I faced each nd every thing, even after being mtech(assistant professor), jisne Sirf 6 months Ka job break liya for initial days of wedding, sb kuch kiya khana se le k safaeya tk, nd accidentally conceived, was going through tuff pregnancy - - - imagine after doing everything for 6 months, my mom in law said- hmne kya bche paida nhi kiye, hmne ghar ka kaam nhi kiya.... Nd she was lady jinki khud ki mominlaw ne poori life unka ghar sambhala nd dn it became my duty.......... I was pushed away from my dreams, still I m into depression, but trying to cope up nd excel in my career again.... As my daughter in 5 years old now nd remote works r dere for software engineers.... But a great topic to discuss.... Huge respect nd love dil se🙏😍😍😍😍
You both have had a wonderful upbringing. All families go through rough times but if the man of the house is mature and understanding than any situation can be dealt with. MashaAllah you guys spoke very honestly and gave us really good pointers. Thank you so much
I am your silent viewer. I do not watch any other vlogger except for u when I am doing household chores. It feels like I am not alone. Hearing 'Phalia' from bilal bhai made me really excited and happy. My maternal side is from Phalia. I was also born there. Whenever I have mentioned it infront of anyone, it was a new place for them. Never came across a single person who had ever heard of this place.
Basic pyar aur respect aik dosrey k liye ho toh har baat buri nahi lagti aur har tarha ka waqt guzar jata hai Allah hum sub k ghar shad.o.abaad rakhey Ameen
Well-done Superb Vlog 💗 so much meaningful vlog ...very well educated families ❣️and the Saas is the role model for every mother in law ...agar dunia ki tamam saasain esi hi Jein tho duniya ki tamam gharoun main sakoon hogaa... Kyaa zabardast lady thein...Allah un ko jannat ul firdous ata Karen ...air myjhee bhe Bilal jaisa husband aur apki Saas jaisi Saas mille ❣️💗😍💓💋💕💞😗😘😙
First of all I cried literally bcs main apni dadi nani se India Pakistan partition sun sun k bdi huyi hu so I understand the pain of dat generation kyuki khi na khi vo log ye nhi chahte the🙏 dey both r no more, , malik sbko jnat Mein jgah de....
I really appreciate you what a open mind you have I want the same thing from my minlaw will be my minlaw even it's not my enough age of being worried about these things but brain is totally disturbed after observing toxic laws in many women life ♥️
Enjoyed a lot . Nice vlogs we are also from mandibahauddin near phalia , punjab culture is really strict but my mother in law is very nice person .indeed Alma’s is ronak of your home she complains but she works a lot .
There is a difference between educated and degree holder. Families who are educated and well brought up treat everyone with respect including bahus and respect their privacy. The families you are talking about are the ones who might have degrees but are jahil by core. My mother in law was only inter pass and she always respected our privacy and we treated each other with mutual respect.
Huge respect for such parents.. jo choton ko itni respect dete hain .. they were good role models for you and this shows that Almas will be an awesome mother in law too 🤩
Mjhe lg rha tha apne susral main achi life guzari ho gi …. Because positive ap achanuk se nhi ho jty ap main bachpan se hoti insan k andhar …. Ap blkl b typical nhi hai ❤️
It's nice to see someone who hasn't been pressured to call their in laws mom/dad because pressure mei aake ammi abu bolne bht bekaar baat hai and I sadly I have done that under pressure. In laws chaahe jitna he educated kyu na ho.. unhe ye zabardasti ka expectation hamesha hona hai apni bahu se
Well said, agr ghar manage krne k bad hum women job kregi tohh bs time hi nhi milta, ofcourse agr a girl has to do job toh chahey hoti h - Cook, support etc. jo hum punjabiyo k culture Mein Aaj tk bhi nhi h....... Each nd every thing i have faced wat u ppl said....
Its big role of your in laws they have a big heart but it should be both ways only in laws are not always good if they don’t ket daughter in law do anything all hones can’t afford househelp etc so if daughter in laws have to do house work nothing bad in it
I hate the desi culture, in laws and husbands expect kertay hain ke aap tray sajah ker pesh kerain. Deen humain kuch or teach kerta hai. Bahu Apni khushi se khidmat keray Tu bohat achi baat hai. Lakin uss se expect kerna wrong hai. Parents ki khidmat unh ke apne olad per ferz hai. Bahu per nahi. Deen ka shaoor bohat important hai.
Very nice family Masha Allah, Allah aapp ki family ko salamat rakhe. I have a question for you Mrs. Bilal; why didn’t you pursue your career in medicine? I mean USMLE.
Susar Ka Kam krna mayoob samjha jata? Punjabi culture mn baap Ka Kam krna sohar ya bhai ka help krwana sub Kuch e mayoob samjha jata. Koi ba shaooorrrr bnda krna b chahy to taanyy jo milty k ap khud e Kam Kar do behter rahy ga. Physical sakoon k chakar mn zehni mareeez ban jao.
She first needs to learn how to make vlogs. She is derailing from the main topic. Her husband is trying to bring her back on the track but she doesn't seem to understand it.
I faced each nd every thing, even after being mtech(assistant professor), jisne Sirf 6 months Ka job break liya for initial days of wedding, sb kuch kiya khana se le k safaeya tk, nd accidentally conceived, was going through tuff pregnancy - - - imagine after doing everything for 6 months, my mom in law said- hmne kya bche paida nhi kiye, hmne ghar ka kaam nhi kiya.... Nd she was lady jinki khud ki mominlaw ne poori life unka ghar sambhala nd dn it became my duty.......... I was pushed away from my dreams, still I m into depression, but trying to cope up nd excel in my career again.... As my daughter in 5 years old now nd remote works r dere for software engineers.... But a great topic to discuss.... Huge respect nd love dil se🙏😍😍😍😍
You both have had a wonderful upbringing. All families go through rough times but if the man of the house is mature and understanding than any situation can be dealt with. MashaAllah you guys spoke very honestly and gave us really good pointers. Thank you so much
I am your silent viewer. I do not watch any other vlogger except for u when I am doing household chores. It feels like I am not alone. Hearing 'Phalia' from bilal bhai made me really excited and happy. My maternal side is from Phalia. I was also born there. Whenever I have mentioned it infront of anyone, it was a new place for them. Never came across a single person who had ever heard of this place.
Off course we know Phalia
Ayma is same like her dadi….. May God bless ur mother in law with high ranks in jannat
Basic pyar aur respect aik dosrey k liye ho toh har baat buri nahi lagti aur har tarha ka waqt guzar jata hai
Allah hum sub k ghar shad.o.abaad rakhey Ameen
Well-done Superb Vlog 💗 so much meaningful vlog ...very well educated families ❣️and the Saas is the role model for every mother in law ...agar dunia ki tamam saasain esi hi Jein tho duniya ki tamam gharoun main sakoon hogaa... Kyaa zabardast lady thein...Allah un ko jannat ul firdous ata Karen ...air myjhee bhe Bilal jaisa husband aur apki Saas jaisi Saas mille ❣️💗😍💓💋💕💞😗😘😙
Beautiful vlog ❤️ you have such nice in-laws thats why you are so positive about every aspect of life !!🥰
Bilal bhai is very humble and nice and his talk reflect his way of upbringing. May Allah rest his Mother soul in highest place of heaven.Ameen
And i think you are also very positive person its a two way relation!!
Ur mother in law was a great lady almaa i think her prayers r protecting u always and bilal bhai s nature show how a gentle lady s made a gentleman ❤
First of all I cried literally bcs main apni dadi nani se India Pakistan partition sun sun k bdi huyi hu so I understand the pain of dat generation kyuki khi na khi vo log ye nhi chahte the🙏 dey both r no more, , malik sbko jnat Mein jgah de....
Yesss I know Phaliya
Never been there
But heard a lot
Whenever we travelled on GT Road
Bilal bhai explain very well in tz whole video...wonderful vlog..you looks beautiful almas appi.
I really appreciate you what a open mind you have I want the same thing from my minlaw will be my minlaw even it's not my enough age of being worried about these things but brain is totally disturbed after observing toxic laws in many women life ♥️
You are quite bold just bcz of your husband is very cool minded
Enjoyed a lot . Nice vlogs we are also from mandibahauddin near phalia , punjab culture is really strict but my mother in law is very nice person .indeed Alma’s is ronak of your home she complains but she works a lot .
Bilal bhai aap panjab ke hone ke bawajood urdu itni achchi kaise bol lete hain aap ki urdu bohot achchi hai masha Allah
Thats great...your mother in law was a nice lady
Aap dono bht true person ho
AJ kl AP k vlogs ka intezar rehny lga..
Love from Abu Dhabi 😍
Omg now I know why I connect with you so much 😂 I always had a doubt that you are a Sindhi🤟 so glad to know that❤️
You are lucky almas that your inlaws always supported you.
So nostalgic api. Please share your pictures from Abbotsford. And in the cantonments of Pakistan if you wish.
Mujhe bht maza aya apki story sun k insha Allah me b achi saas bano gi ❤
Bilal bhai aap panjab ke hone ke bawajood aapki urdu behtareen hai masha Allah
There is a difference between educated and degree holder. Families who are educated and well brought up treat everyone with respect including bahus and respect their privacy. The families you are talking about are the ones who might have degrees but are jahil by core.
My mother in law was only inter pass and she always respected our privacy and we treated each other with mutual respect.
Touchwood.. love seeing u both. 🥰🥰
Such a nice mother in law
I just love how you are please don’t ever change Almas. You are beautiful
You have broad minded family MashAllha❤
You are soo right about these fake traditions of making tea or sitting in front etc etc. Lots of these stupid expectations damage relationship
Mashallah what a sensible family everyone should be like this
Huge respect for such parents.. jo choton ko itni respect dete hain .. they were good role models for you and this shows that Almas will be an awesome mother in law too 🤩
Good very nice vibes ❤️❤️❤️
Mjhe lg rha tha apne susral main achi life guzari ho gi …. Because positive ap achanuk se nhi ho jty ap main bachpan se hoti insan k andhar …. Ap blkl b typical nhi hai ❤️
It's nice to see someone who hasn't been pressured to call their in laws mom/dad because pressure mei aake ammi abu bolne bht bekaar baat hai and I sadly I have done that under pressure. In laws chaahe jitna he educated kyu na ho.. unhe ye zabardasti ka expectation hamesha hona hai apni bahu se
Wow so much to learn from this vlog .
Well said, agr ghar manage krne k bad hum women job kregi tohh bs time hi nhi milta, ofcourse agr a girl has to do job toh chahey hoti h - Cook, support etc. jo hum punjabiyo k culture Mein Aaj tk bhi nhi h....... Each nd every thing i have faced wat u ppl said....
Baji, kush Kismat hain ap, achay loogon say wasta per gaya. Warna ap Kay halat koi nahi thay. 💕💕💕
Hello aymah is just like her grand mother
Aslamo alikum jani MashaAllah u r so lucky to have such a nice family stay happy😘
One of the best vlog❤️❤️❤️
MashaAllah MashaAllah u r so lucky❤️❤️ and r also very sweet personality ❤️❤️love from Pakistan
You should call her ammi
I belong to phalia,pahrianwali.sooo strange
Luv.to hear your story
Didnt know that bhai is from phalia☺️we are from chellianwala in mandibahudin😍
Almaas bohot acha volog tha.
Almas you are so positive
I am rind BALOCH
Wonderful vlog
Its big role of your in laws they have a big heart but it should be both ways only in laws are not always good if they don’t ket daughter in law do anything all hones can’t afford househelp etc so if daughter in laws have to do house work nothing bad in it
Hum bhe phalia k han rhny waly
Love ❤️ U Alllllllllllllll Soooooooo Much 😍😍😍😍😍
I hate the desi culture, in laws and husbands expect kertay hain ke aap tray sajah ker pesh kerain. Deen humain kuch or teach kerta hai. Bahu Apni khushi se khidmat keray Tu bohat achi baat hai. Lakin uss se expect kerna wrong hai. Parents ki khidmat unh ke apne olad per ferz hai. Bahu per nahi. Deen ka shaoor bohat important hai.
Almas u very sweet..bht formal hain.proud nahi ho bilkul
Amazing vlog 😍😍
Very nice family Masha Allah, Allah aapp ki family ko salamat rakhe. I have a question for you Mrs. Bilal; why didn’t you pursue your career in medicine? I mean USMLE.
You make nice videos, but try to make videos around 8-12 mins
MashaAllah nice 👍
Love you Almas
Very nice vlog
a true run mureed = bilal bhai (bilal bhai mind nhe krna wese hi thori c firki li hy.🤣
MashaAllah
When are you going to upload your British Columbia, Canada journey and struggles
Beautiful family 👪
Hey I am from Phalia.
Where Is your sister Farah? Why she is not vlogging ?
gujrat k sath kharian hay i guess thats what u meant
Love u both people
Itnay well rooted log jub foreign lands chalay jatay hay to kya hota hay..??
Susar Ka Kam krna mayoob samjha jata? Punjabi culture mn baap Ka Kam krna sohar ya bhai ka help krwana sub Kuch e mayoob samjha jata. Koi ba shaooorrrr bnda krna b chahy to taanyy jo milty k ap khud e Kam Kar do behter rahy ga. Physical sakoon k chakar mn zehni mareeez ban jao.
❤️
Seema ju India gyi Hai iski reshtydar tu Ni hai😮
Why don’t you call her mama …..? Instead of aunty …
Your mother in law was so nice ...you should call her ammo
Ammi
She first needs to learn how to make vlogs. She is derailing from the main topic. Her husband is trying to bring her back on the track but she doesn't seem to understand it.
I will not learn but thank you for your kind suggestion and don’t forget to subscribe to my channel.
When you start doing something new, it will take some time to get better at it, anyways i like her vlogs, she is a genuine person❤️