him a birthday wish this particular year so he didn’t send me one either 😂
😁😃
And when you are blocked everywhere? You write him a card? 🤔
yes why not? I had most of my journey when there was internet! Most my greetings have been actual physical greetings. Sometime I feel this social media has just put into delusion! Because we take everything so so seriously which happens there. But thats not the truth.
Thank you very much for your advice. His birthday is in May. I know what I should do. Hugs x
Bom dia
Uma pena o vídeo não ter legenda em Português
It has English subtitles now.
If the wish happy birthday.what is the motive behind it.best I feel to let it pass
Follow what your heart says. No rules. You don't feel it, don't do it.
Ur the best
why disconnection happens in twinflame journey
Else the awakening will not happen. Disconnection is required for that. If you are always with your twin, then you will always be in a comfort zone, and never will awaken.
Hahaha i wished them hbd for 3 years alr haha ego so funny