This Is Why Your Crush Is Suddenly Acting Distant (What's Going On Inside The Mind Of Your Crush?)

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  • čas přidán 8. 07. 2024
  • Is your crush acting distant, different or weird all of a sudden? In today's video we're going to be discussing some common reasons a crush can suddenly start acting distant from you? It's common for people to start worrying "does my crush like me?" but it's not always the case that they've gone off of you, as you'll learn in the video.
    Did you perhaps click on this video because you feel that you have messed up a situationship with a lady or a guy then don't worry, because we are going to give you the full lowdown of what makes someone become suddenly distant. Even when you thought that you both had something good going on.
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    0:00 Intro
    0:20 Why Is Crush Suddenly Acting Distant?
    0:27 Someone else is giving them more
    1:02 You didn't show enough interest
    1:40 They are playing hard to get
    2:23 They are not over their ex
    2:49 They still hurt from the past
    3:11 They are in too deep
    3:49 They don't know how they feel
    4:25 They think you are a player
    4:41 A life stress got in the way
    5:45 You had too many red flags
    6:01 You were too needy
    6:17 They have commitment issues
    6:53 Things went way too fast
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Komentáře • 200

  • @jaymedalbeth6962
    @jaymedalbeth6962 Před 3 lety +277

    My Grandfather told me "If you're having a problem with her now, it's going to be a consistent pattern later on".

    • @asiandude8361
      @asiandude8361 Před 3 lety +3

      What did he mean by that?

    • @jaymedalbeth6962
      @jaymedalbeth6962 Před 3 lety +20

      @@asiandude8361 If she's going cold and distant now, this pattern of behaviour will continue later

    • @RetroCaptain
      @RetroCaptain Před 2 lety +9

      Dad said the same thing. He was right

    • @jaymedalbeth6962
      @jaymedalbeth6962 Před 2 lety +10

      @@RetroCaptain Better you know what's going to be a problem now rather than finding out later. Emotional intelligence is key 🗝️

    • @vintageeagle8853
      @vintageeagle8853 Před 2 lety +6

      Old school told the truth

  • @markpack798
    @markpack798 Před 2 lety +53

    Just keep doing your own thing. If she likes you okay. If she doesn't" that's okay to. In this day and age, the last thing you need is another problem...

  • @thomasverslycken2563
    @thomasverslycken2563 Před 2 lety +36

    Yesterday i learned from my self that i can look confident but once i reach my limit i become shy around my crush & then i need to pull back a bit or even take some distance for a few days to refill my confidence

  • @socialpsychologymantras
    @socialpsychologymantras Před 2 lety +43

    “When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.” ― Paulo Coelho

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 Před 8 měsíci +7

    You forget the last factor - they could have realized you are not what they need in their life, so they are moving on.

  • @JohnnyRebKy
    @JohnnyRebKy Před rokem +41

    I avoided my high school crush like the plague. And I noticed she avoided me too. The vibes were powerful and I guess we both felt it. Scared the hell out of me. It wasn’t until 15 years later that we both admitted it. And the weird thing was even 15 years later it STILL existed! Now I avoid her again lol. Plus she’s married now and I’m not a home wrecker. But it does bug me sometimes ( obviously)

    • @Tmacpherson
      @Tmacpherson Před 5 měsíci +3

      Did the same…regret it everyday.. Never felt that connection with anyone else😢

    • @JohnnyRebKy
      @JohnnyRebKy Před 5 měsíci +2

      @Tmacpherson Well don't dabble back into all these years later and ignite flames you can do nothing about. It brings nothing but grief.

    • @yk6187
      @yk6187 Před 3 měsíci

      Same could I ask for advice

    • @Tmacpherson
      @Tmacpherson Před 3 měsíci

      @@JohnnyRebKy they came back just treading carefully..

    • @__.angel1111.__
      @__.angel1111.__ Před 2 měsíci +1

      🤯

  • @danielbengtsson1665
    @danielbengtsson1665 Před 2 lety +24

    Very good points, Anna! You can really understand why trying to date someone is so complicated...

  • @battlevain
    @battlevain Před 11 měsíci +9

    Sometimes a crush is one sided and the other person has only been friendly and polite towards you and nothing else. When you have a crush, most people see what they want to see and begin to stop thinking about the other person. Using a causal friendship to try to be around them more, always finding a way to bump into them and stringing out any conversation or interaction soon becomes tiresome. Stop being a selfish stalker/creep, pretending to just be friendly.

  • @dimpledimple5545
    @dimpledimple5545 Před 3 lety +52

    Moving too fast is definitely a turn off. It scares me. How can you even tell that you love someone or like someone and want to be in a relationship with them just after 2- 3 dates?? Nope. I'll drag it for months. Not because I love the chase, because I want both of us to be sure of our feelings and how much the guy wants to commit. If the guy is not patient enough, then that's fine.
    p.s. I read the 5 love languages. Mine are definitely act of service and quality time. Not so much with words and gifts, so I hope the guy would understand if I'm bad with words and appreciates my efforts. lol.

    • @RH-xs8gz
      @RH-xs8gz Před 3 lety +6

      Thank you for a woman’s perspective!

    • @selfconflicteddating6117
      @selfconflicteddating6117 Před 2 lety +1

      I am a guy and I also need a lot of time to get from meeting to feel comfortable and view things as anything beyond friendship

    • @selfconflicteddating6117
      @selfconflicteddating6117 Před 2 lety +2

      @@sbloc2 cereal dating is for Captain Crunch, serial dating I think is what you meant lol just playing I just could not resist the pun

    • @djcfamilia1786
      @djcfamilia1786 Před 2 lety

      I read that book too !!!

    • @archstanton3763
      @archstanton3763 Před 2 lety

      Dimple Dimple
      I know a girl like you called Sam, you two seem to have many things in common. Your words are wise and carry much weight, in today’s age many want everything now however slow and steady can be a beautiful thing to behold !

  • @supermichaelssecondchannel4342

    I’m not going to be lead on. Thank you Ana.

  • @fortminorproject
    @fortminorproject Před 2 lety +11

    My biggest thing is being shy iam trying to get used to ghosting but it's hard dating seemed so much easier a long time ago . My other thing is iam cursed with coming on too strong and I don't mean to and just want want a meaningful relationship. Thanks for this video .

  • @kylekenan2321
    @kylekenan2321 Před 3 lety +6

    Maybe they need to be a little more direct and quit expecting us to know everything. A lot of them require more time, money and attention than a newborn, and aren't worth being with.

  • @ooe400
    @ooe400 Před 2 lety +6

    I asked this girl out from my class but I kept noticing she keeps going to the restroom after class and distancing herself from me and she's been doing it for weeks so I just accepted she didn't like me.

  • @santoscortes7126
    @santoscortes7126 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks for you're insight love 😘

  • @tripp5027
    @tripp5027 Před 3 lety +5

    I admire your guidance and counseling so much 🤝nature is so flabbergasting to some point

  • @annatorrez8135
    @annatorrez8135 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you!....You are "spot on!"

  • @topsyturvy1873
    @topsyturvy1873 Před 2 lety +5

    Wow, this is too complex for me to handle and in the process I will lose my peace of mind, health, hair, time in which I can read lots of books, learn new skills, etc. Women are important for us men but c-mon this is a game I-m not willing to invest in.

  • @heeheehee9457
    @heeheehee9457 Před 3 lety +30

    lol my crush is actually acting distant rn. thank you for this tho

  • @japsukei8685
    @japsukei8685 Před rokem +3

    How about we stop acting like we’re still in the 9th grade and just have a conversation like grown up’s and decide if we do or don’t instead of causing emotional anguish on people

    • @Tom-cp6yj
      @Tom-cp6yj Před rokem +3

      Unfortunately, we live in a society where we only speak through texting or ghosting..

  • @arunkamara4641
    @arunkamara4641 Před 2 lety +3

    I like this lady she know how to explain things

  • @stantheman4964
    @stantheman4964 Před 2 lety +3

    Love 101 the prize for exceptional is likewise, the expression being torn apart from all angles is something I'm all to familiar with at times. The brake through is on its way winners win that what we do 😃

  • @7550375503
    @7550375503 Před 3 lety +9

    Things they do that you find amusing now will one day irritate you.

  • @Nick-wt1no
    @Nick-wt1no Před rokem +3

    I have a massive crush on a coworker and she knows that I like her! I finished all of her jobs behind her back when she was sick from COVID and she was really grateful! She tries to talk to me sometimes in the office (work related, but it feels like it is an excuse because she could’ve texted me about it) but then I try to distant her because I don’t want her to know I am to strong into it! I don’t want to scare her away

    • @Grimwulf88
      @Grimwulf88 Před rokem

      I wouldn't keep doing that. If you really like her, and think she may like you, be confident and ask her out. The worse she can say is no. Then you move on if she doesn't feel the same as you.

  • @Cavefire76
    @Cavefire76 Před 2 lety +16

    I have a crush on my coworker, we would talk to each other on the daily basis, I even got her phone number, but all of a sudden she started to talk to me less and less, and started yo kind of throw me to the curb in a way if that makes sense , she used to say hello everytime she saw me, now she doesn’t even want to come near me. I think I’ve lost hope at this point, I don’t know what I did, was I too boring? Too needy? Too talkative? Or maybe too predicable? Wtf did I do?

    • @fromgermany271
      @fromgermany271 Před rokem +6

      Don’t worry, you are just normal. Whoever wants unicorns needs to wait until some come across.

    • @Grimwulf88
      @Grimwulf88 Před rokem +4

      You have 2 options. Ignore her and act like this doesn't bother you, or confront her.
      Maybe she really likes you, but may not think you like her. So she could be embarrassed. It's your call.

    • @jackv9755
      @jackv9755 Před 3 měsíci

      This is happening to me bro, and my theory is that she noticed that I like her and she doesnt like me back and she is acting distant, but sometimes I have another theory, if we ate friends because we are since last hear why se needs to do that, we used to hang out and chat a lot but now she is weird about it and she doesnt text me back so days ago, women are weird, fuck it, I just wont give her more attention, I did not do anything wrong and always been respectfull but she is being unrespectfull and rude. I dont know what the fuck she is pretending.

  • @stanleed.harold5457
    @stanleed.harold5457 Před 3 lety

    My favorite video yet

  • @fujifilm5127
    @fujifilm5127 Před rokem +1

    I’m pretty much at the waiting for her rebound to end stage of life right now. I know it sounds simple or whatever but recently we’ve stopped talking. We have verbally communicated about the connection the similarities we have just how much we like each other, which is a lot for two very communicative people so that’s why I when I got to the point where we didn’t stop talking. It kind of scared me because up in till this point everything has been so clear, so I got scared, but it seems most of what you said applies directly to my relationship, so I’m not that worried anymore. Just sort of frustrated that I can’t hold her hand or anything.

  • @ridhiagarwal8266
    @ridhiagarwal8266 Před 28 dny

    Why weren't we taught about these things in school ? It would have been so much easier to deal with these emotions now.

  • @hip-hopworld5770
    @hip-hopworld5770 Před 3 lety +2

    And thank you for this video

  • @hip-hopworld5770
    @hip-hopworld5770 Před 3 lety +7

    Tell me what to do when your crush is acting distance on text

  • @kutloanototi7349
    @kutloanototi7349 Před 3 lety +4

    You're amazing.🦋

  • @nomaxabisotheodora6619

    Thank you really help me a lot

  • @user-mz7ue2uf7r
    @user-mz7ue2uf7r Před 10 měsíci +3

    I have no idea what went wrong with mine.
    He just made me think he liked me very much but all of a sudden he pulled back and i have no idea why
    I think he thought i was not interested in him but i really am and maybe i didnt show him that i was and now our friendship is complicated and i dont know what to do.

  • @chrisaquilina5564
    @chrisaquilina5564 Před 3 lety +8

    I just wish i could read there
    thoughs💡

  • @cosmic687
    @cosmic687 Před rokem +2

    single is better. or friends with benefits where you get a bit intimate once in a while but don't commit so its more casual.

  • @clydieboyy4823
    @clydieboyy4823 Před rokem +1

    yes the intro i did mess up alittle =] ill watch it fully thanks girl 8:06pm 16.03.2023

    • @clydieboyy4823
      @clydieboyy4823 Před rokem

      Jamila suddenly blocked me march 25 that was saturday if im not wrong 11:11pm 10.04.2023 :( im kinda sad

  • @Lazer5051
    @Lazer5051 Před 2 lety

    I cant deal with the affection i feel with Joy every time i see her. i want to know all about her. i have blocked her, unsubscribed, not interested, but she still shows up, mocking me with her beauty LOL❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Joy, what should i do?????

  • @jazzykelei7131
    @jazzykelei7131 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks a lot

  • @patrickjohnson8741
    @patrickjohnson8741 Před 2 lety

    I was committed, but playing it slow as she said she'd been through 2 marriages & some difficult relationships. She was reticent & so am I, but I did see a committed future

    • @the777john
      @the777john Před rokem

      Brother if she's been through 2 marriages and some difficult relationships committed future is kind of a conflicting sentiment.

  • @juanramirez6251
    @juanramirez6251 Před 2 lety +6

    I was fat when I met my crush who I nicknamed “Sweet P” (last name starts with P). I lost a lot of weight and am now ready for a relationship. I think I missed my chance with Sweet P. I hope that Sweet P gives me another look soon.

    • @Grimwulf88
      @Grimwulf88 Před rokem

      Why hope? Find this sweet P and spontaneously strike up a conversation. She's not gonna just fall from the sky into your lap and be like, "holy fuck, how did I get here? You look great! Let's go out!" Talk to her! Show her the new you!

  • @Helen_abbs
    @Helen_abbs Před 2 měsíci

    We have been writing for a while and sometimes she just has bad days and only answers in a very "forced" way or sometimes not at all. She told me she is autistic and pissed very easily, I think she just needs her peace but it is just exhausting for me... because she doesn't even talk to me about the things that are making her feel that way. 😢 And these moments always come so SUDDENLY

  • @25-8
    @25-8 Před 3 lety +20

    Girls play too much. This one cute girl I was being respectful towards her supposed bf keeps staring at me and getting close to me thinking I don’t notice it. I finally decided to talk to her, letting her know why I never tried talking to her while still not letting her know I see her always looking at me every twenty seconds all throughout the store, I kind of don’t like that feeling because i feel like I’m being judged when I really go on about my usual routine and business not bothering anyone. She smiled and smiles every time we talk but I never flirt with her, if. I don’t keep the conversation or greet her, she becomes distant... I swear to God I’m a be single for the rest of my life because I can’t imagine my future spouse just doing that while being with me. Women are naturally hypergamous and us men truly only move with intention and reason because we love hard.

    • @Tinyfurball
      @Tinyfurball Před 2 lety +3

      Just leave her alone, dude.

    • @25-8
      @25-8 Před 2 lety +5

      @@Tinyfurball I did but she keeps staring at me even when talking loud, doesn't make sense.. and seems only talks if I talk to her so I don't even know if that means she's shy or is intimidated by me.. lol I really just walk in about my business and get my breakfast routine and leave.. I hate having a good heart and being a man because we care a lot and don't do stuff unintentionally, now has me all curious! Smdh

    • @Tinyfurball
      @Tinyfurball Před 2 lety +4

      @@25-8 She could be Shy. Maybe she is confused about her Feelings.

    • @Grimwulf88
      @Grimwulf88 Před rokem +1

      You have 2 options. Leave her alone, which you've already done. Or walk up to her, strike up a convo, compliment her outfit, hair, or perfume, and ask her out. The worse she can say is no.

    • @25-8
      @25-8 Před rokem +1

      @@Grimwulf88 I did leave her alone cuz she had a bf but i never saw her after a few weeks, she was really nice but i didn't get why she kept always looking and trying to talk to me when she had a bf. I wouldn't feel right if a chick did that to me.o h well 🫣

  • @jon-marcpetersen4412
    @jon-marcpetersen4412 Před rokem

    Thanks you so much for this video these are true and I think my crush is playing hard to get because they were being nice and now they are ignoring me

  • @TruthTriumphs786
    @TruthTriumphs786 Před 2 lety +11

    I was in love with this lady in my office and I was petrified to make the move because I feared getting rejected. In that whole year I never expressed my love to her. It's been 6 years and I still regret not making the move. I was afraid of rejection because I loved her more than she may have.

    • @lonewolfman2312
      @lonewolfman2312 Před 2 lety +1

      You met her in your office? That's the way my mom and dad started their relationship.

    • @mistymia9289
      @mistymia9289 Před 2 lety +1

      You should have hinted at her. Gave her Love Heart sweets!

    • @TruthTriumphs786
      @TruthTriumphs786 Před 2 lety

      @@lonewolfman2312 That's nice!

    • @TruthTriumphs786
      @TruthTriumphs786 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mistymia9289 She knew I liked her, but she was equally shy. And then women don't wait around!

    • @robert4you
      @robert4you Před 2 lety +2

      Afraid of being rejected??? So what? Rejection doesn't kill you. At least you would have known. And what if she had said yes to a wonderful date with you and you would have been the perfect couple for the rest of your lives... Life is far too short to hesitate and be afraid around women (or elsewhere). Next time, just look her in the eyes and ask her out on a date, lunch, or anything else. Good luck!

  • @clarityy1082
    @clarityy1082 Před 2 lety +6

    Married woman at work often is excited to see me, but sometimes cools off to the point of making me think she’s not anymore. Then the cycle starts again. Sometimes gives me long looks and seems startled when she discovers I’m in the room. Looks back at me as if she’s in fear.
    She’s married and I really like her.

    • @CarlosGarcia-tv4rk
      @CarlosGarcia-tv4rk Před 2 lety +5

      They want to but are scared since they are married. Up to you

    • @PhillipSoto
      @PhillipSoto Před 2 lety +5

      I’ll spare you the long explanation…just don’t

    • @Takeitlightly6
      @Takeitlightly6 Před 2 lety +1

      Sure wreak a house

    • @gmfb521
      @gmfb521 Před 2 lety

      Shoot that shot. Since she's married its actually more exciting fr

    • @andrewstratton806
      @andrewstratton806 Před rokem +2

      Plenty of single women out there. Why go after a married women. Waste of time and not a noble thing to do.

  • @movieManiaupdates903
    @movieManiaupdates903 Před 3 lety +3

    Thanks coz my crush was acting well to much I am losing hope, when she texts me she ends the conversation fast before I even talk

  • @PsychicMedium777-uw4mm
    @PsychicMedium777-uw4mm Před 3 lety +8

    Maybe it's NONE of the ABOVE!
    Maybe it's because...
    YOU work with this person!
    And...
    YOU don't want to lose your job!
    Period!! 🙁

    • @bobbybernard5977
      @bobbybernard5977 Před 3 lety +1

      I seen employee who meet at work and become couples they also leave the job together.

  • @donjan6950
    @donjan6950 Před 11 měsíci

    All contradictory advise

  • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

    I WELL BEEN DOING THE BADS. BAD BOY TALK WITH MY CRUSH THIS MORNING AND I WELL BEEN PLAYING HARD TOO GETT WITH MY CRUSH AN DOING SOME SMILY AN FLIRTING WITH HER MORE AN MORE STILL MEETING UPP WITH HER AN SEEING HOW IT GOS WITH AS BOLTH ETC TBH ON THIS AMAZING LOVELEY THURSDAY WEEK

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson Před 2 lety +1

      all is good with my crush we are still talking too one other when we meet up in town etc well been doing some mahi mahi mahi around the house today at my house painting an painting my new man cave new workshop an shed rideing my motocross track ripping around on my dirt bikes an haveing a bbqs at home with the boys over for few cold drinks off beers in lockdowns doing some mexcio city missh

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 Před 5 měsíci

    Back in October I asked my gym crush out and she said…Sorry I have a boyfriend and I replied that’s ok I totally understand but added I just felt a connection (probably shouldn’t of added that) Anyway seen her 4-5 times in gym since and she ignores me or pretends not to see me and one time turned her head when we passed almost to the point of being rude! I mean flaming hell I know she has a boyfriend but is there’s a chance that much of a problem to nod your head and be civil? I make sure I’m On the opposite end of the gym now and don’t make eye contact But I must admit I do feel hurt as it’s rare I find a girl that attractive ie maybe once every 3-4 years! I’m told I’m a good looking guy who looks a lot younger I would just like to know if she at least secretly likes me back? She was in the gym today and I was amazed that she used a couple of machines near me although we didn’t make eye contact! It’s been almost 3 months now and I still feel there’s a connection there but in auras at least! I’m not desperate and I’m capable of getting other girls but I can’t seem to forget this one for some reason! What do think?

  • @puabi666
    @puabi666 Před 2 lety +1

    Please everyone pray for me... I need peace of mind, pray me thanks.

  • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

    i side too her my crush i was going out with my boys for some dirt bike ride week. an weekend rides with a few off my dirt bike mates that i have got she did motocross rideing an raceing my crush aka my new girlfreind

  • @abcdefgh-hx4yn
    @abcdefgh-hx4yn Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks for the content anna🥰🥰
    Anna I was trying to play hard and also there is third person between us...also she thought I was a player. Presently in no contact since last 2 months.... Kindly guide me what to do.. I miss her like hell...
    Please help🤨😒😒😒😒😒😒

  • @inshreds66
    @inshreds66 Před 5 měsíci

    Had a secret crush on a girl for years Always liking her posts. Going to see her perform. Although we were friends, she never reciprocated. We were well suited IMO. So I took the advice of ignoring her on social media and not going out of my way to say. hello when in the same room. To see how she likes it. And sure enough she did notice and eventually came over to talk to me, but by then I had resigned myself to the fact that we were not to be. So when she came over I was caught off guard and could only mutter "Hi". She then unfriended me. When I messaged her to ask why, she said I'd seemed cold and distant and she thought communication has been lost. I told her why I'd been like that and she said that we should leave things there then. Gutted.What a fool.

  • @nickboz2584
    @nickboz2584 Před 3 lety +5

    I have been watching Your videos for awhile now and I’ve been thinking about this girl because she gives signs that I feel like she likes me and unless it’s her being nice it’s mind boggling but it’s weird because she’s in long distant relationship already. my co workers see it and are confused to

    • @vincentmartinez8241
      @vincentmartinez8241 Před 3 lety +1

      Women and girls need constant stimulation my brother! And unfortunately most care only about their options. Let me explain. This girl probably has about 4 to 5 guys waiting for their turn to be with her. And as you people love for a reason there are so many flavors. I'm willing to bet that you yourself are only interested in one girl at a time? Right?Not various ones at a time

    • @nickboz2584
      @nickboz2584 Před 3 lety +1

      @@vincentmartinez8241 yes I am that’s correct I try not to like multiple but if one catches my eye And the Signs are there I take my chances and see what happens funny part is that there is one other guy talking to her but it seems like he’s not getting anywhere with her idk it’s weird

    • @vincentmartinez8241
      @vincentmartinez8241 Před 3 lety +1

      @@nickboz2584 I understand exactly how you feel. My sisters for instance have alot of guys hit on them all the time and want to be their boyfriends. Goodluck with trying to be with her. It's weird but if you show interest in other girls around her. Her interest in you will improve or multiply. That's just how their minds work. Especially if these girls show interest in you in front of her. Are minds don't work that way. If us guys like a girl. It does not matter what others say or if we notice other guys not really showing interest in her. I know the way I work if I like a girl i pursue. It's usually instant attraction that I feel and it does not matter what anyone else thinks. Women are usually the exact opposite of that kind of mentality!

    • @nickboz2584
      @nickboz2584 Před 3 lety +1

      @@vincentmartinez8241 tbh yea I’ve been told had that before do that or just give her the cold shoulder which to be honest I’m not gonna do I’m just gonna continue talking to her and see where it goes because if I told u everything that she did with me u would probably said dam that girl must like u 😂

    • @vincentmartinez8241
      @vincentmartinez8241 Před 3 lety

      @@nickboz2584 Yeah I know I understand. I've unfortunately had to play certain games with girls that I really had no interest in playing with them like that. But I had to adapt and than they became more attracted to me. But in your case it sounds like both of you are friends. One of you has to take the next step or you both will stay in friendzone forever

  • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

    I WELL BEEN DOING THE BADS BAD BOY TALK WITH HER TODAY AN PLAYING HARD TOO GER WITH HER

  • @juniperstardust5549
    @juniperstardust5549 Před 2 lety +2

    These videos make realize how stupid and socially awkward I am

  • @Guava1213
    @Guava1213 Před 2 lety +2

    I like this boy in my class OK we talked nicely at the beginning we had funny conversations and all but few days later he started to kind of hate me but he still talks but not in the same way he used to respect me but now he doesn't... Can anyone explain whyy cuz I really liked him :((

  • @Bamnimationsv2
    @Bamnimationsv2 Před 2 měsíci

    this just made me more confused

  • @EdgarKohl
    @EdgarKohl Před rokem +2

    Because he just watched a video on how to play hard to get 😀

  • @jordspectre
    @jordspectre Před 2 lety +2

    Going on a rant, I came to one of these videos to see where I went wrong. We were about to go on a date a couple weeks ago on Monday when she cancelled the day of because she was sick. She's been replying to my texts ever since a day or two later.
    And she was still last weekend but I sent on sunday how are you feeling you doing okay? She only replied a day later, still sick but thanks for checking in and hope I'm doing okay. So I waited a few more days, at this point it's been a week and a half since first being sick so I'm assuming she's alright now. I say this past friday night are you feeling any better? and that I've been great busy with work. Still no reply and it's Sunday afternoon.
    What gives? I'm confused and a bit annoyed she's wasting my time after she was the one who hit me up to schedule the date a couple weeks ago, and had a genuine apology for cancelling and she also wanted to reschedule for the weekend. I believe she is/was genuinely sick, but I don't think that she should be wasting my time like this. I'm 99% sure I'm going to cut ties if she doesn't have an apology for the late response and if she doesn't mention the date that we were going to reschedule but I'm just so confused.
    End Rant.

    • @Grimwulf88
      @Grimwulf88 Před rokem

      You're acting waaaay too nice and being repetitive in your messages. Hi how u feeling? Feeling better? I'm Grrrrreat! Hey, just seeing how you're feeling. Hope you're feeling better! All of that shit = 👎🥱😖
      Text her one more time, only bc I want you to try something totally different.
      Go somewhere fun like the boardwalk, beach, arcade with any nieces/nephews, nice restaurants/bars with friends, etc. Go to at least 3 or 4 different places. Make sure you take pictures of how much fucking fun you're having! Now, randomly message her something like, "Heyyy, I've been meaning to get reach out to you, but I've been having too much fun!" Hope all is well! ✌️Then send her all the pics. And when she responds, and I know she will, do NOT reply for a fucking week no matter what!
      She'll either miss you or shrug and be happy for you. Either way, you'll be better off mentally bc you'll know she's not the center of your universe.

    • @jordspectre
      @jordspectre Před rokem +1

      @@Grimwulf88 thanks internet bro. For what it’s worth, I’ve completely lost interest in her and no longer care about what she does. It sorted itself out from getting rid of contact and time just going on. It was definitely unhealthy and I know NOW me would never do that again, but past me just craved that bit of attention she gave me and I didn’t want to let it go.

  • @Villager-1
    @Villager-1 Před rokem

    Hey so I was texting my crush and she said no and didnt wanna say it and we always joke about it what does that mean

  • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

    well been flirting with her this amazing loveley morning when i am going too been meeting upp with her late this morning if i can get too seeing her. today and talk too her about as too. seeing one other an is shes allgoods around me this time she acted weird around me last time i had meet up with her some long time backago etc tbh

  • @dominicberlingeri4814
    @dominicberlingeri4814 Před 3 lety +1

    I don’t have a crush

  • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

    hi anna joyanima well been meeting up with her too today haveing abut off a talking with my crush & i this. morning on thursday
    i am. going too town this thursday week an and meeting up with her if i can get too meet up with my crush today smily at her an flirt with her asking. her abouthow we go out sometime soon if shes still keen on meeting up with me when we are talking too one other bolth too togerther i well been asking how her freinds are going an her family as well too

  • @user-pd2dj8zc1l
    @user-pd2dj8zc1l Před rokem

    Block her if she became distant

  • @michaelferry1884
    @michaelferry1884 Před 3 lety +4

    I don't think you should ever tell a woman how much you like her.....that's putting her on a pedestal....it puts pressure in her to reciprocate those feelings and lastly how much you like a woman has NOTHING to do with her attraction to you .....it's about how she feels , or you make he feel in that moment attraction levels go up and down for women all the time......but telling her how much you like her and want her only gonna feed her ego

    • @apseudonym
      @apseudonym Před rokem +3

      it has nothing to do with ego. most of the time when a dude confesses how much he likes a woman, he immediately expects her to drop her whole life and commit to him. but maybe you haven't even flirted with her yet? maybe you haven't bothered to get to know her and only see her as a prospect rather than a human being? maybe you're just creepy and weird?

    • @michaelferry1884
      @michaelferry1884 Před rokem

      @@apseudonym lol .....ok...I don't think every man expects a woman to drop her whole life simply by him telling her he likes her.....lol.....yet it does subconsciously put pressure on her to reciprocate especially if she doesn't feel the same about him or as strongly.....even worse if he's needy or insecure and....when the felling isn't mutual .... overthinking... overcompensating.... basically just shooting himself in the foot to the point where she starts losing respect and attraction she once had for the person .....everyone has an ego Einstein ....sorry to burst your bubble......and women's ego historical....are much bigger and inflated and based in fiction from when some simp with no backbone tells her constantly how great she is...how beautiful....how perfect....they think she is because they're simply infatuated and telling her what they think she wants to hear......should never tell a woman how great you think she is or how she's not like other women and how she's the exception to the other 4 billion women that are pretty much the same when it comes down to a woman's biology Intuition......irs how nature designed them......or maybe you just fat and ugly or just weird who knows ......🖐️🎤

  • @smferreiro2610
    @smferreiro2610 Před 2 lety +1

    Do you want to know my parents?!

  • @cliveedharris1353
    @cliveedharris1353 Před rokem

    Move to slow or fast

  • @jaszzy26
    @jaszzy26 Před rokem

    Should I msg him?

  • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

    asking her if shes going too been free sometime soon for the 2 off as bolth can gett too togerther soon sometime going out for a coffee date an gett somethink too eat out in town somewhere nice for the bolth off as with my crush an & me

  • @craigsaunders9599
    @craigsaunders9599 Před rokem

    If she makes a promise to you, she has to be a girl of her word, when that so called someone else is giving her more than me, that is only an illusion , when that guy leaves her after a one night stand she goes back to her ex boyfriend saying sorry about what happened . Then aggression levels of the guy goes up and she gets threatened never to ever come next to her ex boyfriend again. Answer the question " What is the difference between a prostitute and a girl? When a session is over with a prostitute you have to forget this girl whom you slept with. When your Lamborghini car , your money, your apartments and finally all your businesses are well established then all your ex girlfriends will run after you like GOLDDIGGERS . Never go back to EX FRIENDS and EXGIRLFRIENDS , Remember EX is EXPIRED STOCK, EXPIRED STOCK is POISONOUS. LIES DECEPTION AND HYPOCRISY.

  • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

    hi anna joyanima your tips are working for me etc its great thainks yo anna joyanima your the best have a amazing loveley week. & weekend comeing upp soon. i well been asking my crush out for a daydate sometime soon with me and her if shes keen on seeing me and i seeing her i have been missing seeing my crush lateing soo. so. i hope shes doing well with her job an her working an how too approach my crush for a date with me asking when well yo been free next sometime soon we shod hang out too togerther with one other bolth too togerther soon sometime for sure well been talking about me an her ask her are we too togerther now etc tbh

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson Před 2 lety +1

      hi anna joyanima well been seeing her today in town or this week on thursday. or friday or saturday this weekend meeting up with my crush

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson Před 2 lety +1

      its rory

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson Před 2 lety +1

      hi anna joyanima been in too town this morning see my crush whent in too town on my new dirt bike ride today too see my lady freind ate her work an see her an talk too her about as if shes still into me an hang out soon sometime an i ripping about with my boyzs on dirt bikes today up the main street on dirt bikes this morning an i well too work on my new dirt bike too my new job as a Tradies an now back home for lunch with my flatmates an workcuzins an workmates today an off tooo the pub for few cold drinks off beers with my boyzs too today lateafternon

  • @raygordonteacheschess5501

    Because they're out of your league carry on.

  • @donjan6950
    @donjan6950 Před 11 měsíci

    My crush thought I'm a player wen I'm not

  • @cliveedharris1353
    @cliveedharris1353 Před rokem

    Opp i talk to much

  • @jeskoumm
    @jeskoumm Před rokem +1

    (⁠ ⁠‿⁠ゝ) ....did not realise there's such a thing as a crush when a womam is over the age of twenty five or when able to drink a whole wine bottle in one night of karaoke....maybe the recommendations should stick it out with a solid pisser like _Heinekens_ , if to end it on a high-note 💕🏁

  • @davidfarrall
    @davidfarrall Před 3 lety +1

    You Women are devastating and demanding, but true men, though hopeless, kind of like this!

  • @Lordrixson5489
    @Lordrixson5489 Před 2 lety

    I've been chatting to a woman on social media for several weeks which then transpired into daily phone calls, texting, a brilliant date, more phone calls and texting and I really clicked with her and she said she really liked me too. But over the past few days she hasn't replied to my messages. I've left her alone now because I've no idea what's going on. She hasn't blocked my number or removed me from her social media. I'm trying to resist the urge to contact her and my stomach is in knots.

    • @bemoredomorehavemore
      @bemoredomorehavemore Před 2 lety +1

      It really sucks...

    • @Grimwulf88
      @Grimwulf88 Před rokem +1

      Is this just an online thing? If so, she's likely married or in a relationship. If she is already taken, you were just there for her amusement. When things started to get too serious, she likely decided to just pull back.
      I hope I'm wrong.

    • @Lordrixson5489
      @Lordrixson5489 Před rokem

      @shauwn78 Hi, thanks for replying. I did meet her on a couple of occasions for dinner dates, but she did seem a bit emotionally distant. She then eventually sent me a text explaining that she wasn't ready for a relationship. She then proceeded to block my number and remove me from her social media. I did suspect that she may have already been in a relationship. So I sucked it up and moved on, but I've not re entered the dating scene since.

  • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

    WELL LET YO NOW HOW IT GOOS ANNA JOYANIMA WITH MY CRUSH OR I WELL BEEN PLAYING HARD TOO GET WITH OTHER AMAZING LOVELEY WOMEN OUT THERE SOON SOMETIME. IF ITS NOT THE GOODS WITH MY CRUSH ETC TBH TALKING TOO OTHER WOMEN AN FLIRTING WITH THEM TOO

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson Před 3 lety +1

      HI ANNA JOYANIMA HOW WAS YOUR DAY THIS MORNING HAVE HAD A ABUT OFF A TALK WITH MY CRUSH TODAY SHES STILL KEEN ON GOING OUT SOON SHES SIDE TOO ME LOL LOL TBH AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAH. RORY

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson Před 3 lety +1

      WELL BEEN MEETING UP WITH HER THIS WEEK ON FRIDAY AN SATURDAY NEXT WEEK COMEING UPP SOON TUESDAY

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson Před 3 lety +1

      THIS WEEK. ON FRIDAY AN SHES WORKING ON SATURDAY THIS WEEKEND I WELL BEEN MEETING UPP WITH HER THEN TOO TALKING WITH HER ABOUT AS 2 GOING OUT FOR A DATE SOMETIME SOON AN I WELL BEEN MEETING UPP WITH FEW OFF MY MATES THIS WEEKEND AS WELL TOOO WE ARE ON LEST GO
      WELL BEEN SEEING HER THIS WEEK NEXT COMEING UPP SOON SOMETIME

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson Před 3 lety +1

      HI ANNA JOYANIMA HOW ARE YO TODAY IT WAS GREAT MEETING UP WITH MY CRUSH TODAY WE TALK WITH ONE OTHER ALLGOODS WITH BOLTH OFF AS WELL BEEN MEETING UP WITH HER ON FRIDAY THIS WEEK AN ON SATURDAY SHES STILL TALKING TOO ME THATS GREAT NEWS ETC SHES WELL GOODS ABUT HAS BEEN BUSYING LATELEY THERO. WE ARE STILL MEETING UPP AN TALKING TOO ONE OTHER WHEN I MEET UP WITH HER LIKE TODAY. SHE ASK ME HOW MY DAY WAS GOING LIKE. TODAY THIS MORNING AN SHE ASK ME HOW COME I HAVE NOT SEE YO IN TOWN FOR ABUT I NEEDITD SOMETIME AWAY TOO CHILL OUT FOR ABUT HAD SOME SHIT GOING DOWN SOMETIME BACK THIS YEAR IN 2021

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson Před 3 lety +1

      SHES GREAT WE ARE GREAT TOO TOGERTHER TBH WITH MY CRUSH HANGING OUT TOO TOGERTHER SOON SHES SIDE TOO ME SHE WHATS TOO GET THAT DRINKS STILL SOMETIME WITH ME AN COFFEE DATE I. WHENT MISSING FOR ABUT BUT SHES SIDE WHERE HAVE YO BEEN I WHENT ON A ROADD TIPE AWAY WITH FEW FREINDS OFF ME SHE MISSED SEEING ME AROUND ON THE STREET SHE SIDE TOO ME TODAY WHOTS BEEN GOING ON WITH ME LATELEY I WAS JUST THINKG ABOUT HER HOW TOO MAKE YOUR CRUSH MISS YO SO BADLY? HOW TOO MAKE YOUR CRUSH ASK YO OUT ON A DATE TBH OR HOW TOO MAKE YOUR CRUSH FUILL IN LOVE WITH YO & KISS YO LIKE HOW TOO BEE MORE ATTRACTED TOO YOUR CRUSH WITH OUT THEM NOING ABOUT IT ETC TBH

  • @RH-xs8gz
    @RH-xs8gz Před 3 lety +2

    Does the restraining order she filed against me have anything to do with it? 🤪

  • @NameJournalist-jo7cn
    @NameJournalist-jo7cn Před 12 dny +1

    F

  • @MrGriff305
    @MrGriff305 Před 3 lety +2

    There are too many videos on this channel. They've lost value to me.

  • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson

    I WELL TELL HER I AM INTERESTED IN TAKEING HER OUT ON A LOVELEY AMAZING DATE TOO TOGERTHER SOMETIME SOON IF SHES KEEN TOO HANG OUT TOO TOGERHTER WITH ME SOMETIME SOON I WELL SAY TOO HER ON FRIDAY WHEN CAN YO BEEN FREE NEXT TOO CHILL OUT TOO TOGERTHER WITH ME SOMETIME IF SHES KEEN TOO COME HANGING OUT AT MY PLACE SOMETIME SEEING THE PET lumbs on the farm where i am in. new zealand she well love it or not soo well ask her this week on friday if shes got some pets cats or dogs etc tbh she well love it or she well love me etc tbh how amazing date that wold bee an anna joyanima

  • @rodneyholmes720
    @rodneyholmes720 Před 3 lety +1

    Second

  • @rmjrjunior.4782
    @rmjrjunior.4782 Před 3 lety +1

    Do u have a BF?

    • @andym9571
      @andym9571 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes me ! ( In my mind anyway ).

  • @qwerty48880
    @qwerty48880 Před 2 lety +1

    She is a brush not crush

  • @oliverpetroski4205
    @oliverpetroski4205 Před 3 lety +3

    First 🤣

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Před 3 lety +3

      Another rapid first comment I see!

    • @oliverpetroski4205
      @oliverpetroski4205 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Joyanima Cheers🍵

    • @nathanhayward319
      @nathanhayward319 Před 24 dny

      @@Joyanimamy crush just kinda stopped talking to me she’s quiet anyways but online she used to reply fast now she’s just opening the messages on snap or leaving me on read

  • @financialreportingfr2894

    I met a girl in a class (2 days/week ,3months long) and we clicked instantly . I liked her and she is 100% in to me . we talked and we hang out , sitted next to each other and comes back to home together . In short our mates even could see that there is something going on in between us . One odd is that we hardly text each other . because m not that much of a texting guy.
    in our final class I asked her out for a date and she accepted then we spent some quality moments together (not sex ). she always seemed happy when she is with me and she always wants to be with me wen m around .
    But after the last class 15 days back , she texted me twice ( thought she missed me ) and I replied 2-3 times back and forth but she did not continue . Even I initiated 2/3 times but couldn't drag the conversation long because she was cold .
    i called once she talked politely that's that .
    ( I am a very high value alpha man , I don't chase woman , and never clingy nor double texting at all ) therefore I never texeted nor called neither did she .
    AM so surprised why she is distant over the phone and acted disinterested ? can anyone give proper reason to that ?(Eventhough she act absolutely ok when she is face to face , that bit I understand that physically being there is something els)

    • @Grimwulf88
      @Grimwulf88 Před rokem

      There could be many reasons why she pulled away. My best guess is your text/phone call conversations aren't interesting, meaningful, and as fun as in person.
      This is a total turn off for women.

  • @juanramirez6251
    @juanramirez6251 Před 2 lety

    I was fat when I met my crush who I nicknamed “Sweet P” (last name starts with P). I lost a lot of weight and am now ready for a relationship. I think I missed my chance with Sweet P. I hope that Sweet P gives me another look soon.