I sung this song to a girl I met in college. We both were damaged individuals going through a lot and dealing with a lot but we were each other’s happiness. She is currently my fiancé and we are currently working together to get better.
My mate (Jacob) committed suicide hree years ago. He met me when i was at my lowest and offered his hand to a boy who had nothing to give in return. His motto in life was. "Life shatters us. It breaks us. But it leads us to people who will look at the shards of us and find a way to put us back together and make us stronger than we were before."
@@acespades9801 I'm glad he helped you. Because its true. No matter how many times you are broken down by other people. There will be someone who looks at your pieces and say "Let's get you better again."
@@balthasargerard7246 its not relying on another person to give you personal strength. Its more like said person gives you the hand that you need to get yourself out of the Pit you are in. They are more akin to a crutch than to a way of getting personal strength
You keep going dude help o the rs who can't find their way just as he had helped you and in doing so I believe that is all he would ever ask for in return. Have a wonderful new year.
I know exactly what you mean. I met my girlfriend when we both were at our lowest. She attempted suicide a few years ago, and we helped each other to rebuilt ourselves to face life again. We've fall in love thanks to this, and even though she lived in a different country of mine, about 1200 kilometers away we managed to stay together for 10 days straight at the time. Well, miracles aren't eternal. She stopped loving me at some point and she was so much angry at herself that she started hating me as well, jealous of my own love for her I truly hope your friendship will continue. I truly hope no-one will ever feel what I felt. Life shattered me, she rebuilts me to shatter me again but I was stronger... This time. Hopefully Well that's a strange story I know, thank you for reading to the end
Have you ever felt so broken, so shattered, that you can't imagine ever finding all the pieces to put you together again? Like happiness is a galaxy away, and you have no way to reach it? Like there is love all around you, but you have somehow pushed it all away or those who you thought loved you can't see you, like you are invisible? My pieces are like broken glass, when I try to pick them up, they cut me and I drop them again. Please tell me I'm not alone in this. God, help me be enough, be my rain as I walk through this desert alone.
You're not alone. I fell so badly in 1997 watching my dad die on Christmas day after having a massive heart attack when he was 57. On 1/13/2002 my my mom was murdered at the age of 59. 3/18/2021 my sister was murdered in her apartment while she was being robbed she was 57. 3/24/2024 my niece was found dead she was 37 accidental overdose. My life has been a mess. But im here praise be to God.
Yes as prime Creators we feel your pain the levels of our understanding depth that of the oceans but so far above our fallen world this merger of timing I'm so so utterly sorry for your losses.... Please do know that these feelings inside you, you are not alone dearest and beloved children of God. Our heart's breaking what when yours do the glass always does. Do not focus on your brokenness lest you miss the blessings sent to heal you in love 💕💜 🫂 💛
I lost my only love, died, was put back together by someone who cared, then I failed her and she took her own life, my mistakes tear through what's left of my mind, you are not alone.
This was one of my brother's favorite songs from Red. He lost his battle with mental illness on August 31st 2020. "I come to you in pieces so you can make me whole" is the quote we have on his headstone
I'm very sorry....I have lost 2 family members to this .....my brother then his son....some how we come through ....but its difficult....leaves many scars....
I don't know what's better: the song or the comment section. My heart goes out to anyone going through a rough time right now. Keep going, you're not alone.
BluuJay 727 Thank you. At this moment I really need this right now..I’m not sure how much longer I can be strong for me and for others. This comment gives me hope for the future..thank you so much💛
To you to because you just cant help me in any other way meeting up to me would be weird its just not possible a millionaire shouldnt be entiteld to give us money or a billionaire but they should help us get a job a get better by working not just giving it out for free. I would say We all earned the thanks and the welcomes thanks to you and welcome because I feel tired even while now just lazily sitting down thinking what the heck am i going to do with my life I cant sit and play video games when I was 10 anymore im 18 i wish i did something different from when i was 10 but my parents i dont know why I guess im privileged even if i dont know much math but fuck I just feel so much weighing on my shoulders is diying better than living?
I sing this song alone, because my son died before he was born... but somehow, I feel happy listening, I remember the joy I felt while waiting for him to be born. This song saved me.
I lost twins by miscarriage. They would have turned 32-years-old last week. I fell to pieces. God made me whole. I will follow Him until He opens up Heaven for me to hold my children in my waiting arms, just like God is waiting to hold me in His holy bosom. I will pray for you to find everlasting peace.
I lost my best friend/husband a month ago. I'm trying to figure out how to make life work without him after 32 years and I'm drawing a blank. This song gives me a little hope that God can make me whole again someday. I miss you so much, Colin Edwards. I know it's not goodbye, it's see you later. ❤️
My daughter lost her husband from drinking. Then 8 moths later, my eldest son in law put a bullet in his head...just can't get past this....2 widowed daughters. One with 3 kids, the other was expecting their 4th child. Still a jelly bean size when he committed suicide....
I recently lost the love of my life on 11/11/22 due to a hit and run. I'm crushed because I was there when it happened. I don't think that I will ever bounce back from this
@@lynnryan5690 I'm so sorry. I understand completely. I wish I could say it gets better. It does become a new reality. And you learn to navigate through that new reality. Give yourself as much time as you need before you try to move forward. There's no set timeline. Allow yourself to grieve in anyway that helps you process. I've stood in my living room and screamed at God. I've lain in my bed for days. I've cried in my shower till the water ran cold. And I've allowed myself to feel numb. And I'm not done yet. You have my prayers.
I'm sorry you feel this way. I may not know you or understand your pain, I may not ever meet you. You might go on forever without finding someone who understands the depth of your pain, but know this: When it comes down to it, despite their flaws and inadequacies, being broken is what makes people great. It makes you stronger, smarter and kinder. You are a better person because of this pain, and maybe that's not much of a consolation right now. I totally allow for that possibility. I hope you feel better.
It’s crazy that I just happened to revisit this song. I decided to check out to comment section, and saw I commented 9 years ago “words cut deeper than blades.” I just want to let everyone know, things do get better. It might take a long while but trust in the process; trust in yourself that everything will be okay. I know things are hard now but, it will look up. There will be people who come along and love you, you will have a long life maybe meet the right person, maybe have kids, maybe becoming the true version of yourself. ❤
I came from a 25 year long narcissistic abusive marriage and now have found a kind and gentle man who loves me. This song speaks to how I tee when I came to him broken and untrusting!
What a beautiful song. Really hits home. After 3 divorces, a broken 5 yr engagement , being single 13 years, at 68, I've found true love. I am excepted for being who I am. I had given up on ever being truly accepted and loved. It's never too late.
I heard this song... And I seriously felt like crying.. This song makes me want to travel around the world just to hug everyone who is dealing with depression... I love you all.
Jessii_ Faker But why commit suicide when there are people in this word who care for you? Trust me, people DO care. Even when they say they don't, they do. Just imagine how committing suicide would effect their lives? They'd be devastated! There are things you have yet to experience! Places you have yet to see! suicide is not the answer! Life is all a huge storm. You need to learn to dance in the rain!
When I was homeless in Florida a few years ago. This was one of my favorite songs to listen to. One of the other things I enjoyed the most throughout that period of my life was the privilege to see the birth of a new day. So every morning there, i was in the beach sitting on the sand patiently waiting for it. This song playing in the background. Each time, it gave me hope, and I envisioned myself that I, too, will rise from all this, like a sunrise. What i envisioned myself to be back then has now come to fruition as i have risen from the abyss to heights unimaginable. In pieces, I was... slowly rebuilding myself until I became whole again. It is a powerful testament to the importance of visualization, hope, hard work, and my faith to God. 🙏 ❤️
@kawaii_mocha_marshmallows thank you for the hug and kind words. I'm still going....i am alive and breathing. I never thought my life would be what it is today. Thank you my Lord and savior for giving me my wings and the strength to keep pushing forward. I'll never give up...I promise ❤
I was also Homeless and Lost Everything and Everyone! This was after DV and nasty court family court corruption! I’m not blameless. God Saved Me and My Children in the nick of time. 6 hrs of hell. Love Won! Now I’m a Grandma and have my kids close, safe house in a beautiful location. I felt the day that I was ready and God came through for us! My daughter escape Brazil. All together again ❤
I am recording this to sing to my husband on our 20th wedding anniversary surprise vow renewal. He has no clue. I have a band and everything. I’m hoping to make him cry. ❤️
@My Heart Is Hollow yes!!! It’s a beautiful song. I guess that can explain why it made me feel some type of way in my heart compared to worldly music, and mind me not, I do believe in God but I don’t follow church that way, but I do know that Jesus is in my heart and when I heard this song, I knew that it had to be God touching me.
they help me realize how special life and love is. listen to their lyrics and you'll hear them. not depressive lyrics, but the answers to life. listen.
This song I devoted to my recently passed cat... She only made it to her 9th birthday. And this song explains so well, how her glowing soul repaired my broken soul. I feel so lost without her, and I hope she knows how much she means to me, and how whole she made me. Thank you, Red for creating this beautiful masterpiece.
Im so sorry 😞. I completely understand. I just lost my beautiful dog. Their love is so amazing. And they are family. I wish you healing. It's so hard. Take care.
Sorry for your loss. I lost my one year old "soul cat" in June. I'll never recover fully. He was and is everything to me. He ran out of the house one night and I couldn't catch him.. and he got out in the road. I looked for him all day the next day and was showing my neighbors pictures of him and asking if they'd seen him. One of my neighbors said he has in fact seen him. And that he had pulled my cat from the middle of the road to the ditch. I still remember the fear and panic I felt as I ran towards the road.. I begged for it to not be him.. then I saw him and broke down because it was my boy laying there. I miss him.
@@mariahasty4258 Aww, I know that pain. I've lost a cat due to traffic as well. He came home whining out of pain, dragging his back legs after him. His back was broken. I had to drive him to the vet in the middle of the night. A 2 hour drive where I had to listen to him whining in pain, knowing I couldn't do anything. And the vet could do nothing, but put him out his misery... That was the hardest thing I had to ever do in my entire life.... Bella I had put out mostly because I couldn't afford the treatment she needed, but also because there was no guarantee that the treatment would have any effect. And then it would be not only waste of money, but also not fair to put her through all that. So I took the hard choice to give her piece. Her liver had failed, so saying goodbye was the right choice. Even if it was hard. She deserved to be free of pain.
This song speaks to me in so many ways. I’ve battled depression my whole life. I’m still waiting for that someone to call my name and make me whole. This song is amazing
Hey I see this comment is already 2 years old but my first thought when I read it was “Jesus is calling you, He’ll be the one to truly make you whole”. Because that’s exactly what He did for me. I believe even the fact that this song spoke to you so much is one of the ways He’s been calling your name. Jesus can use anything to speak to a person, to call them to Himself, and He’s always very intentional and personally attentive in what He uses. For me, this song is a testimony of His power to mend, heal and restore a broken heart, mind, and life. And for you I believe it’s a promise from God that He will do this for you, He sees that you’ve been longing for someone who is able and willing to stay with you and love you until you’re whole again, and He wants to be that for you in every way you need and more. We all come to Jesus in pieces, and He lets our souls know that truly only His hands are skillful enough to fully repair us and make us like new, only His mind is fully knowledgeable of what it takes to do it. He knows. He cares, He’s always there for you and with you. He’ll be the one who won’t forsake you and break you again halfway through helping you heal. Jesus always completes what He sets out to do, till it is finished. That’s what He did on the cross for you and me and everyone, He started the work of bearing all of our sin, pain, sorrow, hopelessness, sickness, weakness, and brokenness. And He carried it all till He could say “it is finished”. And now because of that, when we come to Him and believe that He died for our sins and rose again, we can know and be sure that we have received salvation and the hope of heaven for when this life ends. After you come to Him and believe in Him, He will confirm it within your innermost part of your being that He has truly done this for you and that you are secure in His salvation and in relationship and direct connection with Him for the rest of your life. And so then when our life on earth ends, we get to go to heaven and meet face-to-face the one who met us in our brokenness. And that is the moment, when we see Jesus’ face, every scar of our brokenness will be gone from our hearts and minds, and replaced with unimaginable joy and overwhelming love. And the only thing left that will represent the weight of our sin, brokenness and pain, are the scars that are left on Jesus’ wrists from when He bore the weight of it all on His own body on the cross and died for us in our broken world. Those scars simultaneously represent His suffering, and our complete healing. And He’s done this for us because He loved us and was more willing to suffer and die for us rather than let us die in our suffering without hope. He was more willing to die for us than to live without us. And so, all this being said, I hope and pray that you will soon know Jesus personally, because He is truly able to meet you wherever you’re at and change everything. Nothing is too much or too little for Him to take on. His love is the strongest anyone’s ever known. It is unfailing, unlimited, perfect love. It is only from a place of having recieved and known this love for myself that I can relay all of this to someone I don’t even know, and be entirely confident that it will be equally true for you as it is for me. It doesn’t matter that I have no clue who you are or what you’ve been through, Jesus knows and I’m just a messenger of His, and a vessel of His love. Never forget, Jesus loves you and His arms are wide open, His hands are both gentle and infinitely strong, His heart is strongly inclined towards you, and His voice is in everything, always calling you to Himself. 🤍
someone in the early 2020 still listening to this song? I actually like listening to sad songs, because it makes you feel relaxed and sad. It's not I like to be sad, but it makes me to enjoy this song more than when I feel happy or energized. I don't know if I'm the only one who thinks like this, or that there is someone else that is feeling / experience the same phenomenon.
Dear person reading this, I love you. And I always will, if you can’t say that you love yourself then use me, say “Leo loves me.“ until you have the strength to finally say that you love and accept yourself. Stay strong, we’ll get through this together. Edit - 11/18/20 : Hey guys, I’m still here as I promised, I’ve stayed strong just for you all. I love you so much💜 Edit (2) - 7/24/21 : Hello, everyone. :) I’m still here, as I promised edit(3) - 2/7/24 ; hey guys, still alive & kickin’. I actually got a partner recently and life has been getting better. You won’t always be stuck in this rut, I can actually promise this
21 year old here, life since 13 years old has been nothing but hyperfast traumatic events for me, I wish I could look back and see joy but I feel nothing but sorrow. 1.5 years sober, just putting my heart back together one broken piece at a time.
I'm a 40 year old man that has been married and divorced twice. In the last few weeks, I have found someone that is showing my heart what true love is. It's a completely different kind of love, it's overwhelming and amazing. This song showed up in my recommended today and on the first listen, I started crying. This song is absolutely beautiful. To anyone out there that thinks they're ready to give up on true love, don't give up! It will find you when you need it most. If you see this April, thank you! I love you ❤️
I'm in the same place brother. 47 here. 1 divorce and a serious relationship after that...but I've finally found what real love is. At least we got there before we died. Amazing feeling isn't it?
I'm 38 now and i'm married not because of love but because of stupid rash decision mistake years ago.Years has passed and I feel so depressed. Living with someone you dont love is so dreadful. I still stay in this marriage because of responsibilities for the kid. Then,i met a friend and we kinna click. After some time, I fall for her but now we're not seeing each other anymore cos of my complicated situations and she wan to have her own happiness as well . I dont have the courage to be with her when i have the chance last time. Now it's ended ,i have regret it so much and i miss her so damn much. We're now are strangers with memories. Right person but at the wrong time. I envy you. Cherish her and i pray you have a long lasting happiness with her. As for me,i will always love her and pray for her wellbeing from the shadows.
Music is the purpose for showing us where we feel alone and find we are far from alone.. crazy how a person you have never met has the same pain... seems impossible, yet we are so alike even with all our differences the heart is our common ground!! So no its not werid.. people need to connect!! Humankindness and love can keep you from being alone... rest well and happy even on hard day and they are out there.. but remember your not alone!!
I lost my soulmate and best friend on June 12th 2022 we were married for 21 years and this song is amazing because when you lose a spouse it feels like your soul is being ripped out of your body and your heart shatters into a million pieces
I lost my best friend and soulmate Richard on January 6th,2021...a month before my 33rd birthday. We were together 15 years and he passed away in my arms from cardiac arrest due to detoxing from drugs and alcohol. It broke me bad...I fell so hard down the rabbit hole from his death. Never thought I would find happiness like that again but God brought someone just recently in to my life again and I'm at such a happy point in my life now with him. And having to overcome my own fatal addiction was next to being the hardest thing from loosing Richard, but God had other plans for me apparently!! I'm sorry for your loss and I hope and pray for you to find strength and happiness again soon!!
Unless you lose your child, as I just have from a drunk driver, and my sister who overdosed and 3 cousins who committed suicide , you will never be the same again. My grief is overwhelming and I can’t find my way back. I need this song so badly. I stand on my faith and that’s how I’m barely surviving. I never ever thought I’d lose my daughter but it’s as real as the day it happened ❤❤❤
Omg I am so sorry that all of that happened to you. I don’t know how I would ever deal with something like that. One of the things that always saves me from suicide is knowing how it would completely destroy my mom. I can’t imagine losing her, let alone your own child. If I could I would bring her back for you… Life can be so cruel… But you’re right, our faith can carry us through some of the worst times in our lives. This song is such a great reminder of that. And again, I am so so sorry what happened to you. No one should ever experience that. I’m glad this song helps bring you some comfort.
+Chelsea Miller Actually, it explains everything. RED's show of faith their belief in God is undying. Loosing one's faith then finding it is LITERALLY the meaning of this entire song. It's very emotional.
You could interpret it that way, but I am near 100% certain that I read a few years ago that Red said they intentionally makes their songs in such a way so that people can interpret it the way closest to their heart. I tried to search for the interview now, but I would probably need to dig for a while longer, if you care enough you could try to find out their stance. Anyhow, that they have powerful lyrics has nothing to do with their faith, you couldn't just pick up some random faith-filled dude and have him write a masterpiece. P.S You seem certain that you know the meaning of the song as Red meant it to be, could you provide any link to where they state the meaning of this song?
You can be Christian and your lyrics not be powerful; you can be a non-Christian artist and your lyrics be powerful as well--it depends on the artist itself. The way that they craft their lyrics has nothing to do with solely being Christian or not, that's what I meant. I've also looked up meanings to several of their songs, and they like to write about personal battles with our inner selves, a lot of times against sin/the flesh, (Feed the Machine and Death of Me, for example). Then again, I imagine that they can have other meanings besides that as well. You can tell that their faith is the underlying motivation behind all of their lyrics, but again, faith in itself doesn't determine how deep one's lyrics are. And I do imagine that they may very well leave the overall interpretation up to the listener.
This song speaks a lot to me...I was picked on as a child...all the way up to graduating. I was called, freak, monster, outcast, loser, skinny fuck and etc. I went to Winter Jam and this song speaks to me...mostly because I listened to it a lot when I was depressed and then RED came to concert into my state..he sang this song and noticed while he was singing it that I seemed depressed..I was near the bars of the front stage...almost crying...(I am a male, yes)..He pulled me on stage and at the end of his song he held me and said into the mic "Don't cry son...you're never alone..you may be in pieces..but all of us are here to fix you.."
That would be the most beautiful moment of my life. I would've been the happiest guy in the world. Michael Barnes truly cares about all of his fans and is just a wonderful man all around no matter how you look at him.
I have been listening to this song in a heartbreaking depression at the age of 14 in no name city in Russia. Jesus was there and He is still here with me through this song. He kept my spirit alive through your songs
2 weeks ago I lost my partner and the love of my life. She boosted me up so much, helped me come out to my parents, helped me see my value as a human being, allowed me to accept myself and get in tune with my spirituality, and now she's gone, but she visited me in a dream last night. Told me to keep fighting, to not end my life just so I can be with her. I think it was her last goodbye on this world, letting me know her spirit was fully passing on. Leanne, I'll never forget you. And when my time comes and we're reunited, I'll have so much to tell you. I'll live a full life so you're proud of me. And I know one day I'll hold you again.
That’s the Grace of God. No matter what, Jesus always takes us, just as we are, and makes us whole. That particular verse speaks to me as well. God Bless you, Austin❤️
@@NervousKraken Uh, they didn't make the song religious, the band did. Red is a Christian rock band. Anyone can listen to it, but it IS written from a religious standpoint.
I thought he was speaking to a love, but, he speaks to GOD. It's like it's new all over again! Love it! I hope for peace to all your troubled thoughts and lives. Trust me ,It really does get better in time. You got this!!
Just found out about Red, first time ever hearing their songs and I wish I would have sooner. More people need to hear this stuff. Red is so underrated.
+Brother Club - Gaming Channel Dude literally like everyone knows, if you know Red you know they're a Christian band. Like Skillet or As I Lay Dying. Some people just aren't Christian and don't listen to it for that reason, I am an athiest and I listen because it's beautiful music that everyone can appreciate no matter the faith status.
I'm so sorry for your heartache. This hit me so hard. My oldest is named Tyler. He was in a fatal wreck that should have killed him to pieces. I had already said goodbye to him when they called me to come say goodbye. My heart was already in pieces and nothing could take the heartbreak away. I have no words. I'm so sorry. Love This Mom
This song describes who I am. I’ve been broken and lost ever since I lost my big brother to cancer. He was like my best friend and I’ve tried so hard to move forward in life. But no matter what I do I keep going back to where I am alone and in pain and suffering. But I’m still here and still fighting it. I’ll keep fighting and pray and hope that I’ll find happiness in my life. RIP Steve. I hope one day I will see you again.
This song and comments saved my life. I was going to kill myself. But I read those comments and realized that I' still have life better than many unlucky people. I will keep their names in my prayers. God loves us and let's share this love with everybody.
Yes, it's amazing how much power words and music have! And it really puts things in perspective when we stop focusing on our own pain and see the hurting people around us. It helps us see how blessed we really are and how much we have to live for. I hope you're doing better now. Please know that you matter and are not here by accident! It's a beautiful miracle that we even exist. Out of all the people that could be born we are here, we get to live and love and experience things and leave a mark on this world. Throwing away your life is never the answer. Always keep fighting!
Not trying to be too sappy... but reading through these comments makes me so proud to know there are such strong people out there. You are all courageous for overcoming your tragedies and if you haven't I know you will. Stay strong.
Battlewood I've lost a brother who was my best friend and was only 16 when he died...I've lost 2 papaws and an uncle to and overdose....I'm going through a divorce and my son is in jail....I know I'm broken but I stay strong for my son and my daughter....they are my life and my heart.
I felt lost and drunk tonight. I remembered this band tonight. I cried, i felt old, i felt young….. thank you guys for all of that. U matter for me and i love you♥️
All soul contracts are cancelled. All deals/pacts with evil dissolved. All chains broken. Lord please forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us. In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen You are loved. You are wanted. You are not a mistake. You are a miracle. You are free. Escape. God bless
+XxTheStarPheonixCraftxX when im about to break down i cry to this but when im not i just sit back close my eyes let my thoughts fly out of my head and relax with a smile on my face ;)
This song is pure beautiful, everytime I am confused, sad, angry, upset, hopeless, I just play this song and it makes me feel good, it makes me remember what love is, I just can't explain the perfect atmosphere of this song.Pure beauty.
TheShinyPichu don't cry I know a lot of people are harsh and rude but not everyone just look at the other side of person no one is born in this world was born with the feelings or hate or love we are born with curiosity , but if he becomes rude or loving it shows the times he has been through some people rude after hard times but people stubborn as me still try to be good and try to make friends and get into the group even I know I couldn't get into but this is what life is about you keep on trying and never loose faith as there is someone who will come into your life and change everything and that's what I am living for her so do everyone without even knowing that, that's funny
TheShinyPichu true i will bad it is to hard i cant plz kiling out there plz make life better not harder and bullying cuz some times you make life hard so STOP LET LIFE BE FREE STOP KILLING THE MORE YOU KILL OR DO SOME THING BAD YOU ARE GOING TO HELL . SO STOP PLZ
breath, I'm sorry. I'm been a Hugh fan. This song is my son. He past years ago. Thank you for everything you and the people you touch. Thank you and God bless you!!
I'm just an introvert/Empath/INFJ making my way through this world the best way I can. I'm a music lover first and foremost before I got into the drums at 10 years old. Music is my first love and to hear this when it first came out, got to me in a good way. I TRY SO HARD to be who I am that I COME IN PIECES before the one I should be all for. God. I am but not entirely. I TRY SO HARD THOUGH. This song had me that I bought this CD when it came out.
I listened to this song when I was 14. In my bed at 3am. I was so depressed. Eventually getting hospitalized because I was so numb to even move from my bed. I’m 19 now and I’m proud of who I have become. I’m in college and I don’t have friends...only one. But it doesn’t bother me like it would have when I was 14. The person who really made me whole was myself. Just growing up and realizing that life isn’t easy but it is worth living for..of course I have days where I think “what’s the point?” And “maybe I wasn’t supposed to make it till 19. My fate is death”. But then I remember how much life can bring to you, if you make it yours. Sorry for sounding very cheesy. No one will read this. I just wanted to get it off my chest
What you said wasn’t cheesy, it was heartfelt and shows who you are. Don’t apologize. It seems like you’ve been through a lot, but you’re stronger for it. When you feel that way, it’s perfectly natural to want to share how you feel with people. Maybe you want to give people hope, or maybe you just can’t contain your joy and thankfulness about how far you’ve come. Either way, I think you’re awesome, and I hope you continue to find even more about life to look forward too.
@@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 there are many people who would read it :) don't look down on yourself! I'm happy to know that you're still alive and happy at the moment. I hope that life will bring you joy!
My battle with depression and mental health has been silent. I've found help it has shown me who is there for me and who is not after pushing away friends and family. I've done away with social media I'm working on myself. Music helps so very much. This song is amazingly beautiful it hits so hard.
This song reminds me of my depression and how God saved me from it. I still struggle with depression but after my prayers, God brings it away. If you struggle with depression, I understand. I never really put myself out there saying I used to (and still have sometimes) depression so if any of my subs never knew, well here you go. If you have depression keep fighting and you'll be in my prayers. :)
Still listening in 2021 and it gets me still. Now, from a perspective that is closer to God. No matter what you do or don't believe in, I'm sure most can agree that life will break us all at some point in our life. Find your reason to keep moving forward because it is our duty to outlast and outwork our problems.
+Richie Cross Try "By your side" by Tenth Avenue North, "Just be held" by Casting Crowns, or if you're a real glutton for punishment, "At the beginning" (not sure who the artist is) when you're still hoping against hope after a breakup. Granted, I can see why both Red songs hurt, but they're not nearly as painful as some others, depending on the situation.
Cry every single time, never fails. I was in an abusive relationship for 16 years and I finally found someone that truly loves me for me and it is the best feeling ever. Anyone out there going through hard, lonely, depressing times. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Love to you all.
I too lost my soulmate. It was 1978, at the hands of a drunk driver. We met at 15yrs old and were never apart after. Drunk driver guy got a slap on the wrist. Course those were the days before all the laws were put in place against drunk drivers. We had a baby boy who really doesn't remember his dad. It's been a hard life but God saved us and kept us going. I'm now 71 yrs. and don't have many years left before I go home too. I can't wait to see his beautiful smile and twinkling blue eyes. He'll be beside Jesus when I get home. To those of you who carry that void and ache of a lost loved one know that God is with us and them. We'll have such a grand reunion as all of Heaven welcomes us home.
I lost one of my close friends to what turned out to be a suicide, I loved her to bits and know the feeling of an empty hole and loneliness, if you want to talk to someone you can add me on skype, etdorito I have been left feeling like this before as I grew up in the wrong crowd and put myself in the situations unknowingly, I won't leave someone alone in situations like these, strangers or enemies..
Make me whole again, Lord...without my family intertwined, I feel just as lost, broken, scared, cold, etc as I did before I came back to You. Speak to them, show them the truth....make us whole again, through You. Amen
I'm having marriage issues, and am depressed and suicidal as hell... I'm trying to get help now. Everyday is a struggle. I wake up sad bc I have dreams of dying and being free of my stupid mind... its hard... but I'm gonna try to get better... keep me in your prayers please everyone...
Fuck your marriage, bro! Just be a man!!!!!!!!! You is what’s most important in your life. Also kids, parents. Screw your wife... what is there to suffer for? 50 grams peed meat? Get a grip! There is plenty fish in the sea!
Plz dont die no one is worth it call on the name of the Lord and u and ur household will be saved in the mighty name I bring healing to this person abundance or prosperity come unconditional love come amen GBU
+Jessica Tucker This song is like a slow motion gut punch...that you like. Hurts so good. Wow. It makes you want to just grab your chest, close your eyes and just...drift.
When I was younger, this song was my favourite. It made me emotional because of its tone and I could somehow relate to it. I came back I forgot about it until I heard it on a video. A very underrated song
I'm stunned at how beautiful this is. It evokes so many feelings. I'm so lost and alone in this world, I've been holding on for a way out but one never comes. Music is 1 of the only things that gets me through. Severe depression really is the worst. 17 years battling it and still not won
My mate (Tim) ended his reign within the apex of our friendship. At first, it felt as if it was a betrayal. We were close, how dare he leave me here alone... As I have grown older, I still struggle with the concept of longevity. How could there ever be purpose for tomorrow if my struggles can be snuffed within an instant. Rest in Peace Timothy Homan. I love you infinitely, Brother. 🖤
it's sad, really there's kids saying they want to commit suicide and right up until they actually do, the parents always go "oh they're just FINE" we're not fine we're not fine WE'RE NOT FINE
The horrible thing is, there's so many people that just joke about it or say it because it's cool, so nobody can really know when we are or aren't crying wolf.
@@alexlaws5086 Just like they joke about mental illness and rape. Now I think it's okay to joke about even the things that are making your life hell. It's a good coping mechanism, but it's important to ask questions if you even suspect someone might be in trouble and need help.
Not religious.. in fact some would call me athiest. But I do adore this song. I appreciate songs like these that are vague so it can relate to other situations and feelings.
Or maybe it was something else that drove u to hear it. Sry not trying to thump or anything but I was also an atheist not long ago, at a very low point I asked for a sign (like I'd done several times throughout my life trying to figure things out) but this last time I finally recieved an answer... it shook my soul, just keep ur mind open :)
Agnostic here as well. I honestly didn't realize it was a religious song until I looked at the pictures for the first time and saw crosses everywhere ....
My older brother committed suicide in October 2017 out of nowhere, a couple of days after his birthday. I'm trying my best to seem as happy as possible, and I think I'm doing an okay job at that, but truth be told I am still completely broken, and I haven't had a good night of sleep in what feels like years. On top of that I have some problems with my ex (and best friend of almost 5 years, and one of the only people I've had through all of this), who is now trying to move on with her life, without me in it, or at least without being "romantic" at all anymore, and being "less friendly", which I have a hard time with because this girl is my home, my safe space, and she IS all my memories these past years. But I respect it. I just miss her. Life and love can be tough, but I hope the person reading this doesn't lose hope. I know I haven't. That being said, I could really use a fresh start, but at the same time I don't have the energy to try, or even think about it at the minute. I feel kind of let down by the universe, that this is my 'depressed' situation at 21 years old. I'm stuck, but somehow still hopeful. I was a happy person once. I know I deserve better than this. I'm not sure what the moral of this story is, but I will give you some advice; don't lose hope, and dont ever make homes out of people. Learn to love yourself, and don't depend on other people to make your day brighter. I know you've heard it all before, but it's true. I wish I had learned that a long time before all of this. Oh, and whoever or wherever you are, you are not alone. Thank you for listening.
I would like to still have your kind of hope. Unfortunately, even years after my divorce, it feels like my life was ripped from me. Some how I lost me, because of him. We were married for 14 years. I was an army wife through 2 deployments, and living in another country on my own waiting for him. Now he easily moved on, and even started a family. He couldn’t get his head straight after being at war, or at least didn’t care to for me. He was willing for another. Right after he left, our cat passed, then our dog and the finalization of the papers. I threw myself into dating and trying to constantly stay busy. It soon faded into my reality that who I was since high school into my 30s was no longer who I would ever be again. If you are able to maintain your hope, hold on for dear life. I let mine slip away, and I don’t believe it could return. I’m as he put it because I got sick “damaged goods” so you’re right don’t shape yourself around anyone, maintain who you are. I hope you find that great love, but let it be great because you choose to be together, not because you need to. Never think you need someone. That’s how people become co-dependent. People confuse loneliness with love, when often wrong. You know when it’s real. It’s just a different feeling than anything else. You’re young with so much to still experience, and grow from. You have and will have losses, but you’ll have amazing memories as well. Take the time to do everything you possibly can for yourself. That much I have learned.
@@annastacia6852 you aren't old yourself (assuming your 30-ish). if you can, build a career. get a side hustle to fund school. don't let someone else's evaluation of your worth become your own evaluation (even after being betrothed for 14 years, that bugger can't place a value tag on you. ONLY YOU CAN). I speak that from experience. to my dad I'm just a nuisance, that's all i've been for 19 years (ya i'm 19yo). it used to mess me up but i remembered he's just another person with a lesson for me to learn (the one Im sharing with u).. I'm my own self and no one can tell me what value i add to the world. even when their decisions tell it and not their voice, I won't let anyone tell me I'm worthless. Don't let yourself believe that. I don't know you but I know. I *KNOW* you need this message. same for OP (Ulrik)
@@jay-5061 Thank you, for your response. Very profound outlook you have, for someone so young. Yes, im in my 30s. I have friends all over the world. We beyond basic human nature, use each others cultural outlooks to look at things in different ways. If you would care to chat you're welcome to message me. Obviously I don't want my personal info on here. I do have a dummy account that you're welcome to message where I can give my real email address. Chaoticprincess81@gmail.com if you ever need a friend.
Are you that person that seems like everyone would like them because you look popular, or because you basically look like you fit the crowd? But in reality you're the person who sits alone and has people constantly judging and bullying you because your childhood made you "crazy, depressed, psychotic"? .... Sometimes I wish I can tell people who I really am because I am soon to giving up, but I don't want to...
Don't end yourself. Life has so much to offer and you might not even know or realize it yet. I know it hurts now and how easy it would be to end yourself just to take all that pain away. I know because I have been trough a lot as well. While I was bullied because of different reason, I know how it feels. On top of that though, at age of 16-20 I was diagnosed a bad case of Chron's decease and bowel cancer. I nearly died 6 times to that in those years and once I actually " died " on the surgery table. Also my grandma and uncle, both of whom I was close to died within those years. How easy it would have been to give up on myself and forfeit my life. But I never did, because I knew it would have been a permanent solution to a temporary problem, that all these experiences I went trough would be nothing than a distant memory of my past 10 years from now on. I never gave up on myself despite all of the hardships because life can offer so much if you are just willing to give life a fair chance and time it needs to show it to you. Fast forward 2 years from those events. Even though I am still scarred by my recent past, I could not say I wouldn't be more happier and proud of myself that I chose to fight instead of submit to my thoughts. I got exactly where I wanted to, which is the Leading Institute of Psychology, Finland ( University ). And neither can you foresee your future, but what you can do as a favor from you to yourself is give that chance to continue moving forward. Talk to someone, surround yourself with people who are willing to listen to you, talk to you, not bully you, support and help you in the times of need. Find what makes you happy, as happiness comes from within as for me, happiness comes from helping other people who are in a dire need of it. That makes me happy, so what makes you happy? Think about it and work towards it. I know this is a bit cheesy quote from Rocky movies but I think it is a good one here: " It doesn't matter how hard life will hit you, what matters is how much life hits you and you can still keep moving forward. That is how winning is done! ". And life will hit hard but you should always keep moving forward because things will solve and become more clear eventually. I am sure you have your own problems, just like I did have mine but try not to focus on those negative things like most people have a tendency to do. Focus on the good things instead. I learnt to find the good in the bad, and it is really effective way of starting to feel better and more happier. And like I said, talk to someone! In my opinion, everyone has a story to be told and everyone deserves their story to be told.
I was that person. I am that person. Hold on. It's all going to be worth it, I swear. I tried letting go, and I'm glad that something kept me holding on. You'll find people who will appreciate and love you and all of your broken pieces. xxoo
I really appreciate the time and effort you took to make me happy. Glad to know there are people like you! I really needed a boost. I am a survivor to depression after being admitted two years ago. I am fighting and I know I am strong. I am getting used to being in this whole 'happy' life. I am happy but it's not something I'm used to. I was going through a really tough moment when I wrote this. You all have no idea how much that made my day. I hope youall are having a great day! I know I'm late, but I hope you all have a great year!
It’s the 10th December 2017. The last time I listened to this song was years ago. My depression was probably at its worst, I was being bullied by everyone in college, I had no friends, my abusive family was breaking me, as was my abusive boyfriend at the time. This brings tears to my eyes now because I survived. I found a wonderful man, we’re engaged to be married. I got away from my abusive family and moved in with him. He helped me get through the rest of college in all honesty because I had someone. I look back, and I survived. And I’ve never been happier. It’s crazy how songs can bring up memories in such a way.
I'm not a Christian and I can relate to this song on a deeply emotional level. We all have that one person who instantly lift us up as soon as we see them. This isn't about religion. It's about lifting up your fellow man and helping them get through the hard times.
Denise Caskey RED is a Christian band so this song is mainly towards Christ for them. But anyone can interpret it however they want. Religious, romance, depression, whatever you interpret it as is your choice
I was talking to a boy yesterday. He was my bestfriend. We lost touch over summer. He has hit on everyone consisting on my bestfriend to my worst enemy. He told me that i was "pretty" but i had a horrible personality. Tbh. I think all of you have an anazing personality. You make someone smile somewhere. So screw all the people that make you feel bad. Because you are worth more than some pitty comment. Said by someone who is probably jelous. I promise you someone somewhere loves you... The boy i talked to always found a way to make me happy. And suddenly that all changed. He told me to break up with my boyfriend who makes me so happy and feel like i can be myself. And so when someone tells you your weird or stupid or any other intellegent Thing just look away and smile to yourself. Because those are just words. Words mean nothing unless you give them meaning. You are beautiful, smart, and perfect at being you. The world wouldnt be the same without you, i promise. -Audrei Maision.💕
.You know, everyone is both good and bad. We all have light and shadow inside of us. Sanity and insanity. All it takes is a small push to send us tumbling over the edge. But none of us are ever truly one or the other. You see people who are evil, and yet those people still have remorse, guilt, and love. The difference is, they ignore that. They silence it. .I went through a time when my mind was darker than any place you could imagine. I shut down. I never spoke to anyone. Because I was always thinking. Always inside my own mind. Where there was nothing but...blood...and dark. I was scared of myself, and my mind. Now...I'm in a place between, inside, and yet outside both of those. I know I'm bad. I .You know, everyone is both good and bad. We all have light and shadow inside of us. Sanity and insanity. All it takes is a small push to send us tumbling over the edge. But none of us are ever truly one or the other. You see people who are evil, and yet those people still have remorse, guilt, and love. The difference is, they ignore that. They silence it. .I went through a time when my mind was darker than any place you could imagine. I shut down. I never spoke to anyone. Because I was always thinking. Always inside my own mind. Where there was nothing but...blood...and dark. I was scared of myself, and my mind. Now...I'm in a place between, inside, and yet outside both of those. I know I'm bad. I know I'm selfish, and that there's a dark side to me. But I also know there's a side of me that is good, selfless, and light. .When you combine them, you get a warrior. Someone who has been through the hell of the world, and then through the hell of their own mind, but still isn't broken. This person knows what darkness is like, and how tempting it is, because they've felt it themselves. They look at other people and say "I used to be like that. Now I see how little I really knew". These people have had light and darkness fight inside them, nearly tearing them to pieces in the process, but made it through. These are people that now know how meaningless other people's words are, how meaningless that girl's insult is. How meaningless that comment was. .Because this person has been to the battlegrounds, and once you've been there, you're unbreakable.know I'm selfish, and that there's a dark side to me. But I also know there's a side of me that is good, selfless, and light. .When you combine them, you get a warrior. Someone who has been through the hell of the world, and then through the hell of their own mind, but still isn't broken. This person knows what darkness is like, and how tempting it is, because they've felt it themselves. They look at other people and say "I used to be like that. Now I see how little I really knew". These people have had light and darkness fight inside them, nearly tearing them to pieces in the process, but made it through. These are people that now know how meaningless other people's words are, how meaningless that girl's insult is. How meaningless that comment was. .Because this person has been to the battlegrounds, and once you've been there, you're unbreakable.
I was in a relationship for 4 years we had been through a lot together it ended two months ago and my heart was broken into pieces. This song is so beautiful. I have gotten to a place now where I am finding some piece of mind. But I found the strength to go on through prayer. 🙏
I remember playing this song while I was in a suicide state where I felt the point it was enough and my cats all came to me meowing and that’s when I knew I must stay alive cats are incredibly magnificent please stay alive for yourself and loved ones pets or anything just stay alive sending my love to y’all my warriors ❤
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I sung this song to a girl I met in college. We both were damaged individuals going through a lot and dealing with a lot but we were each other’s happiness. She is currently my fiancé and we are currently working together to get better.
That is so sweet! Good luck!!
Awwie im so happi for uuu
My dream relationship... I am a broken person... I just wish... I can find my soulmate soon... I'm young so I have a whole life to wait...
Wow, I'm so happy for you guys and I wish it for all the people out there
@@midnighttheumbreon8857 stay strong you definitely will find happiness in the future and best wishes for you
My mate (Jacob) committed suicide hree years ago. He met me when i was at my lowest and offered his hand to a boy who had nothing to give in return. His motto in life was. "Life shatters us. It breaks us. But it leads us to people who will look at the shards of us and find a way to put us back together and make us stronger than we were before."
Thank you, I really needed that
@@acespades9801 I'm glad he helped you. Because its true. No matter how many times you are broken down by other people. There will be someone who looks at your pieces and say "Let's get you better again."
@@balthasargerard7246 its not relying on another person to give you personal strength. Its more like said person gives you the hand that you need to get yourself out of the Pit you are in. They are more akin to a crutch than to a way of getting personal strength
You keep going dude help o the rs who can't find their way just as he had helped you and in doing so I believe that is all he would ever ask for in return. Have a wonderful new year.
I know exactly what you mean.
I met my girlfriend when we both were at our lowest. She attempted suicide a few years ago, and we helped each other to rebuilt ourselves to face life again. We've fall in love thanks to this, and even though she lived in a different country of mine, about 1200 kilometers away we managed to stay together for 10 days straight at the time.
Well, miracles aren't eternal. She stopped loving me at some point and she was so much angry at herself that she started hating me as well, jealous of my own love for her
I truly hope your friendship will continue. I truly hope no-one will ever feel what I felt.
Life shattered me, she rebuilts me to shatter me again but I was stronger... This time. Hopefully
Well that's a strange story I know, thank you for reading to the end
Have you ever felt so broken, so shattered, that you can't imagine ever finding all the pieces to put you together again? Like happiness is a galaxy away, and you have no way to reach it? Like there is love all around you, but you have somehow pushed it all away or those who you thought loved you can't see you, like you are invisible? My pieces are like broken glass, when I try to pick them up, they cut me and I drop them again. Please tell me I'm not alone in this. God, help me be enough, be my rain as I walk through this desert alone.
Me too
You're not alone. I fell so badly in 1997 watching my dad die on Christmas day after having a massive heart attack when he was 57. On 1/13/2002 my my mom was murdered at the age of 59. 3/18/2021 my sister was murdered in her apartment while she was being robbed she was 57. 3/24/2024 my niece was found dead she was 37 accidental overdose. My life has been a mess. But im here praise be to God.
😭 I'm sorry 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Yes as prime Creators we feel your pain the levels of our understanding depth that of the oceans but so far above our fallen world this merger of timing I'm so so utterly sorry for your losses.... Please do know that these feelings inside you, you are not alone dearest and beloved children of God. Our heart's breaking what when yours do the glass always does. Do not focus on your brokenness lest you miss the blessings sent to heal you in love 💕💜 🫂 💛
I lost my only love, died, was put back together by someone who cared, then I failed her and she took her own life, my mistakes tear through what's left of my mind, you are not alone.
To whoever is scrolling right now I just want you to know YOU Are Worth It and more Than ENOUGH, PLEASE hang in there and STAY STRONG!!!
Thank You.
@@The-Night-Hauler your welcome
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Needed that. Thank you.
@@DrM1107 your very welcome
This was one of my brother's favorite songs from Red. He lost his battle with mental illness on August 31st 2020. "I come to you in pieces so you can make me whole" is the quote we have on his headstone
I'm so sorry
I’m sorry.
I am sorry for your loss
I'm very sorry....I have lost 2 family members to this .....my brother then his son....some how we come through ....but its difficult....leaves many scars....
I am so sorry for your loss. It is hard to lose a brother. God Bless you
I don't know what's better: the song or the comment section. My heart goes out to anyone going through a rough time right now. Keep going, you're not alone.
BluuJay 727 Thank you. At this moment I really need this right now..I’m not sure how much longer I can be strong for me and for others. This comment gives me hope for the future..thank you so much💛
@@kvnikuzush1 Sorry to hear that. I hope things get better soon!
@@kvnikuzush1 May God give you strength, may He comfort you at your darkest hour.
To you to because you just cant help me in any other way meeting up to me would be weird its just not possible a millionaire shouldnt be entiteld to give us money or a billionaire but they should help us get a job a get better by working not just giving it out for free. I would say We all earned the thanks and the welcomes thanks to you and welcome because I feel tired even while now just lazily sitting down thinking what the heck am i going to do with my life I cant sit and play video games when I was 10 anymore im 18 i wish i did something different from when i was 10 but my parents i dont know why I guess im privileged even if i dont know much math but fuck I just feel so much weighing on my shoulders is diying better than living?
Likewise
I sing this song alone, because my son died before he was born... but somehow, I feel happy listening, I remember the joy I felt while waiting for him to be born. This song saved me.
I lost twins by miscarriage.
They would have turned 32-years-old last week.
I fell to pieces.
God made me whole.
I will follow Him until He opens up Heaven for me to hold my children in my waiting arms, just like God is waiting to hold me in His holy bosom.
I will pray for you to find everlasting peace.
My condolences to both of you. I hope you found healing and are doing ok.
Felipe, listen to Draconian Bloodflower, its about losing an unborn child
i’m sorry for your loss
Ouch... Man it hurts to see that people have such tragic lives
I lost my best friend/husband a month ago. I'm trying to figure out how to make life work without him after 32 years and I'm drawing a blank. This song gives me a little hope that God can make me whole again someday. I miss you so much, Colin Edwards. I know it's not goodbye, it's see you later. ❤️
Stay strong ❤
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My daughter lost her husband from drinking. Then 8 moths later, my eldest son in law put a bullet in his head...just can't get past this....2 widowed daughters. One with 3 kids, the other was expecting their 4th child. Still a jelly bean size when he committed suicide....
I recently lost the love of my life on 11/11/22 due to a hit and run. I'm crushed because I was there when it happened. I don't think that I will ever bounce back from this
@@lynnryan5690 I'm so sorry. I understand completely. I wish I could say it gets better. It does become a new reality. And you learn to navigate through that new reality. Give yourself as much time as you need before you try to move forward. There's no set timeline. Allow yourself to grieve in anyway that helps you process. I've stood in my living room and screamed at God. I've lain in my bed for days. I've cried in my shower till the water ran cold. And I've allowed myself to feel numb. And I'm not done yet. You have my prayers.
I'm sorry you feel this way. I may not know you or understand your pain, I may not ever meet you. You might go on forever without finding someone who understands the depth of your pain, but know this: When it comes down to it, despite their flaws and inadequacies, being broken is what makes people great. It makes you stronger, smarter and kinder. You are a better person because of this pain, and maybe that's not much of a consolation right now. I totally allow for that possibility.
I hope you feel better.
You're beautiful.
This made me cry
you made me cry. thank you
+MH3Raiser Thank you kindly
you are totally right
I know red is christian/rock, but even as an atheist I can relate to virtually every song, word for word.
I want the second season my god damn self. >:c
Levi Ackerman senpai did u see the trailer?
I'm sure you can....we were made that way; even when we don't believe, we remember.
joannezip1 no, we just generalize and relate words to other situations.
Ethan Kbcxh
It’s crazy that I just happened to revisit this song. I decided to check out to comment section, and saw I commented 9 years ago “words cut deeper than blades.” I just want to let everyone know, things do get better. It might take a long while but trust in the process; trust in yourself that everything will be okay. I know things are hard now but, it will look up. There will be people who come along and love you, you will have a long life maybe meet the right person, maybe have kids, maybe becoming the true version of yourself. ❤
Well said
we know things do get better but at what cost? at the cost of losing your sanityyy
Thank you for this. I needed to hear this. How amazing is music that it can bring people together like this?
I came from a 25 year long narcissistic abusive marriage and now have found a kind and gentle man who loves me. This song speaks to how I tee when I came to him broken and untrusting!
@@raworderhello, how are you?
What a beautiful song. Really hits home. After 3 divorces, a broken 5 yr engagement , being single 13 years, at 68, I've found true love. I am excepted for being who I am. I had given up on ever being truly accepted and loved. It's never too late.
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Thanks
U r giving us hope as well to find true love ..even at 68;)
You still young kid
Simple music can make you sing simple hug can make you feel better simple things can make you happy. I hope my simple Hello make you smile. 😊
I heard this song... And I seriously felt like crying.. This song makes me want to travel around the world just to hug everyone who is dealing with depression... I love you all.
Thx u mia...I needed to hear this..thank you...much love
Mia F still consindering putting my suicide note on that table..
Jessii_ Faker But why commit suicide when there are people in this word who care for you? Trust me, people DO care. Even when they say they don't, they do. Just imagine how committing suicide would effect their lives? They'd be devastated! There are things you have yet to experience! Places you have yet to see! suicide is not the answer! Life is all a huge storm. You need to learn to dance in the rain!
We love you too.
Love you too.
"I come to you in pieces so you can make me whole". This gets me everytime
Oh iamm yer
Myder
My bet agherry why go go small boy mad
God bless you all mis take takedown born getedmy frinded
Same..
When I was homeless in Florida a few years ago. This was one of my favorite songs to listen to. One of the other things I enjoyed the most throughout that period of my life was the privilege to see the birth of a new day. So every morning there, i was in the beach sitting on the sand patiently waiting for it. This song playing in the background. Each time, it gave me hope, and I envisioned myself that I, too, will rise from all this, like a sunrise. What i envisioned myself to be back then has now come to fruition as i have risen from the abyss to heights unimaginable. In pieces, I was... slowly rebuilding myself until I became whole again. It is a powerful testament to the importance of visualization, hope, hard work, and my faith to God. 🙏 ❤️
*hugs* I'm glad you're here...❤ keep going
@kawaii_mocha_marshmallows thank you for the hug and kind words. I'm still going....i am alive and breathing. I never thought my life would be what it is today. Thank you my Lord and savior for giving me my wings and the strength to keep pushing forward. I'll never give up...I promise ❤
Welcome back!! ❤🤗
Amen+
I was also Homeless and Lost Everything and Everyone! This was after DV and nasty court family court corruption! I’m not blameless. God Saved Me and My Children in the nick of time. 6 hrs of hell. Love Won! Now I’m a Grandma and have my kids close, safe house in a beautiful location. I felt the day that I was ready and God came through for us! My daughter escape Brazil. All together again ❤
I am recording this to sing to my husband on our 20th wedding anniversary surprise vow renewal. He has no clue. I have a band and everything. I’m hoping to make him cry. ❤️
Please get it recorded
Whens you gonna drop the song? it's been 6 months
This makes me cry. I made it 10 yrs with my ex. I totally fucked it up.
@@Smokkedandslammed :(
@@josie670 Live and learn 🤷♂️
This isn't just a song, it's a prayer
Is this a Christian song? Might be a stupid question but I just came across it without researching it.
@@robbierob5960 yes it is
@My Heart Is Hollow yes!!! It’s a beautiful song. I guess that can explain why it made me feel some type of way in my heart compared to worldly music, and mind me not, I do believe in God but I don’t follow church that way, but I do know that Jesus is in my heart and when I heard this song, I knew that it had to be God touching me.
A prayer in love no less! ❤️
Yes 3': Yes it is. Amen to that! 😭💖
When your depressed just listen to RED to make you more depressed. But on s serious note. I love all their songs they can speak from the heart
yup
could u tell me the best songs of red? the depressive songs
they help me realize how special life and love is. listen to their lyrics and you'll hear them. not depressive lyrics, but the answers to life. listen.
my favorite song of red is let it burn.
+blender14231 me too
This song I devoted to my recently passed cat... She only made it to her 9th birthday.
And this song explains so well, how her glowing soul repaired my broken soul.
I feel so lost without her, and I hope she knows how much she means to me, and how whole she made me.
Thank you, Red for creating this beautiful masterpiece.
Im so sorry 😞. I completely understand. I just lost my beautiful dog. Their love is so amazing. And they are family. I wish you healing. It's so hard. Take care.
what is your cat name
@@sylaragoebel103 Her name "was" Bella.
Sorry for your loss. I lost my one year old "soul cat" in June. I'll never recover fully. He was and is everything to me. He ran out of the house one night and I couldn't catch him.. and he got out in the road. I looked for him all day the next day and was showing my neighbors pictures of him and asking if they'd seen him. One of my neighbors said he has in fact seen him. And that he had pulled my cat from the middle of the road to the ditch. I still remember the fear and panic I felt as I ran towards the road.. I begged for it to not be him.. then I saw him and broke down because it was my boy laying there. I miss him.
@@mariahasty4258 Aww, I know that pain. I've lost a cat due to traffic as well. He came home whining out of pain, dragging his back legs after him. His back was broken. I had to drive him to the vet in the middle of the night. A 2 hour drive where I had to listen to him whining in pain, knowing I couldn't do anything. And the vet could do nothing, but put him out his misery... That was the hardest thing I had to ever do in my entire life....
Bella I had put out mostly because I couldn't afford the treatment she needed, but also because there was no guarantee that the treatment would have any effect. And then it would be not only waste of money, but also not fair to put her through all that. So I took the hard choice to give her piece.
Her liver had failed, so saying goodbye was the right choice. Even if it was hard. She deserved to be free of pain.
This song speaks to me in so many ways. I’ve battled depression my whole life. I’m still waiting for that someone to call my name and make me whole. This song is amazing
Yes same, I want to meet my special person, the one I do love doesn't love me back and it hurts so much
@@barcafan1760 same. Wish you all the best
Hey I see this comment is already 2 years old but my first thought when I read it was “Jesus is calling you, He’ll be the one to truly make you whole”. Because that’s exactly what He did for me. I believe even the fact that this song spoke to you so much is one of the ways He’s been calling your name. Jesus can use anything to speak to a person, to call them to Himself, and He’s always very intentional and personally attentive in what He uses. For me, this song is a testimony of His power to mend, heal and restore a broken heart, mind, and life. And for you I believe it’s a promise from God that He will do this for you, He sees that you’ve been longing for someone who is able and willing to stay with you and love you until you’re whole again, and He wants to be that for you in every way you need and more. We all come to Jesus in pieces, and He lets our souls know that truly only His hands are skillful enough to fully repair us and make us like new, only His mind is fully knowledgeable of what it takes to do it. He knows. He cares, He’s always there for you and with you. He’ll be the one who won’t forsake you and break you again halfway through helping you heal. Jesus always completes what He sets out to do, till it is finished. That’s what He did on the cross for you and me and everyone, He started the work of bearing all of our sin, pain, sorrow, hopelessness, sickness, weakness, and brokenness. And He carried it all till He could say “it is finished”. And now because of that, when we come to Him and believe that He died for our sins and rose again, we can know and be sure that we have received salvation and the hope of heaven for when this life ends. After you come to Him and believe in Him, He will confirm it within your innermost part of your being that He has truly done this for you and that you are secure in His salvation and in relationship and direct connection with Him for the rest of your life. And so then when our life on earth ends, we get to go to heaven and meet face-to-face the one who met us in our brokenness. And that is the moment, when we see Jesus’ face, every scar of our brokenness will be gone from our hearts and minds, and replaced with unimaginable joy and overwhelming love. And the only thing left that will represent the weight of our sin, brokenness and pain, are the scars that are left on Jesus’ wrists from when He bore the weight of it all on His own body on the cross and died for us in our broken world. Those scars simultaneously represent His suffering, and our complete healing. And He’s done this for us because He loved us and was more willing to suffer and die for us rather than let us die in our suffering without hope. He was more willing to die for us than to live without us.
And so, all this being said, I hope and pray that you will soon know Jesus personally, because He is truly able to meet you wherever you’re at and change everything. Nothing is too much or too little for Him to take on. His love is the strongest anyone’s ever known. It is unfailing, unlimited, perfect love. It is only from a place of having recieved and known this love for myself that I can relay all of this to someone I don’t even know, and be entirely confident that it will be equally true for you as it is for me. It doesn’t matter that I have no clue who you are or what you’ve been through, Jesus knows and I’m just a messenger of His, and a vessel of His love.
Never forget, Jesus loves you and His arms are wide open, His hands are both gentle and infinitely strong, His heart is strongly inclined towards you, and His voice is in everything, always calling you to Himself. 🤍
someone in the early 2020 still listening to this song?
I actually like listening to sad songs, because it makes you feel relaxed and sad. It's not I like to be sad, but it makes me to enjoy this song more than when I feel happy or energized. I don't know if I'm the only one who thinks like this, or that there is someone else that is feeling / experience the same phenomenon.
Stop asking if people are listening in 2020. Nobody stopped.
Here 2020 cause sad boy for life
Oh God, still A lot of people There.
Love red
I feel the same
Dear person reading this, I love you. And I always will, if you can’t say that you love yourself then use me, say “Leo loves me.“ until you have the strength to finally say that you love and accept yourself. Stay strong, we’ll get through this together.
Edit - 11/18/20 : Hey guys, I’m still here as I promised, I’ve stayed strong just for you all. I love you so much💜
Edit (2) - 7/24/21 : Hello, everyone. :)
I’m still here, as I promised
edit(3) - 2/7/24 ; hey guys, still alive & kickin’. I actually got a partner recently and life has been getting better. You won’t always be stuck in this rut, I can actually promise this
Thankyou
Reily of course, honey💜💜
@@kvnikuzush1 it means a lot to me.
thank you
Your a nice person that could save someone's life one day
Thank You Jesus for making me whole each time I fall apart ❤️🔥
Thank you Jesus for making me whole
Amen
💛🕊️
Amen thank you God and Jesus for everything and saving me ❤
This song hits harder when you’re 23 and so much has happened to you since you first heard it when you were 12.
21 year old here, life since 13 years old has been nothing but hyperfast traumatic events for me, I wish I could look back and see joy but I feel nothing but sorrow. 1.5 years sober, just putting my heart back together one broken piece at a time.
Fuck, I'm glad it's not just me - hope life is treating you better now.
@@prestonmoore9996 hang in there
I unfortunately can relate....
I wish I could say it gets better but I can say that you get stronger.
I'm a 40 year old man that has been married and divorced twice. In the last few weeks, I have found someone that is showing my heart what true love is. It's a completely different kind of love, it's overwhelming and amazing. This song showed up in my recommended today and on the first listen, I started crying. This song is absolutely beautiful. To anyone out there that thinks they're ready to give up on true love, don't give up! It will find you when you need it most.
If you see this April, thank you! I love you ❤️
Omg thank you I really needed that 😢😭 I just broke up with my future wife..
I'm in the same place brother. 47 here. 1 divorce and a serious relationship after that...but I've finally found what real love is. At least we got there before we died. Amazing feeling isn't it?
Hey my name is june but i love you too
You deserve the best ❤️ failed experiences can never stop the love that is meant for you
I'm 38 now and i'm married not because of love but because of stupid rash decision mistake years ago.Years has passed and I feel so depressed. Living with someone you dont love is so dreadful. I still stay in this marriage because of responsibilities for the kid. Then,i met a friend and we kinna click. After some time, I fall for her but now we're not seeing each other anymore cos of my complicated situations and she wan to have her own happiness as well . I dont have the courage to be with her when i have the chance last time. Now it's ended ,i have regret it so much and i miss her so damn much. We're now are strangers with memories. Right person but at the wrong time. I envy you. Cherish her and i pray you have a long lasting happiness with her. As for me,i will always love her and pray for her wellbeing from the shadows.
Does anybody else feel wrong reading these stories and liking them though meaning to show support?
thought i was the only one
Yes
Yeah I do because I can relate to what there going through
Music is the purpose for showing us where we feel alone and find we are far from alone.. crazy how a person you have never met has the same pain... seems impossible, yet we are so alike even with all our differences the heart is our common ground!! So no its not werid.. people need to connect!! Humankindness and love can keep you from being alone... rest well and happy even on hard day and they are out there.. but remember your not alone!!
Thank you i feel so alone right now i drink every day
I lost my soulmate and best friend on June 12th 2022 we were married for 21 years and this song is amazing because when you lose a spouse it feels like your soul is being ripped out of your body and your heart shatters into a million pieces
So sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what that's like! Hope you're holding up.
I lost my best friend and soulmate Richard on January 6th,2021...a month before my 33rd birthday. We were together 15 years and he passed away in my arms from cardiac arrest due to detoxing from drugs and alcohol. It broke me bad...I fell so hard down the rabbit hole from his death. Never thought I would find happiness like that again but God brought someone just recently in to my life again and I'm at such a happy point in my life now with him. And having to overcome my own fatal addiction was next to being the hardest thing from loosing Richard, but God had other plans for me apparently!! I'm sorry for your loss and I hope and pray for you to find strength and happiness again soon!!
Or cheated on and relationship is over…
I’m sorry for your loss… I’ve been through it.
The bible tells us that we can't bring them back, but... we can go to them. Until that day
Unless you lose your child, as I just have from a drunk driver, and my sister who overdosed and 3 cousins who committed suicide , you will never be the same again. My grief is overwhelming and I can’t find my way back. I need this song so badly. I stand on my faith and that’s how I’m barely surviving. I never ever thought I’d lose my daughter but it’s as real as the day it happened ❤❤❤
God, I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Hang in there and be strong.
I’m so sorry… praying for you
Lifting you up in Prayer 🙏🏼
Omg I am so sorry that all of that happened to you. I don’t know how I would ever deal with something like that.
One of the things that always saves me from suicide is knowing how it would completely destroy my mom.
I can’t imagine losing her, let alone your own child.
If I could I would bring her back for you…
Life can be so cruel…
But you’re right, our faith can carry us through some of the worst times in our lives.
This song is such a great reminder of that.
And again, I am so so sorry what happened to you. No one should ever experience that.
I’m glad this song helps bring you some comfort.
Keep Breathing!! When you can’t, ask the Lord to breathe for you!!
Red has some of the most powerful lyrics.
It makes sense, as RED is a highly Christian band.
+Rosalina Shaylee that literally means nothing.
+Chelsea Miller Actually, it explains everything. RED's show of faith their belief in God is undying. Loosing one's faith then finding it is LITERALLY the meaning of this entire song. It's very emotional.
You could interpret it that way, but I am near 100% certain that I read a few years ago that Red said they intentionally makes their songs in such a way so that people can interpret it the way closest to their heart. I tried to search for the interview now, but I would probably need to dig for a while longer, if you care enough you could try to find out their stance.
Anyhow, that they have powerful lyrics has nothing to do with their faith, you couldn't just pick up some random faith-filled dude and have him write a masterpiece.
P.S
You seem certain that you know the meaning of the song as Red meant it to be, could you provide any link to where they state the meaning of this song?
You can be Christian and your lyrics not be powerful; you can be a non-Christian artist and your lyrics be powerful as well--it depends on the artist itself. The way that they craft their lyrics has nothing to do with solely being Christian or not, that's what I meant.
I've also looked up meanings to several of their songs, and they like to write about personal battles with our inner selves, a lot of times against sin/the flesh, (Feed the Machine and Death of Me, for example). Then again, I imagine that they can have other meanings besides that as well.
You can tell that their faith is the underlying motivation behind all of their lyrics, but again, faith in itself doesn't determine how deep one's lyrics are. And I do imagine that they may very well leave the overall interpretation up to the listener.
This song speaks a lot to me...I was picked on as a child...all the way up to graduating. I was called, freak, monster, outcast, loser, skinny fuck and etc. I went to Winter Jam and this song speaks to me...mostly because I listened to it a lot when I was depressed and then RED came to concert into my state..he sang this song and noticed while he was singing it that I seemed depressed..I was near the bars of the front stage...almost crying...(I am a male, yes)..He pulled me on stage and at the end of his song he held me and said into the mic "Don't cry son...you're never alone..you may be in pieces..but all of us are here to fix you.."
Your comment hit me right in the feels...
wow...
MurderFace That is just... So beautiful. It really hit me..
MurderFace I'm right there with you. although, not the skinny part. I'm fat -_-
That would be the most beautiful moment of my life. I would've been the happiest guy in the world. Michael Barnes truly cares about all of his fans and is just a wonderful man all around no matter how you look at him.
I have been listening to this song in a heartbreaking depression at the age of 14 in no name city in Russia. Jesus was there and He is still here with me through this song. He kept my spirit alive through your songs
❤
2 weeks ago I lost my partner and the love of my life. She boosted me up so much, helped me come out to my parents, helped me see my value as a human being, allowed me to accept myself and get in tune with my spirituality, and now she's gone, but she visited me in a dream last night. Told me to keep fighting, to not end my life just so I can be with her. I think it was her last goodbye on this world, letting me know her spirit was fully passing on.
Leanne, I'll never forget you. And when my time comes and we're reunited, I'll have so much to tell you. I'll live a full life so you're proud of me. And I know one day I'll hold you again.
Stay strong Queen you got this! 💪
I'm sorry for your loss. I got goosebumps reading your comment.
I wish you the best in your life. Stay strong.
RIP Leanne.
Jesus wants you to come to him so He can make you whole.
Even the Instrumentals alone can make you cry.😢
lone magetse true
the first minute u mean
lone magetse the piano really gets me idk why...
THAT CELLO AM I RIGHT
I'm holding back tears while in school.
"You call my name, I come to you in pieces, so you can make me whole" Gets me everytime
That’s the Grace of God. No matter what, Jesus always takes us, just as we are, and makes us whole. That particular verse speaks to me as well. God Bless you, Austin❤️
@@melissaabercrombie3767 and there's the person who always turns every song religious. How you doing?
@@NervousKraken Uh, they didn't make the song religious, the band did. Red is a Christian rock band. Anyone can listen to it, but it IS written from a religious standpoint.
me 2 i think of God with this song he's the only one who can make me whole despite me fighting him along the way he never left me...
@@friendlyprism well, that's a twist.
Since Melissa never answered, how are you doing?
Christ be with all of us who are hurting and weary, for He offers us rest ❤️ it gets better, brothers and sisters
I thought he was speaking to a love, but, he speaks to GOD. It's like it's new all over again! Love it! I hope for peace to all your troubled thoughts and lives. Trust me ,It really does get better in time. You got this!!
so he was speaking to a love, the Greatest Love, God!
He is Risen
🤪
@@brandonwhitehead2856 Jesus is Alive! Amen!
I heard he's a true religious Christian and his lyrics speak to his beliefs. But it could be widely interpreted by different reasons
Just found out about Red, first time ever hearing their songs and I wish I would have sooner. More people need to hear this stuff. Red is so underrated.
I love Red I can totally agree :).
+Brother Club - Gaming Channel Dude literally like everyone knows, if you know Red you know they're a Christian band. Like Skillet or As I Lay Dying. Some people just aren't Christian and don't listen to it for that reason, I am an athiest and I listen because it's beautiful music that everyone can appreciate no matter the faith status.
right?! they make some great sad songs, and just very powerful songs overall!!
+pennybkid God bless this comment.
+pennybkid What do you mean you 'found out' about Red??? They didn't break up did they?!
My son just passed away in April from a car accident in January. Tyler went to heaven in pieces and now he is whole.
I'm sorry for your son, I'm not religious much myself but may he find peace in the afterlife
Jon Aronis so sorry for your loss. I wish you peace.
Jon Aronis Amen 🙏
I'm so sorry for your heartache.
This hit me so hard.
My oldest is named Tyler. He was in a fatal wreck that should have killed him to pieces. I had already said goodbye to him when they called me to come say goodbye. My heart was already in pieces and nothing could take the heartbreak away.
I have no words. I'm so sorry.
Love
This Mom
My brother, Tyler, was also killed in a car accident. I’m very sorry for your loss.
This song describes who I am. I’ve been broken and lost ever since I lost my big brother to cancer. He was like my best friend and I’ve tried so hard to move forward in life. But no matter what I do I keep going back to where I am alone and in pain and suffering.
But I’m still here and still fighting it. I’ll keep fighting and pray and hope that I’ll find happiness in my life.
RIP Steve. I hope one day I will see you again.
Oh bless your heart, I can imagine how sad that makes you feel. I'm sad for you, please don't feel alone. 😔
pray to God, its hard, but there is a reason for everything
When ships are lost at sea.... It is God that is the lighthouse that guides the ship home and welcomes you with love and hope.
''I'm here again, a thousand miles away from you...''
I hate it
Feels bad man
Thank God
Not serious sorry
Very sorry for being rude
This song and comments saved my life. I was going to kill myself. But I read those comments and realized that I' still have life better than many unlucky people. I will keep their names in my prayers. God loves us and let's share this love with everybody.
God Bless! Stay strong
Hang in there brother! Indeed, The One True God loves us, has a plan, and is in control 👊🏼.
Yes, it's amazing how much power words and music have! And it really puts things in perspective when we stop focusing on our own pain and see the hurting people around us. It helps us see how blessed we really are and how much we have to live for. I hope you're doing better now. Please know that you matter and are not here by accident! It's a beautiful miracle that we even exist. Out of all the people that could be born we are here, we get to live and love and experience things and leave a mark on this world. Throwing away your life is never the answer. Always keep fighting!
There is no god!
Ricky James i am glad you are alive #staystrong❤
This song is so very beautiful!!! When in crisis, God is always there when nobody else can hear you!!!
This song for me in a nutshell
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28
Amen 🙏🏼 😢
Not trying to be too sappy... but reading through these comments makes me so proud to know there are such strong people out there. You are all courageous for overcoming your tragedies and if you haven't I know you will. Stay strong.
Battlewood the second comment and the video before this on the playlist is deep
Thank you.
This comment is what i Need in this moment... thank you
Battlewood I've lost a brother who was my best friend and was only 16 when he died...I've lost 2 papaws and an uncle to and overdose....I'm going through a divorce and my son is in jail....I know I'm broken but I stay strong for my son and my daughter....they are my life and my heart.
Battlewood my daughter got married to thise💑
Why am I just now finding this band? Sooo good!!!!
they are amazing :)
becouse you are not my girlfriend lol
+dexter dabbous 😕
+dexter dabbous my man 😂😂
+dexter dabbous wow no need for hostility. I was simply saying they are good. I have a bf thanks tho. 😂😂😉
I felt lost and drunk tonight. I remembered this band tonight. I cried, i felt old, i felt young….. thank you guys for all of that. U matter for me and i love you♥️
All soul contracts are cancelled. All deals/pacts with evil dissolved. All chains broken.
Lord please forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us. In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen
You are loved. You are wanted. You are not a mistake. You are a miracle. You are free. Escape. God bless
Wow! That made me cry- I felt that!
Am I the only one who didnt “cry” from this, but rather felt relaxed? this is nice.
Nope ^v^
I've done both. At the same time, a few times.
Yeah !! Me too 😌✌🏻️ it's a relaxing happy great song ❤️
+XxTheStarPheonixCraftxX when im about to break down i cry to this but when im not i just sit back close my eyes let my thoughts fly out of my head and relax with a smile on my face ;)
***** yea
This song is pure beautiful, everytime I am confused, sad, angry, upset, hopeless, I just play this song and it makes me feel good, it makes me remember what love is, I just can't explain the perfect atmosphere of this song.Pure beauty.
It's God
Gwen Molfetas Actually song can mean a lot of things, as long as you can relate to it.
Agreed Gwen
The piano is such a pretty melody with the acoustic guitar
Johnny Vincent this song makes me feel the use way and it helps me to
Here again a thousand miles away from you…. Heavenly Father light my path to find my way back next to you.
Amen
dont let yourself go because when you do that you loose her
I cried reading this comment section. Everyone here is so caring for the people that are going through tough times.
TheShinyPichu don't cry I know a lot of people are harsh and rude but not everyone just look at the other side of person no one is born in this world was born with the feelings or hate or love we are born with curiosity , but if he becomes rude or loving it shows the times he has been through some people rude after hard times but people stubborn as me still try to be good and try to make friends and get into the group even I know I couldn't get into but this is what life is about you keep on trying and never loose faith as there is someone who will come into your life and change everything and that's what I am living for her so do everyone without even knowing that, that's funny
TheShinyPichu Are you sure about that?
TheShinyPichu true i will bad it is to hard i cant plz kiling out there plz make life better not harder and bullying cuz some times you make life hard so STOP LET LIFE BE FREE STOP KILLING THE MORE YOU KILL OR DO SOME THING BAD YOU ARE GOING TO HELL . SO STOP PLZ
wdym by that
TheShinyPichu i want to be your friend .this touches me ,😍😄😄😊😨😊
It was uploaded in January 2009 and here I'm listening to it for the first time
Sevara M me too
Sevara M me too
same
Sevara M same
Sevara M Not the last time
breath, I'm sorry. I'm been a Hugh fan. This song is my son. He past years ago. Thank you for everything you and the people you touch. Thank you and God bless you!!
I'm so sorry 😞
I'm just an introvert/Empath/INFJ making my way through this world the best way I can. I'm a music lover first and foremost before I got into the drums at 10 years old. Music is my first love and to hear this when it first came out, got to me in a good way. I TRY SO HARD to be who I am that I COME IN PIECES before the one I should be all for. God. I am but not entirely. I TRY SO HARD THOUGH. This song had me that I bought this CD when it came out.
I listened to this song when I was 14. In my bed at 3am. I was so depressed. Eventually getting hospitalized because I was so numb to even move from my bed. I’m 19 now and I’m proud of who I have become. I’m in college and I don’t have friends...only one. But it doesn’t bother me like it would have when I was 14. The person who really made me whole was myself. Just growing up and realizing that life isn’t easy but it is worth living for..of course I have days where I think “what’s the point?” And “maybe I wasn’t supposed to make it till 19. My fate is death”. But then I remember how much life can bring to you, if you make it yours. Sorry for sounding very cheesy. No one will read this. I just wanted to get it off my chest
What you said wasn’t cheesy, it was heartfelt and shows who you are. Don’t apologize. It seems like you’ve been through a lot, but you’re stronger for it. When you feel that way, it’s perfectly natural to want to share how you feel with people. Maybe you want to give people hope, or maybe you just can’t contain your joy and thankfulness about how far you’ve come. Either way, I think you’re awesome, and I hope you continue to find even more about life to look forward too.
vgmlover wow...I didn’t realize anybody would even take the time to read. Thank you. Waking up to this made my day already!❤️
@@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 there are many people who would read it :) don't look down on yourself! I'm happy to know that you're still alive and happy at the moment. I hope that life will bring you joy!
@@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 don't forget God is always there for u
Bro stay strong don't be so hard on your self
how can you possibly not like this song, this masterpiece...
Alphawerewolf try the Nightcore version. its the exact you were looking for.
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Nickelback Fans
Because it actually makes you feel deeply and think
I like the slow pace at the beginning. My head will comes up with lots of images & ideas for story.
I'm 23. I come here every once a while for a good cry, when I need to cry. Thank you RED for proving us with this song. Thank you.
My battle with depression and mental health has been silent. I've found help it has shown me who is there for me and who is not after pushing away friends and family. I've done away with social media I'm working on myself. Music helps so very much. This song is amazingly beautiful it hits so hard.
This song reminds me of my depression and how God saved me from it. I still struggle with depression but after my prayers, God brings it away. If you struggle with depression, I understand. I never really put myself out there saying I used to (and still have sometimes) depression so if any of my subs never knew, well here you go. If you have depression keep fighting and you'll be in my prayers. :)
Depression is terrible. I have a family history of depression on both sides. I was the unlucky one to get it from both parents.
Spencer Ashby I'm sorry to hear that. Does it still happen?
FireSoulGamer Yea, have medicine that helps but sometimes it sets off. If I forget to take the medicine for one day, the next day is ruined.
Spencer Ashby Oh man that sucks. I will keep you in my prayers. :)
FireSoulGamer thanks. Hope you're doing well.
I'm so tired of feeling empty...I just want to be my true self and this music helps to do so... even after I lost all my closet friends
thank u really it means a lot to me... thank u from the bottom of my heart
Amen!
kassandra villa god bless u it's ok u will find new friends
just keep checking your closet maybe they'll appear one day...
Your Never Alone...
I always come back to this song whenever i'm dealing with something. Such a powerful piece!
Still listening in 2021 and it gets me still. Now, from a perspective that is closer to God. No matter what you do or don't believe in, I'm sure most can agree that life will break us all at some point in our life. Find your reason to keep moving forward because it is our duty to outlast and outwork our problems.
this song fucking hurts.
+xDwelleR but u used it in ur goodbye montage
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MrFKful
oops.
You think this hurts? Try Red's "Hymn For the Missing".
Richie Cross
ok
+Richie Cross Try "By your side" by Tenth Avenue North, "Just be held" by Casting Crowns, or if you're a real glutton for punishment, "At the beginning" (not sure who the artist is) when you're still hoping against hope after a breakup. Granted, I can see why both Red songs hurt, but they're not nearly as painful as some others, depending on the situation.
Cry every single time, never fails. I was in an abusive relationship for 16 years and I finally found someone that truly loves me for me and it is the best feeling ever. Anyone out there going through hard, lonely, depressing times. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Love to you all.
to a fellow dv survivor love you
@@Kim-zi7tt thank you, I’m so thankful you’re here to give this comment. Stay strong 💪🏻
@@valer_is6992 thank you 😊
@@Kim-zi7tt and I love you too, we are all in this together and made it through! ❤️
God is our friend. He can pick up the pieces of you. He loves every piece.
Thank you for understanding the real meaning of this song .😊❤
I too lost my soulmate. It was 1978, at the hands of a drunk driver. We met at 15yrs old and were never apart after. Drunk driver guy got a slap on the wrist. Course those were the days before all the laws were put in place against drunk drivers. We had a baby boy who really doesn't remember his dad. It's been a hard life but God saved us and kept us going. I'm now 71 yrs. and don't have many years left before I go home too. I can't wait to see his beautiful smile and twinkling blue eyes. He'll be beside Jesus when I get home. To those of you who carry that void and ache of a lost loved one know that God is with us and them. We'll have such a grand reunion as all of Heaven welcomes us home.
I lost my son and I miss him so much . Daddy loves you Eli . Daddy loves you..
I am sorry for your loss.. R.I.P. Eli.
I lost one of my close friends to what turned out to be a suicide, I loved her to bits and know the feeling of an empty hole and loneliness, if you want to talk to someone you can add me on skype, etdorito
I have been left feeling like this before as I grew up in the wrong crowd and put myself in the situations unknowingly, I won't leave someone alone in situations like these, strangers or enemies..
I'm so sorry. God will cradle him in His heavenly embrace now.
I can't believe this song is 10 years old now.. Wow..
Is it really? The release day on YT is from 2009 I've always thought it wasn't older.. I fell very old now.
+Nina Dobrev xD
...TEN!?
+bsx11 Holy hell, man, we have the same (yours is just edited ish?) profile picture xD
wat
My sister and nephew played this song at my daughter's service 9 years ago. It still makes the rain. Damn fine song
Make me whole again, Lord...without my family intertwined, I feel just as lost, broken, scared, cold, etc as I did before I came back to You. Speak to them, show them the truth....make us whole again, through You.
Amen
I'm having marriage issues, and am depressed and suicidal as hell... I'm trying to get help now. Everyday is a struggle. I wake up sad bc I have dreams of dying and being free of my stupid mind... its hard... but I'm gonna try to get better... keep me in your prayers please everyone...
Prayers will be !
Fuck your marriage, bro! Just be a man!!!!!!!!! You is what’s most important in your life. Also kids, parents. Screw your wife... what is there to suffer for? 50 grams peed meat? Get a grip!
There is plenty fish in the sea!
Stay strong don't give in to the devil.
Are you ok? hope you are better now . Please be ok !
Plz dont die no one is worth it call on the name of the Lord and u and ur household will be saved in the mighty name I bring healing to this person abundance or prosperity come unconditional love come amen GBU
No matter how much I hear this song it gets me deep in the feels.
☺
+Jessica Tucker its hurts me because of an ex who showed me this
+Adam Murray Ouch.
was long ago but never really dated after that
+Jessica Tucker This song is like a slow motion gut punch...that you like. Hurts so good. Wow. It makes you want to just grab your chest, close your eyes and just...drift.
Holy spirit touched me with this song truly speaks to my soul how I feel about Jesus
When I was younger, this song was my favourite. It made me emotional because of its tone and I could somehow relate to it. I came back I forgot about it until I heard it on a video. A very underrated song
im so used to this song.. that i found myself crying over the comments...all RED fans are so PURE! hugs!
same here
Hugs I love red I know there a Christian band
i found this in my recommend. Thanks youtube
Me too.
realy Me Too
You know where CZcams gets the ability to sometimes be decent?
First. Word.
all glory belongs to Him! Yeshua Messiach!
Red is very underrated band imho.
I'm stunned at how beautiful this is. It evokes so many feelings. I'm so lost and alone in this world, I've been holding on for a way out but one never comes. Music is 1 of the only things that gets me through. Severe depression really is the worst. 17 years battling it and still not won
You're not alone man. Look up a thousand lifetimes by fire from the gods
I'm feeling your pain only magnified 1000 times. You are never alone as long as I exist. Love you bro/sis
My mate (Tim) ended his reign within the apex of our friendship. At first, it felt as if it was a betrayal. We were close, how dare he leave me here alone... As I have grown older, I still struggle with the concept of longevity. How could there ever be purpose for tomorrow if my struggles can be snuffed within an instant.
Rest in Peace Timothy Homan.
I love you infinitely, Brother. 🖤
Absolutely beautifully spoken 🙏❤️
@@melmac3464 I appreciate that ✨
it's sad, really
there's kids saying they want to commit suicide
and right up until they actually do, the parents always go "oh they're just FINE"
we're not fine
we're not fine
WE'RE NOT FINE
i know right! it's like nobody will understand the pain of wanting to commit suicide until they experience it
Yes, we're not okay.
The Kids Aren't All Right.
The horrible thing is, there's so many people that just joke about it or say it because it's cool, so nobody can really know when we are or aren't crying wolf.
@@alexlaws5086 Just like they joke about mental illness and rape. Now I think it's okay to joke about even the things that are making your life hell. It's a good coping mechanism, but it's important to ask questions if you even suspect someone might be in trouble and need help.
Not religious.. in fact some would call me athiest. But I do adore this song. I appreciate songs like these that are vague so it can relate to other situations and feelings.
Oliver Puente agree
Same
Or maybe it was something else that drove u to hear it. Sry not trying to thump or anything but I was also an atheist not long ago, at a very low point I asked for a sign (like I'd done several times throughout my life trying to figure things out) but this last time I finally recieved an answer... it shook my soul, just keep ur mind open :)
@@lyza8006 Out of curiosity, may I ask what this "answer" was and why it changed your mind?
Agnostic here as well. I honestly didn't realize it was a religious song until I looked at the pictures for the first time and saw crosses everywhere ....
Reminds me of Jesus ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹Thank u Lord u made me whole ❤️❤️❤️Love my Jesus
I played this song at my father's funeral in 2010, God used this band to helped me during a time of a cloud of darkness I had in my life.
My older brother committed suicide in October 2017 out of nowhere, a couple of days after his birthday. I'm trying my best to seem as happy as possible, and I think I'm doing an okay job at that, but truth be told I am still completely broken, and I haven't had a good night of sleep in what feels like years. On top of that I have some problems with my ex (and best friend of almost 5 years, and one of the only people I've had through all of this), who is now trying to move on with her life, without me in it, or at least without being "romantic" at all anymore, and being "less friendly", which I have a hard time with because this girl is my home, my safe space, and she IS all my memories these past years. But I respect it. I just miss her. Life and love can be tough, but I hope the person reading this doesn't lose hope. I know I haven't. That being said, I could really use a fresh start, but at the same time I don't have the energy to try, or even think about it at the minute. I feel kind of let down by the universe, that this is my 'depressed' situation at 21 years old. I'm stuck, but somehow still hopeful. I was a happy person once. I know I deserve better than this.
I'm not sure what the moral of this story is, but I will give you some advice; don't lose hope, and dont ever make homes out of people. Learn to love yourself, and don't depend on other people to make your day brighter. I know you've heard it all before, but it's true. I wish I had learned that a long time before all of this.
Oh, and whoever or wherever you are, you are not alone. Thank you for listening.
❤️🙏🏼😓
I respect you and I like how you think about this. Never lose hope. Never.
I would like to still have your kind of hope. Unfortunately, even years after my divorce, it feels like my life was ripped from me. Some how I lost me, because of him. We were married for 14 years. I was an army wife through 2 deployments, and living in another country on my own waiting for him. Now he easily moved on, and even started a family. He couldn’t get his head straight after being at war, or at least didn’t care to for me. He was willing for another. Right after he left, our cat passed, then our dog and the finalization of the papers. I threw myself into dating and trying to constantly stay busy. It soon faded into my reality that who I was since high school into my 30s was no longer who I would ever be again.
If you are able to maintain your hope, hold on for dear life. I let mine slip away, and I don’t believe it could return. I’m as he put it because I got sick “damaged goods” so you’re right don’t shape yourself around anyone, maintain who you are. I hope you find that great love, but let it be great because you choose to be together, not because you need to. Never think you need someone. That’s how people become co-dependent. People confuse loneliness with love, when often wrong. You know when it’s real. It’s just a different feeling than anything else. You’re young with so much to still experience, and grow from. You have and will have losses, but you’ll have amazing memories as well. Take the time to do everything you possibly can for yourself. That much I have learned.
@@annastacia6852 you aren't old yourself (assuming your 30-ish). if you can, build a career. get a side hustle to fund school. don't let someone else's evaluation of your worth become your own evaluation (even after being betrothed for 14 years, that bugger can't place a value tag on you. ONLY YOU CAN).
I speak that from experience. to my dad I'm just a nuisance, that's all i've been for 19 years (ya i'm 19yo). it used to mess me up but i remembered he's just another person with a lesson for me to learn (the one Im sharing with u).. I'm my own self and no one can tell me what value i add to the world. even when their decisions tell it and not their voice, I won't let anyone tell me I'm worthless. Don't let yourself believe that. I don't know you but I know. I *KNOW* you need this message. same for OP (Ulrik)
@@jay-5061 Thank you, for your response. Very profound outlook you have, for someone so young. Yes, im in my 30s. I have friends all over the world. We beyond basic human nature, use each others cultural outlooks to look at things in different ways. If you would care to chat you're welcome to message me. Obviously I don't want my personal info on here. I do have a dummy account that you're welcome to message where I can give my real email address. Chaoticprincess81@gmail.com if you ever need a friend.
Are you that person that seems like everyone would like them because you look popular, or because you basically look like you fit the crowd? But in reality you're the person who sits alone and has people constantly judging and bullying you because your childhood made you "crazy, depressed, psychotic"? .... Sometimes I wish I can tell people who I really am because I am soon to giving up, but I don't want to...
Baby don't you dare to give up okay?
TheLightsaber001 Thank you so much!:) I'm not a very happy person myself, but I do my best to encourage others. :)
x
Don't end yourself. Life has so much to offer and you might not even know or realize it yet. I know it hurts now and how easy it would be to end yourself just to take all that pain away. I know because I have been trough a lot as well. While I was bullied because of different reason, I know how it feels.
On top of that though, at age of 16-20 I was diagnosed a bad case of Chron's decease and bowel cancer. I nearly died 6 times to that in those years and once I actually " died " on the surgery table. Also my grandma and uncle, both of whom I was close to died within those years. How easy it would have been to give up on myself and forfeit my life.
But I never did, because I knew it would have been a permanent solution to a temporary problem, that all these experiences I went trough would be nothing than a distant memory of my past 10 years from now on. I never gave up on myself despite all of the hardships because life can offer so much if you are just willing to give life a fair chance and time it needs to show it to you.
Fast forward 2 years from those events. Even though I am still scarred by my recent past, I could not say I wouldn't be more happier and proud of myself that I chose to fight instead of submit to my thoughts. I got exactly where I wanted to, which is the Leading Institute of Psychology, Finland ( University ). And neither can you foresee your future, but what you can do as a favor from you to yourself is give that chance to continue moving forward.
Talk to someone, surround yourself with people who are willing to listen to you, talk to you, not bully you, support and help you in the times of need. Find what makes you happy, as happiness comes from within as for me, happiness comes from helping other people who are in a dire need of it. That makes me happy, so what makes you happy? Think about it and work towards it.
I know this is a bit cheesy quote from Rocky movies but I think it is a good one here:
" It doesn't matter how hard life will hit you, what matters is how much life hits you and you can still keep moving forward. That is how winning is done! ".
And life will hit hard but you should always keep moving forward because things will solve and become more clear eventually. I am sure you have your own problems, just like I did have mine but try not to focus on those negative things like most people have a tendency to do. Focus on the good things instead. I learnt to find the good in the bad, and it is really effective way of starting to feel better and more happier.
And like I said, talk to someone! In my opinion, everyone has a story to be told and everyone deserves their story to be told.
I was that person. I am that person. Hold on. It's all going to be worth it, I swear. I tried letting go, and I'm glad that something kept me holding on. You'll find people who will appreciate and love you and all of your broken pieces. xxoo
I really appreciate the time and effort you took to make me happy. Glad to know there are people like you! I really needed a boost. I am a survivor to depression after being admitted two years ago. I am fighting and I know I am strong. I am getting used to being in this whole 'happy' life. I am happy but it's not something I'm used to. I was going through a really tough moment when I wrote this. You all have no idea how much that made my day. I hope youall are having a great day! I know I'm late, but I hope you all have a great year!
One of the most beautiful songs I’ve ever heard.
This song gives me goosebumps EVERYTIME I HEAR IT. I know that I couldn't make it another second without the Lord 🙏😭🕊️🙏
Amen Praise God
Jesus sucks
To my daughter if I ever get to see your beautiful face again!! Your the only one who can make me complete. I love you ANASTASIA❤️❤️❤️
❤️
Hope you find her
The Lord Jesus LOVES YOU !!!
Let God's word complete you.
I am so sorry for your loss. May her soul rest in peace and may almighty give you the strength to move ahead❤
It’s the 10th December 2017. The last time I listened to this song was years ago. My depression was probably at its worst, I was being bullied by everyone in college, I had no friends, my abusive family was breaking me, as was my abusive boyfriend at the time. This brings tears to my eyes now because I survived. I found a wonderful man, we’re engaged to be married. I got away from my abusive family and moved in with him. He helped me get through the rest of college in all honesty because I had someone. I look back, and I survived. And I’ve never been happier. It’s crazy how songs can bring up memories in such a way.
I am really happy for you
Thanks for sharing as I had a similar experience
xsirenflyx 😐🤔😶😣 in that order
WILLIAM WHITTLE I don’t know what that means but ok
xsirenflyx sorry I was just moved by your story.
WILLIAM WHITTLE ah, fair enough then heh, thanks ❤️
This is a worship song to Jesus ✝️🙏🏻💜
Yes it is… 🙏
Such a deep song, and the black and white visuals, lends even more depth to this enigmatic song and lyrics, so sad
I'm not a Christian and I can relate to this song on a deeply emotional level. We all have that one person who instantly lift us up as soon as we see them. This isn't about religion. It's about lifting up your fellow man and helping them get through the hard times.
Denise Caskey RED is a Christian band so this song is mainly towards Christ for them. But anyone can interpret it however they want. Religious, romance, depression, whatever you interpret it as is your choice
totally agreed
Lol I'm a muslim myself but I hear lots of song from christian bands. They're awesome & I can relate myself
2016 and still listening to this amazing song
I never thought I would see arab here hhh welcome ma bro💕
+amal alghamdi 😂😂
+michelle christidis am an arabian person too :p
+Darion Sama lols 💃💃💃💃
+Michelle Christidis me too nigga
This in a way helps me with the pain and emptiness I feel and helps me find peace within all that if it makes sense. Such a good song.
Привет из 2022 года. Я не могу остановиться слушать эту невероятную песню ♥️
I was talking to a boy yesterday. He was my bestfriend. We lost touch over summer. He has hit on everyone consisting on my bestfriend to my worst enemy. He told me that i was "pretty" but i had a horrible personality.
Tbh.
I think all of you have an anazing personality. You make someone smile somewhere. So screw all the people that make you feel bad.
Because you are worth more than some pitty comment. Said by someone who is probably jelous. I promise you someone somewhere loves you...
The boy i talked to always found a way to make me happy. And suddenly that all changed. He told me to break up with my boyfriend who makes me so happy and feel like i can be myself.
And so when someone tells you your weird or stupid or any other intellegent
Thing just look away and smile to yourself.
Because those are just words. Words mean nothing unless you give them meaning.
You are beautiful, smart, and perfect at being you. The world wouldnt be the same without you, i promise.
-Audrei Maision.💕
*un intellegent.. Sry
:)
.You know, everyone is both good and bad. We all have light and shadow inside of us. Sanity and insanity. All it takes is a small push to send us tumbling over the edge. But none of us are ever truly one or the other. You see people who are evil, and yet those people still have remorse, guilt, and love. The difference is, they ignore that. They silence it.
.I went through a time when my mind was darker than any place you could imagine. I shut down. I never spoke to anyone. Because I was always thinking. Always inside my own mind. Where there was nothing but...blood...and dark. I was scared of myself, and my mind. Now...I'm in a place between, inside, and yet outside both of those. I know I'm bad. I .You know, everyone is both good and bad. We all have light and shadow inside of us. Sanity and insanity. All it takes is a small push to send us tumbling over the edge. But none of us are ever truly one or the other. You see people who are evil, and yet those people still have remorse, guilt, and love. The difference is, they ignore that. They silence it.
.I went through a time when my mind was darker than any place you could imagine. I shut down. I never spoke to anyone. Because I was always thinking. Always inside my own mind. Where there was nothing but...blood...and dark. I was scared of myself, and my mind. Now...I'm in a place between, inside, and yet outside both of those. I know I'm bad. I know I'm selfish, and that there's a dark side to me. But I also know there's a side of me that is good, selfless, and light.
.When you combine them, you get a warrior. Someone who has been through the hell of the world, and then through the hell of their own mind, but still isn't broken. This person knows what darkness is like, and how tempting it is, because they've felt it themselves. They look at other people and say "I used to be like that. Now I see how little I really knew". These people have had light and darkness fight inside them, nearly tearing them to pieces in the process, but made it through. These are people that now know how meaningless other people's words are, how meaningless that girl's insult is. How meaningless that comment was.
.Because this person has been to the battlegrounds, and once you've been there, you're unbreakable.know I'm selfish, and that there's a dark side to me. But I also know there's a side of me that is good, selfless, and light.
.When you combine them, you get a warrior. Someone who has been through the hell of the world, and then through the hell of their own mind, but still isn't broken. This person knows what darkness is like, and how tempting it is, because they've felt it themselves. They look at other people and say "I used to be like that. Now I see how little I really knew". These people have had light and darkness fight inside them, nearly tearing them to pieces in the process, but made it through. These are people that now know how meaningless other people's words are, how meaningless that girl's insult is. How meaningless that comment was.
.Because this person has been to the battlegrounds, and once you've been there, you're unbreakable.
+Audrei Maision Everybody has a reason and goal to be in this world.
+Audrei Maision *jealous *intelligent *,,,,,,,,,
This song really spoke to me tonight. My friends have been neglecting me and my feelings and this song really made me feel good.
I know what you mean, music is always there for you; even when there's no one willing to listen to it with you anymore.
That is so right, Ryan. Music soothes the hurting soul
Yeah I'm a little kitty what of it?
*****
lmfao
MR. kaneki every person have a moment of weakness that we need to help them in it not insulting them, even kaneki in tokyo ghoul had the same moment
I was in a relationship for 4 years we had been through a lot together it ended two months ago and my heart was broken into pieces. This song is so beautiful. I have gotten to a place now where I am finding some piece of mind. But I found the strength to go on through prayer. 🙏
Hello Vickie, how are you?
I remember playing this song while I was in a suicide state where I felt the point it was enough and my cats all came to me meowing and that’s when I knew I must stay alive cats are incredibly magnificent please stay alive for yourself and loved ones pets or anything just stay alive sending my love to y’all my warriors ❤
Miracles can come in small, furry packages, too!!😺
Cats know. Cherish your life, you are precious. 😊
Simple music can make you sing simple Hug can make you feel better simple things can make you happy. I hope my simple Hello make you smile.
Kitties need you.